View Full Version : HOW TO GET OVER A GUY (plz help)
intricate
April 24th, 2005, 05:59 PM
*sigh* so i got to know this guy over the summer and i've known him from school and we werent really friends, but over the summer went spent endless hours on the phone talking to each other and getting to know each other. i ended up falling in love with him. so anyway, when school started up, he didnt talk that much to me in the hallways, but he would occassionaly say 'wasup' to me. but after school, in the afternoons, we would continue talking on the phone and stuff. and i was still in LOVE with him. he actually had a girlfriend , Jennifer, and she was the crazy-clingy type and would not break up with him and would not let him break up with her or she would spread rumors or sum sh*t. i WAS NOT planning on premarital sex, but i was so deeply in love with him, and i thought that having sex with him would make him like me more and hopefully we would go out :) . but that never happend, because after fucking, some people found out we had sex, and they questioned him. he got really mad at me for 'telling people', which i did not (they found out through my BEST FRIEND, who accidently let it slip). so for two months, our relationship/friendship was off-on (meaning, he would talk to me some weeks, some weeks he did not) but recently, i found out that he told my friend that he 'erased me from his memory'. that sh*t hurt my feelings so much. i still have feelings for him but i dislike him so much, i donno if that makes any sense but thats how i feel. so anyways, my question is how do i make him realize that he HURT my feelings?. i see him in the hallways at school now but he completely ignores me and walks straight past me without looking back. please help. thanks in advance.
craze*e
April 24th, 2005, 06:25 PM
tell him?
but i know that can be hard write it in a letter/email? lol
but best way is 2 probly tell him
cant think of much else
~Charmi~
April 24th, 2005, 06:28 PM
ya I say go up to him and tell him...don't write him a letter and email i know it seems that it is way betta if u just do that...but believe it will be more effective if u just go up to him and tell him and if he is stil being an ass about it then move on with ur life cause he clearly doesn't give a shyt..and then why should u :D
Cardinal_Sinner
April 24th, 2005, 06:36 PM
Hi there.
Hmmm The only way to make him realise anything is to do what he is doing. *Ignore him*Act like u dont give a shit if he is like 2 feet away from u. Walk past him laughin ur ass off with ur friends..U have to come across like as if u dont care n dont know him. U gotta b aloof n cold and not bothered. THIS will get his attention..THEN he will be curious...Is she not bothered? Is she hurt? ..coz if u try n tell him anythin right now...he aint gonna b bothered...Trust me. Men r shit heads...u gotta play em at their game...
Other that Remeber Never let anyone be in control of ur emotions...Dont let ppls actions upset u...U r far too good for that. U deserve better. A persons happiness doesnt rely on other ppl. U aint truly happy if u cannot make urself happy first.
Ppl fall in love..and have their hearts broke its life. I have had mine broken I fell in love so much...it hurt like hell..my sitituation was worse than urs...But i learnt to get up n walk again. I hve been there n done that..and learnt a few lessons. And the Most valuable advice i can give ya is..."NEVER let anyone be ur weakness"
Oh and MEN r bastards! lol.
Hope u feel better soon. xxx
cutealicious
April 24th, 2005, 06:39 PM
find a new guy
2CoNfUsEd
April 24th, 2005, 06:54 PM
find a new guy
lol thtz a pretty simple advice :rolleyes:
DesiPrince005
April 24th, 2005, 08:51 PM
*sigh* so i got to know this guy over the summer and i've known him from school and we werent really friends, but over the summer went spent endless hours on the phone talking to each other and getting to know each other. i ended up falling in love with him. so anyway, when school started up, he didnt talk that much to me in the hallways, but he would occassionaly say 'wasup' to me. but after school, in the afternoons, we would continue talking on the phone and stuff. and i was still in LOVE with him. he actually had a girlfriend , Jennifer, and she was the crazy-clingy type and would not break up with him and would not let him break up with her or she would spread rumors or sum sh*t. i WAS NOT planning on premarital sex, but i was so deeply in love with him, and i thought that having sex with him would make him like me more and hopefully we would go out :) . but that never happend, because after fucking, some people found out we had sex, and they questioned him. he got really mad at me for 'telling people', which i did not (they found out through my BEST FRIEND, who accidently let it slip). so for two months, our relationship/friendship was off-on (meaning, he would talk to me some weeks, some weeks he did not) but recently, i found out that he told my friend that he 'erased me from his memory'. that sh*t hurt my feelings so much. i still have feelings for him but i dislike him so much, i donno if that makes any sense but thats how i feel. so anyways, my question is how do i make him realize that he HURT my feelings?. i see him in the hallways at school now but he completely ignores me and walks straight past me without looking back. please help. thanks in advance.
u need to tell the dude
especailly since you know its not likely of you two being friends or in a relationship, what have u got to loose?
ur pride? :mad:
u need tot ell him, its called CLOSURE
i have a friend who dated this guy, almost two years ago and shes still crying over him because she never asked him the questions she needed for closure, she was afraid because she thinks he will hate her, but the dude was the one that broke her heart, ya know?
get it over it, u will feel better :D
bigkid
April 24th, 2005, 09:14 PM
*sigh* so i got to know this guy over the summer and i've known him from school and we werent really friends, but over the summer went spent endless hours on the phone talking to each other and getting to know each other. i ended up falling in love with him. so anyway, when school started up, he didnt talk that much to me in the hallways, but he would occassionaly say 'wasup' to me. but after school, in the afternoons, we would continue talking on the phone and stuff. and i was still in LOVE with him. he actually had a girlfriend , Jennifer, and she was the crazy-clingy type and would not break up with him and would not let him break up with her or she would spread rumors or sum sh*t. i WAS NOT planning on premarital sex, but i was so deeply in love with him, and i thought that having sex with him would make him like me more and hopefully we would go out :) . but that never happend, because after fucking, some people found out we had sex, and they questioned him. he got really mad at me for 'telling people', which i did not (they found out through my BEST FRIEND, who accidently let it slip). so for two months, our relationship/friendship was off-on (meaning, he would talk to me some weeks, some weeks he did not) but recently, i found out that he told my friend that he 'erased me from his memory'. that sh*t hurt my feelings so much. i still have feelings for him but i dislike him so much, i donno if that makes any sense but thats how i feel. so anyways, my question is how do i make him realize that he HURT my feelings?. i see him in the hallways at school now but he completely ignores me and walks straight past me without looking back. please help. thanks in advance.
When I a guy says what he did, that means he thinks your a piece of shit, and you are for telling your best friend, when u learn to keep your word and yer mouth shut then maybe u have right to say that he hurt you, what about him?
btw, yer pretty dumb for thinking having sex with a guy is gonna make him like you more than his gf, plus he took yer virginity haha yer stoopid cause now the rest of your life is gonna revolve around that fool, unless you erase him from your memory...
DesiPrince005
April 24th, 2005, 09:22 PM
When I a guy says what he did, that means he thinks your a piece of shit, and you are for telling your best friend, when u learn to keep your word and yer mouth shut then maybe u have right to say that he hurt you, what about him?
btw, yer pretty dumb for thinking having sex with a guy is gonna make him like you more than his gf, plus he took yer virginity haha yer stoopid cause now the rest of your life is gonna revolve around that fool, unless you erase him from your memory...
true, its messed up that u thought having sex with this guy meant he was going to like you more and breakup with his girlfriend
all that meant was that now he might think ur just a ho because u let him do it
good news is, u fell for it and ur not a ho just because u made a mistake
more good news, at least he didnt run around and tell everybody he knew about having sex with you
bad news is, i know ur gonna hate what i am telling you so go ahead and tell the bastard whats on ur mind before its too late
*note* when a guy has a girlfriend and he is trying to "talk" to you, it doesnt mean he likes you, it means he wants to bang you
the guy is a dog and a piece of shit and makes desi guys look bad
do us all a favor and tell him off and let him know what a piece of shit he is
bigkid
April 24th, 2005, 09:27 PM
true, its messed up that u thought having sex with this guy meant he was going to like you more and breakup with his girlfriend
all that meant was that now he might think ur just a ho because u let him do it
good news is, u fell for it and ur not a ho just because u made a mistake
more good news, at least he didnt run around and tell everybody he knew about having sex with you
bad news is, i know ur gonna hate what i am telling you so go ahead and tell the bastard whats on ur mind before its too late
*note* when a guy has a girlfriend and he is trying to "talk" to you, it doesnt mean he likes you, it means he wants to bang you
the guy is a dog and a piece of shit and makes desi guys look bad
do us all a favor and tell him off and let him know what a piece of shit he is
u give bad advice! I dun think she shud go up to him at all, she just needs to forget about him. Plus u can't even pay attention are u high on crack? She just said she liked him and pursued him because she thinks she is better than his current gf, this girl is a troublemaker and u sound like one too.. me dun like!!
DesiPrince005
April 24th, 2005, 09:40 PM
u give bad advice! I dun think she shud go up to him at all, she just needs to forget about him. Plus u can't even pay attention are u high on crack? She just said she liked him and pursued him because she thinks she is better than his current gf, this girl is a troublemaker and u sound like one too.. me dun like!!
actually its both their faults
the reason i say she should talk to him because its better than holding it in and making herself more miserable. Im not saying she should try to get back with him! HELL NO! They both need to stay away from each other. But they both are at fault and maybe she should talk to him before she does something she might regret.
dont u see the girl tried to get over him?
IF she was over him then she wouldnt have came on RD trying to get advice
Obviously the guy doesnt care two-shits about her so she might as well get all of her questions answered at out in the open
she is wrong for thinking she can steal someones man away :mad:
but he did have sex with her
NOOOOO...HELL NO...They need to sort that drama out before something goes down
Fatty4life
April 24th, 2005, 09:48 PM
hit him
in the face
with a hammer.
Fight_Club
April 24th, 2005, 09:52 PM
ya, find a new guy...
can i get your number?
Robiul
April 25th, 2005, 01:41 PM
First tell me if ur hot and then I will help you :)
Tacoma99Stud
April 25th, 2005, 02:08 PM
First tell me if ur hot and then I will help you :)
ya.....i'l go with that...
Tacoma99Stud
April 25th, 2005, 02:11 PM
that was kinda dumb havin sex with him just for him to like u....now he prolly thinks ur a slut and wants to just be friends with benefits.
Robiul
April 25th, 2005, 03:36 PM
that was kinda dumb havin sex with him just for him to like u....now he prolly thinks ur a slut and wants to just be friends with benefits.
I wanna be her friend...if u know what i mean ;)
Kavita
April 25th, 2005, 03:48 PM
Take anything and everything that reminds you of him and burn it. Watch it burn also. Write him a letter and express how you feel, be frank, and be honest, and give it to him. He'll know how he made u feel
To forget about a guy you can't be sitting around the house all day, the more you are not doing something, the more likely it will be you will remember that person. This is the perfect time to go out with friends and just have fun.
anyway a guy friend told me that a girl should not say to a guy shes not a virgin if she really isnt one. Reason behind this is because if guys know that a girl is not a virgin, they may think it will be easier to get into their pants because she gave in before, and she probably will do it again.
Anytime a guy is trying to talk you into sex by sweet talking you and saying he loves you, thats a big sign the guy is an ass and just wants to fuck you and then leave you. Ive been with a good share of guys, and I can see right through most of them...u gotta be sharp.
Kavita
April 25th, 2005, 03:50 PM
Hi there.
Hmmm The only way to make him realise anything is to do what he is doing. *Ignore him*Act like u dont give a shit if he is like 2 feet away from u. Walk past him laughin ur ass off with ur friends..U have to come across like as if u dont care n dont know him. U gotta b aloof n cold and not bothered. THIS will get his attention..THEN he will be curious...Is she not bothered? Is she hurt? ..coz if u try n tell him anythin right now...he aint gonna b bothered...Trust me. Men r shit heads...u gotta play em at their game...
Other that Remeber Never let anyone be in control of ur emotions...Dont let ppls actions upset u...U r far too good for that. U deserve better. A persons happiness doesnt rely on other ppl. U aint truly happy if u cannot make urself happy first.
Ppl fall in love..and have their hearts broke its life. I have had mine broken I fell in love so much...it hurt like hell..my sitituation was worse than urs...But i learnt to get up n walk again. I hve been there n done that..and learnt a few lessons. And the Most valuable advice i can give ya is..."NEVER let anyone be ur weakness"
Oh and MEN r bastards! lol.
Hope u feel better soon. xxx
:werd:
Kavita
April 25th, 2005, 03:52 PM
*sigh* so i got to know this guy over the summer and i've known him from school and we werent really friends, but over the summer went spent endless hours on the phone talking to each other and getting to know each other. i ended up falling in love with him. so anyway, when school started up, he didnt talk that much to me in the hallways, but he would occassionaly say 'wasup' to me. but after school, in the afternoons, we would continue talking on the phone and stuff. and i was still in LOVE with him. he actually had a girlfriend , Jennifer, and she was the crazy-clingy type and would not break up with him and would not let him break up with her or she would spread rumors or sum sh*t. i WAS NOT planning on premarital sex, but i was so deeply in love with him, and i thought that having sex with him would make him like me more and hopefully we would go out :) . but that never happend, because after fucking, some people found out we had sex, and they questioned him. he got really mad at me for 'telling people', which i did not (they found out through my BEST FRIEND, who accidently let it slip). so for two months, our relationship/friendship was off-on (meaning, he would talk to me some weeks, some weeks he did not) but recently, i found out that he told my friend that he 'erased me from his memory'. that sh*t hurt my feelings so much. i still have feelings for him but i dislike him so much, i donno if that makes any sense but thats how i feel. so anyways, my question is how do i make him realize that he HURT my feelings?. i see him in the hallways at school now but he completely ignores me and walks straight past me without looking back. please help. thanks in advance.
I doubt you were deeply in love with him, are u sure it wasnt infuation?
a_deprived_love
April 25th, 2005, 04:46 PM
hey atleast he didnt call you ugly..
i spent 2 years liking a guy, let my guard down..and he called me ugly..
i also let a good friend of mine slip through my fingers..
advise...
start to hate him, make yourself feel better..., after feeling better dont hate..
you know you're better than him, he doesnt deserve you...
im trying to do the same thing..
a_deprived_love
April 25th, 2005, 04:53 PM
a bit harsh..but its working on me
Precious_Gollum
April 25th, 2005, 04:58 PM
I think you ought to tell him, and if he doesn't want to listen to what you have to say I'd agree with 'Cardinal Siner'!!
pingster
April 25th, 2005, 05:03 PM
*sigh* so i got to know this guy over the summer and i've known him from school and we werent really friends, but over the summer went spent endless hours on the phone talking to each other and getting to know each other. i ended up falling in love with him. so anyway, when school started up, he didnt talk that much to me in the hallways, but he would occassionaly say 'wasup' to me. but after school, in the afternoons, we would continue talking on the phone and stuff. and i was still in LOVE with him. he actually had a girlfriend , Jennifer, and she was the crazy-clingy type and would not break up with him and would not let him break up with her or she would spread rumors or sum sh*t. i WAS NOT planning on premarital sex, but i was so deeply in love with him, and i thought that having sex with him would make him like me more and hopefully we would go out :) . but that never happend, because after fucking, some people found out we had sex, and they questioned him. he got really mad at me for 'telling people', which i did not (they found out through my BEST FRIEND, who accidently let it slip). so for two months, our relationship/friendship was off-on (meaning, he would talk to me some weeks, some weeks he did not) but recently, i found out that he told my friend that he 'erased me from his memory'. that sh*t hurt my feelings so much. i still have feelings for him but i dislike him so much, i donno if that makes any sense but thats how i feel. so anyways, my question is how do i make him realize that he HURT my feelings?. i see him in the hallways at school now but he completely ignores me and walks straight past me without looking back. please help. thanks in advance.
a very easy one. Tell him that u have clamidia and its been passed onto you by him. Tell him that ur G.P (doctor) has advised u to tell all ur sexual partners that they too could have the STI.
Let it spread around school, etc and then once he tells his girlfriend...tell him u were 'fucking around' and never to ignore me in the corridor again! or else u'll spead the rumour that u could have Aids.
hope that helps.
sonia2lyrikal
April 25th, 2005, 05:04 PM
dunno...hes a prick..and u shudnt of dunn that knowin hes had a gyal...
but 4 nxt tym..play every guy out der..only way u wont get hurt!
trust
Tacoma99Stud
April 25th, 2005, 07:21 PM
well since ur a slut now, i'l pretend to be ur friend if u give me a lil u know...u know... ;)
lol jk
indapino22
April 25th, 2005, 07:23 PM
hey atleast he didnt call you ugly..
i spent 2 years liking a guy, let my guard down..and he called me ugly..
i also let a good friend of mine slip through my fingers..
advise...
start to hate him, make yourself feel better..., after feeling better dont hate..
you know you're better than him, he doesnt deserve you...
im trying to do the same thing..
your not ugly...hes prolly gay
ozzy187
April 25th, 2005, 07:26 PM
hmmmm the best to get over a guy is pretend he was gay lol :sarb:
PINKLEATHER
April 25th, 2005, 07:27 PM
find sum 1 else
Gora
April 25th, 2005, 07:28 PM
*sigh* so i got to know this guy over the summer and i've known him from school and we werent really friends, but over the summer went spent endless hours on the phone talking to each other and getting to know each other. i ended up falling in love with him. so anyway, when school started up, he didnt talk that much to me in the hallways, but he would occassionaly say 'wasup' to me. but after school, in the afternoons, we would continue talking on the phone and stuff. and i was still in LOVE with him. he actually had a girlfriend , Jennifer, and she was the crazy-clingy type and would not break up with him and would not let him break up with her or she would spread rumors or sum sh*t. i WAS NOT planning on premarital sex, but i was so deeply in love with him, and i thought that having sex with him would make him like me more and hopefully we would go out :) . but that never happend, because after fucking, some people found out we had sex, and they questioned him. he got really mad at me for 'telling people', which i did not (they found out through my BEST FRIEND, who accidently let it slip). so for two months, our relationship/friendship was off-on (meaning, he would talk to me some weeks, some weeks he did not) but recently, i found out that he told my friend that he 'erased me from his memory'. that sh*t hurt my feelings so much. i still have feelings for him but i dislike him so much, i donno if that makes any sense but thats how i feel. so anyways, my question is how do i make him realize that he HURT my feelings?. i see him in the hallways at school now but he completely ignores me and walks straight past me without looking back. please help. thanks in advance.
JUST TELL HIM THAT YOUR NOT GOING TO HAVE SEX WITH HIM. WE LOVE SEX :Pelvic2:
Cardinal_Sinner
April 26th, 2005, 07:30 AM
Take anything and everything that reminds you of him and burn it. Watch it burn also. Write him a letter and express how you feel, be frank, and be honest, and give it to him. He'll know how he made u feel
To forget about a guy you can't be sitting around the house all day, the more you are not doing something, the more likely it will be you will remember that person. This is the perfect time to go out with friends and just have fun.
anyway a guy friend told me that a girl should not say to a guy shes not a virgin if she really isnt one. Reason behind this is because if guys know that a girl is not a virgin, they may think it will be easier to get into their pants because she gave in before, and she probably will do it again.
Anytime a guy is trying to talk you into sex by sweet talking you and saying he loves you, thats a big sign the guy is an ass and just wants to fuck you and then leave you. Ive been with a good share of guys, and I can see right through most of them...u gotta be sharp.
hmmmm
Cardinal_Sinner
April 26th, 2005, 07:31 AM
Take anything and everything that reminds you of him and burn it. Watch it burn also. Write him a letter and express how you feel, be frank, and be honest, and give it to him. He'll know how he made u feel
To forget about a guy you can't be sitting around the house all day, the more you are not doing something, the more likely it will be you will remember that person. This is the perfect time to go out with friends and just have fun.
anyway a guy friend told me that a girl should not say to a guy shes not a virgin if she really isnt one. Reason behind this is because if guys know that a girl is not a virgin, they may think it will be easier to get into their pants because she gave in before, and she probably will do it again.
Anytime a guy is trying to talk you into sex by sweet talking you and saying he loves you, thats a big sign the guy is an ass and just wants to fuck you and then leave you. Ive been with a good share of guys, and I can see right through most of them...u gotta be sharp.
Yeah u sound like u have been with a GOOD share of guys....
:asshole: advice
a_deprived_love
April 26th, 2005, 08:25 PM
your not ugly...hes prolly gay
he's deff. not...
indapino22
April 26th, 2005, 10:22 PM
he's deff. not...
and how do you know?
a_deprived_love
April 27th, 2005, 03:47 PM
i asked a kid to tell him that i liked him he told the kid "No, because she's ugly..."
that implies that he's not gay,...he dont look gay..
FaRiDooN
April 27th, 2005, 03:54 PM
*sigh* so i got to know this guy over the summer and i've known him from school and we werent really friends, but over the summer went spent endless hours on the phone talking to each other and getting to know each other. i ended up falling in love with him. so anyway, when school started up, he didnt talk that much to me in the hallways, but he would occassionaly say 'wasup' to me. but after school, in the afternoons, we would continue talking on the phone and stuff. and i was still in LOVE with him. he actually had a girlfriend , Jennifer, and she was the crazy-clingy type and would not break up with him and would not let him break up with her or she would spread rumors or sum sh*t. i WAS NOT planning on premarital sex, but i was so deeply in love with him, and i thought that having sex with him would make him like me more and hopefully we would go out :) . but that never happend, because after fucking, some people found out we had sex, and they questioned him. he got really mad at me for 'telling people', which i did not (they found out through my BEST FRIEND, who accidently let it slip). so for two months, our relationship/friendship was off-on (meaning, he would talk to me some weeks, some weeks he did not) but recently, i found out that he told my friend that he 'erased me from his memory'. that sh*t hurt my feelings so much. i still have feelings for him but i dislike him so much, i donno if that makes any sense but thats how i feel. so anyways, my question is how do i make him realize that he HURT my feelings?. i see him in the hallways at school now but he completely ignores me and walks straight past me without looking back. please help. thanks in advance.
GET ANOTHER GUY! NO SHIT!
FaRiDooN
April 27th, 2005, 03:55 PM
i asked a kid to tell him that i liked him he told the kid "No, because she's ugly..."
that implies that he's not gay,...he dont look gay..
ROFL dat was hilarious!
ArAbIaN eYeZ
April 27th, 2005, 03:56 PM
GUYZ are JERKS........... :mad:
they JST want SEX......
and some1 said find somebody else.....
DONT DO THAT......
if you go on the REBOUND...you're going 2 do the same thing again and have sex w/ the next guy....
jst GET OVER IT....it takes time but u know the saying...TIME HEALS ALL WOUNDS.......
most guyz especially young ones all want SEX and thats it......
so ACT like it never happened
and repent for your sin of premarital sex and be a born again virgin and hang out w/ your closest friends 2 make yourself feel better........
:D
L0L GOOD LUCK SWTY...
FaRiDooN
April 27th, 2005, 03:57 PM
GUYZ are JERKS........... :mad:
they JST want SEX......
and some1 said find somebody else.....
DONT DO THAT......
if you go on the REBOUND...you're going 2 do the same thing again and have sex w/ the next guy....
jst GET OVER IT....it takes time but u know the saying...TIME HEALS ALL WOUNDS.......
most guyz especially young ones all want SEX and thats it......
so ACT like it never happened
and repent for your sin of premarital sex and be a born again virgin and hang out w/ your closest friends 2 make yourself feel better........
:D
L0L GOOD LUCK SWTY...
hmmm no not tru . . i still remai a virgin! :p
a_deprived_love
April 27th, 2005, 04:12 PM
ROFL dat was hilarious!
wtf???
ArAbIaN eYeZ
April 27th, 2005, 04:17 PM
wtf???
4 real or what about the other guy who is like "since you are a slut now be my friend" :rolleyes:
im telling you GRLZ...
GUYZ ARE JERKS...
SO DON'T PUT OUT :Pelvic2:
L0L
a_deprived_love
April 27th, 2005, 04:29 PM
guys are dicks...
desipride24o7
April 27th, 2005, 04:37 PM
this is how i get over i guy..sorta discusting but picture the guy u like taking a shit and comes to fuck u while ur on ur bed and dars still shit hanging from his ass...ok i noe its gross but it always works for me
indapino22
April 27th, 2005, 05:51 PM
guys are dicks...
hey i was nice to you...
a_deprived_love
April 27th, 2005, 07:46 PM
hey i was nice to you...
i wasnt talking about you....
talking about the guy that said "ROLF THAT WAS FUNNY"
not you sorry..
indapino22
April 27th, 2005, 07:51 PM
i wasnt talking about you....
talking about the guy that said "ROLF THAT WAS FUNNY"
not you sorry..
:) oh ok
beautylicious!
May 7th, 2005, 09:06 PM
*sigh* so i got to know this guy over the summer and i've known him from school and we werent really friends, but over the summer went spent endless hours on the phone talking to each other and getting to know each other. i ended up falling in love with him. so anyway, when school started up, he didnt talk that much to me in the hallways, but he would occassionaly say 'wasup' to me. but after school, in the afternoons, we would continue talking on the phone and stuff. and i was still in LOVE with him. he actually had a girlfriend , Jennifer, and she was the crazy-clingy type and would not break up with him and would not let him break up with her or she would spread rumors or sum sh*t. i WAS NOT planning on premarital sex, but i was so deeply in love with him, and i thought that having sex with him would make him like me more and hopefully we would go out :) . but that never happend, because after fucking, some people found out we had sex, and they questioned him. he got really mad at me for 'telling people', which i did not (they found out through my BEST FRIEND, who accidently let it slip). so for two months, our relationship/friendship was off-on (meaning, he would talk to me some weeks, some weeks he did not) but recently, i found out that he told my friend that he 'erased me from his memory'. that sh*t hurt my feelings so much. i still have feelings for him but i dislike him so much, i donno if that makes any sense but thats how i feel. so anyways, my question is how do i make him realize that he HURT my feelings?. i see him in the hallways at school now but he completely ignores me and walks straight past me without looking back. please help. thanks in advance.
firstly u shudnt have slept with him if u new he had a girl friend. and u shudnt have told ne one about it either, yeh i no u told ya best friend, bcos is always the close ones who are the deadly ones!
and for the way he is being with you? stick ur middle finger up at him an tell him to FAKK OFF! DONT GIVE A SHIT ABOUT WHAT HE DOES TO U, dont let it get to u jus do what ever hes doin to u,
dont seem so down and so bothered about him he sounds like a dik!!!! sory to say!
jus walk around with a big smile on ur face!!! :)
Kavita
May 8th, 2005, 03:15 PM
Yeah u sound like u have been with a GOOD share of guys....
:asshole: advice
watever, im juz tryin to help her, and ive only been with 4 guys since I was 17...so watever :rolleyes:
and my best friend is a guy so where else do u think I get this info from..FROM HIM...
Desi_Bunny
May 11th, 2005, 12:55 AM
guys are a waste of time they come a dime a dozen
Desi_Bunny
May 11th, 2005, 01:55 AM
Question: How do I get over a guy?
Answer: Go find another one.
Like i said before guys come a dime a dozen. Stop crying over one..look at all the desi guys here, they come in all shapes and sizes..just pick one.. :dance3:
XprtNYYKY
May 11th, 2005, 01:56 AM
*sigh* so i got to know this guy over the summer and i've known him from school and we werent really friends, but over the summer went spent endless hours on the phone talking to each other and getting to know each other. i ended up falling in love with him. so anyway, when school started up, he didnt talk that much to me in the hallways, but he would occassionaly say 'wasup' to me. but after school, in the afternoons, we would continue talking on the phone and stuff. and i was still in LOVE with him. he actually had a girlfriend , Jennifer, and she was the crazy-clingy type and would not break up with him and would not let him break up with her or she would spread rumors or sum sh*t. i WAS NOT planning on premarital sex, but i was so deeply in love with him, and i thought that having sex with him would make him like me more and hopefully we would go out :) . but that never happend, because after fucking, some people found out we had sex, and they questioned him. he got really mad at me for 'telling people', which i did not (they found out through my BEST FRIEND, who accidently let it slip). so for two months, our relationship/friendship was off-on (meaning, he would talk to me some weeks, some weeks he did not) but recently, i found out that he told my friend that he 'erased me from his memory'. that sh*t hurt my feelings so much. i still have feelings for him but i dislike him so much, i donno if that makes any sense but thats how i feel. so anyways, my question is how do i make him realize that he HURT my feelings?. i see him in the hallways at school now but he completely ignores me and walks straight past me without looking back. please help. thanks in advance.
Quote from the girls i know - The Best way to to get over a man is to get under another 1.
Desi_Bunny
May 11th, 2005, 02:01 AM
sorry one more thing...tell the first guy that ur new guy does everything better and how you just love it..guys hate performance competition..
Kavita
May 11th, 2005, 02:08 AM
Question: How do I get over a guy?
Answer: Go find another one.
Like i said before guys come a dime a dozen. Stop crying over one..look at all the desi guys here, they come in all shapes and sizes..just pick one.. :dance3:
wow u make the dating game sound like a meat market :rolleyes:
Nirmzz
May 11th, 2005, 02:18 AM
find a new guy
what a stupid response!!!! had to point it out as if that sloves anything :rolleyes:
Kavita
May 11th, 2005, 01:32 PM
what a stupid response!!!! had to point it out as if that sloves anything :rolleyes:
thats true, u wont fill that void just by finding a new guy...sorri life isnt like a fairytale...u gotta go through shit to make it like that...there is no such thing as finding a nice man of ur dreams and everything being perfect.
hateitorloveit
May 11th, 2005, 01:44 PM
thats true, u wont fill that void just by finding a new guy...sorri life isnt like a fairytale...u gotta go through shit to make it like that...there is no such thing as finding a nice man of ur dreams and everything being perfect.
WELL Sedd ...but she only 16 or sumtin so its not like it was her last chance !so oyeah find a new guy !! :)
Desi_Bunny
May 11th, 2005, 06:51 PM
wow u make the dating game sound like a meat market :rolleyes:
it IS A MEAT MARKET...the only reason people form relationships is beacuse of NEEDS, it could be EMOTIONAL or SEXUAL. So we go out there and pick the best one who suits our needs. Have you every BY YOUR OWN CHOICE been with someone who YOU REALLY DIDNT LIKE.
I didnt think so. And im sure there is some guy out there who has been treated like a piece of meat by you or you have been treated like a piece of meat by some guy. Unless you live under a rock. :roflwtf:
:)
Desi_Bunny
May 11th, 2005, 07:16 PM
Aaaaaaaaaaaaa
Nirmzz
May 11th, 2005, 11:13 PM
*sigh* so i got to know this guy over the summer and i've known him from school and we werent really friends, but over the summer went spent endless hours on the phone talking to each other and getting to know each other. i ended up falling in love with him. so anyway, when school started up, he didnt talk that much to me in the hallways, but he would occassionaly say 'wasup' to me. but after school, in the afternoons, we would continue talking on the phone and stuff. and i was still in LOVE with him. he actually had a girlfriend , Jennifer, and she was the crazy-clingy type and would not break up with him and would not let him break up with her or she would spread rumors or sum sh*t. i WAS NOT planning on premarital sex, but i was so deeply in love with him, and i thought that having sex with him would make him like me more and hopefully we would go out :) . but that never happend, because after fucking, some people found out we had sex, and they questioned him. he got really mad at me for 'telling people', which i did not (they found out through my BEST FRIEND, who accidently let it slip). so for two months, our relationship/friendship was off-on (meaning, he would talk to me some weeks, some weeks he did not) but recently, i found out that he told my friend that he 'erased me from his memory'. that sh*t hurt my feelings so much. i still have feelings for him but i dislike him so much, i donno if that makes any sense but thats how i feel. so anyways, my question is how do i make him realize that he HURT my feelings?. i see him in the hallways at school now but he completely ignores me and walks straight past me without looking back. please help. thanks in advance.
a bottle of jim beam and bucket of KFC chicken and a dildo, wake up the next day take a cold shower and say fuck you!!!! and move on
Carlito Brigante
June 20th, 2005, 12:44 PM
OK folks. She is talking about a 13 year old black kid. Do you really think he is gonna care what she does?
daswissbeats
June 20th, 2005, 03:16 PM
hey atleast he didnt call you ugly..
i spent 2 years liking a guy, let my guard down..and he called me ugly..
i also let a good friend of mine slip through my fingers..
advise...
start to hate him, make yourself feel better..., after feeling better dont hate..
you know you're better than him, he doesnt deserve you...
im trying to do the same thing..
LOL!!!!!!!!! tatz some funny shit :rofl::rofl::rofl::rofl::rofl::rofl::rofl::rofl::r ofl::rofl::rofl::rofl:
daswissbeats
June 20th, 2005, 03:19 PM
*sigh* so i got to know this guy over the summer and i've known him from school and we werent really friends, but over the summer went spent endless hours on the phone talking to each other and getting to know each other. i ended up falling in love with him. so anyway, when school started up, he didnt talk that much to me in the hallways, but he would occassionaly say 'wasup' to me. but after school, in the afternoons, we would continue talking on the phone and stuff. and i was still in LOVE with him. he actually had a girlfriend , Jennifer, and she was the crazy-clingy type and would not break up with him and would not let him break up with her or she would spread rumors or sum sh*t. i WAS NOT planning on premarital sex, but i was so deeply in love with him, and i thought that having sex with him would make him like me more and hopefully we would go out :) . but that never happend, because after fucking, some people found out we had sex, and they questioned him. he got really mad at me for 'telling people', which i did not (they found out through my BEST FRIEND, who accidently let it slip). so for two months, our relationship/friendship was off-on (meaning, he would talk to me some weeks, some weeks he did not) but recently, i found out that he told my friend that he 'erased me from his memory'. that sh*t hurt my feelings so much. i still have feelings for him but i dislike him so much, i donno if that makes any sense but thats how i feel. so anyways, my question is how do i make him realize that he HURT my feelings?. i see him in the hallways at school now but he completely ignores me and walks straight past me without looking back. please help. thanks in advance.
no offence but i tink this guy doest want 2 be seen wif u, cuz he wouldt talk 2u in school tat much and would hav sex wif u but want 2 keep it a secret??? he doest want 2 be seen or heard wif u lady
Oxygen
June 20th, 2005, 03:29 PM
*sigh* so i got to know this guy over the summer and i've known him from school and we werent really friends, but over the summer went spent endless hours on the phone talking to each other and getting to know each other. i ended up falling in love with him. so anyway, when school started up, he didnt talk that much to me in the hallways, but he would occassionaly say 'wasup' to me. but after school, in the afternoons, we would continue talking on the phone and stuff. and i was still in LOVE with him. he actually had a girlfriend , Jennifer, and she was the crazy-clingy type and would not break up with him and would not let him break up with her or she would spread rumors or sum sh*t. i WAS NOT planning on premarital sex, but i was so deeply in love with him, and i thought that having sex with him would make him like me more and hopefully we would go out :) . but that never happend, because after fucking, some people found out we had sex, and they questioned him. he got really mad at me for 'telling people', which i did not (they found out through my BEST FRIEND, who accidently let it slip). so for two months, our relationship/friendship was off-on (meaning, he would talk to me some weeks, some weeks he did not) but recently, i found out that he told my friend that he 'erased me from his memory'. that sh*t hurt my feelings so much. i still have feelings for him but i dislike him so much, i donno if that makes any sense but thats how i feel. so anyways, my question is how do i make him realize that he HURT my feelings?. i see him in the hallways at school now but he completely ignores me and walks straight past me without looking back. please help. thanks in advance.
Stick your head down the toilet and flush it, repeatedly.
boredatwork
June 20th, 2005, 03:32 PM
Sleep with his friends.
boredatwork
June 20th, 2005, 03:48 PM
Sleep with his friends.
and tell everyone he has a small member.
Revenge is dish best served cold. Just dont do anything illegal (like smashing his car). And if you do make sure you dont get caught.
jassika
June 20th, 2005, 03:50 PM
u did that so he'd like u more... that was stupid. u should never do that if theres any doubt that the feeling is not mutual and u dont share the same respect. stay cautious and see if he proves himself.
now u could talk to him and admit u made a mistake, etc or u could just forget it and let karma get him since he's probably not even worth having as a friend. its his loss...
chukandaar
June 20th, 2005, 04:23 PM
listen when something like this happens in your life...and the person u care about starts to act this way...u gotta analyze the whole situation...u gotta get the ball in ur court...if hes being an asshole to u now and wont even talk to u...the more u show him that he hurt u and that u need him...the more he'll treat u like that...remember guys and girls are always attracted to what they can't get...he has it in his mind that he can get u wheneever he wants...i think it would be a bad move on ur behalf to show him ur hurt...cuz it'll just make u look more weak...i think u should actually act the exact opposite...whenever u see him in school or what not just act like u r having the time of ur life...like u dont really give a shit about this guy...and let him see that ur having fun and joking around with friends...just literally be as cold as hes being...i know it'll hurt but cry about it when u go home...dont let him c that ur actually hurt...i've had a lot of enemies growing up...and i've had ppl screw me...know this..ur enemies and the ppl who wish harm on u...dont like seeing u happy...if they c u happy then they'll be like wth??? but if they see u down and hurt...then ur giving them exactly what they want...whether u care about this guy or not, i think u should just act the way i am telling u to act...cuz atleast that way u can have ur chin up and ppl wont know that he broke u...but if "try to show him ur hurt" ur just gonna get urself more and more hurt...and that will lead to ur defeat...be smart...hes playing a game with u...play the same game back but with more intensity...let the guy know he didnt phase u one bit...i guarantee u he'll want u then...dont give him attention...he'll try to get ur attention
Emerald99
June 20th, 2005, 05:13 PM
It happens, this will all blow by you in a year or two at the most. You'll look back on it, and laugh. And if you ever happen to hear about him being miserable, it'll put a nice smile on your face. But, about getting the point across to him, thick headed people don't change by being told that they're thick headed. They change from within. So don't waste your time trying to get this message across, just keep your head up.
dezixtazy9i6
June 20th, 2005, 05:21 PM
ummm dont worry u'll get over him...just put ur mind to something else...it'll take a while for you to get over him if u reallllli like him allott but u will as soon as u find someone better!
or if u see him
run him over and put the gear on reverse and run him over again lollls of course u can keep doing that but save some time to run urself cuz cops these dayz are pretty fast haha...and all the pain n injuries that he will have and feel will SHOW HIM HOW MUCH HE HURT YOU
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