Ladies: Will you stay with your inlaws after marriage and.......

[executive]

guys will you stay with your parents after marriage?

If not and you give answers such as "I need my independence, etc etc" then you are nothing but a westernized piece of trash....furthermore, you don't deserve a nice Indian guy. For the Indian guys, who won't stay with their parents, they deserve a cheap westernized slut who will have no respect for their parents.

[Fatty4life]

yeah, most likely. but I don't want one of those living off their parents type of husbands :confused: but yeah, I like big families.

[chingchingching]

I have respect for parents, and you can't call me a westernized whore
but i would prefer not to stay with his parents
Although, if it's just his mom or dad, obviously she/he can stay with us but i prefer to have more privacy..

[BigCrazyIndian]

apparently I deserve a cheap westernized slut who has no respect for my parents, which is more than my parents say I deserve...woohoo

[Ghulabo]

lol rotfl

[sensousglitter]

apparently I deserve a cheap westernized slut who has no respect for my parents, which is more than my parents say I deserve...woohoo
good on ya :D

i wouldn't live with my in-laws, and yes, you got me all figured out, i'm a westernized piece of trash, with no respect for my in-laws. and i don't have a specific ethinicity i want to get married to, so yeah. :eyeroll:

[xosonixo]

i wud stay with my inlaw.. cuz thats my new family now... ummm i like the idea of a extended big hugee family.. i thik thats wut makes life fun.... n e wayz.. but if my husband doesnt want to live with his parents then ill have to moce.. cuz u always have 2 obeyy...

[Seeeeeeema]

i would stay with them for some time but not all my life.. its not the matter of being independent but i want to stay with my husband.. i want some time with him.. its nothing bad.. u make it sound like its hte biggest sin.. respect comes from within.. stupid thread

[BigCrazyIndian]

good on ya :D

i wouldn't live with my in-laws, and yes, you got me all figured out, i'm a westernized piece of trash, with no respect for my in-laws. and i don't have a specific ethinicity i want to get married to, so yeah. :eyeroll:

well then....looks like executive says I deserve you, I can't say that I disagree =P

[sensousglitter]

well then....looks like executive says I deserve you, I can't say that I disagree =P
looks like we were made for each other according to him. LMAO

[Geezer]

Ooooh junk

[Geezer]

happy birthday executive

[Khusum]

dear god, hell no.

[samosa321]

I wouldn't mind staying with my in-laws. I would rather live with his parents than see them live in nursery homes.

[arvy]

nope my parents wouldnt want me or her :(

[chingchingching]

I wouldn't mind staying with my in-laws. I would rather live with his parents than see them live in nursery homes.

lol most desis have atleast 2-3 (if not more) kids

[yaara]

my friend is havin trouble gettin married coz he still cant find a "nice" girl who wud stay wid his parents ...i guess hez lookin in the wrong part of the world:confused:

but my parentz wudnt mind..actually my mom WANTS me to stay seperate..haha i luv my mom :hug:

[GOOSE]

as a guy i would probably not move into my wifes parents house. i would want her to move in w/ me and help me take care of my moms because my pop's passed away

[hellayah]

Being the oldest son i believe it is my duty too take care of my parents when they cannot take care of themselves anymore. I do not want them alone in a house or a old folks home or somethiing. My mom has taken care of my dad parents and i expect my wife to care of my parents. Also from an islamic perspective i believe you r suppose to take care of ur parents when they get older.

[Fire-n-Ice]

I have respect for parents, and you can't call me a westernized whore
but i would prefer not to stay with his parents
Although, if it's just his mom or dad, obviously she/he can stay with us but i prefer to have more privacy..
wat she said... if his parents are super cool, i'll stay as long as they want me to... they're very rare though... i wanna work, i wanna go out with my friends... i want ladies night... i want all that... and if its ok with my husband, it should be ok with them too... if not, i'm out.

[executive]

Being the oldest son i believe it is my duty too take care of my parents when they cannot take care of themselves anymore. I do not want them alone in a house or a old folks home or somethiing. My mom has taken care of my dad parents and i expect my wife to care of my parents. Also from an islamic perspective i believe you r suppose to take care of ur parents when they get older.

then please don't marry someone like khusum or any of these other so called "modern" ladies. Their NRI parents have failed the Indian culture so miserably by raising kids like these.

[executive]

happy birthday executive

Thank you

[executive]

wat she said... if his parents are super cool, i'll stay as long as they want me to... they're very rare though... i wanna work, i wanna go out with my friends... i want ladies night... i want all that... and if its ok with my husband, it should be ok with them too... if not, i'm out.

good luck getting married :rolleyes:

[(sic)]

guys will you stay with your parents after marriage?

If not and you give answers such as "I need my independence, etc etc" then you are nothing but a westernized piece of trash....furthermore, you don't deserve a nice Indian guy. For the Indian guys, who won't stay with their parents, they deserve a cheap westernized slut who will have no respect for their parents.
If you are so anti western which you are if you are so against people adopting western values, why are you living in the west?! If it pisses you off so much then go back to your origin...of course all of us who live in the west have some sort of western values in us...we live in THEIR culture...I guess most of us will be guilty of being westernised sluts...sure...I was born and have lived my whole life in England...but I still love my country...I have been to my country pretty much every year...I have a big fucking Bangladeshi flag in my room...I speak Bengali even to my white mates...I wear a fucking lungi and a vest when I'm at home and when I'm out I wear fotwas...now tell me that I'm a fucking westernised bastard! :flipa:

[mita615]

If the in-laws are allowd to stay so are my parents! thats how it works

[executive]

.I speak Bengali even to my white mates.

I bet they think you are a retard.

[Fire-n-Ice]

is my mother allowed to come with you on ladies nite?
as long as she doesnt wear salwar kameez... :D

[executive]

If the in-laws are allowd to stay so are my parents! thats how it works

will you allow them to wife swap?

[sensousglitter]

then please don't marry someone like khusum or any of these other so called "modern" ladies. Their NRI parents have failed the Indian culture so miserably by raising kids like these.
i'm not indian :)

[Fire-n-Ice]

she wears butterfly top and bootypop-jlo-black pants.
as long as she doesnt look hotter than me. :p

[zah_ali]

..personally I dont see anything wrong with living seperately...i mean sure I'd stay with my rents for a while...but there comes a time when you want your own thing right?

Oh and whats to say your wife would get on with your parents/rest of family....I've seen it happen first hand! :( Things get nasty..sometimes its better to be seperate....

[(sic)]

I bet they think you are a retard.
No they actually think I'm crazy...but they do understand what I'm saying most of the time...i have a smaller brother so when he's all grown up he can stay with them...when he gets married...if he wants to stay with my parents then he can...if he chooses not to, obviously I will look after my elderly parents...You're the fucking retard...an ignorant one may I add

[Fire-n-Ice]

no one can look hotter than you.
shes 55. she makes my dad get excited though. and me too sometimes :o
ok now thats a scary thought.... but yeah, if she's cool... hell yeah i'd hang out with her... i'll take her shopping and stuff... :yes:

[jassika]

dont think so

[Dutty Dutty LuV]

my husbands the eldest son in his fam, his dad passed away but his mom lives with us off n on.... such a fucking draggggggggg........LOL... i dont mean to be mean but holy its like shes sooooooo into the 'eldest bahoo should be perfect in cooking n cleaning'.... shes over emotional n takes things way to personally... everything has to be a certain way or else i get THE LOOK... uhm shes racist... lol thinks all black ppl are like murderers... lol... n then she gossips yet claims to be a great muslim... huh... BUTAT THE END OF THE DAY I LUV HER CUZ SHES OLD AND NOW SHE CANT CHANGE ... so i think to myself... womans gunna die in a few years might aswell make her happy in her ending days .... im just that luving sorta gal innit... i swear... if i can live with MY mother in law... y'all girls CANNOT complain about shit!

[Fire-n-Ice]

i lied. my mother wont come clubbing with you. i took her to a few clubs and she didnt have fun. she doesnt like rap music. my dad was okay though. he had a few drinks and she and my mom sat in VIP. they like to dance, but not at clubs.

ill take you shopping. we can go to VS :D
i'm not high maintenance... let me loose in forever 21 and i'll manage to stay busy for hours... till i've tried on everythin in d store. :D

but yeah.. i love parents who are super cool with their daughter/son-in-law. who dont interfere with ur lives, seriously, if that was d case. i wouldnt wanna leave... coz i'll feel more secure, that my husbands not alone at home or he's sure that his parents are taken care of.

[girl-next-door]

I wudnt mind stayin wid his rents as long as they r coo and wudnt interfere in my life. And they r not as narrow minded as someone who thinks that if a girl wants her independence then shes a slut. If his rents r cool enuff to be ok wid me wearin wutever i want and doin wut i want....its all gud wid me. and by wearing wutever i dont mean walkin half naked around the house. but some desi parents r soo backwards they dont even let their daughter in law wear jeans! now thats just crazy n plain stupid!! A husband n wife deserve some privacy n independence to make their own decisions....but some desi parents r so nosy that they wanna know everythin thats goin on between a husband and a wife (which can sometimes create trouble between the couple) n they even go as far as deciding when the couple shud have a Baby!! CRAZINESSSSS

[gujulicious]

only if the guys mom isnt one of those typical control freak..the dads are usually the coolest..i dunno but i still cant stand teh thought of having to listen to orders from someone, believe it or not, they WILL want u to do most of the things THEIR way coz they've always been parents u know..

[hellayah]

my husbands the eldest son in his fam, his dad passed away but his mom lives with us off n on.... such a fucking draggggggggg........LOL... i dont mean to be mean but holy its like shes sooooooo into the 'eldest bahoo should be perfect in cooking n cleaning'.... shes over emotional n takes things way to personally... everything has to be a certain way or else i get THE LOOK... uhm shes racist... lol thinks all black ppl are like murderers... lol... n then she gossips yet claims to be a great muslim... huh... BUTAT THE END OF THE DAY I LUV HER CUZ SHES OLD AND NOW SHE CANT CHANGE ... so i think to myself... womans gunna die in a few years might aswell make her happy in her ending days .... im just that luving sorta gal innit... i swear... if i can live with MY mother in law... y'all girls CANNOT complain about shit!
awesome mad props to u

[Dutty Dutty LuV]

awww bless thnx hella nice person