How true is this statement about girls and guys

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Guys will always put their friendship before any girl...but when it comes to girls, girls will stab each other in the back just to get off with a guy...discuss...and argue with each other...

[subdued]

Guys will always put their friendship before any girl...but when it comes to girls, girls will stab each other in the back just to get off with a guy...discuss...and argue with each other...


disagree with that comment totally, guys are just as bitchy or more so then girls

[SharpenedMango]

i've never fought wi my best mate over a girl ever. if there were two fit girls we spotted. we would take turns to get first dibs lol. whilst wit girls, when it comes to sedution, i think its a free for all haha!

[EviLnesS]

not true at all :rolleyes:

[Fatty4life]

kind of agree. guys put their "boys" before their girlfriends. For girls, it's not that easy.

[EwLookItsYou]

rawr. what an old response. DELETE!

[samosa321]

How can you really measure the validity of that statement? I don't like to generalize.

[Shawk-A-Zullu]

i don't know man.. if some nucca ever messed with a girl i've been having my eye on, it's not "bro's over hoes" no more

[Mr_Maz]

Guys will always put their friendship before any girl...but when it comes to girls, girls will stab each other in the back just to get off with a guy...discuss...and argue with each other...
i'm too innocent to know about these things

[jassika]

not true at all. most guys hang out with other guys when the girl wants attention

[jus_me]

Guys will always put their friendship before any girl...but when it comes to girls, girls will stab each other in the back just to get off with a guy...discuss...and argue with each other...

going on what i know of the ppl around me and what iv experienced myself id say ur statement is pretty true..the guys i know just don give a fuck really...bt the girls i used to know are obssessed with having the sexiest guy around and they wud do anything to get him, guys understand dat their mates r gna b der for them to fall bak on when the girl starts hassling him over minor things (eg i saw the way u looked at her, whas rong with me, y u checkin other girls out wen u got me etc..) whereas some girls dont see it like that, they see men as the answer to all their problems, thas y they wil do anything to get em, they think once theyve got the man that everything will b rosey..that the guy will do everything to keep her happy, which is so not the case (bt thas a differnt matter). they think they guy will be everything to them...mate and some1 to screw..

that doesnt mean that all the girls are like that though, just the few that i know..

[desichick_usa]

Guilty :(

[RacingSoul]

stop bumping old threads u dumb shit noob :ugh:

[Siesta]

Guys will always put their friendship before any girl...but when it comes to girls, girls will stab each other in the back just to get off with a guy...discuss...and argue with each other...
it seem you have lived and learned


I dont think so at all

[London_Man]

boy... is it *****z over bitches? or bitches over *****z? hard choice.... LOL

the bitches give me somethin the *****z cant!

it depends on how the serious the relationship is!

[Dream_GirL]

kind of agree. guys put their "boys" before their girlfriends. For girls, it's not that easy.
isnt dat a good thing tho?

[Dream_GirL]

Guys will always put their friendship before any girl...but when it comes to girls, girls will stab each other in the back just to get off with a guy...discuss...and argue with each other...
Not all.. but sum girls can be like dat yeah.. oh n i know guys who havn't put der friendship 1st as well.. :P

[will rap 4 food]

bros b4 hoes is the rule but some dont follow....and idunno 2 many girls that stab each other in the back like that

[cococrisp]

can't generalize when it comes to this.... it jus comes down to what sort of individual one is... cuz guys are just as much of back stabbers as some girls....



p.s. lol @ sig... :rofl:

[SaMeeeeR]

Guys will always put their friendship before any girl...but when it comes to girls, girls will stab each other in the back just to get off with a guy...discuss...and argue with each other...
Bros Before Hoes ...cuz hoes neva stay fo long ...bros do :cool:

[SarcasmicBengali]

girls hate each other. :dunno:
it's like they see every girl, friend or otherwise as competition.
not competition with men, or anything... just generaly, in life :|

where-as guys are waayyy too one dimensional to even compare if another guy is better/worse than them and could care less even if that was the case...
therefore guys get along with every other guy seamlessly.
only time a guy will wanna kill another is if the other dude hit's on his woman... then it's on ...:rolleyes:

[¤ * HoneY * ¤]

i dont agree... guys can be dogs too.... im a girl but will never fight with a friend for a .... boy??? lol

[The Genie]

Bitches come and go...
Bruvers dont!!

truth be told a real caring girl wont make you ditch ur mates or make u choose and probs just want the best for you

and like proper "bruvers" wont allow you to treat a hoe like a wifey!

sayin this if your social group is "proper" then there wont be any bitching or backstabbing.. no?

[dinara2620]

Guys will always put their friendship before any girl...but when it comes to girls, girls will stab each other in the back just to get off with a guy...discuss...and argue with each other...

I disagree id ALWAYS put my girls first no matter what! depends how close u are with ur mates...Me and my mates are super close like sisters we would never let a bloke ruined that!

lol at ur sig

[SADH_KE_JAVA]

disagree with that comment totally, guys are just as bitchy or more so then girls

egg-jactly

[¤ * HoneY * ¤]

lol...

[doaly69]

now we all knw guys with do anything to get off witha girl too
i once pretended i was half white :rofl:

which may i add worked :Pelvic2:

[2pink-lips6]

Well if i rlly lyked him den yea i would pick him ova ma m8s but since sum boiz ave dis sayin bros b4 hoes i dun rlly fink dey wuld give dere m8s up 4 da galz but if a guy did that 4 me wow i would be soo in love in with him but its not lyk i would make him chose ova me and his m8s

[DESI-PEACHES]

Guys will always put their friendship before any girl...but when it comes to girls, girls will stab each other in the back just to get off with a guy...discuss...and argue with each other...

Very true

:mad:

[Chiqita]

i agree

[PERFECTIONZ]

i agree


U live in the right end of this planet...

Guys are way worse, I loved this girl back in college so much... He new and yet he got off with her considering he knew how much i was truly in love with her.. Three years later and i still cant get over that experience...

[Chiqita]

U live in the right end of this planet...

Guys are way worse, I loved this girl back in college so much... He new and yet he got off with her considering he knew how much i was truly in love with her.. Three years later and i still cant get over that experience...

is dat the reason why u talk about sex so much

[PERFECTIONZ]

is dat the reason why u talk about sex so much


I am happy about that anyway coz he had his way with herand she must have felt just as bad as i did


Not really but if you must know, my life has a lot of ups and downs, thinking about beautiful things in life like sex takes my mind off them... and its pure entertainment...

[bingley13]

Well if i rlly lyked him den yea i would pick him ova ma m8s but since sum boiz ave dis sayin bros b4 hoes i dun rlly fink dey wuld give dere m8s up 4 da galz but if a guy did that 4 me wow i would be soo in love in with him but its not lyk i would make him chose ova me and his m8s
it looks like english. kinda.


:sarb:

[Ozzy-]

Thats quite a generalization lol.

[khoobsurat1]

I don't think its right to judge anyone generally...
but, I personally think that boys are boys and need their "guy time" with their own kind sometimes...but I've also seen many guys when they are committed to a gal, they usually know how to prioritize their needs and spend their time between their gfs and guy mates with balance.

As far as gals are concerned, I've yet to start getting jealous of any of my gfs (for any reasons)...I guess I'm quite understanding when it comes to giving them their own time and spaces...
and I never would dream of betraying any of them just to hook up with a guy either...
I think that's a lame act and a total waste of a good friendship.

I believe that both guys and gals should be understanding and have faith in their relationships with eachother...(no matter what).

[Rogue]

Guys will always put their friendship before any girl...but when it comes to girls, girls will stab each other in the back just to get off with a guy...discuss...and argue with each other...

alright, i am tempted to say that i disagree because guys can be just as bitchy as girls when it comes to these things, but from what i've seen and come to know - this is more likely to happen with women.

it's not necessarily that the women are stabbing each other in the back per say. it's just something that's more uncomfortable to express or discuss as openly (and this may be because they don't want to hurt the other girl or openly admit that they are crushing on the same dude for fear of how the potential competition from someone who's supposed to be your friend can turn their relationship sour). that fear to openly admit and be upfront about shared interests can come off as stabbing each other in the back. and if the other friend finds out about this - it could get catty.

correct me if i'm wrong, but guys generally are more laid back with one another and seem to be able to discuss these things more easily compared to girls. guys have that comfort level with each other where they're able to say/do practically anything without offending the other as easily or holding grudges.

the usual gender roles in terms of pursuing also play into this. guys pursue, if rejected, they accept it, move on, then pursue again. girls rarely put themselves in the role of the pursuer, may not deal as well with rejection from their person of interest, so when they are being pursued - competition is one of those things that they would like to diminish.

[PERFECTIONZ]

alright, i am tempted to say that i disagree because guys can be just as bitchy as girls when it comes to these things, but from what i've seen and come to know - this is more likely to happen with women.

it's not necessarily that the women are stabbing each other in the back per say. it's just something that's more uncomfortable to express or discuss as openly (and this may be because they don't want to hurt the other girl or openly admit that they are crushing on the same dude for fear of how the potential competition from someone who's supposed to be your friend can turn their relationship sour). that fear to openly admit and be upfront about shared interests can come off as stabbing each other in the back. and if the other friend finds out about this - it could get catty.

correct me if i'm wrong, but guys generally are more laid back with one another and seem to be able to discuss these things more easily compared to girls. guys have that comfort level with each other where they're able to say/do practically anything without offending the other as easily or holding grudges.

the usual gender roles in terms of pursuing also play into this. guys pursue, if rejected, they accept it, move on, then pursue again. girls rarely put themselves in the role of the pursuer, may not deal as well with rejection from their person of interest, so when they are being pursued - competition is one of those things that they would like to diminish.


At a personal level i have seen more loyalty in girls than guys

And trust me when i say guy-buddies are the fukking biggest backstabbers i have had everrrrrrrrr when it comes to attaction to a single girl

[Rogue]

At a personal level i have seen more loyalty in girls than guys

And trust me when i say guy-buddies are the fukking biggest backstabbers i have had everrrrrrrrr when it comes to attaction to a single girl

share an experience or something :dunno: enlighten us.

[PERFECTIONZ]

share an experience or something :dunno: enlighten us.


I was crazy about this girl back in the day.... So my best friend just had his way with her after all he knew... He basically used and trashed her and i felt so helpless

Wasnt a nice feeling, i am still not over it after like 4 years... I now have a problem about trusting girls so whichever girl trusts me, i end up just using her and never getting emotionally attached to her... Its like a have this massive firewall in my brain ....

If i elaborate its not that nice a story.... Lets just say a knife pierced my back and left me with a problem of never trusting girls again...

[Ozzy-]

alright, i am tempted to say that i disagree because guys can be just as bitchy as girls when it comes to these things, but from what i've seen and come to know - this is more likely to happen with women.

it's not necessarily that the women are stabbing each other in the back per say. it's just something that's more uncomfortable to express or discuss as openly (and this may be because they don't want to hurt the other girl or openly admit that they are crushing on the same dude for fear of how the potential competition from someone who's supposed to be your friend can turn their relationship sour). that fear to openly admit and be upfront about shared interests can come off as stabbing each other in the back. and if the other friend finds out about this - it could get catty.

correct me if i'm wrong, but guys generally are more laid back with one another and seem to be able to discuss these things more easily compared to girls. guys have that comfort level with each other where they're able to say/do practically anything without offending the other as easily or holding grudges.

the usual gender roles in terms of pursuing also play into this. guys pursue, if rejected, they accept it, move on, then pursue again. girls rarely put themselves in the role of the pursuer, may not deal as well with rejection from their person of interest, so when they are being pursued - competition is one of those things that they would like to diminish.

Ironically this happens to be true, even though I used to think the opposite. Guys are more liberal with this sort of stuff. Mostly because guys tend to be more insensitive jerks then girls. So we don't get all emotionally kicked around as much as a girl might. Of course this is a generalization and I hope everyone realizes this.

[Rogue]

I was crazy about this girl back in the day.... So my best friend just had his way with her after all he knew... He basically used and trashed her and i felt so helpless

Wasnt a nice feeling, i am still not over it after like 4 years... I now have a problem about trusting girls so whichever girl trusts me, i end up just using her and never getting emotionally attached to her... Its like a have this massive firewall in my brain ....

If i elaborate its not that nice a story.... Lets just say a knife pierced my back and left me with a problem of never trusting girls again...

wait, i think i missed something here. if it was your best friend who betrayed your trust (and i'm assuming the trust of the other chick) then how does the issue with trusting girls come into play?

Ironically this happens to be true, even though I used to think the opposite. Guys are more liberal with this sort of stuff. Mostly because guys tend to be more insensitive jerks then girls. So we don't get all emotionally kicked around as much as a girl might. Of course this is a generalization and I hope everyone realizes this.

i just think guys, being more blunt, forthright, and experienced as pursuers, are better equipped to deal with these things. don't necessarily think that they're insensitive. it's just a different mindset.

[Hands]

its true, women are bitches like that

a bitch is a bitch but a dawg is a mans best friend :love:

[Ozzy-]

wait, i think i missed something here. if it was your best friend who betrayed your trust (and i'm assuming the trust of the other chick) then how does the issue with trusting girls come into play?



i just think guys, being more blunt, forthright, and experienced as pursuers, are better equipped to deal with these things. don't necessarily think that they're insensitive. it's just a different mindset.

Perhaps, but my personal experience shows me that when it comes down to it, girls still have a better sensitivity scale then guys. And If I assess my desi colleges, guys and girls, the girls are easily more sensitive. Obviously this isn't representative of the whole populace, but my personal sample gives me that conclusion.

[PERFECTIONZ]

wait, i think i missed something here. if it was your best friend who betrayed your trust (and i'm assuming the trust of the other chick) then how does the issue with trusting girls come into play?





Well, they both did what they did, .... Lets just say i lost trust in everybody at large

[jus_me]

its true, women are bitches like that

a bitch is a bitch but a dawg is a mans best friend :love:

A bitch is technically also a dog.

Pow, if you don't know bout me... :cool2:

[Hands]

A bitch is technically also a dog.

Pow, if you don't know bout me... :cool2:
why do you have to get so technical with me :squint: lets delve into the mind of a married woman :lol:

so do you find words like bitch offensive and stuff miss raver?

pow im just pow im jus powwww

EDIT : MRS :kekeke:

[jus_me]

Nah not really.

I call the husband a motherfucker and he calls me the same but we know it's in jest so why get so bothered?

You only take offence to shit if it is true and you think it's bad to be that way.


PS..Keep the beanies touchin, keep the beanies hot flushin..

[Hands]

Nah not really.

I call the husband a motherfucker and he calls me the same but we know it's in jest so why get so bothered?

You only take offence to shit if it is true and you think it's bad to be that way.


PS..Keep the beanies touchin, keep the beanies hot flushin..
how long have you been married now? do yall have major arguments and shit sometimes? i can understand if its said in jest then its kool and shit but say it was saidf in anger :| would you go all ghetto hood rat on his ass and start throwing ashtrays around :lol:

[jus_me]

how long have you been married now? do yall have major arguments and shit sometimes? i can understand if its said in jest then its kool and shit but say it was saidf in anger :| would you go all ghetto hood rat on his ass and start throwing ashtrays around :lol:

We don't have ashtrays in the house because he only smokes when under stress and I only smoke when I've got a cold.

I have been married for two years now :D

We don't really have major arguments but we do argue about stupid stuff, when we do argue, I never swear at him and he never swears at me, we swear about stuff.

Everyone always says that he is mad for putting up with me but he asked me to marry him of his own free will.

[(sic)]

stop bumping this thread!

[jus_me]

:hand:

It was bumped before I came here.

PS, you ever touched a real Henry? ;)

[(sic)]

yes I have. why do you ask.

[Hands]

We don't have ashtrays in the house because he only smokes when under stress and I only smoke when I've got a cold.

I have been married for two years now :D

We don't really have major arguments but we do argue about stupid stuff, when we do argue, I never swear at him and he never swears at me, we swear about stuff.

Everyone always says that he is mad for putting up with me but he asked me to marry him of his own free will.
lol you smoke when you have a cold? :p haha thats the funniest shit ever, im tryna give up the habit :ashamed: i actually smoked a joint last night and i was fuckeedddd :rofl: had me laughing my tits off and sic didnt help :rofl:

is married life shit or do you kinda like it? is it stressful? i only ask you cos you seem kinda young and shit so you can see it from a diff perspective to what our rents would right.

2 years is a scary long time for me :|

[Hands]

yes I have. why do you ask.
we used to have one until his pipe broke :(

[HARD 2 THE KAUR]

Thats so tru!, thats what I like about guys they are so down. Brown whores these days are scandalous