So I'm attracted to my friend's wife.

ShivaChrist · June 21st, 2004, 05:05 AM

...

Yeah, it sucks. I have to constantly fight these urges because I'm not going to do anything to my friend. The shitty thing is that I would never have met her if he hadn't had married her, but I can see how he doesn't do things for her... lots of little things that I pick up on. I can tell she likes me too, and we're good friends.

Aaaaaah.... bad thoughts, go away!!!

*purges his thoughts till the next time he runs into her*

***

Seriously, though (ok, the above WAS serious), but have you met/liked someone that you knew was off limits? If so, who was it? Did you do anything about it, or did you realize it would be a bad idea and stopped yourself?

If you did stop yourself, are you still in the same situation as I am, where you can't help feeling a certain way for that person?

Discuss.

samosa321 · June 21st, 2004, 05:09 AM

Ooo...that's a dangerous territory you're lurking around, Shiva. Anyhow, I'm pretty good with exercising self-restraint. I try to look at things from a realistic perspective before venturing unto anything.

**BilalisPakistani** · June 21st, 2004, 05:10 AM

yeah that sucks

but the friends girl is off limits [-X

pnp366 · June 21st, 2004, 05:10 AM

when you see her think of ur mom

ShivaChrist · June 21st, 2004, 05:12 AM

Don't worry, won't do anything

That would be wrong. Just can't help being human, you know?

*scribbles down notes*

Off limits, check.

**BinDaaS_BaBe** · June 21st, 2004, 05:14 AM

aaah i have a frend who likes my other frends wife too.. and he is so obvious about it.. but seriously.. its better to lay off.. ahhaha...

0hsopimpin · June 21st, 2004, 05:18 AM

ShivaChrist · June 21st, 2004, 05:24 AM

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Originally Posted by BinDaaS_BaBe

aaah i have a frend who likes my other frends wife too.. and he is so obvious about it.. but seriously.. its better to lay off.. ahhaha...

I agree. It's just soooo tough, you know?

You say a joke, she laughs... she says a joke, you laugh. All the while, hubby doesn't get the joke. Or you say something like "I like this" or "I like that" and you often hear her saying "Wow, I like that too!"

Blah... Yeah, Shiva is a bad boy in the mind. lol

Khusum · June 21st, 2004, 05:26 AM

thats a sticky-sticky situation, shiv. married people suck.

u can floss but don't mack. its inappropriate.

**BinDaaS_BaBe** · June 21st, 2004, 05:28 AM

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Originally Posted by ShivaChrist

Quote:

Originally Posted by BinDaaS_BaBe

aaah i have a frend who likes my other frends wife too.. and he is so obvious about it.. but seriously.. its better to lay off.. ahhaha...

I agree. It's just soooo tough, you know?

You say a joke, she laughs... she says a joke, you laugh. All the while, hubby doesn't get the joke. Or you say something like "I like this" or "I like that" and you often hear her saying "Wow, I like that too!"

Blah... Yeah, Shiva is a bad boy in the mind. lol

well i knwo how taht is.. i liked my cousins bf.. and she found out.. she wasnt too happy.. and she doesnt talk to me..s o we havent talked for like 3 years.. so if u thikn ur frendship is worth more.. back off big time!

ShivaChrist · June 21st, 2004, 05:30 AM

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Originally Posted by Khusum

thats a sticky-sticky situation, shiv. married people suck.

They do! lol

**reaz** · June 21st, 2004, 08:03 AM

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Originally Posted by samosa321

Ooo...that's a dangerous territory you're lurking around, Shiva. Anyhow, I'm pretty good with exercising self-restraint. I try to look at things from a realistic perspective before venturing unto anything.

ditto

SexyTemptress · June 21st, 2004, 09:16 AM

i wouldnt reccomend it.

its not a good idea to break up a marriage.

i would say dont go to there house b/c u will run into the wife, n u might get tempted to do something. so until u are over her, just spend time with the husband alone.

tjnptel1 · June 21st, 2004, 09:22 AM

i say you should do her. do her like there is no tomorrow. I mean fuck her like as if she was the only female alive. you only live once.. tap that ass and then tell her husband what a jack ass he is for messing up such a pretty lil thing and ruining every bit of your miserable life.

ChIBoY · June 21st, 2004, 09:25 AM

I would stay away, I was attracted to a girl in my H.S. & she liked me but she was married due to a pregnancy, I stayed away. In your case I think you should just stop thinking about her because this is your friends wife we are talking about!

Aurovon · June 21st, 2004, 09:57 AM

I say you go after it, and if u get laid that means the 'love' she had with him was not true so basically then they will get a divorce(hopefully) realizing they had nothing special and it was just lust and it will save them so many useless years together.

**reaz** · June 21st, 2004, 10:03 AM

Quote:

Originally Posted by Aurovon

I say you go after it, and if u get laid that means the 'love' she had with him was not true so basically then they will get a divorce(hopefully) realizing they had nothing special and it was just lust and it will save them so many useless years together.

she doesnt need shiva to figure out the love she has is not true.. besides fucking is all about lust and not love..

tjnptel1 · June 21st, 2004, 10:03 AM

haha.. RD is fucked up

ii_khushi86_ii · June 21st, 2004, 11:24 AM

was never in that situation... but my cousin was attracted to my boyfriend.. and after a while, my boyfriend became attracted to her and he dumped me to go for her.

ShivaChrist · June 21st, 2004, 12:22 PM

That sucks, Khushi

Yeah, I wouldn't do anything, I'm not that kind of person. It's just that feeling you know, whenever you see that person.

But I should thank my friend for marrying her, because at least we're good friends... if he hadn't married her, I would never had met her. And I am glad I do.

STYLE GOD · June 21st, 2004, 12:30 PM

SHIVA! Its nice to see you again...

Hmm so you are attracted to your friend's WIFE! WOT! C'mon Shiva you know you can find a better lady than that! If you and that wifey haven't met before your friend married her.... thats wot it meant to be! God send her to him in his presence. Shiva don't worry... one day there will be a beautiful woman of your dream popping in reality somewhere in time but sooner than you think. God willing!

Just stay normal toward your friend's wife but don't overdue yourself with her because who know it could be a nasty twisted story one day between your friend and yourself. You don't want that to happen right? Hell no! If your mind start boiling anything sinfully about the wifey.. just shake your head and say hell no. Just dust off your left shoulder where the lil shiva devil sit... cause thats who you have been hearing from.

bill · June 21st, 2004, 12:36 PM

Okay, please try not to take the following personally. But I hate adulterers. I absolutely hate them with all of my being. If I was in the husband's position (and you did something, anything, with the wife), I'd dump that whore's ass right then and there, drive to your house and beat you to the ground. Even if you were my best friend (Especially if you were my best friend). Seriously. That shit is not funny. It's absolutely serious. Do you know how many people's lives that kinda stuff fucks up because some obscenely horny asshole couldn't keep his dick in his pants? There are 3 billion women in this world - you don't need to go for one that's taken by another man. Whatever happened to bros before hoes?? Sheesh.

</end rant>

But yeah, it's good that you chose to not do anything about it.

**reaz** · June 21st, 2004, 12:37 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by Bill

Okay, please try not to take the following personally. But I hate adulterers. I absolutely hate them with all of my being. If I was in the husband's position (and you did something, anything, with the wife), I'd dump that whore's ass right then and there, drive to your house and beat you to the ground. Even if you were my best friend (Especially if you were my best friend). Seriously. That shit is not funny. It's absolutely serious. Do you know how many people's lives that kinda stuff fucks up because some obscenely horny asshole couldn't keep his dick in his pants? There are 3 billion women in this world - you don't need to go for one that's taken by another man. Whatever happened to bros before hoes?? Sheesh.

</end rant>

But yeah, it's good that you chose to not do anything about it.

much respect man.. very honest of you..

ii_khushi86_ii · June 21st, 2004, 12:37 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by Bill

Okay, please try not to take the following personally. But I hate adulterers. I absolutely hate them with all of my being. If I was in the husband's position (and you did something, anything, with the wife), I'd dump that whore's ass right then and there, drive to your house and beat you to the ground. Even if you were my best friend (Especially if you were my best friend). Seriously. That shit is not funny. It's absolutely serious. DO you know how many people's lives that kinda stuff fucks up because some obscenely horny asshole couldn't keep his dick in his pants? There are 3 billion women in this world - you don't need to go for one that's taken by another man. Whatever happened to bros before hoes?? Sheesh.

</end rant>

But yeah, it's good that you chose to not do anything about it.

oh wow..

agreed.. go you.

STYLE GOD · June 21st, 2004, 12:41 PM

Thats wot I meant... haha

June 21st, 2004, 05:05 AM	#1
ShivaChrist Should I Consider Retiring??? Join Date: Mar 17 2004 Location: Virginia Posts: 10,236 Reputation: 195982 --> Rep Power: 19672 Casino cash: $1241	So I'm attracted to my friend's wife. ... Yeah, it sucks. I have to constantly fight these urges because I'm not going to do anything to my friend. The shitty thing is that I would never have met her if he hadn't had married her, but I can see how he doesn't do things for her... lots of little things that I pick up on. I can tell she likes me too, and we're good friends. Aaaaaah.... bad thoughts, go away!!! purges his thoughts till the next time he runs into her *** Seriously, though (ok, the above WAS serious), but have you met/liked someone that you knew was off limits? If so, who was it? Did you do anything about it, or did you realize it would be a bad idea and stopped yourself? If you did stop yourself, are you still in the same situation as I am, where you can't help feeling a certain way for that person? Discuss.

June 21st, 2004, 05:09 AM	#2
samosa321 Should I Consider Retiring??? Join Date: Apr 3 2004 Location: Evening Sky Posts: 6,162 Reputation: 736240 --> Rep Power: 73682 Casino cash: $51601	Ooo...that's a dangerous territory you're lurking around, Shiva. Anyhow, I'm pretty good with exercising self-restraint. I try to look at things from a realistic perspective before venturing unto anything. __________________

June 21st, 2004, 05:10 AM	#3
BilalisPakistani d(^-^)b Join Date: Jun 15 2004 Location: Poker Table. Posts: 47,420 Reputation: 2135478783 --> Rep Power: 213548100 Casino cash: $95418	yeah that sucks but the friends girl is off limits [-X __________________

June 21st, 2004, 05:10 AM	#4
pnp366 Relax... Join Date: Apr 19 2004 Location: far far away Posts: 39,326 Reputation: 2147483647 --> Rep Power: 214748555 Casino cash: $173821	when you see her think of ur mom __________________

June 21st, 2004, 05:18 AM	#7
0hsopimpin Banned Join Date: Mar 17 2004 Posts: 2,384 Reputation: 0 --> Rep Power: 0 Casino cash: $1000	yah

June 21st, 2004, 05:12 AM	#5
ShivaChrist Should I Consider Retiring??? Join Date: Mar 17 2004 Location: Virginia Posts: 10,236 Reputation: 195982 --> Rep Power: 19672 Casino cash: $1241	Don't worry, won't do anything That would be wrong. Just can't help being human, you know? scribbles down notes Off limits, check.

June 21st, 2004, 05:14 AM	#6
BinDaaS_BaBe VIP Member Join Date: Nov 1 2003 Location: Home Posts: 48,836 Reputation: 1337232859 --> Rep Power: 133723515 Casino cash: $42237	aaah i have a frend who likes my other frends wife too.. and he is so obvious about it.. but seriously.. its better to lay off.. ahhaha...

June 21st, 2004, 05:26 AM	#9
Khusum Banned Join Date: Jun 9 2004 Location: kawaiiness Posts: 7,836 Reputation: 0 --> Rep Power: 0 Casino cash: $1000	thats a sticky-sticky situation, shiv. married people suck. u can floss but don't mack. its inappropriate.

June 21st, 2004, 09:16 AM	#13
SexyTemptress Addicted Join Date: May 2 2004 Location: stuck in a tree Posts: 3,969 Reputation: 219696156 --> Rep Power: 21969664 Casino cash: $7057	i wouldnt reccomend it. its not a good idea to break up a marriage. i would say dont go to there house b/c u will run into the wife, n u might get tempted to do something. so until u are over her, just spend time with the husband alone. __________________ I cant get no satisfactionnn........

June 21st, 2004, 09:25 AM	#15
ChIBoY Newbie Join Date: Jun 21 2004 Location: Chicago, IL Posts: 33 Reputation: 0 --> Rep Power: 0 Casino cash: $30	I would stay away, I was attracted to a girl in my H.S. & she liked me but she was married due to a pregnancy, I stayed away. In your case I think you should just stop thinking about her because this is your friends wife we are talking about! __________________ Your Mom likes me :P

June 21st, 2004, 09:57 AM	#16
Aurovon Banned Join Date: Mar 17 2004 Location: Houston Posts: 47,657 Reputation: 0 --> Rep Power: 0 Casino cash: $1000	I say you go after it, and if u get laid that means the 'love' she had with him was not true so basically then they will get a divorce(hopefully) realizing they had nothing special and it was just lust and it will save them so many useless years together.

June 21st, 2004, 11:24 AM	#19
ii_khushi86_ii Should I Consider Retiring??? Join Date: Mar 17 2004 Posts: 31,344 Reputation: 17758951 --> Rep Power: 1776054 Casino cash: $4772	was never in that situation... but my cousin was attracted to my boyfriend.. and after a while, my boyfriend became attracted to her and he dumped me to go for her. __________________ for old times sake

June 21st, 2004, 12:22 PM	#20
ShivaChrist Should I Consider Retiring??? Join Date: Mar 17 2004 Location: Virginia Posts: 10,236 Reputation: 195982 --> Rep Power: 19672 Casino cash: $1241	That sucks, Khushi Yeah, I wouldn't do anything, I'm not that kind of person. It's just that feeling you know, whenever you see that person. But I should thank my friend for marrying her, because at least we're good friends... if he hadn't married her, I would never had met her. And I am glad I do.

June 21st, 2004, 12:30 PM	#21
STYLE GOD Banned Join Date: Mar 18 2004 Posts: 6,961 Reputation: 0 --> Rep Power: 0 Casino cash: $1000	SHIVA! Its nice to see you again... Hmm so you are attracted to your friend's WIFE! WOT! C'mon Shiva you know you can find a better lady than that! If you and that wifey haven't met before your friend married her.... thats wot it meant to be! God send her to him in his presence. Shiva don't worry... one day there will be a beautiful woman of your dream popping in reality somewhere in time but sooner than you think. God willing! Just stay normal toward your friend's wife but don't overdue yourself with her because who know it could be a nasty twisted story one day between your friend and yourself. You don't want that to happen right? Hell no! If your mind start boiling anything sinfully about the wifey.. just shake your head and say hell no. Just dust off your left shoulder where the lil shiva devil sit... cause thats who you have been hearing from.

June 21st, 2004, 12:36 PM	#22
bill Lame Join Date: Nov 1 2003 Posts: 15,233 Reputation: 0 --> Rep Power: 0 Casino cash: $1000	Okay, please try not to take the following personally. But I hate adulterers. I absolutely hate them with all of my being. If I was in the husband's position (and you did something, anything, with the wife), I'd dump that whore's ass right then and there, drive to your house and beat you to the ground. Even if you were my best friend (Especially if you were my best friend). Seriously. That shit is not funny. It's absolutely serious. Do you know how many people's lives that kinda stuff fucks up because some obscenely horny asshole couldn't keep his dick in his pants? There are 3 billion women in this world - you don't need to go for one that's taken by another man. Whatever happened to bros before hoes?? Sheesh. </end rant> But yeah, it's good that you chose to not do anything about it.

June 21st, 2004, 12:41 PM	#25
STYLE GOD Banned Join Date: Mar 18 2004 Posts: 6,961 Reputation: 0 --> Rep Power: 0 Casino cash: $1000	Thats wot I meant... haha