Physical virgins vs. Emotional virgins....when a slut is better than a "good girl"!

[methodman535]

You know sometimes I think, you know how guys are always sayin a virgin is ideal as a wife cuz shes all pure and untainted and uninfluenced by other guys. Well...what about emotional virginity? Or mental virginity.

Consider this...you have a slut on one hand and a "nice girl" on the other who has a boyfriend for a year who she is "faithful" to and doesnt cheat. Ok...she may or may not fuck him, shes probly gunna be kissing him or at least holding hands and hanging out a hella lot. She may have seen his body...and seen him in swimming trunks or sports gear and thought he was really sexy. She might even have fingered herself to orgasm many times thinkin about him, but been careful not to screw him in real cuz she wanted to preserve her virginity as a gift to her future hubby. Well if she is his girlfriend for a year or two and then she meets another guy and gets engaged...the guy is gunna get a physical virgin with an intact hymen right?

Right.

But...each fuckin morning when the guy wakes up....the girl woulda had some dreams and pleasant memories of the ex floating around in her head! And sometimes when the guy fucks her she might get a picture of her ex bf banging her from one of her masturbation fantasies. Ok Im gettin a lil imaginative here lol.

Now compare this virgin to a slut that a guy marries. The sluts banged between 10 and 20 guys for fun, gotten smashed with em too, been there done that etc but never got attached to any one of those guys. In fact they dont have a personality in her memory, not a physical or even a mental thumbprint left. This "slut", would you consider her an emotional virgin? Potentially....with her new hubby she would get more attached emotionally to him than she has been to any other guy before in her life...which is not the case with the "good girl" ie physical virgin.

Discuss.

[MolviCorleone]

i know what ur sayin bruvv

thatz all im sayin

[SharpShoota]

well, the pu$$y is still loose..

:elaugh:

[WonkaBear]

Great Thought...

Emmotional Virgins will luv u and treat u like a king...

[sensousglitter]

Now you've got to find a woman who DOESN'T fantasize about other men?
You men are impossible, there is no winning, is there?

[WonkaBear]

Now you've got to find a woman who DOESN'T fantasize about other men?
You men are impossible, there is no winning, is there?

Im satisfied with what i got :love:

[Mash007]

U need to be abit more imaginative and indepth with ur descriptions so i can understand better

[sensousglitter]

Im satisfied with what i got :love:
i'm sure you are :hug:
your the different one :dance:

[methodman535]

Now you've got to find a woman who DOESN'T fantasize about other men?
You men are impossible, there is no winning, is there?

No...a woman who has not phantasized about THE SAME MAN for years at a time....she coulda fantasized about a bollywood star thats cool...or random guys from her classes but shouldnt have stuck with the same one over and over again obsessively. Thats all Im sayin.

[methodman535]

U need to be abit more imaginative and indepth with ur descriptions so i can understand better


Well I just churned it out in 2 minutes...the concept is very simple why do I need to....oh wait nvm. :neutral:

[sensousglitter]

No...a woman who has not phantasized about THE SAME MAN for years at a time....she coulda fantasized about a bollywood star thats cool...or random guys from her classes but shouldnt have stuck with the same one over and over again obsessively. Thats all Im sayin.
Can one really control what goes through their mind to such an extent?

[Mash007]

Well I just churned it out in 2 minutes...the concept is very simple why do I need to....oh wait nvm. :neutral:I need o put more smilies so ppl know when i'm not serious.

[methodman535]

Can one really control what goes through their mind to such an extent?

Maybe one can to SOME extent. But you are right...each person develops into whatever person their urges, emotions, and previous tendencies and feelings about life and relationships PULLS THEM TOWARDS. So no...you cant control that much.

[sensousglitter]

Exactly, you've learnt well, son.

[MolviCorleone]

censorship

dont let them watch the telly after 9pm. it corrupts the mind.

[sensousglitter]

censorship

dont let them watch the telly after 9pm. it corrupts the mind.
yes, and please dont forget our leashes too.

[WonkaBear]

yes, and please dont forget our leashes too.

So your into that stuff :naughty:

[Cardinal_Sinner]

A slut is a slut...How can u say wrong is right?
SO u sayin Guys would prefer to be wiv a grl who has been around...used...touched..screwed, Oppose to someone whos is untouched? man its common sense! At least a clean girl has only thought about Sex and would never go off and do it while she is married...Unlike a SLUT who would coz thats what shes done before marriage and theres no guarantee if she meets someone who is interested in her that she wont consider screwing them..bcoz not only will she think about doing it...she will ACTUALLY Do it!.

[sara khan]

very interesting topic...well just to comment on the physical virgin...well i think if she is not putting it out for this guy, she is only, holding hands with kissing etc...because she wants to keep her self for her husband.....then whats the point in playing with the guys emotions and hers? i think if she first have made a choice in staying a virgin till she is married....then she shouldnt date guys to jus hold hands and kiss....but thats how i feel :dunno:

[Seeeeeeema]

i say everyone shud get a chance..

if they are bad and want to be good.. give them a chance..

virgin not virgin is all fucking bullshit

esp for a girl

whatever this thread is fucked up! u guys dont even know what u fucking want..

[NYzNiCCa]

You know sometimes I think, you know how guys are always sayin a virgin is ideal as a wife cuz shes all pure and untainted and uninfluenced by other guys. Well...what about emotional virginity? Or mental virginity.

Consider this...you have a slut on one hand and a "nice girl" on the other who has a boyfriend for a year who she is "faithful" to and doesnt cheat. Ok...she may or may not fuck him, shes probly gunna be kissing him or at least holding hands and hanging out a hella lot. She may have seen his body...and seen him in swimming trunks or sports gear and thought he was really sexy. She might even have fingered herself to orgasm many times thinkin about him, but been careful not to screw him in real cuz she wanted to preserve her virginity as a gift to her future hubby. Well if she is his girlfriend for a year or two and then she meets another guy and gets engaged...the guy is gunna get a physical virgin with an intact hymen right?

Right.

But...each fuckin morning when the guy wakes up....the girl woulda had some dreams and pleasant memories of the ex floating around in her head! And sometimes when the guy fucks her she might get a picture of her ex bf banging her from one of her masturbation fantasies. Ok Im gettin a lil imaginative here lol.

Now compare this virgin to a slut that a guy marries. The sluts banged between 10 and 20 guys for fun, gotten smashed with em too, been there done that etc but never got attached to any one of those guys. In fact they dont have a personality in her memory, not a physical or even a mental thumbprint left. This "slut", would you consider her an emotional virgin? Potentially....with her new hubby she would get more attached emotionally to him than she has been to any other guy before in her life...which is not the case with the "good girl" ie physical virgin.

Discuss.

as long as the pussy is good and she aint physically fucking around...who cares...everyone in the world fantasizes bout others...

[BoNaFiDeHoTTiE]

I choose neither.
I tell a girl if you have gone further than kissing, youre off my list. Or if youve been in a long term, serious relatioship, youre off my list.

Its pretty tough to find girls nowadays, thats why im willing to date girls 6 years younger than me :D

[tjnptel1]

As long as she doesn't say her ex's name while i am fucking her.. i will fuck her till kingdom come.

[sachin_patel]

good point dude..
i'd go with slut..

[methodman535]

A slut is a slut...How can u say wrong is right?
SO u sayin Guys would prefer to be wiv a grl who has been around...used...touched..screwed, Oppose to someone whos is untouched? man its common sense! At least a clean girl has only thought about Sex and would never go off and do it while she is married...Unlike a SLUT who would coz thats what shes done before marriage and theres no guarantee if she meets someone who is interested in her that she wont consider screwing them..bcoz not only will she think about doing it...she will ACTUALLY Do it!.


All Im saying is, that people think physical virgins are the purest of the pure, well not everyone of course but this thread is BY A GUY FOR GUYS. I mean, Im sayin that a physical virgin aint all that "unadulterated" and a physical slut aint all that "used up" thats all Im sayin. Im just sayin as far as ermm...the "first use" principle is concerned, the physical ones arent as clean in a mental respect, and the sluts arent as dirtied and used up EMOTIONALLY as some physical virgins can be.

Im saying theres both a physical as well as an emotional/mental aspect to relationships. And people just focus on the "shes used" in the PHYSICAL department but forget all about the mental/emotional aspect of it.

[methodman535]

very interesting topic...well just to comment on the physical virgin...well i think if she is not putting it out for this guy, she is only, holding hands with kissing etc...because she wants to keep her self for her husband.....then whats the point in playing with the guys emotions and hers? i think if she first have made a choice in staying a virgin till she is married....then she shouldnt date guys to jus hold hands and kiss....but thats how i feel :dunno:


Well Im not sayin any girl should do or not do this and that...thats up to the girl, Im just sayin that after all is said and done its not as simple as A B C...people look at it very simple in black and white and say virgin or non-virgin but Im sayin theres so much other complicated stuff that nobody cares about.

[methodman535]

i say everyone shud get a chance..

if they are bad and want to be good.. give them a chance..

virgin not virgin is all fucking bullshit

esp for a girl

whatever this thread is fucked up! u guys dont even know what u fucking want..

Im not sayin anybody shouldnt get a chance. Fuckin hell...I just made a thread that basically says give sluts a goddam chance, and you come around and accuse me of not giving anyone a chance? :rolleyes:

[Cardinal_Sinner]

No one has a clear pure mind..n thats a fact. And there is a big difference between "thinking" and "doing" At the end of the day no one can ever get into anyone's mind..u only get judged by ur actions.
Peace

[methodman535]

No one has a clear pure mind..n thats a fact. And there is a big difference between "thinking" and "doing" At the end of the day no one can ever get into anyone's mind..u only get judged by ur actions.
Peace


You missed the point. I didnt say anybody at all even has a pure mind, I just said some peoples minds can have a fuckin TATOO of one particular unique person on them if they obsess with that same person for years. As opposed to someone who just randomly flirts, fucks but keeps switching around. Get it?

[bill]

You know sometimes I think, you know how guys are always sayin a virgin is ideal as a wife cuz shes all pure and untainted and uninfluenced by other guys. Well...what about emotional virginity? Or mental virginity.

Consider this...you have a slut on one hand and a "nice girl" on the other who has a boyfriend for a year who she is "faithful" to and doesnt cheat. Ok...she may or may not fuck him, shes probly gunna be kissing him or at least holding hands and hanging out a hella lot. She may have seen his body...and seen him in swimming trunks or sports gear and thought he was really sexy. She might even have fingered herself to orgasm many times thinkin about him, but been careful not to screw him in real cuz she wanted to preserve her virginity as a gift to her future hubby. Well if she is his girlfriend for a year or two and then she meets another guy and gets engaged...the guy is gunna get a physical virgin with an intact hymen right?

Right.

But...each fuckin morning when the guy wakes up....the girl woulda had some dreams and pleasant memories of the ex floating around in her head! And sometimes when the guy fucks her she might get a picture of her ex bf banging her from one of her masturbation fantasies. Ok Im gettin a lil imaginative here lol.

Now compare this virgin to a slut that a guy marries. The sluts banged between 10 and 20 guys for fun, gotten smashed with em too, been there done that etc but never got attached to any one of those guys. In fact they dont have a personality in her memory, not a physical or even a mental thumbprint left. This "slut", would you consider her an emotional virgin? Potentially....with her new hubby she would get more attached emotionally to him than she has been to any other guy before in her life...which is not the case with the "good girl" ie physical virgin.

Discuss.


Stop being so insecure? :idea:

[methodman535]

Stop being so insecure? :idea:


Stop pretending to be so secure. You probably waiting on your parents to find a virgin villager who needs a green card.

[bill]

Stop pretending to be so secure. You probably waiting on your parents to find a virgin villager who needs a green card.

...okay :/ I've been with girls that aren't virgins. It's not that big a deal. So again: stop being so insecure.

[methodman535]

...okay :/ I've been with girls that aren't virgins. It's not that big a deal. So again: stop being so insecure.

Ive been with them too. Lets see you marry one and then talk ok? Im talking about MARRIAGE where you gunna be with the person for life, or at least try to be.

So again, stop pretending to be so secure.

[bill]

Ive been with them too. Lets see you marry one and then talk ok? Im talking about MARRIAGE where you gunna be with the person for life, or at least try to be.

So what if it's marriage - how is it different to a long-term committed relationship anyway (minus the paperwork)? Just because a girl isn't a virgin doesn't mean she's a slut, and vice versa. Judge the girl on her merits, not on whether she's had previous relationships. But hey, that's my view on the matter. And yeah, I'd marry a non-virgin. It would be hypocritical of me to say that I'll only marry a virgin.

So again, stop pretending to be so secure.

How am I pretending to be secure? Just cause I don't agree with your silly and insecure self? Get over it.

[methodman535]

So what if it's marriage - how is it different to a long-term committed relationship anyway (minus the paperwork)? Just because a girl isn't a virgin doesn't mean she's a slut, and vice versa. Judge the girl on her merits, not on whether she's had previous relationships. But hey, that's my view on the matter. And yeah, I'd marry a non-virgin. It would be hypocritical of me to say that I'll only marry a virgin.


Typical bill shortsightedness, this thread is about sluts not being as bad as people may think for fucks sakes, why would I be insecure if Im actually promoting them as being not as horrible or hard to handle as some people may think?


How am I pretending to be secure? Just cause I don't agree with your silly and insecure self? Get over it.

You are pretending first of all to know what the hell Im talking about which you obviously dont. So the rest follows naturally.

[chunky]

I'm pro slut.

[bill]

Typical bill shortsightedness, this thread is about sluts not being as bad as people may think for fucks sakes, why would I be insecure if Im actually promoting them as being not as horrible or hard to handle as some people may think?

Typical methodman nonreadingness. My first post didn't say you were being insecure. I was refering to the whole 'OMG MY WIFE MUST BE A VIRGIN' saying a lot of insecure guys adhere to. So this whole argument is a moot point, because it stems from insecurity. Jeez nikka, learn to read and not take things so personally and start getting so defensive.

p.s. i'd call you insecure just based on how defensive you got to the whole 'insecure' thing anyway

[methodman535]

Typical methodman nonreadingness. My first post didn't say you were being insecure. I was refering to the whole 'OMG MY WIFE MUST BE A VIRGIN' saying a lot of insecure guys adhere to. So this whole argument is a moot point, because it stems from insecurity. Jeez nikka, learn to read and not take things so personally and start getting so defensive.

p.s. i'd call you insecure just based on how defensive you got to the whole 'insecure' thing anyway

:blahblah:

[bill]

:blahblah:

<not really>OMGZZ i was pWned by mmans bryllyant wyt</not really>

[methodman535]

[fake embarassment]

<not really>OMGZZ i was pWned by mmans bryllyant wyt</not really>

:ashamed: bastard!

[/fake embarassment]

[Cardinal_Sinner]

Man u r a confused guy discusssin confused shit...Maybe u r being tied down with a slut for life and need sum reassurance that its ok to be married to a one..
Who carez get over it. :squint:

[methodman535]

Man u r a confused guy discusssin confused shit...Maybe u r being tied down with a slut for life and need sum reassurance that its ok to be married to a one..
Who carez get over it. :squint:

Maybe. Maybe not. Everyone cares cuz this is what forums are for. Thanks for the bump! :thumbrigh

[methodman535]

I'm pro slut.

Just for banging or for marrying too? :D

[shivaani]

You know sometimes I think, you know how guys are always sayin a virgin is ideal as a wife cuz shes all pure and untainted and uninfluenced by other guys. Well...what about emotional virginity? Or mental virginity.

Consider this...you have a slut on one hand and a "nice girl" on the other who has a boyfriend for a year who she is "faithful" to and doesnt cheat. Ok...she may or may not fuck him, shes probly gunna be kissing him or at least holding hands and hanging out a hella lot. She may have seen his body...and seen him in swimming trunks or sports gear and thought he was really sexy. She might even have fingered herself to orgasm many times thinkin about him, but been careful not to screw him in real cuz she wanted to preserve her virginity as a gift to her future hubby. Well if she is his girlfriend for a year or two and then she meets another guy and gets engaged...the guy is gunna get a physical virgin with an intact hymen right?

Right.

But...each fuckin morning when the guy wakes up....the girl woulda had some dreams and pleasant memories of the ex floating around in her head! And sometimes when the guy fucks her she might get a picture of her ex bf banging her from one of her masturbation fantasies. Ok Im gettin a lil imaginative here lol.

Now compare this virgin to a slut that a guy marries. The sluts banged between 10 and 20 guys for fun, gotten smashed with em too, been there done that etc but never got attached to any one of those guys. In fact they dont have a personality in her memory, not a physical or even a mental thumbprint left. This "slut", would you consider her an emotional virgin? Potentially....with her new hubby she would get more attached emotionally to him than she has been to any other guy before in her life...which is not the case with the "good girl" ie physical virgin.

Discuss.
the same can go for guys i'd definitely go for an emotional virgin

[methodman535]

the same can go for guys i'd definitely go for an emotional virgin

Yep it definately goes for guys. I only wrote it from a male perspective cuz firstly Im a guy and secondly its guys who obsess over marrying virgins more than girls do. I dont think girls care half as much as guys when it comes to marryin a virgin...girls are more tolerant in that department?

[shivaani]

yea girls are definitely more tolerant. we do believe if a guy is a 'physical virgin' hes more likely to cheat . atleast i do ....

[methodman535]

yea girls are definitely more tolerant. we do believe if a guy is a 'physical virgin' hes more likely to cheat . atleast i do ....


What?! :shock: Explain that one in more detail please.

[shivaani]

ok see if a guys not bin with neone wen he does it with you hes like damn i like this lemme see if it can get ne better..........but a guy whos bin there done tht is like ok i've seen it all......ok now i confused myself

[methodman535]

ok see if a guys not bin with neone wen he does it with you hes like damn i like this lemme see if it can get ne better..........but a guy whos bin there done tht is like ok i've seen it all......ok now i confused myself

Yeah that makes sense but do you actually think that if you MARRY a guy like that hes still gunna cheat even though he married ya? Im not just talkin bf/gf relationships which we know are never set in stone to begin with but marriage...is something that people are supposed to take more seriously. :sarb:

[shivaani]

yea ofcourse hes gonna cheat comeon wen ure married ure like sleepin with the same person for like 30 yrs (i hope so) neway this physical virgin guys gonna wanna cheat for sure.........as opposed to a bf gf relationship whr he can break it off at any time

[GsBabyGurl]

So I suppose the ideal then would be someone who is both a physical and emotional virgin?

[methodman535]

So I suppose the ideal then would be someone who is both a physical and emotional virgin?

After reading what shivaani wrote I get this feeling that its either one or the other to an extent. :eek:

[GsBabyGurl]

After reading what shivaani wrote I get this feeling that its either one or the other to an extent. :eek:

Not always, my fiance was my first bf, I've only ever loved him, so he gets an emotional and physical virgin

[shivaani]

aw nice to hear tht :)

[GsBabyGurl]

aw nice to hear tht :)

Thanks :)

[kollieflower_k9]

18 and engaged?

i doubt it.

[methodman535]

Not always, my fiance was my first bf, I've only ever loved him, so he gets an emotional and physical virgin

Thats if you marry him. You already lost your emotional virginity....big time cuz you stayed with him. Lets see if it lasts. Dunn! dunnn! dunnnnnn!

[shivaani]

damn ure 18?

[Ac89]

the fact that you ppl have enuf time on your hands to think about all this ..and then write about it....shows how either very bored you are...or little to no lfie you have

[GsBabyGurl]

18 and engaged?

i doubt it.

Well the engagement party hasn't gone down yet, but yeah actually, as of december, anyway im muslim, it had to be done so i could talk to him without all the aunties haw hai -ing over it :p

[shivaani]

Thats if you marry him. You already lost your emotional virginity....big time cuz you stayed with him. Lets see if it lasts. Dunn! dunnn! dunnnnnn!
haha u plannin to rite a book on this stuff....? its gona be a best seller for sure :p

[kollieflower_k9]

Well the engagement party hasn't gone down yet, but yeah actually, as of december, anyway im muslim, it had to be done so i could talk to him without all the aunties haw hai -ing over it :p
youre not engaged.

only reason you claim to be is a facade.

emotional slut.

[kollieflower_k9]

the fact that you ppl have enuf time on your hands to think about all this ..and then write about it....shows how either very bored you are...or little to no lfie you have
ur ass read the whole thing.

[methodman535]

haha u plannin to rite a book on this stuff....? its gona be a best seller for sure :p


Im surprised theres no books or even articles on it already. Cuz its a valid concept! :D

[GsBabyGurl]

youre not engaged.

only reason you claim to be is a facade.

emotional slut.

ouch someones bitter, who dumped you and how many times?

[Ac89]

ur ass read the whole thing.
and what makes you jump to that silly conclusion>?

[kollieflower_k9]

ive never dated anyone.

i dont lie to everyone and say im engaged just so i can kiss someone.

[kollieflower_k9]

and what makes you jump to that silly conclusion>?
ur post count.

[shivaani]

wierd....but my frend tole me her mom said tht she shud only sleep with guys who're non virgins...wierd!

[Ac89]

sorry i don't speak stupid.
slow down and translate please kolliflower

[shivaani]

wierd....but my frend tole me her mom said tht she shud only sleep with guys who're non virgins...wierd!
haha tht sounds so weird :p

[GsBabyGurl]

ive never dated anyone.



Well its not too hard to see why :p

I can swear on the Quran that I'm engaged, but I wont bother, not like I give a shit about someone who cant get a guy and therefore thinks nobody else can :rolleyes:

[kollieflower_k9]

Well its not too hard to see why :p

I can swear on the Quran that I'm engaged, but I wont bother, not like I give a shit about someone who cant get a guy and therefore thinks nobody else can :rolleyes:
your reason for getting engaged is so you can kiss the boy. nothing else.

also, you never had a proper ceremony

youre not engaged.

idiot.

[GsBabyGurl]

your reason for getting engaged is so you can kiss the boy. nothing else.

also, you never had a proper ceremony

youre not engaged.

idiot.

1. Dumbass where did I mention kissing the boy?
2. I dunno what your fucked up custom is but I have a ring, just not a party, so what's your point?
3. I would suggest you stop talking now before you embarass yourself too much
4. Go get a bf, you'll be much less bitter, (if you can get one that is)

[kollieflower_k9]

hahahah

youre so full of shit.

on one hand youre preaching religion.
but in your last post you said you had to get engaged so aunties dont talk shit about you guys being together.

you never had a damn ceremony.

[GsBabyGurl]

hahahah

youre so full of shit.

on one hand youre preaching religion.
but in your last post you said you had to get engaged so aunties dont talk shit about you guys being together.

you never had a damn ceremony.

um are you illiterate? where was i preaching religion? I dunno bout you or your culture or religion but here's the way it worked: He asked, I said yes, we got permission from the parents, and i got a ring.
I dont need pink turbans, flowers tossed at me, and incense waived around my face to be engaged,

Since when does a ceremony define engagement?
You are retarded
most likely ugly too, as you admitted in the post where you were trashing woman of power,
ur just a jealous ugly ass ho sitting in your room wishing you had a life/friends/a bf

[Fatty4life]

how bout a phymotional virgin :neutral:

[SexyTemptress]

This is the most fucked up thread i'm sorry. You cant hold it against a girl if she's had sexual thoughts. Guys look at porn and jack off to it all the time, but if a girl even innocently holds hands, or thinks about a guy then shes somehow tainted. The hypocrisy makes me sick.

I dont know why a guy would want a slut anyways. How can you respect a woman who doesnt respect herself and lets men do shit to her she isnt comfortable with?

[missymissms03]

:drama2:

[joey87]

I hate sluts....they talk to much.....so all of u non-virgins out there...i think u girls are horny littlee fucking bastards, who are loose, judgemental, and all the other things u dont want :mad: trust me, i've been offered plenty of times...but i always decline

[methodman535]

This is the most fucked up thread i'm sorry. You cant hold it against a girl if she's had sexual thoughts. Guys look at porn and jack off to it all the time, but if a girl even innocently holds hands, or thinks about a guy then shes somehow tainted. The hypocrisy makes me sick.

I dont know why a guy would want a slut anyways. How can you respect a woman who doesnt respect herself and lets men do shit to her she isnt comfortable with?

Uhhmm I didnt make this thread originally so that guys would ALSO start holding it against a girl if she had sexual thoughts. The main theme of my thread, based on my thoughts, is to look at BOTH sides of purity/celibacy/virginity not just one. To look at the mental side as well as the physical side. In fact Im suggesting to give the more *ahem* physically active girls a fucking BREAK and you are calling me a hypocrite. :rolleyes:

[Desi_Bunny]

oh please this is not india

FOR THE GUYS - if you think your chick tells u she is pure as a nun when you marry her dont believe everything she says. Let me tell you something about desi girls we are closet semi sluts. Desi girls will act like total virgins but when it comes to LUST OR DESIRE they MAY OR MAY NOT make a choice to go do watever they want with any guy.

I am not saying all desi chicks are like that but more desi girls are they find a way to get a piece of their cake and eat it too...in the closet that is.

You think your wife is actually gonna tell u what she did with who.

And for those of you who think desi girls are saving themselves..good luck..times have changed..desi girls are more aggressive about getting what they want once they have the guy under their control in bed....

WE WILL DO THINGS...WE JUST WILL NEVER TELL YOU ABOUT IT ONCE YOU MARRY US..THATS BECAUSE WE ARE SO GOOD AT HIDING IT.

[methodman535]

Yeah yeah born again virgins I know. Thats not what this thread is about you obviously werent paying attention. Its about girls who fuckin get fixated on a guy in a long term relationship EMOTIONALLY.

[Chiller_97]

I wasn't gonna post here but here's what I think. "Emotional virgin" is B.S. So what is she's emotionally pure but had 10 cocks enter her pussy and make it all lose and used up? See what I mean?

[methodman535]

I wasn't gonna post here but here's what I think. "Emotional virgin" is B.S. So what is she's emotionally pure but had 10 cocks enter her pussy and make it all lose and used up? See what I mean?


What if shes had 10 cocks enter her skull and she cant stop talking about the other 9 each fuckin day of the rest of your goddam life. Thats what I'm talking about.

[appenzeller]

Now you've got to find a woman who DOESN'T fantasize about other men?
You men are impossible, there is no winning, is there?
I think it's more the other way around...girls never get satisfied lol.

[Harpy]

You know sometimes I think, you know how guys are always sayin a virgin is ideal as a wife cuz shes all pure and untainted and uninfluenced by other guys. Well...what about emotional virginity? Or mental virginity.

Consider this...you have a slut on one hand and a "nice girl" on the other who has a boyfriend for a year who she is "faithful" to and doesnt cheat. Ok...she may or may not fuck him, shes probly gunna be kissing him or at least holding hands and hanging out a hella lot. She may have seen his body...and seen him in swimming trunks or sports gear and thought he was really sexy. She might even have fingered herself to orgasm many times thinkin about him, but been careful not to screw him in real cuz she wanted to preserve her virginity as a gift to her future hubby. Well if she is his girlfriend for a year or two and then she meets another guy and gets engaged...the guy is gunna get a physical virgin with an intact hymen right?

Right.

But...each fuckin morning when the guy wakes up....the girl woulda had some dreams and pleasant memories of the ex floating around in her head! And sometimes when the guy fucks her she might get a picture of her ex bf banging her from one of her masturbation fantasies. Ok Im gettin a lil imaginative here lol.

Now compare this virgin to a slut that a guy marries. The sluts banged between 10 and 20 guys for fun, gotten smashed with em too, been there done that etc but never got attached to any one of those guys. In fact they dont have a personality in her memory, not a physical or even a mental thumbprint left. This "slut", would you consider her an emotional virgin? Potentially....with her new hubby she would get more attached emotionally to him than she has been to any other guy before in her life...which is not the case with the "good girl" ie physical virgin.

Discuss.
hey .. personally I feel that if after marriage the gal and u are cool, open minded and trusting each other .. it shouldnt make a diff whether shes a virgin of any sort or no.

if allz clear and settled then life is a blast!!

and one more thing.. i dont really also agree wid you on the topic itself.. dont you and wont you fantasise about gals after marriage ? ? if you answer is NO .. dude .. you r kiddin yourself!!