View Full Version : Why do so many desis wanna be light skinned?
hollisterdesi
January 6th, 2005, 12:34 AM
Do they wanna look Caucasian? Then y do they accuse ppl of being whitewashed if they do?
Personally, I like a lighter skin tone, but not like white to the extent others want, cuz I still wanna be brown. Like I'm kinda light brown now, and I think a lighter brown wood be the perfection complexion, like not even white, cuz as I said, I still wanna be brown. But yeah.
Any take on this?
Fatty4life
January 6th, 2005, 12:36 AM
im dark.
LiLJonBitch
January 6th, 2005, 12:36 AM
hmm i see
dr_sinister1001
January 6th, 2005, 12:36 AM
Cause,
White > All
Fucking immigrants.
chunky
January 6th, 2005, 12:36 AM
just as many wish they were black. it balances out.
Fatty4life
January 6th, 2005, 12:36 AM
Cause,
White > All
Fucking immigrants.
whites are immigrants too :confused:
dr_sinister1001
January 6th, 2005, 12:37 AM
whites are immigrants too :confused:
That's not what it says in the bible...
Fatty4life
January 6th, 2005, 12:37 AM
That's not what it says in the bible...
it doesnt? :confused:
pimpn it
January 6th, 2005, 12:38 AM
i dont wannnaa be light skinned.... :confused:
hollisterdesi
January 6th, 2005, 12:39 AM
So no1 else is like me? They all wanna be like peach? They dont wanna be lighter brown like me? Damn...negroids :)
Aurovon
January 6th, 2005, 12:39 AM
i bleach my skin
shadab
January 6th, 2005, 12:39 AM
because it is human nature to try to emulate those in power and attempt to be one of the "in people". and obviously white people are the most powerful in the world right now.
yankelicious
January 6th, 2005, 12:39 AM
doesnt matter..as long as i have clean skin..
Fatty4life
January 6th, 2005, 12:42 AM
i bleach my skin
:Pale:
SholaShabnam
January 6th, 2005, 12:42 AM
hmm i see
you are FINE!!!!
That Bitch
January 6th, 2005, 12:42 AM
just as many wish they were black. it balances out.
LOL!!!!
Seems like many ethnic communities have this color complex...I wish it weren't so! The only purpose it serves is to divide...
The Desi Muggle
January 6th, 2005, 12:44 AM
I think it has a lot to do with history and the appeal of the "exotic" or whatever, and this idea has just lasted over the years, at least in a lot of North India....It's the same reason why Oriental people put a shitload of white powder on their face...so they look white.
Another reason why is because back then, skin tone generally indicated your caste...if you were dark, that generally indicated you worked out in the fields and did labor work and all that and then vice versa......
But in a lot of areas, i think South India (not sure) as well as in Africa, the darker you are in skin tone, the more attractive you are.....your skin color is seen as a sign of pride.
ii_khushi86_ii
January 6th, 2005, 12:45 AM
because it is human nature to try to emulate those in power and attempt to be one of the "in people". and obviously white people are the most powerful in the world right now.
i agree..
SholaShabnam
January 6th, 2005, 12:46 AM
the slaves basically poor people were out in the sun and they got dark obviously while the rich people stayed in the house and werent as dark
so this complex is associated with wealth and status
i think its ridiculous
what people do to have fair skin, its one thing to be born that way but people do stupid shit like put powder on their skin. what the hell. i don't know about india but i dont see how people in pakistan can look at the ugliest face and call it beautiful just because its fair colored.
mita615
January 6th, 2005, 12:46 AM
I like being tan
SholaShabnam
January 6th, 2005, 12:47 AM
I think it has a lot to do with history and the appeal of the "exotic" or whatever, and this idea has just lasted over the years, at least in a lot of North India....It's the same reason why Oriental people put a shitload of white powder on their face...so they look white.
Another reason why is because back then, skin tone generally indicated your caste...if you were dark, that generally indicated you worked out in the fields and did labor work and all that and then vice versa......
But in a lot of areas, i think South India (not sure) as well as in Africa, the darker you are in skin tone, the more attractive you are.....your skin color is seen as a sign of pride.
oops didnt see this before i posted
krazy_desi187
January 6th, 2005, 12:49 AM
im a light brown color.... n i like it that way... wouldnt wanna be darker or whiter then i already am :thumright:
methodman535
January 6th, 2005, 12:50 AM
Do they wanna look Caucasian? Then y do they accuse ppl of being whitewashed if they do?
Personally, I like a lighter skin tone, but not like white to the extent others want, cuz I still wanna be brown. Like I'm kinda light brown now, and I think a lighter brown wood be the perfection complexion, like not even white, cuz as I said, I still wanna be brown. But yeah.
Any take on this?
Why dont you start by explaining why you really like a lighter brown.
GenYu|N Pak|
January 6th, 2005, 12:51 AM
most pakis are lighter compared to indians
That Bitch
January 6th, 2005, 12:52 AM
Exactly...same with blacks...house vs field slaves and their "status"...and in the book I posted in that book thread, the woman was using skin-lightening cream on her face because her auntie and mother basically told her that that was the best way to get a husband faster...not to mention "wheat complexion" preferences in the matrimonial ads she looked at!
Unless you tryna be on some Wacko Jacko type shit, not much you can do about it!
hollisterdesi
January 6th, 2005, 12:52 AM
Why dont you start by explaining why you really like a lighter brown.
Its the perfect complexion. Im light brown naturally, and lighter brown sumtimes. And when I see myself as a lighter brown, I look better. Its the best of all worlds really, white+black+brown. Its perfection in my opinion. I dont care if I'm "fair", just a lighter brown is fine.
Resa
January 6th, 2005, 12:54 AM
why would you want to be white skinned? white people tan so they'll look like us ;)
anyways, i do agree with hollisterdesi. i think there's a nice tone of brown (not unnaturally white or anything) that isnt too light and isnt too dark. personally if i get darker it looks kind of ashy. not a nice tan shade.
yup.
bigjoe
January 6th, 2005, 12:54 AM
Exactly...same with blacks...house vs field slaves and their "status"...and in the book I posted in that book thread, the woman was using skin-lightening cream on her face because her auntie and mother basically told her that that was the best way to get a husband faster...not to mention "wheat complexion" preferences in the matrimonial ads she looked at!
Unless you tryna be on some Wacko Jacko type shit, not much you can do about it!
i need a tan .......
That Bitch
January 6th, 2005, 12:54 AM
Its the perfect complexion. Im light brown naturally, and lighter brown sumtimes. And when I see myself as a lighter brown, I look better. Its the best of all worlds really, white+black+brown. Its perfection in my opinion. I dont care if I'm "fair", just a lighter brown is fine.
Your complexion is gorgeous...you'll be aight!
That Bitch
January 6th, 2005, 12:56 AM
i need a tan .......
You're in Ft. Lauderdale, that shouldn't be a problem! LOL! I LOVE going to South Beach and laying in the sun reading all day...I turn a delicious, chocolatey brown with gold undertones. YUH!
DJDaNGeR
January 6th, 2005, 12:57 AM
most pakis are lighter compared to indians
this difference is only visible to desis. for everyone else all of ya'll look the same. brownz
bigjoe
January 6th, 2005, 12:58 AM
You're in Ft. Lauderdale, that shouldn't be a problem! LOL! I LOVE going to South Beach and laying in the sun reading all day...I turn a delicious, chocolatey brown with gold undertones. YUH!
i was j/p , look how dark i am .... if i stay in da sun i turn darker than this....
GenYu|N Pak|
January 6th, 2005, 12:58 AM
this difference is only visible to desis. for everyone else all of ya'll look the same. brownz
tru
krazy_desi187
January 6th, 2005, 12:58 AM
this difference is only visible to desis. for everyone else all of ya'll look the same. brownz
lol so tru :cop:
hollisterdesi
January 6th, 2005, 12:59 AM
Your complexion is gorgeous...you'll be aight!
lol thnx...u rock
hollisterdesi
January 6th, 2005, 01:00 AM
why would you want to be white skinned? white people tan so they'll look like us ;)
anyways, i do agree with hollisterdesi. i think there's a nice tone of brown (not unnaturally white or anything) that isnt too light and isnt too dark. personally if i get darker it looks kind of ashy. not a nice tan shade.
yup.
u rock too yaar
Tigr
January 6th, 2005, 01:01 AM
What you talking about. Indians weigh much less.
That Bitch
January 6th, 2005, 01:02 AM
i was j/p , look how dark i am .... if i stay in da sun i turn darker than this....
Man, I know you were! Nothing wrong with getting some sun though! LOL!
@ Hollis - you're welcome! Desi guys are FOINE in any color, and don't let anyone tell you any different!
thaiz
January 6th, 2005, 01:02 AM
I like the color that i have now, and I love my tan in summer but living in this country being no-white is almost a sin, and when ppl see me in summer they are like :O what happend to u ??.... so obviously i dont want that so of course i like my skin ligther... one of the things i love of winter :P
Resa
January 6th, 2005, 01:03 AM
u rock too yaar
doncha know it ;) lol, anyways. you know whats a nice colour? the colour of chocolate milk. :P
hollisterdesi
January 6th, 2005, 01:03 AM
Man, I know you were! Nothing wrong with getting some sun though! LOL!
@ Hollis - you're welcome! Desi guys are FOINE in any color, and don't let anyone tell you any different!
:D will u marry me
lol jp
That Bitch
January 6th, 2005, 01:06 AM
:D will u marry me
lol jp
Young man, I am too old for you, but my cousin just turned 11! LMAO!!!
krazy_desi187
January 6th, 2005, 01:06 AM
doncha know it ;) lol, anyways. you know whats a nice colour? the colour of chocolate milk. :P
nooooooo.... a peanut butter complextion... chea :cool:
Resa
January 6th, 2005, 01:08 AM
nooooooo.... a peanut butter complextion... chea :cool:
but .. but.... vivan bhatena looks like chocolate milk coloured! :p
zimmy24
January 6th, 2005, 01:10 AM
the slaves basically poor people were out in the sun and they got dark obviously while the rich people stayed in the house and werent as dark
so this complex is associated with wealth and status
i think its ridiculous
what people do to have fair skin, its one thing to be born that way but people do stupid shit like put powder on their skin. what the hell. i don't know about india but i dont see how people in pakistan can look at the ugliest face and call it beautiful just because its fair colored.
i disagree with u
ya most pakis associate lighter skin with beauty
but i have a cousin with bluegrey eyes/light brown hair/very white roseyish skin but she isnt really attractive and NO one ever says she's pretty
i have this other cousin with brown skin, black hair, black eyes but she's very pretty and every one says she's gorgeous.
even in pakiland if ur beautiful it doesnt matter if ur dark. like that model neha is very dark but she's like the most gorgeous model right now according to most people.
I think its just white people who want everyone to think people want to be like them. The headline in yesterdays newspaper was "mother escapes tsunami in india cuz she went out to buy fair and lovely( a whitening paste)" wtf? she also went to buy other shit but that was the title. :mad:
why the fuck dont white people get hated on for tryin to be brown? isnt that equally bad?
krazy_desi187
January 6th, 2005, 01:10 AM
but .. but.... vivan bhatena looks like chocolate milk coloured! :p
ill give u that 1....but i still i like the peanut buttery colour ...lol
zimmy24
January 6th, 2005, 01:12 AM
this difference is only visible to desis. for everyone else all of ya'll look the same. brownz
but who cares what other people think. in the british times, the britishers thought everyone outside england was black. i call that ignorance.
zimmy24
January 6th, 2005, 01:14 AM
why is it that whenever i write well thought out essays everyone ignores them :(
insomniac987
January 6th, 2005, 01:16 AM
I like the skin color I have.....and whether or not I have dark skin or light skin wouldnt matter because it doesnt change the fact that im indian
zimmy24
January 6th, 2005, 01:16 AM
why is it that whenever i write well thought out essays everyone ignores them :(
and whenevr i cry no one comforts me :ashamed:
That Bitch
January 6th, 2005, 01:17 AM
i disagree with u
ya most pakis associate lighter skin with beauty
but i have a cousin with bluegrey eyes/light brown hair/very white roseyish skin but she isnt really attractive and NO one ever says she's pretty
i have this other cousin with brown skin, black hair, black eyes but she's very pretty and every one says she's gorgeous.
even in pakiland if ur beautiful it doesnt matter if ur dark. like that model neha is very dark but she's like the most gorgeous model right now according to most people.
I think its just white people who want everyone to think people want to be like them. The headline in yesterdays newspaper was "mother escapes tsunami in india cuz she went out to buy fair and lovely( a whitening paste)" wtf? she also went to buy other shit but that was the title. :mad:
why the fuck dont white people get hated on for tryin to be brown? isnt that equally bad?
Right? But it's because THEY set the standards for beauty in most cases...before it was desireable to be pale and pasty as (forget her name and can't see the other page) said, but now the darker the better.
The difference is that we have melanin and don't shrivel up and get skin cancers when we are older because that protects us.
Now you have people like Alek Wek that are supermodels, gracing the covers of Elle and Vogue when just ten years ago she woulda been a HARDCORE spearchucking jungle bunny!
http://image.guardian.co.uk/sys-images/Guardian/Pix/pictures/2000/02/15/zpix7.jpg
But you still have that "standard" and you can see it in a lot of R&B singers that have blonde hair and you can barely tell them apart anymore! That pisses me off.
zimmy24
January 6th, 2005, 01:19 AM
Right? But it's because THEY set the standards for beauty in most cases...before it was desireable to be pale and pasty as (forget her name and can't see the other page) said, but now the darker the better.
The difference is that we have melanin and don't shrivel up and get skin cancers when we are older because that protects us.
Now you have people like Alek Wek that are supermodels, gracing the covers of Elle and Vogue when just ten years ago she woulda been a HARDCORE spearchucking jungle bunny!
http://image.guardian.co.uk/sys-images/Guardian/Pix/pictures/2000/02/15/zpix7.jpg
But you still have that "standard" and you can see it in a lot of R&B singers that have blonde hair and you can barely tell them apart anymore! That pisses me off.
all that 'love of white skin is a colonial thing' is crap. most subcontinenters liked light skin before that too JUST cuz richer people stayed indoors and poor people worked outside and got brown.
SAHI_PASHTOON
January 6th, 2005, 01:20 AM
because it is human nature to try to emulate those in power and attempt to be one of the "in people". and obviously white people are the most powerful in the world right now.
brilliant analysis ....although i dont believe its human nature , you basically SUMMED it up.
That Bitch
January 6th, 2005, 01:25 AM
all that 'love of white skin is a colonial thing' is crap. most subcontinenters liked light skin before that too JUST cuz richer people stayed indoors and poor people worked outside and got brown.
Yeah, I believe it! It stems from varying cultures but only worsens with the impact of racism...
hollisterdesi
January 6th, 2005, 01:39 AM
Most of the Muslims who have light skin aren't that way b/c they came from rich Hindu families that stayed indoors centuries ago. Its b/c the local Indians who were converted by the Mughals married the Mughals as well. So in essence, they have Turkish, Persian, Afghan, and or Arabic ancestry in them. People in the Middle East are all lighter skinned, except for Arabs, but even many of them intermingled with other races such as Persian.
MR2Turbo
January 6th, 2005, 01:42 AM
I'm already light biatch. From my Arabian ancestry.
That Bitch
January 6th, 2005, 01:43 AM
Most of the Muslims who have light skin aren't that way b/c they came from rich Hindu families that stayed indoors centuries ago. Its b/c the local Indians who were converted by the Mughals married the Mughals as well. So in essence, they have Turkish, Persian, Afghan, and or Arabic ancestry in them. People in the Middle East are all lighter skinned, except for Arabs, but even many of them intermingled with other races such as Persian.
Ahaha..check out the young buck droppin knowledge! I agree with you there too, but the fact remains that no matter its origin, the desirability persists.
At the rate that races are mixing, maybe this won't be an issue much longer cause everyone will be the same color! LOL!
hollisterdesi
January 6th, 2005, 02:06 AM
Ahaha..check out the young buck droppin knowledge! I agree with you there too, but the fact remains that no matter its origin, the desirability persists.
At the rate that races are mixing, maybe this won't be an issue much longer cause everyone will be the same color! LOL!
lol sure thing
WonkaBear
January 6th, 2005, 02:08 AM
I want to be invisible when its snowing... thats why i wanna be light skinned :rolleyes:
methodman535
January 6th, 2005, 03:02 AM
Its the perfect complexion. Im light brown naturally, and lighter brown sumtimes. And when I see myself as a lighter brown, I look better. Its the best of all worlds really, white+black+brown. Its perfection in my opinion. I dont care if I'm "fair", just a lighter brown is fine.
But see...you wanna go LIGHTER not darker than you are. Why wouldnt you prefer to be slightly darker. Thats hypocrisy.
ninjaiqra
January 6th, 2005, 03:05 AM
um i dont wanna be lighter.i think my color is ok
Irreligious Left
January 6th, 2005, 03:10 AM
I think its just white people who want everyone to think people want to be like them. The headline in yesterdays newspaper was "mother escapes tsunami in india cuz she went out to buy fair and lovely( a whitening paste)" wtf? she also went to buy other shit but that was the title. :mad:
Sounds like BS. Post the link to the article.
indianchick87
January 6th, 2005, 03:14 AM
I like the skin color I have.....and whether or not I have dark skin or light skin wouldnt matter because it doesnt change the fact that im indian
ur freakishly white for an indian :)
slightly_toasted
January 6th, 2005, 03:42 AM
Same Reason whites wanna get tans cuz they think it'll look good on em haha but in the end all the end up wid is rinkles n sunburns :Punch: as for desiz they're dark well theres only hope for their offspring so marry a white gurl n u can breed out atleast yer childern will be lighter n their childern will be whiter :rolleyes:
chingchingching
January 6th, 2005, 04:05 AM
i go to tannn
i dont think ALL desi's are obsessed with being white...before yeah almost everyone would want to be light skinned but its changing now
-superman-
January 6th, 2005, 04:18 AM
I like being light ... makes me different than the typical indian
IPunjabi.Blood
January 6th, 2005, 04:21 AM
i never said i do. i like my brown ass.
typeOnegative
January 6th, 2005, 04:36 AM
why is it that whenever i write well thought out essays everyone ignores them :(
Hey! Nice essay. :)
Seeeeeeema
January 6th, 2005, 05:06 AM
i think dark ppl are hot too.. like bipasha.. i m not dark.. my best friend is and she drives me nuts about her colour.. but i relaly dont think theres n e thing wrong with it..
typeOnegative
January 6th, 2005, 05:18 AM
Most of the Muslims who have light skin aren't that way b/c they came from rich Hindu families that stayed indoors centuries ago. Its b/c the local Indians who were converted by the Mughals married the Mughals as well. So in essence, they have Turkish, Persian, Afghan, and or Arabic ancestry in them. People in the Middle East are all lighter skinned, except for Arabs, but even many of them intermingled with other races such as Persian.Whats with you and Muslims? :rolleyes: Sheeessshh!
Cunard
January 6th, 2005, 06:32 AM
just as many wish they were black. it balances out.
well said
:applause:
lilbugger
January 6th, 2005, 04:41 PM
just as many wish they were black. it balances out.
Messikan here :evil:
sensousglitter
January 6th, 2005, 04:49 PM
i want a tan, damnit, right now!
BoNeThuG
January 6th, 2005, 04:52 PM
meh light skin is alright i must say having it is a hassle
Whizkid786
January 6th, 2005, 05:07 PM
I like being light ... makes me different than the typical indian
If you're Superman, I'm Jor-El. lol
It's a bird, it's a plane, no its'''..ooh fuck where's my wallet?
Whizkid786
January 6th, 2005, 05:10 PM
Hollisterdesi looks like a spoiled tangerine in that pic, just saying.
hollisterdesi
January 6th, 2005, 06:11 PM
Hollisterdesi looks like a spoiled tangerine in that pic, just saying.
ok...ass
But see...you wanna go LIGHTER not darker than you are. Why wouldnt you prefer to be slightly darker. Thats hypocrisy.
Did u read my previous posts? The complexion I sumtimes have (and would want to have most of the time) is the PERFECT complexion. Its the best of all worlds, black+white+brown. Right in between if we showed it on a spectrum. Brown is the best of the 2 worlds (white and black) and the brown I like is the best of the brown world. Not light as hell, but not dark as hell either. Just perfect. I'm close to it but not really, and I wanna do sum research and find out how to maintain your complexion and wut not.
Khusum
January 6th, 2005, 06:12 PM
i like bein dark. i use to have hang ups on it & wanted to get my skin bleached, but i completely embrace it now. especially in the wintertime when everybody is pasty & white.
brown is beautiful.
hollisterdesi
January 6th, 2005, 06:14 PM
i like bein dark. i use to have hang ups on it & wanted to get my skin bleached, but i completely embrace it now. especially in the wintertime when everybody is pasty & white.
brown is beautiful.
explain to me this whole skin bleaching deal im not familiar with it (aside from michael jackson jokes)
That Bitch
January 6th, 2005, 06:21 PM
Truth be told, it confuses me too....I know that some women use it for uneven blotches, but I can't get the result in my head without thinking about Michael or Lil Kim or someone equally disturbed! LOL
hollisterdesi
January 6th, 2005, 06:22 PM
So in essence...
What is skin bleaching?
How is it done?
Where is it done?
How much does it cost?
Does it hurt?
Are there any negative long term effects?
How effective is it?
Can the desired result be attained?
CorruptNightfall
January 6th, 2005, 06:27 PM
Meh, bleaching your skin is bad, fine you MAY get that colour you want but it's bad for your skin cells and all. I've done it to my face once a long time back but I laugh at it, I'm with my skin colour, plus it is pretty fair so I'm happy with it. Be proud of who you are! God made you that way!
hollisterdesi
January 7th, 2005, 12:48 AM
so wut is it now lol
That Bitch
January 7th, 2005, 01:00 AM
Man, you still trippin off this shit?! LMAO! Wassup?
hollisterdesi
January 7th, 2005, 01:02 AM
yes. im very self-concious. im having female issues so im kinda just exploring stuff.
jstealth03
January 7th, 2005, 01:03 AM
i'm only light for like the winter months...once that sun comes out, i'm full out brown.
The Desi Muggle
January 7th, 2005, 01:05 AM
OMG just google it.
That Bitch
January 7th, 2005, 01:10 AM
yes. im very self-concious. im having female issues so im kinda just exploring stuff.
What kind of female issues? Did some bitch call you a tar baby, or WHAT?!?! ha ha ha ha ha
hollisterdesi
January 7th, 2005, 01:17 AM
No. Im jus being self concious about my appearance. Im havin probs with this girl and Im wondering if this has anything 2 do with it. Idk sry Im bein dumb, Im jus all self concious and crap, its hard 2 explain. Other girlls were fine with the way I looked but Idk...like I said im being dumb. Sry. Continue with the discussion.
PS, Discussion > googling shit
That Bitch
January 7th, 2005, 01:32 AM
Yeah, you're young, these things happen...but you have got to feel comfortable in your own skin before you worry about the next bitch, trust me!
It is your lack of confidence that will be more of a repellent...there's really nothing else to say on the matter, young buck! ;)
hollisterdesi
January 7th, 2005, 01:34 AM
Ehhh idk bout that...I have allt he confidence in the world. Like I think Im better than most ppl (lol) and I ca accomplish anyuthing and always walk tall...sum even say Im conceited (im not tho)...Im jus self concious. And idk this girl is beign real gay with me right now and Idk wut to do. So im jus doing random stuff like this i guess.
That Bitch
January 7th, 2005, 01:36 AM
Well what kind of problems are you having? And why is skin color an issue, then? That would be the last thing on my mind if I were digging a guy...
Fayzzz
January 7th, 2005, 01:40 AM
I guess PPl still have the problem that Michelle Jackson had!!!!
I personally think hot healthy asians look a lot better :D
hollisterdesi
January 7th, 2005, 01:58 AM
Well what kind of problems are you having? And why is skin color an issue, then? That would be the last thing on my mind if I were digging a guy...
lol i know, idk y im here, its just a plethera of randomness. PM me if u really care 2 no bout this crap. or IM me on AIM.
That Bitch
January 7th, 2005, 02:04 AM
You PM me!! Tell mommy wassamatta wif da baby! Awww! LMAO!
Khusum
January 7th, 2005, 03:06 PM
explain to me this whole skin bleaching deal im not familiar with it (aside from michael jackson jokes)i dunno wot its called but they do it in india. my cousin gets her skin bleached the last time she was in mumbai. the cream they use smells awful. its like a combination of mercury, clorox, and achar.
but the shit works. she went from kajol to manisha koirala within 30 minutes.
ShivaChrist
January 7th, 2005, 03:13 PM
i dunno wot its called but they do it in india. my cousin gets her skin bleached the last time she was in mumbai. the cream they use smells awful. its like a combination of mercury, clorox, and achar.
but the shit works. she went from kajol to manisha koirala within 30 minutes.
lol
Well it could be simply people wanting to be what they aren't... I mean, I'd prefer my skin was a little darker - and if I went to a tanning salon I would have darker skin (I've been told my family gets a nice dark tan). But I don't want anything bad to happen to my skin so I've stayed away from that. Now, if I was naturally darker that would be cool.
So again, its like they say - opposites attract lol
hollisterdesi
January 7th, 2005, 05:28 PM
i dunno wot its called but they do it in india. my cousin gets her skin bleached the last time she was in mumbai. the cream they use smells awful. its like a combination of mercury, clorox, and achar.
but the shit works. she went from kajol to manisha koirala within 30 minutes.
Wuts achar? And isnt mercury toxic to the skin? And why did she get her skin bleached if she had Kajol's complexion...Kajol has a good complexion.
methodman535
January 18th, 2005, 08:02 AM
So in essence...
What is skin bleaching?
How is it done?
Where is it done?
How much does it cost?
Does it hurt?
Are there any negative long term effects?
How effective is it?
Can the desired result be attained?
Even the guys now. :no:
gap_employee
January 18th, 2005, 08:12 AM
So in essence...
What is skin bleaching?
How is it done?
Where is it done?
How much does it cost?
Does it hurt?
Are there any negative long term effects?
How effective is it?
Can the desired result be attained?
the main ingrediant in skin bleaching creams is hydroquinone. anything over 5% will work. although it works, you have a higher chance of developing skin cancer. and yes, you can bleach yourself at home w/ anything under 5% hydroquinone.
xosonixo
January 18th, 2005, 08:12 AM
why u wanna b lighter skin.. if u do.. use FAIR n Lovely :) brown is good...
methodman535
January 18th, 2005, 08:22 AM
why u wanna b lighter skin.. if u do.. use FAIR n Lovely :) brown is good...
Speaking from experience are we? http://home.comcast.net/~methodman535/ps/yahoo_snicker.gif
xosonixo
January 18th, 2005, 08:25 AM
lolz
nothin 2 hide.. ive used it.. in paki... hahahaa it kinda worked... eh..
MENACINGSTRANGER
January 18th, 2005, 08:35 AM
just as many wish they were black. it balances out.
People want to act black, no one wants to look black, literally.
drogba15_cfc
January 18th, 2005, 09:41 AM
i dont wannnaa be light skinned.... :confused:
u dun need to be...gorgeous jus the way u r!
Geezer
January 18th, 2005, 09:43 AM
I quite like a chocolate brown complexion, especially when mami come out the bath and applies that cocoa butter...oof
GQ Menace
January 18th, 2005, 10:16 AM
Do they wanna look Caucasian? Then y do they accuse ppl of being whitewashed if they do?
Personally, I like a lighter skin tone, but not like white to the extent others want, cuz I still wanna be brown. Like I'm kinda light brown now, and I think a lighter brown wood be the perfection complexion, like not even white, cuz as I said, I still wanna be brown. But yeah.
Any take on this?easy i can answer this one for u Millhouse, brown ppl wanna be light skinned and white ppl wanna be brown cause thats why they tann for hours and hours, the grass is greener on the other side of the fence.
MolviCorleone
January 18th, 2005, 10:23 AM
I want to be silver........i like silver.
silver>>>gold in my opinion
sexii mamii 2nv
January 18th, 2005, 10:37 AM
the slaves basically poor people were out in the sun and they got dark obviously while the rich people stayed in the house and werent as dark
so this complex is associated with wealth and status
i think its ridiculous
what people do to have fair skin, its one thing to be born that way but people do stupid shit like put powder on their skin. what the hell. i don't know about india but i dont see how people in pakistan can look at the ugliest face and call it beautiful just because its fair colored.
so true :mad:
subdued
January 18th, 2005, 10:55 AM
i wish i was dark skinned, im too white
Dutty Dutty LuV
January 18th, 2005, 11:00 AM
my initial reaction was ... 'thats so fucked up' but then i thought.... hmm... i wear makeup .... why?.... to obviously look better n stuff.... so if sumone else feels the same desire regarding skin colour... i really have no right to judge them... even though from within it still feels so wrong for ppl to feel that way... but again... i can't judge now can i?
caramelcutie15
January 18th, 2005, 11:09 AM
most people usually want what they cant have.. ie. desis liking white skin
white colored people..paying to get "tanned" color.
girls w/curly hair want straight hair
girls w/straight hair complain they can't do anything
blah blah blah....
Lycansupreme
January 18th, 2005, 12:07 PM
The desire for light skin (and the corollary dislike for dark skin) seems to be true in almost every culture around the world.
The Main Man Mai
January 28th, 2005, 03:19 PM
Do they wanna look Caucasian? Then y do they accuse ppl of being whitewashed if they do?
Personally, I like a lighter skin tone, but not like white to the extent others want, cuz I still wanna be brown. Like I'm kinda light brown now, and I think a lighter brown wood be the perfection complexion, like not even white, cuz as I said, I still wanna be brown. But yeah.
Any take on this?
i like my skin tone
wouldn't change it for anything
Soul
January 28th, 2005, 03:37 PM
I take sun to get more tanned... :eekwtf:
RajMalhotra
January 28th, 2005, 04:43 PM
Because white people are superior in every single way. Dont you remember Hollymonkey?
xosarahbabiox
June 28th, 2005, 06:48 PM
I think a light brown skin tone is so pretty...but just because someone is dark doesnt make them ugly!! There are so many people who have dark complexions but are gorgeous...but yea, i used to (and still kinda do) want light skin cuz it looks nice...i guess im over it now, but before i was like eww i hate being dark bla bla bla...ieven though im not even dark. but yea its just everyone's preference i guz... :rolleyes:
desi_luscious
March 18th, 2006, 05:08 PM
Do they wanna look Caucasian? Then y do they accuse ppl of being whitewashed if they do?
Personally, I like a lighter skin tone, but not like white to the extent others want, cuz I still wanna be brown. Like I'm kinda light brown now, and I think a lighter brown wood be the perfection complexion, like not even white, cuz as I said, I still wanna be brown. But yeah.
Any take on this?
lol funny
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