i need serious advice......

[bangin_paki]

I have a problem.... :( :( my boyfriend always thinks hes right...even if hes dead wrong he would make sure he gets me to agree and if i start arguing we get into a fightt.....i dont know what to do he makes me so depressed but yet i really like him and he's a sweetheart abt everything else but he jus has major mood swings and when he gets mad its jus like uncontrollable he starts sayin shit that disrespects the shit out of me and than always apologizes later....i dont know what to do...i need serious advicee (sorry for the long sappy story i was jus really mad right now and had to take it out) :( :( :(

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[Ohmygod]

he sounds like abig baby next time he does it slap him and tell him to calm down. but seriously thats just the way he is i know people like that its their persoanlity but love you have to live with it. try talking to him and telling him how it makes you feel when he does this everytime he does it point it out, maybe then he will realise his mistakes

[temptations]

I have a problem.... :( :( my boyfriend always thinks hes right...even if hes dead wrong he would make sure he gets me to agree and if i start arguing we get into a fightt.....i dont know what to do he makes me so depressed but yet i really like him and he's a sweetheart abt everything else but he jus has major mood swings and when he gets mad its jus like uncontrollable he starts sayin shit that disrespects the shit out of me and than always apologizes later....i dont know what to do...i need serious advicee (sorry for the long sappy story i was jus really mad right now and had to take it out) :( :( :(

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oh dude! that sounds a little like my bf like he thinks hes always freakin right..i can do the same shit he did a week ago..and he'd go psycho on me..yet hes right..cuz hes always right but thats just the way some guys are i guess wen it comes to something major..he'll most likely admit that he was wrong..and if he sees that it really hurt u..i mean he should atleast..disrespecting u? my bf has anger issues and shit too but like ..i dunno he knows I dont like hims wearing at me so he doesnt do that shit but sometimes he goes crazy adn punches walls and shits and just yells at me..it hurts but.. hell..u cant change the way someone is right? if hes worth it..just try to explain it to him the nicest way u can..or when u guys are fighting..fight it out...and come out on top.. it'll show him

[T.Dimera]

perfect example of women falling for a 'jerk'...not to say he is...

hopefully you can overcome this small challange and you and him can get back on track

[bangin_paki]

oh dude! that sounds a little like my bf like he thinks hes always freakin right..i can do the same shit he did a week ago..and he'd go psycho on me..yet hes right..cuz hes always right but thats just the way some guys are i guess wen it comes to something major..he'll most likely admit that he was wrong..and if he sees that it really hurt u..i mean he should atleast..disrespecting u? my bf has anger issues and shit too but like ..i dunno he knows I dont like hims wearing at me so he doesnt do that shit but sometimes he goes crazy adn punches walls and shits and just yells at me..it hurts but.. hell..u cant change the way someone is right? if hes worth it..just try to explain it to him the nicest way u can..or when u guys are fighting..fight it out...and come out on top.. it'll show him

yea well thats the problem too cuz im the kinda girl well i WAS the kinda girl that always makes sure i win an argument but with him its jus like impossible its crazy cuz when we get into a fight im always the one that has to leave cuz i jus cant take it nomore even if its my room i walk out of my own fucken room...it pisses me off but me yellin and screamin back jus makes things worse...i mean u said ur bf was like that too so u must know how it feels to have someone like that and u jus dont wanna let go cuz u care too much abt them and they do too but they jus dont know how to control their anger and its not even like hes immature i mean hes already 22 so wtF when is he plannin on growin the fuck uP !!!

[Ohmygod]

tell his mum and dad no im serious let them slap him up, temptation or whatever your name is you have a boyf really hard to believe :p

[bangin_paki]

he sounds like abig baby next time he does it slap him and tell him to calm down. but seriously thats just the way he is i know people like that its their persoanlity but love you have to live with it. try talking to him and telling him how it makes you feel when he does this everytime he does it point it out, maybe then he will realise his mistakes
i did kinda try talkin to him but than if i talk abt it we start arguing again cuz hes like welll the only reason we argue is cuz u never wana admit ur wrong and im like wtF i was rightt but theres like no way to get that thru his thick ass head i guess that could be a major problem in the long run but hopefully he'll changee :(

[bangin_paki]

tell his mum and dad no im serious let them slap him up, temptation or whatever your name is you have a boyf really hard to believe :p
OMG why is it hard to believe ...shes so prettY

[temptations]

yea well thats the problem too cuz im the kinda girl well i WAS the kinda girl that always makes sure i win an argument but with him its jus like impossible its crazy cuz when we get into a fight im always the one that has to leave cuz i jus cant take it nomore even if its my room i walk out of my own fucken room...it pisses me off but me yellin and screamin back jus makes things worse...i mean u said ur bf was like that too so u must know how it feels to have someone like that and u jus dont wanna let go cuz u care too much abt them and they do too but they jus dont know how to control their anger and its not even like hes immature i mean hes already 22 so wtF when is he plannin on growin the fuck uP !!!
whoah :eek: lol im like that too..im use to winning arguments and..proving my point and wat not..and my bf just..i duno he turns it all around but i guess thats wat makes me like him and care for him sa much as I do? the fact that hes different..and has me acting diff or w/e..but like the fighting part..its a matter of time..how long is he gonna keep going? just do the same..keep going and dont fall back..sooner or later..someone has to fall..let it be him..for once..and see how that goes..but ya i know the anger part..crazy shit

[bangin_paki]

tell his mum and dad no im serious let them slap him up, temptation or whatever your name is you have a boyf really hard to believe :p
and what am i gonna tell his mom and dad ..hes like pretty much independent and obviously they would take HIS sidee....and i dont wana make it seem that serious ..bf's are too much streSs ! ! ! :mad: :mad: :mad:

[Ohmygod]

im only jokin shes beautiful

[bangin_paki]

whoah :eek: lol im like that too..im use to winning arguments and..proving my point and wat not..and my bf just..i duno he turns it all around but i guess thats wat makes me like him and care for him sa much as I do? the fact that hes different..and has me acting diff or w/e..but like the fighting part..its a matter of time..how long is he gonna keep going? just do the same..keep going and dont fall back..sooner or later..someone has to fall..let it be him..for once..and see how that goes..but ya i know the anger part..crazy shit

yea he pretty much does the same thing..he turns it all around and it gets me thinkin like uhhhh wait....am i really wrong and than i start feelin bad and shit and apologize but than once he apologizes i try to front like i dont wana talk to him nomoree...lol i guess all relationships cant always be all happy happy...and i wouldnt prefer it that way either...but not like this eitheR...sometimez its alrite but other timez i jus bug outt i mean theres a limit to everything :sarb:

[bangin_paki]

im only jokin shes beautiful
yea i kno i kno ofcoursee...u know u want herr :blue: :dance3: its ok u dont have to be shY

[temptations]

yea he pretty much does the same thing..he turns it all around and it gets me thinkin like uhhhh wait....am i really wrong and than i start feelin bad and shit and apologize but than once he apologizes i try to front like i dont wana talk to him nomoree...lol i guess all relationships cant always be all happy happy...and i wouldnt prefer it that way either...but not like this eitheR...sometimez its alrite but other timez i jus bug outt i mean theres a limit to everything :sarb:
i think to this day..its been a long ass time with me and my bf and to this day every time we argue..hes always "rite" but i adjusted with that cuz when it really matters..he knows not to like do that shit i guess.. and ya happy and sweet and shit 24/7 is really annoying..so i guess if u just get use to it..its not too bad..cuz that is just how some guys are..and its just i guess apart of them

[bangin_paki]

perfect example of women falling for a 'jerk'...not to say he is...

hopefully you can overcome this small challange and you and him can get back on track
hopefully...who knowz :neutral: :neutral: :neutral:

[indianchick87]

hmm.. if he gets really abusive [verbally] then dump him. :) cuz its not worth having a boyfriend that does that all the time.

[bangin_paki]

i think to this day..its been a long ass time with me and my bf and to this day every time we argue..hes always "rite" but i adjusted with that cuz when it really matters..he knows not to like do that shit i guess.. and ya happy and sweet and shit 24/7 is really annoying..so i guess if u just get use to it..its not too bad..cuz that is just how some guys are..and its just i guess apart of them
yea but the only problem with mine is that he didnt used to be like that or at least he wasnt like that with me....jus recently he started actin like that i mean i know itz cuz hes openin up more we been together for like 3 semesters well the first sem we were jus friends and than we started goin out or w/e and he was always like not too nice and not an asshole so everything was cool...but this change all of a sudden i was jus like wHOA ...u said u adjusted thats good to hear,,but its real hard especially with him cuz thats all he wants for me to agree with him all the time and i dont wana look like a lil punk like even if i know hes wrong keep agreein with him..i mean im lookin out for him too i dont want him to believe the wrong thingg lol

[bangin_paki]

hmm.. if he gets really abusive [verbally] then dump him. :) cuz its not worth having a boyfriend that does that all the time.
yea well the worst thing he ever said to me that was verbally veryy abusive was one time i was late like an hr cuz of traffic and he didnt believe me so hes started sayin mad shit like ohhh do u know what u could do in an hour..u could fucken suck 20 dicks in an hr...that shit jus threw me off i didnt talk to him for madd long but yea def if he keeps that shit up im gonna have to tell him off even if it does hurt :(

[temptations]

yea but the only problem with mine is that he didnt used to be like that or at least he wasnt like that with me....jus recently he started actin like that i mean i know itz cuz hes openin up more we been together for like 3 semesters well the first sem we were jus friends and than we started goin out or w/e and he was always like not too nice and not an asshole so everything was cool...but this change all of a sudden i was jus like wHOA ...u said u adjusted thats good to hear,,but its real hard especially with him cuz thats all he wants for me to agree with him all the time and i dont wana look like a lil punk like even if i know hes wrong keep agreein with him..i mean im lookin out for him too i dont want him to believe the wrong thingg lol
ohhh wow..then im not too sure my bfs been that way since the first day I met him..maybe somethings up!? i mean guys dont always like to open up about shit..specially fi they are stubborn and wat not..so somehow find out wassup maybe hes goin thru some shit..or he's mad at you about something but can't say? dunno..but thats most likely it

[TYPE_R_GINO]

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[bangin_paki]

ohhh wow..then im not too sure my bfs been that way since the first day I met him..maybe somethings up!? i mean guys dont always like to open up about shit..specially fi they are stubborn and wat not..so somehow find out wassup maybe hes goin thru some shit..or he's mad at you about something but can't say? dunno..but thats most likely it
i guess hes jus mad cuz the semesters almost over and hes not comin back or w/e and hes a realllly jealous person like he cant even see me askin a guy for hW....he asks me everyday like why dont u jus go to a college in the city next sem and im like nah u know im gonna grad from here and shit so i guess its that i have no idea but i do def need to find outt..and him bein so untrustful isnt helpin

[temptations]

i guess hes jus mad cuz the semesters almost over and hes not comin back or w/e and hes a realllly jealous person like he cant even see me askin a guy for hW....he asks me everyday like why dont u jus go to a college in the city next sem and im like nah u know im gonna grad from here and shit so i guess its that i have no idea but i do def need to find outt..and him bein so untrustful isnt helpin
lol u sound more n more like me with every post..yesterday I had to do a project with a few guys ..for class and shit and hes like "does this project involve a bed?" and got all jealous and shit..and he sorta blew off at me but i think its cuz..his past relationships every single girl hes been with has cheatin on him..so he's not use to someone being faithful to him so i can see y he'd trip..but it does get to omuch sometimes..he did apologize at nite though but i know wat ur sayin and as for the goin to school part..its selfish of him to want u to switch locations just for him..tell him there cant be relationship without trust.. and if he did ..he'd be ok with u guys at diff schools n wat not

[Ohmygod]

lol but relatioships are a head fuck thats why i stay away from them my heads allready fucked up with 101 problems but seriously you deserve better talk to him

[americandesi]

i guess hes jus mad cuz the semesters almost over and hes not comin back or w/e and hes a realllly jealous person like he cant even see me askin a guy for hW....he asks me everyday like why dont u jus go to a college in the city next sem and im like nah u know im gonna grad from here and shit so i guess its that i have no idea but i do def need to find outt..and him bein so untrustful isnt helpin


OPEN UR EYES...there r soooo many guys out there...u DONT have to stuck w/ this one.......

since he keeps on saying hurtful things to u... n then later on apologizes...wat does that mean? think clearly? it means....he is not really SORRY...or not sorry enough to not repeat that again.... i wud have understood if thats once.....but more than that... u gotta open ur eyes.. ok?

you need to find someone who loves u more than u love him...trust me it really is in ur best interest... coz when u love someone more than they love u, they tend to take adv of that........ ya im a guy....

[desi_boi_2k4]

i say ur man is normal.. there is nothing wrong wit him except his ego!... and ull find dat in every guy

[Sphinx7]

lll prove hes wrong..

[bigkid]

yea well the worst thing he ever said to me that was verbally veryy abusive was one time i was late like an hr cuz of traffic and he didnt believe me so hes started sayin mad shit like ohhh do u know what u could do in an hour..u could fucken suck 20 dicks in an hr...that shit jus threw me off i didnt talk to him for madd long but yea def if he keeps that shit up im gonna have to tell him off even if it does hurt :(
Yo your bf is stooopid, u shud listen to Indian chick for real, he sounds disrespectful as fukk.. If he was really yer man he wouldn't say that stuff to you about sukkin 20 dicks. Your growin up to be the type of woman who lets people abuse her. Just so you know, people with anger issues always get worse if they dun get help, ne wyz I'm out.. hope u make the rite decision.

[bangin_paki]

lol u sound more n more like me with every post..yesterday I had to do a project with a few guys ..for class and shit and hes like "does this project involve a bed?" and got all jealous and shit..and he sorta blew off at me but i think its cuz..his past relationships every single girl hes been with has cheatin on him..so he's not use to someone being faithful to him so i can see y he'd trip..but it does get to omuch sometimes..he did apologize at nite though but i know wat ur sayin and as for the goin to school part..its selfish of him to want u to switch locations just for him..tell him there cant be relationship without trust.. and if he did ..he'd be ok with u guys at diff schools n wat not
yea same thing with my bf…every relationship he ever had..something bad always happens like the girl cheats on him or something always happens and I guess that’s why he doesn’t really trust me…but I was like damn I \ve had bad relationships too but its not like cuz of them im not gonna trust u either thas jus messed up…but I guess it’ll take time he’s jus bein insecure abt other guys talking to me…I tried to explain to him that even if they do u know I jus always say it st8 up like nah sorry I got a man and he knows I don’t be goin around flirtin and stuff but hes still actin lke that :no: guys have issuez

[bangin_paki]

OPEN UR EYES...there r soooo many guys out there...u DONT have to stuck w/ this one.......

since he keeps on saying hurtful things to u... n then later on apologizes...wat does that mean? think clearly? it means....he is not really SORRY...or not sorry enough to not repeat that again.... i wud have understood if thats once.....but more than that... u gotta open ur eyes.. ok?

you need to find someone who loves u more than u love him...trust me it really is in ur best interest... coz when u love someone more than they love u, they tend to take adv of that........ ya im a guy....
yea but theres no way in hell i make it known to him that i possibly love him more than he loves me and i doubt thats true anyway...some ppl jus have different ways of showin luv...but yea i never do anything to make him think i would do anything for him...i even go by not callin him for a few days if i have to jus to show that i caN live w/o him even if its like killin me evry moment cuz i wana pick up that phone so bad :no: