Are Girls Really Worth it?

[WildWolfdog]

Having a wife, that's another story but are girls really worth it? Gf's, crushes, or watever ... all the trouble? The money u spend on em, the time u spend on them? Is it all really worth it for a bit of security or to feel loved i mean i think the passion is wasted because .. i don't know lol .. if it was an equation would it even out? Does ...

Hurt, Money Spent, Time Spent, Nakhray = Having a girl?

From what i know it's usually nothin to them, you can try to give them whatever you have but it's usually never enough, unless ur a hottie or something they will have a lot of doubts on whether u are worth having as well .. im sure people can live without larkis and find the same type of satisfaction somewhere else or something ... meh ... i agree with Mr.Scorpion on the thread he made bout "i don't like girls that much anymore" lol ..

Am i sayin i hate em? Nah, lol. Will i still look at em? Yeah ... Will i still think they are pretty/hot or whatever? For sure ... but do i think i will like them like them the way i used to ... i'm starting to doubt it .. :no:

[the big d]

yes, girls are worth it no doubt!!

[WildWolfdog]

yes, girls are worth it no doubt!!

yeh that helps a lot ... wtf man

bheegay - so ur sayin girls are only good for sex and that's the main reason?

[thaiz]

I think yes, but that is why one (well u in this case :P ) should make sure that is the girl you want as your wife... if u want a girl just to be fooling aroung its will cost u time, money and u prolly get hurt at the end ( or she ). If the girl is your wife to be then is not a wasted of money nor time.

[Fatty4life]

depending who you like, it can be. same can be said for guys.

[WildWolfdog]

I think yes, but that is why one (well u in this case :P ) should make sure that is the girl you want as your wife... if u want a girl just to be fooling aroung its will cost u time, money and u prolly get hurt at the end ( or she ). If the girl is your wife to be then is not a wasted of money nor time.

i never got ur phone number :no: lol jk .. well im sayin that when she's ur wife its a different story u know its all for a good cause cuz hopefully she will love u back the way u love her and she will care for u and watever .. but when u like a girl and she's not ur wife ... u obviously know in the back of ur head that she may never be ur wife but u still try to treat her the way she should be, yet in the end they end up hurting u, then why go thru that trouble in the first place?

Fatty - this is discussing girls, not guys, so we're not tryin to equivilate girls with guys here :)

[CorruptNightfall]

Honestly Basil, you're the first guy I've ever heard say something like that. And NO, they really aren't worth it unless you're seriouse about them since most desi girls tend to become seriouse, meaning they want to marry you!~ So yeah, they may be worth it depending on there personality and all. Find a simple girl who doesn't ask much from you!

[xxjessxx]

if its the right girl then its definatly worth it..

[harval]

thank god for arranged marriages and court marriage licences

[WildWolfdog]

Honestly Basil, you're the first guy I've ever heard say something like that. And NO, they really aren't worth it unless you're seriouse about them since most desi girls tend to become seriouse, meaning they want to marry you!~ So yeah, they may be worth it depending on there personality and all. Find a simple girl who doesn't ask much from you!

I wouldn't mind spending money on a girl if i know she's worth it but how can u tell if she is? Everything all fine n dandy when ur with them cuz as they say love is blind but later u realize that they weren't what u thought they were lol .. even when ur being hurt while ur with the larki u keep it in the back of the head cuz no one is perfect .. but it adds up .. girls are trouble

xxjessxx - would u go through 5 guys to find the 1 rite guy, especially if ur not sure that the 6th guy is the rite guy? Are u willin to go thru the pain caused by the 5 guys and the loss of feelings towards guys u have everytime u get hurt?

Harval - lol wtf was the point of that sentence?

[CorruptNightfall]

Lol, this seems sort of one sided in my opinion. You see, usually its a guy who really is just using the girl, maybe they hurt you in the end because they think that you aren't seriouse about them. In my opinion proving that you are seriouse about the girl and that you actually care for her is by telling your parents about her! Most guys I know would never dare do that, why? If you actually care for her then you do that, and she'd probably do the same.

[YawSar8705]

the reason y women live longer than men is cuz men got a lot more stress than women.. most of our stress comes from women

[harval]

xxjessxx - would u go through 5 guys to find the 1 rite guy, especially if ur not sure that the 6th guy is the rite guy? Are u willin to go thru the pain caused by the 5 guys and the loss of feelings towards guys u have everytime u get hurt?

Harval - lol wtf was the point of that sentence?

essay was too long so i just stated my point on women :D

[STYLE GOD]

yes when u get laid it all the pain goes away MUAHAHA

Alright. I have just moved you to the top of my "to-do" list.

[the big d]

i never got ur phone number :no: lol jk .. well im sayin that when she's ur wife its a different story u know its all for a good cause cuz hopefully she will love u back the way u love her and she will care for u and watever .. but when u like a girl and she's not ur wife ... u obviously know in the back of ur head that she may never be ur wife but u still try to treat her the way she should be, yet in the end they end up hurting u, then why go thru that trouble in the first place?

Fatty - this is discussing girls, not guys, so we're not tryin to equivilate girls with guys here :)

u sound like u never been in love. girls are different from boys as friends and all that stuff. they are fun, why else would we put up with some of the shit that gets pulled

[CorruptNightfall]

the reason y women live longer than men is cuz men got a lot more stress than women.. most of our stress comes from women

Whoa~! Wait, men can't live without woman either! If a man and woman have been married for a long period of time and the wife passes away, the man would be soon to follow. Men die of Lonliness! And yes its a fact! And if a woman's husband dies she still tends to live a long life, so hah!

Oh yeah, maybe men die early because some are stubborn arses who sometimes don't care for their health when they get older.

[WildWolfdog]

Lol, this seems sort of one sided in my opinion. You see, usually its a guy who really is just using the girl, maybe they hurt you in the end because they think that you aren't seriouse about them. In my opinion proving that you are seriouse about the girl and that you actually care for her is by telling your parents about her! Most guys I know would never dare do that, why? If you actually care for her then you do that, and she'd probably do the same.

I never said girls use guys, i'm just sayin that they could care less as long as u keep them happy, and then the minute they're in demand or are gettin bored u become yestarday's story .. thats usually the case with girls who are supposed to be worth it .. and the tellin the parents thing, lol are u crazy? If the girl's parents don't kill u first, ur parents definitely will

Yawsar - LOL haha tat was funny, it could be right too actually

Harval - its 2 paragraph's man

StyleGod - are u muslim? Aren't u supposed to be respectful and respected (even if ur not muslim i mean) .. then wtf is up with the sig man? I'm not hating u but instead of seeming like a pimp u feel more like a wanna be pimp .. zara lehaaz karo its not like we have a lack of sex on the forums, don't really need the anime porn shit

[xxjessxx]

I wouldn't mind spending money on a girl if i know she's worth it but how can u tell if she is? Everything all fine n dandy when ur with them cuz as they say love is blind but later u realize that they weren't what u thought they were lol .. even when ur being hurt while ur with the larki u keep it in the back of the head cuz no one is perfect .. but it adds up .. girls are trouble

xxjessxx - would u go through 5 guys to find the 1 rite guy, especially if ur not sure that the 6th guy is the rite guy? Are u willin to go thru the pain caused by the 5 guys and the loss of feelings towards guys u have everytime u get hurt?

Harval - lol wtf was the point of that sentence?

i guess i get where your coming from..(i really hope i dont have to go through 5 guys lol) but personally speaking i dont just fall for anyone..and i guess i cant really say much on this bc ive only been in one relationship and even though it didnt work out and i went through alot of pain, i wouldnt take back anything..and if it takes 5 guys for me to find the right one, i think its something you just have to do..because if you dont take a chance, you'll always be left to wonder..sometimes you just have to go through that heartbreak..its hard, but when you meet the girl who in ure eyes is perfect, you'll be glad you didnt give up on girls and relationships..i dont know if this makes any sense, but yeahh..

[plummet]

are guys really worth it?

[BilalisPakistani]

at our age, hell nah

just mess around with the slutty girls for now..rofl

I wanna get married soon tho :(

[thaiz]

i never got ur phone number :no: lol jk .. well im sayin that when she's ur wife its a different story u know its all for a good cause cuz hopefully she will love u back the way u love her and she will care for u and watever .. but when u like a girl and she's not ur wife ... u obviously know in the back of ur head that she may never be ur wife but u still try to treat her the way she should be, yet in the end they end up hurting u, then why go thru that trouble in the first place?

:mad:
u keep saying is a joke :mad: :p


anyway ... then just treat her nice, if u go out with her of course u should be the one who pay... but dont buy her expensive gift, do not spend too much time on her if u r not sure if she will be ur wife, if u think there is a posibility then its worth the time, if at the end nothing happend atlest u had fun.

[CorruptNightfall]

SEE! How do you know that? Seriously, I think its messed to hide stuff from your parents. Come on, and what kind of girls do youthink are worth it? That is what I wanna know, do you think the very hot ones are or cute ones or even decent? You may have just been with the wrong people. I guess guys are bad at judging a person. But yeah look, I'm female and the reason why I don't go into any relationship is because I know no guy is seriouse. To me seriouse is getting married! Meaning you have to talk to your parents about it. Maybe I just came from a very close household where I tell my parents EVERYTHING and they tell me.....and trust me, I may have a different way of talking to my father, but he knows everything too. They would want me to tell them about a guy. Think about it, and just talk about it with your parents genrally.

[Tigr]

Girls...especially the good looking ones have their nose in the sky big time when they are 19 to 23. Fukin bitches all of them at that age...just because they look tight and good looking and are the possesor of the pussy. Highly overrated all the trouble....just make out with some fat chiks instead.

[BC_Broad]

Girls...especially the good looking ones have their nose in the sky big time when they are 19 to 23. Fukin bitches all of them at that age...just because they look tight and good looking and are the possesor of the pussy. Highly overrated all the trouble....just make out with some fat chiks instead.


what about the guys in that age range? most, if not all, are obsessed with their dick and will fuck anything that remotely looks like a hole.

[the big d]

Girls...especially the good looking ones have their nose in the sky big time when they are 19 to 23. Fukin bitches all of them at that age...just because they look tight and good looking and are the possesor of the pussy. Highly overrated all the trouble....just make out with some fat chiks instead.

i feel like i see this viewpoint a lot on this site, makes me nervous. what happened to treating ppl with respect. not every good lookin girl is a biatch...

[BC_Broad]

i feel like i see this viewpoint a lot on this site, makes me nervous. what happened to treating ppl with respect. not every good lookin girl is a biatch...


you're new here so you obviously haven't seen any of his other posts...take it with a grain of salt.

[jassika]

i'm worth it. ;)

[the big d]

you're new here so you obviously haven't seen any of his other posts...take it with a grain of salt.

hehe, gotcha :rolleyes:

[WildWolfdog]

Corrupt - lol i said na, we're not talkin bout how it is between husband and wife cuz marraige is a totally different story and u try to make it work because in the end its worth it .. and u can't tell ur parents because its hard enough for them to let u have close larki friends, if u talk bout girlfriends and marraige they will tell u to shut up and study and be more religious and that it's not the age to think bout these things

xxjessxx - lol it did make sense and u seem like a hopeless romantic type of girl and i don't mean it in a bad way but even though u don't fall for anyone u said, ur a pretty larki and will be charmed with sweetness and all that and some fucker will try to use that to get to u even if he's not serious .. and yeah i've only been in one relationship as well and when i read wat u were sayin bout it i thought i wrote that lol .. but i don't know i mean ... what if its not 5 guys but 10 or 15 or whatever u know u never know when u will find the right one if at all, it could be when ur like 23 and that's still 14 yrs or whatever .. i hope that made sense too, so i'm thinkin, why should u worry bout it and fall in love for no reason ..

Plummet - it seems like u bring up this type of argument everywhere, well everyone does lol to counterattack but like i told fatty, it's not a thread to rival the problems girls give off with how guys are the same .. and if u really want to argue on it then don't just leave one line and think its gonna sound witty and that u made ur point .. sorry if i sound bitchy i don't mean to

Bilal - lol sometimes it seems like the only logical thing to do

Thaiz - okay it's not a joke then, may i have it? :) and the girl thing, well when it ends, u don't think "atleast it was fun" ... cuz if u were really into the larki u didn't want it to end and the fact that she thinks it was fun and moves on really easily or cheats on u or goes to some other guy to "have fun" hurts even more and makes it more logical to believe that girls aren't worth it ..

Bigd - nah i thought i was at one time but after u look back on it, it wasn't love, just like or a long crush or watevre i guess ..

Tigr - lol not all of them .. its like girls say that all the guys that u wud wanna be with are gay .. exactly in that way the girls who are worth it are already taken and are very rare to begin with, if not taken they are not interested because they know that it's a game for guys and they will end up hurt .. so the slutty guys usually end up ruinin for everyone

BC - lol ya allahhh, go away u feminist rights movement recruiter, LOL jk .. ur rite, but larkiii i don't wanna discuss the flaws from guys in this thread :)

Jassika - wat makes u think that?

[CorruptNightfall]

Meh *Pats* poor you lol. How about try this, don't spend all your money on the girl. Equal share, hey if you're doing something extra special special, you spend the money. But if you guys are just casually meeting and all then Its best for you guys to do an equal share in money spending. If shes the kind of girl who wants equality do it. Just don't lose your romantic side to it. I think its the thought that counts more anyways. Anyhow, just view her as a very good friend someone you have a possible future with. If it doesn't work out you lost nothing right> Like someone said earlier, you still had a good time and it wasn't a waste of your time.

[jassika]

u know i was actually just thinking about this. why do men just buy stuff for like any girl? i was just walking down the mall right now cause i was on break and wanted to get some food (my school's in a mall) and some random punjabi guy came up to me and said wassup and stuff. i kinda felt like saying 'nooo go away' but i didnt cause he seemed nice and i feel sorry for nice guys (especially fobs) seeing bitchy girls everywhere. i'm not like them

a lot of guys seem to be used easily by girls cause they're always ready to pay for anything and give rides any time...

and i'm worth it cause i would treat my man like a king. get him gifts all the time and make things more convinient for him. i dont expect anything i dont want him to expect from me.

[EwLookItsYou]

Having a wife, that's another story but are girls really worth it? Gf's, crushes, or watever ... all the trouble? The money u spend on em, the time u spend on them? Is it all really worth it for a bit of security or to feel loved i mean i think the passion is wasted because .. i don't know lol .. if it was an equation would it even out? Does ...

Hurt, Money Spent, Time Spent, Nakhray = Having a girl?

From what i know it's usually nothin to them, you can try to give them whatever you have but it's usually never enough, unless ur a hottie or something they will have a lot of doubts on whether u are worth having as well .. im sure people can live without larkis and find the same type of satisfaction somewhere else or something ... meh ... i agree with Mr.Scorpion on the thread he made bout "i don't like girls that much anymore" lol ..

Am i sayin i hate em? Nah, lol. Will i still look at em? Yeah ... Will i still think they are pretty/hot or whatever? For sure ... but do i think i will like them like them the way i used to ... i'm starting to doubt it .. :no:

i didn read what other people said but..
no.
we're honestly NOT worht it

girls you kno its true.
we're so manipulative and bitchy, backstabbing, emotional...

its a wonder that people put up with us.
haha..
lol
idk but its only worth it if youre ABSOLUTELY suuuure about her. other than that. BLAH!
if shes givin ya trouble..
or if u guys r just fighting.. meh. dont think so.
lol
sry man.. thts my opinion.. i think thts y i prefer hanging out with the guys more sometimes...

oh yeah and also, if shes not giving back the same effort.. because that just means she doesn care as much. you two should be equals, and while it may work out in the present, it may come back and bite you in the ass later on.. kno wat i mean?

[yaara]

basillll itni tension kyuu shehzaade???

tumhe kia gham hai humein bhi bataoo
saath beth kar sharaab humein bhi pilaoo



shiiyyyt im a "shayer" now :no:

[insomniac987]

if its the right girl then its definatly worth it..
i agree

[WildWolfdog]

lol ill reply to this in a bit

[NeceSsary]

In all honesty, I think they are worth it. Theres a certain girl/guy out there for everyone and once you find them you'll be clinged onto em.. I think we as humans go through the problems with relationships at a young age and that might make us think its not worth it, but once you start reaching your late twenty's, early thirty's you will most likely have a change of heart. Stop wanting to play around and start wanting to settle down is what i call it.

[SIXPAK GQ]

Having a wife, that's another story but are girls really worth it? Gf's, crushes, or watever ... all the trouble? The money u spend on em, the time u spend on them? Is it all really worth it for a bit of security or to feel loved i mean i think the passion is wasted because .. i don't know lol .. if it was an equation would it even out? Does ...

Hurt, Money Spent, Time Spent, Nakhray = Having a girl?

From what i know it's usually nothin to them, you can try to give them whatever you have but it's usually never enough, unless ur a hottie or something they will have a lot of doubts on whether u are worth having as well .. im sure people can live without larkis and find the same type of satisfaction somewhere else or something ... meh ... i agree with Mr.Scorpion on the thread he made bout "i don't like girls that much anymore" lol ..

Am i sayin i hate em? Nah, lol. Will i still look at em? Yeah ... Will i still think they are pretty/hot or whatever? For sure ... but do i think i will like them like them the way i used to ... i'm starting to doubt it .. :no:

having a wife?, having a girl? not much of a difference except you are sharing bank accounts and living together. its more safer to be not married, if you get divorced, she will take half ur money. aren't u going spend time with ur wife also? when u said giving, giving what? if you are looking to get laid, get laid by a hooker, trust me its a cheaper investment with no heart breaks. but then you will always find a better fish who will better match ur needs.

[xFlawdaGalx]

...most girls aren't worth it. It always seems like the girls that don't deserve good guys get them, and the girls that do deserve them, are left with nothing. That's probably not true, but whatever. I also think it depends on what the guy is looking for. Like some guys date around and around just for the hell of it, while others wait for something better? I personally don't think guys are worth chasing after, but if I "randomly" meet someone I find worthy (trying not to sound conceited)...I'll go for it.

[SIXPAK GQ]

wild : why don't we turn the table and switch and parties?

[yaara]

Having a wife, that's another story but are girls really worth it? Gf's, crushes, or watever ... all the trouble? The money u spend on em, the time u spend on them? Is it all really worth it for a bit of security or to feel loved i mean i think the passion is wasted because .. i don't know lol .. if it was an equation would it even out? Does ...

Hurt, Money Spent, Time Spent, Nakhray = Having a girl?

From what i know it's usually nothin to them, you can try to give them whatever you have but it's usually never enough, unless ur a hottie or something they will have a lot of doubts on whether u are worth having as well .. im sure people can live without larkis and find the same type of satisfaction somewhere else or something ... meh ... i agree with Mr.Scorpion on the thread he made bout "i don't like girls that much anymore" lol ..

Am i sayin i hate em? Nah, lol. Will i still look at em? Yeah ... Will i still think they are pretty/hot or whatever? For sure ... but do i think i will like them like them the way i used to ... i'm starting to doubt it .. :no:
ok basil..to answer ur Q...its not really easy to decide whose worth it n whose not..because sometimes u jes dont know..n usually u learn it the hard way..u jes need to go with the flow..that doesnt mean jes go around flirtin..but jes take things one at a time...
jes dun expect too much from some1.. it wud be a lot easier if we jes lower our expectations n if possible not have any at all...n im not talkin bout some huge expectations..im talkin bout li'l stuff like expectin a call all the time, expectin them to see u everyday, expecting sumthn extraordinary from that some1 special on ur bday, etc. u get my point...its these li'l things that may lead u astray...coz if the person does it..u dun appreciate it as much coz u asume its part of their "job", n if they dun do it then u question if they were really worth it even if the girl is like the perfect 1 for u...
infact wen ur not expectin a lot..n they do sumthn nice...it means a lot to u coz it comes as a surprisee..im sure u mustve experience that...(n it works both ways..for guys n girls)
soo jes take life 1 day at a time...n u'll see how u will appreciate the li'l stuff that goes by unnoticed every day ;)

[miss_qupid]

Having a wife, that's another story but are girls really worth it? Gf's, crushes, or watever ... all the trouble? The money u spend on em, the time u spend on them? Is it all really worth it for a bit of security or to feel loved i mean i think the passion is wasted because .. i don't know lol .. if it was an equation would it even out? Does ...

Hurt, Money Spent, Time Spent, Nakhray = Having a girl?

From what i know it's usually nothin to them, you can try to give them whatever you have but it's usually never enough, unless ur a hottie or something they will have a lot of doubts on whether u are worth having as well .. im sure people can live without larkis and find the same type of satisfaction somewhere else or something ... meh ... i agree with Mr.Scorpion on the thread he made bout "i don't like girls that much anymore" lol ..

Am i sayin i hate em? Nah, lol. Will i still look at em? Yeah ... Will i still think they are pretty/hot or whatever? For sure ... but do i think i will like them like them the way i used to ... i'm starting to doubt it .. :no:
have i really hurt u?

[WildWolfdog]

have i really hurt u?

more than u know

[CrazyBitch]

the question is...are guys really worth it?

[umairhasmi83]

the question is...are guys really worth it?
Do you like having someone else spend money on you every step of the way? Do you like getting expensive clothes and perfumes for free? Do you like eating out at fancy restaurants and going to clubs when the cover is 50 bucks per person? If so then yes they are worth it.All you have to do in bend over whenever he wants you to :D

[CrazyBitch]

Do you like having someone else spend money on you every step of the way? Do you like getting expensive clothes and perfumes for free? Do you like eating out at fancy restaurants and going to clubs when the cover is 50 bucks per person? If so then yes they are worth it.All you have to do in bend over whenever he wants you to :D

no i do not like somoene spending a lot of money on me (its never happened, and i wont let a guy spend that much money on me)....i dont like expensive clothes and perfumes because I could definietly get something thats cheaper and more comfy...i dont go to fancy restaurants, and i wouldnt wanna go to a club that expensive........plus, I WOULD NEVER WANT A GUY TO SPEND THAT MUCH MONEY ON ME!

[umairhasmi83]

no i do not like somoene spending a lot of money on me (its never happened, and i wont let a guy spend that much money on me)....i dont like expensive clothes and perfumes because I could definietly get something thats cheaper and more comfy...i dont go to fancy restaurants, and i wouldnt wanna go to a club that expensive........plus, I WOULD NEVER WANT A GUY TO SPEND THAT MUCH MONEY ON ME!
Hmm.U arent a typical female thats for sure.If you have a twin sister or something in florida let me know ;) Whoever gets you will be one lucky motherfucker.Lol not to mention he will save a ton of money.

[ranjha_jatt]

ur life is heaven if u have the right gurl

ur life is worse than hell is shes not rite

and every average gurl/relationship falls somewhere in between

[FTJfag]

Girls aren't worth shit.
Sex, on the other hand...

[SmellsGood]

no i do not like somoene spending a lot of money on me (its never happened, and i wont let a guy spend that much money on me)....i dont like expensive clothes and perfumes because I could definietly get something thats cheaper and more comfy...i dont go to fancy restaurants, and i wouldnt wanna go to a club that expensive........plus, I WOULD NEVER WANT A GUY TO SPEND THAT MUCH MONEY ON ME!
lol - sheener, $50 is cost of parking and admission to a club.

Id spend money on you because youre so hot. Id wine you and dine you. Id even take you to Disney World! And after youve had a long, fun day with me... Id take you to the jacuzzi and feed you steamed carrots.

[bengoli_meg]

when doing things for her no longer feels like a chore or an inconvience, that's when it's worth it.

[CrazyBitch]

lol - sheener, $50 is cost of parking and admission to a club.

Id spend money on you because youre so hot. Id wine you and dine you. Id even take you to Disney World! And after youve had a long, fun day with me... Id take you to the jacuzzi and feed you steamed carrots.


:rolleyes: :rolleyes: right nirav...right...

[Aurovon]

No. End of story. I avoid relationships but they can hypnotize you easily, just be aware.

[MolviCorleone]

if her name is thaiz then yes she is worth alll that.

[thaiz]

if her name is thaiz then yes she is worth alll that. :p .

[WildWolfdog]

Necessary - Yeah but u can't appreciate them properly if u end up gettin hurt all the time, then even if u find "the one" u won't be sure and u will hide ur feelings so that they don't get trampled on again .. and waiting till 30's is so long .. i'll be like .. old by then no?

Sixpaq - lol there's a big difference in wife and gf .. when ur married ur families get joined in holy matrimony while when ur gf-bf its only u and her and maybe a couple of friends who are involved .. when its a wife u try to work out problems and try harder to work them out because divorce is a way bigger deal than just breakin up with someone .. and its not about having sex, if it was i would've done it with some next person a while ago .. and no let's not switch sides because this is only to discuss the fact that i don't think GIRLS are worth it :)

Flawdagal - i agree with u on the who undeserving people gettin someone they don't deserve and vice versa .. but it's the girls' fault mainly because they always want somethin better and then when the guy falls head over heel for them, they take the guy for granted and do their stuff elsewhere ..

Yaara - true, but how much time can u spend trying to figure out who's worth it and who's not? I mean nice guys finish last, u and i both know that, but even that's not enough because nice guys get trampled on and kicked around WHILE they're finishing last as well .. i like ur theory on not expecting a lot and ur rite but sometimes even the lil things u expect from them seem like a big thing to them or is somethin too difficult in their eyes .. i would say some things but people would think i am specifically referrin to them :ugh:

Qupid - like i said, more than u know larki

Crazybitch - no tat's not the question, please make ur own thread bout that sheena :) and welcome back btw.

Umair - yeah she's not a typical larki that's for sure :D

Ranjha - no, not really i don't agree with the first 2 statements

FTJ - lol, where u been?

Smellsgood - nirav, oo lala ;)

BengoliMeg - it's never that way, but if ur not appreciated for the things u do, whether or not u think its a chore, then its prolly not worth it either way because the girl could care less what you do or don't do, that's where the takin for granted thing comes in because she will get an asshole for a bf and will realize later how she was lucky to have the first guy but can't have him lol, i could write a novel on that

Molvi - lol o god, no flirting in this thread bud

Aurovon - ur rite, but that's when its lust or a crush .. girls are very good at manipulating and using, ur rite

[MolviCorleone]

Necessary - Yeah but u can't appreciate them properly if u end up gettin hurt all the time, then even if u find "the one" u won't be sure and u will hide ur feelings so that they don't get trampled on again .. and waiting till 30's is so long .. i'll be like .. old by then no?

Sixpaq - lol there's a big difference in wife and gf .. when ur married ur families get joined in holy matrimony while when ur gf-bf its only u and her and maybe a couple of friends who are involved .. when its a wife u try to work out problems and try harder to work them out because divorce is a way bigger deal than just breakin up with someone .. and its not about having sex, if it was i would've done it with some next person a while ago .. and no let's not switch sides because this is only to discuss the fact that i don't think GIRLS are worth it :)

Flawdagal - i agree with u on the who undeserving people gettin someone they don't deserve and vice versa .. but it's the girls' fault mainly because they always want somethin better and then when the guy falls head over heel for them, they take the guy for granted and do their stuff elsewhere ..

Yaara - true, but how much time can u spend trying to figure out who's worth it and who's not? I mean nice guys finish last, u and i both know that, but even that's not enough because nice guys get trampled on and kicked around WHILE they're finishing last as well .. i like ur theory on not expecting a lot and ur rite but sometimes even the lil things u expect from them seem like a big thing to them or is somethin too difficult in their eyes .. i would say some things but people would think i am specifically referrin to them :ugh:

Qupid - like i said, more than u know larki

Crazybitch - no tat's not the question, please make ur own thread bout that sheena :) and welcome back btw.

Umair - yeah she's not a typical larki that's for sure :D

Ranjha - no, not really i don't agree with the first 2 statements

FTJ - lol, where u been?

Smellsgood - nirav, oo lala ;)

BengoliMeg - it's never that way, but if ur not appreciated for the things u do, whether or not u think its a chore, then its prolly not worth it either way because the girl could care less what you do or don't do, that's where the takin for granted thing comes in because she will get an asshole for a bf and will realize later how she was lucky to have the first guy but can't have him lol, i could write a novel on that

Molvi - lol o god, no flirting in this thread bud

Aurovon - ur rite, but that's when its lust or a crush .. girls are very good at manipulating and using, ur rite

DO YOU HAVE 10 HANDS??????

[SIXPAK GQ]

i have always treated my g/f as my wife. If you think girls are not worth it and I think you should never get married.

Necessary - Yeah but u can't appreciate them properly if u end up gettin hurt all the time, then even if u find "the one" u won't be sure and u will hide ur feelings so that they don't get trampled on again .. and waiting till 30's is so long .. i'll be like .. old by then no?

Sixpaq - lol there's a big difference in wife and gf .. when ur married ur families get joined in holy matrimony while when ur gf-bf its only u and her and maybe a couple of friends who are involved .. when its a wife u try to work out problems and try harder to work them out because divorce is a way bigger deal than just breakin up with someone .. and its not about having sex, if it was i would've done it with some next person a while ago .. and no let's not switch sides because this is only to discuss the fact that i don't think GIRLS are worth it :)

Flawdagal - i agree with u on the who undeserving people gettin someone they don't deserve and vice versa .. but it's the girls' fault mainly because they always want somethin better and then when the guy falls head over heel for them, they take the guy for granted and do their stuff elsewhere ..

Yaara - true, but how much time can u spend trying to figure out who's worth it and who's not? I mean nice guys finish last, u and i both know that, but even that's not enough because nice guys get trampled on and kicked around WHILE they're finishing last as well .. i like ur theory on not expecting a lot and ur rite but sometimes even the lil things u expect from them seem like a big thing to them or is somethin too difficult in their eyes .. i would say some things but people would think i am specifically referrin to them :ugh:

Qupid - like i said, more than u know larki

Crazybitch - no tat's not the question, please make ur own thread bout that sheena :) and welcome back btw.

Umair - yeah she's not a typical larki that's for sure :D

Ranjha - no, not really i don't agree with the first 2 statements

FTJ - lol, where u been?

Smellsgood - nirav, oo lala ;)

BengoliMeg - it's never that way, but if ur not appreciated for the things u do, whether or not u think its a chore, then its prolly not worth it either way because the girl could care less what you do or don't do, that's where the takin for granted thing comes in because she will get an asshole for a bf and will realize later how she was lucky to have the first guy but can't have him lol, i could write a novel on that

Molvi - lol o god, no flirting in this thread bud

Aurovon - ur rite, but that's when its lust or a crush .. girls are very good at manipulating and using, ur rite

[QuRutuLaiN]

yes:..once u find the one u wanna live with for the rest of ur life all that stuff won't matter......

[jassika]

what about me wolf :cry:

[WildWolfdog]

what about me wolf :cry:

lol i dunno i barely know u

Quratulain - shud i try to find or let them come eh?

Sixpaq - ur older and have more experience in that field and good stuff, i guess i wont get married then, lol, their loss

Molvie - no .. i do have 10 fingers if tats wat u mean .. lol

[papercut]

not they're not worth it

[Ghulabo]

see it's not just us girls, you guys contribute to that whole mess too

you know how they say you can't clap with one hand (only if u wana act retarded lol)

but yea it takes both to feel that way or to have fights and what not. even if you tried you couldn't make all that better alone she would have to contribute to it

so in other words i can ask the same question, are guys really worth the waiting, the tears the stress???

[oosofreakish1]

no they arent :no: we are a waste of time ...


unless you want some then we are worth it :mad:

[QuRutuLaiN]

Quratulain - shud i try to find or let them come eh?

umm all i can say is that if ur looking for a relationship ur not gonna find it with some girl who u know is after ur money and so on....and sometime friend can be more then jsut friend in a good way no dirtty stuff...in my case i went up to him and that was it...

[cutealicious]

you know wut i will admit girls r fuckin bitches...like seriously if i was a guy id be gay cuz i wudnt put up w the shit girls do...

[MolviCorleone]

you know wut i will admit girls r fuckin bitches...like seriously if i was a guy id be gay cuz i wudnt put up w the shit girls do...

ok whats worse a girl who happens to b a bitch

or a gay guy who is a bitch and acts like a women in every other way and probably wears makeup aswell cept he has a dick to go with it


i pick a girl who is a bitch.

[cutealicious]

ok whats worse a girl who happens to b a bitch

or a gay guy who is a bitch and acts like a women in every other way and probably wears makeup aswell cept he has a dick to go with it


i pick a girl who is a bitch.

thats cuz ur not gay...im not a bitch!!!
:D

[WildWolfdog]

Papercut - that's what i believe as well

Ghulabo - LOOLLLL @ clappin with one hand haahah i was imaginin myself doin that .. but no, we're talkin bout guys doin everythin they can and the girls doing evreythin they can instead to prove they're not worth it .. and again, this isn't a thread to take out anger on guys

oosofreakish - lol, so if i don't wanna do it with them they're useless?

Quratulain - hmm that doesn't help my situation at all .. lol i dont have money or whatever that she would be after and hence playin along .. again we're speakin in hypothetical terms cuz i don't even have a her lol

Cutealicious - LOL nahin, some girls are really nice but they either are taken or don't want to get with people of my kind :(

[SIXPAK GQ]

you know wut i will admit girls r fuckin bitches...like seriously if i was a guy id be gay cuz i wudnt put up w the shit girls do...

I was almost heading towards that direction.......but i still have hope!

[QuRutuLaiN]

ur question:are they worth it??
Yes..

don't want to get with people of my kind

ur kind??

[MolviCorleone]

thats cuz ur not gay...im not a bitch!!!
:D

ok lets talk bout how perfect u are.

[Seeeeeeema]

:blahblah:

[jassika]

lol i dunno i barely know u

Quratulain - shud i try to find or let them come eh?

Sixpaq - ur older and have more experience in that field and good stuff, i guess i wont get married then, lol, their loss

Molvie - no .. i do have 10 fingers if tats wat u mean .. loli meeean u didnt reply to mine but u got everyone else

[MolviCorleone]

these kind of threads are a discrace

[jassika]

these kind of threads are a discrace
to wot?

[Shaz2sxy]

Yes girls are worth it,
You might find the girl of your dreams and be with her for the rest of your life.

The time i had with my EX where great, the times after we broke up where bad, but the feeling i had while i was with her i wouldnt change for anything

[MolviCorleone]

to wot?

dont ask dumb question

[jassika]

dont ask dumb question
haha it wasnt

[MolviCorleone]

haha it wasnt

oh mine gawddd so sweet


are u who i think u are.....post ur pic


PS

girls rock

[WildWolfdog]

Jassika - sorry ur rite i missed u, wasn't on purpose though i read it but forget to reply, sorry :) lol hmm so ur too nice to say no eh? I think that's one of the biggest mistakes cuz then ur really not that into it and the guy might be the happiest alive because u said yes and he will wanna go all out for u while inside u just dont "feel it" ..

Molvi - no they're not (ahaha "dont ask dumb questions - kerpal)

Quratulain - i see no proof .. unless we're speakin on the basis of superficiality

Seema - wow wat a waste of time for u and me

Shazz - ur rite but when ur in "love" u think evrythin is perfect and they say love is blind .. after u break up u feel the hurt and usually one of the 2 wants to get back or isn't completely over their significant other and that goes on to cause a lot of problems ... is it worth it in the end? Cuz i think its better to not have loved and lost because then atleast u dun't know wat ur missing

[CrazyXZac]

no.

[WildWolfdog]

no.

lol lets join aurovon's "www.nomarraige.com" thing :D

[MolviCorleone]

lol lets join aurovon's "www.nomarraige.com" thing :D


i need another wife man


my other ones dont cook for me and they be nasty to me and stress me out so i have to go on ratedesi.com to calm my nerves. life is bitchin

[corpse_grinder]

nops not at al ! al dey do is .. sit dere yap shit .. !go shopping and produce babies ! .. :D jokes

[jassika]

oh mine gawddd so sweet


are u who i think u are.....post ur pic


PS

girls rock
who u tink i am?

[MolviCorleone]

nops not at al ! al dey do is .. sit dere yap shit .. !go shopping and produce babies ! .. :D jokes

LMAO no shit

[MolviCorleone]

who u tink i am?


sum1 else :neutral: fuck knows it doesnt matter now. ill pretend ur a wall ok.

[jassika]

sum1 else :neutral: fuck knows it doesnt matter now. ill pretend ur a wall ok.
lol u remind me of someone too... gq menace

[(sic)]

Am i sayin i hate em? Nah, lol. Will i still look at em? Yeah ... Will i still think they are pretty/hot or whatever? For sure ... but do i think i will like them like them the way i used to ... i'm starting to doubt it .. :no:
turn gay with me dost;)

[WildWolfdog]

Molvi - that's why next time u should get married to a woman and call her wife instead of whatever u got goin on rite now :p

Corpse - nice avatar pic man there's somethin bout it which makes it look really cool

Jassika - oye i replied to u lol

[MolviCorleone]

turn gay with me dost;)



AHUMMMM

ERRR that there is my bitch ur talking too....no i mean my dog.

[jassika]

Jassika - sorry ur rite i missed u, wasn't on purpose though i read it but forget to reply, sorry :) lol hmm so ur too nice to say no eh? I think that's one of the biggest mistakes cuz then ur really not that into it and the guy might be the happiest alive because u said yes and he will wanna go all out for u while inside u just dont "feel it"
yea i guess it doesnt really help much to go along with it just for that one time and then leave but i just think it somewhat gives them more hope. :o

[QuRutuLaiN]

Quratulain - i see no proof .. unless we're speakin on the basis of superficiality

first it's Qurutulain...other thing..if ur gonna spend ur life thinkin that way then nothin in this life worth anythin....i don't know i can't explain something like that to someone who i never tlk to..butkeep an open mind...and i don't know wht else good luck...

[corpse_grinder]

*looks round* em thnx@wild i knw i knw .*big smile on his face*

[WildWolfdog]

turn gay with me dost;)

sure i'll be happy with u ;) .. orr .. *wink wink*

Quratulain - lol why are u gettin mad? Irritated or frustrated ..

Corpse - ur welcome lol

[WildWolfdog]

Final Analysis ... girls are still not worth it

[MolviCorleone]

Final Analysis ... girls are still not worth it

u like Brad Pitt....ur gay

[Ac89]

Basil, how do u'r threads always become so long nowadays? lol

but as for your thread topic:

First of all, how do u think you're going to meet your wife?? Unless you want an arraigned marriage, it's going to be by spending time with her...dealing with her faults...and having and learnign to compromise. Without it, there's no hope of you finding the one that fits the type of person you are. And, yes you can talk about destiny and fate...btu still...you can't just give up because of some bad experiences.
There are definitely girls that are not worth your time....and i think they're kind of easy to pick a part. But, on the other hand there are girls that are worth your time...there are girls that make going through all that worth it...maybe it's got to do with us being insecure...or maybe it's just simply got to do with the fact that as humans we're vulnerable characters who seek compassion, comfort, understanding, appreciation.....and when it comes from someone outside your family...it tends to give us more of a booost. it mkaes us feel better. A good gf will make you feel all this...and a bad one, obviosuly, will not make you feel all this.
And to think that a relationship will not have bad times...would be pure stupidity. Along with the good ..mushy..times will come the days when all you see is clouds.
But don't you think, Basil, that it's these days that really show us what kind of person we are...and what kind of person we're with. I think these days test the relationship and ultimately show each individual whether the other person is worht sticking around or not.

For some, this may take several relationships....for others ...once or twice

leave it in the hands of god, and you'll never have to worry again:)

[corpse_grinder]

GIrs r jus worthless PAINDO-Fied .. creatures..who ..jusssssssssssst want 2 nick dere .. ! hubys cashhh spend it on Make up nd stuffffffffffffffffffffffff nd at night whn ..dey wash dere face(s) u can c al ur cash goin down the drain !! aint i right guys! :mrgreen: :mrgreen: :mrgreen:

[QuRutuLaiN]

Basil, how do u'r threads always become so long nowadays? lol

but as for your thread topic:

First of all, how do u think you're going to meet your wife?? Unless you want an arraigned marriage, it's going to be by spending time with her...dealing with her faults...and having and learnign to compromise. Without it, there's no hope of you finding the one that fits the type of person you are. And, yes you can talk about destiny and fate...btu still...you can't just give up because of some bad experiences.
There are definitely girls that are not worth your time....and i think they're kind of easy to pick a part. But, on the other hand there are girls that are worth your time...there are girls that make going through all that worth it...maybe it's got to do with us being insecure...or maybe it's just simply got to do with the fact that as humans we're vulnerable characters who seek compassion, comfort, understanding, appreciation.....and when it comes from someone outside your family...it tends to give us more of a booost. it mkaes us feel better. A good gf (OR WIFE)will make you feel all this...and a bad one, obviosuly, will not make you feel all this.
And to think that a relationship will not have bad times...would be pure stupidity. Along with the good ..mushy..times will come the days when all you see is clouds.
But don't you think, Basil, that it's these days that really show us what kind of person we are...and what kind of person we're with. I think these days test the relationship and ultimately show each individual whether the other person is worht sticking around or not.

For some, this may take several relationships....for others ...once or twice

leave it in the hands of god, and you'll never have to worry again:)

wht he said

and no i didn't get irriated or mad....and it's QURUTULAIN.or Annie... :D

[WildWolfdog]

Ac - i agree with most of wat u said but if ur girl doesn't stick around during the hard times or ignores u when u need it and watever not, and its not just one then how are u supposed to get thru the obstacles or watever not? Girls are worth it just because they cheat more than guys lol and like i've said 20 million times, the good ones are usually taken, like the good guys are gay lol

Molvi - lol i know, only nonsexually gay though

Corpse - lol ur wrong haha

Annie - lol k, i'll just call you annie

[toasted]

Having a wife, that's another story but are girls really worth it? Gf's, crushes, or watever ... all the trouble? The money u spend on em, the time u spend on them? Is it all really worth it for a bit of security or to feel loved i mean i think the passion is wasted because .. i don't know lol .. if it was an equation would it even out? Does ...

Hurt, Money Spent, Time Spent, Nakhray = Having a girl?

From what i know it's usually nothin to them, you can try to give them whatever you have but it's usually never enough, unless ur a hottie or something they will have a lot of doubts on whether u are worth having as well .. im sure people can live without larkis and find the same type of satisfaction somewhere else or something ... meh ... i agree with Mr.Scorpion on the thread he made bout "i don't like girls that much anymore" lol ..

Am i sayin i hate em? Nah, lol. Will i still look at em? Yeah ... Will i still think they are pretty/hot or whatever? For sure ... but do i think i will like them like them the way i used to ... i'm starting to doubt it .. :no:
haha well if she's not payin for you than u duno how to treat her right