LADIES - How To Get A Girl To Dump You...Without Cheating/Hitting/Etc...

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I went to breakup with my girl today, but holy shit, she made it IMPOSSIBLE.

She turned on the waterworks and said she would wait for however long it took. I told her I needed some personal space and some time to get my personal shit in check, but she just wouldn't accept it.

I feel horrible, but I honestly gotta get outtah this relationship. It's killing me man! I just don't want to hurt her or scar her emotionally...

Any suggestions?

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Buuuuuuuuuuuuuuuump

[QuRutuLaiN]

tell her ur gay...

[laughalott24]

just be honest wit her y..cuz see shes gonan sooner or later realize that u really did not want to be in dat relationship nd das gonan hurt her mmore..cuz shes gonan wait aorund thinkin there might be hope..so just break it to her..take her out..be nice..nd tlel her u want to eb friends..give her ur reasons nd u kno tell her u had ur good times but u werent really feelin it anymore..nd tell u u really needed to do dis..so u wont hurt her anymore..girls understand if guys arent dicks abt it..its sweet u care :) so hope this helps

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just be honest wit her y..cuz see shes gonan sooner or later realize that u really did not want to be in dat relationship nd das gonan hurt her mmore..cuz shes gonan wait aorund thinkin there might be hope..so just break it to her..take her out..be nice..nd tlel her u want to eb friends..give her ur reasons nd u kno tell her u had ur good times but u werent really feelin it anymore..nd tell u u really needed to do dis..so u wont hurt her anymore..girls understand if guys arent dicks abt it..its sweet u care :) so hope this helps

That's what I tried today! Not even an hour ago! Man...she just won't budge. I realized that I have to make her break up with me. It's the only way our relationship is gonna be over...

I COULD tell her I was Gay, but then she'd want to be good friends and there's no way I'm going to pretend to be gay just when I'm around her. Not that there's anything wrong with gay people, just not my thing.

[oosofreakish1]

tell her your gay ... or start checking out other girls constantly .. or guys ... either or

[QuRutuLaiN]

I COULD tell her I was Gay, but then she'd want to be good friends and there's no way I'm going to pretend to be gay just when I'm around her. Not that there's anything wrong with gay people, just not my thing

no see be like u don't want ppl to know..and if she can keep a secret..and about the fri tell her u want to be left alone for a while to figure thing out..ur really confuse and u jsut can't pretend to be with a girl anymore..hehe sori i tried that once and it backfire..but for guys it might work...

[laughalott24]

That's what I tried today! Not even an hour ago! Man...she just won't budge. I realized that I have to make her break up with me. It's the only way our relationship is gonna be over...

I COULD tell her I was Gay, but then she'd want to be good friends and there's no way I'm going to pretend to be gay just when I'm around her. Not that there's anything wrong with gay people, just not my thing.


but dat jus inflicts more pain..jus go on ur own way..she has to realize ..nd jus dont put extra pressure on her..give hertime..i think shes relaly not gettin it ..or tell one of her best friends dat u really dont see it in her anymore..she will most liekly make her friend understand.. i dunno haha ids is tough

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tell her your gay ... or start checking out other girls constantly .. or guys ... either or

Hm...maybe.

[Maynards Pet]

yah flirting with other girls is a good one.

But yeah, if you were with her, Im sure you know what pisses her off and what doesn't.... Just do everything that pisses her off :)

[Aurovon]

dont give no excuses. she wont let u go easy right? screw that. just tell her its over and no need for this drama. and tell her if she cant act mature about it then there is no reason for yall to be even friends. dont fall into this trap.

[@psara]

lol man jus tell her dat u got sum1 pregnant nd now ur bout to hav a kid.

[sweetvirgogirl]

I feel sooooooooooo bad for the girl... :(

[the big d]

stand your ground. if that don't work, withdraw emotionally. she will get the hint

[TrueIndiAnSOul]

pick ur nose

[hellayah]

is she truly loves u no matter what u say or do u r going to hurt her and scar her emotionally and everything. Its just the way it is man. Its hard but it seems like ur the nice guy and want to just end it peacefully. Not going to happen, u r going too have to stand ur ground make ur points also make sure once u have made it clear, do not call her or contact her cuz then she will keep the hope.

[urbanmix786]

-Don't give her any attention
-Be cold when you're with her i.e. limit the talking, blank her etc
-Avoid her at all times, don't be discreet make it obvious to her that u are.
-Never say anything remotely nice.

^The above will work, don't check out other girls in front of her, as she will just feel crapy about herself, and who know she might just go out of her way to be more like them.

[Flow_Motion]

pick ur nose
Hahahaha!!!

[kalislilpimp]

I went to breakup with my girl today, but holy shit, she made it IMPOSSIBLE.

She turned on the waterworks and said she would wait for however long it took. I told her I needed some personal space and some time to get my personal shit in check, but she just wouldn't accept it.

I feel horrible, but I honestly gotta get outtah this relationship. It's killing me man! I just don't want to hurt her or scar her emotionally...

Any suggestions?


The best way to make a girl understand is by being honest to her dont fill her mind with any lies say it straight foward in life you deal with hard things but she should respect the fact that you were honest and didnt lie to her that might hurt bro, but she'll expect the fact u were man enough to tell her the truth

[BC_Broad]

i kinda know how you feel. this guy wanted to go out with me in high school and i really wasn't interested so i did the whole "its me, not you" routine. he kept insisting that he would wait until i was ready to date and had time. well, he didn't get the hint for almost a whole month and kept calling and acting like we were together so i had to confront him about it. i told him that i liked him as a friend and would like to continue the friendship but, if he kept pushing me and hounding me, then i would have to stop being his friend, too. he thought i was the biggest bitch in the world but its better than me pretending to like the guy so he wouldn't bother me anymore.

she's obviously gonna be hurt but it wouldn't be fair to her if you stayed with her only because you feel guilty. tell her that you need your space and that she should respect your wishes if she really does care about you. but, if she still doesn't care, ask her if she would rather be with someone that doesn't share the same feelings but is with her because he pities her in a way. girls usually get turned off by that...it sounds harsh but she's not being very fair by hanging on. i'm guessing she's like this because she's attached to you and its gonna be hard to adjust to life without you (or even for a while). just be upfront and honest...otherwise you're hurting her and yourself.

sorry for the essay ;)

[phez]

dump her, and then completely ignore her. delete phone numbers, msn/aim/yahoo contacts, emails, etc etc. just shut her out and erase her your life. goto bars and hang out with friends as much as possible.

its harsh - but its the simplest and most effective way (besides leaving the country) :\

[DESI-PEACHES]

I went to breakup with my girl today, but holy shit, she made it IMPOSSIBLE.

She turned on the waterworks and said she would wait for however long it took. I told her I needed some personal space and some time to get my personal shit in check, but she just wouldn't accept it.

I feel horrible, but I honestly gotta get outtah this relationship. It's killing me man! I just don't want to hurt her or scar her emotionally...

Any suggestions?

Firstly, tell her why u want to break up with her...she deserves the honestly...talk to her and tell her u will be there for her as a friend and she will get over u and tell her its my loss....all girls likes to hear that and boost up their confidence...hope dis helps!!

if this doesnt help then slap her!! (lol jk jk)!! :p

[xxxplicit chica]

how long have u two been together? :wavey:

[T.Dimera]

You have to do think the same way you take off a bandaid. It's gotta be quick and at full force. It seems like there is no way she is not going to get hurt and cry her eyes out, no matter what you do so the best is to be short and direct. Tell her you want to break up, (let the waterworks begin), and then just get out of there. Theres no easy solution, just do it. Faster you break up, the faster she gets over it.

[aznpdaddy]

Hm...maybe.
tell her your bi- than she wudnt want to be with you.....jsut say that you wna carry on both ways and you wna b with her.....shell only have two choices....bi or no relationship.....
say that you cant resist...BOTH

tell her you cant be just mates coz youve got bi feelings for her...

[xxjessxx]

dont give no excuses. she wont let u go easy right? screw that. just tell her its over and no need for this drama. and tell her if she cant act mature about it then there is no reason for yall to be even friends. dont fall into this trap.

yeah i agree there..just be straight up with her and obviously being nice isnt working so you might have to be a little not nice..

[xxxplicit chica]

Buuuuuuuuuuuuuuuump
btw...ur hot....tell her u found someone else....her name is Nayab...and u want to make 478356825 babies with her :wavey: :naughty:

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btw...ur hot....tell her u found someone else....her name is Nayab...and u want to make 478356825 babies with her :wavey: :naughty:


Haha...you tell her, she's a fiesty thing. The fight would be on!

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I'll update it for you...

After I told her all that shit, she pretty much cried her way out of it. I've broken up with girls before, but this has been damn difficult. She honestly is a good person, and she's had a terribly hard life. She repeatedly tells me I'm the only thing good she has...you know what that does to you? Makes you feel GUILTY as hell for no reason.

Anyways, I told her things were cool and that I just needed some space. She balled some more. I said fine, I don't need the space but I"ll be a little busy and won't be able to hook up with her as often. She's fine with that.

Fuuuck me. I just CAN'T be mean to her, I don't know why, I just can't.

[phez]

it will always be like that if the relationship ends on good terms.

if you honestly feel you need to end it - end it. she'll eventually get on with her life.