Long Distance Relationships?

[m prince]

I am sure lot of ppl got into some long dis relationships ... did anyone actually Succeed??? :confused:

[m prince]

well im sure they do if they have good intentions
dunch u think they get over protective in such relationships?? :rolleyes:

[SharpenedMango]

im currently in 1. since it still exists, i presume its succesful

[hellayah]

dunch u think they get over protective in such relationships?? :rolleyes:
ya they really hard cuz, both persons get frustrated not being with each other, and then every little thing escalates to something biggier. but i am sure it could work out

[jus_me]

personally i dont think they do

from my own experience, the guy becomes far to jealous and starts questioning everything u do and everyone u go out with bla bla bla...im pretty laid bak so it didnt bother me dat he was goin out with other girls...funny thing is, he was sooo jealous of wat i was doin and i didnt cheat on him whereas i trusted him and he went and done the dirty on me..

o well..u win some, u lose some and im glad a i lost him (obviously i wasnt at the time..)

[m prince]

im currently in 1. since it still exists, i presume its succesful
i guess it depends how much u trust tha person!!! did u ever fuk around with other chicks while u ere in this relationship?? cuz she wont b there to keep an eye on ya!!

[thaiz]

Its very hard to keep a long-distance relationship, u need to love the person a lot and have a good comunication with him/her...and of course the person should feel the same.

[SharpenedMango]

i guess it depends how much u trust tha person!!! did u ever fuk around with other chicks while u ere in this relationship?? cuz she wont b there to keep an eye on ya!!

yeah its all about trust...........its very very difficult to maintain but we are solid as a rock becoz of communication.....we talk for an hour every day (or we used to, she's gone for a holiday in pakistan.......this is the longest i haventtalked to her in 2 years ;( )

but yeah like thai says its all about communication

oh yeah, and the relationship needs to be already strong b4 it becomes long distance (in my opinion)

[googled]

I don't think it'll work when you don't know what the other person is up to wherever they're @. UNLESS you're willing to give all up for it

[ndnTB]

Im only 13, but my girlfriend and I have been together for 2 years. She lives in India

[m prince]

Its very hard to keep a long-distance relationship, u need to love the person a lot and have a good comunication with him/her...and of course the person should feel the same.
i agree.. actually m in one !! its not workin out, we have arguments everyday on some stupid stuff :rolleyes: m thinkin to take a break!

[chichori]

tried and tested: nope they dont work

[grandprix606]

i've been in loads of long distance relationships and i honestly think they're hard but if you're willing to take the effort they can be awesome. i've gone out with boys that live near me and i even went out with a guy recently that lived 20 minutes away and i got to see him and everything but the relationship wasn't that great cuz he didn't do anything ever. i was the only one making the effort so it just depends on the guy. if you have a guy that's far away but cares about you and who you can trust and who also makes an effort so you dont' have to do all the work, go for him totally. no matter how far he is. distance makes the heart grow fonder and i most definitely have learned that. hmm so yea i'm done.. peace out!

[SharpenedMango]

i even went out with a guy recently that lived 20 minutes away

!? i guess things change over time........a lot of ppl in the past generation had marriages wer the guy would be int he gulf/uk and the girl in india........now thats long distance...

im jus grateful shes only 170 miles away

[grandprix606]

yeaa that's true... i know plenty of ppl being in relationships with ppl far away.. but if you can handle it then it's awesome!

[m prince]

yeaa that's true... i know plenty of ppl being in relationships with ppl far away.. but if you can handle it then it's awesome!
its gettin hard for me to handle!! its been like 3 years.... and i dun wanna break her heart but at tha same time m not happy with it !! :ashamed:

[grandprix606]

well i went out with this one guy for over a year but like through out we took breaks and stuff.. which well, makes it more bareable.. maybe you just need a break hun

[SharpenedMango]

its gettin hard for me to handle!! its been like 3 years.... and i dun wanna break her heart but at tha same time m not happy with it !! :ashamed:

whats the end result meant to be???
marriage?
living together?
moving back2 the same city??
whats ur goal man?

[Teri Pyari Kiran]

I am sure lot of ppl got into some long dis relationships ... did anyone actually Succeed??? :confused:


well i lasted 4 3yrs with my last boyfriend he wuz in maryland and i wuz in virginia we met 3 times in 3 yrs but we broke up temporally due to sum factors in our relationship but when i go to college in the fall of this year we will b closer together everything will work out hopefully

[m prince]

whats the end result meant to be???
marriage?
living together?
moving back2 the same city??
whats ur goal man?
i think tha end will b break up!!! tha prob iz i got no valid reason to break up with her !! cuz shez really honest to me n i trust her n all tht buh i cheated on her sevral times buh still i dun wanna loose her i duno why! wha u guyz think does frst luv really succeed??? 90% fails frst time after u get into few relationships then only u figure out thingz in a better way and work it out!

[Teri Pyari Kiran]

i think tha end will b break up!!! tha prob iz i got no valid reason to break up with her !! cuz shez really honest to me n i trust her n all tht buh i cheated on her sevral times buh still i dun wanna loose her i duno why! wha u guyz think does frst luv really succeed??? 90% fails frst time after u get into few relationships then only u figure out thingz in a better way and work it out!


i honestly think that my relationship will succeed only time can tell

[xosonixo]

its ok if you trust her m prince.. but the question being is do you trust yourself? since you said you cheated on her.. does she know about this.. if she doesnt.. then why hurt her like that... if you dont wanna looseher make her special.. and not cheat.. hopefully you learned from ur mistakes on cheating and not cheating on her anymore....

thats y i never got into a relationship... you should always save yourself for that 1 special person who you'll marry... so you have nothing to hide for them.. and no lies to tell them.. and you'll love them.. because they'll be your first love...

[SharpenedMango]

i think tha end will b break up!!! tha prob iz i got no valid reason to break up with her !! cuz shez really honest to me n i trust her n all tht buh i cheated on her sevral times buh still i dun wanna loose her i duno why! wha u guyz think does frst luv really succeed??? 90% fails frst time after u get into few relationships then only u figure out thingz in a better way and work it out!

if you've cheated on her the trust is lost.....dont u think?? idk i've never been in a relationship wer one party has cheated.

what i meant to say was if there is no light at the end of the tunnel, theres no point in a long-distance relationship....in my relationship we plan to get married in summer '06 for example..

im not holding up mine to be a paragon of virtue im jus using it as an example coz well i cant claim2speak4others

[Teri Pyari Kiran]

its ok if you trust her m prince.. but the question being is do you trust yourself? since you said you cheated on her.. does she know about this.. if she doesnt.. then why hurt her like that... if you dont wanna looseher make her special.. and not cheat.. hopefully you learned from ur mistakes on cheating and not cheating on her anymore....

thats y i never got into a relationship... you should always save yourself for that 1 special person who you'll marry... so you have nothing to hide for them.. and no lies to tell them.. and you'll love them.. because they'll be your first love...


thats great advice gurl

[chingchingching]

personally i think it depends on the individual and how bad they want the relationship to work....

[xosonixo]

thats great advice gurl

aww thanx :) :)

n mango :) congrats... invite me 2 ur wedding! hehe insha'allah :rabbit:

[Teri Pyari Kiran]

yeh a gurl on rd named payal she noes how mah relationship is with mohsin rite gurlie?

[cutegal286]

basially i think its all dependant on trust, and how much u want to be in the relationship, honestly like i didnt have faith in it at first but im starting to think that there might be someone that id defintly wanna date and be willing to work with the distance
and hey kiran.. u n him i have total trust and faith u the two of u.. and u knw that im coming to that wedding of allz.. after all like he said.. im yallz first fan..lol :D

[SharpenedMango]

aww thanx :) :)

n mango :) congrats... invite me 2 ur wedding! hehe insha'allah :rabbit:

haha ty, yeah u shud come...............funny as hell signature by the way ;)

[xosonixo]

haha ty, yeah u shud come...............funny as hell signature by the way ;)

hahah danx... invite karo gai tou aaonghi na.. hopefully u kno roman urdu.. i type that randomly... aww ya! where is it gonna b in the states or back home... either way ur buying me a ticket...i only ride first class hahha j/p

[Teri Pyari Kiran]

basially i think its all dependant on trust, and how much u want to be in the relationship, honestly like i didnt have faith in it at first but im starting to think that there might be someone that id defintly wanna date and be willing to work with the distance
and hey kiran.. u n him i have total trust and faith u the two of u.. and u knw that im coming to that wedding of allz.. after all like he said.. im yallz first fan..lol :D


sure gurlie ur number one on mah list after all tha family lol
our numba 1 fan

[SharpenedMango]

hahah danx... invite karo gai tou aaonghi na.. hopefully u kno roman urdu.. i type that randomly... aww ya! where is it gonna b in the states or back home... either way ur buying me a ticket...i only ride first class hahha j/p

aar-ae!! u want ticket now2!!?? haha u better be livin in london4dat....i think thats wer im gonna get married......but to be honest i dont know....thats up2 her to decide i think!

[xosonixo]

^ aww kiran.. good luck with ur love.. hehe ur sucha pretty girl u deserve 1...
when will i find my rajaaaaaaaaa...haah eww.. dat was so fobby

[cutegal286]

sure gurlie ur number one on mah list after all tha family lol
our numba 1 fan


yall got school todai?

[xosonixo]

aar-ae!! u want ticket now2!!?? haha u better be livin in london4dat....i think thats wer im gonna get married......but to be honest i dont know....thats up2 her to decide i think!


awww okay.. well when i come to Uk i will.... no prob bob! im acutally coming to Leeds.... to visit my family leeds.. manchester... and ummmm london city hahaha so hurry up and shadi kar... so i can umm ummm wear my pretty langas and steal ur money...

[Teri Pyari Kiran]

^ aww kiran.. good luck with ur love.. hehe ur sucha pretty girl u deserve 1...
when will i find my rajaaaaaaaaa...haah eww.. dat was so fobby


thanks gurl i noe u will one day n when u do n if u still noe me let me noe ill b there

[ladoo ram]

no im not engaged in ne relationship rite now but i guess u can mentain a long distance relationship if ur truly madly deeply in love with the person n the same goes for the other person coz distance does not matter wat matters is how much do u love him or her n how much she or he love u :angel:

[Teri Pyari Kiran]

yall got school todai?


yeh gurlie im at school rite now ughh its goin by so slow

[xosonixo]

lol yah.. maybe ill find a hot brit @ mangos shadi.. right AAM? lol then ill get married along with mango :) sounds like a plan to mee

[m prince]

ma skool strts on 18 muahahah :D

[Teri Pyari Kiran]

lol yah.. maybe ill find a hot brit @ mangos shadi.. right AAM? lol then ill get married along with mango :) sounds like a plan to mee

lol haha yeh he can hook u up with one of his friends

[desiboibristol]

Well well I have been in 2 long distance rels lasting more that 3 years both... Man itz tuff to keep em even if u luv and trust sumbdy... so many hassles...!!!

Well one jus can't imagine how ur life becums once ur in long distance rel...!!!
Especially if net is not working or telephones are down... u jus can't go and reach em... have to wait patiently for long long time...

:bigsmurf:

[Teri Pyari Kiran]

ma skool strts on 18 muahahah :D

ughhh i hate u but its ok mah last year im off to college next yr

[cutegal286]

ma skool strts on 18 muahahah :D

not fair mine starts tomorrow...

aww kiran, did i tell u my school had a fire yesterday .. haha i kinda wish the whole school burned instead of just the gym..but it was funny anyways where is mohsin these days .. havent seen or heard from him in awhile..

[xosonixo]

mine startz 13th... ohh goddddddddd.... stop tlaking about school! eeekk!

m prince i hope it wokrs out fer u n stuff.. just make sure shes the girl you want to spend the rest of ur life with becuz ur wasting ur time and hers.... and just making it harder for u and herself to break up cuz u both will get inot this relationship more and bring more love into t and cause more pain @ the end

lolz i should b a pyschologist forget CARDIOlogy!
lolz

ishq ishqqqqq karna hai karley ishq ishq main jeelay marlayyyy ishq ishq na ho dubaraaaaaaaaaaaaaa...

[Teri Pyari Kiran]

not fair mine starts tomorrow...

aww kiran, did i tell u my school had a fire yesterday .. haha i kinda wish the whole school burned instead of just the gym..but it was funny anyways where is mohsin these days .. havent seen or heard from him in awhile..

ugh gurl i dunno wuts up with him but once i get to noe wut hes thinkin ill let u noe i wuz talkin to his boi juan yesterday n wutever he wuz sayin made me think a lot

how did ur school burn down i mean tha gym 2 ur school? lol

[Teri Pyari Kiran]

mine startz 13th... ohh goddddddddd.... stop tlaking about school! eeekk!

m prince i hope it wokrs out fer u n stuff.. just make sure shes the girl you want to spend the rest of ur life with becuz ur wasting ur time and hers.... and just making it harder for u and herself to break up cuz u both will get inot this relationship more and bring more love into t and cause more pain @ the end

lolz i should b a pyschologist forget CARDIOlogy!
lolz

ishq ishqqqqq karna hai karley ishq ishq main jeelay marlayyyy ishq ishq na ho dubaraaaaaaaaaaaaaa...

im gonna b a psychiatrist thats awesome great minds always thinka like ;)

[cutegal286]

ugh gurl i dunno wuts up with him but once i get to noe wut hes thinkin ill let u noe i wuz talkin to his boi juan yesterday n wutever he wuz sayin made me think a lot

how did ur school burn down i mean tha gym 2 ur school? lol


no idea how the school's gym caught on fire, ill find out tomorrow when we go bak.. um mohsin imed me sunday night but i fell asleep and when i woke up i saw his imes but ya.. well ill defintly try and get in touch wit him and see wats up.. anyways i better go take a shower .. ill ttyl like tonight .. bye take care have fun at school.. smile!

[Izzat]

Hey whats up, first time poster long time ratedesier, lol. I'm in a LD relationship and it is tough as hell. You wanna see that person more than anything else in this world. You have to have a serious amount of commitment and trust to make it successful. However i do believe that absence makes the heart grow fonder so I mean i think it can work out. People want what they can't have any not being able to see that person every day makes you want them even more.. i hope this is making some sense. I duno , just my humble opinion.

[Teri Pyari Kiran]

no idea how the school's gym caught on fire, ill find out tomorrow when we go bak.. um mohsin imed me sunday night but i fell asleep and when i woke up i saw his imes but ya.. well ill defintly try and get in touch wit him and see wats up.. anyways i better go take a shower .. ill ttyl like tonight .. bye take care have fun at school.. smile!

ok gurlie sure thing

[m prince]

Hey whats up, first time poster long time ratedesier, lol. I'm in a LD relationship and it is tough as hell. You wanna see that person more than anything else in this world. You have to have a serious amount of commitment and trust to make it successful. However i do believe that absence makes the heart grow fonder so I mean i think it can work out. People want what they can't have any not being able to see that person every day makes you want them even more.. i hope this is making some sense. I duno , just my humble opinion.
:rolleyes:

[WildWolfdog]

lol i was like in one where i met the person .. the e-ones .. never work :( or haven't so far .. :( .. i'll try like 2-3 times before givin up :yes:

[ndnTB]

Seriously, I think they can work. Well, I really hope they can...

[sarb]

my sisster lived here in cali while her bf lived in michigan for like a yr or 2 before she moved there with him for a yr or so. they just moved back here to cali this yr, and now they are engaged.

[WildWolfdog]

Seriously, I think they can work. Well, I really hope they can...

mee too .. tis hope which is the driving power, and thats not sayin much :(

[desiboibristol]

mee too .. tis hope which is the driving power, and thats not sayin much :(


:-p

[Teri Pyari Kiran]

my sisster lived here in cali while her bf lived in michigan for like a yr or 2 before she moved there with him for a yr or so. they just moved back here to cali this yr, and now they are engaged.

cute congradulations

[Cute_princess]

well in the starting they all say oh we love u and all thats shit but later they be cheating on u and u dont even know cuz u arent there and shit i mean i am not saying that u dont trust that person. its just that even some people live in the same city and shit they cheat then you talking about differnt state or country its hard to find true love cuz.

[sachin_patel]

well in the starting they all say oh we love u and all thats shit but later they be cheating on u and u dont even know cuz u arent there and shit i mean i am not saying that u dont trust that person. its just that even some people live in the same city and shit they cheat then you talking about differnt state or country its hard to find true love cuz.
well sometimes it happens when they start it for timepass..
if it turns into real feelings its different..




by the way ur dimple is cute..