Tell me WHY, oh WHY?

[~*~ayesha~*~]

I had a husband (SIGHA, MUTTA) temporary marriage with my bf till this january 11th...

He just went to Amsterdam, and got back todayl...he just confessed to me that, he slept with 4 other girls while he was there...

:writers:
What i want to know, is why would he do this to us? we've been together since august of this year, and we both know we are meant to be.

I told him, it was okay, and i would frogiver him...but he can never do tht again or i will leave.,

my question is, is the adage ONCE A CHEATER always a CHEATER true>? will he cheat on me again?

[Ac89]

i'll answer yours if u can answer mine

why are the hotties on here underagee????? whyyyyy








no seriously...

[Sikh4Lyfe]

honestly, leave him, dont be one of those girls that get so dependant and love their man so much they forgive every lil thing. If the guy sleeps with 4 other chicks its obviously he dont love ya cuz he cant control his dick for watever time he was there.

[dezi_divaa]

crazy stuff.....

[~*~ayesha~*~]

before he left, i told him if he hooked up with any other girls, whatever, but he would have to be std'd checked before we slept together.i just spoke to him on the phone, and he told me he'll get tested onc3 he gets hom on the 4th of jan...

sigh, why oh why. i am so heartbroken. am i not enough for him? he says i am. and he is so sorry, etc etc bullcrap, etc....

jesus, i need a man who repects me and treats me right "i'm the type of girl who deserves nice things, and a hand full of rings..."

[ii_khushi86_ii]

you were married.. and you were talking on the forum about how horny you were.. AND you said you were possessed by a jinn..

interesting life you have..

[bigr0ck]

you need help........but not off RD

[*ShAwTy_FrOm_Bd*]

Leave the fucker. And I agree with Khushi.

[Mohammad]

get a temporary marrage to me, and lets get even

[the_dark_drag0n]

Originally Posted by Mohammad

get a temporary marrage to me, and lets get even

Contract marriage?

[reaz]

another retarded post.

[DigitalBlu]

He's not committed to you, finding someone who is sounds like a good idea to me. Also flip the situation, say if you had cheated on him with 1 guy while he was away ... what would his reaction be? More than likely you'd suddenly be the whore of babylon, but since he slept with 4 girls ... he's ... what? ... forgivable?

Hmm ... maybe he wouldnt be upset if you cheated on him, maybe he'd just forgive you and forget it, in that case hugs and kisses for everyone.

You set the standard for how people treat you, you seem to think him cheating on you is forgivable behaviour then in your relationship it always will be.

P.S happy new year.

[~*~ayesha~*~]

Originally Posted by reaz

another retarded post.

tHANK U for ur kind words, king rEAZ

[MolviCorleone]

SOOOO he went to amserdam...he slepy with a few chicks......woke up....found out they got dicks......cuz thierr trannies....he felt discusted......he thought WTf......so he wont cheat on you ever again.......temporary marriage os wrong cuz it was banned in the prophets time. Beleive me i once thought bout temp marraiges and i though yehhhhhh man im so clever and i asked sum1 who knew better and was shown the proof........so i shut up.

[mr photographer]

you really thought he was gonna go to Amsterdam and not get laid .... welcome to reality

[~*~ayesha~*~]

Originally Posted by DigitalBlu

He's not committed to you, finding someone who is sounds like a good idea to me. Also flip the situation, say if you had cheated on him with 1 guy while he was away ... what would his reaction be? More than likely you'd suddenly be the whore of babylon, but since he slept with 4 girls ... he's ... what? ... forgivable?

Hmm ... maybe he wouldnt be upset if you cheated on him, maybe he'd just forgive you and forget it, in that case hugs and kisses for everyone.

You set the standard for how people treat you, you seem to think him cheating on you is forgivable behaviour then in your relationship it always will be.

P.S happy new year.

wOW, i am so shocked. you are the first person with the firstr post that has a brain behind it. thanks so mch. u make a lot of sense.
he already told me, if i ever cheated onhim, hed leave me that second....

i guess i do let people take advantage of me. i suppose i dont NEED a man, in my life...but i WANt ONE, and thats why i put up with his shit?

[methodman535]

Originally Posted by ~*~ayesha~*~

I had a husband (SIGHA, MUTTA) temporary marriage with my bf till this january 11th...

He just went to Amsterdam, and got back todayl...he just confessed to me that, he slept with 4 other girls while he was there...

:writers:
What i want to know, is why would he do this to us? we've been together since august of this year, and we both know we are meant to be.

I told him, it was okay, and i would frogiver him...but he can never do tht again or i will leave.,

my question is, is the adage ONCE A CHEATER always a CHEATER true>? will he cheat on me again?

Hey if you wanna be a slut, why do you have to piss on the institution of marriage to make your skankiness more "legit"? Its supposed to be "till death do us part" not "till I dont feel like parting my legs every night" you know.

[DigitalBlu]

Originally Posted by ~*~ayesha~*~

wOW, i am so shocked. you are the first person with the firstr post that has a brain behind it. thanks so mch. u make a lot of sense.
he already told me, if i ever cheated onhim, hed leave me that second....

i guess i do let people take advantage of me. i suppose i dont NEED a man, in my life...but i WANt ONE, and thats why i put up with his shit?

No big surprise there .. you're human. That's normal. It isnt normal however to just settle for anything with a dick and a heartbeat.

Learn to handle being alone, that's actually pretty damn important. Then find a guy that fits who you are. Guys arent like pets, getting one just because you want one isnt the best idea. There's gotta be ... clickage (in a non physical way).

[methodman535]

Originally Posted by DigitalBlu

No big surprise there .. you're human. That's normal. It isnt normal however to just settle for anything with a dick and a heartbeat.

Wrong, it is normal to settle for anything with a dick and a heartbeat if you have two tits and a cunt. Whats abnormal, however is for the dick and the heartbeat to stay settled with the tits and cunt if she acts like a total fucking loser.

Originally Posted by DigitalBlu

Learn to handle being alone, that's actually pretty damn important. Then find a guy that fits who you are. Guys arent like pets, getting one just because you want one isnt the best idea. There's gotta be ... clickage (in a non physical way).

And you would know this by your tremendous experience right? Being fucked over after getting fucked time and time again? Get a freakin clue before you decide to talk out of your ass OK?

[DigitalBlu]

Originally Posted by methodman535

Wrong, it is normal to settle for anything with a dick and a heartbeat if you have two tits and a cunt. Whats abnormal, however is for the dick and the heartbeat to stay settled with the tits and cunt if she acts like a total fucking loser.



And you would know this by your tremendous experience right? Being fucked over after getting fucked time and time again? Get a freakin clue before you decide to talk out of your ass OK?

Ahh, someone whose first language is clearly not english.
I voiced my opinion, I didnt insist you agree with me.
Whatever. Happy New Year.

[MR2Turbo]

Damn temp marriage sounds like the shit! hahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahaha

[Sikh4Lyfe]

goddamnit bitch, i gave you my advice, follow it.

[ShivaChrist]

Originally Posted by ~*~ayesha~*~

I had a husband (SIGHA, MUTTA) temporary marriage with my bf till this january 11th...

He just went to Amsterdam, and got back todayl...he just confessed to me that, he slept with 4 other girls while he was there...

:writers:
What i want to know, is why would he do this to us? we've been together since august of this year, and we both know we are meant to be.

I told him, it was okay, and i would frogiver him...but he can never do tht again or i will leave.,

my question is, is the adage ONCE A CHEATER always a CHEATER true>? will he cheat on me again?

Unfortunately, most likely. I know that's not the answer you'd like to hear... if you sleep with another girl and are in a relationship, you get her consent first at least lol - well if its only a temp marriage, I'd reallllllly think about making sure it stays temp. Think hard.

[ShivaChrist]

Originally Posted by ~*~ayesha~*~

i guess i do let people take advantage of me. i suppose i dont NEED a man, in my life...but i WANt ONE, and thats why i put up with his shit?

Yeah, I'm the same way... except I wouldn't take that kind of crap. But I definetely want a woman... they are nice :P

[Aurovon]

as long as he used rubber there is no reason to be mad at him. stay with him!