Serious Advice needed

[fireangel2007]

okay well im not gonna repost my story and if you do want to read its under the relationships section under the post titled: I think im in love---WRONG THINKING THEN.... but heres a brief synopsis: i liked this guy---note like not love----and now we're going out or were....dammit i hate desi parents sometimes....i think i should break up with him and its gonna be hard cuz hes very emotionally attached to me and thats kinda sickening cuz i can't breathe....its like we'll talk about the dumbest things for hours at a time either online or just walking around school and we don't even have a physical relationship just a hug when hes leaving but w/e....so i don't know how to break up with him....im kinda suffocated in the relationship and i don't want to be in something so serious right now and ive just kinda realized that NOWWW.....ive even told him my parents are looking to get me married off (not really but that should scare him off right??) WRONGGG he wants to face my parents dammit....i don't wanna marry him or anyone at the moment maybe in like five years but NOT HIM....i don't know what ive gotten myself into....any advice????? AND NO I WAS NOT LOOKING FOR A PHYSICAL RELATIONSHIP IN THE FIRST PLACE I THOUGHT HE WAS NORMAL--maybe i should just stick to desi guys---.....maybe im not supposed to ever date--- not in my destiny.... :drama2:

[bangin_paki]

okay well im not gonna repost my story and if you do want to read its under the relationships section under the post titled: I think im in love---WRONG THINKING THEN.... but heres a brief synopsis: i liked this guy---note like not love----and now we're going out or were....dammit i hate desi parents sometimes....i think i should break up with him and its gonna be hard cuz hes very emotionally attached to me and thats kinda sickening cuz i can't breathe....its like we'll talk about the dumbest things for hours at a time either online or just walking around school and we don't even have a physical relationship just a hug when hes leaving but w/e....so i don't know how to break up with him....im kinda suffocated in the relationship and i don't want to be in something so serious right now and ive just kinda realized that NOWWW.....ive even told him my parents are looking to get me married off (not really but that should scare him off right??) WRONGGG he wants to face my parents dammit....i don't wanna marry him or anyone at the moment maybe in like five years but NOT HIM....i don't know what ive gotten myself into....any advice????? AND NO I WAS NOT LOOKING FOR A PHYSICAL RELATIONSHIP IN THE FIRST PLACE I THOUGHT HE WAS NORMAL--maybe i should just stick to desi guys---.....maybe im not supposed to ever date--- not in my destiny.... :drama2:
so wait..u thought he was normal and now u think hes not cuz he wants a physical relationshiP??? but i mean u should tell him how u feel before its gets any further...jus tell him st8 up like listen...im not ready rite now and maybe we shud take some time off and maybe someday in the future if destiny wants..we'll hook up again...so if hes not desi...arent u parents gonna have like a humongouS problem aprrovin of him??

[fireangel2007]

Well i don't want a relationship right now b/c for one theres alot of stuff going on such as me switching my major a tweed bit from pre-med bio to clinical lab so i have better chance of getting into med school which pissed off my parents cuz as narrow minded as they are they think im not gonna finish school and if you know me you know that school is top priority...as for him being white oh yea they'll have a problem big time and i didn't expect this relationship to get so serious emotionally like he sits there and tells me everything about himself and i told him about my parents marrying me off and hes like we'll get through it together and blah blah blah....i thought at the beginning this is gonna work out fine and we'll be together forever blah blah blah but the more i get to know him the more i realize hes not everything i ever wanted especially how his family is and maybe cuz i didn't realize him being white is a big problem....it is my fault to some extent but i never knew guys were so damn emotional....its a scary thought....but ur right i should break up with him that way...we're gonna talk tommorow but the weird part is its our one month anniversary friday...and im not the bit excited....

[bangin_paki]

Well i don't want a relationship right now b/c for one theres alot of stuff going on such as me switching my major a tweed bit from pre-med bio to clinical lab so i have better chance of getting into med school which pissed off my parents cuz as narrow minded as they are they think im not gonna finish school and if you know me you know that school is top priority...as for him being white oh yea they'll have a problem big time and i didn't expect this relationship to get so serious emotionally like he sits there and tells me everything about himself and i told him about my parents marrying me off and hes like we'll get through it together and blah blah blah....i thought at the beginning this is gonna work out fine and we'll be together forever blah blah blah but the more i get to know him the more i realize hes not everything i ever wanted especially how his family is and maybe cuz i didn't realize him being white is a big problem....it is my fault to some extent but i never knew guys were so damn emotional....its a scary thought....but ur right i should break up with him that way...we're gonna talk tommorow but the weird part is its our one month anniversary friday...and im not the bit excited....

so its only been a month....ever betteR!!! its not like u guys been together for so long that it would be grimy if u broke up with him...jus let him know before ur month anniversary lol which i guess u only have tomm .....before he starts gettin u stuff for the one month thing...u know how guys are..he might end up gettin u stuff and than ur gonna feel even more bad tellin him...see with me its the same problem..like the guy im with hes dominican...and like in the beginning i didnt think it would ever get that serious cuz we were jus like friends at first we did like eachother tho..so like ofcourse we ended up goin out and i still thought it wouldnt get that serious and itll jus be fun for a while cuz i thought he was likedrop dead gorgeous lol..so i was like lemme jus have fun chill with him but as time went by i started growin more and more feelins for him and he feels the same way..and now its like he even talks abt marriage and kids and all that..and im jus like uhhh ohkk its not that i dont want to..i would love to spend the rest of my life with him..its jus that it would be such a big issue in my family...cuz u know how desi parents are especially with SpanisH ppl...i mean white is stilll a millionnn timez better...at least in my family it would be ...lol...and i never wana be in the predicament where i have to choose from my family and a guy...thas jus crazy..
but damn girl no wonder ur so stressed thats a hard ass major...and i dont even think that thats the reason why u wanna tell him off..maybe its jus something abt him that u jus dont like and u really cant figure out what it is....if ur not happy with him break uP with him its not worth it and ur gonnna end up hurtin him more ltrso u shud jus break the news to him now or jus give him signs showin that u need space and some time off :drama:

[Ohmygod]

ohhh no not a nother problem

[bangin_paki]

ohhh no not a nother problem
lol see how much problems u GUYZ give us poor girlz...its such a shame :no:

[Ohmygod]

well im not like other guys i know how to treat my girlf, dcandle lit dinner a dance and quick hump and light out lol

[Robiul]

well im not like other guys i know how to treat my girlf, dcandle lit dinner a dance and quick hump and light out lol

Haha, dude that soooooo old fashioned

[Robiul]

I love problems, gives me chance to learn more about women

[fireangel2007]

Alright its thursday night and I broke up with him a day before our month anniversary....dammit i feel like a bitch cuz he was so nice about it....like he understands that my parents are strict and that he respects my family values.... :( Well so this is what happened...we went to the park and just sat there atleast a feet apart and just talked about everything except us and then it was almost time for me to get home and i told him that we needed to talk and we just sorta brought up the topic and he kinda figured out it was over and he didnt' say nething but he was pretty mad but he still dropped me off to my car and we decided to just stay friends and we both agreed that no matter what happened we'll always be there for each other and he told me that hes never said this to ne1 but he saw the whole future thing with me....eek kinda scary...well a hug and it was over and i didn't really make much of the whole thing but i thanked god it was over and he gave me strength to do all this but now as i write this i wonder did i let go the love of my life???.....maybe or maybe not....discuss

[I yO CuZ I]

u should be wit desi guys that live on there own if that even makes sense to what ur asking cuz i hate reading long things :rolleyes: lol