pedophilic or not?

[sdmanchurian]

is it really that pedophilic if a 19 yr old guy goes out with a 15 yr old girl? what about a 23 yr old going out with a 15 yr old?

[Samad]

yes it is...sick bastards :x

[SnakE187EyeZ]

Yup, both on legal and ethical terms.

[statix]

yeah

[sdmanchurian]

why do you care? :?
the guy i like/am going out with is 19...and my ex was 23

[sdmanchurian]

Yup, both on legal and ethical terms.
How is it legally/ethically wrong?

[sdmanchurian]

yes it is...sick bastards :x
how can u say that they're sick when you don't even know them?

[mirreyboy39]

depends, the gal can be mature enuf i guess but it sounds awfully weird. oh well

[statix]

Yup, both on legal and ethical terms.
How is it legally/ethically wrong?

ethically by todays societal conventions YES..although by Islamic standards its not really wrong to marry someone where the age difference is immense..and Legaly its alright unless you dont engage in sex.

[Samad]

yes it is...sick bastards :x
how can u say that they're sick when you don't even know them?

i don't need to know them to tell their mentality...how can they go out w/ a kid...what losers

[GQ StatuZ]

is it really that pedophilic if a 19 yr old guy goes out with a 15 yr old girl? what about a 23 yr old going out with a 15 yr old?

YES iT IS... thats R KELLY shit...
u must be the 15 year old girl n some 23 yr old dude hittin on u huh?

[BinDaaS_BaBe]

nahh

i dont think it is.. it just sounds bad at taht age...

[BinDaaS_BaBe]

15 n 23 yr old is wrong!!!!


but it depends on the 15 yr old too. haha.. if they think its fine..,. why the hell shoiuld others judge!?

[GQ StatuZ]

i know ppl say age is just a number... but still think about it
whoever is voting that it's ok for a 15 yr old to go out with a 23 yr old need to get their head checked!

that's disgusting!@! :?

[SnakE187EyeZ]

Yup, both on legal and ethical terms.
How is it legally/ethically wrong?

It's wrong ethically depending on your own personal principles, but it mostly applies to most people. I just think when you hit 18 you are free to do whatever and anything under the age of 16 (1-15) is just plain wrong, people aged 16-17 are going to do shit no matter what you say but people under that age shouldn't be taken advantage of. I mean 15, I don't even think the body has fully developed at that age.

I also believe it to be illegal down here, not really sure though.

[BinDaaS_BaBe]

15 n 23 yr old is wrong!!!!


but it depends on the 15 yr old too. haha.. if they think its fine..,. why the hell shoiuld others judge!?


regardless of how smart the 15-year old thinks she is, she obviously isnt very mature, or else she wouldnt let the 23-year old *use* her.

the guy's prolly a sick fuck, and he knows the 15-year old's dumb, so thats why he's going for the easy hit-and-run.

there are a couple of issues here.

1. its illegal
2. he's using her
3. she's dumb

i dont think ppl know wat they are doing till the age of 24... and i only said taht coz i know a 15 yr old who dated a 23 yr old.. it was kinda VERYY sick!!

[0hsopimpin]

donno but id fuck the shit outta this 15 year old and im 19
http://www.ratedesi.com/images/members/29148.jpg?87

[BinDaaS_BaBe]

^ he is only 15?!?!? :shock: :shock:

[SnakE187EyeZ]

You'd prolly have to wait a long ass time for when she's finished playing with her Barbie dolls before you get any.

[0hsopimpin]

yeah shes 15


you obviously dont know 15 year olds these days

[SnakE187EyeZ]

I was being ironic. 15 year old's down here are pretty much like every slutty, stupid and immature 15 in any country. Prolly worse. British culture is by far one of the most "out there" than any other.

[BinDaaS_BaBe]

nahh i know 15 yr olds.. acutally all those gurls who just start highschool loook like that these days...


i used to dress up when i was 15 like as if i was old.. and i think its stupid now!

[0hsopimpin]

I was being ironic. 15 year old's down here are pretty much like every slutty, stupid and immature 15 in any country. Prolly worse. British culture is by far one of the most "out there" than any other.ever heard of a place called surrey? i live 10 mins from there
im sure i know about being out there more than u

[SnakE187EyeZ]

Yeah, I use live near essex.

Well 15 year old's down here are angel's compared to 11 year olds. Most of them lose their viginity, get pissed/stoned (regulary) at that age.

[sdmanchurian]

15 n 23 yr old is wrong!!!!


but it depends on the 15 yr old too. haha.. if they think its fine..,. why the hell shoiuld others judge!?


regardless of how smart the 15-year old thinks she is, she obviously isnt very mature, or else she wouldnt let the 23-year old *use* her.

the guy's prolly a sick fuck, and he knows the 15-year old's dumb, so thats why he's going for the easy hit-and-run.

there are a couple of issues here.

1. its illegal
2. he's using her
3. she's dumb
1. Its only illegal if the two people are having sex...which my bf and I have already agreed not to do until marriage....
2. He's not using me since we already have agreed to wait till marriage to have sex
3. I am not dumb but rather you must be the dumb one for assuming so...not all 15 yr olds are dumb you know....most are quite mature and intelligent...and all of the 15 yr olds I know are far more mature than the college students
I agree that if the two people don't mind....why the hell does the rest of the world have to mind?

[sdmanchurian]

Yup, both on legal and ethical terms.
How is it legally/ethically wrong?

It's wrong ethically depending on your own personal principles, but it mostly applies to most people. I just think when you hit 18 you are free to do whatever and anything under the age of 16 (1-15) is just plain wrong, people aged 16-17 are going to do shit no matter what you say but people under that age shouldn't be taken advantage of. I mean 15, I don't even think the body has fully developed at that age.

I also believe it to be illegal down here, not really sure though.
Ethically....it can be argued....legally its not bad unless the minor and the adult actually have sex.... but fyi, lots of 15 yr olds are fully developed by the time they're that age or younger....both mentally and physically...so that argument is BS

[sdmanchurian]

if you already know what you are gonna do, why did you make this thread in the first place?

are you trying to seek people's approval, so it makes you feel what you did is right?

obviously, research for your sociology class is not what you had in mind when you made that poll.


so, why make the thread anyways?

and you are saying you are more mature than most college kids? umm yeah, suuuuuure! :roll:
first off....i'm not saying that i'm more mature than most college kids....but as for the ones that i know personally, yes, i am more mature than they are...
secondly, i started this thread simply to see whether people in this world actually understand that age does not reflect anything....however, i have now found that only certain people understand this and i simply wish that more people would understand it....the people in these forums are far too obsessed with sex, thus they automatically assume that a relationship between a 15 yr old and a 19 or 23 yr old is simply sexual...my only wish is that more people would understand that relationships don't necessarily have to be sexual thus it is perfectly alright for a 15 yr old and a 19/23 yr old to go out....

[sdmanchurian]

umm... ok... whatever you say, fifteen-year old :roll:
and you're chastising me for being immature? you can't even come up with a better comeback? now that is really immature....

[ShivaChrist]

is it really that pedophilic if a 19 yr old guy goes out with a 15 yr old girl? what about a 23 yr old going out with a 15 yr old?

So many high schoolers do it so I'm not one to say. All I know is when I was in high school a girl I liked was going out with a college boy *shrug

I don't know about the 23 vs. 15 though, but the 19 vs. 15 I can see since it happens all the time.

[reaz]

she's only acting her age by doing the stuff she is doing.. it is not ethically wrong if the 2 are really interested in each other but that's very highly unprobable.. usually 15 yr olds are confused creatures and 23 yo guys can easily take advantage of that.. i dont think sex is the limiter here.. so you cant say he isnt using you if he isnt having sex with you.. if he is manipulating you such that you are interested in him then he is already using you..

let's hope it's not that case..

[sdmanchurian]

she's only acting her age by doing the stuff she is doing.. it is not ethically wrong if the 2 are really interested in each other but that's very highly unprobable.. usually 15 yr olds are confused creatures and 23 yo guys can easily take advantage of that.. i dont think sex is the limiter here.. so you cant say he isnt using you if he isnt having sex with you.. if he is manipulating you such that you are interested in him then he is already using you..

let's hope it's not that case..
true, a lot of 15 yr olds are confused, but those that aren't are definately mature enough to be in a relationship with an older guy....and i am interested in a guy that's 19, but that doesn't mean he's using me since he never manipulated me in order to get me to like him....

[SnakE187EyeZ]

Yup, both on legal and ethical terms.
How is it legally/ethically wrong?

It's wrong ethically depending on your own personal principles, but it mostly applies to most people. I just think when you hit 18 you are free to do whatever and anything under the age of 16 (1-15) is just plain wrong, people aged 16-17 are going to do shit no matter what you say but people under that age shouldn't be taken advantage of. I mean 15, I don't even think the body has fully developed at that age.

I also believe it to be illegal down here, not really sure though.
Ethically....it can be argued....legally its not bad unless the minor and the adult actually have sex.... but fyi, lots of 15 yr olds are fully developed by the time they're that age or younger....both mentally and physically...so that argument is BS

No, actually the argument is still valid. The fact that not ALL 15 year old's are fully developed legitimises the fact that they're TOO young to be engage in a relationship sexual or not with a person at the age of 18+. I am generalising the point here, not pick and choosing each circumstance, and by generalising the issue you would see that it would be wrong for a underdeveloped person to be involved with a man/woman for obvious reasons hence the reason why it's wrong.

Anyway, do what you want.

[sdmanchurian]

lol

reaz, dont bother saying anything to her. she's acting her age. so let her be.

i bet her parents would be really proud of her when they hear about her relationship with the 23-year old :!:
you know, for being a moderator...you really are the meanest person here....
"acting her age"....wtf is that supposed to mean?
and the 23 yr old was my ex....i'm involved with a 19 yr old now :P

[reaz]

lol

reaz, dont bother saying anything to her. she's acting her age. so let her be.

i bet her parents would be really proud of her when they hear about her relationship with the 23-year old :!:
you know, for being a moderator...you really are the meanest person here....
"acting her age"....wtf is that supposed to mean?
and the 23 yr old was my ex....i'm involved with a 19 yr old now :P

lol.. meanest?? lol. ok hun.. you might wanna stop shooting yourself in the foot here.. :)

[sdmanchurian]

No, actually the argument is still valid. The fact that not ALL 15 year old's are fully developed legitimises the fact that they're TOO young to be engage in a relationship sexual or not with a person at the age of 18+. I am generalising the point here, not pick and choosing each circumstance, and by generalising the issue you would see that it would be wrong for a underdeveloped person to be involved with a man/woman for obvious reasons hence the reason why it's wrong.

Anyway, do what you want.
although the argument is valid if you are trying to make a generalization, specific cases must also be taken into account....several 15 yr olds have reached their peak by the time they reach this age, thus their cases must be analyzed...
anyways, think what you want people....i've finally decided that ya'll are just too stubborn to see past age which simply affects your own future, not mine...

[sdmanchurian]

lol

reaz, dont bother saying anything to her. she's acting her age. so let her be.

i bet her parents would be really proud of her when they hear about her relationship with the 23-year old :!:
you know, for being a moderator...you really are the meanest person here....
"acting her age"....wtf is that supposed to mean?
and the 23 yr old was my ex....i'm involved with a 19 yr old now :P

lol.. meanest?? lol. ok hun.. you might wanna stop shooting yourself in the foot here.. :)
huh?[/b]

[JunGLe ChiKEn]

well i understand the situation here...
1. she doesnt look good enuf to get some1 her own age
2. the guys a fukin loser
3. pwn3d! :shock:

[Anonymous]

haha, girl u better watch out before u do something u regret, honestly do u think ur ready to be in a relationship with someone that much older then u?...ur young and still naive about things, u should take advantage of being 15...

[sdmanchurian]

haha, girl u better watch out before u do something u regret, honestly do u think ur ready to be in a relationship with someone that much older then u?...ur young and still naive about things, u should take advantage of being 15...
dun worry, i'll take care of myself....and i've already done a hella lot of stuff i regret....but dun worry, i can take care of myself~

[Vision350z]

i guess im kinda of contradicting myself here, but i believe love is blind. if there were no tvs and people werent influenced by common societal opinions, then would you still think it'd be wrong for a 19 year old to go out or even get married to a 15 year old? people only think that because its simply what just goes around in our community.

honestly, i dont think i could go out with a 15 year old. but that's probly moreso because 15 year olds, even girls my age, are usually way too immature for me.

[sdmanchurian]

well i understand the situation here...
1. she doesnt look good enuf to get some1 her own age
2. the guys a fukin loser
3. pwn3d! :shock:
1. HELL NAH!! U BETTER BE JOKING ME!!!!
2. DON'T U EVER INSULT MY BF AGAIN!!! OR I'LL COME THERE AND BITCH SLAP YOUR ASS ALL THE WAY BACK TO WHEREVER THE HELL UR FROM
3. huh?

[BinDaaS_BaBe]

15 to 19 aint bad at all..

i was dating a 19 yr old when i was 14!

[sdmanchurian]

i guess im kinda of contradicting myself here, but i believe love is blind. if there were no tvs and people werent influenced by common societal opinions, then would you still think it'd be wrong for a 19 year old to go out or even get married to a 15 year old? people only think that because its simply what just goes around in our community.

honestly, i dont think i could go out with a 15 year old. but that's probly moreso because 15 year olds, even girls my age, are usually way too immature for me.
exactly!! its all something conjured up by the media...a century ago, it was perfectly fine for a 12 yr old to marry a 30 yr old...yet all of a sudden, the media decided that it wasn't ok....if that hadn't occured, ya'll would agree with me
but it is all personal opinion....so yeah

[sdmanchurian]

15 to 19 aint bad at all..

i was dating a 19 yr old when i was 14!
right on!!! go u!!!! finally someone sane in this forum!!!! yey!!!!!!!! :D :D

[BinDaaS_BaBe]

15 to 19 aint bad at all..

i was dating a 19 yr old when i was 14!
right on!!! go u!!!! finally someone sane in this forum!!!! yey!!!!!!!! :D :D

i know! i seriously dont see whats wrong with it though!! but i mean i still have the age limit! hehe

[JunGLe ChiKEn]

well i understand the situation here...
1. she doesnt look good enuf to get some1 her own age
2. the guys a fukin loser
3. pwn3d! :shock:
1. HELL NAH!! U BETTER BE JOKING ME!!!!
2. DON'T U EVER INSULT MY BF AGAIN!!! OR I'LL COME THERE AND BITCH SLAP YOUR ASS ALL THE WAY BACK TO WHEREVER THE HELL UR FROM
3. huh?

1.shut up ugly, im not jokin
2.ur bf's a fukin loser! FUKING LOSER!!! slap me u ugly ho :shock:

[limited_skillz]

yeah theres nothing wrong with 19 and 14

but in society today its way off though, 19 is in university, 14 is starting high school, i dont see how it would work out long term

[Anonymous]

well i understand the situation here...
1. she doesnt look good enuf to get some1 her own age
2. the guys a fukin loser
3. pwn3d! :shock:
1. HELL NAH!! U BETTER BE JOKING ME!!!!
2. DON'T U EVER INSULT MY BF AGAIN!!! OR I'LL COME THERE AND BITCH SLAP YOUR ASS ALL THE WAY BACK TO WHEREVER THE HELL UR FROM
3. huh?

1.shut up ugly, im not jokin
2.ur bf's a fukin loser! FUKING LOSER!!! slap me u ugly ho :shock:

HAHAHA u r so funny manm 15 yr old said she was going to bitch slap u, haha i would like to see that...i wonder what her bf has to say about all this? i think ur #1 and 2 is tru...

[JunGLe ChiKEn]

well i understand the situation here...
1. she doesnt look good enuf to get some1 her own age
2. the guys a fukin loser
3. pwn3d! :shock:
1. HELL NAH!! U BETTER BE JOKING ME!!!!
2. DON'T U EVER INSULT MY BF AGAIN!!! OR I'LL COME THERE AND BITCH SLAP YOUR ASS ALL THE WAY BACK TO WHEREVER THE HELL UR FROM
3. huh?

1.shut up ugly, im not jokin
2.ur bf's a fukin loser! FUKING LOSER!!! slap me u ugly ho :shock:

HAHAHA u r so funny manm 15 yr old said she was going to bitch slap u, haha i would like to see that...i wonder what her bf has to say about all this? i think ur #1 and 2 is tru...

haha w00t w00t! good lookin chik agrees with me...FIGHT THE POWA!!

[Vision350z]

yeah theres nothing wrong with 19 and 14

but in society today its way off though, 19 is in university, 14 is starting high school, i dont see how it would work out long term

umm....dont you think relationships with a bigger age gap have more possibilites to working out long term??

[sdmanchurian]

15 to 19 aint bad at all..

i was dating a 19 yr old when i was 14!
right on!!! go u!!!! finally someone sane in this forum!!!! yey!!!!!!!! :D :D

i know! i seriously dont see whats wrong with it though!! but i mean i still have the age limit! hehe
hehe....yeah, i do have an age limit at least...anyone under my bro's age is fine (25)...older than that is just...weird....

[Anonymous]

yeah theres nothing wrong with 19 and 14

but in society today its way off though, 19 is in university, 14 is starting high school, i dont see how it would work out long term

umm....dont you think relationships with a bigger age gap have more possibilites to working out long term??

umm...i dont think so...like if ur 21 and ur girl is 15..ur already experiencing things on a different level partying and alcohol and bills and school...by the time shes 21 and experiencing those same things ur 27 and ur like been there done that and ready to move on away from that scene and settle down for some...ur always going to be at a different level, ya know...

[sdmanchurian]

well i understand the situation here...
1. she doesnt look good enuf to get some1 her own age
2. the guys a fukin loser
3. pwn3d! :shock:
1. HELL NAH!! U BETTER BE JOKING ME!!!!
2. DON'T U EVER INSULT MY BF AGAIN!!! OR I'LL COME THERE AND BITCH SLAP YOUR ASS ALL THE WAY BACK TO WHEREVER THE HELL UR FROM
3. huh?

1.shut up ugly, im not jokin
2.ur bf's a fukin loser! FUKING LOSER!!! slap me u ugly ho :shock:
1. you're no better looking yourself....in fact i'm sure lots of people would agree that you're quite ugly although i simply did not wish to bring it up
2. where do u live? i'll get on the next plane there and slap u so hard u'll wish u never said that about my bf...and don't ever call me a ho....you insult my tamilian pride by saying that

[sdmanchurian]

well i understand the situation here...
1. she doesnt look good enuf to get some1 her own age
2. the guys a fukin loser
3. pwn3d! :shock:
1. HELL NAH!! U BETTER BE JOKING ME!!!!
2. DON'T U EVER INSULT MY BF AGAIN!!! OR I'LL COME THERE AND BITCH SLAP YOUR ASS ALL THE WAY BACK TO WHEREVER THE HELL UR FROM
3. huh?

1.shut up ugly, im not jokin
2.ur bf's a fukin loser! FUKING LOSER!!! slap me u ugly ho :shock:

HAHAHA u r so funny manm 15 yr old said she was going to bitch slap u, haha i would like to see that...i wonder what her bf has to say about all this? i think ur #1 and 2 is tru...
first off, yes i would bitch slap him....and secondly, at least i'm not some lesbo girl like u are....only lesbos judge other girls beauty....and i used to think u were nice.... :roll:

[Anonymous]

jungle chiken i dont think ur ugly, she just hatin bc u dont agree with her...if she was so mature she would be able to accept everything u said and just chill...haha im a lesbo? girls judge girls all the time u stupid bitch..damn someone needs to school ur ass in respect of ur elders...

[statix]

15 is no age to be making any marital commitments...my most humble advice...focus on your studies...other than that it's your life so if you feel that what youre doing is right on ehtical and moral grounds, then by all means do as you wish...i dont think anyone on this site can intervene except offer you their own advice which i think u should consider all bias aside.

[sdmanchurian]

yeah theres nothing wrong with 19 and 14

but in society today its way off though, 19 is in university, 14 is starting high school, i dont see how it would work out long term
i agree with your first statement...but it can work out long term....have you learnt nothing from your ancestors? age differences mean nothing in the long term...its the short term that you have to worry about...

[Vision350z]

jungle chiken i dont think ur ugly, she just hatin bc u dont agree with her...if she was so mature she would be able to accept everything u said and just chill...haha im a lesbo? girls judge girls all the time u stupid bitch..damn someone needs to school ur ass in respect of ur elders...

dumbass, you're ugly as shit

[JunGLe ChiKEn]

well i understand the situation here...
1. she doesnt look good enuf to get some1 her own age
2. the guys a fukin loser
3. pwn3d! :shock:
1. HELL NAH!! U BETTER BE JOKING ME!!!!
2. DON'T U EVER INSULT MY BF AGAIN!!! OR I'LL COME THERE AND BITCH SLAP YOUR ASS ALL THE WAY BACK TO WHEREVER THE HELL UR FROM
3. huh?

1.shut up ugly, im not jokin
2.ur bf's a fukin loser! FUKING LOSER!!! slap me u ugly ho :shock:
1. you're no better looking yourself....in fact i'm sure lots of people would agree that you're quite ugly although i simply did not wish to bring it up
2. where do u live? i'll get on the next plane there and slap u so hard u'll wish u never said that about my bf...and don't ever call me a ho....you insult my tamilian pride by saying that

let them *****z think im ugly, it wont kill me u kno..i live in sugarland texas! come down ugly ho and bring ya loser ass bf wit u so i can whoop his ass for being sucha big loser n slap u for being so ugly! EWW and ya face is a discrage to the desi race! oo0o :shock:

[sdmanchurian]

15 is no age to be making any marital commitments...my most humble advice...focus on your studies.
hats off to you for being the only person here able to respectfully disagree with me...i think everyone here could learn from u on how to respectfully disagree with people
i am focused on my studies, but marriage is anyways something i must start thinking about....otherwise i'll have to end up getting an arranged marriage

[sdmanchurian]

well i understand the situation here...
1. she doesnt look good enuf to get some1 her own age
2. the guys a fukin loser
3. pwn3d! :shock:
1. HELL NAH!! U BETTER BE JOKING ME!!!!
2. DON'T U EVER INSULT MY BF AGAIN!!! OR I'LL COME THERE AND BITCH SLAP YOUR ASS ALL THE WAY BACK TO WHEREVER THE HELL UR FROM
3. huh?

1.shut up ugly, im not jokin
2.ur bf's a fukin loser! FUKING LOSER!!! slap me u ugly ho :shock:
1. you're no better looking yourself....in fact i'm sure lots of people would agree that you're quite ugly although i simply did not wish to bring it up
2. where do u live? i'll get on the next plane there and slap u so hard u'll wish u never said that about my bf...and don't ever call me a ho....you insult my tamilian pride by saying that

let them *****z think im ugly, it wont kill me u kno..i live in sugarland texas! come down ugly ho and bring ya loser ass bf wit u so i can whoop his ass for being sucha big loser n slap u for being so ugly! EWW and ya face is a discrage to the desi race! oo0o :shock:
call me a ho one more time and i'll send my friend after you....he won't just hurt you, he'll kill ya....i'd watch what u say u know....learn a bit of respect before you claim to be more mature than i am

[Anonymous]

[quote=n1t4l]jungle chiken i dont think ur ugly, she just hatin bc u dont agree with her...if she was so mature she would be able to accept everything u said and just chill...haha im a lesbo? girls judge girls all the time u stupid bitch..damn someone needs to school ur ass in respect of ur elders...

dumbass, you're ugly as shit[/quot

haha im ugly? and u look so damn good, right? get ur penis out of ur ass, stop f*cking with urself...

[JunGLe ChiKEn]

u call ur self mature?? stupid ho u gettin pissy over a lil internet arguement?? u asked what people thought of it n i told u! when some1 hands u lemons U SHUT THE FUK UP AND EAT UR GOD DAMN LEMONS!!! :shock:

[Vision350z]

[quote=n1t4l]jungle chiken i dont think ur ugly, she just hatin bc u dont agree with her...if she was so mature she would be able to accept everything u said and just chill...haha im a lesbo? girls judge girls all the time u stupid bitch..damn someone needs to school ur ass in respect of ur elders...

dumbass, you're ugly as shit[/quot

haha im ugly? and u look so damn good, right? get ur penis out of ur ass, stop f*cking with urself...

lol hey im jus playin. i'd never talk to a chic like that, but i jus wanted to see how maturely u'd react to accepting my "opinion"... no offense tho i think you're a hunnie :P :wink:

[Anonymous]

[quote=n1t4l]jungle chiken i dont think ur ugly, she just hatin bc u dont agree with her...if she was so mature she would be able to accept everything u said and just chill...haha im a lesbo? girls judge girls all the time u stupid bitch..damn someone needs to school ur ass in respect of ur elders...

dumbass, you're ugly as shit[/quot

haha im ugly? and u look so damn good, right? get ur penis out of ur ass, stop f*cking with urself...

lol hey im jus playin. i'd never talk to a chic like that, but i jus wanted to see how maturely u'd react to accepting my "opinion"... no offense tho i think you're a hunnie :P :wink:

alright, yeah i see what ur saying but i didnt start the thread and am not claiming my maturity...thanks

[limited_skillz]

but my ancestors way of life and the north american way of life is a LOTTT DIFFERENT

someone made a good point saying that by the time your ready to settle down, theyre ready to party, would a girl/guy sacrifice one of the best times of their lives for the person they "love"?

[Anonymous]

but my ancestors way of life and the north american way of life is a LOTTT DIFFERENT

someone made a good point saying that by the time your ready to settle down, theyre ready to party, would a girl/guy sacrifice one of the best times of their lives for the person they "love"?

that was me im full of good points...

[limited_skillz]

yup u sure do

[sdmanchurian]

but my ancestors way of life and the north american way of life is a LOTTT DIFFERENT

someone made a good point saying that by the time your ready to settle down, theyre ready to party, would a girl/guy sacrifice one of the best times of their lives for the person they "love"?
yes, i would sacrifice anything for the person i love....and you seem to think that partying is the only good part about life...settling down is also one of the best times of your life....you simply have not realized it yet

[sdmanchurian]

enough of all of this....skip the hating people!!! let's all make a pact now...no more hating comments alright? i won't say anything bad about ya'll if u don't say anything bad about me...deal?

[JunGLe ChiKEn]

but my ancestors way of life and the north american way of life is a LOTTT DIFFERENT

someone made a good point saying that by the time your ready to settle down, theyre ready to party, would a girl/guy sacrifice one of the best times of their lives for the person they "love"?
yes, i would sacrifice anything for the person i love....and you seem to think that partying is the only good part about life...settling down is also one of the best times of your life....you simply have not realized it yet

yes n u have since ur married n all right?? :shock: man by the time ur at the age to get married ur losers gonna be like 30 n shit :shock: enjoy life at this age stupid cuz ur never gonna get it back

[limited_skillz]

yeah but you cant settle down without going through the partying phase

otherwise youve missed a ton of your life

you cant just be thrown into pretty much having a family

the guy who is 27 will one to have one, but your only like 21, your actually going to go ahead and be held down by a kid? tehy are fun, but at 21? i dont know

[Anonymous]

lol

who's hating on you? unless i missed something, all i can see is that people are saying you are wrong.

everyone's saying you are immature, and you'll see things in a different light when you grow up.

thank u, maybe she can get that through her thick head...

[sdmanchurian]

lol

who's hating on you? unless i missed something, all i can see is that people are saying you are wrong.

everyone's saying you are immature, and you'll see things in a different light when you grow up.
ya obviously missed all the comments by the chicken dude and the lesbo girl....try reading them and then u'll see....
and trust me...i won't be seeing things in a different light when i grow up...

[JunGLe ChiKEn]

lol

who's hating on you? unless i missed something, all i can see is that people are saying you are wrong.

everyone's saying you are immature, and you'll see things in a different light when you grow up.

werd! this chik isnt mature yet, when she gets married at like 18 n shit she'll realize how hard it is to hold a family at that young of an age, all i can say is ditch the 23 year old, find a 15 or 16 year old and have fun. ur not at the age where u should be thinkin bout commitment yet

[sdmanchurian]

yeah but you cant settle down without going through the partying phase

otherwise youve missed a ton of your life

you cant just be thrown into pretty much having a family

the guy who is 27 will one to have one, but your only like 21, your actually going to go ahead and be held down by a kid? tehy are fun, but at 21? i dont know
that's why u get over the partying phase when you're younger...you're ready to settle down sooner that way and you're not wasting your life by just uselessly partying....

[Vision350z]

you cant try and justify your own opinions. if someone and their partner strongly feel that they can live their life happy in whatever they want, no matter even if they're 20 years apart in age, then so be it.

apparantly, most of your views are different from hers and nothing on here will change that. there's no "right" answer, some of you just need to realize that.

honestly, i agree with the dude above that you actually need to go thru a lil party phase but that happens after you get screwed over or break up, cuz most ppl dont marry their first boyfriend/girlfriend. im not really up for messing around, i wanna settle down with someone soon even tho im only 19. but i have my reasons and i agree that alot of you are immature when you think that thinking about settling down while so young is wrong. i agree on the part that one should focus on school but if someone believes that they can live their life just as [if not more] happily settling down with someone while so young, then God bless them.

[sdmanchurian]

lol

who's hating on you? unless i missed something, all i can see is that people are saying you are wrong.

everyone's saying you are immature, and you'll see things in a different light when you grow up.

werd! this chik isnt mature yet, when she gets married at like 18 n shit she'll realize how hard it is to hold a family at that young of an age, all i can say is ditch the 23 year old, find a 15 or 16 year old and have fun. ur not at the age where u should be thinkin bout commitment yet
i had a bf that was 15....they're so immature though....and what's the point in being in a relationship if you're not going to get married? being in one just for the fun of it is pointless....you'll learn that someday in your life

[Anonymous]

u stupid bitch u need to calm ur ugly fuckin ass up about that lesbo shit...ur bfs probably a fag too scared to come out and ur the only one who will take it up the ass...

[sdmanchurian]

you cant try and justify your own opinions. if someone and their partner strongly feel that they can live their life happy in whatever they want, no matter even if they're 20 years apart in age, then so be it.

apparantly, most of your views are different from hers and nothing on here will change that. there's no "right" answer, some of you just need to realize that.

honestly, i agree with the dude above that you actually need to go thru a lil party phase but that happens after you get screwed over or break up, cuz most ppl dont marry their first boyfriend/girlfriend. im not really up for messing around, i wanna settle down with someone soon even tho im only 19. but i have my reasons and i agree that alot of you are immature when you think that thinking about settling down while so young is wrong. i agree on the part that one should focus on school but if someone believes that they can live their life just as [if not more] happily settling down with someone while so young, then God bless them.
thank u....finally :roll: ....i actually agree with someone here about something....
everyone has diff opinions....so stop trying to shove them in each others faces....

[Vision350z]

lol

who's hating on you? unless i missed something, all i can see is that people are saying you are wrong.

everyone's saying you are immature, and you'll see things in a different light when you grow up.

werd! this chik isnt mature yet, when she gets married at like 18 n shit she'll realize how hard it is to hold a family at that young of an age, all i can say is ditch the 23 year old, find a 15 or 16 year old and have fun. ur not at the age where u should be thinkin bout commitment yet
i had a bf that was 15....they're so immature though....and what's the point in being in a relationship if you're not going to get married? being in one just for the fun of it is pointless....you'll learn that someday in your life

most people far beyond their "adolescent" stage will tell you that it's best to not get so serious with anyone so quickly. that's mainly because probly about 97% of all people dont end up spending their lives with their first date, so go around and get some experience and enjoy yourself without scarring yourself while you can. but if you dont wanna do that, hey...whatever floats your boat.

it's not about bein mature tho, alot of these people are speaking to you out of experience. even ONE year of more experience than you can mean a lot. i think i grew up more in the past year and a half than i have in the past 10 years of my life.

[limited_skillz]

i had a bf that was 15....they're so immature though....and what's the point in being in a relationship if you're not going to get married? being in one just for the fun of it is pointless....you'll learn that someday in your life

ok your 15!

im 16, and im not about partying, i duno why you think that

theres nothing to realize at this age, there is a point in being in a relationship, it can be fun, theres always someone to talk to and express feelings with both physically and emotionally

how are you going to find your true soulmate if you never shop around? im surely not going to settle for the first thing that comes my way

a lot of guys are immature at 15, i used to be all like wanabe mature and everything, but you gotta chill too, everything cant be serious, find a guy that has both mature and immatureness, having too much of one side isnt good if you do want a relationship at this age



everyone has diff opinions....so stop trying to shove them in each others faces....

i think you need to take some advice from that as well

[sdmanchurian]

u stupid bitch u need to calm ur ugly fuckin ass up about that lesbo shit...ur bfs probably a fag too scared to come out and ur the only one who will take it up the ass...
alright....that's it....i tried to be nice...i really did...but you leave me no choice....the next person who posts in this thread will get a virus from me....i'm majorly pissed off that my attempts to reconcile with ya'll have failed, so don't even bother...
and one last thing....if a girl judges another girl's looks...then her sexual orientation is highly questionable....that's all i'm saying

[Anonymous]

i had a bf that was 15....they're so immature though....and what's the point in being in a relationship if you're not going to get married? being in one just for the fun of it is pointless....you'll learn that someday in your life

ok your 15!

im 16, and im not about partying, i duno why you think that

theres nothing to realize at this age, there is a point in being in a relationship, it can be fun, theres always someone to talk to and express feelings with both physically and emotionally

how are you going to find your true soulmate if you never shop around? im surely not going to settle for the first thing that comes my way

a lot of guys are immature at 15, i used to be all like wanabe mature and everything, but you gotta chill too, everything cant be serious, find a guy that has both mature and immatureness, having too much of one side isnt good if you do want a relationship at this age



everyone has diff opinions....so stop trying to shove them in each others faces....

i think you need to take some advice from that as well


are 15 yr olds really mature enough to be in a serious relationship in the first place? why take away from ur youth, enjoy it, be single and love it...live life without attachments...

[Samad]

i think someone needs to lock this thread..there is no point to it...she won't get it :)

[limited_skillz]

wow i really was thinking of getting a gr9-10 girlfriend cause a lot of these desi girls danced amazingly and were so hot at this south asian beatz thing at school

but you have made me realize the attitude of some of these girls

thanks i guess

[sdmanchurian]

i had a bf that was 15....they're so immature though....and what's the point in being in a relationship if you're not going to get married? being in one just for the fun of it is pointless....you'll learn that someday in your life

ok your 15!

im 16, and im not about partying, i duno why you think that

theres nothing to realize at this age, there is a point in being in a relationship, it can be fun, theres always someone to talk to and express feelings with both physically and emotionally

how are you going to find your true soulmate if you never shop around? im surely not going to settle for the first thing that comes my way

a lot of guys are immature at 15, i used to be all like wanabe mature and everything, but you gotta chill too, everything cant be serious, find a guy that has both mature and immatureness, having too much of one side isnt good if you do want a relationship at this age



everyone has diff opinions....so stop trying to shove them in each others faces....

i think you need to take some advice from that as well


are 15 yr olds really mature enough to be in a serious relationship in the first place? why take away from ur youth, enjoy it, be single and love it...live life without attachments...
ur the first on my virus list now....any others?
and yes, 15 yr olds are mature enough to be in a serious relationship....i was 13 when i had my first serious relationship, so 15 is fine...

[JunGLe ChiKEn]

shop around, even in romeo n juliet romeo had many gurlz befoe juliet...his tru love so yeah! :shock:

[sdmanchurian]

shop around, even in romeo n juliet romeo had many gurlz befoe juliet...his tru love so yeah! :shock:
juliet only loved romeo....guess girls are just more loyal and mature than guys are...

[sdmanchurian]

wow i really was thinking of getting a gr9-10 girlfriend cause a lot of these desi girls danced amazingly and were so hot at this south asian beatz thing at school

but you have made me realize the attitude of some of these girls

thanks i guess
whatever....i give up on u

[Out1awChick911]

Actually, its perfectly legal, if a gurl is 14 shes legally allowed to go out w/ sumone 5 years older, and if ur 15 u can date someone who is 10 years older, when ur 16 u can date who ever u want. u just cant do the dirrty, till ur 18. but i dunno that may vary by state.

[coolsitara_45]

just thought i'd give my opinion on it too. although it's your life, deal the way u like it.

first question you need to ask yourself is, do your and his parents know about you two?

just an observation, nothing directed to you personally, if a guy in college is going out with a kid in high school, it's cause girls in college are more demanding. usually these guys are losers in one way or another so they feel comfortable with kids who can't challenge them too much. there is no mental level understanding between a guy 23/20 and a girl 15. no matter what you think and say, there is none. the way our system is designed it can't possibly be.

if you were 20 and the guy was 27 that would make more sense. BUT you're 15, u just entered high school. grade niner. for God's sake, why do you need a boyfriend? don't you have any good friends?

what do you know about the world? that guy has gone through high school and now experiencing college enviro. people at their lower 20's know and have dealt with a lot more than a 15-year-old-kid couldn't possibly have.

you call yourself mature, how mature are you? why do you call yourself mature? maybe cause you're a bit serious by nature, that's not called maturity.

why do you want to be in a relationship? do you have any issues? or you think you've fallen in love with a man?

that line "age doesn't matter, only if more ppl understood the relationship between a child and a man" shows your immaturity. you probably see too many chick flicks. please come out of the movie world. the real world doesn't work that way.

lastly, no one thinks they are wrong esp when they are doing somethign wrong. same true for you.

now, sit back and think from all anggles and ask yourself these questions that i asked u and pay some serious attention to some of the comments others have made.
Good Luck in studies :wink: (this is that time of your life when you plan and work for your career goals not your future wedded life)
Good Bye. :D

[MiasMa^]

Im commenting here, cuz i have seen my cousin(18) wed a 28 yr old. Though it seemed abit grose, but observing it in real, i can only say is , where there is an understanding between both the two and are ready for a relationship than y not.
Anyways, this thing doesnt have to do anything with Islam, its just simple human psychology.
A 15 yr old's mind is in a development phase, atleast he/she can determine or estimate that if they hangout with a person, what relationship they r entering into or wat makes the connection. However just learn to make a distance, n see who r u compatible with.
Its not sick unless, the ppl involved want to, its just like any other relationship, how open u wanna keep it, how precise n positive u wanna commit to it. trust me human intentions counts!
Alas, all i can say is that if u can understand the guy/gal n love hanging out with him/her, wats so wrong abt it. It can be simple friendship too.
Humans are adaptive n so can their relations be, just be sure the person u hang out with has positive intentions abt u. n trust me ppl above 14 do have the concept abt relationships.