For women: Would you make the first move?

[uk__desi]

Hi,

How would you get a guy to notice you if you liked him. Would you make the first move or have you ever made the first move? How obvious would you be?

I mean a girl (complete stranger) came up to me a few days ago and just asked me "if i had a girlfriend".

[oosofreakish1]

i wouldnt ask him he had a girlfriend but if he was cute i would talk to him, and see if he makes the next move if not .. i go on with my life,

[uk__desi]

So would you actually approach him. Cuz usually i'm bad, and i mean bad at reading any signals, untill a friend or someone points it out.

[miss_qupid]

Hi,

How would you get a guy to notice you if you liked him. Would you make the first move or have you ever made the first move? How obvious would you be?

I mean a girl (complete stranger) came up to me a few days ago and just asked me "if i had a girlfriend".
erm id make the first move...
but he wud hav to be summin.....

[PINKLEATHER]

i wud just stick my tongue piercing out and lick my lips

hahahaha im just jokin :p :p :p

i wud never ... im a good girl.. once my friend went up 2 this guy.. and dey swapped numbers.. and wen dey broke up after 5 months 4 sum dumb reason he kept saying well u dumb bitch ur the 1 who came up2 me so shows dat im better den u..he felt really proud and i was just looking at him thinking wtf lolz.. so no i wudn't.. i wud give him a hint as in maybe smile and look away haha lol but i wudnt go up2 him.. nope nope :cool: :cool:

[the big d]

i wud just stick my tongue piercing out and lick my lips

hahahaha im just jokin :p :p :p

i wud never ... im a good girl.. once my friend went up 2 this guy.. and dey swapped numbers.. and wen dey broke up after 5 months 4 sum dumb reason he kept saying well u dumb bitch ur the 1 who came up2 me so shows dat im better den u..he felt really proud and i was just looking at him thinking wtf lolz.. so no i wudn't.. i wud give him a hint as in maybe smile and look away haha lol but i wudnt go up2 him.. nope nope :cool: :cool:

dont left your friends jerkoff x stop u from approaching a guy. i think it's hot when a girl comes up 2 me. maybe cuz it is a lot easier ;) aint nothing wrong with it!!!

[jassika]

i dont think so unless i could tell he really wants it

[desi_chic_07]

If my makeup looked good, my hair was behaving and I wasnt wearing sweatpants, maybe...

[T.Dimera]

From my experience most girls in general won't make the 1st move if you don't know her. If you guys are friends 1st...then she might show some signs that she wants more. Take out the guess work, do the approaching yourself man.

[Serenity]

I would probably not make the first move. But there are other ways of showing him ur intrested, from giving a smile to giving a look. If he still doesn't understand he might be braindead wich is a bad quality to find in a guy :s

[girl-next-door]

I wont mind making the first move. I wudnt just go up to a complete stranger and ask him if he as has a girlfrnd....but yeah i wudnt mind approaching him and givin him hints. and if he just keeps givin me hints as well instead of askin me...then i guess after some waiting and playin "hint tag" i wud just be strait up and ask him.

[FallOnTheOreos]

I would..what's the worst that can happen right?

[T.Dimera]

I would..what's the worst that can happen right?

A friend of mine who is really shy saw an attractive girl on the subway and decided he had to try and talk to her. He did and decided to ask her for her #. She says something like "hahaha...what would make you think i would give you my #...just ridculous". She said this infront of everyone. The guy got so embarrassed he got off on the next stop.

Point is..., you have to be able to take some nastyness of the possibility of rejection.

[FallOnTheOreos]

A friend of mine who is really shy saw an attractive girl on the subway and decided he had to try and talk to her. He did and decided to ask her for her #. She says something like "hahaha...what would make you think i would give you my #...just ridculous". She said this infront of everyone. The guy got so embarrassed he got off on the next stop.

Point is..., you have to be able to take some nastyness of the possibility of rejection.


yes that is why sometimes i feel sorry for the guys i reject.

[Fatty4life]

no :ugh: i dont even like strangers

[T.Dimera]

yes that is why sometimes i feel sorry for the guys i reject.

Being rejected is fine, but when the guy/girl goes out of their way to try and humiliate someone asking them out...that person has issues.

[SIXPAK GQ]

Hi,

How would you get a guy to notice you if you liked him. Would you make the first move or have you ever made the first move? How obvious would you be?

I mean a girl (complete stranger) came up to me a few days ago and just asked me "if i had a girlfriend".

they give lot of hints

[SIXPAK GQ]

i wouldnt ask him he had a girlfriend but if he was cute i would talk to him, and see if he makes the next move if not .. i go on with my life,

there are lot of guys who can't get a clue plus they are shy to make a move.

they would think u probably flirt with most guys anyway.

[SIXPAK GQ]

If my makeup looked good, my hair was behaving and I wasnt wearing sweatpants, maybe...

I rather be interested in a girl with no make up, screwed up hair and sweatpants then a gorgeous, its just my fetish.....

[SIXPAK GQ]

I would probably not make the first move. But there are other ways of showing him ur intrested, from giving a smile to giving a look. If he still doesn't understand he might be braindead wich is a bad quality to find in a guy :s

these days many girls are serial flirters and its a norm to give someone eye contact and smile anyways....I get that all day, that doesn't mean all girls are interested in me........perhaps he is not interested in you.

[SIXPAK GQ]

no :ugh: i dont even like strangers

kabhi kabhi mujhe na jaane tum lagte hon kyun ajnabi?

[92ndKillaKlan]

yes that is why sometimes i feel sorry for the guys i reject.

and that is why i feel sorry for u girls when i slap the fuk outa ur face,
for sayin it infront of everyone

[92ndKillaKlan]

.......... :eek:

[@psara]

Being rejected is fine, but when the guy/girl goes out of their way to try and humiliate someone asking them out...that person has issues.
not every1 tries to humiliate da person askin dem out, im so nice i hav problems sayin no

[budz]

I rather be interested in a girl with no make up, screwed up hair and sweatpants then a gorgeous, its just my fetish.....
Damn right! Its nice seeing a girl that doesnt have to get done up everytime. I like seeing what a girl looks like 'normally'. Its not as if u dress up when you are bumming around at home watching movies or something.

[bhangraman]

So wha signals do girls give off?? iam confused because i get some girls being nice to me and i dunno if they like me or they jus like that. help me out iam quite new lol :sarb:

[bhangraman]

i think i jus killed the thread lol

[budz]

bhangraman, you look like a brown roger federer!!

[bhangraman]

bhangraman, you look like a brown roger federer!!

:sarb: :ugh: dunno if thats a good thing or a bad thing :ughdance: :dunnouh: :fart2: lol

[Seeeeeeema]

no i wud never make hte first move.. and i wud never ask a guy if he has a gf.. i dont know strange..

[Toshdevi]

Yea i would da first move.Its not normal to society but ohwell.. You gotta go and get what you want.. Dont wait for it to fall in your lap. Well u must start out by being innocent friends but with a lil bit of flirtation.. and then it progresses from there.

[uk__desi]

there are lot of guys who can't get a clue plus they are shy to make a move.


I'm like dat, well thats what my friends say. I'm not shy but sometimez i don't get da hint and realise after. :eek:

Thats why i wana know if there are any hints that gurls give off to let a guy know she like ya.

[T.Dimera]

not every1 tries to humiliate da person askin dem out, im so nice i hav problems sayin no

true not everyone, just a few.

[SIXPAK GQ]

no i wud never make hte first move.. and i wud never ask a guy if he has a gf.. i dont know strange..

players never ask if they got someone or not.....

[Kavita]

Hi,

How would you get a guy to notice you if you liked him. Would you make the first move or have you ever made the first move? How obvious would you be?

I mean a girl (complete stranger) came up to me a few days ago and just asked me "if i had a girlfriend".

hmm i would...it depends

anyway I've made the first move with two guys i have gone out with...it juz sorta happened.

[Seeeeeeema]

players never ask if they got someone or not.....
says who?? u jsut find out indirectly u dont have to ask..

[d-wal]

surprisingly no..i have this harsh fear of rejection..then again i also have this tendency to flirt it up quite a bit

[SIXPAK GQ]

says who?? u jsut find out indirectly u dont have to ask..

why would a player care if u got someone or not? their goal is not to stick around but to hit it.