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*~MuFFiN~* · February 21st, 2007, 11:05 PM

Grudges against people?

does it take alot for someone to annoy you/piss you off

Do you forgive easily?

What would get to you the most? (and even if that point was reached, would you forgive the person)

(for those of you who are Muslim, i heard (i may be wrong) that one should not keep a grudge for longer than 3 days?...if thats true...do you follow that and let things just be?)

(GOOD LORD...the poll question is for the MAIN QUESTION... "do you keep grudges")

TheLoneAvenger · February 21st, 2007, 11:07 PM

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Originally Posted by *~MuFFiN~*

Do you forgive easily?

People forgive, but they never forget. So while I may essentially forgive someone for a transgression, I don't really forget so it changes the dynamics of the relationship/friendship.

nychump · February 21st, 2007, 11:07 PM

which question are you referring to in the poll?

roy_desi · February 21st, 2007, 11:08 PM

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Originally Posted by *~MuFFiN~*

(for those of you who are Muslim, i heard (i may be wrong) that one should not keep a grudge for longer than 3 days?...if thats true...do you follow that and let things just be?)

what the fuck. if someone murders my brother i should let it go after a few days?

and it depends entirely on the situation.

*~MuFFiN~* · February 21st, 2007, 11:08 PM

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Originally Posted by TheLoneAvenger

People forgive, but they never forget. So while I may essentially forgive someone for a transgression, I don't really forget so it changes the dynamics of the relationship/friendship.

true

but would you hold it against them?

say an arguement were to start...would you throw that previous issue in their face?

**Elmo** · February 21st, 2007, 11:08 PM

[quote=*~MuFFiN~*]Grudges against people?

does it take alot for someone to annoy you/piss you off

Do you forgive easily?

What would get to you the most? (and even if that point was reached, would you forgive the person)

(for those of you who are Muslim, i heard (i may be wrong) that one should not keep a grudge for longer than 3 days?...if thats true...do you follow that and let things just be?)[/QUOTE]
really?

*~MuFFiN~* · February 21st, 2007, 11:09 PM

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Originally Posted by nychump

which question are you referring to in the poll?

the main

do you keep grudges

Flow_Motion · February 21st, 2007, 11:09 PM

I usually forgive within 3 days... But nothings ever the same... I usually make my peace with the person and then don't keep in touch or sell them out...

**nygirl** · February 21st, 2007, 11:10 PM

I forgive people very easily which may be seen as one of my weaknesses however holding a grudge against someone only eats away at you. I can never really hate someone.

*~MuFFiN~* · February 21st, 2007, 11:10 PM

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Originally Posted by roy_desi

what the fuck. if someone murders my brother i should let it go after a few days?

and it depends entirely on the situation.

i kno there are certain situations that wouldnt apply...im sure.

i think thats more of if you get into a fight with someone and its not something life threatening to anyone

Stillwaiting · February 21st, 2007, 11:10 PM

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Originally Posted by *~MuFFiN~*

Grudges against people?

does it take alot for someone to annoy you/piss you off

Do you forgive easily?

What would get to you the most? (and even if that point was reached, would you forgive the person)

(for those of you who are Muslim, i heard (i may be wrong) that one should not keep a grudge for longer than 3 days?...if thats true...do you follow that and let things just be?)

u have like 4 diff question with 1 poll!!!

**Elmo** · February 21st, 2007, 11:11 PM

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Originally Posted by Stillwaiting

u have like 4 diff question with 1 poll!!!

TheLoneAvenger · February 21st, 2007, 11:12 PM

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Originally Posted by *~MuFFiN~*

true

but would you hold it against them?

say an arguement were to start...would you throw that previous issue in their face?

Probably not, unless I got extremely annoyed.

But generally, women are going to hold grudges and bring up old news more so than men.

lili420 · February 21st, 2007, 11:12 PM

lifes too short for gurdges and i dont have the fazool time to keeep grudges. only a few things make me keep gurdges, such as if i know you are a 1.muslim, 2. pakistani, 3. anyone in the immediate family including grandparents hater. if you have baseless grudge against those any of those three categories i have a grudge against you. other than that, lifes good, and i cant be bothered to hate people. there are people i think are major retards but wont go out of my way to hate on them, and if they want to talk to me in a decent manner, id be more than glad to.
oh, but it does depend on the situation there is always the random exception.

MoonChildChick · February 21st, 2007, 11:14 PM

Depends on what was done. For the most part, I can't waste my time over grudges, but every once in a while there is at least one stupid person that just pisses me off and I won't forgive them for said stupidity.

*~MuFFiN~* · February 21st, 2007, 11:18 PM

[quote=Elmo]

Quote:

Originally Posted by *~MuFFiN~*

Grudges against people?

does it take alot for someone to annoy you/piss you off

Do you forgive easily?

What would get to you the most? (and even if that point was reached, would you forgive the person)

(for those of you who are Muslim, i heard (i may be wrong) that one should not keep a grudge for longer than 3 days?...if thats true...do you follow that and let things just be?)[/QUOTE]
really?

like i said, i could be wrong... twas something i heard a while back

*~MuFFiN~* · February 21st, 2007, 11:19 PM

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Originally Posted by Stillwaiting

u have like 4 diff question with 1 poll!!!

thats been established

the poll is for the main question

which is why the others are all based around that

nychump · February 21st, 2007, 11:19 PM

depends on how hot the girl is..

depends on how cool i am wit da guy..

notoriou$punjabi · February 21st, 2007, 11:21 PM

Its relative to how the other party feels towards their mistakes.

*~MuFFiN~* · February 21st, 2007, 11:21 PM

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Originally Posted by nychump

depends on how hot the girl is..

depends on how cool i am wit da guy..

say you were in a serious relationship with some hot girl...and she cheated on you .... you'd forgive her b/c shes hot?

*~MuFFiN~* · February 21st, 2007, 11:22 PM

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Originally Posted by notoriou$punjabi

Its relative to how the other party feels towards their mistakes.

in any situation?

notoriou$punjabi · February 21st, 2007, 11:24 PM

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Originally Posted by *~MuFFiN~*

in any situation?

Its not really my modus-operandi cos you can never tell what happens tomorrow.

*~MuFFiN~* · February 21st, 2007, 11:25 PM

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Originally Posted by notoriou$punjabi

Its not really my modus-operandi cos you can never tell what happens tomorrow.

nychump · February 21st, 2007, 11:25 PM

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Originally Posted by *~MuFFiN~*

say you were in a serious relationship with some hot girl...and she cheated on you .... you'd forgive her b/c shes hot?

oh.. i was thinkin' in terms of friends..

theres no strings attached with friends..

you can never have enough hot female friends

even if they are bitches sometimes..

*~MuFFiN~* · February 21st, 2007, 11:26 PM

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Originally Posted by Flow_Motion

I usually forgive within 3 days... But nothings ever the same... I usually make my peace with the person and then don't keep in touch or sell them out...

you mentioned the 3 days thing as well... is that from a personal preferance or have you heard of that 3 day long grudge thing?

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February 21st, 2007, 11:05 PM	#1
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February 21st, 2007, 11:07 PM	#3
nychump Should I Consider Retiring??? Join Date: Aug 3 2006 Location: NYC Posts: 10,219 Reputation: 12035 --> Rep Power: 1256 Casino cash: $1381	which question are you referring to in the poll? __________________

February 21st, 2007, 11:10 PM	#9
nygirl CAN I HAZ BLUEMOONZ? Join Date: May 12 2005 Location: NY Posts: 7,915 Reputation: 99799126 --> Rep Power: 9979961 Casino cash: $24303	I forgive people very easily which may be seen as one of my weaknesses however holding a grudge against someone only eats away at you. I can never really hate someone. __________________

February 21st, 2007, 11:14 PM	#15
MoonChildChick Addicted Join Date: Jan 2 2005 Location: ATL Posts: 3,642 Reputation: 10 --> Rep Power: 34 Casino cash: $1875	Depends on what was done. For the most part, I can't waste my time over grudges, but every once in a while there is at least one stupid person that just pisses me off and I won't forgive them for said stupidity. __________________

February 21st, 2007, 11:08 PM	#6
Elmo Veteran Join Date: Jan 14 2007 Location: Manhattan, NY Posts: 5,458 Reputation: 68552958 --> Rep Power: 6855328 Casino cash: $3590	[quote=~MuFFiN~]Grudges against people? does it take alot for someone to annoy you/piss you off Do you forgive easily? What would get to you the most? (and even if that point was reached, would you forgive the person) (for those of you who are Muslim, i heard (i may be wrong) that one should not keep a grudge for longer than 3 days?...if thats true...do you follow that and let things just be?)[/QUOTE] really?

February 21st, 2007, 11:09 PM	#8
Flow_Motion Should I Consider Retiring??? Join Date: Mar 17 2004 Location: Vancouver, BC Canada Posts: 7,690 Reputation: 366947577 --> Rep Power: 36694809 Casino cash: $22727	I usually forgive within 3 days... But nothings ever the same... I usually make my peace with the person and then don't keep in touch or sell them out...

February 21st, 2007, 11:12 PM	#14
lili420 Can't Stay Away Join Date: Jul 11 2005 Posts: 2,143 Reputation: 66763 --> Rep Power: 6701 Casino cash: $7964	lifes too short for gurdges and i dont have the fazool time to keeep grudges. only a few things make me keep gurdges, such as if i know you are a 1.muslim, 2. pakistani, 3. anyone in the immediate family including grandparents hater. if you have baseless grudge against those any of those three categories i have a grudge against you. other than that, lifes good, and i cant be bothered to hate people. there are people i think are major retards but wont go out of my way to hate on them, and if they want to talk to me in a decent manner, id be more than glad to. oh, but it does depend on the situation there is always the random exception.

February 21st, 2007, 11:19 PM	#18
nychump Should I Consider Retiring??? Join Date: Aug 3 2006 Location: NYC Posts: 10,219 Reputation: 12035 --> Rep Power: 1256 Casino cash: $1381	depends on how hot the girl is.. depends on how cool i am wit da guy.. __________________

February 21st, 2007, 11:21 PM	#19
notoriou$punjabi Should I Consider Retiring??? Join Date: May 31 2004 Posts: 8,629 Reputation: 90867557 --> Rep Power: 9086810 Casino cash: $7319	Its relative to how the other party feels towards their mistakes.

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