ur parents or your love

[desi_shawrty]

Heres a new thread the other one did kinda sound rascist i guess i wus really mad when i made that one "why desi people mary white people" oh well don't hate me cause of that aight well the new quistion is if you have to choose between who you'll marry and your parents who will you choos from them just wonderin cause if your parents don't like the person you want to marry then will you still marry him or her or leave that person

[mr$ lloyd bank$]

I Would Neva Choose Between Ma Luv Or Ma Parents

[PyaariAthy]

i would try to work sumthin out wit my parents and see if we could come to common grounds but if we cant id choose my parents cuz no one else will be there for u through out ur life unconditionally except them

[desi_shawrty]

I Would Neva Choose Between Ma Luv Or Ma Parents
WHat if you have to and u ot no choice who will u ick then

[desi_shawrty]

i would try to work sumthin out wit my parents and see if we could come to common grounds but if we cant id choose my parents cuz no one else will be there for u through out ur life unconditionally except them

but you have to live with the person you love for the rest of your life and your parents arent gon be there then what will you do at that tyme

[mr$ lloyd bank$]

WHat if you have to and u ot no choice who will u ick then

Ma Parents Really Dont Care, Who Im Gonna Marry.. As Long As He Treats Me Right... So Dats Not Gonna Be A Problem... But Family Always Comes First No Matter What Happens!

[Z4K5T4R]

U cant compare a parents LOVE with a gf/bf, people who give up their family for Love are weak people, i dont believe in Love maybe thats why i think this way but i know there are people who would give up their family just for the sake of a guy and i think that is something i would never do and is pathetic.

[Z4K5T4R]

Also u can replace love most people fall in and out of love all the time but who said u can replace parents? They might be people u dont get along with but if am away from my family longer than a week i get lonely they are like this blanket that protects me if i dont have that protection i'll feel lonely and weak. Love is something thats all good to begin with but u wont get a Mother who looks after u when ur ill a Father that gives u money whenever u need it lol Only messing. I mean ok so in one guy u do get Love from but can that ONE person replace ur parents?

[desi_shawrty]

[QUOTE=mr$ lloyd bank$]Ma Parents Really Dont Care, Who Im Gonna Marry.. As Long As He Treats Me Right... So Dats Not Gonna Be A Problem... But Family Always Comes First No Matter What Happens![/QUOTE


oh thats nice hope u find that special person when ever you want too but one more thing will that guy have to be muslim though cause i have descided that i'll marry any one wh i want but if my parents say no then i'll ask them why and talk t othem and try to fgurethings out if they give me a good reson then i gues i wont but the guy would have to be musli for sure and if he loves me enough then hell convert for me but its better to find a guy who's already musli or juss desi

[desi_shawrty]

Also u can replace love most people fall in and out of love all the time but who said u can replace parents? They might be people u dont get along with but if am away from my family longer than a week i get lonely they are like this blanket that protects me if i dont have that protection i'll feel lonely and weak. Love is something thats all good to begin with but u wont get a Mother who looks after u when ur ill a Father that gives u money whenever u need it lol Only messing. I mean ok so in one guy u do get Love from but can that ONE person replace ur parents?
i agree thats true i wont ever be able to leave my family or have them hate on me its just wrong but ur parnt are picked for you but the person you marry thats your choice who you really love you love ur paretns because they are you parents and you juss can;t hate them because they are the best thing in the world but the person you love or chose to marry is you own choice and you pic that person by your self thn what

[mr$ lloyd bank$]

Ma Parents Really Dont Care, Who Im Gonna Marry.. As Long As He Treats Me Right... So Dats Not Gonna Be A Problem... But Family Always Comes First No Matter What Happens!


oh thats nice hope u find that special person when ever you want too but one more thing will that guy have to be muslim though cause i have descided that i'll marry any one wh i want but if my parents say no then i'll ask them why and talk t othem and try to fgurethings out if they give me a good reson then i gues i wont but the guy would have to be musli for sure and if he loves me enough then hell convert for me but its better to find a guy who's already musli or juss desi

Of Course.. I Would Neva Marry a Non Muslim.. I Wanna Raise Ma Kids After Al-Quran... N I Dont Wanna Go 2 Hell.... Theres Soooo Many Muslim Men In Da World.. Why Should I Marry a Non Muslim??? :p

[MolviCorleone]

u cant chooe ur parents

u can choose ur luv


ill pick my mother over any girl

if my mum doesnt liek a girl who i think is the perfect female speciment ill dumb the bitch and go and take my mummy shopping. im a no nonsense kind of guy...i might sumtimes be bad and not listen to my mummy but i liv my mummy very much and ladies be nice to my mum ohk.......shes a very nice person and is good to you if u are good to me.

[miss_qupid]

Heres a new thread the other one did kinda sound rascist i guess i wus really mad when i made that one "why desi people mary white people" oh well don't hate me cause of that aight well the new quistion is if you have to choose between who you'll marry and your parents who will you choos from them just wonderin cause if your parents don't like the person you want to marry then will you still marry him or her or leave that person
Dont believe in love b4 marriage, so i wont ened up in such circumstances, even if i did, my parents wud go first.

[MolviCorleone]

Dont believe in love b4 marriage, so i wont ened up in such circumstances, even if i did, my parents wud go first.


love the person u marry

not

marry the person u luv

that is why i think ur goddamn cool qupid u tell it right

[PyaariAthy]

love the person u marry

not

marry the person u luv

that is why i think ur goddamn cool qupid u tell it right

exaclty!

[desi_shawrty]

Okay yeh i'll pick ma parents too causse they ben there for me all ma life not the guy wh i juss know for like 2 or 3 years or sum monthes i wus uss ondrein what chuall think too

[iluvuqt]

Go with my love...if my rentz have enough love and respect for me than they'll understand if not they'll see and eventually get over themselves and except him

my dad also gave me permission to run away with the guy i love if they dont like him or something lol

[MolviCorleone]

exaclty!

hehe

shes my e-valentine everybody

shes dont repp me but i still likey.

[HeRsHeE317]

seriously
i dont think my parents can say anything if hes a good muslim 4rm a good family
dey just cant
and actually im thinkin bout marryin sum1 dat aint desi...lol

[WildWolfdog]

Hmm .. i dont think it wud work if parents and wife don't get along .. this is a hard one but i think i wud go with parents because it cud just be lust and not love or u think its love since love is blind but u cud be wrong .. ur parents have a certain rite on u and they should have a say in who u marry, ofcourse they shudnt be the final word but their opinion shud definitely count

[uk__desi]

Its hard saying who you would choose, guess you won't know unless you actually have been in that situation.

Its easy to say that you would choose your parents, I mean i would like to say i would choose my parents but you don't know. Don't get me wrong, i love my parents, i love and respect them more than anyone.

But, i see parents as one part of your life and your partner (wife or husband) as another. I don't think i would ever be in such a situation, well who knows?
If i was made to make a choice, it would create problems in da future.

Like some of you have been saying, i would just talk it over properly and try and solve it. That would be the only way.


p.s. Its hard turning your back on love
:wavey: