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FallOnTheOreos
May 11th, 2005, 01:48 PM
as i was asking hydro in another thread, i realized desi guys seem less likely to hit on a girl. do you find yourself more shy to approach a girl than other guys--or just to approach a desi girl versus other girls?

a lot look but don't have balls. what about you?

BilalisPakistani
May 11th, 2005, 01:56 PM
depends on the situation.

At school Im always going up to people and starting convos, not really hitting on anyone tho.

I find it easier to approach desi girls than other girls tho, because I can walk up to them and say Hi My name is Bilal, and they wont be like "Bilar? Bulol? Balooo?

reo1
May 11th, 2005, 01:57 PM
too many desi guys act desperate when it comes to desi girls....i'd rather have the girl come after me

FallOnTheOreos
May 11th, 2005, 01:59 PM
depends on the situation.

At school Im always going up to people and starting convos, not really hitting on anyone tho.

I find it easier to approach desi girls than other girls tho, because I can walk up to them and say Hi My name is Bilal, and they wont be like "Bilar? Bulol? Balooo?

:rofl: awwww. i would totally talk to you. :)

come to think of it, I'D prolly come up to YOU :eyebrow:

BilalisPakistani
May 11th, 2005, 01:59 PM
too many desi guys act desperate when it comes to desi girls....i'd rather have the girl come after me
Most of the time, the girls that come after you, are not the ones you want


trust me

Dj Dhaliwal
May 11th, 2005, 02:00 PM
i think its easier to hit on other girls
and not desi girls
cause MOST desi girls
are stuck up
they not open to going out with a gyani (a guy with a turban)
where as other girls think that its an experiance they want
which is kinda kewl

plus desi girls think they all that.. (which i agree with SOME of them are)
but they just too stuck up .. u need to relax and let some desi guys get with u ... and dont always go for looks and $$.. most of the desi girls ive seen and know
are with the ugliest guys around.. but just cause they have $$$ they with them and then there are desi girls who are with some good lookin guys
but and being treated like shit..
whats up with that?????

i tell u
u women are like a ever changin puzzle
i think we will never know whats reali on
ur mind and why u do the things u do

FallOnTheOreos
May 11th, 2005, 02:00 PM
too many desi guys act desperate when it comes to desi girls....i'd rather have the girl come after me


and the girl is prolly waiting for you to come up to her, right?

BilalisPakistani
May 11th, 2005, 02:00 PM
:rofl: awwww. i would totally talk to you. :)

come to think of it, I'D prolly come up to YOU :eyebrow:
lol youre all talk :p

reaz
May 11th, 2005, 02:00 PM
I am usually hitting on chicks without even knowing it. I dont make a conscious effort to hit on girls.

jafferman
May 11th, 2005, 02:00 PM
i dont have problems till it comes askin them out then i dun know what to say :(

reo1
May 11th, 2005, 02:01 PM
Most of the time, the girls that come after you, are not the ones you want


trust me



thats very very true

FallOnTheOreos
May 11th, 2005, 02:01 PM
i think its easier to hit on other girls
and not desi girls
cause MOST desi girls
are stuck up
they not open to going out with a gyani (a guy with a turban)
where as other girls think that its an experiance they want
which is kinda kewl

plus desi girls think they all that.. (which i agree with SOME of them are)
but they just too stuck up .. u need to relax and let some desi guys get with u ... and dont always go for looks and $$.. most of the desi girls ive seen and know
are with the ugliest guys around.. but just cause they have $$$ they with them and then there are desi girls who are with some good lookin guys
but and being treated like shit..
whats up with that?????

i tell u
u women are like a ever changin puzzle
i think we will never know whats reali on
ur mind and why u do the things u do


i wouldnt go for an ugly guy just cuz he had money..i can make my own :)

reo1
May 11th, 2005, 02:01 PM
I am usually hitting on chicks without even knowing it. I dont make a conscious effort to hit on girls.

thats the situation with most guys

FallOnTheOreos
May 11th, 2005, 02:02 PM
lol youre all talk :p


would you mind me coming up to you? :sarb:

i have some guts. :cool:


if i think the guy is worth it,lol.

FallOnTheOreos
May 11th, 2005, 02:04 PM
i dont know what it is. i feel like desi guys are just more shy. maybe they think i'm a bitch :(

daswissbeats
May 11th, 2005, 02:04 PM
i think its easier to hit on other girls
and not desi girls
cause MOST desi girls
are stuck up
they not open to going out with a gyani (a guy with a turban)
where as other girls think that its an experiance they want
which is kinda kewl

plus desi girls think they all that.. (which i agree with SOME of them are)
but they just too stuck up .. u need to relax and let some desi guys get with u ... and dont always go for looks and $$.. most of the desi girls ive seen and know
are with the ugliest guys around.. but just cause they have $$$ they with them and then there are desi girls who are with some good lookin guys
but and being treated like shit..
whats up with that?????

i tell u
u women are like a ever changin puzzle
i think we will never know whats reali on
ur mind and why u do the things u do

i dont tink they r stuck up or arrogant, they go after me all da time

reo1
May 11th, 2005, 02:05 PM
i dont know what it is. i feel like desi guys are just more shy. maybe they think i'm a bitch :(


some guys get initimated by goodlookin gurls :)

reaz
May 11th, 2005, 02:05 PM
would you mind me coming up to you? :sarb:

i have some guts. :cool:


if i think the guy is worth it,lol.

there should be more girls like you then. LOL.

Dj Dhaliwal
May 11th, 2005, 02:05 PM
i dont tink they r stuck up or arrogant, they go after me all da time


damn u lucky son of my auntie ji

lol

Chronos
May 11th, 2005, 02:06 PM
I must admit I usually haven't been the kind of guy who's started conversations with the ladies. But once the ice has been broken, I get along pretty well with almost anybody. It's just not usually me breaking the ice.

In fact most of the best times I've had with girls has been as a result of the girl initiating the talks. Hmm... I might have to do something about that...

BilalisPakistani
May 11th, 2005, 02:07 PM
would you mind me coming up to you? :sarb:

i have some guts. :cool:


if i think the guy is worth it,lol.
I would love a girl who came up to me and initiated a conversation

its so rare

xbadkarmax
May 11th, 2005, 02:07 PM
the girls ive met or been with, or been best friends with me all come to me, ive never had to really approach anyone.. I guess I'm just lucky?

FallOnTheOreos
May 11th, 2005, 02:08 PM
some guys get initimated by goodlookin gurls :)

:hug: awww

thanks reaz. there should be more desi guys like you :hug:


i just realized maybe because i dont have many desi girl friends at all? like barely. maybe if was hanging out with some they would realize i was desi? :sarb: i dont know im trying to justify this lol.

ektubaby
May 11th, 2005, 02:09 PM
depends on the situation.

At school Im always going up to people and starting convos, not really hitting on anyone tho.

I find it easier to approach desi girls than other girls tho, because I can walk up to them and say Hi My name is Bilal, and they wont be like "Bilar? Bulol? Balooo?
"blah deee daa??" :dunno:

BilalisPakistani
May 11th, 2005, 02:10 PM
"blah deee daa??" :dunno:
I usually just say my name is Blah

work on it later :no:

FallOnTheOreos
May 11th, 2005, 02:10 PM
i think im just the type of girl who will approach a guy. if he catches my attention for some reason, then why not? i mean the way i see it is, whats the worse that can happen, right?


:cool: and after all, it is ME.



:p lol im kidding. don't go think im all stuck up now, hehe. :queen:

BilalisPakistani
May 11th, 2005, 02:13 PM
i think im just the type of girl who will approach a guy. if he catches my attention for some reason, then why not? i mean the way i see it is, whats the worse that can happen, right?


:cool: and after all, it is ME.



:p lol im kidding. don't go think im all stuck up now, hehe. :queen:
whats the response of the guy when u do approach him?

stuttering?

FallOnTheOreos
May 11th, 2005, 02:15 PM
whats the response of the guy when u do approach him?

stuttering?


guys are nice, so therefore i havent had an experience where he's like "the fuck bitch!?" so i think that's why i havent been scared off..they get flirty after i approach them. but i wonder, why can't desi guys ever approach me? i dont have to approach other guys.

FallOnTheOreos
May 11th, 2005, 02:16 PM
over the past month at school, i can think of 2 specific desi guys have have come up to me and initiated a coversation. although i had 2 come sit on either side of me in psych lecture, but that doesnt really count to me.


i wish they werent so shy. i like friendly, outgoing guys. :)

reaz
May 11th, 2005, 02:17 PM
guys. she's single. approach her before she goes.

chunky
May 11th, 2005, 02:20 PM
as i was asking hydro in another thread, i realized desi guys seem less likely to hit on a girl. do you find yourself more shy to approach a girl than other guys--or just to approach a desi girl versus other girls?

a lot look but don't have balls. what about you?

***** please. if you look like you want some of the cock, i will hit on you. doesn't matter what ethnicity you are.

daswissbeats
May 11th, 2005, 02:22 PM
over the past month at school, i can think of 2 specific desi guys have have come up to me and initiated a coversation. although i had 2 come sit on either side of me in psych lecture, but that doesnt really count to me.


i wish they werent so shy. i like friendly, outgoing guys. :)

yeah tat doest count cuz if u dont talk 2 da person ur sat next 2, its just wierd

BilalisPakistani
May 11th, 2005, 02:23 PM
***** please. if you look like you want some of the cock, i will hit on you. doesn't matter what ethnicity you are.
rofl

once theres eye contact and a smile

get to work!

chunky
May 11th, 2005, 02:24 PM
rofl

once theres eye contact and a smile

get to work!

I like the ones that dodge eye contact & frown. they're more challenging.

FallOnTheOreos
May 11th, 2005, 02:25 PM
yeah tat doest count cuz if u dont talk 2 da person ur sat next 2, its just wierd

it's not weird. it's just IN CLASS. in lecture, where you can't really have full conversations. i want some outside of class.


some conversation :p

daswissbeats
May 11th, 2005, 02:27 PM
it's not weird. it's just IN CLASS. in lecture, where you can't really have full conversations. i want some outside of class.


some conversation :p

i'll talk 2 any1, even a stranger if his sat beside me in class

FallOnTheOreos
May 11th, 2005, 02:28 PM
***** please. if you look like you want some of the cock, i will hit on you. doesn't matter what ethnicity you are.

and how does one look like "she wants some of the cock" to you?

by staring at your body up and down and licking her lips slowly and seductively?

reo1
May 11th, 2005, 02:29 PM
it's not weird. it's just IN CLASS. in lecture, where you can't really have full conversations. i want some outside of class.


some conversation :p


oohh plz you are complaining about how there aren't many desi guys comin up to you...lol...girls don't know what to whine about these days...


i kid i kid :p

FallOnTheOreos
May 11th, 2005, 02:29 PM
rofl

once theres eye contact and a smile

get to work!


what about if she gives you a piercing stare with a slight smile..nothing obvious. do you go for it or remain unsure?

FallOnTheOreos
May 11th, 2005, 02:30 PM
oohh plz you are complaining about how there aren't many desi guys comin up to you...lol...girls don't know what to whine about these days...


i kid i kid :p


lol. im just curious, that's all. :p

BilalisPakistani
May 11th, 2005, 02:31 PM
what about if she gives you a piercing stare with a slight smile..nothing obvious. do you go for it or remain unsure?
eye contact = green light

HoeBag
May 11th, 2005, 02:32 PM
as i was asking hydro in another thread, i realized desi guys seem less likely to hit on a girl. do you find yourself more shy to approach a girl than other guys--or just to approach a desi girl versus other girls?

a lot look but don't have balls. what about you?


i have big balls

bhangraman
May 11th, 2005, 02:33 PM
then what do u say i get the eye contact and stuff after hi whats ur name iam like :sarb: then i am screwed lol :neutral:

reo1
May 11th, 2005, 02:33 PM
eye contact = green light


not all the time....juz cuz a girl looks at u don't mean its da green lite

BilalisPakistani
May 11th, 2005, 02:35 PM
not all the time....juz cuz a girl looks at u don't mean its da green lite
if she makes eye contact then yes


Girls walk into a room and check out every guy in there. They know right away if theyre interested or not. Why would a girl make eye contact with someone they dont want to speak to?

FallOnTheOreos
May 11th, 2005, 02:37 PM
if she makes eye contact then yes


Girls walk into a room and check out every guy in there. They know right away if theyre interested or not. Why would a girl make eye contact with someone they dont want to speak to?


say you're walking down campus. you pass girl, and you're totally staring straight into her eyes--low and behold, she's staring directly into yours. how do you stop and talk to her? just say hi? smile?

FallOnTheOreos
May 11th, 2005, 02:40 PM
most desi girls are messed up, yo... :( they give off weird vibes. if she's with friends, i'd go hit on her friends, but not her, because they just don't give off weird vibes.

weird vibes like what?? :sarb:

BilalisPakistani
May 11th, 2005, 02:40 PM
say you're walking down campus. you pass girl, and you're totally staring straight into her eyes--low and behold, she's staring directly into yours. how do you stop and talk to her? just say hi? smile?
yes, alot of the time I say hi and they just walk right by :no: :lol:

But yea, something like "Hi, where u headed? Mind if I walk with you?"

Who would say no to that?

reo1
May 11th, 2005, 02:41 PM
say you're walking down campus. you pass girl, and you're totally staring straight into her eyes--low and behold, she's staring directly into yours. how do you stop and talk to her? just say hi? smile?


i would smile right back...i wouldn't approach her rite away...

FallOnTheOreos
May 11th, 2005, 02:42 PM
i would smile right back...i wouldn't approach her rite away...
but you risk the chance of NEVER seeing her again. ever.

chunky
May 11th, 2005, 02:42 PM
and how does one look like "she wants some of the cock" to you?

by staring at your body up and down and licking her lips slowly and seductively?

it's complicated and you wouldn't understand b/c you're a girl.

FallOnTheOreos
May 11th, 2005, 02:43 PM
like they're about to fall on the oreos? :shrug_no:

lol, :no: silly

FallOnTheOreos
May 11th, 2005, 02:44 PM
it's complicated and you wouldn't understand b/c you're a girl.


i take it you dont want to explain. fineeee. :slap:

chunky
May 11th, 2005, 02:48 PM
i take it you dont want to explain. fineeee. :slap:

haha, it's one of those things you'd just have to see in action. most guys don't even have a clue.

That_guy
May 11th, 2005, 02:49 PM
Hmm..its tough to pick up a desi girl esp when they're in groups..they act soo snobby. I know I'm generalizing but alot of brown girls juss are too stuck up. Sometimes they ain't even all that. But yea...other kinds of girls I think are easier to talk to..in my experience.

FallOnTheOreos
May 11th, 2005, 02:50 PM
come to new york, and you'll know exactly what i mean.

desi girls just put up this wall, and the moment you look at em, you see tbe wall and the sign on the wall that says "no trespassing". they put up this wall for anybody and everybody, not just desi guys, but i think they just put up a higher wall for desi guys.

of course there are cool desi girls too, and there are desi sluts (how do you know em? they go to sasa), but for the most part, you can just tell that desi girls are uncomfortable around guys that might hit on em.


lol fuck u! i went to sasa!

well the last sunday night party. :giggle: had the best time too.

i dont think i put on a wall. im really outgoing.

FallOnTheOreos
May 11th, 2005, 02:51 PM
Hmm..its tough to pick up a desi girl esp when they're in groups..they act soo snobby. I know I'm generalizing but alot of brown girls juss are too stuck up. Sometimes they ain't even all that. But yea...other kinds of girls I think are easier to talk to..in my experience.
:no: im gonna be a loner and see how that works for me.

That_guy
May 11th, 2005, 02:55 PM
^^ LOL being a loner could work....but seriously. Its juss that the friends usually act so protective and shit like the guy is only interested in ONE THING.

FallOnTheOreos
May 11th, 2005, 02:58 PM
lol you didnt really go to sasa. you went to the sunday night party. im talking about girls who go to sasa for all four days, plus some, so they can get teh cack!

didnt you say you aren't that desi? so you aren't the typical brown female... mabe that's why you're outgoing? how many brown girls do you know who are that outgoing? i really dont think most brown girls are stuck up or whatever; i think they just come off as being stuck up because they arent that outgoing, and they dont feel very comfortable around men.

but i am gonna go to sasa all four days plus some this next time. i am desi, but see since im catholic, i have no cultural similarities as other desis, thus making me more whitewashed and i dont know what. im trying to make myself more desi and my parents just think im crazy. :sarb:

most ppl assume quiet people are stuck up, so i know what you mean. i dont know why girls get scared of guys...lol..

FallOnTheOreos
May 11th, 2005, 02:58 PM
^^ LOL being a loner could work....but seriously. Its juss that the friends usually act so protective and shit like the guy is only interested in ONE THING.

:sarb: fucking that one girl??

FallOnTheOreos
May 11th, 2005, 03:04 PM
fine. be that way! :(


shhhh... don't tell anyone... but i might go toooooo... im a desi ho :p


lol DO IT! i've never done anything like that--i think hanging out with hella desis would be so much fun! call me a dork, but it's a fantasy :p

That_guy
May 11th, 2005, 03:08 PM
:sarb: fucking that one girl??

HAHA...wat do I say to dat? umm...makes the guy out to be a horny asshole..

FallOnTheOreos
May 11th, 2005, 03:08 PM
HAHA...wat do I say to dat? umm...makes the guy out to be a horny asshole..

lol, say it. if you mean it, say it. :p

chunky
May 11th, 2005, 03:13 PM
lol DO IT! i've never done anything like that--i think hanging out with hella desis would be so much fun! call me a dork, but it's a fantasy :p

holy shit. you have such a warped view of the world.

FallOnTheOreos
May 11th, 2005, 03:25 PM
dork :p


:bigsmurf: it could be fun!

FallOnTheOreos
May 11th, 2005, 03:35 PM
it could be... we'll find out at sasa next year.


i think it definitely will be. i heard its gonna be in ATL. maybe ill run into luda and he'll ask me to be in his video. :p


chunky is right--i do have a warped view of the world :neutral:


lol.:no:

sickwitit
May 11th, 2005, 03:38 PM
desi girls walk around lookin stuck up...i only approach those that don't look soo gassed thinkin they gods gift to men

chunky
May 11th, 2005, 03:57 PM
i think it definitely will be. i heard its gonna be in ATL. maybe ill run into luda and he'll ask me to be in his video. :p


chunky is right--i do have a warped view of the world :neutral:


lol.:no:

oh god. sasa is coming to atl? tell me what week it's going to be so I can remember to take a trip to the mountains. . . .

FallOnTheOreos
May 11th, 2005, 03:58 PM
oh god. sasa is coming to atl? tell me what week it's going to be so I can remember to take a trip to the mountains. . . .


LOL :no: dont you wanna hang out with mee? :p

daswissbeats
May 11th, 2005, 05:11 PM
Desi girls r far 4rom stuck up,there was tis girl on da train tat kept lookin at me and moved 4rom sitting with her friend 2 sitting on another chair with an empty seat on it and looked at me, she then went back 2 sitting with her friends after i wast intrested. i tink she wanted my number.

daswissbeats
May 11th, 2005, 05:45 PM
Desi girls r far 4rom stuck up,there was tis girl on da train tat kept lookin at me and moved 4rom sitting with her friend 2 sitting on another chair with an empty seat on it and looked at me, she then went back 2 sitting with her friends after i wast intrested. i tink she wanted my number.

has tat eva happened 2 any1 be4?

FallOnTheOreos
May 11th, 2005, 05:46 PM
has tat eva happened 2 any1 be4?


:no:

Adnan786
May 11th, 2005, 05:50 PM
Never approached a girl in my life and if all goes well never will!

FallOnTheOreos
May 11th, 2005, 05:51 PM
Never approached a girl in my life and if all goes well never will!

so if you saw a beautiful girl sitting down by herself on a bench staring at you with her dreamy eyes, flashing you a killer smile, you'd pass up the opportunity?!

vikvik12
May 11th, 2005, 05:58 PM
Never approached a girl in my life and if all goes well never will!
ya man same here but all the girls come to me :p loljk

FallOnTheOreos
May 11th, 2005, 05:59 PM
ya man same here but all the girls come to me :p loljk


:no: lol

now i see how u desi men think! :p

Affinity
May 11th, 2005, 06:03 PM
as i was asking hydro in another thread, i realized desi guys seem less likely to hit on a girl. do you find yourself more shy to approach a girl than other guys--or just to approach a desi girl versus other girls?

a lot look but don't have balls. what about you?
lol...u shud come to the UK...theres plenty of places where guyz r constantly hittn on girlz...and sometimes they don't know when to give up!!

FallOnTheOreos
May 11th, 2005, 06:05 PM
lol...u shud come to the UK...theres plenty of places where guyz r constantly hittn on girlz...and sometimes they don't know when to give up!!

lol, its not like i dont get hit on by men. i talking about specifically desi guys. maybe they can't tell im desi or something. but i am going to the UK next year.


with my :love:


:giggle:

methodman535
May 11th, 2005, 06:06 PM
as i was asking hydro in another thread, i realized desi guys seem less likely to hit on a girl. do you find yourself more shy to approach a girl than other guys--or just to approach a desi girl versus other girls?

a lot look but don't have balls. what about you?


How can desi guys be desparate and shameless but be shy at the same time? Make up your mind. :sarb:

indaghetto
May 11th, 2005, 06:07 PM
:google:

FallOnTheOreos
May 11th, 2005, 06:07 PM
How can desi guys be desparate and shameless but be shy at the same time? Make up your mind. :sarb:

desperate and shameless to approach me? what? :sarb:

Adnan786
May 11th, 2005, 06:11 PM
so if you saw a beautiful girl sitting down by herself on a bench staring at you with her dreamy eyes, flashing you a killer smile, you'd pass up the opportunity?!

yeah, ive missed out on so many opportunities before..... i had this massive crush on this girl in school for like 3 years, i knew she liked me too....cos thats how i started falling for her....and then after gcse's i never saw her again...and i knew this would happen and i still didnt do anything about it lol.... i know loser!

FallOnTheOreos
May 11th, 2005, 06:14 PM
yeah, ive missed out on so many opportunities before..... i had this massive crush on this girl in school for like 3 years, i knew she liked me too....cos thats how i started falling for her....and then after gcse's i never saw her again...and i knew this would happen and i still didnt do anything about it lol.... i know loser!

dude, u suck!:no:

don't let it happen again. :)

zai_alam
May 11th, 2005, 06:15 PM
desperate and shameless to approach me? what? :sarb:

I don't think a guy has to be desperate or shameless to approach you. However, I do believe they will need a high level of confidence because you are gorgeous. And that can be a little intimidating for a dude especially if he knows nothing about you or you personality.

FallOnTheOreos
May 11th, 2005, 06:16 PM
I don't think a guy has to be desperate or shameless to approach you. However, I do believe they will need a high level of confidence because you are gorgeous. And that can be a little intimidating for a dude especially if he knows nothing about you or you personality.


:Oops: awww thank you! :hug:

zai_alam
May 11th, 2005, 06:20 PM
:Oops: awww thank you! :hug:

It's all cool your Majesty ;)

methodman535
May 11th, 2005, 06:24 PM
desperate and shameless to approach me? what? :sarb:

I was just kidding but yeah...I think Im more chicken when it comes to approaching girls cuz I like to be elaborate about doing stuff that I really really care about. So the procrastination turns into "wussyness". I dunno if most desi guys are like that...I think we are more reserved. We arent overloaded with testosterone like goras and kallus maybe thats why?

chunky
May 11th, 2005, 06:28 PM
I was just kidding but yeah...I think Im more chicken when it comes to approaching girls cuz I like to be elaborate about doing stuff that I really really care about. So the procrastination turns into "wussyness". I dunno if most desi guys are like that...I think we are more reserved. We arent overloaded with testosterone like goras and kallus maybe thats why?

speak for yourself nancy boy.

gathio gujju
May 11th, 2005, 06:29 PM
naah it depends on the person, not all desi men are shy.
I know I am not.

FallOnTheOreos
May 11th, 2005, 06:29 PM
I was just kidding but yeah...I think Im more chicken when it comes to approaching girls cuz I like to be elaborate about doing stuff that I really really care about. So the procrastination turns into "wussyness". I dunno if most desi guys are like that...I think we are more reserved. We arent overloaded with testosterone like goras and kallus maybe thats why?

lol okay, i was taken back for a second. I like that..that you would put thought into it. The reserveness is cool and all, but i just wish desi guys werent so shy...i've had experiences--one just like 2 hours ago--when guys will be so shameless about it, and its such a turnoff.

chunky
May 11th, 2005, 06:32 PM
lol okay, i was taken back for a second. I like that..that you would put thought into it. The reserveness is cool and all, but i just wish desi guys werent so shy...i've had experiences--one just like 2 hours ago--when guys will be so shameless about it, and its such a turnoff.

I just noticed that you went to berkley .. . your attractiveness score just went up a notch . . ..

baby-face
May 11th, 2005, 06:32 PM
yeap, im shyer then a muva fuka :) lol

gathio gujju
May 11th, 2005, 06:33 PM
as i was asking hydro in another thread, i realized desi guys seem less likely to hit on a girl. do you find yourself more shy to approach a girl than other guys--or just to approach a desi girl versus other girls?

a lot look but don't have balls. what about you?

I agree this grl is pretty...harder when the girl in question is someone like her!

FallOnTheOreos
May 11th, 2005, 06:36 PM
I just noticed that you went to berkley .. . your attractiveness score just went up a notch . . ..


lol, thank you

:cool: *brushes shoulders off*

FallOnTheOreos
May 11th, 2005, 06:37 PM
yeap, im shyer then a muva fuka :) lol


o tari, dont be a bhenchod :razz:

why are you shy? :sarb:

FallOnTheOreos
May 11th, 2005, 06:37 PM
I agree this grl is pretty...harder when the girl in question is someone like her!

:hug: aww, thanks!

T.Dimera
May 11th, 2005, 06:42 PM
i've never had a 'desi' girl approach me, but i have had desi girls get their friends to approach me.

Now I do most of the approaching if I see a girl I like...but I approach trying to get to know them better...not in a 'lets go to my place' type of way.
Desi girls born here are still really shy in my experience and i think that comes off as being stuck up sometimes. The last few girls I have approached all had boyfriends though, which sucked.

gathio gujju
May 11th, 2005, 06:42 PM
:hug: aww, thanks!
btw I am new so check me out

chunky
May 11th, 2005, 06:42 PM
lol, thank you

:cool: *brushes shoulders off*

what are you majoring in? my friend is getting his masters in EE from there.

FallOnTheOreos
May 11th, 2005, 06:47 PM
what are you majoring in? my friend is getting his masters in EE from there.

im thinking about political science.. at this point, i've decided i need, need, need to go to law school on the east coast. :)

chunky
May 11th, 2005, 06:51 PM
im thinking about political science.. at this point, i've decided i need, need, need to go to law school on the east coast. :)

LMAO. why's that?

FallOnTheOreos
May 11th, 2005, 06:53 PM
LMAO. why's that?

well i've always had a thing for it. i totally fell in love with it last summer, and was about to apply to school there but i had already gotten into berkeley..and come on, who could turn that down? :p so i figure well, i'll just wait until im a bit older...and the east coast has some very good law schools :)



plus I know people so i won't be a loner. ;)


but I always love meeting new people, regardless :)

FallOnTheOreos
May 11th, 2005, 06:54 PM
i've never had a 'desi' girl approach me, but i have had desi girls get their friends to approach me.

Now I do most of the approaching if I see a girl I like...but I approach trying to get to know them better...not in a 'lets go to my place' type of way.
Desi girls born here are still really shy in my experience and i think that comes off as being stuck up sometimes. The last few girls I have approached all had boyfriends though, which sucked.


i could never have my friends approach a guy I was interested in :rolleyes: lol that's just odd to me. maybe some desi girls you meet are shy...i think im just friendlier than some. i dunno :sarb:

reaz
May 11th, 2005, 07:05 PM
better law schools on the east coast definitely. if I ever do a PhD it has to be either from berkeley or stanford.

FallOnTheOreos
May 11th, 2005, 07:07 PM
better law schools on the east coast definitely. if I ever do a PhD it has to be either from berkeley or stanford.


do it. :)

how was the gym?

reaz
May 11th, 2005, 07:12 PM
do it. :)

how was the gym?


gym was fine. irregularity has taken its toll.

FallOnTheOreos
May 11th, 2005, 07:13 PM
gym was fine. irregularity has taken its toll.


awww. im going tomorrow. i went on a run this morning tho, at least. :)

chunky
May 11th, 2005, 07:13 PM
well i've always had a thing for it. i totally fell in love with it last summer, and was about to apply to school there but i had already gotten into berkeley..and come on, who could turn that down? :p so i figure well, i'll just wait until im a bit older...and the east coast has some very good law schools :)



plus I know people so i won't be a loner. ;)


but I always love meeting new people, regardless :)

where in the east were you thinkin? and what kind of law?

chunky
May 11th, 2005, 07:14 PM
gym was fine. irregularity has taken its toll.

constipation?

FallOnTheOreos
May 11th, 2005, 07:15 PM
where in the east were you thinkin? and what kind of law?


corporate law.

either the new england part of mid-atlantic...harvard...georgetown..

i've done some research :giggle:

FallOnTheOreos
May 11th, 2005, 07:16 PM
constipation?

:rofl:

reaz
May 11th, 2005, 07:22 PM
lol.. i was referring to loss of strength..

chunky
May 11th, 2005, 07:28 PM
lol.. i was referring to loss of strength..

ahh. I thought you were referring to bowel irregularity due to some supplement or the other.

FallOnTheOreos
May 11th, 2005, 10:16 PM
ahh. I thought you were referring to bowel irregularity due to some supplement or the other.

lol.

chunky did/do you go to john hopkins?

ghettofabulous
May 11th, 2005, 11:10 PM
as i was asking hydro in another thread, i realized desi guys seem less likely to hit on a girl. do you find yourself more shy to approach a girl than other guys--or just to approach a desi girl versus other girls?

a lot look but don't have balls. what about you?


do you want desi guys to be like mexicans...and hit on every woman that can walk... hell they probably hit on the handicap too

parkinlotpimp
May 11th, 2005, 11:13 PM
ill go up to almos any girl i dont care time or place unless she's with a guy but i start talkin to random girls desi or not

XprtNYYKY
May 11th, 2005, 11:50 PM
as i was asking hydro in another thread, i realized desi guys seem less likely to hit on a girl. do you find yourself more shy to approach a girl than other guys--or just to approach a desi girl versus other girls?

a lot look but don't have balls. what about you?

i dont usually hit on girls like my boys (its not my style), if i want somebody i approach em'. (doesnt matter what race,color), nothing to be shy about.
advice to the fellas - you dont always have to approach a girl with your mackin' in full swing..you can just be yourself and talk to her, ask her things about her...girls love talkin bout' themselves.

MR2Turbo
May 12th, 2005, 12:22 AM
Desi girls r far 4rom stuck up,there was tis girl on da train tat kept lookin at me and moved 4rom sitting with her friend 2 sitting on another chair with an empty seat on it and looked at me, she then went back 2 sitting with her friends after i wast intrested. i tink she wanted my number.
Happened to me before. This fine ass female either latina or desi sat a couple of seats next to me on the bus. At the bus stop she kept peeping me, and I being who I am was peeping her.

It was the perfect opportunity, but nothing transpired.

This happened during a religious time where girls arent exactly a priority. That held me back.

When she left, she was peeping me through the window.

Opportunity lost.

SIXPAK GQ
May 12th, 2005, 12:25 AM
as i was asking hydro in another thread, i realized desi guys seem less likely to hit on a girl. do you find yourself more shy to approach a girl than other guys--or just to approach a desi girl versus other girls?

a lot look but don't have balls. what about you?

everyone knows that there is so kind of hating going on with us desis....so its a little different when the opposite sex desis meet together....

i do lot of public speaking so it doesn't bother me to approach anyone...

SIXPAK GQ
May 12th, 2005, 12:28 AM
i dont know what it is. i feel like desi guys are just more shy. maybe they think i'm a bitch :(




there are people who approachable and some that aren't.

do you have a positive body language? smile a lot? make enough eye contact? do you have a outgoing personality?

Aurovon
May 12th, 2005, 12:30 AM
no, i just talk to guys. i tried talking to girls but they tell me to just talk to guys. so i just talk to guys.

SIXPAK GQ
May 12th, 2005, 12:31 AM
:hug: awww

thanks reaz. there should be more desi guys like you :hug:


i just realized maybe because i dont have many desi girl friends at all? like barely. maybe if was hanging out with some they would realize i was desi? :sarb: i dont know im trying to justify this lol.


people at UC Berkley area seem very friendly. you find different kinds of people there and activities..

SIXPAK GQ
May 12th, 2005, 12:33 AM
over the past month at school, i can think of 2 specific desi guys have have come up to me and initiated a coversation. although i had 2 come sit on either side of me in psych lecture, but that doesnt really count to me.


i wish they werent so shy. i like friendly, outgoing guys. :)


this is probably b/c they had bad experiences with desi girls before so they elimidate you even before giving you any chances, hope that sounds about right...

SIXPAK GQ
May 12th, 2005, 12:34 AM
guys. she's single. approach her before she goes.


thats one reason girls are single..of course some bad boy is always going to approach and get her number and nice guys will be left out...

SIXPAK GQ
May 12th, 2005, 12:37 AM
if she makes eye contact then yes


Girls walk into a room and check out every guy in there. They know right away if theyre interested or not. Why would a girl make eye contact with someone they dont want to speak to?



it doesnt mean she is still romantically interested in you...most people make eye contact and smile these days anyway...any girl that is outgoing will talk to just about anyone who is non-threatning...

SIXPAK GQ
May 12th, 2005, 12:39 AM
but you risk the chance of NEVER seeing her again. ever.


its ok, there are hundreds on other girls on campus

SIXPAK GQ
May 12th, 2005, 12:40 AM
come to new york, and you'll know exactly what i mean.

desi girls just put up this wall, and the moment you look at em, you see tbe wall and the sign on the wall that says "no trespassing". they put up this wall for anybody and everybody, not just desi guys, but i think they just put up a higher wall for desi guys.

of course there are cool desi girls too, and there are desi sluts (how do you know em? they go to sasa), but for the most part, you can just tell that desi girls are uncomfortable around guys that might hit on em.



NY and California people act like snobs...but not Texas....

SIXPAK GQ
May 12th, 2005, 12:41 AM
:no: im gonna be a loner and see how that works for me.

how many uve been attending UC Berkley. my friend Navin goes there

SIXPAK GQ
May 12th, 2005, 12:44 AM
lol you didnt really go to sasa. you went to the sunday night party. im talking about girls who go to sasa for all four days, plus some, so they can get teh cack!

didnt you say you aren't that desi? so you aren't the typical brown female... mabe that's why you're outgoing? how many brown girls do you know who are that outgoing? i really dont think most brown girls are stuck up or whatever; i think they just come off as being stuck up because they arent that outgoing, and they dont feel very comfortable around men.

u have realize desi girls are raised diffferent homes compare to other ethnicities....it plays a huge role

the gothman
May 12th, 2005, 12:45 AM
blasphemy!

men are stupid if they think they are going to get laid, yet not approaching the lady. its just common sense.

SIXPAK GQ
May 12th, 2005, 12:48 AM
Never approached a girl in my life and if all goes well never will!


yea u will.....


it about the attitude

SIXPAK GQ
May 12th, 2005, 12:49 AM
so if you saw a beautiful girl sitting down by herself on a bench staring at you with her dreamy eyes, flashing you a killer smile, you'd pass up the opportunity?!


just like he stated, NEVER WILL!

SIXPAK GQ
May 12th, 2005, 12:56 AM
i've never had a 'desi' girl approach me, but i have had desi girls get their friends to approach me.

Now I do most of the approaching if I see a girl I like...but I approach trying to get to know them better...not in a 'lets go to my place' type of way.
Desi girls born here are still really shy in my experience and i think that comes off as being stuck up sometimes. The last few girls I have approached all had boyfriends though, which sucked.



thats why they got DJ Bible...i don't care if they gotta b/f or not....

SIXPAK GQ
May 12th, 2005, 01:00 AM
no, i just talk to guys. i tried talking to girls but they tell me to just talk to guys. so i just talk to guys.

that was funny!

SIXPAK GQ
May 12th, 2005, 11:06 PM
Bump

FallOnTheOreos
May 12th, 2005, 11:21 PM
how many uve been attending UC Berkley. my friend Navin goes there


it was my first year. i survived freshman year. :)

SIXPAK GQ
May 13th, 2005, 12:00 AM
it was my first year. i survived freshman year. :)


aren't u gonna respond to all the my message? i spent some time in this thread u know....

FallOnTheOreos
May 13th, 2005, 12:08 AM
aren't u gonna respond to all the my message? i spent some time in this thread u know....


lol, you know, i have a lot to say to you. i find myself feeling quite lethargic right now...like, i don't wanna right now. eventually, you will get the attention you desire. promise :giggle:

SIXPAK GQ
May 13th, 2005, 12:10 AM
lol, you know, i have a lot to say to you. i find myself feeling quite lethargic right now...like, i don't wanna right now. eventually, you will get the attention you desire. promise :giggle:



i know u have, so wear ur seat belt b/c u are going on a wild ride!

its not like this thread is going to locked or anything, plus I am going to keeping bumping it anyway!

Arjuna
May 13th, 2005, 12:13 AM
blasphemy!

men are stupid if they think they are going to get laid, yet not approaching the lady. its just common sense.
thats true i dont really carei f she asks or i ask, as long as i like her and she likes me.. altho sometimes if shes really good in my terms i get nervous and my english screws up and i cant even talk.. well i do but it becomes frkin obvious.

FallOnTheOreos
May 13th, 2005, 12:15 AM
i know u have, so wear ur seat belt b/c u are going on a wild ride!

its not like this thread is going to locked or anything, plus I am going to keeping bumping it anyway!


comment number one: :no: ive seen better

























:giggle:



:p i couldnt help myself


ill come back later.

SIXPAK GQ
May 13th, 2005, 12:16 AM
comment number one: :no: ive seen better

























:giggle:



:p i couldnt help myself


ill come back later.


that did not require any thinking

chunky
May 13th, 2005, 12:16 AM
comment number one: :no: ive seen better

























:giggle:



:p i couldnt help myself


ill come back later.

:Owned:

-TITAN-
May 13th, 2005, 12:22 AM
i find it hard to approach all girls not just desi :neutral:

SIXPAK GQ
May 13th, 2005, 12:34 AM
i find it hard to approach all girls not just desi :neutral:



why, so tell me whats the worst that is going to happen?

its not like they are a threat to MANkind

-TITAN-
May 13th, 2005, 12:45 AM
why, so tell me whats the worst that is going to happen?

its not like they are a threat to MANkind

i know what you mean but...i don't know, thats just the way i am

FallOnTheOreos
May 13th, 2005, 01:49 AM
why, so tell me whats the worst that is going to happen?

its not like they are a threat to MANkind


post your face.

Mack-X
May 13th, 2005, 02:05 AM
as i was asking hydro in another thread, i realized desi guys seem less likely to hit on a girl. do you find yourself more shy to approach a girl than other guys--or just to approach a desi girl versus other girls?

a lot look but don't have balls. what about you?


I tend to steer away from desi girls... or is it the other way around :sarb: anywho, I don't have any desi girlfriends anymore. even my friend's wives stay away from me... except for one, but she doesn't know me that well yet

oh yah, im good

FallOnTheOreos
May 13th, 2005, 02:10 AM
I tend to steer away from desi girls... or is it the other way around :sarb: anywho, I don't have any desi girlfriends anymore. even my friend's wives stay away from me... except for one, but she doesn't know me that well yet

oh yah, im good


interesting. why no more desi girlfriends?

Arjuna
May 13th, 2005, 08:20 AM
post your face.
lmao

karan!!
May 13th, 2005, 08:42 AM
sowwy.. I wouldn't come and talk to you.

Chronos
May 13th, 2005, 10:44 AM
interesting. why no more desi girlfriends?

You know, I've noticed from the people around me that a lot of desi guys suffer from this condition where they'll go out/date/have an affair with white girls just to pass time and have fun and then later on dump them, settle down and marry a desi girl.

This whole phenomenon basically standing on these assumptions:

- white girls are easier than brown ones

- white girls don't really care if they screw around, but that sorta thing may affect a brown girl a whole lot.

- it is usually impossible to be committed to a white girl because her values would be totally different. But they're a helluva lotta fun to screw around with!

These assumptions that a lot of desi guys make basically steer them away from dating desi girls. But when it comes to marriage, it's the desi girl they'll be looking for.

What do I think about this? Horseshit. I've known white girls who are much more respectable and decent than some brown ones. So it's really all just a silly and sick game it seems.

FallOnTheOreos
May 13th, 2005, 12:36 PM
sowwy.. I wouldn't come and talk to you.


why? is it the attraction factor or are you just shy? :sarb:

FallOnTheOreos
May 13th, 2005, 12:37 PM
You know, I've noticed from the people around me that a lot of desi guys suffer from this condition where they'll go out/date/have an affair with white girls just to pass time and have fun and then later on dump them, settle down and marry a desi girl.

This whole phenomenon basically standing on these assumptions:

- white girls are easier than brown ones

- white girls don't really care if they screw around, but that sorta thing may affect a brown girl a whole lot.

- it is usually impossible to be committed to a white girl because her values would be totally different. But they're a helluva lotta fun to screw around with!

These assumptions that a lot of desi guys make basically steer them away from dating desi girls. But when it comes to marriage, it's the desi girl they'll be looking for.

What do I think about this? Horseshit. I've known white girls who are much more respectable and decent than some brown ones. So it's really all just a silly and sick game it seems.

i guess that's how a lot of them can be. its a stupid game they play. :no:

FallOnTheOreos
May 13th, 2005, 12:38 PM
lmao


oooh and i meant it. sixpaq seriously--POST IT. or else you will be ignored. yes, yes that is how it shall work. :giggle:

chunky
May 13th, 2005, 01:03 PM
oooh and i meant it. sixpaq seriously--POST IT. or else you will be ignored. yes, yes that is how it shall work. :giggle:

LMAO.

FallOnTheOreos
May 13th, 2005, 01:05 PM
LMAO.


see, you i like. i never pressured you into showing me your pics and yet you did. :) regardless, even if you hadnt done so, i would have liked you nontheless.


no, that same treatment does not apply to you sixpaq. :neutral:

chunky
May 13th, 2005, 01:15 PM
see, you i like. i never pressured you into showing me your pics and yet you did. :) regardless, even if you hadnt done so, i would have liked you nontheless.


no, that same treatment does not apply to you sixpaq. :neutral:

yeah, you kinda guilted me into doing it by sending me 2038420938423840293482039482309482340298409284 pics, so I was like hmm, guess I should be fair & show her some of mine.

FallOnTheOreos
May 13th, 2005, 01:17 PM
yeah, you kinda guilted me into doing it by sending me 2038420938423840293482039482309482340298409284 pics, so I was like hmm, guess I should be fair & show her some of mine.


:oops: well, i had a lot more. :giggle: what can i say, im quite a fan of myself


:p

chunky
May 13th, 2005, 01:19 PM
:oops: well, i had a lot more. :giggle: what can i say, im quite a fan of myself


:p

yeah, it's not hard to like the oreos. :Pelvic2:

I esp like to chew them up w/o swallowing, and kinda mix it around in my mouth so when I smile, my grill looks all jacked up. :kekeke:

FallOnTheOreos
May 13th, 2005, 01:21 PM
yeah, it's not hard to like the oreos. :Pelvic2:

I esp like to chew them up w/o swallowing, and kinda mix it around in my mouth so when I smile, my grill looks all jacked up. :kekeke:


:giggle: eww

chunky
May 13th, 2005, 01:23 PM
:giggle: eww
my ex used to love it when i'd do that & try to smooch her. Once, she didn't realize, so she smooched me, and you see this look on her face when she feels the chunks of cookie on my tongue & pushes me off, I give her a toothy smile, and she slapped the snot out of me.

FallOnTheOreos
May 13th, 2005, 01:38 PM
my ex used to love it when i'd do that & try to smooch her. Once, she didn't realize, so she smooched me, and you see this look on her face when she feels the chunks of cookie on my tongue & pushes me off, I give her a toothy smile, and she slapped the snot out of me.


:roflwtf: i have to say, if my boy did that, i would find it disgustingly cute :sarb: hehe and then i would do something just as gross to him :giggle:

chunky
May 13th, 2005, 01:53 PM
:roflwtf: i have to say, if my boy did that, i would find it disgustingly cute :sarb: hehe and then i would do something just as gross to him :giggle:

yeah, she always got me back good. hahah. oh the stories I could tell.

FallOnTheOreos
May 13th, 2005, 02:14 PM
yeah, she always got me back good. hahah. oh the stories I could tell.


ooooh ooh gimme ideas!! :p hehe

lovindia
May 13th, 2005, 02:26 PM
I get really shy talking to a girl

chunky
May 13th, 2005, 02:47 PM
ooooh ooh gimme ideas!! :p hehe

hahaa. maybe i'll share the stories later.

FallOnTheOreos
May 13th, 2005, 03:14 PM
I get really shy talking to a girl


would u be shy talking to me even if it was on the phone and u were helping me fix my dell computer? :giggle:

FallOnTheOreos
May 13th, 2005, 03:14 PM
hahaa. maybe i'll share the stories later.

i want some nowwww :anger:

TeaHatingBrit
May 13th, 2005, 03:16 PM
as i was asking hydro in another thread, i realized desi guys seem less likely to hit on a girl. do you find yourself more shy to approach a girl than other guys--or just to approach a desi girl versus other girls?

a lot look but don't have balls. what about you?


haha acutaly i tink its easier 2 go up 2 a desi chic then like a whtie chic 4 some ruddy reason

Pardesi_bhai
May 13th, 2005, 03:18 PM
as i was asking hydro in another thread, i realized desi guys seem less likely to hit on a girl. do you find yourself more shy to approach a girl than other guys--or just to approach a desi girl versus other girls?

a lot look but don't have balls. what about you?
im one of em :D

WonkaBear
May 13th, 2005, 03:19 PM
as i was asking hydro in another thread, i realized desi guys seem less likely to hit on a girl. do you find yourself more shy to approach a girl than other guys--or just to approach a desi girl versus other girls?

a lot look but don't have balls. what about you?

Damn.... ur a hottie...

But if I saw u in real life, I would look once, be impressed, then i would hope to never make eye contact again...

lol

forget me hittin on u... ive only done that twice... even though i was successful both times... u desi girls scare me...

FallOnTheOreos
May 13th, 2005, 03:20 PM
most desi girls want you to commit to em the first time you say hi to em.

scary i know :wiggle:

lol weirdos.

FallOnTheOreos
May 13th, 2005, 03:21 PM
im one of em :D

why? WHY be so scared?!
i won't bite :sarb:




hard. :giggle:

FallOnTheOreos
May 13th, 2005, 03:22 PM
Damn.... ur a hottie...

But if I saw u in real life, I would look once, be impressed, then i would hope to never make eye contact again...

lol

forget me hittin on u... ive only done that twice... even though i was successful both times... u desi girls scare me...


lol thanks wonka. :) so what if i was making direct eye contact with you and gave you a smile? would you make the first move or wait on me to do so?

FallOnTheOreos
May 13th, 2005, 03:24 PM
goshdangit! i fell on the oreos again!

:p


:hahano:


silly dude.

Pardesi_bhai
May 13th, 2005, 03:27 PM
why? WHY be so scared?!
i won't bite :sarb:




hard. :giggle:
its not bout the intensity of the bite, hehe, its just that, i look at somebody, and im like, naw, she probably got boys after her, or maybe she already hooked up, and stuff

FallOnTheOreos
May 13th, 2005, 03:27 PM
its not bout the intensity of the bite, hehe, its just that, i look at somebody, and im like, naw, she probably got boys after her, or maybe she already hooked up, and stuff

so it is a mere matter of self-doubt?

WonkaBear
May 13th, 2005, 03:29 PM
lol thanks wonka. :) so what if i was making direct eye contact with you and gave you a smile? would you make the first move or wait on me to do so?]


Ooo La La... u would make the first move.... how awesome!!!

LoL... it really all depends... 90 percent of the time I would wait for u to make the first move...

but even if u make the first move... it might not go anywhere... i got a long history of that too...

but ive changed a bit, i might actually go for it... or if u came up to me... i would have something to say...

back in my younger days i would be like a deer staring into headlights if a gorgeous girl ever talked to me... i think ive gotten use to that now...


:p

FallOnTheOreos
May 13th, 2005, 03:33 PM
]


Ooo La La... u would make the first move.... how awesome!!!

LoL... it really all depends... 90 percent of the time I would wait for u to make the first move...

but even if u make the first move... it might not go anywhere... i got a long history of that too...

but ive changed a bit, i might actually go for it... or if u came up to me... i would have something to say...

back in my younger days i would be like a deer staring into headlights if a gorgeous girl ever talked to me... i think ive gotten use to that now...


:p


yeah, if the guy has the ability to catch my attention, i would make the first move.:cool: but see, im used to being approached by guys, except for desi ones. :sarb: so generally im the one to wait. which i guess would lead to nowhere. :neutral:

WonkaBear
May 13th, 2005, 03:44 PM
yeah, if the guy has the ability to catch my attention, i would make the first move.:cool: but see, im used to being approached by guys, except for desi ones. :sarb: so generally im the one to wait. which i guess would lead to nowhere. :neutral:

Oki...

Since I know u from rd... and find u :dribble:

How about i come find u on berkley campus when i go salmon fishin up there, and we just hit it off...


:p

FallOnTheOreos
May 13th, 2005, 03:55 PM
Oki...

Since I know u from rd... and find u :dribble:

How about i come find u on berkEley campus when i go salmon fishin up there, and we just hit it off...


:p


lol, i don't think pari would be too enthusiastic about that :giggle: come to think of it, my boy wouldn't be too pleased either. :sarb:



:p when are u coming up? lol

chunky
May 13th, 2005, 03:59 PM
i want some nowwww :anger:

:slap2: get in line woman.


I got no time for needy broads. :squint:

FallOnTheOreos
May 13th, 2005, 04:03 PM
:slap2: get in line woman.


I got no time for needy broads. :squint:


:gayfight: let's not go there buddy.



:giggle:

Pardesi_bhai
May 13th, 2005, 04:54 PM
so it is a mere matter of self-doubt?
more of a presonality thing

FallOnTheOreos
May 13th, 2005, 04:57 PM
more of a presonality thing

mmm like you're just hella shy?

vikvik12
May 13th, 2005, 05:03 PM
so whats the topic of this thread again?

Pardesi_bhai
May 13th, 2005, 05:22 PM
mmm like you're just hella shy?
not hella shy, just a lil :) but if u look me in the eye, ill tell u this much, im not gonna be the first one to look down ;)

ali_tx
May 13th, 2005, 05:24 PM
i've never hit on chicks :sarb: i don't talk a lot, cept for only the people i am friends with..ya it's weird but i am like that
i guess i am shy lol i won't even make eye contact, just walk away :o

FallOnTheOreos
May 13th, 2005, 05:31 PM
so whats the topic of this thread again?

read the first post darling. :neutral:

FallOnTheOreos
May 13th, 2005, 05:32 PM
not hella shy, just a lil :) but if u look me in the eye, ill tell u this much, im not gonna be the first one to look down ;)


so what if i kept staring at you like theres no tomorrow?

FallOnTheOreos
May 13th, 2005, 05:32 PM
i've never hit on chicks :sarb: i don't talk a lot, cept for only the people i am friends with..ya it's weird but i am like that
i guess i am shy lol i won't even make eye contact, just walk away :o


:no: you are a shy one.

Pardesi_bhai
May 13th, 2005, 05:57 PM
so what if i kept staring at you like theres no tomorrow?
then, its on baby!

FallOnTheOreos
May 13th, 2005, 06:06 PM
then, its on baby!

but, apparently it wouldnt be. :giggle:


:roflwtf:

T.Dimera
May 13th, 2005, 06:13 PM
i could never have my friends approach a guy I was interested in :rolleyes: lol that's just odd to me. maybe some desi girls you meet are shy...i think im just friendlier than some. i dunno :sarb:


if you approach guys that you think are cute and introduce yourself; your already friendlier then 99% of desi girls who would rather jump off of a cliff then talk to some a guy their attracted to for the 1st time.

FallOnTheOreos
May 13th, 2005, 06:15 PM
if you approach guys that you think are cute and introduce yourself; your already friendlier then 99% of desi girls who would rather jump off of a cliff then talk to some a guy their attracted to for the 1st time.


:cool: yayy

SIXPAK GQ
May 13th, 2005, 11:05 PM
post your face.

Thats not even related to the topic on top of that i am following meg's trend

SIXPAK GQ
May 13th, 2005, 11:09 PM
You know, I've noticed from the people around me that a lot of desi guys suffer from this condition where they'll go out/date/have an affair with white girls just to pass time and have fun and then later on dump them, settle down and marry a desi girl.

This whole phenomenon basically standing on these assumptions:

- white girls are easier than brown ones

- white girls don't really care if they screw around, but that sorta thing may affect a brown girl a whole lot.

- it is usually impossible to be committed to a white girl because her values would be totally different. But they're a helluva lotta fun to screw around with!

These assumptions that a lot of desi guys make basically steer them away from dating desi girls. But when it comes to marriage, it's the desi girl they'll be looking for.

What do I think about this? Horseshit. I've known white girls who are much more respectable and decent than some brown ones. So it's really all just a silly and sick game it seems.

thats just ur stereotype. the only difference is the desi girls screw around on the DL. When it comes to marriage, it does not neccesarily has to be a desi girl. I know for sure i won't ever be marrying a desi girl.

SIXPAK GQ
May 13th, 2005, 11:11 PM
oooh and i meant it. sixpaq seriously--POST IT. or else you will be ignored. yes, yes that is how it shall work. :giggle:

how does it effect my comments on this thread and the thread's topic? I could care less if I get ignored, and I know u have read my comments so if u want u can keep it ur replies to urself.....

SIXPAK GQ
May 13th, 2005, 11:12 PM
see, you i like. i never pressured you into showing me your pics and yet you did. :) regardless, even if you hadnt done so, i would have liked you nontheless.


no, that same treatment does not apply to you sixpaq. :neutral:

why is that? discrimination?

SIXPAK GQ
May 13th, 2005, 11:14 PM
would u be shy talking to me even if it was on the phone and u were helping me fix my dell computer? :giggle:


i use to work for dell.....help u on the phone? hell i'll come to place and fix it.

SIXPAK GQ
May 13th, 2005, 11:16 PM
its not bout the intensity of the bite, hehe, its just that, i look at somebody, and im like, naw, she probably got boys after her, or maybe she already hooked up, and stuff

its a mental game...too many things going on people's minds..she would think u r trying to hit on her...even though u may not be....

SIXPAK GQ
May 13th, 2005, 11:19 PM
not hella shy, just a lil :) but if u look me in the eye, ill tell u this much, im not gonna be the first one to look down ;)


u r not shy...u just have Anxiety..dont confuse the two...

SIXPAK GQ
May 13th, 2005, 11:22 PM
:no: you are a shy one.


people confuse shyness and anxiety....most people suffer from anxiety disorder...

FallOnTheOreos
May 13th, 2005, 11:29 PM
Thats not even related to the topic on top of that i am following meg's trend

hello. humor is such a thing. my face is posted. shit, you want my body too? go look at sam's thread about converting somethin something to gif--cuz i posted a body pic there. i dont get why u just wont post your face.

but about your body, i have seen better. :giggle:


im not gonna reply to all of your nonsense just yet. im busy :)

mmMoOoHhhh
May 13th, 2005, 11:32 PM
as i was asking hydro in another thread, i realized desi guys seem less likely to hit on a girl. do you find yourself more shy to approach a girl than other guys--or just to approach a desi girl versus other girls?

a lot look but don't have balls. what about you?
I honestly will go up to anyone; at school, in the elevator, in class, in the bathroom (lol jk). tho what i actually say to them i dont know, sometimes i say something stupid its usually goofy so atleast they laughed.

SIXPAK GQ
May 13th, 2005, 11:37 PM
hello. humor is such a thing. my face is posted. shit, you want my body too? go look at sam's thread about converting somethin something to gif--cuz i posted a body pic there. i dont get why u just wont post your face.

but about your body, i have seen better. :giggle:


im not gonna reply to all of your nonsense just yet. im busy :)

i still got my half face....i am not here to make enemies...just a friendly person who likes to discuss topics that interest me and this is one of them. i know u have seen better, i could care less. but its up to if u want to reply to my comments or not.....there were threads like this in the past and there will be more like this one......

my nonsense just yet eh? so u r doing ur homework huh....i know its a brain twister

SIXPAK GQ
May 13th, 2005, 11:41 PM
I honestly will go up to anyone; at school, in the elevator, in class, in the bathroom (lol jk). tho what i actually say to them i dont know, sometimes i say something stupid its usually goofy so atleast they laughed.


thats cool, i use to be like that when i was young....at 27...i can't be too goofy though

FallOnTheOreos
May 14th, 2005, 12:30 AM
i still got my half face....i am not here to make enemies...just a friendly person who likes to discuss topics that interest me and this is one of them. i know u have seen better, i could care less. but its up to if u want to reply to my comments or not.....there were threads like this in the past and there will be more like this one......

my nonsense just yet eh? so u r doing ur homework huh....i know its a brain twister

and im not trying to be mean, im just really curious. and plus--if i ever run into you, how will i ever know? :giggle:

FallOnTheOreos
May 14th, 2005, 12:32 AM
thats cool, i use to be like that when i was young....at 27...i can't be too goofy though


lol grandpa! almost 30 :shock:

one of these should be your new avatar: :grandpa: or :bigsmurf: cuz they have a face!! :p

SIXPAK GQ
May 14th, 2005, 12:42 AM
lol grandpa! almost 30 :shock:

one of these should be your new avatar: :grandpa: or :bigsmurf: cuz they have a face!! :p


and ur point is? still not as old as ur grandpa...

SIXPAK GQ
May 14th, 2005, 12:43 AM
and im not trying to be mean, im just really curious. and plus--if i ever run into you, how will i ever know? :giggle:


I am never going to run into u...i have left bay area for good!

but u may meet my good friend Navin.....:)...don't worry he looks good, probably one of the tallest desis around at 6'6"

FallOnTheOreos
May 14th, 2005, 04:59 PM
and ur point is? still not as old as ur grandpa...


:( my grandpa died 7 years ago.


you live in san jose? i go shopping there--it's a small world buddy :p

SaM5246
May 14th, 2005, 05:13 PM
as i was asking hydro in another thread, i realized desi guys seem less likely to hit on a girl. do you find yourself more shy to approach a girl than other guys--or just to approach a desi girl versus other girls?

a lot look but don't have balls. what about you?
yes i have balls, want me to prove it

infamous_ali
May 14th, 2005, 06:12 PM
as i was asking hydro in another thread, i realized desi guys seem less likely to hit on a girl. do you find yourself more shy to approach a girl than other guys--or just to approach a desi girl versus other girls?

a lot look but don't have balls. what about you?
that is either stereo typing or im not a desi man :neutral:

FallOnTheOreos
May 14th, 2005, 07:10 PM
yes i have balls, want me to prove it

nah its k. thanks for the offer. that just proved you do.

FallOnTheOreos
May 14th, 2005, 07:11 PM
that is either stereo typing or im not a desi man :neutral:
:dance3:

it was based on experience.

SIXPAK GQ
May 14th, 2005, 11:59 PM
:( my grandpa died 7 years ago.


you live in san jose? i go shopping there--it's a small world buddy :p


I am sorry. my Father died 15 years ago.

I use to live in San Jo for 13 years and 2 years in Hayward. It is a small only you and I are both from bay area. Valley Fair is a nice mall in San Jose.

FallOnTheOreos
May 15th, 2005, 12:01 AM
I am sorry. my Father died 15 years ago.

I use to live in San Jo for 13 years and 2 years in Hayward. It is a small only you and I are both from bay area. Valley Fair is a nice mall in San Jose.

:hug: im sorry man. we should go shopping sometime :p maybe halloween, so you can wear a mask and not worry about me seeing your face.


:giggle: i couldnt help myself

*runs away* bbl :)

SIXPAK GQ
May 15th, 2005, 12:28 AM
:hug: im sorry man. we should go shopping sometime :p maybe halloween, so you can wear a mask and not worry about me seeing your face.


:giggle: i couldnt help myself

*runs away* bbl :)

like i said earlier in my post. i have left bay area from good. I left in 2003!. maybe someone day i will comeback, god knows....


heh, that was a good joke...wear a mask and be naked huh?

FallOnTheOreos
May 15th, 2005, 02:29 PM
like i said earlier in my post. i have left bay area from good. I left in 2003!. maybe someone day i will comeback, god knows....


heh, that was a good joke...wear a mask and be naked huh?


why'd you leave? too many people saw your face?? :sarb:

Pardesi_bhai
May 15th, 2005, 02:30 PM
but, apparently it wouldnt be. :giggle:


:roflwtf:
:roflwtf:

FallOnTheOreos
May 15th, 2005, 02:32 PM
:roflwtf:
seeing as how im taken :p

Pardesi_bhai
May 15th, 2005, 02:36 PM
seeing as how im taken :p
that why theres cheating :dance3:

FallOnTheOreos
May 15th, 2005, 02:37 PM
that why theres cheating :dance3:
:no: i like him way way way too much.

SIXPAK GQ
May 15th, 2005, 04:46 PM
why'd you leave? too many people saw your face?? :sarb:

Cost of living too expensive.

FallOnTheOreos
May 15th, 2005, 05:02 PM
Cost of living too expensive.


get another job?
:dance3:

SIXPAK GQ
May 15th, 2005, 05:09 PM
get another job?
:dance3:


umm no. it does not work that way. Why should I live in Cali where the average real estate price is 450K per property where I can buy the same sh*t in Texas for around 150K.

and i don't have to work 2 jobs either to kill myself and have no social life.

FallOnTheOreos
May 15th, 2005, 05:48 PM
umm no. it does not work that way. Why should I live in Cali where the average real estate price is 450K per property where I can buy the same sh*t in Texas for around 150K.

and i don't have to work 2 jobs either to kill myself and have no social life.

did you know atherton, ca (like near menlo park ish area) has the highest real estate prices in america? like the whole city..i think average income is like 300k per year. :shock:
but i see what you mean.

still, the bay area is nice. except, i cant wait to leave. lol

SIXPAK GQ
May 17th, 2005, 12:56 AM
did you know atherton, ca (like near menlo park ish area) has the highest real estate prices in america? like the whole city..i think average income is like 300k per year. :shock:
but i see what you mean.

still, the bay area is nice. except, i cant wait to leave. lol


last time i checked was Santa Clara County had the highest real estate. you have to made atleast 40K a year bay area to survive alone.

where u leaving?

FallOnTheOreos
May 17th, 2005, 01:35 AM
last time i checked was Santa Clara County had the highest real estate. you have to made atleast 40K a year bay area to survive alone.

where u leaving?


im going to the east coast :dance3:

SIXPAK GQ
May 17th, 2005, 01:35 AM
im going to the east coast :dance3:

what part, thats a big change

FallOnTheOreos
May 17th, 2005, 01:39 AM
what part, thats a big change


change is good. new england-ish area or mid-atlantic. i still have like 3 years. :(

its exciting to think about though :giggle:

Vision350z
May 17th, 2005, 03:18 AM
guys are nice, so therefore i havent had an experience where he's like "the fuck bitch!?" so i think that's why i havent been scared off..they get flirty after i approach them. but i wonder, why can't desi guys ever approach me? i dont have to approach other guys.
you haven't met me yet ;)

FallOnTheOreos
May 17th, 2005, 11:54 AM
you haven't met me yet ;)


maybe when i go to the meet in md in imaginary form! :dance3:

Vision350z
May 17th, 2005, 01:37 PM
maybe when i go to the meet in md in imaginary form! :dance3:
maybe we can make imaginary babies too :Oops:

FallOnTheOreos
May 17th, 2005, 01:39 PM
maybe we can make imaginary babies too :Oops:

:dunno:

but not real ones when i really do go to md again. :p

Vision350z
May 17th, 2005, 01:44 PM
:dunno:

but not real ones when i really do go to md again. :p
aww and i had my hopes up so high :(

what do u got in md anyways? plannin on goin there anytime soon?

FallOnTheOreos
May 17th, 2005, 01:54 PM
aww and i had my hopes up so high :(

what do u got in md anyways? plannin on goin there anytime soon?
:giggle: yeah most likely this summer. visit some of my most fav ppl in the world :D

maybe we can have a party :dance3: im gonna go study, bbl

Vision350z
May 17th, 2005, 01:55 PM
:giggle: yeah most likely this summer. visit some of my most fav ppl in the world :D

maybe we can have a party :dance3: im gonna go study, bbl
cool, really? cuz ur smilies made it seem like ur tryin to fool me. we'll throw a party in D.C. ;) and don't deny that i'm #1 in ur fav ppl's list but we don't have to debate that rite now, go study :) i'm off to work, later gator

FallOnTheOreos
May 17th, 2005, 02:25 PM
cool, really? cuz ur smilies made it seem like ur tryin to fool me. we'll throw a party in D.C. ;) and don't deny that i'm #1 in ur fav ppl's list but we don't have to debate that rite now, go study :) i'm off to work, later gator


lol, no im serious. we should party in D.C :) have a nice day at work :dance3:

SIXPAK GQ
May 17th, 2005, 07:07 PM
fall : desi guys don't approach u b/c u'd think they want to get into ur pants....i can't think of any other reason unless he is a shy person.....plus females tend to shoot down many guys that approach them so they would be wondering about how to act and fail to talk normally which makes them nervous...

T.Dimera
May 17th, 2005, 08:05 PM
fall : desi guys don't approach u b/c u'd think they want to get into ur pants....i can't think of any other reason unless he is a shy person.....plus females tend to shoot down many guys that approach them so they would be wondering about how to act and fail to talk normally which makes them nervous...

i've tried to change that unintentionally...at times when i'm having trouble closing, i'd approach the girls build the c&f, and right at the high point i would end the conversation without a # close. I remember some of those girls got an ego check that not every guy is interested in them.

FallOnTheOreos
May 17th, 2005, 10:08 PM
fall : desi guys don't approach u b/c u'd think they want to get into ur pants....i can't think of any other reason unless he is a shy person.....plus females tend to shoot down many guys that approach them so they would be wondering about how to act and fail to talk normally which makes them nervous...


i do shoot down many guys. :sarb:

but how do they know i dont want them to get in my pants? :p

FallOnTheOreos
May 17th, 2005, 10:08 PM
i've tried to change that unintentionally...at times when i'm having trouble closing, i'd approach the girls build the c&f, and right at the high point i would end the conversation without a # close. I remember some of those girls got an ego check that not every guy is interested in them.


:dunno: so you want to mess with their minds eh?

SIXPAK GQ
May 17th, 2005, 10:16 PM
i do shoot down many guys. :sarb:

but how do they know i dont want them to get in my pants? :p



There u go, chances are if desi guys approached you, ud probably shoot down a couple.....

Do you think guys that approach think they want to get into ur pants?

T.Dimera
May 17th, 2005, 10:38 PM
:dunno: so you want to mess with their minds eh?

well if most girls think that if a guy approaches them and strikes up a conversation; he only wants one thing as sixpak eluded to. In my case, I got the girl interested but then didn't ask for her # for irrelevant reasons. So I guess if the girl was expecting me to ask for her #, that didn't happen.

FallOnTheOreos
May 17th, 2005, 10:43 PM
There u go, chances are if desi guys approached you, ud probably shoot down a couple.....

Do you think guys that approach think they want to get into ur pants?

not necessarily. i can tell by how i am approached. :p

FallOnTheOreos
May 17th, 2005, 10:44 PM
well if most girls think that if a guy approaches them and strikes up a conversation; he only wants one thing as sixpak eluded to. In my case, I got the girl interested but then didn't ask for her # for irrelevant reasons. So I guess if the girl was expecting me to ask for her #, that didn't happen.


mind games. :squint:

T.Dimera
May 17th, 2005, 10:54 PM
mind games. :squint:

well unintentional mind games...i chickened out on asking their #...but they didn't know that :neutral: