wedding night

[londonmassive]

im getting married in a few weeks and wanna know summit....on the wedding night, is it compulsary for a muslim to have sex with his wife coz i heard it's summit dat has to be done.

and how the hell do u do it?? don't worry fellas, i know about the birds and the bees, i mean how do start it all off coz i might wait for her to make the first move and vice versa

[noregrets]

im getting married in a few weeks and wanna know summit....on the wedding night, is it compulsary for a muslim to have sex with his wife coz i heard it's summit dat has to be done.

and how the hell do u do it?? don't worry fellas, i know about the birds and the bees, i mean how do start it all off coz i might wait for her to make the first move and vice versa

nice man... i m also interested in knowing it... but as far as my knowledge is concerned, its not necessary who starts it, and its also not necessary that u screw her the first night!!! :neutral:

[rabbi_shergill]

this is hillarious lol

RD is tooooooooooooooooooooooo personal..

[moonshadow]

good place to ask cuz you know every other person is married around here :ugh:

[missymissms03]

watch porno u dumb fuck..or take sum sex ed classes

[cutiepie03]

this is hillarious lol

RD is tooooooooooooooooooooooo personal..

i agree! lol! funny sheeeeeeeeeet!!

[cutiepie03]

im getting married in a few weeks and wanna know summit....on the wedding night, is it compulsary for a muslim to have sex with his wife coz i heard it's summit dat has to be done.

and how the hell do u do it?? don't worry fellas, i know about the birds and the bees, i mean how do start it all off coz i might wait for her to make the first move and vice versa

do u actually think the grl is gonna make the first move?? LMAO!

[a_deprived_love]

this is hillarious lol

RD is tooooooooooooooooooooooo personal..
i agree...

[Mz23BabyPhat]

well for sure the girls not gonna make the 1st move..:slap:
talk it out first and ask her if shes ready or not..get to knw her better..**ur gonna have to make the 1st move ofcourse** ;)

[J_Zilla]

step 1: watch porn
step 2. get a Barry White Cd
step 3. dont smack the pony for a while before the wedding
step 4. imagine the girl is the right hand on the night of the wedding.

thats all ya need.

[Sweet Miasma]

if ur a sunni muslim then yea it is compulsory to have sex on the first night....if not the first then it has to be within seven days or ur marriage is not valid

and also .....this goes to you if you are sunni....you can not have a valima dinner if you have not had sex with your wife....so that means if you dont screw the first night then the next night you can NOT have the valima dinner....you can ONLY have the valima dinner after you have consumated the marriage...

now...if ur shia...then i dont know what yall do....

[Arshy]

if ur a sunni muslim then yea it is compulsory to have sex on the first night....if not the first then it has to be within seven days or ur marriage is not valid

and also .....this goes to you if you are sunni....you can not have a valima dinner if you have not had sex with your wife....so that means if you dont screw the first night then the next night you can NOT have the valima dinner....you can ONLY have the valima dinner after you have consumated the marriage...

now...if ur shia...then i dont know what yall do....

Are u all makin this stuff up or sumin?
I mean as long as da hubby n wife are happy wit when and how dey wanna do it does it really matter?

[Sweet Miasma]

Are u all makin this stuff up or sumin?
I mean as long as da hubby n wife are happy wit when and how dey wanna do it does it really matter?


if thats what islam says about marriage then thats how it is...
i dont make stuff up when it comes to religion

if ur not muslim then dont worry about it....
and if u are and u dont like it then fine dont follow it

[hurryputher]

if thats what islam says about marriage then thats how it is...
i dont make stuff up when it comes to religion

if ur not muslim then dont worry about it....
and if u are and u dont like it then fine dont follow it

Sources? Ie. Quran, Hadith.

Otherwise I'll disregard it.

[Sweet Miasma]

Sources? Ie. Quran, Hadith.

Otherwise I'll disregard it.


here is one hadith i found..

Volume 7, Book 62, Number 89:
Narrated Anas:

The Prophet stayed for three days at a place between Khaibar and Medina, and there he consummated his marriage with Safiyya bint Huyay. I invited the Muslims to a banquet which included neither meat nor bread. The Prophet ordered for the leather dining sheets to be spread, and then dates, dried yogurt and butter were provided over it, and that was the Walima (banquet) of the Prophet. The Muslims asked whether Safiyya would be considered as his wife or as a slave girl of what his right hands possessed. Then they said, "If the Prophet screens her from the people, then she Is the Prophet's wife but if he does not screen her, then she is a slave girl." So when the Prophet proceeded, he made a place for her (on the camel) behind him and screened her from people.

[hurryputher]

Is that Bukhari, Muslim, Trimzi or something else??

[Sweet Miasma]

here is another one

Sayyiduna Anas ibn Malik (Allah be pleased with him) narrates that he was a boy of ten when the Messenger of Allah (Allah bless him & give him peace) migrated to Madina. (He added): “My mother and aunts used to urge me to serve the Messenger of Allah (Allah bless him & give him peace) regularly, thus I served him for ten years. When the Messenger of Allah (Allah bless him & give him peace) passed away, I was twenty years old, and I knew about the order of Hijab more than anyone else, when it was revealed. It was revealed for the first time when the Messenger of Allah (Allah bless him & give him peace) had consummated his marriage with Zainab bint Jahsh (Allah be pleased with her). The Messenger of Allah (Allah bless him & give him peace) in the morning was a bridegroom, and he invited the people to a banquet. So they came, ate, and then all left except a few who remained with the Messenger of Allah (Allah bless him & give him peace) for a long time….. (Sahih al-Bukhari, no. 4871)

[Sweet Miasma]

Is that Bukhari, Muslim, Trimzi or something else??


the first one bukhari

[hurryputher]

Yeah Bukhari's trustworthy. Cheers

[Sweet Miasma]

its actually sunnah.....ur not supposed to delay it (having sex) though....but yea....i guess.....if ur not ready then u dont have to do it the first night....but just do go and hold off on sex for a month or so....

[Fatty4life]

what a topic :eek:

[GeminiPinay]

what a topic :eek:
I should of suspected you'd post in here!!

[ShivaChrist]

im getting married in a few weeks and wanna know summit....on the wedding night, is it compulsary for a muslim to have sex with his wife coz i heard it's summit dat has to be done.

and how the hell do u do it?? don't worry fellas, i know about the birds and the bees, i mean how do start it all off coz i might wait for her to make the first move and vice versa

You have to make the first move. Just smile, tell her how pretty she is and kiss her gently. Run your hand down her face, look into her eyes, and then kiss her again. Things will get better and better from that point on.

[londonmassive]

watch porno u dumb fuck..or take sum sex ed classes

did u actually read what i said???

[londonmassive]

if ur a sunni muslim then yea it is compulsory to have sex on the first night....if not the first then it has to be within seven days or ur marriage is not valid

and also .....this goes to you if you are sunni....you can not have a valima dinner if you have not had sex with your wife....so that means if you dont screw the first night then the next night you can NOT have the valima dinner....you can ONLY have the valima dinner after you have consumated the marriage...

now...if ur shia...then i dont know what yall do....

yeh, i am a sunni muslim...thanks for ur comment...you confirmed what other people were saying to me

[NYzNiCCa]

im gonna kiss her once, untie her naara pull her out of shalwar and get down to business :Pelvic2: KUTTA STYLE ALL THE WAY!

[GabruJawaan]

im gonna kiss her once, untie her naara pull her out of shalwar and get down to business :Pelvic2: KUTTA STYLE ALL THE WAY!

LMFAO

But yeah it is compulsory and if the bird knows it then you got no problem just get stuck in :Pelvic2:

Jus don't get too excited on the first night and think about goin further than that - e.g. tryin to give her one up the ass aint gonna work :Punch:

Good luck and make sure to tell us how it went :dance:

[MaranelloMan]

From what i know its Sunnah, not a requirement for Walima. However just be sensitive to what your wife wants as its very easy to assume that she wants to have sex straight away. Build it up. If it takes a night or a week give her the time she needs!!

[MaranelloMan]

LMFAO



Jus don't get too excited on the first night and think about goin further than that - e.g. tryin to give her one up the ass aint gonna work :Punch:


Giving it up the ass nullifies marriage, so dont try that one.

[GabruJawaan]

Woah didn't know that cheers mate U saved me :ok:

[MaranelloMan]

if ur a sunni muslim then yea it is compulsory to have sex on the first night....if not the first then it has to be within seven days or ur marriage is not valid


Not true if the girl is on her period. Then having sex is not allowed. Plus i dont think its compulsary.

Plus neither of the hadith actually say consumating the marriage is essential. IMO it is not essential but recommended. But neither person should be unreasonable in the matter.

[MaranelloMan]

Woah didn't know that cheers mate U saved me :ok:
No worries.

[alesha]

if ur a sunni muslim then yea it is compulsory to have sex on the first night....if not the first then it has to be within seven days or ur marriage is not valid

and also .....this goes to you if you are sunni....you can not have a valima dinner if you have not had sex with your wife....so that means if you dont screw the first night then the next night you can NOT have the valima dinner....you can ONLY have the valima dinner after you have consumated the marriage...

now...if ur shia...then i dont know what yall do....

:wtf:

[ViGiLaNtE-X]

jst surprise her and ask 2 play strip monopoly...bt b4 u tell her sneek a couple of grand in ur back pocket

[ArAbIaN eYeZ]

you know most ppl dont have sex on the wedding night
cuz they r so tired after the wedding n everythin


and i dont know but grlz NEVA make the 1st move...........
and this was prolly a joke thread...

i dont think he's really askin..........

[Ghazal84]

Don't know who made the wedding night thing up, but no it's not compulsory. U'd still be married even if u never screwed. Instead of doing the screwing why don't u talk wid wifey on the wedding night. Marriage ain't about the physical shite you know, it should be more spiritual.

[hey_jay37]

You have to make the first move. Just smile, tell her how pretty she is and kiss her gently. Run your hand down her face, look into her eyes, and then kiss her again. Things will get better and better from that point on.

Good answer :Pelvic2: :Pelvic2:

[mattp171]

you know most ppl dont have sex on the wedding night
cuz they r so tired after the wedding n everythin


and i dont know but grlz NEVA make the 1st move...........
and this was prolly a joke thread...

i dont think he's really askin..........
it's not true that girls never make the first move..

[budz]

it's not true that girls never make the first move..
Very true.

[TYPE_R_GINO]

watch porno u dumb fuck..or take sum sex ed classes

LOL.....CLEAR, CONCISE AND STR8 TO THE POINT!!!! :p :p :p

[TYPE_R_GINO]

IM GONNA MAKE SURE I WEAR MAH TEAR-AWAY PANTS ON MY WEDDIN NITE! :p

1 YANK AND IM READY TO DO MA THING..... :Pelvic2: :Pelvic2: :Pelvic2:

[I yO CuZ I]

i walkin thru barnes and noble and i saw a SEX FOR DUMMIES BOOK... go check ur mailbox i sent u one!

[PINKLEATHER]

just take her clothes off... take ur clothes off and get in the blanket and well frm der everything will just happen

um i think u have 2 have sex inbetween 3/4 days?

[Orestes]

I am a sunni muslim myself but I'm also pretty open-minded

Its kinda funny about the valima rule, its like you can't eat unless you have sex. :dance3:

[methodman535]

you know most ppl dont have sex on the wedding night
cuz they r so tired after the wedding n everythin


and i dont know but grlz NEVA make the 1st move...........
and this was prolly a joke thread...

i dont think he's really askin..........

First ishmart answer. :D

[FlyDesiGrl]

if ur a sunni muslim then yea it is compulsory to have sex on the first night....if not the first then it has to be within seven days or ur marriage is not valid

and also .....this goes to you if you are sunni....you can not have a valima dinner if you have not had sex with your wife....so that means if you dont screw the first night then the next night you can NOT have the valima dinner....you can ONLY have the valima dinner after you have consumated the marriage...
now...if ur shia...then i dont know what yall do....
so that means on ur valima night..everyone will look at the girl and be like "ooooh shit got fuckedddd!!! :p "??? thats kinda embarrasing!!

[zai_alam]

Put on an album by Chef from South Park to set the mood :naughty:

And don't dive into the rumpy-pumpy action straight away. Spend some time on some kinky foreplay (use your tongue).

And... fuck it, ignore all that bollox I've just said because I haven't got a clue what I'm talking about :dunnouh:

I'm sure it'll be alright on the night :yes: