View Full Version : How can i get over a guy???
DESI-PEACHES
April 30th, 2005, 07:13 AM
At high school i had so many crushes but one thing happened I was madly in love with this guy he was my very distant cousin although he aint my related cousin at all his parents was best friends with my parents so we see each other occasionally... anyway I was falling in love with him as the time goes by even though our parents doesnt know our feelings for each other...sometimes he doesnt talks to me cos my brother always there hukin up with him...that was 5 years ago now...he got married recently and he bringing his girl back in uk (he got married bk home in bangladesh) and am kinda not like get over him yet...He havin a party to show his wife off basically am invited along with my family how can i face up to him?? I need to show him that i am over him how do i do that?? thanks in advance!! am in dilemma these days!!
Robiul
April 30th, 2005, 07:39 AM
Lol easy ...just pretend that u dont know him or jus act like u forget that's everything thats happened
PINKLEATHER
April 30th, 2005, 07:42 AM
not like he carried about u he got married so allow him
find sum1 else .. and look in da mirror and say im so better den him.. dat will work.. and hopefully he will have a ugly wife so dat will make u feel better
go 2 da party and just keep askin how about the food.. so den ull kinda get over him and he'll knows shes over me 2
DESI-PEACHES
April 30th, 2005, 07:42 AM
But ive liked him for like 5 years its impossible to get him out of my mind
DESI-PEACHES
April 30th, 2005, 07:45 AM
not like he carried about u he got married so allow him
find sum1 else .. and look in da mirror and say im so better den him.. dat will work.. and hopefully he will have a ugly wife so dat will make u feel better
go 2 da party and just keep askin how about the food.. so den ull kinda get over him and he'll knows shes over me 2
its kinda awkard though,,because he still lookin at me even though he married and its just so weird ...i would not go to the party but parents will find out and i would b coward if i dont go, i need to confront it all but dont know how...
btw thanks for the advice...
Robiul
April 30th, 2005, 07:47 AM
But ive liked him for like 5 years its impossible to get him out of my mind
U can actually like sum1 for that long?? :neutral:
DESI-PEACHES
April 30th, 2005, 07:50 AM
U can actually like sum1 for that long?? :neutral:
yeh its werid huh?? i thought he was the one,,,,
ezbreezyfresh
April 30th, 2005, 07:53 AM
U can actually like sum1 for that long?? :neutral:
lol dudee thats possible...
but not for me lol no man is worth that much of my timee
PINKLEATHER
April 30th, 2005, 08:05 AM
its kinda awkard though,,because he still lookin at me even though he married and its just so weird ...i would not go to the party but parents will find out and i would b coward if i dont go, i need to confront it all but dont know how...
btw thanks for the advice...
always lookin at u?
go up2 him and say ur always lookin at me.. i know u like me cos dats why ur looking.. um ask him if he wants a affair :dunno: lolz joke
DESI-PEACHES
April 30th, 2005, 08:17 AM
always lookin at u?
go up2 him and say ur always lookin at me.. i know u like me cos dats why ur looking.. um ask him if he wants a affair :dunno: lolz joke
ha ha nah i think am gona just to go to party and show my face and see what happen...am just gona avoids him and talks to the his wife just to say good luck with everythin in the future,,,,then just leave it and move on and eat loads of choccies....
Robiul
April 30th, 2005, 08:43 AM
yeh its werid huh?? i thought he was the one,,,,
Haha u women, u always say taht when ever ur interested in sum1
Robiul
April 30th, 2005, 08:47 AM
lol dudee thats possible...
but not for me lol no man is worth that much of my timee
haha wat BS!! No man? haha wat if he is 'the one' :p
ezbreezyfresh
April 30th, 2005, 08:54 AM
haha wat BS!! No man? haha wat if he is 'the one' :p
lol man i really doubt any man would be "the one" for me...even if i marry, doesnt mean the man im gonan marry si gonan be the one..lolll.
mannyj
April 30th, 2005, 09:19 AM
u never get wat u most desire. i really really liked someone. and one day she said that by being her friend i was hurting her. i could have married her and realyl be happy..........u want real advice......u never forget. i had some many friends go away from my life i remember each and everyone of them.....some people say friends come and go....seems like more go then come....someone else will come sweep u off ur feet and all over again u will be in love...wishing u the best ur life.......
just another guy....
DESI-PEACHES
April 30th, 2005, 10:21 AM
u never get wat u most desire. i really really liked someone. and one day she said that by being her friend i was hurting her. i could have married her and realyl be happy..........u want real advice......u never forget. i had some many friends go away from my life i remember each and everyone of them.....some people say friends come and go....seems like more go then come....someone else will come sweep u off ur feet and all over again u will be in love...wishing u the best ur life.......
just another guy....i hope so...thanks
mannyj
April 30th, 2005, 10:35 AM
gotta try to keep urself busy keep ur mind off things.....maybe thats y im here trying to find people to talk to keep my mind of other things..
i should be going now....u know i should stop bothering u....well i hope u have great day........
Ms.Patel
April 30th, 2005, 10:36 AM
what the other guy said... even though its been five years, someone else is gonna come into ur life and maybe even hurt u again - the fact is... if someone doesnt feel for u how u feel for them... u should just tell urself over and over... why is he worth my pain and hurting if he's just off gettin married to some other girl? seriously? how long do u really think he spent thinkin bout all the five years before he went out and got married? obviously he is not worth ur care or time.. i think u should think bout the possibilities in other ppl in ur life right now... 5 years is a long time to be hung up over someone and maybe u havent noticed the greatness is some other guy thats in ur life.... maybe ure missin whats on the other side because of this wall u've had up for five years?
when u go to the party... there's no point in doing NETHING different... talk to them - eat - talk to other ppl - laugh.. have fun.. maybe bring a friend to get ur mind off of things - and maybe just maybe u will finally realize what was on the other side of that wall when u get there! wish u the best of luck... i kno ish hard - but girlie u gotta realize that u could no longer be in this world a month from now so u need to go out and do whats best for u... no regrets - because obviously he's moved on so u need to also... u never kno what u let pass u by while waiting for something else... :D
Robiul
April 30th, 2005, 10:46 AM
To get over a guy.....just walk over him :p
Sidra240
April 30th, 2005, 12:03 PM
dont matter how long u liked or loved him for....end of da day he'z married now. my mate she liked a guy for 4yrs n she didnt get nuttin out of it...it's better to forget about him n move on then kp finkin bot it....jus fink as u neva met him.....it's easy for me to say but trust me it's beta if u get ova him fully
xxx
[SIZE=1]But ive liked him for like 5 years its impossible to get him out of my mind
Jaskarn
April 30th, 2005, 12:05 PM
The only way to get over a guy is to get under one :)
jigga man23
April 30th, 2005, 12:10 PM
lol dudee thats possible...
but not for me lol no man is worth that much of my timee
not even me fresh i'm hurt haha...
jigga man23
April 30th, 2005, 12:14 PM
At high school i had so many crushes but one thing happened I was madly in love with this guy he was my very distant cousin although he aint my related cousin at all his parents was best friends with my parents so we see each other occasionally... anyway I was falling in love with him as the time goes by even though our parents doesnt know our feelings for each other...sometimes he doesnt talks to me cos my brother always there hukin up with him...that was 5 years ago now...he got married recently and he bringing his girl back in uk (he got married bk home in bangladesh) and am kinda not like get over him yet...He havin a party to show his wife off basically am invited along with my family how can i face up to him?? I need to show him that i am over him how do i do that?? thanks in advance!! am in dilemma these days!!
go to the guy and be like BITCH why you marry the other BITCH, now i'm happy you BITCHES are happy and give him a hug !..... :D
temptations
April 30th, 2005, 12:15 PM
kill him
temptations
April 30th, 2005, 12:15 PM
jk.
ezbreezyfresh
April 30th, 2005, 12:21 PM
not even me fresh i'm hurt haha...
lol yes!!
FaRiDooN
April 30th, 2005, 12:31 PM
GET ANOTHER GUY!:eek:
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