Would You???????????

[xosonixo]

so i was just thinking... you all probably have gf/bf's and stuff.. but what if you didnt marry them or didnt get to marry them.....and you got married to someone else... would you tell your new hubby/wifey about your old love.. or old g/f's or b/f's? do you think they should know?

just a thought.. just since ive seen so many desi guys and gal's havin bf/gf..... :confused:

[indeeracer]

I would..only reason I wouldn't would be if she lived next door..or married someone my wife knows...but then again..I don't have a gf..last of the single desis in my clique..LOL Wait..that's not good either..awww shit..see what you started...I now I gotta go find a gf..kinda hard when you live in hickville USA (Norco, CA)

[chingchingching]

well i havent had a boyfriend yet...

but if i dont end up getting married to my future boyfriend, yes i will tell my husband about him/them :p

[xosonixo]

awwwww lol im 18! and i havent had a boyfriend..so thats good knowing some people are good enuff to not have 1....in Islam it says not to have premarital relationships... so you guys are better off..

i dont think i could ever tell my husband about my other love... (if i ever had 1) becuz it just brings them so much pain.. with them knwoing you loved sum1else before them.. and that ur love isnt just for them but was shared... i wouldnt want my husband to tell me such a thing.. i would b soo hurt.... but i wud still love him...

[chingchingching]

awwwww lol im 18! and i havent had a boyfriend..so thats good knowing some people are good enuff to not have 1....in Islam it says not to have premarital relationships... so you guys are better off..

i dont think i could ever tell my husband about my other love... (if i ever had 1) becuz it just brings them so much pain.. with them knwoing you loved sum1else before them.. and that ur love isnt just for them but was shared... i wouldnt want my husband to tell me such a thing.. i would b soo hurt.... but i wud still love him...

well most guys have had a previous relationship, i mean its just something thats so common these days you just have to accept it...

[Dutty Dutty LuV]

nope... dont do it! wut if he/she turns out to be an emotional freak and become insecure after u tell them... gunna screw u lot over... wut they dunno... wont hurt em and if the worst happens... deny deny deny!!!

:D

[xosonixo]

yah thats true.... but their are some who havent.. lolzz like indeer.. j.k indee! lolz but if y husband ever had another gf....umm i would b ok wif it... as long as he doesnt have feelings for her anymore.. ofcourse!

[xosonixo]

hahaah LOL dutty... yah.. but i think a good relationship works only with honesty...if u keep that a secret.. it'll just eat u up and hurt you everytime u look @ them that y i cant have a bf! lolz i dont think i would have the ballz 2 tell my hubby about him

[Shawk-A-Zullu]

lol well... i've only had one girlfriend so far, and that was just last summer.. but she broke up with me cuz she's hmong and her parents weren't cool with us being together.. she listened to them and broke it off with me =\

but we still hella coo friends.. and yeah, if i really did fall in love with some girl and never ended up getting married to her, rather another person.. i'd prolly tell them out of just an informal talk.. lol why not? just another thing to talk about.. and joke about.. she could tell me her past loves too :D

[xosonixo]

^ exactly.. i wud have 2 tell them i wud feel so guilty!

[indeeracer]

well i havent had a boyfriend yet...

but if i dont end up getting married to my future boyfriend, yes i will tell my husband about him/them :p

can I be your first boyfriend? ;)

[Dutty Dutty LuV]

hahaah LOL dutty... yah.. but i think a good relationship works only with honesty...if u keep that a secret.. it'll just eat u up and hurt you everytime u look @ them that y i cant have a bf! lolz i dont think i would have the ballz 2 tell my hubby about him


guilty? lol eat u up inside? lol really? wow... hmm sum things just better left unsaid.... besides it doesnt matter... wuts in the past is in the past.. shouldnt matter...

i gotta go bafroom

bye

[chingchingching]

can I be your first boyfriend? ;)

u wanna be my first e-boyfriend? :lollol: :p

[xosonixo]

lol go to the bafroom aisha! lol sum things r better UNSAID!

[IPunjabi.Blood]

im a good boy. my future is saved.

[xosonixo]

lolz aww thats good :)

[Seeeeeeema]

yeh i wud.. no big deal..

before getting married i wud tell him everything.. but i wud make sure this doesnt affect my relationship with my husband..

you have to draw a line in every relationship