signs of a cheater

[coral1979]

WeLL me and My fiend were taLking ...
well we been played a few times and we were talkin about the signs we sorta ,misssed...hopefully guys will read and tell us certain things they do when they cheatig
some of the biggiest give aways...

being over nice...

going out for hours but saying that aint been any where of interest.

hiding their phone away...
offering to do the weekly shopping and u put ur feet up..

finding any excuse to pop out to the shop, take the car to be washed blah blah blah

girls or guys telling you they are sleeping with ur partner...

[budz]

Hahah, the last one can be a bit of a giveaway!

[HateU2Mafuqa]

actually no the signs r when they r guilty of somethin they try 2 blame u

[8541]

When they tell you a lie of where they were or what they did ..they tend to look to YOUR left...and not face u

[aranis]

> being over nice...
that's dumb... no

> going out for hours but saying that aint been any where of interest.
why is this a problem? i fail to see the correlation between this and cheating.

> hiding their phone away.
i don't think anyone's that stupid..

> offering to do the weekly shopping and u put ur feet up..
> finding any excuse to pop out to the shop, take the car to be washed blah blah blah
god you watch too many movies and soap operas.

> girls or guys telling you they are sleeping with ur partner...
this is the only valid one you have but it's the obvious one as well. if some one tells you they're sleeping with your significant other (and they're not lying), then duh! they're cheating on you

[coral1979]

Hahah, the last one can be a bit of a giveaway!
lol yeah it is a bit aint it?
but the bf or gf tend say say no way they are lieing coz i turned them down or sumthing like that...... yeahhhh right

[Shashanna]

K, here's the list I came up with.

Saying, "I'm a nice guy"..nice guys don't have to convince people that they are nice because they are too busy being nice.

yeah, "TOO nice." (defintely true. I believe girls consider this a sign because you wouldn't want someone who is fake. They are hiding their true self.)

hiding things from his/her parents. what makes you think he won't lie to you? (BIG SIGN)

caught in any white lie. (you have to stop in think, what else could this guy/girl have lied about..even the smallest lie can lead to a more scandalous one):liar:

a long absence of no phone call, email or Im. (somethings up, check it out)I consider a long absence about a week. two weeks somethings defintely going on unless he's/she's out of the country..there is no reason for this. and if he/she claims he has been really busy with school. it's bull. :rolleyes:

Too many girls/guys on his friends list either on rate desi or on myspace


when he/she is with you he gets a bunch of phone calls consecutively. Unless he has some sort of profession where he/she must recieve phone calls every five min..be suspicious. (Although, he may claim its his mother/"friends" calling... )

When he misses your phone call he gives you a detailed description of why he/she didn't pick up although you didn't ask for one. :sarb:


girls/guys who have said they have met up with your boyfriend from the internet and dated him within the last few weeks...(hmm..yah big giveaway.)

[twinkleeeyez3]

makes me wanna cry :tears:

[Shashanna]

makes me wanna cry :tears:

Makes me want kick his arse :chainsaw:

[coral1979]

yeah kick ass for sure
makes u laugh in how people think they can get away with it... things always come back to to u da end

[SexyTemptress]

another one ppl often miss is being overly suspicious. i've seen this in everyone of my gfs cheating bfs. they always accuse their gfs of cheating on them, or they think if their woman leaves the house she is going to cheat on them. they cheat so much they think every one is like them. if a guy is overly possessive or overly scared ur gonna cheat on him, BEWARE!

[Shashanna]

another one ppl often miss is being overly suspicious. i've seen this in everyone of my gfs cheating bfs. they always accuse their gfs of cheating on them, or they think if their woman leaves the house she is going to cheat on them. they cheat so much they think every one is like them. if a guy is overly possessive or overly scared ur gonna cheat on him, BEWARE!

I concur.