Wedding-Nikah Questions?

H. S. P. · April 28th, 2007, 02:12 AM

What do Desi Muslim Moms wear to the Masjid?

Would it look tacky if the guy wore a Suit/Tuxedo to the Masjid for his Nikah?

And the girl, what does she wear?

I am so clueless.

NeRgYz · April 28th, 2007, 02:16 AM

i have no idea wht do they wear.....btw, i have a nikkah question too....WHY DA HECK RUKHSATTI SO IMPORTANT FOR DESI WHEN ITS NOT IN ISLAM?????!!!!

shadyzgal08 · April 28th, 2007, 02:22 AM

why are they getting married in a mosque?
i've never heard of that

~CupCake~ · April 28th, 2007, 02:23 AM

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Originally Posted by shadyzgal08

why are they getting married in a mosque?
i've never heard of that

PakPlaya69 · April 28th, 2007, 02:25 AM

Who gets married in a mosque??

NeRgYz · April 28th, 2007, 02:26 AM

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Originally Posted by shadyzgal08

why are they getting married in a mosque?
i've never heard of that

u can get married in a mosque if u want a simple Nikkah witout any DHOOM DHAAM!!!!

shadyzgal08 · April 28th, 2007, 02:27 AM

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Originally Posted by NeRgYz

u can get married in a mosque if u want a simple Nikkah witout any DHOOM DHAAM!!!!

that seems kinda boring

H. S. P. · April 28th, 2007, 02:29 AM

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Originally Posted by shadyzgal08

that seems kinda boring

It is the proper way to me, the Nikah is supposed to be quiet and simple, a bond between the 2 families in a noble, religious way. Excuse you big booty girl.

H. S. P. · April 28th, 2007, 02:29 AM

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Originally Posted by NeRgYz

i have no idea wht do they wear.....btw, i have a nikkah question too....WHY DA HECK RUKHSATTI SO IMPORTANT FOR DESI WHEN ITS NOT IN ISLAM?????!!!!

What is Rukhsatti?

NeRgYz · April 28th, 2007, 02:29 AM

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Originally Posted by shadyzgal08

that seems kinda boring

well, thats a proper Islamic way.....i want my Nikkah very simple....no naach-gaana....

shadyzgal08 · April 28th, 2007, 02:30 AM

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Originally Posted by H. S. P.

It is the proper way to me, the Nikah is supposed to be quiet and simple, a bond between the 2 families in a noble, religious way. Excuse you big booty girl.

oh well. i dont do all this religious stuff so i wouldn't know

H. S. P. · April 28th, 2007, 02:30 AM

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Originally Posted by PakPlaya69

Who gets married in a mosque??

Anyone that wants a simple marriage without the fake/artificial "desi" tradition that is bummed off Hinduism.

shadyzgal08 · April 28th, 2007, 02:30 AM

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Originally Posted by NeRgYz

well, thats a proper Islamic way.....i want my Nikkah very simple....no naach-gaana....

but the music and dancing is the best part

H. S. P. · April 28th, 2007, 02:30 AM

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Originally Posted by NeRgYz

well, thats a proper Islamic way.....i want my Nikkah very simple....no naach-gaana....

NeRgYz · April 28th, 2007, 02:31 AM

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Originally Posted by H. S. P.

What is Rukhsatti?

Rukhsatti also means Bidai....means a girl leaves her parents's home and goes to her husband's house....and its not an Islamic thing.....

shadyzgal08 · April 28th, 2007, 02:31 AM

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Originally Posted by H. S. P.

What is Rukhsatti?

when the parents "give away" the daughter
its a desi thing

H. S. P. · April 28th, 2007, 02:31 AM

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Originally Posted by shadyzgal08

but the music and dancing is the best part

And that is for the WEDDING RECEPTION, not during the Nikah.

NeRgYz · April 28th, 2007, 02:31 AM

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Originally Posted by shadyzgal08

but the music and dancing is the best part

but its Ghunah!!!!.....

NeRgYz · April 28th, 2007, 02:32 AM

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Originally Posted by H. S. P.

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H. S. P. · April 28th, 2007, 02:32 AM

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Originally Posted by NeRgYz

Rukhsatti also means Bidai....means a girl leaves her parents's home and goes to her husband's house....and its not an Islamic thing.....

Oh yeah, I am not having that either. I don't believe the girl ever leaves her family, no matter what their daughter will always be a part of them.

shadyzgal08 · April 28th, 2007, 02:32 AM

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Originally Posted by NeRgYz

but its Ghunah!!!!.....

im not religious so whatever.
but at my wedding i would want people to enjoy themselves and celebrate the fact that a man and woman are getting married

H. S. P. · April 28th, 2007, 02:33 AM

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Originally Posted by NeRgYz

but its Ghunah!!!!.....

I think it all depends. You can have a musical get together, you know, play musical chairs with all the uncles and aunties. :giggle:

shadyzgal08 · April 28th, 2007, 02:34 AM

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Originally Posted by H. S. P.

And that is for the WEDDING RECEPTION, not during the Nikah.

yeah but instead of doing it at a mosque one day and then having a party another day, i would rather have everyone watch me do the nikah thing but obviously there wouldn't be music playing then lol

H. S. P. · April 28th, 2007, 02:34 AM

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Originally Posted by shadyzgal08

im not religious so whatever.
but at my wedding i would want people to enjoy themselves and celebrate the fact that a man and woman are getting married

You can be very religious and still have everyone enjoy themselves to the fullest ya know. You just have to be creative, so for you all I can say, you must marry a man with brains since yours is lacking.

shadyzgal08 · April 28th, 2007, 02:35 AM

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Originally Posted by H. S. P.

You can be very religious and still have everyone enjoy themselves to the fullest ya know. You just have to be creative, so for you all I can say, you must marry a man with brains since yours is lacking.

just cuz im not religious doesn't mean im lacking a brain.
wtf that's just retarded.

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