View Full Version : Guyz and there search for a decent girl...
Ghulabo
May 12th, 2004, 01:30 PM
ow my bad i meant a girl who cooks for them, cleans for them, worships them, does whatever they tell her to do, gets beaten up by them cuz they're having a bad day and stays shut when they're cheating on her, oh yeah i forgot and gives them pleasure whenever they're in the mood for it.
well lemme tell u guyz this, if this is how every guy thinks, i say ya'll go to the perfect world n may b, juz may b den u might be able to find a girl like that.
yesterday me n my best friend were hangin out wid her bf n his friends. n they were watching this indian movie i forget what the name was n the guy was married to a gori and also married a desi girl cuz his dad forced him to so she came to america n he treated her like crap n she wuld juz cry quietly and make the dinner for him, blahdy blahdy bla
and all the guys are like wow she's so hot n perfect n they kept goin on bout how you could only find girls who worship u from india or pakistand and all the girls here are sluts n bytches. pfttt say wuttt???? how can they just assume that
I am sick of guys who are down right thugs, do drugs, act ghetto, drink and go to clubs or date n have relationships n get used up and then at the end of the day they want a nice religious decent girl, WHY? if ur a scum bag then why must you ruin a poor innocent girl's life? if she is pure she deserves a guy who's pure and you deserve a girl who's juzt like u.
it's funny how guys want a girl who worships them, i wonder why..hmmm let's c so you can treat her however you want and she wont' say a word to u? lol sorry that doesn't exist in this world, even if it did it would be the jaahil anparh girls who give 2 cents bout guys and take crap from them 24/7.
it's very sad how desi guys have no respect for desi girls, they assume right off the bat that everyone is the same, may be u haven't come across a girl who is pure and innocent, may b da only girls u look or mess around wid turn out to b whores or b*tches! like they say beauty is in the eye of the beholder, n if u go for those kinda girls hehe boy it's ur fault cuz ur lookin at the wrong girl for the right qualities :P
*NOTE* It's a Serious Topic--PLEASE read carefully before making any ignorant comments and no arguments. just DISCUSS just wana know how everyone feels about this issue
OoDREAmerOo
May 12th, 2004, 01:35 PM
ow my bad i meant a girl who cooks for them, cleans for them, worships them, does whatever they tell her to do, gets beaten up by them cuz they're having a bad day and stays shut when they're cheating on her, oh yeah i forgot and gives them pleasure whenever they're in the mood for it.
well lemme tell u guyz this, if this is how every guy thinks, i say ya'll go to the perfect world n may b, juz may b den u might be able to find a girl like that.
yesterday me n my best friend were hangin out wid her bf n his friends. n they were watching this indian movie i forget what the name was n the guy was married to a gori and also married a desi girl cuz his dad forced him to so she came to america n he treated her like crap n she wuld juz cry quietly and make the dinner for him, blahdy blahdy bla
and all the guys are like wow she's so hot n perfect n they kept goin on bout how you could only find girls who worship u from india or pakistand and all the girls here are sluts n bytches. pfttt say wuttt???? how can they just assume that
I am sick of guys who are down right thugs, do drugs, act ghetto, drink and go to clubs or date n have relationships n get used up and then at the end of the day they want a nice religious decent girl, WHY? if ur a scum bag then why must you ruin a poor innocent girl's life? if she is pure she deserves a guy who's pure and you deserve a girl who's juzt like u.
it's funny how guys want a girl who worships them, i wonder why..hmmm let's c so you can treat her however you want and she wont' say a word to u? lol sorry that doesn't exist in this world, even if it did it would be the jaahil anparh girls who give 2 cents bout guys and take crap from them 24/7.
it's very sad how desi guys have no respect for desi girls, they assume right off the bat that everyone is the same, may be u haven't come across a girl who is pure and innocent, may b da only girls u look or mess around wid turn out to b whores or b*tches! like they say beauty is in the eye of the beholder, n if u go for those kinda girls hehe boy it's ur fault cuz ur lookin at the wrong girl for the right qualities :P
..well said. Only im tellin u in advance , 1/2 of the guys on here are gonna reply with penis brain comments and just piss you off. And theyll continue to do so, just cuz they kno it pisses u off. And another thing, most of them wont read 1/2 of what u typed. :? tho everything u said was true.
-drea
cutenoreen
May 12th, 2004, 01:36 PM
Their
Ghulabo
May 12th, 2004, 01:39 PM
Drea lol yea i assume they would, cuz at this kinda stuff they have no answer, cuz they know it's true so they'll flip it on u n start cussin u out..hehehe oh been there seen that... n.e. ways i can give 2 $hitz bout em..but n.e. ways thanks for da warnings *hugs n kisses*
DesiStud1022
May 12th, 2004, 01:40 PM
Most guys end up with someone whos experienced about as much as they have.
OoDREAmerOo
May 12th, 2004, 01:40 PM
Drea lol yea i assume they would, cuz at this kinda stuff they have no answer, cuz they know it's true so they'll flip it on u n start cussin u out..hehehe oh been there seen that... n.e. ways i can give 2 $hitz bout em..but n.e. ways thanks for da warnings *hugs n kisses*
ne time :wink:
-drea
Ghulabo
May 12th, 2004, 01:42 PM
Desi really, any proof? cuz the guys i've known till now the ones who were crack heads want a decent girl n end up with one too...lol not to mention what's funny is dat most of em end up wid arranged marriages :lol: :lol:
DesiStud1022
May 12th, 2004, 01:42 PM
PS - why do you assume that most guys are thugged out, into drugs, date randoms, etc?
xbadkarmax
May 12th, 2004, 01:42 PM
um.. im not the same as that.. i dont know if u read my post?
ShivaChrist
May 12th, 2004, 01:43 PM
ow my bad i meant a girl who cooks for them, cleans for them, worships them, does whatever they tell her to do, gets beaten up by them cuz they're having a bad day and stays shut when they're cheating on her, oh yeah i forgot and gives them pleasure whenever they're in the mood for it.
well lemme tell u guyz this, if this is how every guy thinks, i say ya'll go to the perfect world n may b, juz may b den u might be able to find a girl like that.
yesterday me n my best friend were hangin out wid her bf n his friends. n they were watching this indian movie i forget what the name was n the guy was married to a gori and also married a desi girl cuz his dad forced him to so she came to america n he treated her like crap n she wuld juz cry quietly and make the dinner for him, blahdy blahdy bla
and all the guys are like wow she's so hot n perfect n they kept goin on bout how you could only find girls who worship u from india or pakistand and all the girls here are sluts n bytches. pfttt say wuttt???? how can they just assume that
I am sick of guys who are down right thugs, do drugs, act ghetto, drink and go to clubs or date n have relationships n get used up and then at the end of the day they want a nice religious decent girl, WHY? if ur a scum bag then why must you ruin a poor innocent girl's life? if she is pure she deserves a guy who's pure and you deserve a girl who's juzt like u.
it's funny how guys want a girl who worships them, i wonder why..hmmm let's c so you can treat her however you want and she wont' say a word to u? lol sorry that doesn't exist in this world, even if it did it would be the jaahil anparh girls who give 2 cents bout guys and take crap from them 24/7.
it's very sad how desi guys have no respect for desi girls, they assume right off the bat that everyone is the same, may be u haven't come across a girl who is pure and innocent, may b da only girls u look or mess around wid turn out to b whores or b*tches! like they say beauty is in the eye of the beholder, n if u go for those kinda girls hehe boy it's ur fault cuz ur lookin at the wrong girl for the right qualities :P
..well said. Only im tellin u in advance , 1/2 of the guys on here are gonna reply with penis brain comments and just piss you off. And theyll continue to do so, just cuz they kno it pisses u off. And another thing, most of them wont read 1/2 of what u typed. :? tho everything u said was true.
-drea
I read about 3/4ths of it so I guess that's better then normal :P
Joking!
The truth is if you want a girl to worship you you have to worship her, its a two way road, and most guys feel that its a one way road - their road or no road at all lol
Ghulabo
May 12th, 2004, 01:43 PM
Desi well so far, that's all i have seen. so i can't make my assumption based on something i've never seen, right?
badkarma nope, im sorry i haven't read ur post, which one? :?
Shiv exactly ma point man, if u want her to luv u as much n do wuteva u want her to, u gotta do da same for her...she's not ur slave nor ur servant so stop actin like a flippin god. they shuld understand that but i dono wut their mind is full of :x
HeRsHeE317
May 12th, 2004, 01:44 PM
awwww
do i have 2 read the whole thing????
Ghulabo
May 12th, 2004, 01:45 PM
awwww
do i have 2 read the whole thing????
lol ur a dork, fine don't read it if u don't want to :evil:
DesiStud1022
May 12th, 2004, 01:45 PM
Desi well so far, that's all i have seen. so i can't make my assumption based on something i've never seen, right?
Guess so. its hard to belive that youve NEVER seen someone who isnt thuggish and boinks randoms. But, if thats what it is - then thats what it is.
I think that there are other types of guys out there. If people like that dont exist in your area, maybe youll find em online. Who knows.
HeRsHeE317
May 12th, 2004, 01:48 PM
awwww
do i have 2 read the whole thing????
lol ur a dork, fine don't read it if u don't want to :evil:
i love u!
:D
Ghulabo
May 12th, 2004, 01:56 PM
Desi no no, i mean have seen the guys who dress decent but they do drugs n stuff too and have the same point of view as what i have stated. that's y im tellin u that it was sad to hear what the guys said because they looked so decent ns tuff
Hershee i lub ju too :oops:
Emon Crew
May 12th, 2004, 02:06 PM
I agree with that, except you havent mentioned the girl's who are whores n sluts, fuck 10 guys and then want to settle down with a nice decent, educated rich guy who's goin to treat her right.
What you're saying is valid, but you leave out half the argument.....it's a double sided sword.
xbadkarmax
May 12th, 2004, 02:09 PM
ghulabo
this one
http://forums.ratedesi.com/viewtopic.php?t=8352
cool2562
May 12th, 2004, 02:09 PM
ow my bad i meant a girl who cooks for them, cleans for them, worships them, does whatever they tell her to do, gets beaten up by them cuz they're having a bad day and stays shut when they're cheating on her, oh yeah i forgot and gives them pleasure whenever they're in the mood for it.
well lemme tell u guyz this, if this is how every guy thinks, i say ya'll go to the perfect world n may b, juz may b den u might be able to find a girl like that.
yesterday me n my best friend were hangin out wid her bf n his friends. n they were watching this indian movie i forget what the name was n the guy was married to a gori and also married a desi girl cuz his dad forced him to so she came to america n he treated her like crap n she wuld juz cry quietly and make the dinner for him, blahdy blahdy bla
and all the guys are like wow she's so hot n perfect n they kept goin on bout how you could only find girls who worship u from india or pakistand and all the girls here are sluts n bytches. pfttt say wuttt???? how can they just assume that
I am sick of guys who are down right thugs, do drugs, act ghetto, drink and go to clubs or date n have relationships n get used up and then at the end of the day they want a nice religious decent girl, WHY? if ur a scum bag then why must you ruin a poor innocent girl's life? if she is pure she deserves a guy who's pure and you deserve a girl who's juzt like u.
it's funny how guys want a girl who worships them, i wonder why..hmmm let's c so you can treat her however you want and she wont' say a word to u? lol sorry that doesn't exist in this world, even if it did it would be the jaahil anparh girls who give 2 cents bout guys and take crap from them 24/7.
it's very sad how desi guys have no respect for desi girls, they assume right off the bat that everyone is the same, may be u haven't come across a girl who is pure and innocent, may b da only girls u look or mess around wid turn out to b whores or b*tches! like they say beauty is in the eye of the beholder, n if u go for those kinda girls hehe boy it's ur fault cuz ur lookin at the wrong girl for the right qualities :P
*NOTE* It's a Serious Topic--PLEASE read carefully before making any ignorant comments and no arguments. just DISCUSS just wana know how everyone feels about this issue
good post....but not all guys are the same..Most fall into the category that you stated.. Who drink, smoke make out with random girls and assume that they will get a girl who doesnt do all that(ofcourse guys for them). Its basically what you have done in your past gives you a level. Either you fall all the way down or up or somewhere in between. What you call a repuatation. But its not only the guys, there are girls who do the same and think they will get a really good boyfriend. So it goes both ways..Therefore if you want a good partner you have to be a good person yourself. Who doesnt do the stuff you hope ur partner doesnt do.. =] Just my thinking...dont know if you people agree.. :P
cool2562
May 12th, 2004, 02:20 PM
dyaam it everytime i post no one replies.... i dont feel the love :cry:
Ghulabo
May 12th, 2004, 02:21 PM
Emon yea i agree, girls are like that too but i don't really kno many girls lol...they hate me :(
badkarma k i'll checck it out
cool wow, i totally agree with that.. see i wish they all thought like u...now i hope u don't juz think but act that way too :evil: :x lol
cuz if u act the same and then want a better person, all ur doin is actin like a hypocrite u kno wut i mean. it's just wastin sum1's life cuz everyone wants a partner who is pure n innocent so it won't b good if ur all messed up n end up wid a good one, u've basically destroyed their life n shattered their dreams
cool2562
May 12th, 2004, 02:26 PM
Emon yea i agree, girls are like that too but i don't really kno many girls lol...they hate me :(
badkarma k i'll checck it out
cool wow, i totally agree with that.. see i wish they all thought like u...now i hope u don't juz think but act that way too :evil: :x lol
cuz if u act the same and then want a better person, all ur doin is actin like a hypocrite u kno wut i mean. it's just wastin sum1's life cuz everyone wants a partner who is pure n innocent so it won't b good if ur all messed up n end up wid a good one, u've basically destroyed their life n shattered their dreams
Trust me I do never ever drinked in my life nor smoked...dont go to parties...Dont touch a girl unless she's my girlfriend..Alwayz have respected others...Hopefully i'll find a girl who is like that too... =]
Ghulabo
May 12th, 2004, 02:38 PM
Emon yea i agree, girls are like that too but i don't really kno many girls lol...they hate me :(
badkarma k i'll checck it out
cool wow, i totally agree with that.. see i wish they all thought like u...now i hope u don't juz think but act that way too :evil: :x lol
cuz if u act the same and then want a better person, all ur doin is actin like a hypocrite u kno wut i mean. it's just wastin sum1's life cuz everyone wants a partner who is pure n innocent so it won't b good if ur all messed up n end up wid a good one, u've basically destroyed their life n shattered their dreams
Trust me I do never ever drinked in my life nor smoked...dont go to parties...Dont touch a girl unless she's my girlfriend..Alwayz have respected others...Hopefully i'll find a girl who is like that too... =]
whoa whoa whoa whoa whoa....that can't be
i don't believe u *snotty*
first of all, ur cute, u don't drink, u don't smoke and u don't go to parties nor have u ever done it.....its' to perfect it can't b lol..no way no how
:evil: stop lyin bfo i come thea n beat u up wid ma jooti :lol:
Ghulabo
May 12th, 2004, 02:46 PM
Emon yea i agree, girls are like that too but i don't really kno many girls lol...they hate me :(
badkarma k i'll checck it out
cool wow, i totally agree with that.. see i wish they all thought like u...now i hope u don't juz think but act that way too :evil: :x lol
cuz if u act the same and then want a better person, all ur doin is actin like a hypocrite u kno wut i mean. it's just wastin sum1's life cuz everyone wants a partner who is pure n innocent so it won't b good if ur all messed up n end up wid a good one, u've basically destroyed their life n shattered their dreams
Trust me I do never ever drinked in my life nor smoked...dont go to parties...Dont touch a girl unless she's my girlfriend..Alwayz have respected others...Hopefully i'll find a girl who is like that too... =]
whoa whoa whoa whoa whoa....that can't be
i don't believe u *snotty*
first of all, ur cute, u don't drink, u don't smoke and u don't go to parties nor have u ever done it.....its' to perfect it can't b lol..no way no how
:evil: stop lyin bfo i come thea n beat u up wid ma jooti :lol:
cool2562
May 12th, 2004, 02:59 PM
Emon yea i agree, girls are like that too but i don't really kno many girls lol...they hate me :(
badkarma k i'll checck it out
cool wow, i totally agree with that.. see i wish they all thought like u...now i hope u don't juz think but act that way too :evil: :x lol
cuz if u act the same and then want a better person, all ur doin is actin like a hypocrite u kno wut i mean. it's just wastin sum1's life cuz everyone wants a partner who is pure n innocent so it won't b good if ur all messed up n end up wid a good one, u've basically destroyed their life n shattered their dreams
Trust me I do never ever drinked in my life nor smoked...dont go to parties...Dont touch a girl unless she's my girlfriend..Alwayz have respected others...Hopefully i'll find a girl who is like that too... =]
whoa whoa whoa whoa whoa....that can't be
i don't believe u *snotty*
first of all, ur cute, u don't drink, u don't smoke and u don't go to parties nor have u ever done it.....its' to perfect it can't b lol..no way no how
:evil: stop lyin bfo i come thea n beat u up wid ma jooti :lol:
sach mooch...main jhoot nahin bolta
Ghulabo
May 12th, 2004, 03:01 PM
Emon yea i agree, girls are like that too but i don't really kno many girls lol...they hate me :(
badkarma k i'll checck it out
cool wow, i totally agree with that.. see i wish they all thought like u...now i hope u don't juz think but act that way too :evil: :x lol
cuz if u act the same and then want a better person, all ur doin is actin like a hypocrite u kno wut i mean. it's just wastin sum1's life cuz everyone wants a partner who is pure n innocent so it won't b good if ur all messed up n end up wid a good one, u've basically destroyed their life n shattered their dreams
Trust me I do never ever drinked in my life nor smoked...dont go to parties...Dont touch a girl unless she's my girlfriend..Alwayz have respected others...Hopefully i'll find a girl who is like that too... =]
whoa whoa whoa whoa whoa....that can't be
i don't believe u *snotty*
first of all, ur cute, u don't drink, u don't smoke and u don't go to parties nor have u ever done it.....its' to perfect it can't b lol..no way no how
:evil: stop lyin bfo i come thea n beat u up wid ma jooti :lol:
sach mooch...main jhoot nahin bolta
acha...hmm well if u are like that then wow, that's definetly awesome, m very proud of ju :D stay that way n definetly u shall find sum1 like u..
jhoot bolna chahie bhi nahi, achi baat hai :D
AnGeL2LuV786
June 16th, 2005, 06:58 PM
not all guys are like this, in fact i haven't met a guy who wants his girl to be his .. "BITCH" in the way you described, ALTHOUGH i will tell you that a lot of guys that i know of are looking for housewives-- ones that will cook, clean, watch the kids, etc.
--leezia
WonkaBear
June 16th, 2005, 07:00 PM
I treat girls with too much respect :tears:
... thugs = happier than nice guys
Vishnu1988
June 16th, 2005, 07:02 PM
I treat girls with too much respect :tears:
... thugs = happier than nice guys
how this tread was dug out of its grave....
yea i agree...thugs r happier....but i prefer being a nice guy....it makes me feel good inside...
WonkaBear
June 16th, 2005, 07:08 PM
how this tread was dug out of its grave....
yea i agree...thugs r happier....but i prefer being a nice guy....it makes me feel good inside...
I sorta found an equilibrium... i can get girls, but im still too nice...
the big d
June 16th, 2005, 07:17 PM
ow my bad i meant a girl who cooks for them, cleans for them, worships them, does whatever they tell her to do, gets beaten up by them cuz they're having a bad day and stays shut when they're cheating on her, oh yeah i forgot and gives them pleasure whenever they're in the mood for it.
well lemme tell u guyz this, if this is how every guy thinks, i say ya'll go to the perfect world n may b, juz may b den u might be able to find a girl like that.
yesterday me n my best friend were hangin out wid her bf n his friends. n they were watching this indian movie i forget what the name was n the guy was married to a gori and also married a desi girl cuz his dad forced him to so she came to america n he treated her like crap n she wuld juz cry quietly and make the dinner for him, blahdy blahdy bla
and all the guys are like wow she's so hot n perfect n they kept goin on bout how you could only find girls who worship u from india or pakistand and all the girls here are sluts n bytches. pfttt say wuttt???? how can they just assume that
I am sick of guys who are down right thugs, do drugs, act ghetto, drink and go to clubs or date n have relationships n get used up and then at the end of the day they want a nice religious decent girl, WHY? if ur a scum bag then why must you ruin a poor innocent girl's life? if she is pure she deserves a guy who's pure and you deserve a girl who's juzt like u.
it's funny how guys want a girl who worships them, i wonder why..hmmm let's c so you can treat her however you want and she wont' say a word to u? lol sorry that doesn't exist in this world, even if it did it would be the jaahil anparh girls who give 2 cents bout guys and take crap from them 24/7.
it's very sad how desi guys have no respect for desi girls, they assume right off the bat that everyone is the same, may be u haven't come across a girl who is pure and innocent, may b da only girls u look or mess around wid turn out to b whores or b*tches! like they say beauty is in the eye of the beholder, n if u go for those kinda girls hehe boy it's ur fault cuz ur lookin at the wrong girl for the right qualities :P
*NOTE* It's a Serious Topic--PLEASE read carefully before making any ignorant comments and no arguments. just DISCUSS just wana know how everyone feels about this issue
aren't u making the same type of assumption about desi guys. thugs or whatever looking for the stay at home girl who cooks and cleans? also, just cuz a guy drinks some, goes to clubs, doesn't make him a bad guy. i like to do those things and not to try to find some girl to hook up with. i like to go to the club with my friends, go dancing, its fun. anyways thats all a bit argumentative. personally i have always dated girls who are more on the feminiest side. they usually are smarter then me 2 :mad: not that i mind. it is sooo much better otherwise what kinda conversations u gonna have? if i want someone to cook and clean for me, i'll get a maid...
jack_the_lad
June 16th, 2005, 07:30 PM
all i have to say wot goes around comes around so if ur a hoe u get a hoe if ur a saint u ll get a saint and sum lucky fucks who r hoes get the saints i guess its thr karma oh welll
Oxygen
June 16th, 2005, 07:33 PM
ow my bad i meant a girl who cooks for them, cleans for them, worships them, does whatever they tell her to do, gets beaten up by them cuz they're having a bad day and stays shut when they're cheating on her, oh yeah i forgot and gives them pleasure whenever they're in the mood for it.
Perfect.
H3LL_RAIZAH
June 16th, 2005, 07:43 PM
*BuMp*
Vishnu1988
June 16th, 2005, 08:03 PM
^ that's a real list, by the way.
lol...y did u "ban" urself...
H3LL_RAIZAH
June 16th, 2005, 08:09 PM
That is a bit toooo much :-/ innit?
MR2Turbo
June 16th, 2005, 08:13 PM
Since Im allowed 4 wives here's how its going down.
Wife number 1 will be the trophy wife (Looks good on my arm)
Number 2 will be the utility wife (cooks, clean, etc)
Wife number 3 will be the career wife (a doctor or a lawyer to give me money) AKA sugermama
Wife number 4.... I dunno, she can do whatever the others wont.
Adz4eva
June 16th, 2005, 08:15 PM
I agree with that, except you havent mentioned the girl's who are whores n sluts, fuck 10 guys and then want to settle down with a nice decent, educated rich guy who's goin to treat her right.
What you're saying is valid, but you leave out half the argument.....it's a double sided sword.
took the words right out my mouth :D
H3LL_RAIZAH
June 16th, 2005, 08:16 PM
^^ :p
SIXPAK GQ
June 27th, 2005, 01:08 AM
ow my bad i meant a girl who cooks for them, cleans for them, worships them, does whatever they tell her to do, gets beaten up by them cuz they're having a bad day and stays shut when they're cheating on her, oh yeah i forgot and gives them pleasure whenever they're in the mood for it.
well lemme tell u guyz this, if this is how every guy thinks, i say ya'll go to the perfect world n may b, juz may b den u might be able to find a girl like that.
yesterday me n my best friend were hangin out wid her bf n his friends. n they were watching this indian movie i forget what the name was n the guy was married to a gori and also married a desi girl cuz his dad forced him to so she came to america n he treated her like crap n she wuld juz cry quietly and make the dinner for him, blahdy blahdy bla
and all the guys are like wow she's so hot n perfect n they kept goin on bout how you could only find girls who worship u from india or pakistand and all the girls here are sluts n bytches. pfttt say wuttt???? how can they just assume that
I am sick of guys who are down right thugs, do drugs, act ghetto, drink and go to clubs or date n have relationships n get used up and then at the end of the day they want a nice religious decent girl, WHY? if ur a scum bag then why must you ruin a poor innocent girl's life? if she is pure she deserves a guy who's pure and you deserve a girl who's juzt like u.
it's funny how guys want a girl who worships them, i wonder why..hmmm let's c so you can treat her however you want and she wont' say a word to u? lol sorry that doesn't exist in this world, even if it did it would be the jaahil anparh girls who give 2 cents bout guys and take crap from them 24/7.
it's very sad how desi guys have no respect for desi girls, they assume right off the bat that everyone is the same, may be u haven't come across a girl who is pure and innocent, may b da only girls u look or mess around wid turn out to b whores or b*tches! like they say beauty is in the eye of the beholder, n if u go for those kinda girls hehe boy it's ur fault cuz ur lookin at the wrong girl for the right qualities :P
*NOTE* It's a Serious Topic--PLEASE read carefully before making any ignorant comments and no arguments. just DISCUSS just wana know how everyone feels about this issue
ur comments are quite stereotypical.....but younger girls for go for thugs, do drugs and act ghetto, eventually they grow up and find a decent guy....like the saying 'u gotta go throught the bad ones to get to the right one'
i agree that if these bad boys are druggies, why should they deserve a clean girl anyway.....some people have bad luck finding their mates, so they settle for whats out there, the leftovers......the good ones are probably not in the game; i guess they are either shy/reserved or just afraid....
SIXPAK GQ
June 27th, 2005, 01:10 AM
Desi no no, i mean have seen the guys who dress decent but they do drugs n stuff too and have the same point of view as what i have stated. that's y im tellin u that it was sad to hear what the guys said because they looked so decent ns tuff
Hershee i lub ju too :oops:
u don't have to mingle with these days....
SIXPAK GQ
June 27th, 2005, 01:13 AM
acha...hmm well if u are like that then wow, that's definetly awesome, m very proud of ju :D stay that way n definetly u shall find sum1 like u..
jhoot bolna chahie bhi nahi, achi baat hai :D
is mein hamara kya kasoor hain ke tumare dost ache larke nahi hai......
u just attract the wrong guys...re-analyze urself
SIXPAK GQ
June 27th, 2005, 01:14 AM
not all guys are like this, in fact i haven't met a guy who wants his girl to be his .. "BITCH" in the way you described, ALTHOUGH i will tell you that a lot of guys that i know of are looking for housewives-- ones that will cook, clean, watch the kids, etc.
--leezia
i am not one of these guys since i can do all these chores myself
1stdesisuperhero
June 27th, 2005, 01:37 AM
Drea lol yea i assume they would, cuz at this kinda stuff they have no answer, cuz they know it's true so they'll flip it on u n start cussin u out..hehehe oh been there seen that... n.e. ways i can give 2 $hitz bout em..but n.e. ways thanks for da warnings *hugs n kisses*
alrighty so here's the deal:
1) i like to make my own food. i like things plain and simple and don't like to eat other people's cooking if i don't have to.
2) screw cleaning. the instant my stuff is clean, i can't find it.
3) i don't want a girl to worship me. maybe adore me...that'd be nice. i know it's not a realistic thought, but hey, i can dream.
who doesn't wanna be adored, guys and girls alike? i don't want a woman to obey my commands, grant my wishes, etc...all i ask is she respect me and my opinions.
this site has too many girls who make generalizations about men and how we think and what we want. drop it. you don't know all of us.
i'm not saying i'm perfect...i'm not drunk ha i have a mirror and i know my flaws, with both looks and character...but i don't treat women like shit and it's not my dream to do so either.
i'm sorry if you have had bad experiences in the past with men like that, but leave the rest of us alone.
TechPhunk
June 27th, 2005, 01:57 AM
Maybe the people that are having the worst luck are looking in the wrong places....and not all people that do drugs are bad ;)
mannyj
June 27th, 2005, 02:05 AM
ow my bad i meant a girl who cooks for them, cleans for them, worships them, does whatever they tell her to do, gets beaten up by them cuz they're having a bad day and stays shut when they're cheating on her, oh yeah i forgot and gives them pleasure whenever they're in the mood for it.
well lemme tell u guyz this, if this is how every guy thinks, i say ya'll go to the perfect world n may b, juz may b den u might be able to find a girl like that.
yesterday me n my best friend were hangin out wid her bf n his friends. n they were watching this indian movie i forget what the name was n the guy was married to a gori and also married a desi girl cuz his dad forced him to so she came to america n he treated her like crap n she wuld juz cry quietly and make the dinner for him, blahdy blahdy bla
and all the guys are like wow she's so hot n perfect n they kept goin on bout how you could only find girls who worship u from india or pakistand and all the girls here are sluts n bytches. pfttt say wuttt???? how can they just assume that
I am sick of guys who are down right thugs, do drugs, act ghetto, drink and go to clubs or date n have relationships n get used up and then at the end of the day they want a nice religious decent girl, WHY? if ur a scum bag then why must you ruin a poor innocent girl's life? if she is pure she deserves a guy who's pure and you deserve a girl who's juzt like u.
it's funny how guys want a girl who worships them, i wonder why..hmmm let's c so you can treat her however you want and she wont' say a word to u? lol sorry that doesn't exist in this world, even if it did it would be the jaahil anparh girls who give 2 cents bout guys and take crap from them 24/7.
it's very sad how desi guys have no respect for desi girls, they assume right off the bat that everyone is the same, may be u haven't come across a girl who is pure and innocent, may b da only girls u look or mess around wid turn out to b whores or b*tches! like they say beauty is in the eye of the beholder, n if u go for those kinda girls hehe boy it's ur fault cuz ur lookin at the wrong girl for the right qualities :P
*NOTE* It's a Serious Topic--PLEASE read carefully before making any ignorant comments and no arguments. just DISCUSS just wana know how everyone feels about this issue
i believe u said it in the last paragraph, Assume right off the bat that everyone is the same. Everyone is Different but in respects to wat u said YES there are alot more guys out there doing this. but there is also guys out there who can take care of themselves meaning they would rather cook and clean there own house then ask someone else to do it. just like how most men look for so called perfect women, everyman's vision of this is probably different, and on the other hand im pretty sure there are women out there looking for the so called prefect husband. we dont live in a prefect world Never will. fact is everyone is different. i know of a girl who stopped talking to............just so she could please her fathers wishes. i aslo know of another couple who were together for about 5yrs very happy equally done work as far as cook and clean. the guy would generally come home earlier so he would cook.........she thought that wat she had was too good to be true and he asked her to marry she declined and pretty much threw all of it away. and the guy is still waiting.
and there are guys out there who dont want relationship becuz he doesnt want to get hurt anymore.
once again everyone is different, everyone has there own story........
i wish u the best of luck.....hope the best for u..........
Afg_Gurl
June 27th, 2005, 02:22 AM
ow my bad i meant a girl who cooks for them, cleans for them, worships them, does whatever they tell her to do, gets beaten up by them cuz they're having a bad day and stays shut when they're cheating on her, oh yeah i forgot and gives them pleasure whenever they're in the mood for it.
well lemme tell u guyz this, if this is how every guy thinks, i say ya'll go to the perfect world n may b, juz may b den u might be able to find a girl like that.
yesterday me n my best friend were hangin out wid her bf n his friends. n they were watching this indian movie i forget what the name was n the guy was married to a gori and also married a desi girl cuz his dad forced him to so she came to america n he treated her like crap n she wuld juz cry quietly and make the dinner for him, blahdy blahdy bla
and all the guys are like wow she's so hot n perfect n they kept goin on bout how you could only find girls who worship u from india or pakistand and all the girls here are sluts n bytches. pfttt say wuttt???? how can they just assume that
I am sick of guys who are down right thugs, do drugs, act ghetto, drink and go to clubs or date n have relationships n get used up and then at the end of the day they want a nice religious decent girl, WHY? if ur a scum bag then why must you ruin a poor innocent girl's life? if she is pure she deserves a guy who's pure and you deserve a girl who's juzt like u.
it's funny how guys want a girl who worships them, i wonder why..hmmm let's c so you can treat her however you want and she wont' say a word to u? lol sorry that doesn't exist in this world, even if it did it would be the jaahil anparh girls who give 2 cents bout guys and take crap from them 24/7.
it's very sad how desi guys have no respect for desi girls, they assume right off the bat that everyone is the same, may be u haven't come across a girl who is pure and innocent, may b da only girls u look or mess around wid turn out to b whores or b*tches! like they say beauty is in the eye of the beholder, n if u go for those kinda girls hehe boy it's ur fault cuz ur lookin at the wrong girl for the right qualities :P
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wow u go gurl! i soo agree wid u... same wid afghan guys.... they do the same...! but i feel u on tht... and ya i seen tht movie...
Emerald99
June 27th, 2005, 02:31 AM
Wrong forum. And, I don't know, me/my friends don't want the type of person you're describing. People that don't think for themselves, or stand up for their rights suck.
Ac89
June 27th, 2005, 02:43 AM
i'm just wondering...but it has occured to people who makes threads like this..that maybe instead of complaining (and this might seem a little far fetched...) but maybe they should stop looking for that same person they claim to hate ....and start looking somewhere else *long shot...but worth a shot eh?*
and :think:
i'm pretty sure....*ok 50%* but aren't there chicks that are complete stupid idiots...who are the stuck up, snobbish, immature, arrogant dumb ass idiots who need to be slapped back to reality...:dunno:
gathio gujju
June 27th, 2005, 02:48 AM
ow my bad i meant a girl who cooks for them, cleans for them, worships them, does whatever they tell her to do, gets beaten up by them cuz they're having a bad day and stays shut when they're cheating on her, oh yeah i forgot and gives them pleasure whenever they're in the mood for it.
well lemme tell u guyz this, if this is how every guy thinks, i say ya'll go to the perfect world n may b, juz may b den u might be able to find a girl like that.
yesterday me n my best friend were hangin out wid her bf n his friends. n they were watching this indian movie i forget what the name was n the guy was married to a gori and also married a desi girl cuz his dad forced him to so she came to america n he treated her like crap n she wuld juz cry quietly and make the dinner for him, blahdy blahdy bla
and all the guys are like wow she's so hot n perfect n they kept goin on bout how you could only find girls who worship u from india or pakistand and all the girls here are sluts n bytches. pfttt say wuttt???? how can they just assume that
I am sick of guys who are down right thugs, do drugs, act ghetto, drink and go to clubs or date n have relationships n get used up and then at the end of the day they want a nice religious decent girl, WHY? if ur a scum bag then why must you ruin a poor innocent girl's life? if she is pure she deserves a guy who's pure and you deserve a girl who's juzt like u.
it's funny how guys want a girl who worships them, i wonder why..hmmm let's c so you can treat her however you want and she wont' say a word to u? lol sorry that doesn't exist in this world, even if it did it would be the jaahil anparh girls who give 2 cents bout guys and take crap from them 24/7.
it's very sad how desi guys have no respect for desi girls, they assume right off the bat that everyone is the same, may be u haven't come across a girl who is pure and innocent, may b da only girls u look or mess around wid turn out to b whores or b*tches! like they say beauty is in the eye of the beholder, n if u go for those kinda girls hehe boy it's ur fault cuz ur lookin at the wrong girl for the right qualities :P
*NOTE* It's a Serious Topic--PLEASE read carefully before making any ignorant comments and no arguments. just DISCUSS just wana know how everyone feels about this issue
dude its a movie, chill out. An btw i really respect women infact too much for my own good in that they jus take u for granted and go for the thuggish guy u were talking abt! whats up with that
is all good
DESI-PEACHES
June 27th, 2005, 09:26 AM
well said!!! i dont undas why bad boys treat the girlsa so bad they dont deserve those nice girls i wonder what those girls get in retur? i bet nothin special
methodman535
July 13th, 2005, 03:08 AM
well said!!! i dont undas why bad boys treat the girlsa so bad they dont deserve those nice girls i wonder what those girls get in retur? i bet nothin special
Well dont some girls like to be treated badly? Sick but dont they?
GoddessOfLove720
July 13th, 2005, 07:49 PM
ow my bad i meant a girl who cooks for them, cleans for them, worships them, does whatever they tell her to do, gets beaten up by them cuz they're having a bad day and stays shut when they're cheating on her, oh yeah i forgot and gives them pleasure whenever they're in the mood for it.
well lemme tell u guyz this, if this is how every guy thinks, i say ya'll go to the perfect world n may b, juz may b den u might be able to find a girl like that.
yesterday me n my best friend were hangin out wid her bf n his friends. n they were watching this indian movie i forget what the name was n the guy was married to a gori and also married a desi girl cuz his dad forced him to so she came to america n he treated her like crap n she wuld juz cry quietly and make the dinner for him, blahdy blahdy bla
and all the guys are like wow she's so hot n perfect n they kept goin on bout how you could only find girls who worship u from india or pakistand and all the girls here are sluts n bytches. pfttt say wuttt???? how can they just assume that
I am sick of guys who are down right thugs, do drugs, act ghetto, drink and go to clubs or date n have relationships n get used up and then at the end of the day they want a nice religious decent girl, WHY? if ur a scum bag then why must you ruin a poor innocent girl's life? if she is pure she deserves a guy who's pure and you deserve a girl who's juzt like u.
it's funny how guys want a girl who worships them, i wonder why..hmmm let's c so you can treat her however you want and she wont' say a word to u? lol sorry that doesn't exist in this world, even if it did it would be the jaahil anparh girls who give 2 cents bout guys and take crap from them 24/7.
it's very sad how desi guys have no respect for desi girls, they assume right off the bat that everyone is the same, may be u haven't come across a girl who is pure and innocent, may b da only girls u look or mess around wid turn out to b whores or b*tches! like they say beauty is in the eye of the beholder, n if u go for those kinda girls hehe boy it's ur fault cuz ur lookin at the wrong girl for the right qualities :P
*NOTE* It's a Serious Topic--PLEASE read carefully before making any ignorant comments and no arguments. just DISCUSS just wana know how everyone feels about this issue
ur a reli bright person. Mashallah.
This tread is soooo true. i have always felt this way, but until now, no1 described it in the perfect words of how the reality is.
i think the guys needa hear. i hope they read at least some of it. :neutral:
GoddessOfLove720
July 13th, 2005, 07:52 PM
i'm just wondering...but it has occured to people who makes threads like this..that maybe instead of complaining (and this might seem a little far fetched...) but maybe they should stop looking for that same person they claim to hate ....and start looking somewhere else *long shot...but worth a shot eh?*
and :think:
i'm pretty sure....*ok 50%* but aren't there chicks that are complete stupid idiots...who are the stuck up, snobbish, immature, arrogant dumb ass idiots who need to be slapped back to reality...:dunno:
u seem 2 b reli defensive in wat he sed... i wonder y... r u insulted in what he sed abt that type of guys? r u 1 of em or sumthing?
mogul3k
July 14th, 2005, 06:35 PM
As a guy I just want a loyal ryde or die chick
bangaliplayar
July 14th, 2005, 06:44 PM
Most guys end up with someone whos experienced about as much as they have.
thats so dame tru, i gotta agree with you 100%
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