if your bf/gf..

[Rain_Goddess]

called you to break up with you.
And ten minutes later, called you to get back together..

would you, get back together?

[mystery girl]

i'll think about it :think:

[Rain_Goddess]

i'll think about it :think:
well what if he acted like a complete jerk when he was breaking up with you.

[T.Dimera]

it sounds really immature like teenage stuff....i don't know how old you and him are but if you are teenagers...its the norm to act that way because most do. If he is not a teenager...then he is really immature.

[mystery girl]

well what if he acted like a complete jerk when he was breaking up with you.

well that's y i said i'll think about it... it does depend a lot on the circumstances though

[DeZi]

my ex used to do that all the time to me, pick a fight with me or put me down and act like a total asshole then say ' i dont want this anymore' etc and break up with me, then call me back like 10 mins later and say sorry and that he was in a bad mood a crap...i would always fall for it and take him back.

but tasnia u should take him back if u feel its the right thing for you. if things in your relationship have always been good then u shouldny let a good thing go...but if he treats u like shit on a regular basis then i say forget him...but this is only from my personal experiences...do whats right for u!

[Rain_Goddess]

it sounds really immature like teenage stuff....i don't know how old you and him are but if you are teenagers...its the norm to act that way because most do. If he is not a teenager...then he is really immature.
well you're right in every way possible. Meh, i'll never understand what was going trough "his" mind.

[Rain_Goddess]

my ex used to do that all the time to me, pick a fight with me or put me down and act like a total asshole then say ' i dont want this anymore' etc and break up with me, then call me back like 10 mins later and say sorry and that he was in a bad mood a crap...i would always fall for it and take him back.

but tasnia u should take him back if u feel its the right thing for you. if things in your relationship have always been good then u shouldny let a good thing go...but if he treats u like shit on a regular basis then i say forget him...but this is only from my personal experiences...do whats right for u!
thanks edwina, but the thing is, i felt like it was falling apart, but i tried my best to keep it working, but damn, it just didn't.. the guy just completely flipped out.
Thanks though.

[xxjessxx]

lol no..i would be like wtf. and breaking up with someone over the phone is not good..dont ever do that!

[Rain_Goddess]

lol no..i would be like wtf. and breaking up with someone over the phone is not good..dont ever do that!
lol thats exactly what i said man "WTF" and i totally agree.

[RoMeO6969]

lol no..i would be like wtf. and breaking up with someone over the phone is not good..dont ever do that!


damn ur hot :dance3:

[hypnoticanju]

called you to break up with you.
And ten minutes later, called you to get back together..

would you, get back together?
depends on how long uv known him and how immature the person is, but breaking up on the phone is just the most saddest thing to do :neutral:

[muzlimlyfe]

No! u should PERMENANTLY break up.

This is how it works:
U dont do things without thinking, even ur split-second decision was taken WITH a thought. Thus ur mind being the fastest entity in the universe.

Thus,
him saying he wants to break up, no matter what the reason was, it shows that at the back of his head he was planin to break up with u sooner or later. just couldnt decide wen.

Concludin,
He said what`s in his MIND.

Take care Tasnia.

[xxjessxx]

damn ur hot :dance3:

lol thanks

[RoMeO6969]

haha np babe :dance3:

[spice_of_life]

No! u should PERMENANTLY break up.

This is how it works:
U dont do things without thinking, even ur split-second decision was taken WITH a thought. Thus ur mind being the fastest entity in the universe.

Thus,
him saying he wants to break up, no matter what the reason was, it shows that at the back of his head he was planin to break up with u sooner or later. just couldnt decide wen.

Concludin,
He said what`s in his MIND.

Take care Tasnia.

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[muzlimlyfe]

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[Rain_Goddess]

weed to good use.
THanks man, and i agree with you.

[ladoo ram]

my heart is like glass so once broken u cant fix it u have replace it :(

[desi_shawrty]

I would take him back if i really loved him and give him another chance but if he wanted to get back together for sum other reason then i wont or to get back at him hahah lol

[corpse_grinder]

its better 2 stay away from it al ! cus relation shipz suckx its jus a pain in d ass!

[desiboibristol]

It all depends how things are between you two...
But breaking up means he has that thought somewhwere in his mind... Sub-conscious...

I would sugest better open up your eyes and see if things are not allrite jus leave before all this getz too painful...

Finally itz upto you, what you want to do...

Hope this helps...

[BaByGirL24]

I would be extremely disappointed about the break-up but If he feels guilty and realizes what he's done then maybe there's a chance of getting back with him

[Fire-n-Ice]

i have those moments sumtyms.... if i felt like... i'm so pissed off at him that i just wanna fight with him... i'll call him and be like.. fuck off... :mad: ugh.. leave me alone! :anger: my ex knew me so well though... he'll call back after 20 mins... and be like.. so which movie do u wanna see? wat do u wanna eat? want ice cream meri mithi... i'll get u one... :no:

:giggle:

[Fire-n-Ice]

called you to break up with you.
And ten minutes later, called you to get back together..

would you, get back together?

d best thing to do... when that happens... is let d person say whatever they want... give it some time... call him back... pretend like nuthin happened... and if he was serious about it... he'll make sure to point out to u... "hey its over.." and if not, he'll apologize... simple.

if he's serious... i prolly wont go back...

[T.Dimera]

well you're right in every way possible. Meh, i'll never understand what was going trough "his" mind.

The truth is that his actions say a lot about his character. Now you have to ask yourself is that that type of person you want to be it. Once you find your answer you'll know what to do.

[Rain_Goddess]

The truth is that his actions say a lot about his character. Now you have to ask yourself is that that type of person you want to be it. Once i find your answer you'll know what to do.
that's good advice man, thanks. Huh, damn , you're so right..AHHH im soo stupiddd!

[Rain_Goddess]

It all depends how things are between you two...
But breaking up means he has that thought somewhwere in his mind... Sub-conscious...

I would sugest better open up your eyes and see if things are not allrite jus leave before all this getz too painful...

Finally itz upto you, what you want to do...

Hope this helps...
it surprisingly does...i guess i'm better off without him anyway.

fire: but the way he told me, was definetly insulting.. he didn't insult me or anything, but the way he said it was just awful, and i don't understand why he'd wanna get back together like, what, 10 mins later :/


babygirl: Yeah, man, dissapointed and devastated, would you get back together if he said " i want to forget about you, and everything else" and ten mins later be all like " forget about what i said earlier" NO SORRY Or anything! ahh!

ladoo: Heart glass? Hmm..


desi shawrty: You would? What if he threatened to slap you if you were cheating on him? And besides, i thought i loved him..but, hah, love is too strong of a word.


corpse: i might start to think you're right... or maybe it's just my relashionships..meh, i'm way too young for it all anyway.

[xtcshri2222]

it depends why they broke it off, if it was something i did wrong, i'ed prob take them back but if my girl broke it off for something i didn't agree with i doubt it

[Rain_Goddess]

it depends why they broke it off, if it was something i did wrong, i'ed prob take them back but if my girl broke it off for something i didn't agree with i doubt it
and what about if she didn't have a reason.

[mr_magoo79]

last april i broke with my girl... and i wanted her back right away. but she didnt want anything to do with me. i tried contacting her soooo much, i even went to her house one mornin to talk and she didnt even open the friggin door. that summer i tried contacting her a few times by phone and i even wrote her a 13 page letter!!
anyway... by that time she had already slept with someone else (i think like 3-4 weeks after we broke up), fooled around with some other guy, and hit on her friends boyfriend and now she has a boyfriend!
i couldnt believe that i was in love with someone who i thought was so pure and fragile and innoccent... but who at the end was a fake and liar and a hypocrite.
when i think about the way she ignored me.. it makes my blood boil, but i am happy that she didnt take me back cause she is someone who doesnt have any self respect. i dunno if she did all that to get over me, but at this point it doesnt really matter!!
anyway my point is... everyones situation is different and EVERYTHING happens for a reason!

[Rain_Goddess]

last april i broke with my girl... and i wanted her back right away. but she didnt want anything to do with me. i tried contacting her soooo much, i even went to her house one mornin to talk and she didnt even open the friggin door. that summer i tried contacting her a few times by phone and i even wrote her a 13 page letter!!
anyway... by that time she had already slept with someone else (i think like 3-4 weeks after we broke up), fooled around with some other guy, and hit on her friends boyfriend and now she has a boyfriend!
i couldnt believe that i was in love with someone who i thought was so pure and fragile and innoccent... but who at the end was a fake and liar and a hypocrite.
when i think about the way she ignored me.. it makes my blood boil, but i am happy that she didnt take me back cause she is someone who doesnt have any self respect. i dunno if she did all that to get over me, but at this point it doesnt really matter!!
anyway my point is... everyones situation is different and EVERYTHING happens for a reason!whoa..yeah, everything does happen for a reason, but when are you gonna know what "reason" it is.

[muzlimlyfe]

No! u should PERMENANTLY break up.

This is how it works:
U dont do things without thinking, even ur split-second decision was taken WITH a thought. Thus ur mind being the fastest entity in the universe.

Thus,
him saying he wants to break up, no matter what the reason was, it shows that at the back of his head he was planin to break up with u sooner or later. just couldnt decide wen.

Concludin,
He said what`s in his MIND.

Take care Tasnia.

i hope u read it earlier

[mr_magoo79]

well... you know... time will tell... had i known all he shyt she did after we broke up i would have NEVER poured my heard out in a 13 page letter that pretty much made me look like a fool, or called her or anything!
so yeah.. i only found this out like at the end of september...

[Rain_Goddess]

well... you know... time will tell... had i known all he shyt she did after we broke up i would have NEVER poured my heard out in a 13 page letter that pretty much made me look like a fool, or called her or anything!
so yeah.. i only found this out like at the end of september...
wow...yeah, definetly....im sorry though...


and muzlim: yeahh, i read it and it helped me alot, i even replied to it.

[mr_magoo79]

oh yeah... i think there are alot of other things too that will impact the way a relationship is going. for example... age... she was 19 and i was 25... not a good combination.. different mind sets.
are things really going bad in your relationship? like you have to read between the lines to see why you or the other person breaks up and then wants to get back together. i mean you cant be with someone who is gonna do that for like the rest of your life... you need someone stable!!
also... sometimes people just get back together cause they are just used to being in a relationship and they are affraid of being alone, or they dont wanna see that other person move on and be with someone else.. know what i mean?

by the way... dont be sorry... i am so glad she didnt take me back... my life has done a whole 360... and i have sorted my life out! i feel like a million bucks!! now if only i could make that much in a year!!! lol! :)

[Rain_Goddess]

oh yeah... i think there are alot of other things too that will impact the way a relationship is going. for example... age... she was 19 and i was 25... not a good combination.. different mind sets.
are things really going bad in your relationship? like you have to read between the lines to see why you or the other person breaks up and then wants to get back together. i mean you cant be with someone who is gonna do that for like the rest of your life... you need someone stable!!
also... sometimes people just get back together cause they are just used to being in a relationship and they are affraid of being alone, or they dont wanna see that other person move on and be with someone else.. know what i mean?

by the way... dont be sorry... i am so glad she didnt take me back... my life has done a whole 360... and i have sorted my life out! i feel like a million bucks!! now if only i could make that much in a year!!! lol! :)
hehe then i guess im pretty happy for you.. and yeah, i don't think he'll change so i guess i'm better off alone, without him, and i'm better off this way.
thanks.

[mr_magoo79]

hehe then i guess im pretty happy for you.. and yeah, i don't think he'll change so i guess i'm better off alone, without him, and i'm better off this way.
thanks.

well darlin... dont make a decision based on what happened to me... every situation is different...
i think you gotta really think about. how do you feel with him? how do you feel with out him? how long did you go out for? are their other factors (ie. religion?) are you happy with him? is he happy with you? how many times have you taken a "break"? how long ago did you officially break up?

i just hope that in the end of the road you both find happiness... cause thats all that really matters!

[Rain_Goddess]

well darlin... dont make a decision based on what happened to me... every situation is different...
i think you gotta really think about. how do you feel with him? how do you feel with out him? how long did you go out for? are their other factors (ie. religion?) are you happy with him? is he happy with you? how many times have you taken a "break"? how long ago did you officially break up?

i just hope that in the end of the road you both find happiness... cause thats all that really matters!
it's easier said than done, and i don't think he's worth it...thinking about it..all...thanks though.

[mr_magoo79]

it's easier said than done, and i don't think he's worth it...thinking about it..all...thanks though.

is it really that bad?

[Seeeeeeema]

yeh i wud its happened and i got back.. i wud still love him in 10 mins my feelings wudnt really change well he wud have to apologise though!!

[ras-gulla]

Never bin in a relationship.

NO worries
hehe

[SexyTemptress]

no

that would be the end of the relationship.

[MolviCorleone]

Id accept her the scoend time and say "yeh lets get back together"

10 mins later ill ring her and say

"sorry but i fucked ur sister/best mate last night"


jou knooowwwwwwwwwwww

[gotu]

every relationship has doubts here and there but some people are mature and are able to handle it on their own without mentioning it to their bf/gf.Not everyone is on the same maturity level.Yes, granted what he did and what he said was immature and foolish, but since when does one;s maturity have anything to do with their feelings.So he made a mistake, he told u what was on his mind and now he realized how stupid he was and wants u back...i think you two know each other well enough to look past such fights.Take him back....if you dont, you'll be depressed and hurt and keep thinking about what went wrong.But if you accept him, you guys can work on the flaws your relationship has...it only makes the bond stronger between the two of you...not to mention the bitter the fight,sweeter the makeing up

[innocentpwinces]

erm depends wot the situation was

[nirmal_aus]

His notions was to break up otherwise he would not be afraid to say lets break up over the phone. the punk then calls back i am sorry. this is a grade baby love or puppy love whatever you want to call it. check the details behind on why he wanted to break up in the first place. yeah it does happan but you cant judge what his real notions are until you find it out from his own mouth. get crackin. :cool:

[celio]

called you to break up with you.
And ten minutes later, called you to get back together..

would you, get back together?

IF SHE HAD SOME GENUINE REASON TO BREAK AND THEN SHE CALLED ME TO GET BAK YEH..ORELSE JUS LIKE THT OR FUN..I WUD TELL HER KISS ARSSS..even i i really luvd her..coz u c...there is no point once tht comes up...u have probs tok abt it..finish there..dnt tok abt breakin up if u really luv each other u knw.. if tht break up matta comes forward once..expect nother 10 times...

[sweetaishu]

i think if u really love a person then u ll forgive him everything except two-timing
i dont know...okay well u ll be dissapointed first...i would talk to that person openly...i would ask this person why he did so and so on..and maybe he had his reasons...and if not...i dont know...but i think i would forgive him..