havin opposite sex mates after marriage

[DESI-PEACHES]

after marriage, will u still phone or texts mates whose are opposite sex to u? would ur partner/partner's family would mind that u txtin or phonin other people?

cos one of my mates got married recently and she doesnt txt or phone guys anymore cos she doesnt wana put some shame to her husband n his family and i was like but u got so many guys mates who would helps her to sort things out blah

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[TigerLily]

I will still plan on talking to all of my friends after I am married, regardless of their sex. My husband should know that any guys I talk to are just my friends, and I don't see what his family has anything to do with it. It's not like they would be monitoring me or something, how would they know who I was talking to?

[DESI-PEACHES]

I will still plan on talking to all of my friends after I am married, regardless of their sex. My husband should know that any guys I talk to are just my friends, and I don't see what his family has anything to do with it. It's not like they would be monitoring me or something, how would they know who I was talking to?

but some guys may be jealous if u txts or phone other guy mates or somethin and also if ur in-laws catches u talkin to him they may think differently....man u know what desi parents r like these days

[TigerLily]

but some guys may be jealous if u txts or phone other guy mates or somethin and also if ur in-laws catches u talkin to him they may think differently....man u know what desi parents r like these days

Yeah i guess I do know what you mean....I guess I am just speaking about my experience bc I plan on marrying my boyfriend and his parents are not like that. They would NEVER act weird bc I was just talking to some guy. And my boyfriend knows all my guy friends so I don't think that would be a problem.

But I really feel as though some people need to take control of their life...you can't let your inlaws run your life, you know?

[TigerLily]

after marriage, will u still phone or texts mates whose are opposite sex to u? would ur partner/partner's family would mind that u txtin or phonin other people?

cos one of my mates got married recently and she doesnt txt or phone guys anymore cos she doesnt wana put some shame to her husband n his family and i was like but u got so many guys mates who would helps her to sort things out blah

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Did your cousin talk to her husband first about this or did she just stop talking to her guy friends?

[DESI-PEACHES]

Did your cousin talk to her husband first about this or did she just stop talking to her guy friends?

she spoke to him first then gave up talkin to guys pathetic i no but it was her choice.....so i heard

[DESI-PEACHES]

Yeah i guess I do know what you mean....I guess I am just speaking about my experience bc I plan on marrying my boyfriend and his parents are not like that. They would NEVER act weird bc I was just talking to some guy. And my boyfriend knows all my guy friends so I don't think that would be a problem.

But I really feel as though some people need to take control of their life...you can't let your inlaws run your life, you know?

what u said at the bottom, was rite some pplz cant take control of their life dunno why tho

[umair_irtaash]

i dun plan to flirt arnd with them........i'll talk to them if i see them by accident or if they'r in family !!!! cuz i wanna live a happy life after marriage, if i mess arnd with oder gals then it wud affect my kids too........

[ohasanzoladiiio]

it's a weird situation. there are two kinds of guys usually - the ones who know ur in a relationship and are waiting for it to be over so they can move in, and the ones who genuinely care about you. i'd ditch the ones in the first category (which i've pretty much done anyway), but i have some guy friends, like my best friend for example that i would NEVER let out of my life, and any guy i'm with would have to understand that - if he couldn't - i'd show him the door. friends come first :)

[umair_irtaash]

i think she's right.......first kinda guy only want some fun for the time........while the best frnds r the ones who relly love u..........and often best frnds get married..........

[- BaBy_gUrL]

yea like my best guy friend i couldn't live without talking to him and if my husband wasnt kool with i'd jus tell him to screw himself.. wel first of all i wouldnt be wiht a guy who's like that in the first place, i would keep in touch with all my friends regardless of thier sex

[SIXPAK GQ]

after marriage, will u still phone or texts mates whose are opposite sex to u? would ur partner/partner's family would mind that u txtin or phonin other people?

cos one of my mates got married recently and she doesnt txt or phone guys anymore cos she doesnt wana put some shame to her husband n his family and i was like but u got so many guys mates who would helps her to sort things out blah

discuss


i'll be the same if i get married....i can always draw the line to the opposite sex....and if i charming females comes by which is a better deal then my wife then i will go for her...there is just so much out there

[SIXPAK GQ]

it's a weird situation. there are two kinds of guys usually - the ones who know ur in a relationship and are waiting for it to be over so they can move in, and the ones who genuinely care about you. i'd ditch the ones in the first category (which i've pretty much done anyway), but i have some guy friends, like my best friend for example that i would NEVER let out of my life, and any guy i'm with would have to understand that - if he couldn't - i'd show him the door. friends come first :)

it would be useless for the ones who just care about u unless he sees u as ur sister.....the ones who are waiting till ur relationships breaks have nothing to lose either, since they probably have other ladies in the background whom u would not know about...sometimes the best friend is a better choice then ur husband unless ur husband was like ur best friend too...

[SIXPAK GQ]

i think she's right.......first kinda guy only want some fun for the time........while the best frnds r the ones who relly love u..........and often best frnds get married..........


wrong , nice guys finish last...like the other girl said..she would only keep him as a best friend and nothing else...

[SIXPAK GQ]

yea like my best guy friend i couldn't live without talking to him and if my husband wasnt kool with i'd jus tell him to screw himself.. wel first of all i wouldnt be wiht a guy who's like that in the first place, i would keep in touch with all my friends regardless of thier sex


to me a wife and best friend go together unless i had a girl friend who was my best friend and found out that my wife is not what i wanted...i always go the bigger better deal...

[jassika]

not really plannin to but if theres someone keepable id introduce em and make em mutal friends

[ohasanzoladiiio]

wrong , nice guys finish last...like the other girl said..she would only keep him as a best friend and nothing else...

well, my best friend always used to say that guys and girls can't be JUST friends, at one point one of the parties will have a romantic interest in the other....
well we were together for 3 years... romantic interest is OVER... any other guy - can't trust em...

[Robiul]

yes i prob will do the same. I would wanna focus all my attention on my wife!!

[umair_irtaash]

people !!! wife is made for u so u stop messing arnd with other ladies..........i aint getting married until the one i want to get married to agrees too.........if not.........i aint gonna get married cuz i dun wanna cheat on ma wife !!!!!!!!!!!

[NewFlight]

i will beat my wife with a stick if i catch her sending sms or calling her guy friends from past but if my girl friend get married and do not calls me after wedding i will beat with a stick.

[umair_irtaash]

i will beat my wife with a stick if i catch her sending sms or calling her guy friends from past but if my girl friend get married and do not calls me after wedding i will beat with a stick.
LOL..........this is called BULLSHIT.........do what makes ur gf happy........not what makes YOU happy.........giving happiness to others is the best !!!!!!!

[NewFlight]

LOL..........this is called BULLSHIT.........do what makes ur gf happy........not what makes YOU happy.........giving happiness to others is the best !!!!!!!

how old is you 15? i do what i want to do not what other want me do. if a girl friend cant call me she is no my girlfriend.

[umair_irtaash]

thats how u think bro.........i aint forcing u to do something..........

[umair_irtaash]

thats how u think bro.........i aint forcing u to do something..........btw im 18 !!!

[dudeitsmohsin]

if ure gonna cheat... dont marry. and nice guys dont finish last, at are age, yea sure we do! but once a chick matures and finally understands that assholes like u arent gonna put bread on the table for u and ure family they come back to te nice who are now somewhere as billionares... its how things go, ive seen it happen on many a occasion and it always will. at are age assholes arent assholes there "bad" but as u get older and focus on ure life u realize that there just pieces of shits who dont respect themselves let alone others... dude if ure gonna blatantly admit u cant stay with a chick... i truely feel sorry for u. o and the other dude who said he does what he wants... Hooked on Phonics... as a gift from me to u buddy!

[SIXPAK GQ]

if ure gonna cheat... dont marry. and nice guys dont finish last, at are age, yea sure we do! but once a chick matures and finally understands that assholes like u arent gonna put bread on the table for u and ure family they come back to te nice who are now somewhere as billionares... its how things go, ive seen it happen on many a occasion and it always will. at are age assholes arent assholes there "bad" but as u get older and focus on ure life u realize that there just pieces of shits who dont respect themselves let alone others... dude if ure gonna blatantly admit u cant stay with a chick... i truely feel sorry for u. o and the other dude who said he does what he wants... Hooked on Phonics... as a gift from me to u buddy!


a*sholes and b*tches actually end up finishing last..the ones who didn't care about their education, work...and did drugs and alcohol, screwed around, got diseases and had kids,...they are the ones who are suffering when they get older to barely survive..while the nice guys who didnt get any when they were younger are successful now.....

[Cunard]

thats pretty fucked up

i never stopped my gf from talking to friends of hers...guys or girls

i wouldnt stop her if we were married either......if u cant trust somone u marry...why marry in the first place?

[umair_irtaash]

WELL HE GOT A POINT HERE ........but still......suspicion is part of love !!!!!!

[musicchic33]

of course I'd still talk to my guy friends..just because you're married doesn't mean you have to ditch them... :neutral:and it all boils down to trust and how secure you are with ur relationship