Would you lie to your husband/wife about being a virgin?

[The Bride]

I prefer the "dont-ask-don't-tell" policy, but if it ever came to it, maybe.

[Mz23BabyPhat]

guys can get away with it even if they lied..

[triple_platinum]

guys can get away with it even if they lied..
Unfortunately true :(

[y69k]

I prefer the "dont-ask-don't-tell" policy, but if it ever came to it, maybe.
why would u lie... :sarb:
wat r u ashamed of??!!

[The Bride]

why would u lie... :sarb:
wat r u ashamed of??!!
Unfortunately desi men tend to be double-standard assholes.

[asianbabexxx]

depends wot type of person he is but i dunnom guess im too young to answer

[y69k]

Unfortunately desi men tend to be double-standard assholes.

hehehe...yea i guess being one i think i can almost agree on that...
but then y do u want to b wit someone u c as an asshole...
wouldnt u rather find someone who would accept u as u r... :sarb:

[The Bride]

depends wot type of person he is but i dunnom guess im too young to answer
Honey you will realize the truth when you are older and looking to get married.

[asianbabexxx]

Honey you will realize the truth when you are older and looking to get married.
errr ok ........... lol

[triple_platinum]

I prefer the "dont-ask-don't-tell" policy, but if it ever came to it, maybe.
Be truthful. No point in torturing yourself or your loved one.

[Affinity]

guys can get away with it even if they lied..
Okay i was just wondering what u meant by guys can get away with it..even if they lied..well why can't women??

[y69k]

Okay i was just wondering what u meant by guys can get away with it..even if they lied..well why can't women??

hehe...exactly :neutral:

[The Bride]

Okay i was just wondering what u meant by guys can get away with it..even if they lied..well why can't women??
Women can lie too, but when the truth comes out, it's more acceptable for a man because it is expected that men sow their wild oats before marriage.

[NYzNiCCa]

I prefer the "dont-ask-don't-tell" policy, but if it ever came to it, maybe.

so how many *****s slid in ur tunnel??

[NYzNiCCa]

hehehe...yea i guess being one i think i can almost agree on that...
but then y do u want to b wit someone u c as an asshole...
wouldnt u rather find someone who would accept u as u r... :sarb:

im sure you would luv to find out ur wifey was suckin someone elses dick...cmon ***** stop coming out with stupid cliches....

[y69k]

im sure you would luv to find out ur wifey was suckin someone elses dick...cmon ***** stop coming out with stupid cliches....
i could also let her know that someone else was suckin mine...

[PINKLEATHER]

I prefer the "dont-ask-don't-tell" policy, but if it ever came to it, maybe.

if i wasn't a virgin ...imagine he fuks me and den finds out i aint a virgin and here i am saying its my first time babyy.. its so special :p and hes like thinking wtf she aint no virgin lol

and i laff if hes got roses all over the bed.. and hes decorated the room lol den he finds out i aint a virgin lol.. id feel bad and guilty

haha id just tell him i aint rather den him finding out later after he fks me

[The Bride]

if i wasn't a virgin ...imagine he fuks me and den finds out i aint a virgin and here i am saying its my first time babyy.. its so special :p and hes like thinking wtf she aint no virgin lol

and i laff if hes got roses all over the bed.. and hes decorated the room lol den he finds out i aint a virgin lol.. id feel bad and guilty

haha id just tell him i aint rather den him finding out later after he fks me
Roses on the bed are OK for non-virgins too. :rolleyes:

[a_deprived_love]

nope, whats there to hide??

[cutiepie03]

i wudnt tell him!

[runbuffalorun]

i think if you're asked, there's no point in lying. If the person wants to be with you, if the person loves you, will they not accept you as you are? the experiences we have are what make us who we are; without them, i doubt we'd be the same. what happens in the past is not as relevant to the present and future as people think.

ps. isn't love and all that other godaymn bullshit about sacrifice, acceptance, and understanding anyway? better to be a non-virgin than a liar don't ya think?

:o

[TYPE_R_GINO]

I Girl Wit Experience In Bed Isnt All That Bad, As Long As She Hasnt Made Out With Too Many Guyz.....its All Good!

[mattp171]

i wouldn't ever lie about that. i'd be living the rest of my life w/ her. it'd rip me apart inside

[Mz23BabyPhat]

Okay i was just wondering what u meant by guys can get away with it..even if they lied..well why can't women??
:eek: a man can easily say hes a virgin..when hes not...but a girl once she looses her virginity..thats it unless she has some sorta operation to become a virgin again and i've heard some do it....

[mattp171]

:eek: a man can easily say hes a virgin..when hes not...but a girl once she looses her virginity..thats it unless she has some sorta operation to become a virgin again and i've heard some do it....
well a girl can lose that a lot of ways. they can fall awkwardly on a fence post (i know someone who did that). doesn't mean she isn't a virgin. but she physically can't 'break' again..

[like_whoa]

i would just be honest, instead of regrettin it later. :sarb:
*kiran

[jassika]

No!

[keyzersoze]

Well Babyphat....its simple....if a girls a virgin then the guy will notice....if not then I dont think she gives a damn in the first place to go get surgery...and yeah u can become DEFLOWERED more ways than 1....pece

[Mz23BabyPhat]

well a girl can lose that a lot of ways. they can fall awkwardly on a fence post (i know someone who did that). doesn't mean she isn't a virgin. but she physically can't 'break' again..
ouch ouch ouch :eek: :eek: :eek:

[mattp171]

ouch ouch ouch :eek: :eek: :eek:
i know another girl who broke it because she was using a guy's bike and fell off the seat and onto the bar. (so that's why girls' bikes are different)

but my point is: that doesn't make her not a virgin..

[Lumbi]

i know another girl who broke it because she was using a guy's bike and fell off the seat and onto the bar. (so that's why girls' bikes are different)

but my point is: that doesn't make her not a virgin..

Yeh Matt is totally right. You gotta get yourself educated on this stuff. I believe you are talking about whether a chick bleeds or not. I wouldnt want you punking your wife if you thought she wasnt a virgin because she didnt bleed. Some people are born without a hymen, other people losing it doing simple activities like riding bikes, playing sports, etc, and what about girls who use tampons, and the list could go on and on. Also with age, it simply goes away. I know a few girls who waited until they were married and did not bleed.