I am sexiest and I am proud.....

[miss_qupid]

So here how it goes…..
I want to get married soon, I want to cook, clean for my husband, and I want to obey his commands. I want to have a nice mother n father in law that I can treat good, I want to get on with my husbands family, and I want to be the best wife,
Women and men are not equal, and can never be. Men can be inferior in some ways and women can be inferior in other ways. It a women’s duty to make a family work, women creates the infrastructure of a home, women cant have both career and family, to me my career comes after my future family……
Does wanting all this make me narrow-minded?
:D

[the gothman]

i want to marry you in time

[pachaas Paisa]

you need :help:

[Fatty4life]

how does that make you "sexiest" :confused:

[nyzdrdevil718]

no but u should see a psychatrist before getting married... :confused:

[Cunard]

:applause:

[shadab]

So here how it goes…..
I want to get married soon, I want to cook, clean for my husband, and I want to obey his commands. I want to have a nice mother n father in law that I can treat good, I want to get on with my husbands family, and I want to be the best wife,
Women and men are not equal, and can never be. Men can be inferior in some ways and women can be inferior in other ways. It a women’s duty to make a family work, women creates the infrastructure of a home, women cant have both career and family, to me my career comes after my future family……
Does wanting all this make me narrow-minded?
:D
that was the most intelligent thing i've ever seen you post.

if you keep it up, you might even get into the intelligent people thread.

that was great.

[miss_qupid]

no but u should see a psychatrist before getting married... :confused:
y?
wats rong with my mode of thinking?

[ozone]

your not that hot

[miss_qupid]

that was the most intelligent thing i've ever seen you post.

if you keep it up, you might even get into the intelligent people thread.

that was great.
well u coming from u ill take that as an insult.....

[meee?]

you don't really wanna do all that :thumbrigh

[miss_qupid]

your not that hot
huh?

[miss_qupid]

you don't really wanna do all that :thumbright:
yes i doooooo

[miss_qupid]

you need :help:
i need u.....

[Poeman]

thats all a man can ask for

[Aurovon]

well just dont get fat.

[nyzdrdevil718]

nothing i was kidding..... :applause:

[meee?]

yes i doooooo
well, i'm no one to judge. so good luck and have fun with it. :cool:

[Fatty4life]

what does being sexy have to do with all this :confused:

[miss_qupid]

well just dont get fat.
ok ill try, but my body wont go fat.....

[miss_qupid]

welll i liek being sexyyyyyyyyyyy u kno grrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrr

[Aurovon]

ok ill try, but my body wont go fat.....
that will change once u have kids im sure.

[miss_qupid]

that will change once u have kids im sure.
ill call u once it starts getting outa shape, u can gimme tips...

[Fatty4life]

welll i liek being sexyyyyyyyyyyy u kno grrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrr
:nervious: o...k... *backs away from the qupid, slowly*

[miss_qupid]

:nervious: o...k... *backs away from the qupid, slowly*
*pullls fatty forward*

[gabroo_shakeen]

So here how it goes…..
I want to get married soon, I want to cook, clean for my husband, and I want to obey his commands. I want to have a nice mother n father in law that I can treat good, I want to get on with my husbands family, and I want to be the best wife,
Women and men are not equal, and can never be. Men can be inferior in some ways and women can be inferior in other ways. It a women’s duty to make a family work, women creates the infrastructure of a home, women cant have both career and family, to me my career comes after my future family……
Does wanting all this make me narrow-minded?
:D

lol of course! N kinda messed up n brainwashed or somethin.

[thaiz]

So here how it goes…..
I want to get married soon, I want to cook, clean for my husband, and I want to obey his commands. I want to have a nice mother n father in law that I can treat good, I want to get on with my husbands family, and I want to be the best wife,
Women and men are not equal, and can never be. Men can be inferior in some ways and women can be inferior in other ways. It a women’s duty to make a family work, women creates the infrastructure of a home, women cant have both career and family, to me my career comes after my future family……
Does wanting all this make me narrow-minded?
:D

agree but not in this part--> I want to obey his commands


he should obey mine :p

[shadab]

well u coming from u ill take that as an insult.....
why?

[miss_qupid]

lol of course! N kinda messed up n brainwashed or somethin.
what makes you say that, Y are u all taking this all so negatively, wants rong with wat i want?

[Fatty4life]

*pullls fatty forward*
:nono: not in public

[miss_qupid]

why?
b'cus u dnt having nething nice to say

[shadab]

b'cus u dnt having nething nice to say
eh whatever......

[Flow_Motion]

Wow... You're very smart... I like you now...

[miss_qupid]

eh whatever......
i asssumed u were being sarcastic....

[shadab]

i asssumed u were being sarcastic....
i wasn't

i liked the part where you are basically saying that although men and women have different roles in life, they are both equally important.

i think once society realizes this we won't have women trying so hard to be like men. In the end, taking care of your children and constantly providing them with a parental figure is a much more important job than earning an extra pay check.

[Mr_Maz]

we've already discused this and i promise to whatever you say

[MolviCorleone]

I like the way she thinks becuase i heard the same thing from a really good sheikh and aslo he quoted the authentic hadith it came from etc...so by saying that is shows shes got her deen. Thats awesome......becuase these days women get thier sons married in pakistan becuase they dont need a slapper daughter in law, one that cant respect their own mother in law.......at least Miss Qupid isnt like that. If only she was a raani and was kashmiri...........

[nyzdrdevil718]

looooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooo ool

[miss_qupid]

i wasn't

i liked the part where you are basically saying that although men and women have different roles in life, they are both equally important.

i think once society realizes this we won't have women trying so hard to be like men. In the end, taking care of your children and constantly providing them with a parental figure is a much more important job than earning an extra pay check.
Agree, if women start acting like men and asking to go out and work what effect does this have on the kids, how can marriages work?

[WildWolfdog]

All the things Qupid just said are pretty much something someone would want in a wife ... people these days are so into money and "freedom" they think that if a woman is a homemaker or a housewife she is automatically being opressed and held "captive" by her husband inside her own home and is prolly living an unhappy marraige ..

i think its awesome that she wants to be a good wife because if she appreciates her husband the husband will in turn appreciate her and love her more and it will make the marraige pretty successful ... aside from that if both parents just work the kids won't have anywhere to go to and no religious teachings or even academic ones for that matter ... and yeah thats never good ..

[nyzdrdevil718]

looooooooooooooooool is this shadi.com?

[pachaas Paisa]

welll i liek being sexyyyyyyyyyyy u kno grrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrr

u got my disease.. its official

[MolviCorleone]

looooooooooooooooool is this shadi.com?

so if it was youd keep going lolooooooooooooooooooooool like a jackass

[miss_qupid]

looooooooooooooooool is this shadi.com?
do u see ne1 proposing?

[nyzdrdevil718]

so if it was youd keep going lolooooooooooooooooooooool like a jackass
loooooooooooooooooooool hell yeah especially on ur comment hahahhahaha

[nyzdrdevil718]

do u see ne1 proposing?
i see people with ideas of ideal marriage hahahhahahhaha its just funny to me

[Azz_ShyGuy]

So here how it goes…..
I want to get married soon, I want to cook, clean for my husband, and I want to obey his commands. I want to have a nice mother n father in law that I can treat good, I want to get on with my husbands family, and I want to be the best wife,
Women and men are not equal, and can never be. Men can be inferior in some ways and women can be inferior in other ways. It a women’s duty to make a family work, women creates the infrastructure of a home, women cant have both career and family, to me my career comes after my future family……
Does wanting all this make me narrow-minded?
:D
BE MINE!!! :love:

[fathead1]

So here how it goes…..
I want to get married soon, I want to cook, clean for my husband, and I want to obey his commands. I want to have a nice mother n father in law that I can treat good, I want to get on with my husbands family, and I want to be the best wife,
Women and men are not equal, and can never be. Men can be inferior in some ways and women can be inferior in other ways. It a women’s duty to make a family work, women creates the infrastructure of a home, women cant have both career and family, to me my career comes after my future family……
Does wanting all this make me narrow-minded?
:D

i hope i never marry a women like you. my biitch needs to be stronger, like when i call her a bitch she can reply like fuck you asshole. haha

[WildWolfdog]

i hope i never marry a women like you. my biitch needs to be stronger, like when i call her a bitch she can reply like fuck you asshole. haha

ur children will be taught well :applause:

[MolviCorleone]

i see people with ideas of ideal marriage hahahhahahhaha its just funny to me

well good for you.....but marriage my friend is a serious thing not a joke.......why dont u go to the circus and luagh at clowns

[MolviCorleone]

i hope i never marry a women like you. my biitch needs to be stronger, like when i call her a bitch she can reply like fuck you asshole. haha

if she was married to you and u called her bitch.....shed probably knock you out......

[nyzdrdevil718]

well good for you.....but marriage my friend is a serious thing not a joke.......why dont u go to the circus and luagh at clowns
ok sure i will luagh at them hahaha

[miss_qupid]

i see people with ideas of ideal marriage hahahhahahhaha its just funny to me
Y is it funny?

[pachaas Paisa]

Y is it funny?

check ur pm

[miss_qupid]

i hope i never marry a women like you. my biitch needs to be stronger, like when i call her a bitch she can reply like fuck you asshole. haha
Well i hope u marry a women that disrecpects you, and id like to see ur marriage working, oh yeh it'l be a great touch if she is abusive towards your parents to....

[Mr_Maz]

Miss Q;s statement is her choice and is probably the choice of others.

You either give a person the right to choose their path or you force them to do something that you think is right when it may not be .e.g slavery

[nyzdrdevil718]

Y is it funny?
cause first of all if u wanna be so ideal wife why would u be on this site? do u think ur huband or bf would like u to be talking naughty naughty with other guys? huh its a theory that u can not make a hoe ur house wife neverrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrr rrrrrrrrrrr

[nyzdrdevil718]

check ur pm
thaz right no body talking shit on ma face muwahhahaha

[fathead1]

Well i hope u marry a women that disrecpects you, and id like to see ur marriage working, oh yeh it'l be a great touch if she is abusive towards your parents to....


lol. what are you talking about? just cuz she can playfully cuss me out doesnt mean i will tolerate her nonsense. let alone swearing around my family. anyway it doesnt matter, to each his own

[nyzdrdevil718]

lol. what are you talking about? just cuz she can playfully cuss me out doesnt mean i will tolerate her nonsense. let alone swearing around my family. anyway it doesnt matter, to each his own
its ok thugs grow out of it ... i did to0 but thats after u go to college bro

[fathead1]

its ok thugs grow out of it ... i did to0 but thats after u go to college bro


funny. haha. but nonetheless, nah i dont want a subservient wife.

[cutenoreen]

:applause: :rolleyes:

[CorruptNightfall]

No it doesn't make you narrow minded the least bit. Personally I'de like to be a houswife... But I know my career won't matter much to me as my family does. And yes, family SHOULD come first as you said. Nice to know someone else thinks the same way...

[WildWolfdog]

:applause: :rolleyes:

sarcasm noreen?

[HeaRtZ ConQueReR]

get a life u pathetic loser.
i am not ever gettin married.
its the last thing i wanna do.
u r such a hopeless person.
sorry 2 break it down 2 u, but had 2 say it. :p
GET A LIFE.

[miss_qupid]

get a life u pathetic loser.
i am not ever gettin married.
its the last thing i wanna do.
u r such a hopeless person.
sorry 2 break it down 2 u, but had 2 say it. :p
GET A LIFE.
ha ha hun, id like to see u say that in 10 years.....

[cutenoreen]

sarcasm noreen?

Oh most def not dear :chick:

[fathead1]

get a life u pathetic loser.
i am not ever gettin married.
its the last thing i wanna do.
u r such a hopeless person.
sorry 2 break it down 2 u, but had 2 say it. :p
GET A LIFE.


no disrespect but......damn im not even gonna go any further

[indianchick87]

you need :help:
aww b nice :|

[HeaRtZ ConQueReR]

ha ha hun, id like to see u say that in 10 years.....
i am sayin it now as being a 17 yrs old.
and i will say it even after 10 yrs and after 20 yrs.
why do u wanna kill yoself by gettin married?
how can u possibly live wit one person ONE person yo entire life.
not gonna happen.
think about it twice b4 u do get married.

[Mr_Maz]

i am sayin it now as being a 17 yrs old.
and i will say it even after 10 yrs and after 20 yrs.
why do u wanna kill yoself by gettin married?
how can u possibly live wit one person ONE person yo entire life.
not gonna happen.
think about it twice b4 u do get married.
ahhh the optimism of youth

[iluvuqt]

i get what ur saying and no ur not narrow minded for thinking that...i just have LOTS of respect for ur FUTURE husband and in laws....

[fathead1]

i am sayin it now as being a 17 yrs old.
and i will say it even after 10 yrs and after 20 yrs.
why do u wanna kill yoself by gettin married?
how can u possibly live wit one person ONE person yo entire life.
not gonna happen.
think about it twice b4 u do get married.

ur 17. and you probably wont understand so just wait til you do. until then stop critisizing others for what you dont know of.

[Weezy]

Men go to work, come home, eat, and scratch themselves while watching sports

Women wake up early, feed the children, feed the husband, come home, take care of the children,(talk and play with the children for more than 10 minutes), do housework, make the important calls, and then if there is time, take a moment to rest.

Yes women can never be equal to men and should never aspire to be a man because that is impossible because no one aspires to be a lazy pig.


what a bunch of lata man.

[HeaRtZ ConQueReR]

aww b nice :|
i love u baby.
u know how much i love u, dont u?

[WildWolfdog]

Men go to work, come home, eat, and scratch themselves while watching sports

Women wake up early, feed the children, feed the husband, come home, take care of the children,(talk and play with the children for more than 10 minutes), do housework, make the important calls, and then if there is time, take a moment to rest.

Yes women can never be equal to men and should never aspire to be a man because that is impossible because no one aspires to be a lazy pig.


what a bunch of lata man.

WWTFF???? yeah "go to work and come home" that takes a matter of 2 mins, everythin else is relaxing, lol tats a pretty stupid biased post it makes it seem like work is nothing

[WildWolfdog]

get a life u pathetic loser.
i am not ever gettin married.
its the last thing i wanna do.
u r such a hopeless person.
sorry 2 break it down 2 u, but had 2 say it. :p
GET A LIFE.

lol u need to watch ur mouth son with ur 2 bit "gangsta" attitude ... i'm sure u will reconsider after u get tired of eating the same balony and cheese sandwich nite after nite and feel urself gettin homosexual feelings after realizing no one wants to marry u either

[WildWolfdog]

Oh most def not dear :chick:

somehow i don't believe u

[cutenoreen]

somehow i don't believe u

:thumbdow:

[got_it_twisted]

i am sayin it now as being a 17 yrs old.
and i will say it even after 10 yrs and after 20 yrs.
why do u wanna kill yoself by gettin married?
how can u possibly live wit one person ONE person yo entire life.
not gonna happen.
think about it twice b4 u do get married.
lol, what a loser... :rolleyes:

[miss_qupid]

i am sayin it now as being a 17 yrs old.
and i will say it even after 10 yrs and after 20 yrs.
why do u wanna kill yoself by gettin married?
how can u possibly live wit one person ONE person yo entire life.
not gonna happen.
think about it twice b4 u do get married.
i m proud of decision theres nothing rong with it, i
so wat u think about ur parents, u mean ur mum shud not have got married u shud not have been with ur dad?
how bout u think 2wice n be realistic?

[WildWolfdog]

:thumbdow:

lol no seriously, u seem pretty sarcastic, and the smiley with the hello kitty bow doesn't help either :confused:

[nyzdrdevil718]

lol, what a loser
look who is talking loool showing of earings hahhhhahahahahahahha wussy wussy

[got_it_twisted]

^^ eh Qupid, how old are you anyway?

[cutenoreen]

lol no seriously, u seem pretty sarcastic, and the smiley with the hello kitty bow doesn't help either :confused:

I thought the sarcasm was pretty obvoius from my first post in this thread. I guess it wasn't.

[nyzdrdevil718]

tha fuq :p

[got_it_twisted]

look who is talking loool showing of earings hahhhhahahahahahahha wussy wussy
huh? Is that meant to make sense?

[nyzdrdevil718]

huh? Is that meant to make sense?
no but trying to show ur bling makes pretty much sense huh? dont it faggit

[WildWolfdog]

I thought the sarcasm was pretty obvoius from my first post in this thread. I guess it wasn't.

yeah it seemed obvious but i wasn't sure and i didn't want to make assumptions because it causes tensions .. on second thought it wud raise tensions higher between us since u already don't liek me, lol, so please enlighten me on why u disagree with qupid's view

[aloner4 u]

oh marry me, i am not sexy nor proud, but i 'll make sure that u don't work as long i am around :)

[got_it_twisted]

no but trying to show ur bling makes pretty much sense huh? dont it faggit
Showing my bling? U talking about ma ear stud? Damn you're a loser..

[miss_qupid]

^^ eh Qupid, how old are you anyway?
IM 18,

[nyzdrdevil718]

http://img.photobucket.com/albums/v82/DesiStud1022/newpic10.jpg

damn im hot.
damn stick hahahahha

[WildWolfdog]

oh marry me, i am not sexy nor proud, but i 'll make sure that u don't work as long i am around :)

i dunno where u get ur stupid lines from but they sound pretty good since they rhyme

[miss_qupid]

oh marry me, i am not sexy nor proud, but i 'll make sure that u don't work as long i am around :)
AWWWWWWWWWWWWW HOW SHWEEET....

[nyzdrdevil718]

Showing my bling? U talking about ma ear stud? Damn you're a loser..
ok first make up ur mind if i am a stud or a loser loool u look like u about to do shit hahahah look at ur face hahahahah oh man nooooooo

[got_it_twisted]

IM 18,
Cool, well in answer to ur original post on page 1.. nah it doesn't make you narrow minded.. but y the thought of settling down at just 18?

[WildWolfdog]

ok first make up ur mind if i am a stud or a loser loool u look like u about to do shit hahahah look at ur face hahahahah oh man nooooooo

either ur acting really stupid on purpose or ur really that dumb .. a stud is wat u call that type of earring

[nyzdrdevil718]

either ur acting really stupid on purpose or ur really that dumb .. a stud is wat u call that type of earring
lol u r right this was totally a blonde one from me hahahahah so what fuq it lol... :applause: for pointing out

[miss_qupid]

Cool, well in answer to ur original post on page 1.. nah it doesn't make you narrow minded.. but y the thought of settling down at just 18?
WELL HOPEFULLY IN 2 YEARS...

[Weezy]

WWTFF???? yeah "go to work and come home" that takes a matter of 2 mins, everythin else is relaxing, lol tats a pretty stupid biased post it makes it seem like work is nothing

I'm saying women go to work JUST LIKE MEN, come home and then start their second shift.

If you don't know that this occurs in a majority of households, then you are fucking NAIVE.

btw, there is no such thing as "being objective". Everyone is biased.

[WildWolfdog]

lol u r right this was totally a blonde one from me hahahahah so what fuq it lol... :applause: for pointing out

:mrgreen:

[nyzdrdevil718]

:mrgreen:
now i got my eyes on u though ;)

[got_it_twisted]

WELL HOPEFULLY IN 2 YEARS...
Ain't you got plans for uni..?

[ozone]

OHHHHHHHHHH I THINK SHE MEANT SHES SEXIST not SEXIEST

[miss_qupid]

Ain't you got plans for uni..?
YEH I AM, BUT THAT SHUDNT STOP ME GETTING MARRIED I DNT WNA BE 30 N GETTING MARRIED...

[WildWolfdog]

I'm saying women go to work JUST LIKE MEN, come home and then start their second shift.

If you don't know that this occurs in a majority of households, then you are fucking NAIVE.

btw, there is no such thing as "being objective". Everyone is biased.

Don't judge what happens in ur household or people's households who only you know of. In my family and my rents' close friend's families the husbands work as hard as the women, ofcourse the woman's task is a lil tougher i won't go against that, but yeah that doesn't happen in all the houses

If you feel women's rights are being so violated and they are treated unfairly, why are u against the first post? At least that way you don't have to work. And one more thing if a wife is workin and her kids are small they are usually with a babysitter or somethin of that sort. If they are older the wife usually prepares food for the kids earlier or at late night the night before and leaves she doesn't have to work extra after comin home from work when she's "very tired", stop pitying urself

[WildWolfdog]

now i got my eyes on u though ;)

aren't u a guy?

[HeaRtZ ConQueReR]

ha ha.
u hopeless losers.
u guys gotta stop postin here and get a life.
i am out. peace.
the # of yo posts tells a lot about u.
who has time for these crap?
sleeping time.
later losers.
ha ha.
i am jp but seriously guys and grlz, get outta yo house and get some peeps that u can have fun wit.

[nyzdrdevil718]

aren't u a guy?
i was talking about ur posts not ur pix ew man get ur mind out of gutter :p

[miss_qupid]

OHHHHHHHHHH I THINK SHE MEANT SHES SEXIST not SEXIEST
YEH I CANT SPELLL

[got_it_twisted]

YEH I AM, BUT THAT SHUDNT STOP ME GETTING MARRIED I DNT WNA BE 30 N GETTING MARRIED...
Lol, being in uni & married ain't a good combo, know 2 couples got married in 1st yr uni.. both divorced by 2nd year..

its bare stress on a relationship, let alone marriage

[miss_qupid]

Lol, being in uni & married ain't a good combo, know 2 couples got married in 1st yr uni.. both divorced by 2nd year..

its bare stress on a relationship, let alone marriage
Not every1 is the same some can cope with it, and i want a family more then career...

[WildWolfdog]

ha ha.
u hopeless losers.
u guys gotta stop postin here and get a life.
i am out. peace.
the # of yo posts tells a lot about u.
who has time for these crap?
sleeping time.
later losers.
ha ha.
i am jp but seriously guys and grlz, get outta yo house and get some peeps that u can have fun wit.

i think u really should follow the advice in ur sig ... it will be an ongoing continuation of the repition in the sayin from ur sig for quite a while ..

[WildWolfdog]

Lol, being in uni & married ain't a good combo, know 2 couples got married in 1st yr uni.. both divorced by 2nd year..

its bare stress on a relationship, let alone marriage

that's not true, my cousin's wife got married when she was 18, has 2 kids and is still going to school and they are as close as 2 peas in a pod

[WildWolfdog]

i was talking about ur posts not ur pix ew man get ur mind out of gutter :p

loool o okay, haha that's alrite i'm not worried enuff to be watchin my back at the moment dude :cool:

[WonkaBear]

So here how it goes…..
I want to get married soon, I want to cook, clean for my husband, and I want to obey his commands. I want to have a nice mother n father in law that I can treat good, I want to get on with my husbands family, and I want to be the best wife,
Women and men are not equal, and can never be. Men can be inferior in some ways and women can be inferior in other ways. It a women’s duty to make a family work, women creates the infrastructure of a home, women cant have both career and family, to me my career comes after my future family……
Does wanting all this make me narrow-minded?
:D

I have much respect for u... u would be the perfect wifey...

[miss_qupid]

I have much respect for u... u would be the perfect wifey...
thanku....

[nyzdrdevil718]

wow

[Weezy]

.Don't judge what happens in ur household or people's households who only you know of. In my family and my rents' close friend's families the husbands work as hard as the women, ofcourse the woman's task is a lil tougher i won't go against that, but yeah that doesn't happen in all the houses

If you feel women's rights are being so violated and they are treated unfairly, why are u against the first post? At least that way you don't have to work. And one more thing if a wife is workin and her kids are small they are usually with a babysitter or somethin of that sort. If they are older the wife usually prepares food for the kids earlier or at late night the night before and leaves she doesn't have to work extra after comin home from work when she's "very tired", stop pitying urself

Don't judge what happens in ur household or people's households who only you know of

In my family and my rents' close friend's families

I can tell you are a major hypocrite just by your first two statements alone.

...not to mention a giant fucking idiot.

ofcourse the woman's task is a lil tougher

yeah ok thats what I've been trying to say IDIOT.


I really have no need to reply to the second part of your statement because if you read it again, you'll realize what a load of jibberish that is.

[got_it_twisted]

that's not true, my cousin's wife got married when she was 18, has 2 kids and is still going to school and they are as close as 2 peas in a pod
I ain't sayin its impossible to stay close if ur in school/uni, but it does cause a lot of unnecessary hassle, especially when u move out of home n in accomodation near ya uni.. issues like jealousy, over-protectiveness.. examples of wot i've seen

anyway, guess its different from couple to couple

[WildWolfdog]

I can tell you are a major hypocrite just by your first two statements alone.

...not to mention a giant fucking idiot.



yeah ok thats what I've been trying to say IDIOT.


I really have no need to reply to the second part of your statement because if you read it again, you'll realize what a load of jibberish that is.

Selective reading at it's finest :applause:

Don't judge what happens in ur household or people's households who only you know of. In my family and my rents' close friend's families the husbands work as hard as the women, ofcourse the woman's task is a lil tougher i won't go against that, but yeah that doesn't happen in all the houses

If you feel women's rights are being so violated and they are treated unfairly, why are u against the first post? At least that way you don't have to work. And one more thing if a wife is workin and her kids are small they are usually with a babysitter or somethin of that sort. If they are older the wife usually prepares food for the kids earlier or at late night the night before and leaves she doesn't have to work extra after comin home from work when she's "very tired", stop pitying urself

And u won't reply to the second part because u probably don't have the mental capacity to comprehend .. oops i used a big word again, i'm sorry, i meant u won't have the mental capacity to understand what i said, even if it's a lil jumbled you won't be able to get the point .. u want me to believe that a woman works and comes home and starts her second shift while the man scratches himself after work and rests? Wat fucked up bullshit is that

[ShivaChrist]

So here how it goes…..
I want to get married soon, I want to cook, clean for my husband, and I want to obey his commands. I want to have a nice mother n father in law that I can treat good, I want to get on with my husbands family, and I want to be the best wife,
Women and men are not equal, and can never be. Men can be inferior in some ways and women can be inferior in other ways. It a women’s duty to make a family work, women creates the infrastructure of a home, women cant have both career and family, to me my career comes after my future family……
Does wanting all this make me narrow-minded?
:D

Makes you perfect... though a woman should still have a mind of her own and not be afraid to say things to her husband. And he should be willing to do the same. You should obey his commands, but only if they are fair... you shouldn't blindly follow them. I wouldn't want that, you know what I mean?

[miss_qupid]

I ain't sayin its impossible to stay close if ur in school/uni, but it does cause a lot of unnecessary hassle, especially when u move out of home n in accomodation near ya uni.. issues like jealousy, over-protectiveness.. examples of wot i've seen

anyway, guess its different from couple to couple
u shudnt be in a relationship which consists of jealoiusy and over protectiveness, this is why majority of relationships do not work... Understanding is one thing that lacks between partners......

[WildWolfdog]

I ain't sayin its impossible to stay close if ur in school/uni, but it does cause a lot of unnecessary hassle, especially when u move out of home n in accomodation near ya uni.. issues like jealousy, over-protectiveness.. examples of wot i've seen

anyway, guess its different from couple to couple

lol yeah i know wat ur saying, i guess there's a big turning point in the stories, only the girl in my story is going to university, the husband isn't, he has his own retail store chain with brothers lol but it does vary from couple to couple, u just pray and hope for the best

[Fatty4life]

if it makes u happy baby. im not the sit at home types. but hey, whatever floats ur boat.

[miss_qupid]

Makes you perfect... though a woman should still have a mind of her own and not be afraid to say things to her husband. And he should be willing to do the same. You should obey his commands, but only if they are fair... you shouldn't blindly follow them. I wouldn't want that, you know what I mean?
im very strong minded and very diplomatic, because i wana do all that doesnt mean im not gana participate in decisions...

[nyzdrdevil718]

yeah i m bout to take sociology this semester :Paper:

[ShivaChrist]

im very strong minded and very diplomatic, because i wana do all that doesnt mean im not gana participate in decisions...

Awesome, then you rock. :applause:

[Weezy]

Selective reading at it's finest :applause:



And u won't reply to the second part because u probably don't have the mental capacity to comprehend .. oops i used a big word again, i'm sorry, i meant u won't have the mental capacity to understand what i said, even if it's a lil jumbled you won't be able to get the point .. u want me to believe that a woman works and comes home and starts her second shift while the man scratches himself after work and rests? Wat fucked up bullshit is that

its not selective reading when I read your whole ASININE comment.

OoOo women know big words as well :rolleyes:

I'm going to introduce you to the life of a working woman

go to google and type in "women's second shift"

there are actual studies that show how a MAJORITY OF women do the MAJORITY of the household and child care work.

Take note on how I said MAJORITY and not "All"

You are living in a bubble kid.

[WildWolfdog]

its not selective reading when I read your whole ASININE comment.

OoOo women know big words as well :rolleyes:

I'm going to introduce you to the life of a working woman

go to google and type in "women's second shift"

there are actual studies that show how a MAJORITY OF women do the MAJORITY of the household and child care work.

Take note on how I said MAJORITY and not "All"

You are living in a bubble kid.

That's the primary role of a woman after she has a kid or kids. That's why women (mothers) have such a high honor in Islam. It's not for nothing. Most men cannot take over home duties and chores, and especially have a hard time in raising kids. No one told the woman to go out and work. But if you want to be free and work and show you can live on ur own, don't whine about doing the household chores afterwards

And it's selective reading if u try to show that i am being a hypocrite but ignore the sentence where i agree it's not common in every house

I'm living in a bubble? You need to be put in one.

[aloner4 u]

i dunno where u get ur stupid lines from but they sound pretty good since they rhyme
Ebay :rolleyes:

AWWWWWWWWWWWWW HOW SHWEEET....
:dance: :joy:

[nyzdrdevil718]

i just realized wtf sexiest has to do with ur thoughts about marriage?

[Weezy]

That's the primary role of a woman after she has a kid or kids. That's why women (mothers) have such a high honor in Islam. It's not for nothing. Most men cannot take over home duties and chores, and especially have a hard time in raising kids. No one told the woman to go out and work. But if you want to be free and work and show you can live on ur own, don't whine about doing the household chores afterwards

And it's selective reading if u try to show that i am being a hypocrite but ignore the sentence where i agree it's not common in every house

I'm living in a bubble? You need to be put in one.

its the primary role of BOTH parents to raise the child.

no one told the woman to go out and work?

LOL wow.

One paycheck is not enough for some families. Do you understand, i mean COMPREHEND, that concept?

No one has to tell them to do anything, women do it for the welfare of their famlies.

Did someone tell the MAN not to equally participate in household work as well as raising the children?

I seriously hope guys don't think like you because you are one ignorant mofo

:lol:

and I never ignored any of you comments tard, so it's not selective reading skimming or any of that bullshit.

[Fatty4life]

I can't believe people argue over such things. who cares if the girl wants to be a housewife- that's her prerrogative. There's no end to this "role of women in our society" bullshit. People formulate their opnions based on what they have been taught/what they have seen/experienced. Try and respect each other's opinions. :rolleyes:

[nyzdrdevil718]

^^^^^ to0 much britney spears up there

[Fatty4life]

i just realized wtf sexiest has to do with ur thoughts about marriage?
I asked that question 9 pages ago..still waitin for a response

[Weezy]

I can't believe people argue over such things. who cares if the girl wants to be a housewife- that's her prerrogative. There's no end to this "role of women in our society" bullshit. People formulate their opnions based on what they have been taught/what they have seen/experienced. Try and respect each other's opinions. :rolleyes:

why do you have to be a fucking peacemaker all the time? :rolleyes:

if people want to discuss debate or argue about a certain topic, let us do it.

[WildWolfdog]

its the primary role of BOTH parents to raise the child.

no one told the woman to go out and work?

LOL wow.

One paycheck is not enough for some families. Do you understand, i mean COMPREHEND, that concept?

No one has to tell them to do anything, women do it for the welfare of their famlies.

Did someone tell the MAN not to equally participate in household work as well as raising the children?

I seriously hope guys don't think like you because you are one ignorant mofo

:lol:

and I never ignored any of you comments tard, so it's not selective reading skimming or any of that bullshit.

That's why there is child benifit :confused: If you can't support, raise a family then don't have a big one "comprendre??" if the couple is stupid enough not to realize that then i have nothing to say .. ofcourse there are SOME situations when the economical uncertainty is sudden, in that case u have some good points

Yes it's BOTH parent's responsibility to raise, but the woman, the mother has a larger role. No one said the man shouldn't participate, ur just assuming and generalizing that men never work.

[nyzdrdevil718]

I asked that question 9 pages ago..still waitin for a response
oh ok

[WildWolfdog]

I asked that question 9 pages ago..still waitin for a response

If you read the post you would understand she meant sexist, not sexiest, its a typo get over it

[Simplicity25]

No, you're not narrow minded. I actually respect your future decisions. I also want to have a family life and then a career. I'm 20 years old now and I have a year left of undergrad. I have plans of going to grad school for my own security. In this day and age, who knows what kind of guy you can end up with...there are great guys out there but some are just well, less than respectful. I don't want to be completely dependant on anyone and that is the only reason I want to have a career.

If I happen to get married in another year or two then that is where my focus will have to be. I also want to take care of my husband and take care of the family. Although, I don't think i'll be "obeying any commands" but I sure will listen and do what's best for everyone. After seeing many examples of dysfuctional families, I know that there is no way that I could ever put anything else before my own family. They will always be first no matter what.

[Fatty4life]

why do you have to be a fucking peacemaker all the time? :rolleyes:

if people want to discuss debate or argue about a certain topic, let us do it.
and, why do you have to be the bitch all the time? this discussion is neverending, im just letting you know. if you want to argue- be my guest.

[Fatty4life]

If you read the post you would understand she meant sexist, not sexiest, its a typo get over it
Only you would take that seriously.
please, do continue your BS about role of women in society.

[WildWolfdog]

Only you would take that seriously.
please, do continue your BS about role of women in society.

I think u were serious bout it, since u asked why she said sexiest, didn't have any kind of smiley after it and brought it up in this page as well.

And yeah, i will continue it, thank you for ur persmission, tc

[Fatty4life]

I think u were serious bout it, since u asked why she said sexiest, didn't have any kind of smiley after it and brought it up in this page as well.

And yeah, i will continue it, thank you for ur persmission, tc
oh my bad. should I have attached " :p :p :p" just to MAKE SURE people like you would understand?

[ShivaChrist]

No, you're not narrow minded. I actually respect your future decisions. I also want to have a family life and then a career. I'm 20 years old now and I have a year left of undergrad. I have plans of going to grad school for my own security. In this day and age, who knows what kind of guy you can end up with...there are great guys out there but some are just well, less than respectful. I don't want to be completely dependant on anyone and that is the only reason I want to have a career.

If I happen to get married in another year or two then that is where my focus will have to be. I also want to take care of my husband and take care of the family. Although, I don't think i'll be "obeying any commands" but I sure will listen and do what's best for everyone. After seeing many examples of dysfuctional families, I know that there is no way that I could ever put anything else before my own family. They will always be first no matter what.

I agree 100% family is very important. Your wife and children are the most important thing, and thankfully my family was such a positive influence on my life I can see nothing but good things in my future. I know it can be hard, and it can be difficult, but everything leaves some bumps and bruises :)

The man should love his wife with the same passion that she shares for him, period. It's amazing how hard that is to have though, people tend to mess things up between them. But if both partners know that then they will have a beautiful friendship and marriage.

[SECI_Boi]

all she needz iz a husband...:)

[WildWolfdog]

I asked that question 9 pages ago..still waitin for a response

how does that make you "sexiest" :confused:


what does being sexy have to do with all this :confused:


Yah ... all that just OOZES sarcasm ..

[Weezy]

That's why there is child benifit :confused: If you can't support, raise a family then don't have a big one "comprendre??" if the couple is stupid enough not to realize that then i have nothing to say .. ofcourse there are SOME situations when the economical uncertainty is sudden, in that case u have some good points

Yes it's BOTH parent's responsibility to raise, but the woman, the mother has a larger role. No one said the man shouldn't participate, ur just assuming and generalizing that men never work.

Raising a family requires LOTS of money whether you have 1 child or 5.

and I never said that men don't work. I implied that women work MORE.

You are giving Islam a bad name with your backwards thinking.

I'm done discussing this matter with a 12 year old child such as yourself.

[Fatty4life]

Yah ... all that just OOZES sarcasm ..
Im sorry you fail to see it. :Paper:

[Weezy]

and, why do you have to be the bitch all the time? this discussion is neverending, im just letting you know. if you want to argue- be my guest.

seriously, nobody normal wants to the forum and play lovey dovey with stupid desi strangers.

I will continue being a bitch to idiots like wild wolf Hog.

[WildWolfdog]

Im sorry you fail to see it. :Paper:

Okay man it's my mistake i apologize. I was being harsh for no reason i accept it, lol, it's nothin personal, think of it like u were caught in a "crossfire" between me and weezy.

[Fatty4life]

seriously, nobody normal wants to the forum and play lovey dovey with stupid desi strangers.

I will continue being a bitch to idiots like wild wolf Hog.
weezy my dear. :Paper: nevermind. have fun.

[WildWolfdog]

seriously, nobody normal wants to the forum and play lovey dovey with stupid desi strangers.

I will continue being a bitch to idiots like wild wolf Hog.

.... o .. wow wat a clever little insult u thought of. Did you rhyme dog with hog all by yourself? :applause:

[WildWolfdog]

Raising a family requires LOTS of money whether you have 1 child or 5.

and I never said that men don't work. I implied that women work MORE.

You are giving Islam a bad name with your backwards thinking.

I'm done discussing this matter with a 12 year old child such as yourself.

How the hell am i giving Islam a bad name??

You're done discussing this matter because you really have no valid points and probably don't know what exactly you're trying to prove. Am i a 12 year old child because i didn't say "wow weezy ur so correct you should be the leader of womankind, i hope everyone sees the every day struggles of woman and appreciate it"

[Weezy]

.... o .. wow wat a clever little insult u thought of. Did you rhyme dog with hog all by yourself? :applause:

No I had help from YO MAMA.

[WildWolfdog]

No I had help from YO MAMA.

what a hypocrite

I'm done discussing this matter with a 12 year old child such as yourself.

[Weezy]

How the hell am i giving Islam a bad name??

You're done discussing this matter because you really have no valid points and probably don't know what exactly you're trying to prove. Am i a 12 year old child because i didn't say "wow weezy ur so correct you should be the leader of womankind, i hope everyone sees the every day struggles of woman and appreciate it"

All my points are valid.

I didn't say one thing and then contradict myself in the next sentence like you do.

you're a 12 year old child because you are ignorant of life outside your little bubble.

I said you are a disgrace to Islam because you are implying that you DON'T believe that men and women should equally contribute in raising their children and working. I doubt thats what Islam preaches.

Teh fucking End.

[Weezy]

what a hypocrite

I am imitating your childishness not being a hypocrite.

[WildWolfdog]

I am imitating your childishness not being a hypocrite.

That's not how i see it, stop trying to weasel ur way out of mistakes.

[miss_qupid]

That's not how i see it, stop trying to weasel ur way out of mistakes.
Why u all argueing?

[Weezy]

That's not how i see it, stop trying to weasel ur way out of mistakes.

Thats not a mistake but if you want to see it as one, by all means. :applause:

go to bed kid.

[Fatty4life]

Why u all argueing?
:mrgreen: I got bitched at for asking. dont do it

[WildWolfdog]

All my points are valid.

I didn't say one thing and then contradict myself in the next sentence like you do.

you're a 12 year old child because you are ignorant of life outside your little bubble.

I said you are a disgrace to Islam because you are implying that you DON'T believe that men and women should equally contribute in raising their children and working. I doubt thats what Islam preaches.

Teh fucking End.

I'm a disgrace to Islam because i have been brought up in a house where we share responsibilities and refuse to accept that women everywhere are suffering and that they have to work even if they only have one kid? Stop talkin out of ur ass it's raelly not working.

You're really mature about this, trying to cuss so make your point .. "o shit, she said the FUCKING end, i guess that means it's the end"

[Weezy]

Why u all argueing?

Because he is a sexist PIG.

[miss_qupid]

Because he is a sexist PIG.
he is not... com'on thats going bit childish,

[WildWolfdog]

Because he is a sexist PIG.

Don't try to mix my kind with yours.

[miss_qupid]

:mrgreen: I got bitched at for asking. dont do it
lol...

[Weezy]

I'm a disgrace to Islam because i have been brought up in a house where we share responsibilities and refuse to accept that women everywhere are suffering and that they have to work even if they only have one kid? Stop talkin out of ur ass it's raelly not working.

You're really mature about this, trying to cuss so make your point .. "o shit, she said the FUCKING end, i guess that means it's the end"

you refuse to accept that women everywhere are suffering?

oookay.

I don't cuss to make a point, I cuss because thats how I talk.

are we done yet or do you want to get owned again?

[Weezy]

he is not... com'on thats going bit childish,

Childishness is joining a forum when you can't spell or form complete sentences.

I bet you joined because you wanted to use the smilies.

tsk tsk.

[stylo_4444]

Getting owned on a public forum...against a person you've never met before, and likely never will ever see...nice!

[WildWolfdog]

you refuse to accept that women everywhere are suffering?

oookay.

I don't cuss to make a point, I cuss because thats how I talk.

are we done yet or do you want to get owned again?

Add delusional to ur long list of frowned upon character traits

Cussing to make a point is not disgraceful yet believing that women have more of a role to play in raising kids is? Amazing theory u got there. You're a lesbian in real life aren't you? Or you're planning to be?

[miss_qupid]

Getting owned on a public forum...against a person you've never met before, and likely never will ever see...nice!
wat does "getting owned mean*?

[Weezy]

Thats why I joined :D

And so I could meet more 12 year olds like me!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

Miss Cupid and Wilf wolf hog are just two primary examples of the clueless idiots on RD

I think i'll just go back to making random comments about nothing.

[WildWolfdog]

Miss Cupid and Wilf wolf hog are just two primary examples of the clueless idiots on RD

I think i'll just go back to making random comments about nothing.

It would be nothing different from what you've been doing in this thread.

[Weezy]

It would be nothing different from what you've been doing in this thread.

Thats the only smart thing you've said in this entire thread. Bravo. :applause:

[Weezy]

SHOW ME YOUR KUNDIIIIIIIIIIII!

shaddap in ur face!

[stylo_4444]

"getting owned" means basically getting beaten I suppose...and beaten badly you could say.

[Punjabi Phantasy]

im getting married soon too...and the way you want to live your life is not narrow minded- if you like being taking controle of...and ur not alone, but most women i know choose to be vonrable to men in bed, not in life. but wen it comes down to you, its your life and ur funeral, chances are if you treat a man like your master, your the one thats going to be his slave, and if thats what you believe a women deserves then you are just throwing away what women have been working for for hundreds and hundres of years..i am not a femanist but i am a women that believes respect should alwayz be equal.....and the way you phrased your post was a "tad" narrow minded....just dont forget, its YOUR way of thinking, dont push it on someone else if you dont like the comments that are being pushed on you.

[Fatty4life]

you and fatty4life are entertaining to me.
i like ur shoe.

[Fatty4life]

I lost the other one :(
I got mad at someone and threw it at them... they kept it... I wonder if Ill ever get it back :cry:
how tragic. but u deserved it. u drunk bitch.

[Punjabi Phantasy]

what makes you say that, Y are u all taking this all so negatively, wants rong with wat i want?

obviously you know that theres something wrong with "what you want" or you wouldnt be asking us about your opinion in the first place

[Punjabi Phantasy]

i wasn't

i liked the part where you are basically saying that although men and women have different roles in life, they are both equally important.

i think once society realizes this we won't have women trying so hard to be like men. In the end, taking care of your children and constantly providing them with a parental figure is a much more important job than earning an extra pay check.

so then why doesnt the man stay home and do the "womenly chores" while a women goes out and persues a career, becomes a sucessfull member of society, build a well respected name for themselves, and be the master of the house?

[Punjabi Phantasy]

All the things Qupid just said are pretty much something someone would want in a wife ... people these days are so into money and "freedom" they think that if a woman is a homemaker or a housewife she is automatically being opressed and held "captive" by her husband inside her own home and is prolly living an unhappy marraige ..

i think its awesome that she wants to be a good wife because if she appreciates her husband the husband will in turn appreciate her and love her more and it will make the marraige pretty successful ... aside from that if both parents just work the kids won't have anywhere to go to and no religious teachings or even academic ones for that matter ... and yeah thats never good ..

so then why dont you stay home and cook and clean and wait on my every command (while not being oppressed), appreciate the fact that i became a succesfull buisness women, so our son can know his place in the world, and our daughter can know hers. ok?

[Mr_Maz]

So here how it goes…..
I want to get married soon, I want to cook, clean for my husband, and I want to obey his commands. I want to have a nice mother n father in law that I can treat good, I want to get on with my husbands family, and I want to be the best wife,
Women and men are not equal, and can never be. Men can be inferior in some ways and women can be inferior in other ways. It a women’s duty to make a family work, women creates the infrastructure of a home, women cant have both career and family, to me my career comes after my future family……
Does wanting all this make me narrow-minded?
:D
i can;t believe you make deliberate spelling mistakes to wind me up

[Serenity]

I understand your point 'til the end part which is where i disagree.
Women have this " taking care of everyone " built in them, but you have to still see yourself as an individual and not melt that into identifying urself as only a " housewife ".

About not being able to have a carrier and being a good wife/ mum.
My mum could, and I believe I can juggle many balls in the air, some
people can do it, some people can't, has nothing to do with being a
woman. It depends on ones own ability

[r-town_chickee]

you sound like the people who try train kids for marriage at my mosque.

[illomatic]

you sound like the people who try train kids for marriage at my mosque.


can i marry u... haww haiiiiiiii





:elaugh: :p

[r-town_chickee]

can i marry u... haww haiiiiiiii





:elaugh: :p


har har, i think you need a bit more training.

[Z4K5T4R]

Well makes u happy hun go for it, but u might end up going mad staying in da house with da in laws all da time but who knows maybe by da time u reach 30 u have a house full of kids ur own footy team :) Good luck

[miss_qupid]

Well makes u happy hun go for it, but u might end up going mad staying in da house with da in laws all da time but who knows maybe by da time u reach 30 u have a house full of kids ur own footy team :) Good luck
NO nO NO ur getting it all rong, by doing all this mean doesnt mean im not going to have as ocail life, it also doesnt mean im not going to have a prt time job, it just means i want to put my family before career....

[samosa321]

A woman does not have to sacrifice her career in order to raise a family or to take care of the household. Nowadays, it is almost imperative for women to work outside of home because the cost of living expenses are continuously increasing. In double-income households, the couple can divide the household chores in order to balance the scale. Also, it is important for you to get a decent education so that you can sustain financial security during times of difficulty (God forbid that you ever face divorce, death, or financial hardship).

I understand that you have good intentions but you should not underestimate your worth. I would put my family before my career as well and I do not think that most females on this board with disagree with that statement. However, it’s more practical to stabilize one’s position in a field before bringing in children into this world. After you have established yourself, you can take few years off to raise the children. Later on, you can always return to your job by organizing your time between your career and family. You can be an intelligent career woman, a devoted wife, and a lovely mother. I do not think that you’re incapable of handling multiple roles, Ms. Qupid.

[miss_qupid]

A woman does not have to sacrifice her career in order to raise a family or to take care of the household. Nowadays, it is almost imperative for women to work outside of home because the cost of living expenses are continuously increasing. In double-income households, the couple can divide the household chores in order to balance the scale. Also, it is important for you to get a decent education so that you can sustain financial security during times of difficulty (God forbid that you ever face divorce, death, or financial hardship).

I understand that you have good intentions but you should not underestimate your worth. I would put my family before my career as well and I do not think that most females on this board with disagree with that statement. However, it’s more practical to stabilize one’s position in a field before bringing in children into this world. After you have established yourself, you can take few years off to raise the children. Later on, you can always return to your job by organizing your time between your career and family. You can be an intelligent career woman, a devoted wife, and a lovely mother. I do not think that you’re incapable of handling multiple roles, Ms. Qupid.
You know the most difficult job in life is firstly being a Wife/mother, and the second is a teacher. Women who have good careers have to compete with family or a career, both work and family require full devotion.
I didnt state that i wouldn't work, or i wudnt have an education, all i said is that i will put my family before my career. People dont realise that its not about having a high income but to live happily with what you have to be able to afford neccasities...
Children need a good mother not a career women, and trust me this is the reason y majority of marriages do not succeed in our times...

[samosa321]

You know the most difficult job in life is firstly being a Wife/mother, and the second is a teacher. Women who have good careers have to compete with family or a career, both work and family require full devotion.
I didnt state that i wouldn't work, or i wudnt have an education, all i said is that i will put my family before my career. People dont realise that its not about having a high income but to live happily with what you have to be able to afford neccasities...
Children need a good mother not a career women, and trust me this is the reason y majority of marriages do not succeed in our times...

Have you done a study on why marriages do not work? Did I state that being a mother/wife is not difficult? Did I state that one needs to have high-income to be happy? Most women work because it is a necessity. If you’ll kindly reread my post, you’ll see that I support the idea of women taking few years off to raise kids. Also, one can have a successful career yet prioritize her family at the top of the list as well. It’s all about using sound judgment whilst allocating time to various activities. As I have mentioned before, the husband can always lend a hand at home if the wife works.

My mother worked outside of home and she has never failed to be a great mom. In fact, I am very close to her and I never felt that she put her work ahead of me. Perhaps you feel that you do not have the capacity to handle multiple roles. But there are women who have excelled in handling several functions so please do not make assumptions about the capacity of women in general.

[miss_qupid]

Have you done a study on why marriages do not work? Did I state that being a mother/wife is not difficult? Did I state that one needs to have high-income to be happy? Most women work because it is a necessity. If you’ll kindly reread my post, you’ll see that I support the idea of women taking few years off to raise kids. Also, one can have a successful career yet prioritize her family at the top of the list as well. It’s all about using sound judgment whilst allocating time to various activities. As I have mentioned before, the husband can always lend a hand at home if the wife works.

My mother worked outside of home and she has never failed to be a great mom. In fact, I am very close to her and I never felt that she put her work ahead of me. Perhaps you feel that you do not have the capacity to handle multiple roles. But there are women who have excelled in handling several functions so please do not make assumptions about the capacity of women in general.
hey none of i sed is a statement, its merely my point of view, dont get worked up about chill, hunny. My mother and father have worked all their life and trust me i missed out on alot, anyway experience makes you who u are.....

[samosa321]

hey none of i sed is a statement, its merely my point of view, dont get worked up about chill, hunny. My mother and father have worked all their life and trust me i missed out on alot, anyway experience makes you who u are.....

If someone opposes your views, it does not mean that he or she is getting worked up about it. And clearly, you can live your life in a way that best suits your preference. But when you make general comments about women’s roles in society (i.e. “women cannot have a career and a family”) then others have the right to offer a rebuttal.

And yes, personal experiences shape our attitude towards life. But let’s not look at life through only one lens.

[stylo_4444]

This is a very deep conversation on someone elses wishes for marriage...some of you guys are probably way too young to be even thinking about that kinda stuff. Chill out, relax and let's just all get wasted.

[miss_qupid]

If someone opposes your views, it does not mean that he or she is getting worked up about it. And clearly, you can live your life in a way that best suits your preference. But when you make general comments about women’s roles in society (i.e. “women cannot have a career and a family”) then others have the right to offer a rebuttal.

And yes, personal experiences shape our attitude towards life. But let’s not look at life through only one lens.
Ok, how is that one lense, i.e narrow minded?
the graphology in ur content says alot about ur attitude, neway, as i sed i have alot of experience, and yes i have studied marriages and i want Religion to be a major role of my marriage.... it just the conclusion i have to how i wana deal with life.....

[samosa321]

Ok, how is that one lense, i.e narrow minded?
the graphology in ur content says alot about ur attitude, neway, as i sed i have alot of experience, and yes i have studied marriages and i want Religion to be a major role of my marriage.... it just the conclusion i have to how i wana deal with life.....

Yes, I find you quite narrow-minded and ill informed.

So you have studied marriages? Okay. What do you know about marriages? Show me any study that proves your claim about careers and women.

And of course, my posts reflect my attitude. That is the point of making posts.

By the way, do you know what “graphology” means? You’re not using it in the right context.

[stylo_4444]

I guess just ignore everyone else's views...you have your own way of thinking, which I agree with for the most part, and other people have theirs...just go on with life as u think u should.

[stylo_4444]

Now we're arguing about the context in which we use words? With all due respect...who gives a shit?!?!?!

[samosa321]

Now we're arguing about the context in which we use words? With all due respect...who gives a shit?!?!?!

It's always easier to take a person seriously when he or she does not throw around words improperly.

[stylo_4444]

It's always easier to take a person seriously when he or she does not throw around words improperly.

Well I mean she stated her views and what she wants to do...I'll take her seriously on that.

[samosa321]

*flings poo @ his triange_shaped_friend.

'Sup N?

[miss_qupid]

Yes, I find you quite narrow-minded and ill informed.

So you have studied marriages? Okay. What do you know about marriages? Show me any study that proves your claim about careers and women.

And of course, my posts reflect my attitude. That is the point of making posts.

By the way, do you know what “graphology” means? You’re not using it in the right context.
Yes im a English LIt and Lang student, i know what i am saying neway ur going off topic..
Cool if thats ur opinion, but i think my marriage is gana work great, i have hope.
But if you think its being narrow minded, well if i sed the opposite wat difference would it make? its still free choice,....

[notoriou$punjabi]

You look like manisha koirala

[samosa321]

Yes im a English LIt and Lang student, i know what i am saying neway ur going off topic..
Cool if thats ur opinion, but i think my marriage is gana work great, i have hope.
But if you think its being narrow minded, well if i sed the opposite wat difference would it make? its still free choice,....

I wish you the best. :) No hard feelings.

[stylo_4444]

I wish you the best. :) No hard feelings.

And so we all kiss and make up...I don't think she looks like Manisha, but she's pretty.

[miss_qupid]

yeah... just trying to remind you that a good portion of the posters of this thread are highly underaged, undereducated, and undermoraled. I had originally posted here as well, only to realize that the main person arguing against me was complaining mostly because she started dating when she was 13, ended up in a 3 year relationship with a loser, had done the nasty deed, and was soon-after dumped.
Please take comments like this else where, age does not make you any wiser, experiences do, and im sure many posters have highly developed super ego and ego, such as youself, it all depends on opinion.

[stylo_4444]

Please take comments like this else where, age does not make you any wiser, experiences do, and im sure many posters have highly developed super ego and ego, such as youself, it all depends on opinion.

qupid u never say anything to me, what's up with that?

[miss_qupid]

qupid u never say anything to me, what's up with that?
sorry hun, mwah,
The whole point of this thread was to see how people react to an individuals point of view to life.
Wanting to please your husband and following religion doesnt make any one narrow minded its all about choice. These people who claim to be open minded and state that my opinion is narrow minded, are actually getting caught in their own web.

[stylo_4444]

You think that relationships made over the net are retarded, why are you e-flirting?

No e-flirting going on over here asswipe.

[stylo_4444]

sorry hun, mwah,
The whole point of this thread was to see how people react to an individuals point of view to life.
Wanting to please your husband and following religion doesnt make any one narrow minded its all about choice. These people who claim to be open minded and state that my opinion is narrow minded, are actually getting caught in their own web.

Oh so a mwah is supposed to make it all better huh?

[miss_qupid]

You believe a 10 year old who had a 2 year relationship while in elementary school with her naptime partner is more experienced than a 20 year old who has maybe dated for 6 months in college?

lol - quite ridiculous.
come on now, i didnt make any reference's.
My experience's are based on my parents relationship, and other around me, i think your going to deep and litterally off topic.

[miss_qupid]

Oh so a mwah is supposed to make it all better huh?
shush.......

[samosa321]

yeah... just trying to remind you that a good portion of the posters of this thread are highly underaged, undereducated, and undermoraled. I had originally posted here as well, only to realize that the main person arguing against me was complaining mostly because she started dating when she was 13, ended up in a 3 year relationship with a loser, had done the nasty deed, and was soon-after dumped.

A study of an individual’s background always explains his or her standpoints.

You are correct in asserting that most of the posters on this forum are young so they are more idealistic about life. Life does not offer a clear-cut definition of many things so it’s not good to interpret “what we are supposed to do” and “how we are supposed to live our life” from a narrow point of view. Surprisingly, I used to think like the original poster when I was in high school. But I became a bit less dreamy and a bit more practical as time progressed.

[stylo_4444]

shush.......

A mwah will have to do for today

[umair_k]

how come u dont want a career of ure own?
girls nowadays want an equal relationship with their husband

[miss_qupid]

A study of an individual’s background always explains his or her standpoints.

You are correct in asserting that most of the posters on this forum are young so they are more idealistic about life. Life does not offer a clear-cut definition of many things so it’s not good to interpret “what we are supposed to do” and “how we are supposed to live our life” from a narrow point of view. Surprisingly, I used to think like the original poster when I was in high school. But I became a bit less dreamy and a bit more practical as time progressed.
I as an individual has never been dreamy, never been in high school relatioships etc, yes i am only 18 but as little girl i knew my ain in life. Trust me experiences can make you very mature....

[miss_qupid]

how come u dont want a career of ure own?
girls nowadays want an equal relationship with their husband
nope, i want a career but i want a happy family more then that, equality is over-rated.

[played_out]

u shudnt be in a relationship which consists of jealoiusy and over protectiveness, this is why majority of relationships do not work... Understanding is one thing that lacks between partners......


you're hot

[samosa321]

I as an individual has never been dreamy, never been in high school relatioships etc, yes i am only 18 but as little girl i knew my ain in life. Trust me experiences can make you very mature....

Good. I hope that everything works out for you.

I do not agree with some of your comments but I am flexible enough to know that two people can succeed in raising a family by different means. I just choose to follow a different route.

[miss_qupid]

you're hot
thnx....*blushes*

[stylo_4444]

I as an individual has never been dreamy, never been in high school relatioships etc, yes i am only 18 but as little girl i knew my ain in life. Trust me experiences can make you very mature....

You're only 18????? Well then...I guess you're not too young...I didn't want to think about marriage at that age. I think your views are very traditional and they are very mature...but I don't think equality is as overrated as it used to be.

[miss_qupid]

By the way, watch how a woman's outlook on life changes as soon as she is dumped by "the love of my life... the one I was going to marry..."
well i dont believe in love, the only man im going to love is the one who will be married to me....
i say it again
Love- takes 3 seconds to say it, 3 mins to explain it and a whole life time to prove it...
Not all women are the same..

[stylo_4444]

LOL!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! MATURE??????????????????????? ***** plz.

Well it's definitely more mature than a desi who still uses "***** plz".

[samosa321]

In addition though, "the dreamer" is always more optimistic than "the realist" who tends to be pessimistic. There are always options on what to do with life and what role to play in society. No two individuals are alike and I seriously doubt that one will change who they are based on an experience/discussion from a forum chat. Many women who believe that their role is subserviant to a man's (in the desi community) have learned this from their parents and what they see in Desi Media. Fact also exists that the exact same women also do go to college, hold high paying positions after college, and also are very independent. As Im sure you will agree, theres nothing wrong with relying on a spouse for virtually anything, as long as the support is there. I do not think that Mizz Qupid, or anyone else for that matter, will be a battered wife... Rather what they are coming across as saying is that they still are "old fashioned" and see nothing wrong in playing the traditional wife role to an extent.

I do not find anything wrong with a wife depending on her husband or vice versa. It is not wrong to hold unto traditional values. In fact, I am critical of women who work certain hours just to get a bonus or a higher status in life whilst neglecting the family’s needs in the process. But as I have mentioned before, sometimes it is a necessity for women to work. But I also think that a woman should fully devote her time to children during the early years if it’s possible. Moreover, some women do not know if they will marry a person who is financially secure. I do not know whether my husband will be wealthy or not. So yeah, I will be pragmatic by considering that I will need to work in order to help out my husband. Anyhow, a woman can mark her potential in a particular field and raise a beautiful family. But she should structure her time in such a way so that her family will always receive the proper amount of attention.

At the end, it’s all about “whatever works for you.” It’s all about personal preferences actually. I think I would enjoy excelling in my field so I have chosen to handle multiple roles in the future.

[miss_qupid]

Have you ever been in a relationship that lasted longer than 6 months?

If so -
#1 What were you doing dating at such a young age?
#2 Do you feel trashy and cheap knowing that you are not going to marry this guy even though you let him violate you?
#3 If you broke up over something gay, do you know that you will always compare him to every other guy you meet.

if not -
#1 How can you say you know exactly what you want out of life?
#2 Why do you generalize in thinking that all boys are the same?
#3 Why havent you dated anyone? Are you afraid?
NONE OF UR BUSINESS, stop going off topic, u gave ur opinion now kindly leave.

[SAHI_PASHTOON]

So here how it goes…..
I want to get married soon, I want to cook, clean for my husband, and I want to obey his commands. I want to have a nice mother n father in law that I can treat good, I want to get on with my husbands family, and I want to be the best wife,
Women and men are not equal, and can never be. Men can be inferior in some ways and women can be inferior in other ways. It a women’s duty to make a family work, women creates the infrastructure of a home, women cant have both career and family, to me my career comes after my future family……
Does wanting all this make me narrow-minded?
:D


No not at all it makes you wise and stable and practical.

And who's to say WHATS NARROW MINDED and whats OPEN MINDED> anyone who calls ANYONE ELSE narrow minded is a HYPOCRITE.
Because who says THEIR idea of what "open minded" is is the correct one?:

[miss_qupid]

:offtopic: :arrow:

[miss_qupid]

Please post some more pics of yourself so that we can all comment on how "hot" you are.

Thank you.
nope stop going of topic..... grrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrr

[PyariPariPri]

So here how it goes…..
I want to get married soon, I want to cook, clean for my husband, and I want to obey his commands. I want to have a nice mother n father in law that I can treat good, I want to get on with my husbands family, and I want to be the best wife,
Women and men are not equal, and can never be. Men can be inferior in some ways and women can be inferior in other ways. It a women’s duty to make a family work, women creates the infrastructure of a home, women cant have both career and family, to me my career comes after my future family……
Does wanting all this make me narrow-minded?
:D
you mean SEXIST....

[miss_qupid]

you mean SEXIST....
No, gosh, i was being cheeky. it was deliberate....

[miss_qupid]

I would like to see those long legs wrapped around my neck
how about no.........

[Fire-n-Ice]

miss qupid: are u sayin ur gonna spend d rest of ur life obeying his command... dudette.. he's gonna treat u like trash. plus thats just boring as hell... for u and for him...

i dunno.. but so far, wat i've understood about real men... they dont want a woman whos gonna do watever they say, they can just find a fuck buddy.... or some of them may say they want to... still... i would never wanna be with a guy like that. most men i've met, need a strong woman; who can stand up for herself and her man if she has to. They want someone who will catch them when they fall... wat if he looses his job? how d hell's he gonna support u? i agree with a few things like getting along with his family and stuff but not to the point where you wont even have privacy anymore.

[Angel_Face_K]

Reading for Meaning...... :)

[Fire-n-Ice]

Why would you need "privacy" from your husband? You mean like having a bf on the side? Thats mean... You guys should be able to share :D
uh... not privacy from d husband dude... privacy from his parents and fuckin family. d'oh!

[Angel_Face_K]

Hello, Komzehhhhhhhhhh

Hows my little angel doing today?


O_o

I hate it when you people know me and I gots not clue about you...

[stylo_4444]

Why are you hiding behind your car in your pic? Are you trying to mask the uglyness of your face with the shinyness of your car?

Behind my car? Are you blind you stupid fuck? And I let people rate me too unlike you who doesn't have a pic...wow, now that sure isn't suspicious.

[Fire-n-Ice]

oh, like if he had a hot brother? Yeah, I understand.
ok... lemme explain this to u with a lil story...

so... i'm livin with my ex... and he hasnt come home all night. i was pissed off, mad, desperate to find out where d hell he was...

i called all of his friends, askin them.. hey have u seen him? have u heard from him? where d hell is he?

when he came home d next morning, his dad told him... yeah she was callin a bunch of guys and u shouldnt allow her to do that. blah blah blah... and when i left him... his dad told a couple of ppl... yeah my son and her used to argue coz she had boyfriends... she used to talk on d phone all night with guys...

[Fire-n-Ice]

i'll be the type of wife...

i'll compromise with a certain things but i'm not gonna let him dictate to me wats right/wrong. i'll respect his family as long as they respect me. i will not obey his commands... if he requests and i think i can... i'll do it. i need a career for myself... i wanna make him proud of me... plus i dont wanna be in d position where i have to ask him for money... wat if sumthin happens? wat am i gonna do? and wat about all my shopping expenses? i wanna have a family of my own, i wanna have kids... but not until we're fully secure... i think we both need to enjoy to d fullest before i even think of goin that far... coz after that... u dont have time for each other. i wanna be a good wife & mommy but... i will not sacrifice my happiness for his.

[MrPatel2005]

So here how it goes…..
I want to get married soon, I want to cook, clean for my husband, and I want to obey his commands. I want to have a nice mother n father in law that I can treat good, I want to get on with my husbands family, and I want to be the best wife,
Women and men are not equal, and can never be. Men can be inferior in some ways and women can be inferior in other ways. It a women’s duty to make a family work, women creates the infrastructure of a home, women cant have both career and family, to me my career comes after my future family……
Does wanting all this make me narrow-minded?
:D
wow what a wife :Oops:

[Geezer]

i'll be the type of wife...

i'll compromise with a certain things but i'm not gonna let him dictate to me wats right/wrong. i'll respect his family as long as they respect me. i will not obey his commands... if he requests and i think i can... i'll do it. i need a career for myself... i wanna make him proud of me... plus i dont wanna be in d position where i have to ask him for money... wat if sumthin happens? wat am i gonna do? and wat about all my shopping expenses? i wanna have a family of my own, i wanna have kids... but not until we're fully secure... i think we both need to enjoy to d fullest before i even think of goin that far... coz after that... u dont have time for each other. i wanna be a good wife & mommy but... i will not sacrifice my happiness for his.

Nice views.

[Fire-n-Ice]

wow what a wife :Oops:
wait till u have to deal with all d tantrums. lol...

[SAHI_PASHTOON]

you mean SEXIST....


who says thats sexist .....just cuz some white people tell us what sexism is thats the correct definition?

[Fire-n-Ice]

Nice views.
a lot of people wont agree... but i could care less... i've already been thru all d b.s. to go through it again... not gonna ruin my life over some fool who thinks a wife's a baby making machine.

anyways, sup sweetie? :D

[Fire-n-Ice]

sohail: i see u! :p

[Geezer]

a lot of people wont agree... but i could care less... i've already been thru all d b.s. to go through it again... not gonna ruin my life over some fool who thinks a wife's a baby making machine.

anyways, sup sweetie? :D

I personally couldnt be with a wife that hasnt got a career and friends and life of her own as that is what would attract me to her in the first place. Obviously that doesnt mean that she should desert her husband and kids but she should definitely not sacrifice her ambitions and dreams. After all, you go half on a baby.

Im jolly good thanks, you?

[Fire-n-Ice]

I personally couldnt be with a wife that hasnt got a career and friends and life of her own as that is what would attract me to her in the first place. Obviously that doesnt mean that she should desert her husband and kids but she should definitely not sacrifice her ambitions and dreams. After all, you go half on a baby.

Im jolly good thanks, you?
well... thats why u dont wana have kids till u fully enjoyed ur life, right? that way... when u do, u can devote all ur time to them and about friends... my friends will never come before my husband, i know that for sure. he'll always be my first priority. i hope he'll feel d same...

tired, just got back from work.. tryin to eat sumthin and relax a bit before i go to sleep.