I am sexiest and I am proud.....

[Geezer]

i'm lazy too but i had a lot of counter-arguments abt d stuff she said... ah fuck it...

work? was amazing today... this hot guy gave me his phone #. lost it. lol... who cares? he was 21. dangit. yup... thats it... highlight of my day... oh yah.. and i only have 2 more days then party!!

Hate it when that happens, stupid hot guys :mad:

I just revised all day, bought a bucket of KFC and went to my mates flat, played xbox, had a coffee and came back to do more work...boring. I finish exams on the 19th, party season coming up!

[Fire-n-Ice]

didn't i give u mine a few days back :rolleyes:
technically, u didnt give it to me... u stalked me with it. :hahano:

kiddin... i lab u. :hug: yesterday i gwach u... today i labh u. :p

[Fire-n-Ice]

Hate it when that happens, stupid hot guys :mad:

I just revised all day, bought a bucket of KFC and went to my mates flat, played xbox, had a coffee and came back to do more work...boring. I finish exams on the 19th, party season coming up!
OMFG! u did not just say KFC!!?? ugh!! I LOVE KFC! grrrr.... now i'm cravin it. hmmm... mashed potatoes and gravy... ummmm mmm...

yup yup... hopefully i'll get sum more pix.. i'll post em on wed.

[mr photographer]

technically, u didnt give it to me... u stalked me with it. :hahano:

kiddin... i lab u. :hug: yesterday i gwach u... today i labh u. :p

babes ... you gave it to me off your own free will :eyebrow:

you know you are my :angel:

[solarez]

nuttin wrong wif that? i dont think its sexist! since its ur choice that u wanna be a housewife....:-)

[WildWolfdog]

so then why dont you stay home and cook and clean and wait on my every command (while not being oppressed), appreciate the fact that i became a succesfull buisness women, so our son can know his place in the world, and our daughter can know hers. ok?

After you become a successful business woman, after we have kids and after i learn how to cook and clean, we'll continue the convo. "ok?"

[Mr_Maz]

After you become a successful business woman, after we have kids and after i learn how to cook and clean, we'll continue the convo. "ok?"
wolfy you;ve changed our sig as well :D

[BC_Broad]

So here how it goes…..
I want to get married soon, I want to cook, clean for my husband, and I want to obey his commands. I want to have a nice mother n father in law that I can treat good, I want to get on with my husbands family, and I want to be the best wife,
Women and men are not equal, and can never be. Men can be inferior in some ways and women can be inferior in other ways. It a women’s duty to make a family work, women creates the infrastructure of a home, women cant have both career and family, to me my career comes after my future family……
Does wanting all this make me narrow-minded?
:D

well, i agree with almost everything except for the bold. i'm all for providing a great home for my husband, children and in-laws (he has to help, of course) but you are seriously putting the feminist movement back about 100 years with that comment. in north america, being obedient is a phrase used for training dogs. you said you're going into law school so i would have assumed that you're a strong, independent and liberated young woman...i don't see how that comment goes with the person that you portray to be. i know we've had this discussion but that comment has always bothered me and seeing it again makes me sick to my stomach.

[a.mystery]

So here how it goes…..
I want to get married soon, I want to cook, clean for my husband, and I want to obey his commands. I want to have a nice mother n father in law that I can treat good, I want to get on with my husbands family, and I want to be the best wife,
Women and men are not equal, and can never be. Men can be inferior in some ways and women can be inferior in other ways. It a women’s duty to make a family work, women creates the infrastructure of a home, women cant have both career and family, to me my career comes after my future family……
Does wanting all this make me narrow-minded?
:D

Have you lost your mind? You want to obey his every command?

[Fatty4life]

gah, not this thread again :shock:

[WildWolfdog]

well, i agree with almost everything except for the bold. i'm all for providing a great home for my husband, children and in-laws (he has to help, of course) but you are seriously putting the feminist movement back about 100 years with that comment. in north america, being obedient is a phrase used for training dogs. you said you're going into law school so i would have assumed that you're a strong, independent and liberated young woman...i don't see how that comment goes with the person that you portray to be. i know we've had this discussion but that comment has always bothered me and seeing it again makes me sick to my stomach.

i think the word "obedient" was the wrong word to choose but it had a better meaning behind it .. don't u think? It's somethin that doesn't seem to mix in with the rest of the post

[WildWolfdog]

wolfy you;ve changed our sig as well :D

what's so interesting about that? :cyclops:

[BC_Broad]

i think the word "obedient" was the wrong word to choose but it had a better meaning behind it .. don't u think? It's somethin that doesn't seem to mix in with the rest of the post

well, as long as she isn't the only one that's doing all the "obeying"....whatever the hell she meant by that. maybe its just me but i am a firm believer in equality and compromise. i will not take shit from my husband and nor do i expect him to take shit from me. its sad that some girls are raised to believe that their lives are at the husband's feet. i will raise my daughters to believe that they are not better or less than the next person...especially a man. there isn't enough preaching on equality in our culture.

[Fatty4life]

Verin is my hero.

[BC_Broad]

Verin is my hero.

lol shut up!

[a.mystery]

Yes, equality is the right word. Though no matter how hard we try, things still would go wrong, but thats how we learn and earn. Dont become a slave for someone. Live like an equal, respect and get respected.

[BC_Broad]

Yes, equality is the right word. Though no matter how hard we try, things still would go wrong, but thats how we learn and earn. Dont become a slave for someone. Live like an equal, respect and get respected.

well said.

[Fatty4life]

lol shut up!
no joke. in a non-stalkerish way, ofcourse.

[WildWolfdog]

well, as long as she isn't the only one that's doing all the "obeying"....whatever the hell she meant by that. maybe its just me but i am a firm believer in equality and compromise. i will not take shit from my husband and nor do i expect him to take shit from me. its sad that some girls are raised to believe that their lives are at the husband's feet. i will raise my daughters to believe that they are not better or less than the next person...especially a man. there isn't enough preaching on equality in our culture.

Eh that's why i said that the word "obedient" is out of context and improperly used or that it's having the wrong impression. I know what you mean about equality, i'd feel kind of weird though if my marraige was like the one u see in hindi movies when they are trying to show that the man is some kinda ogre while the woman is slaving away but i'm sure that's not really what Qupid meant. I THINK she meant that she would listen to her husband when it's somethin that seems logical and not argue over lil things and not given enough time to family because she wants to "pursue her career" since "equality" is the new in thing

[BC_Broad]

no joke. in a non-stalkerish way, ofcourse.

ok, thank you :)

[Aurovon]

well, as long as she isn't the only one that's doing all the "obeying"....whatever the hell she meant by that. maybe its just me but i am a firm believer in equality and compromise. i will not take shit from my husband and nor do i expect him to take shit from me. its sad that some girls are raised to believe that their lives are at the husband's feet. i will raise my daughters to believe that they are not better or less than the next person...especially a man. there isn't enough preaching on equality in our culture.

I agree. Most don't. So it sucks. Oh well.

[BC_Broad]

Eh that's why i said that the word "obedient" is out of context and improperly used or that it's having the wrong impression. I know what you mean about equality, i'd feel kind of weird though if my marraige was like the one u see in hindi movies when they are trying to show that the man is some kinda ogre while the woman is slaving away but i'm sure that's not really what Qupid meant. I THINK she meant that she would listen to her husband when it's somethin that seems logical and not argue over lil things and not given enough time to family because she wants to "pursue her career" since "equality" is the new in thing

i see your point, basil but she can clear it up on her own. i've spoken to her a bit and she is definitely a bright girl...i just wanna see her side.

[WildWolfdog]

i see your point, basil but she can clear it up on her own. i've spoken to her a bit and she is definitely a bright girl...i just wanna see her side.

Lol i forgot the phrase for a second i think it's brain freeze but it involes "contrary belief" i'm not trying to stand up for her or defend her. I'm trying to incorporate my view into her statement because i believe in the basic principle what she saying as well :)

[BC_Broad]

Lol i forgot the phrase for a second i think it's brain freeze but it involes "contrary belief" i'm not trying to stand up for her or defend her. I'm trying to incorporate my view into her statement because i believe in the basic principle what she saying as well :)

okay, i believe in listening, too but only as long as my husband does the same and treats me with the same level of respect. i think both parties need to "bend" and compromise in a relationship so all i'm saying is that i hope she doesn't think that she's the only one that has to listen and do whatever he says.

[a.mystery]

Lol i forgot the phrase for a second i think it's brain freeze but it involes "contrary belief" i'm not trying to stand up for her or defend her. I'm trying to incorporate my view into her statement because i believe in the basic principle what she saying as well :)

How would you put it, if you were a girl?

[WildWolfdog]

okay, i believe in listening, too but only as long as my husband does the same and treats me with the same level of respect. i think both parties need to "bend" and compromise in a relationship so all i'm saying is that i hope she doesn't think that she's the only one that has to listen and do whatever he says.

Ur rite, hopefully she's aware of that already though.

[WildWolfdog]

How would you put it, if you were a girl?

Put what exactly? The whole post or certain parts of it?

[a.mystery]

Put what exactly? The whole post or certain parts of it?

If you were to make this thread and have wrote all that she wrote. Is that how you would have described your self to be? Would you agree to everything she wrote down?

[miss_qupid]

miss qupid: are u sayin ur gonna spend d rest of ur life obeying his command... dudette.. he's gonna treat u like trash. plus thats just boring as hell... for u and for him...

i dunno.. but so far, wat i've understood about real men... they dont want a woman whos gonna do watever they say, they can just find a fuck buddy.... or some of them may say they want to... still... i would never wanna be with a guy like that. most men i've met, need a strong woman; who can stand up for herself and her man if she has to. They want someone who will catch them when they fall... wat if he looses his job? how d hell's he gonna support u? i agree with a few things like getting along with his family and stuff but not to the point where you wont even have privacy anymore.
Wanting all this doesnt mean im going to let some1 treat me like trash, im sure i will be respected and much loved for what i shall provide. Wanting all this doesnt neccasarily mean i am not going to have my own life, or its going to be boring, im sure there will be more to the relationship then my being his slave. Women are very powerfull, they can make or brake a man.

[Fatty4life]

come to think of it. I agree with her somewhat. I mean, Im all for taking care of the kids, being a good wife/daughter-in-law. However, I would not want that to be my only identity.

[BC_Broad]

Wanting all this doesnt mean im going to let some1 treat me like trash, im sure i will be respected and much loved for what i shall provide. Wanting all this doesnt neccasarily mean i am not going to have my own life, or its going to be boring, im sure there will be more to the relationship then my being his slave. Women are very powerfull, they can make or brake a man.

would you rather be loved for who you are or for what you can provide?

[Fatty4life]

Wanting all this doesnt mean im going to let some1 treat me like trash, im sure i will be respected and much loved for what i shall provide. Wanting all this doesnt neccasarily mean i am not going to have my own life, or its going to be boring, im sure there will be more to the relationship then my being his slave. Women are very powerfull, they can make or brake a man. I think people misunderstood you because you came off as a subservient person. I'm starting to agree with you more and more now that you're starting to elaborate, and no that doesnt make u sexist or narrowminded.

[a.mystery]

, and im not trying to judge by saying that she has wrote something wrong. those are her views and i totally respect them, but as a human being and living in a world where women are not always equaly treated. Would her saying that she would obey her guys every command would help the girls lead in the right direction. I mean isn't it about getting the same from both sides. How does that sound to you? Again, I have nothing against her views. I could have misunderstood her message, so just trying to clear the facts.

[miss_qupid]

well, i agree with almost everything except for the bold. i'm all for providing a great home for my husband, children and in-laws (he has to help, of course) but you are seriously putting the feminist movement back about 100 years with that comment. in north america, being obedient is a phrase used for training dogs. you said you're going into law school so i would have assumed that you're a strong, independent and liberated young woman...i don't see how that comment goes with the person that you portray to be. i know we've had this discussion but that comment has always bothered me and seeing it again makes me sick to my stomach.
Hunny im sure the guy i wish to spend the rest of my life with shall be some1 who will understand me, fulfills my wishes and and treat me good. The statment is very brief, im not going to get married to a fool who doesnt know how to treat a women right. But y are ppl assuming that i will become a housewife? Thats just going to be part of my life, i will work, and im sure nowadays guys are more understanding then before.

[BC_Broad]

Hunny im sure the guy i wish to spend the rest of my life with shall be some1 who will understand me, fulfills my wishes and and treat me good. The statment is very brief, im not going to get married to a fool who doesnt know how to treat a women right. But y are ppl assuming that i will become a housewife? Thats just going to be part of my life, i will work, and im sure nowadays guys are more understanding then before.

it was the way you said it. but, thanks for clearing it up.0

[WildWolfdog]

If you were to make this thread and have wrote all that she wrote. Is that how you would have described your self to be? Would you agree to everything she wrote down?

I basically agree with everythin she wrote, i'll copy paste it and if i change anythin it will be in bold


I want to get married soon, (lol thats just her personal wish) I want to cook, clean for my husband, and I want to obey his commands (appreciate my husband and want him to know that i love him, not just verbally but from my actions, i want to make him proud of me, appreciate me and love me). I want to have a nice mother n father in law that I can treat good, I want to get on with my husbands family, and I want to be the best wife,
Women and men are not equal, and can never be. Men can be inferior in some ways and women can be inferior in other ways. It a women’s duty to make a family work, women creates the infrastructure of a home, women cant have both career and family (if they do, both of them are rarely successful, one is almost always neglected, usually not on purpose), to me my career comes after my future family……
Does wanting all this make me narrow-minded?

[a.mystery]

Hunny im sure the guy i wish to spend the rest of my life with shall be some1 who will understand me, fulfills my wishes and and treat me good. The statment is very brief, im not going to get married to a fool who doesnt know how to treat a women right. But y are ppl assuming that i will become a housewife? Thats just going to be part of my life, i will work, and im sure nowadays guys are more understanding then before.

This is much better.

[miss_qupid]

would you rather be loved for who you are or for what you can provide?
Hun as individuals and human race we are selfish, we dont love some1 just for who they are but what they can offer in return, that doesnt neccasarily mean materialistic things, it can mean love, some1 to understand you, some1 to give u pleasure etc. What we do and give is part of who we are. Its by-standard behaviour, there is no true alturism in the world.

[Fatty4life]

I basically agree with everythin she wrote, i'll copy paste it and if i change anythin it will be in bold


I want to get married soon, (lol thats just her personal wish) I want to cook, clean for my husband, and I want to obey his commands (appreciate my husband and want him to know that i love him, not just verbally but from my actions, i want to make him proud of me, appreciate me and love me). I want to have a nice mother n father in law that I can treat good, I want to get on with my husbands family, and I want to be the best wife,
Women and men are not equal, and can never be. Men can be inferior in some ways and women can be inferior in other ways. It a women’s duty to make a family work, women creates the infrastructure of a home, women cant have both career and family (if they do, both of them are rarely successful, one is almost always neglected, usually not on purpose), to me my career comes after my future family……
Does wanting all this make me narrow-minded?
number 2 sounds like she'll be a slave. number 3, your interpretation of it is not true, from what I've seen- women CAN and very well DO manage both quite well.
but it doesnt really matter, since she cleared it up anyway

[Azeem]

My wife can work....ill be the home maker

[WildWolfdog]

Lol i forgot the phrase for a second i think it's brain freeze but it involes "contrary belief" i'm not trying to stand up for her or defend her. I'm trying to incorporate my view into her statement because i believe in the basic principle what she saying as well :)

contrary to popular belief .. lol that's what i was trying to say :D

[BC_Broad]

Hun as individuals and human race we are selfish, we dont love some1 just for who they are but what they can offer in return, that doesnt neccasarily mean materialistic things, it can mean love, some1 to understand you, some1 to give u pleasure etc. What we do and give is part of who we are. Its by-standard behaviour, there is no true alturism in the world.

okay, what you are saying NOW makes sense. however, in your initial post, you kind of made it seem like your sole purpose was to provide him with whatever he wanted...fulfill his whims. but, since you've cleared it up, i get you. cool?

[Fatty4life]

contrary to popular belief .. lol that's what i was trying to say :D
lol, that was cute. :D

[a.mystery]

number 2 sounds like she'll be a slave. number 3, your interpretation of it is not true, from what I've seen- women CAN and very well DO manage both quite well.
but it doesnt really matter, since she cleared it up anyway

Exactly, and WildWolfdog, thank you for your answer.

[WildWolfdog]

number 2 sounds like she'll be a slave. number 3, your interpretation of it is not true, from what I've seen- women CAN and very well DO manage both quite well.
but it doesnt really matter, since she cleared it up anyway

they can, but if it's a regular job, if it's something like a career which requires extra work it becomes pretty difficult to manage both

[Fatty4life]

they can, but if it's a regular job, if it's something like a career which requires extra work it becomes pretty difficult to manage both
well, true. If they're over ambitious, they have to choose one or the other.

[WildWolfdog]

lol, that was cute. :D

lol :p girls are weird they find the most uncutest things cute lol but heh i'll take it

And Mystery, ur welcome

[a.mystery]

This is interesting. You guys have good views.

[WildWolfdog]

well, true. If they're over ambitious, they have to choose one or the other.

Lol that's all i'm trying to say i'm not trying to be some sort of sexist guy who thinks that women should be MADE to stay at home. Just that it becomes difficult sometimes and one or the other is neglected, even if u are trying to work at it .. haha seems like all the misunderstandings are gettin cleared in the thread.

[miss_qupid]

okay, what you are saying NOW makes sense. however, in your initial post, you kind of made it seem like your sole purpose was to provide him with whatever he wanted...fulfill his whims. but, since you've cleared it up, i get you. cool?
LOL.... i shudnt have had to clear things up, it was just to see how ppl reacted without actually getting the full picture, its just funny how ppl judge us on the opinion we make with asking us questions and undertanding where we are coming from. But majority of the response i got was predictable especially from the young individuals.

[miss_qupid]

I am smarter than Mizz Qupid. Even though her booty pops out so much in that skirt.
my oh my u again.... how many ids do u have?

[WildWolfdog]

I am smarter than Mizz Qupid. Even though her booty pops out so much in that skirt.

Kindly fuck off :)

[BC_Broad]

LOL.... i shudnt have had to clear things up, it was just to see how ppl reacted without actually getting the full picture, its just funny how ppl judge us on the opinion we make with asking us questions and undertanding where we are coming from. But majority of the response i got was predictable especially from the young individuals.

well, considering how this is a forum where we can't speak but only judge others based on what they say, its understandable for people to base opinions on what they see. your first post in this thread sounded different from what you said a little while ago so you can see the importance in writing out a proper comment so others can get a better of idea of what you are trying to say. you can't blame us for working with what we were given. the responses you got should be taken with a breath of fresh air because hardly enough kids from our generation are open-minded and believe in equality...you should be glad that some of the female posters on this board were, in a way, looking out for you because we thought you meant something else.

[WildWolfdog]

Replace Fuck with Jack, and you got yourself a deal :cool:

Mizz Qupid is my e-gf. Please let us e-flirt as we see fit. Thank you, Basil.

haha okay since u know my name i prolly know u, u stud u. I'm sorry for interfering, please, continue and let me bud out.

[miss_qupid]

well, considering how this is a forum where we can't speak but only judge others based on what they say, its understandable for people to base opinions on what they see. your first post in this thread sounded different from what you said a little while ago so you can see the importance in writing out a proper comment so others can get a better of idea of what you are trying to say. you can't blame us for working with what we were given. the responses you got should be taken with a breath of fresh air because hardly enough kids from our generation are open-minded and believe in equality...you should be glad that some of the female posters on this board were, in a way, looking out for you because we thought you meant something else.
Thats totally understandable, but the whole motif was to see how ppl reacted to my opinion, if i elobarated it i wudnt have got such a great response. and what do u mean the the females were looking out for me?

[miss_qupid]

Replace Fuck with Jack, and you got yourself a deal :cool:

Mizz Qupid is my e-gf. Please let us e-flirt as we see fit. Thank you, Basil.
HUH wat?

[a.mystery]

Thats totally understandable, but the whole motif was to see how ppl reacted to my opinion, if i elobarated it i wudnt have got such a great response. and what do u mean the the females were looking out for me?

Were trying to defend your views, I believe.

[BC_Broad]

Thats totally understandable, but the whole motif was to see how ppl reacted to my opinion, if i elobarated it i wudnt have got such a great response. and what do u mean the the females were looking out for me?

i'm glad you see my point. well, when i say look out, i mean that they were concerned that you'd just be "obedient" and not ask for anything yourself. most of the people, including myself, misunderstood what you meant.

[miss_qupid]

i'm glad you see my point. well, when i say look out, i mean that they were concerned that you'd just be "obedient" and not ask for anything yourself. most of the people, including myself, misunderstood what you meant.
cool, well thats so nice of you, im a psychology student and humans intrigue me, it was in a way an experiment.... But thnxs so much im sure you know girls from our generations are much smarter and doplomatic then ever, yet with femmine touch. As i stated b4, women can create or brake a man.

[BC_Broad]

This coming from an "independent" woman who wants nothing less than a 3ct diamond ring (which would cost $20,000)...?

yup. i don't want a fugly ring on my nicely manicured finger :cool:

[BC_Broad]

When anyone says anything on this site, its usually an opinion that they believe in. They were trying to say that you should be independent and not rely on a man. They think that would be best for you becaause its their opinion.

What they fail to recognize is that there are other people in the world who share different opinions.

By berating someone and saying harsh, mean things you will not convince them to change their mind on a subject. This is where most RD girls screw up.

who was being mean to her? why can't guys just stay out of things that they clearly don't understand?

[a.mystery]

NEVERRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRR!
:cool:

Your sig is making me hungry.

[BC_Broad]

Which the man would pay for, right? Or do you plan on buying your own ring?

he's going to buy it. i'm too independent to buy my own wedding ring...that's just too butch :cool:

[miss_qupid]

Were trying to defend your views, I believe.
Well thnx hun, but they didnt need defining, im not trying to be harsh. But the generation we live the people in respecting other opinions, accepting their morals and yet soo many tried to change my opinion, there is and was nothing wrong with the initial post, its just brief and i got judged that i will let a man walk all over me....

[a.mystery]

cool, well thats so nice of you, im a psychology student and humans intrigue me, it was in a way an experiment.... But thnxs so much im sure you know girls from our generations are much smarter and doplomatic then ever, yet with femmine touch. As i stated b4, women can create or brake a man.

Wrong, so very wrong. Why must you say that? Please explain?

[BC_Broad]

Well thnx hun, but they didnt need defining, im not trying to be harsh. But the generation we live the people in respecting other opinions, accepting their morals and yet soo many tried to change my opinion, there is and was nothing wrong with the initial post, its just brief and i got judged that i will let a man walk all over me....

but your title says that you are sexist and proud...so you are obviously going to get judged. did you expect a pat on the back?

[miss_qupid]

but your title says that you are sexist and proud...so you are obviously going to get judged. did you expect a pat on the back?
lol, hun i sed SEXIEST... it was deliberate.......it was curiosity, i dnt have tendency to be very serious.... as is ed the responses were predictable, no expectations...... i love to learn.

[miss_qupid]

Wrong, so very wrong. Why must you say that? Please explain?
hmmm, what im trying to say as women we are very powerful.

[a.mystery]

hmmm, what im trying to say as women we are very powerful.

And i don't disagree, but don't say that the power they hold can make and brake a man. You are miss using the term.

[Shiv3rX]

u have issues.

[miss_qupid]

And i don't disagree, but don't say that the power they hold can make and brake a man. You are miss using the term.
lol, am not stop over analysing my statments.

[miss_qupid]

u have issues.
who?

[BC_Broad]

lol, hun i sed SEXIEST... it was deliberate.......it was curiosity, i dnt have tendency to be very serious.... as is ed the responses were predictable, no expectations...... i love to learn.

i don't understand what you were trying to learn? first you said it was an experiment to get a rise out of us but then you said its something you stand behind. i don't know about you, but i am sick to death with the way desi girls are treated and viewed in our society and after seeing a fellow desi girl make a topic such as this, you can't blame me for questioning your state of mind. i know that there are many desi girls with a primative way of thinking but it sickens the hell outta me and if this was your idea of a fun joke or experiment then you really need to reconsider psychology....and, i can say this because i've done psych and wouldn't dare "experimenting" with a topic like this on impressionable desi girls.

[Irreligious Left]

Could you please change the title of this thread so that it makes sense?

Thanks.

[a.mystery]

u have issues.

With all your respect, your writing just that shows that you got issues as well. Don't generalize it.

[Shiv3rX]

who?

ur dog :confused: .. you duh!... obviously since i was posting in ur thread :confused:

[Shiv3rX]

With all your respect, your writing just that shows that you got issues as well. Don't generalize it.

thats a different kind of issue. :confused:

[Shiv3rX]

Are you a model? You should be one.

:confused: .. no... im short for modeling.. btw.. off topic. :confused:

[a.mystery]

lol, am not stop over analysing my statments.

I don't know what you mean, but anyways!

[a.mystery]

i don't understand what you were trying to learn? first you said it was an experiment to get a rise out of us but then you said its something you stand behind. i don't know about you, but i am sick to death with the way desi girls are treated and viewed in our society and after seeing a fellow desi girl make a topic such as this, you can't blame me for questioning your state of mind. i know that there are many desi girls with a primative way of thinking but it sickens the hell outta me and if this was your idea of a fun joke or experiment then you really need to reconsider psychology....and, i can say this because i've done psych and wouldn't dare "experimenting" with a topic like this on impressionable desi girls.

Well said. Let's just hope that she gets it.

[miss_qupid]

i don't understand what you were trying to learn? first you said it was an experiment to get a rise out of us but then you said its something you stand behind. i don't know about you, but i am sick to death with the way desi girls are treated and viewed in our society and after seeing a fellow desi girl make a topic such as this, you can't blame me for questioning your state of mind. i know that there are many desi girls with a primative way of thinking but it sickens the hell outta me and if this was your idea of a fun joke or experiment then you really need to reconsider psychology....and, i can say this because i've done psych and wouldn't dare "experimenting" with a topic like this on impressionable desi girls.
Hunny its no joke, i was just curious and yes that is the way i want to lead my life, if my mode of thinking was narrow minded, and if wanting all this was well sorta typical? i wanted to know what the other females thought about it, and well males to., i may contradict some of my statments, but im a lil confused at the moment, biology exam in another 3 hours and im here.... tut tut . its not a joke, b'cus if it was, i wudnt be here elobarating, but its nice to know how considerate ppl are.

[Irreligious Left]

Mr.IL, if you have read through this thread, you would know you are asking the impossible.

Ah, that was my problem. It was 13 pages when I saw, and did not want to read all those pages of piss-poor aguments and poorly reasoned conclusions. That said, the OP does seem like a maroon.

As for me being on Thaiz's list... Donkey_Stud1022 was my suggestion.

I like it.

[miss_qupid]

ur dog :confused: .. you duh!... obviously since i was posting in ur thread :confused:
why do i have issues?

[WildWolfdog]

why do i have issues?

come back to my dating thread and break it off with babyface :love:

[sarb]

that sounds like some lame email ppl forward to like 1000 of ther friends.

[WildWolfdog]

that sounds like some lame email ppl forward to like 1000 of ther friends.

hanji?

[PreciousPari]

So here how it goes…..
I want to get married soon, I want to cook, clean for my husband, and I want to obey his commands. I want to have a nice mother n father in law that I can treat good, I want to get on with my husbands family, and I want to be the best wife,
Women and men are not equal, and can never be. Men can be inferior in some ways and women can be inferior in other ways. It a women’s duty to make a family work, women creates the infrastructure of a home, women cant have both career and family, to me my career comes after my future family……
Does wanting all this make me narrow-minded?
:D

First of all, no it does not make you narrow-minded. Why? Because everyone wants the best of the best. But needless to say, we cant have it all. We can try and try and yet our wishes and desires will remain unfufilled.
And who doesnt want a great husband, mother in law, father in law and the rest that comes along with it? I doubt there is a human being out there that wants any less of that.
Secondly, how can you say a woman cant have a career and a family at the same time? Im sorry but you are in no place or position to even state that is true. You're not married yet, you havent started your family yet and may be havent started your career yet. So what makes you think a married woman with a family cant have a career also? That is outrageously BOGUS! I know plenty of desi womEn that have it all and work for it. They are the house-wife, the career goal oriented woman, the workaholic daughter in law and the list goes on. And they still manage to keep their family and marriage in tact. Some of these girls are old fashioned and like Verin said, primitive. But that doesnt mean she cant be there for her family if she is working. Heck, she is there, providing for them. Its a woman's duty to help, love, and nuture her family in more ways than one but its a marriage that makes a relationship/family work. It takes two to tango remember?
And lastly, how does this make you the sexiest? Im not too sure if that was a tactic to get people to read your thread or what. And honestly, you might not be narrow-minded but you sure are naive. You need to step into reality and step out of the dream world you are living in.

[the big d]

So here how it goes…..
I want to get married soon, I want to cook, clean for my husband, and I want to obey his commands. I want to have a nice mother n father in law that I can treat good, I want to get on with my husbands family, and I want to be the best wife,
Women and men are not equal, and can never be. Men can be inferior in some ways and women can be inferior in other ways. It a women’s duty to make a family work, women creates the infrastructure of a home, women cant have both career and family, to me my career comes after my future family……
Does wanting all this make me narrow-minded?
:D

More power to u if that's what u want to do. I would only worry about getting bored, u need 2 have some activities to keep u occupied, cant always be cooking, cleaning, trying to make other ppl happy...