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videos [1-4] 1) http://www.pbs.org/wgbh/pages/frontl...view/1_hi.html 2) http://www.pbs.org/wgbh/pages/frontl...view/2_hi.html 3) http://www.pbs.org/wgbh/pages/frontl...view/3_hi.html 4) http://www.pbs.org/wgbh/pages/frontl...view/4_hi.html It would be almost ten months ago, I made a thread in the SD based on a book called 'On Killing', which discussed the psychological stresses that each and every soldier has to go through in the war zone. The PTSD that these soldiers have to go through after serving their nation, is humbling to say the least. This documentary by Frontline drives the point home... I found it a very powerful documentary, take a look. I'll add it to the Documentaries section in a bit. |
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i think that most of us that went to high school here in the states know of someone that's served in the military and if you've kept in touch with someone that went over into a combat zone. Most of them have some form of post traumatic stress disorder. Unfortunately a good friend of mine served for 10 years and is on i think prozac because of his issues with the war. At times you just see him zone out and stare into space, or you have to watch your mouth when it comes to political debates bc sometimes he'll get into the talk and just go nutzo on how fucked up our government is and where we went wrong with iraq. it's a bit creepy and keeps him from being able to express his emotions properly. he doesn't sleep well or much at all and eventually it's going to take a toll on his life even more so.
as a friend it's hard to see close friends go through this, and we're somewhat helpless. you just have to be there for them when they want to talk and know what topics to avoid and stuff. |
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Should I Consider Retiring???
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Awesome. Something to kill time.
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I have two cousins down in the States who are enlisted. One cousin, who's from Iowa, is now in Afghanistan, the otherone works domestically somewhere. My aunt's health is slowly deteriorating... she pretty much says she almost expects every day, someone is going to call her, or come to their house with news of my cousin's death... I fear for his life too .... but it's what he wanted to do, serve his nation proudly; and defend the values that everyday Americans [and Canadians] take for granted. I can think of few things more honourable than that |
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actually i've kinda seen how bad it can get and know of those inner demons. you see one of my father's co-workers was this white guy named Sam. His son was my sister's age and we all got along well....until one night he kinda flipped out on his wife and with time she revealed the years of abuse she's endured bc of his depression from vietnam. So we helped them (sam jr. and his mom) have a safe house till she moved in with her sister in a nearby texan town. long story short she got divorced from him and didn't ask him for a dime. Sam jr was only 6 and eventually his father was allowed visitation without supervision. His dad lost it on him once and beat the crap outta the kid at 12 and wasn't allowed to be near him. at age 14 sam's dad was being nice and friendly and sam desperately wanted to get along with his dad bc he still loved the guy somehow and understood the war fucked him up mentally. One day sam's father told sam and his friends to do some yard work. when they came inside to get paid he blew his brains out with a shotgun infront of them. worst part was the days leading up to it he kept begging my parents to meet with him and how he wants to make amends with his wife and he needs a friend and yadda luckily my mom's uncle died in ny so our family was gone, but had my parents been in town who knows, maybe they would have heard him out and worse maybe he would have taken them with him. if you talk to sam jr. (his mom passed away last yr of cancer) or his mom at the time they'd both tell you they dont' blame him and know he was sick bc of issues he suffered with from the war. |
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with that kinda stuff you just have to pray for the best and keep a positive outlook. I hope that your cousin has a safe and swift return home and that your aunt's health gets better. I would go into a depression if my brothers or future kids chose to do that with their life. I'd be proud of them but at the same time i'd be too worried. |
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Damn that's harsh What you have to understand is..... when it really gets down to it, it really is hard for one human being to KILL another. Does the military recondition humans into killing machines by driving home the very notion of 'KILL KILL KILL'? Certainly. Are there wackos who just join the military for cheap thrills; men who were screwed in the head to begin with? Again, certainly. Have the military committed heinous acts in certain cases in Iraq and elsewhere? Again, for sure. But by and large, the individuals serving this country are altruistic people who ARE averse to taking another life.... who ARE averse to KILLING; despite the rigious training their put through..... ESPECIALLY by the Marines, to turn into cold blooded killers. Altruism is ingrained in our genes, and in our social conditioning from BIRTH. Humans, really don't want to Kill. And because they're now put into an environment where they're faced with imminent danger, and FORCED to kill... you begin to see these kinds of mental conditions appear... Shell Shock/ Battle Fatigue/ Posttraumatic Stress Disorder... the inner demons. |
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A couple of aqquaintances have boyfriends in Iraq right now, and they tell me that their guys are just not the same anymore. It really does make you feel helpless at times, but like you said, you can only just be there to listen to them, and not say a word. I just let Nate vent his anger and frustrations, and made no comments at all, because i didn't know which way the wind would blow with my responses. Now he's out of the army, i think, and he's living back here in Houston and going to school. But he said he feels like his life has no meaning anymore, and he has no direction, and nobody will ever know what he has felt or seen with his own eyes. One can only imagine he said. He's a really good guy.
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If you want to see an over dramatized action application of post traumatic stress of Vietnam Vets check out Rambo, it's so political
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Watch the damn documentary people!
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Too many fragile pussies. Soldiers today aint got shit on WWII vets who did and saw way worse.
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Well.... that's true in a sense I guess.... the war death toll in the latter part of the 20th century is nothing compared to the death toll in the first part. |
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