how many guys does a girl have to sleep with until she becomes a slut?

[shadab]

i say that by 22 if she sleeps with 4 guys or more she's pretty slutty. this is assuming that she starts when she's 17/18.

ofcourse this being said for desi chicks and not anyone else for whom four would be close to the virgin mary in chastity.

[Aurovon]

lesbians?

[shadab]

lesbians?
sorry. edited.

[ShivaChrist]

i say that by 22 if she sleeps with 4 guys or more she's pretty slutty. this is assuming that she starts when she's 17/18.

ofcourse this being said for desi chicks and not anyone else for whom four would be close to the virgin mary in chastity.

So how many girls does a guy have to sleep with to be a man-slut?

[shadab]

So how many girls does a guy have to sleep with to be a man-slut?
i would say about the same. maybe one or two more. not really an exact science, more of a personal opinion.

[IPunjabi.Blood]

It's true.

[IPunjabi.Blood]

I have slept with many girls. What would that make me?

[Aurovon]

20+ id say

[Aurovon]

I have slept with many girls. What would that make me?
a skank!

[sensousglitter]

i would say about the same. maybe one or two more. not really an exact science, more of a personal opinion.
wow, numbers can now signify your degree of slutiness.

[sensousglitter]

I have slept with many girls. What would that make me?
you, slut you

[IPunjabi.Blood]

a skank!

that's not the word im looking for.

[IPunjabi.Blood]

you, slut you

precisely!

[Khusum]

all it takes is one filthy penis to enter & desecreate the walls of the sacred desi vagina and she is instantly the whore of babylon.

[sensousglitter]

precisely!
sluts are fun.

[Fire-n-Ice]

i'd say.. more than 3.

[ShivaChrist]

all it takes is one filthy penis to enter & desecreate the walls of the sacred desi vagina and she is instantly the whore of babylon.

lol

Well if it helps, not in my eyes Pooja. Though that description turned me on :shock:

[thaiz]

I'm prolly "old fashioned" (dont know if that is the word but w/e) but i strongly belive in sex after marriage therefor no any reason to sleep with more than one guy in this case one husband.

[Fire-n-Ice]

for me... a guy whos been with 2 girls before me... is acceptable... more than 5... i dont want him.

[royalbengal]

why do people refuse to fucking understand? woman and men are different.. equal but different.they are different in their own ways.. woman should be more chaste than men because guys dont get pregnant.. and slut is depend on many circumstance

ex: if she is "Muslim" then any premarital relationship.. doesnt even have to be sex makes her a slut
if she is "spanish" i say it depends how easy she is..

it all depends...

to me all "chicks are sluts, until proven otherwise"

[Aurovon]

for me... a guy whos been with 2 girls before me... is acceptable... more than 5... i dont want him.
how many guys have u banged?

[baby-face]

I'm prolly "old fashioned" (dont know if that is the word but w/e) but i strongly belive in sex after marriage therefor no any reason to sleep with more than one guy in this case one husband.
but what if he/she is crap in bed.... u wud have missed out on so much :?

[reaz]

atleast two. she's gotta figure out how it feels and once she gets hooked onto the feeling she goes around screwing guys. but yea. she needs to get laid atleast twice before she becomes a slut.

definition of slut: a promiscuous woman

you cant be promiscuous if you're with one or none. sorry if my answer's too objective. also thanks to today's society the idea of marriage is antiquated hence, ppl go around fucking like rabbits. defining the term "slut" becomes harder.

[shadab]

why do people refuse to fucking understand? woman and men are different.. equal but different.they are different in their own ways.. woman should be more chaste than men because guys dont get pregnant.. and slut is depend on many circumstance

ex: if she is "Muslim" then any premarital relationship.. doesnt even have to be sex makes her a slut
if she is "spanish" i say it depends how easy she is..

it all depends...

to me all "chicks are sluts, until proven otherwise"
you are stupider than dirt.

[shadab]

all it takes is one filthy penis to enter & desecreate the walls of the sacred desi vagina and she is instantly the whore of babylon.
don't ruin my thread with your sarcasm unless you are ready to show us more pics of that amazing ass.

[Fire-n-Ice]

how many guys have u banged?

my ex-husband.

[shadab]

my ex-husband.
lucky guy......

[Fire-n-Ice]

lucky guy......

he's lucky to bang me... but then i become a whore coz i've slept with a man. god forbid a woman should sleep with a man before marriage... omg.... like i know so many girls in india who've slept around... but guys never find out... coz... like FTJfag said... you just have to be smart about it...

[shadab]

hahaha, the day you look to ftjfag for advice is a sad day indeed. that kid is definately cool.

don't worry though, not all of us are like that and have that mentality. now about that alcohol problems of yours......

[Aurovon]

he's lucky to bang me... but then i become a whore coz i've slept with a man. god forbid a woman should sleep with a man before marriage... omg.... like i know so many girls in india who've slept around... but guys never find out... coz... like FTJfag said... you just have to be smart about it...
ohh blah ur not a whore

[Amberosia]

i say 2

[Aurovon]

i say 2
obviously uve fucked 1 guy so thas why u say 2, once u do another oen ull say 3.

[Fire-n-Ice]

hahaha, the day you look to ftjfag for advice is a sad day indeed. that kid is definately cool.

don't worry though, not all of us are like that and have that mentality. now about that alcohol problems of yours......

omg i have to take that damn sig down! i'm not an alcoholic... gawd guys... its just a sig... btw i took those myself.. with my camera phone, cool huh?

[shadab]

obviously uve fucked 1 guy so thas why u say 2, once u do another oen ull say 3.
seriously ****** whats your problem?

[shadab]

omg i have to take that damn sig down! i'm not an alcoholic... gawd guys... its just a sig... btw i took those myself.. with my camera phone, cool huh?
def cool and i was just joking around.

[Amberosia]

obviously uve fucked 1 guy so thas why u say 2, once u do another oen ull say 3.
actually..i was basin it on..you fall in love like what, once in your life? so u sleep with the guy..or u marry him n u sleep with a guy...but then if u break up n u sleep with someone else..its kinda hoey

for all you kno i am a virgin

or

i've fucked more than jenna jameson

either way, does it impact or effect who i am? and is it really that imperative to your existance?

[Aurovon]

seriously ****** whats your problem?
u took long enough. jeez i was gettin worried.

[pnp366]

6 1/2

[the_dark_drag0n]

Just one, if it's the 'right' guy. C'mon, you can't be a slut if you hide it well enough, but if you piss off even one guy he'll spread enough shit about you for nobody to believe you when you try to claim you're not.

Men are scum.

[Khusum]

Just one, if it's the 'right' guy. C'mon, you can't be a slut if you hide it well enough, but if you piss off even one guy he'll spread enough shit about you for nobody to believe you when you try to claim you're not.

Men are scum.thank u. i just had to login & give u a :rockon:

... okay not all but most.

[the_dark_drag0n]

thank u. i just had to login & give u a :rockon:

... okay not all but most.
lol Yeah. But those few make it look bad for all of them. Like it's hard to trust any of them cause of those few asses.

[phez]

thank u. i just had to login & give u a :rockon:

... okay not all but most.

See thread, "how many guys does a girl have to sleep with until she becomes a slut? "

[Prinçꧧ_NàLi]

i say that by 22 if she sleeps with 4 guys or more she's pretty slutty. this is assuming that she starts when she's 17/18.

ofcourse this being said for desi chicks and not anyone else for whom four would be close to the virgin mary in chastity.
i dont think you can call a girl slutty jus cause she decides to sleep with guys. what if shes had loads of long-term relationships and feels its right? a slut is not only defined by how many guys you screw but how u act and how easy in general u r. if a girl screws loadsa guys who she hardly knows then fair enough thats slutty. but i think that desi girls and guys tend to use the word slut so wrongly, its just a bitchy label for ppl cus theyr gettin sum and u aint. i dont see why guys r bigged up for gettin laid, but if a girl sleeps with her boyfriend of god knows how long shes suddenly this big hoe! :confused: :rolleyes:

[tdot_playa]

twooooooooooooooo

[SAHI_PASHTOON]

it depends numerous factors are involved

if its extra marital then JUST 1 makes her a "slut" if she's been married well stuff happens ..maybe if her husbands die for strange reasons maybe 4 , if she' gets divorced and remarried constantly. ...um yuck.

[SAHI_PASHTOON]

i dont think you can call a girl slutty jus cause she decides to sleep with guys. what if shes had loads of long-term relationships and feels its right? a slut is not only defined by how many guys you screw but how u act and how easy in general u r. if a girl screws loadsa guys who she hardly knows then fair enough thats slutty. but i think that desi girls and guys tend to use the word slut so wrongly, its just a bitchy label for ppl cus theyr gettin sum and u aint. i dont see why guys r bigged up for gettin laid, but if a girl sleeps with her boyfriend of god knows how long shes suddenly this big hoe! :confused: :rolleyes:


LOL being in loads of long term relationships isnt NOT just "slutty" its DESPERATE. if you cant make something work step back and take a look at yourself.

The reason men and women are varying in perception is because of the balance of nature between genders. What happens to a woman physiologically and psychologically is different than what happens to a man.

[miss_qupid]

i would say about the same. maybe one or two more. not really an exact science, more of a personal opinion.
y m0re for men n less for women, sexist aint ya

[miss_qupid]

i may sound vague isn saying this, but sleeping with guys is wrong, sex is one thing u can share with ur husband, but if u can sleep around regardless then u wont have much of a close relationship with ur husband.....
my opinion.

[Prinçꧧ_NàLi]

i may sound vague isn saying this, but sleeping with guys is wrong, sex is one thing u can share with ur husband, but if u can sleep around regardless then u wont have much of a close relationship with ur husband.....
my opinion.
i guess thats a nice idea, but many people feel that they are ready before marriage. jus because ur married doesnt necessarily mean its gonna be any deeper emotionally. ino married ppl who arent as deep in love, as people in long-term relationships. i think its jus personal judgement and i dont think you should really label anyone a slut unless they blatantly act like one, because people feel ready for sex at different times. jus cus ur brown dusnt mean its a crime to have a sexual relationship before marriage. personally, i would feel ready at the point where i can trust the guy fully, and see myself having a proper future with him, as in marriage etc. other peopl might jus be comfortable with having sex after a few months? it depends on how much you value the experience. :rolleyes: this doesnt apply to all desis, but i do find that they are too quick to label people as slutty, and its blatantly out of jealousy, even if a girl isnt sleeping with anyone, just if shes had more than one boyfriend her name is being thrown around and suddenly shes a "slut" its kind of sad really.

[Prinçꧧ_NàLi]

LOL being in loads of long term relationships isnt NOT just "slutty" its DESPERATE. if you cant make something work step back and take a look at yourself.

The reason men and women are varying in perception is because of the balance of nature between genders. What happens to a woman physiologically and psychologically is different than what happens to a man.
right....so what if you just happened to have bad luck in love now ur desperate. oh yeh that makes sense looollz.

[miss_qupid]

but hun the whole purpose of marriage is to share that emotional bond, those who are just married for the sake of marriage, well thats theire deal.
And in my religion and many other religions its a great sin to commt sexual intercourse b4 marriage.....
As i stated its my persional opinion.......

[Mr_Maz]

but hun the whole purpose of marriage is to share that emotional bond, those who are just married for the sake of marriage, well thats theire deal.
And in my religion and many other religions its a great sin to commt sexual intercourse b4 marriage.....
As i stated its my persional opinion.......
I've become a born again virgin since I met Miss Qupid

[FTJfag]

A chick automatically qualifies as a slut as soon as she fucks a tramp like me. Whether I’m her 1st or 20th is pretty irrelevant.

[Prinçꧧ_NàLi]

but hun the whole purpose of marriage is to share that emotional bond, those who are just married for the sake of marriage, well thats theire deal.
And in my religion and many other religions its a great sin to commt sexual intercourse b4 marriage.....
As i stated its my persional opinion.......
yeah i know but not everyone thinks that. i kind of agree i think that its a really special thing and should only be shared with some1 u truly love. but i dont think id necessarily have to be married to do it, just be sure that i trust the guy and love him truly, as in i could see myself being with him forever, a guy who i plan a long future with and see as potential marriage material. im not very religious so i dont follow the whole no sex b4 marriage thing but i wouldnt just do it with anyone obviously. however, if i felt ready before being married and was deeply committed, i wouldnt prohibit it.

[Mr_Maz]

FTJfag: never a more true word spoken..... ;)

[the_dark_drag0n]

A chick automatically qualifies as a slut as soon as she fucks a tramp like me. Whether I’m her 1st or 20th is pretty irrelevant.
LOL that's pretty right actually.

[DeZi]

i say that by 22 if she sleeps with 4 guys or more she's pretty slutty. this is assuming that she starts when she's 17/18.

ofcourse this being said for desi chicks and not anyone else for whom four would be close to the virgin mary in chastity.


eep :shock:

[sara khan]

but what if he/she is crap in bed.... u wud have missed out on so much :?

my sweet baby face, if she believs in sex after marriage, that makes her a vergion...also unexperienced...if her husband is crap in bed, that might be he is unexperienced...Conclusion: She wont know the difference, if he doesnt use the same lame moves year after year...But: theres always room for improvements :wink:

[spankme088719]

no offense to ANYone.. but i really dont think NUMBERS signify whether a person is a slut or not. Personally.. i dont even CARE about how many ppl my bf has slept with.. but i did get him tested and i went as well to let him know that i was safe to. Knowing is truly beautiful. Im just saying.. look within the person rather than the sex life. If the guy treats girls like objects or something.. Then yes at the time, he may not be the person you may want. OR if the girl poses for pornography claiming its the only way she can make money.. then YES at the time she may not be the person that you may want to be with at the time. I JUST HATE IT when ppl look at other ppl and judge them upon their number of sexual partners. Its not really fair. Im not saying I have had that many partners.. ill be honest, i've had one. But i have some friends with whom they have had sex with the guys that they thot they loved n such and it was more than one.. and they did have sex. TO BE HONEST.. i dont know WHY everyone makes sucha big deal about sex. Its totally natural.. society has made sex into something it wasnt meant to me.. at least in my opinon. wow. i wrote a lot. LOL

[ladoo ram]

twice with me :p :D then she will become a slut :p

[deadwrong101]

So how many girls does a guy have to sleep with to be a man-slut?

he wont be considered a man-slut
he'll be a P I M P! :cool:

[gt_sweetness]

2 or three times? or different guys?! lol that was a dumb question i know

[SmoothCriminal]

ive slept with quite a few my girl still loves me.

[Sikh4Lyfe]

he's lucky to bang me... but then i become a whore coz i've slept with a man. god forbid a woman should sleep with a man before marriage... omg.... like i know so many girls in india who've slept around... but guys never find out... coz... like FTJfag said... you just have to be smart about it...

so if you slept with 5+ women are u a whore?

[SmoothCriminal]

yay im a whore whoop whooop wat if u slept with like 5 in a month?

[WildWolfdog]

I've become a born again virgin since I met Miss Qupid

i think she wud take an initial virgin over a born again one :grandpa:

[WonkaBear]

When she starts forgetting who she has slept with... lol

[imran8484]

listen if u wanna marry a desi girl (i.e. have her for life) make sure she's a virgin thats all

lol

[saraH.]

if sleeping with 4 guys before ur 22 makes u a slut, im guessing that around 75% of girls are sluts.. im thinking more like 10? but before marriage not until ur 22

[HeAvYmAcHiNeGuN]

in my opinion if a gal sleeps wid more than one guy....i would call her a slut

[HeAvYmAcHiNeGuN]

but hun the whole purpose of marriage is to share that emotional bond, those who are just married for the sake of marriage, well thats theire deal.
And in my religion and many other religions its a great sin to commt sexual intercourse b4 marriage.....
As i stated its my persional opinion.......

yeah ur right....its about sharing everything
i have seen some people....after getting married....they try to hide alot of things....some even lie dat they are virgins
i guess its a big sin in every religion....having a sexual relationship b4 marriage

[DasJa]

if sleeping with 4 guys before ur 22 makes u a slut, im guessing that around 75% of girls are sluts.. im thinking more like 10? but before marriage not until ur 22
Yeah...that's college, time to experiment and "let loose"

I'd draw the line at 7 OR if she forgets the EXACT number of guys she's slept with.

7 guys in 4 years is ok. Anymore, and i'd suspect this chick got some serious :nuts: issues.

[HeAvYmAcHiNeGuN]

my sweet baby face, if she believs in sex after marriage, that makes her a vergion...also unexperienced...if her husband is crap in bed, that might be he is unexperienced...Conclusion: She wont know the difference, if he doesnt use the same lame moves year after year...But: theres always room for improvements :wink:

yeahhhh i beleive dat its ur life partners right and one should always wait till marriage....as u said theres always room for improvement
and i am proud of being a virgin :cheers:

[jat_jatt_sardar]

i say that by 22 if she sleeps with 4 guys or more she's pretty slutty. this is assuming that she starts when she's 17/18.

ofcourse this being said for desi chicks and not anyone else for whom four would be close to the virgin mary in chastity.
I am sure they were just SERIOUS relationships, and she was just getting to KNOW them. NOOOOOOOOOOOT
slags thats what ahahahahaha :jacko:

[PuRe SeduCtioN]

after an umarried girl loses her virginity if she's muslim...
she's a slut.
HAHAHA

[jat_jatt_sardar]

after an umarried girl loses her virginity if she's muslim...
she's a slut.
HAHAHA
stop bringin religion into it lol
:witch1:

[PuRe SeduCtioN]

stop bringin religion into it lol
:witch1:

ok jatt sardar.. that applies to any girl..
no girl should do it before marriage... its fornication.. all bad.

[kaisar2]

for me... a guy whos been with 2 girls before me... is acceptable... more than 5... i dont want him.what if he tells you the truth that there were only two girls and you accept and never tell him that you actually screwed more. which could be the fact.

[HeAvYmAcHiNeGuN]

after an umarried girl loses her virginity if she's muslim...
she's a slut.
HAHAHA

its not only for a muslim gal
i think its for everybody
btw bringing religion into dis :(

[dreamz88]

i don't really think there is a number. especially when pregnancy can now be avoided in nearly all cases i really see no reason why girls should somehow be way more chaste than guys? double standards much? in the past it was VAGUELY justified due to the chance that the chick might become pregnant and so on but when that's not really a concern anymore why should a chick be deemed a slut when a guy can't also be deemed a manwhore?
i personally wanna wait until marriage just to make it more special but i see no reason to judge anyone who doesn't when there's no logical reason as to why their actions are seen to be wrong other than cultural influences. at the end of the day it's a normal thing and humans are animals that are supposed to have sex so it's really no biggie imo.

[kaisar2]

^^^doggy style?

[dreamz88]

what about doggy style? although im pretty certain the answers gunna be no either way

[keyzersoze]

i don't really think there is a number. especially when pregnancy can now be avoided in nearly all cases i really see no reason why girls should somehow be way more chaste than guys? double standards much? in the past it was VAGUELY justified due to the chance that the chick might become pregnant and so on but when that's not really a concern anymore why should a chick be deemed a slut when a guy can't also be deemed a manwhore?
i personally wanna wait until marriage just to make it more special but i see no reason to judge anyone who doesn't when there's no logical reason as to why their actions are seen to be wrong other than cultural influences. at the end of the day it's a normal thing and humans are animals that are supposed to have sex so it's really no biggie imo.


Yeah but then you'd be walking with a gaping canyon between your legs, and a clitoris that looks like a flattened pancake. But you wanna wait till marriage which is more than respectable unlike some of the sluts here, you paid members know who you are.

[dreamz88]

Yeah but then you'd be walking with a gaping canyon between your legs, and a clitoris that looks like a flattened pancake. But you wanna wait till marriage which is more than respectable unlike some of the sluts here, you paid members know who you are.

actually just coz a girl has a lotta sex does not mean she will be loose. i mean girls have babies and our vaginas can recover from that so i'm sure they can take anything. fun fact: if a girl waits as little as two years she can be as tight as a virgin again.

question: do you think it's okay for a guy to sleep around and not a girl to? if so that's messed up. there is no logical reason as to why a guy should and a girl shouldn't. if you think a guy can't sleep around, however, then i might vaguely respect your opinion. otherwise it's a sexist load of crap.

and just coz i wanna wait does not mean id be ok with a guy who would only be ok with me if i waited. i don't care how many partners my future husband has and he better not care if i have had any even if i do wait.

[dreamz88]

p.s. sorry if that's too much info about genitals and all that in the previous post :p

[keyzersoze]

actually just coz a girl has a lotta sex does not mean she will be loose. i mean girls have babies and our vaginas can recover from that so i'm sure they can take anything. fun fact: if a girl waits as little as two years she can be as tight as a virgin again.

question: do you think it's okay for a guy to sleep around and not a girl to? if so that's messed up. there is no logical reason as to why a guy should and a girl shouldn't. if you think a guy can't sleep around, however, then i might vaguely respect your opinion. otherwise it's a sexist load of crap.

and just coz i wanna wait does not mean id be ok with a guy who would only be ok with me if i waited. i don't care how many partners my future husband has and he better not care if i have had any even if i do wait.


Ah, but see we have a predicament, to become loose the girl has lot's a intercourse. And to become a born again virgin must refrain from sex. Now that is impossible, cuz once she's hooked, god bless her genitalia.

As to your question, I believe guys are horny bastards as well. So obviously it's not "okay" to screw every girl. But you have to realize that most ~90% of guys aren't that goodlooking or desirable by the opposite sex to get quality girls. These guys settle for less, and that makes them perverts/STD traps. These guys raise their self-esteem by sleeping around for the sole purpose of number accumulation, to one-up their equally disgusting buddies.

The other 10% is broken up into two categories; The sauve nympho's and the manly men.

The nympho's are classy and really horny. They have narcissistic ideals and believe in casual sex. Sex is mandatory for them, if you don't put out, get out.

The other 5% are the manly men. They like sports, don't act gay on the internet by typing like this- "errrmmm yeah :Pelvic2: , eerrm lollerkopter, hehehe." Every guys horny but this breed appreciates quality to quantity. Can get laid at a moments notice because they have the goods, and body hair to prove it. Sexist (slightly) as well. You won't find many of this species on ratedesi, but they are out there.

[kaisar2]

what about doggy style? although im pretty certain the answers gunna be no either wayi was referring to your previous post where you said humans are animals.

Nothing personal.

[dreamz88]

no lots of intercourse does not mean she'll be loose. doing it with a half-man half-horse though might mean that. and if that's your only reason as to why girls cant have lots of sex thats stupid coz when theyre married they somehow can then? that makes no sense. the only distinction in that case is marriage and there's no logic in that.

and guess what? girls have a sex drive as well. i know tonsa girls who are hornier than guys but somehow that isn't ok if a girl claims that's why she has sex but it's somehow ok if a guy says that?

and i don't care about the different categories of man. as long as a guy realises that men and women are both humans with similar needs and that there shouldn't be a radical difference in how each sex is expected to behave and likes me for who i am as opposed to how tight or loose i am then he's quality. not a guy who goes "omg ur great but like when a girl has sex that like totally negates any positive qualities that she may have." thats just idiotic.

eta: this is in reply to keysersoze's post

[dreamz88]

i was referring to your previous post where you said humans are animals.

Nothing personal.

oh ok in that case yes it is okay :p

[keyzersoze]

actually just coz a girl has a lotta sex does not mean she will be loose. i mean girls have babies and our vaginas can recover from that so i'm sure they can take anything. fun fact: if a girl waits as little as two years she can be as tight as a virgin again.

question: do you think it's okay for a guy to sleep around and not a girl to? if so that's messed up. there is no logical reason as to why a guy should and a girl shouldn't. if you think a guy can't sleep around, however, then i might vaguely respect your opinion. otherwise it's a sexist load of crap.

and just coz i wanna wait does not mean id be ok with a guy who would only be ok with me if i waited. i don't care how many partners my future husband has and he better not care if i have had any even if i do wait.


How can you have any sex if your "waiting"? Are you into that whole "anal sex doesn't count" gig.

[dreamz88]

How can you have any sex if your "waiting"? Are you into that whole "anal sex doesn't count" gig.

no i meant a guy who discounts the worth of a girl if she does have sex. so if i get with a guy he better not care if i do or dont have sex although i do wanna wait but that should not influence him in the slightest if you get me? and no anal sex totally counts imo.

[Echelon]

A slut/whore isn't determined by an empirical measure.
It's more about the consideration required, the position of power, and how power is conferred/distributed and gained.
A slut/whore to me is someone who requires attention and affection through sex, even if the consideration required to do "very intimate" things -- which typically require a lot of consideration -- are done for the purpose of feeling 'whole'.
For men its very hard to label an alpha male a slut because he is assuming the position of power and controlling the females around him to his own accord. So the amount of consideration he is giving is nothing. Which in comparison to a sleeze, who will considerably engage in various desperate attempts and lower his ideals to suit his desperate requirements. Vice versa for females, although there will be a perversion of the image of "purity" which is a feminine ideal, with the instance of an alpha female engaging in sex.
"Purity" is perceived to be lost because sexuality has traditionally dictated females assuming a submissive position against a controlling man. So females are shown to be "soiled" or "tainted", drifting away from this image of feminine purity. This is why there is a conflict of imagery when it comes to portraying the female alpha. However, I've seen some instances (fictuous) where a woman can engage with a beta submissive male and look to be fully in control.

So to answer your question, I think it all comes down to the person, how they engage in sex, who they engage it with, their sexual aura, their sense of emotional consideration, and their sense of desperation.

[keyzersoze]

no lots of intercourse does not mean she'll be loose. doing it with a half-man half-horse though might mean that. and if that's your only reason as to why girls cant have lots of sex thats stupid coz when theyre married they somehow can then? that makes no sense. the only distinction in that case is marriage and there's no logic in that.

and guess what? girls have a sex drive as well. i know tonsa girls who are hornier than guys but somehow that isn't ok if a girl claims that's why she has sex but it's somehow ok if a guy says that?

and i don't care about the different categories of man. as long as a guy realises that men and women are both humans with similar needs and that there shouldn't be a radical difference in how each sex is expected to behave and likes me for who i am as opposed to how tight or loose i am then he's quality. not a guy who goes "omg ur great but like when a girl has sex that like totally negates any positive qualities that she may have." thats just idiotic.

eta: this is in reply to keysersoze's post

See babe, if your with a guy that's hung like a horse, you'll be loose. Anyways my post was a joke, but it seems to me that your feminist views on sex are severely limited to angst against men. On onehand your stating you don't mind how many girls your husband has slept with. On the otherhand your generalising the assumption that all guys think girls are sluts if they have had any sexual encounters. Your absolutely right, both sexes should be treated equal, but babe, this is an obvious arguement.

Your right about female exploitation and the double standards plaguing woman today. But....


.....fuck that babe, don't worry your pretty little self about this kind of shit. If a guy ever calls you a slut, grab his balls and say "these are mine now bitch" oh and wag your tongue back and forth like the girl in exorcist for added effect.

[Echelon]

i say that by 22 if she sleeps with 4 guys or more she's pretty slutty. this is assuming that she starts when she's 17/18.


4 guys? By the age of 22?
Is a slut? Well I guess every single university chick I've met is a slut. Because I'm pretty sure they'd have fucked more than 4 guys the time they're in university to finishing their degree.

This is especially ironic considering everyone is expected to have a decent sex life these days which probably consists of intercourse with more than one guy per year.

[keyzersoze]

A slut/whore isn't determined by an empirical measure.
It's more about the consideration required, the position of power, and how power is conferred/distributed and gained.
A slut/whore to me is someone who requires attention and affection through sex, even if the consideration required to do "very intimate" things -- which typically require a lot of consideration -- are done for the purpose of feeling 'whole'.
For men its very hard to label an alpha male a slut because he is assuming the position of power and controlling the females around him to his own accord. So the amount of consideration he is giving is nothing. Which in comparison to a sleeze, will considerably engage in various desperate attempts and lower his ideals to suit his desperate requirements. Vice versa for females, although there will be a perversion of the image of "purity" which is a feminine ideal, with the instance of an alpha female engaging in sex.
"Purity" is perceived to be lost because sexuality has traditionally dictated females assuming a submissive position against a controlling man. So females are shown to be "soiled" or "tainted", drifting away from this image of feminine purity. This is why there is a conflict of imagery when it comes to portraying the female alpha. However, I've seen some instances (fictuous) where a woman can engage with a beta submissive male and look to be fully in control.

So to answer your question, I think it all comes down to the person, how they engage in sex, who they engage it with, their sexual aura, their sense of emotional consideration, and their sense of desperation.

So, in laymans terms for people who don't understand. His "alpha male" equates to my "manly man", and the "sleaze" to my "unamed 90% figure."

[dreamz88]

^ *confuzzled* but what i was trying to say is so in ur opinion its ok if the girls loose after marriage but if its before marriage shes a slut? thats silly.

and i dont think all guys think that a girl is a slut if shes had sex but yeah what i was saying was directed at the ones who think that, which hopefully isn't the majority.

and no i don't care how many chicks my husband has slept with as long as he would be fine with me if i had slept with just as many guys. otherwise it's not on.

and i dont get the last paragraph. and i dont think my views are shaped by angst against men? but yes sexist men do annoy me.

[Echelon]

So, in laymans terms for people who don't understand. His "alpha male" equates to my "manly man", and the "sleaze" to my "unamed 90% figure."

Erm I don't think it'd be wise to say 90% of the men are sluts or a sleaze. I'd say the receeding haired balding fat d00ds who desperately seek sex and visit strip joints are sluts. This is about 10-20%.

As for females, well the fishnet stocking, short-skirt, stiletto wearin' madam_jade's fit the equation quite well. This is about 10-20% too.

I think it all depends on how extra-verted you are when it comes to seeking sexual attention.

[keyzersoze]

4 guys? By the age of 22?
Is a slut? Well I guess every single university chick I've met is a slut. Because I'm pretty sure they'd have fucked more than 4 guys the time they're in university to finishing their degree.

This is especially ironic considering everyone is expected to have a decent sex life these days which probably consists of intercourse with more than one guy per year.


Everyone's standards are different. Some prowl the streets lookin for a freak, others play the field at school/work. However, as days turn to eons, sex is becoming normative in all cultures. Don't even mention university chicks, 4 guys before 22 is for softcore grills.

[Echelon]

Everyone's standards are different. Some prowl the streets lookin for a freak, others play the field at school/work. However, as days turn to eons, sex is becoming normative in all cultures. Don't even mention university chicks, 4 guys before 22 is for softcore grills.

Well relative to western standards, I think the OP is conditioned with pakistani values or some crap because this is the norm for me.

Either that or he just isn't social or answerable enough when it comes to finding out about the opposite sex?

[keyzersoze]

^ *confuzzled* but what i was trying to say is so in ur opinion its ok if the girls loose after marriage but if its before marriage shes a slut? thats silly.

and i dont think all guys think that a girl is a slut if shes had sex but yeah what i was saying was directed at the ones who think that, which hopefully isn't the majority.

and no i don't care how many chicks my husband has slept with as long as he would be fine with me if i had slept with just as many guys. otherwise it's not on.

and i dont get the last paragraph. and i dont think my views are shaped by angst against men? but yes sexist men do annoy me.

Of course not all guys think a girls a slut if she's had sex, dude has to be naive and semi-retarded. On the other end of the spectrum, some do think every girl they come across wants to fuck them silly, and the truth is, most do. (sexist ideology)

[keyzersoze]

Erm I don't think it'd be wise to say 90% of the men are sluts or a sleaze. I'd say the receeding haired balding fat d00ds who desperately seek sex and visit strip joints are sluts. This is about 10-20%.

As for females, well the fishnet stocking, short-skirt, stiletto wearin' madam_jade's fit the equation quite well. This is about 10-20% too.

I think it all depends on how extra-verted you are when it comes to seeking sexual attention.

A valid and agreeable statement.

[dreamz88]

..i dont get it. my defence is im starving and sleep deprived. but yeah i didnt get what u meant in the last post about girls all wanting to fuck every guy? coz i dont really know many like that. unless of course theyre dating the guy, in which case, duh :p

[keyzersoze]

..i dont get it. my defence is im starving and sleep deprived. but yeah i didnt get what u meant in the last post about girls all wanting to fuck every guy? coz i dont really know many like that. unless of course theyre dating the guy, in which case, duh :p


There is a fallacy in your arguements, you stated earlier that you know a lot of uber honry girls.....................I need thier names and numbers to closely examine your assumptions.

Babe, your making less and less sense, your incoherent psycho babble is making me aware I have an early class, nice talkin to ya, and welcome to this shithole site.

[kashmiri_ryder]

if a gurl sleeps with more then 1 men then she is a bitch.....n if she sleep more then 2 then shes a hoe....now if she keep fucking around then might as call her over n pay some $$$....she has to be a fine bitch to get them $$$

[dreamz88]

There is a fallacy in your arguements, you stated earlier that you know a lot of uber honry girls.....................I need thier names and numbers to closely examine your assumptions.

Babe, your making less and less sense, your incoherent psycho babble is making me aware I have an early class, nice talkin to ya, and welcome to this shithole site.

just coz a girls horny doesnt mean shes gunna wanna fuck every guy. thats where the quality v quantity argument comes in. and yeah we've been talking about this subject for wayy too long.

[dreamz88]

if a gurl sleeps with more then 1 men then she is a bitch.....n if she sleep more then 2 then shes a hoe....now if she keep fucking around then might as call her over n pay some $$$....she has to be a fine bitch to get them $$$

does that also apply to guys by any chance?

[kashmiri_ryder]

does that also apply to guys by any chance?well lets put it this way if a guy does more then 1 then he will get props from all his friends but then he will feel guilty inside .....keep doing every other ones he is a player now hes just goin with the flow....now if hes gettin $$$ then he is a gigolo.....alll cool things apply to men.....sorry

[-Ziad-]

does that also apply to guys by any chance?guys can't possibly be called sluts. we have a term for that it's called pimps. it's double standards game in society owning girls. not much can be done about it.

[dreamz88]

heard the term man-whore? even if that doesn't exist any guy who follows the above policy can also be called a sexist douchebag, or a walking std or a desperado among a range of other terms. there's always ways around it ;)

[-Ziad-]

i would say it's dependent on three factors; girl's religion, race, and age. hate to evaluate it that way and say that, but it is how it is. a 25 yr old white girl with 10+ sexual partners would still not be considered a slut, can't say the same for a desi girl though.

[dreamz88]

and a girl can also be called experienced or a freak in bed instead of a slut. theres always ways around those kinda stupid terms :D

[kashmiri_ryder]

heard the term man-whore? even if that doesn't exist any guy who follows the above policy can also be called a sexist douchebag, or a walking std or a desperado among a range of other terms. there's always ways around it ;)i dont have respect for those people they disgust me too.....i mean come on dogg just stick with one haha...

[dreamz88]

i would say it's dependent on three factors; girl's religion, race, and age. hate to evaluate it that way and say that, but it is how it is. a 25 yr old white girl with 10+ sexual partners would still not be considered a slut, can't say the same for a desi girl though.

why? just coz a girls brown shouldnt mean she has to have any less sexual partners. thats just stereotyping and totally unfair.

[-Ziad-]

why? just coz a girls brown shouldnt mean she has to have any less sexual partners. thats just stereotyping and totally unfair.a brown girl has a difference of cultural values, and what is expected of her. im evaluating in the context of a brown man as well.

[Echelon]

a brown girl has a difference of cultural values, and what is expected of her. im evaluating in the context of a brown man as well.

Although there are some arguments for relative morality.

In this case you can't establish a connection with culture for every single brown person living in a western society because obviously their upbringing is going to be different and they are going to be conditioned with different values.

I think you're going to have to be doing a lot of stereotyping if you're judging someone and assessing them purely because they're brown against some sort of general stereotype on how a brown girl should behave.

[dreamz88]

a brown girl has a difference of cultural values, and what is expected of her. im evaluating in the context of a brown man as well.

psh! stuff people's expectations and cultural values. just coz someone expects you to do something shouldn't influence you. it should be all about what you wanna do. just coz white people have less expectations placed on them doesn't mean they needa go crazy. at the end of the day the only person that matters when it comes to such things is the person whos making the decision coz thats who its gunna affect, not their culture.

[-Ziad-]

hush up and get back in your abaya :boo:

[jat_jatt_sardar]

hmmm yeh there r the gigolos also :boo:

[supremed]

Yeah. Our values are "don't ask, don't tell." Fooling people and putting a facade is a Desi's best friend.
amen

[Echelon]

Stick an 8 inch vibrator up your ass and then see how "loose" you get.

You will be surprised to find out that your asshole tightens up back to the way how it is, even though you've stuck an 8 inch vibrator up there. And you know what? The same thing works for a girl's vagina.

I think this is partly incorrect. Like most things that are stretched, there is a degree of elasticity, and a point where the elasticity is lost.

Skin loses its elasticity with time & tension and it will eventually sag.

It's why Labioplasty has become popular. But with re: anal, there has been a lot of evidence of it being permanently stretched because it isn't elastic like the vagina. A lot of pornstars avoid anal because of these repercussions.

I'm not sure where you're getting your information from but it seems purely anecdotal.

[keyzersoze]

Stick an 8 inch vibrator up your ass and then see how "loose" you get.

You will be surprised to find out that your asshole tightens up back to the way how it is, even though you've stuck an 8 inch vibrator up there. And you know what? The same thing works for a girl's vagina.


Okay, but to what limit does a girls natural elasticity kick back in. Anyways, no need to take any offense to my statements since they were purely contrived from pornos.


And, I can't base my assumptions on factual evidence since I'm a one woman kinda guy, not that there's anything wrong in satisfying one's libido.

[keyzersoze]

I will admit that I might be wrong with anal stretching because it's not like I do that all of the time anyhow, but I was trying to help him understand how silly he sounds. Since he doesn't have a vagina, I thought maybe experimenting with his ass might help.

You've had sex with non-virgins before. I'm sure those girls you've slept with have had other sexual partners before you. You would know that these non-virgins don't have "loose" gaping vaginas or clitorises that look like pancakes, such as keyersoze claims.


It was a joke babe, and point understood. Don't knock it till you've tried it.

[keyzersoze]

I think this is partly incorrect. Like most things that are stretched, there is a degree of elasticity, and a point where the elasticity is lost.

Skin loses its elasticity with time & tension and it will eventually sag.

It's why Labioplasty has become popular. But with re: anal, there has been a lot of evidence of it being permanently stretched because it isn't elastic like the vagina. A lot of pornstars avoid anal because of these repercussions.

I'm not sure where you're getting your information from but it seems purely anecdotal.


Yeah, I believe my porno analogy was correct.

[reggie_xox]

Desi: 1 and you're tarnished for life.
White: Fuck everyone, just keep it discreet and you're set.

[jat_jatt_sardar]

Desi: 1 and you're tarnished for life.
White: Fuck everyone, just keep it discreet and you're set.
white: the more u shag the more experienced u r considired, and thats a good thing for white lol

[livefree]

I think all girls should be slut.. so u can get a new girl every day of the week… in USA there are more then 30 woman for every man, who wana get married

[da1nonliprincess]

why do people refuse to fucking understand? woman and men are different.. equal but different.they are different in their own ways.. woman should be more chaste than men because guys dont get pregnant.. and slut is depend on many circumstance

ex: if she is "Muslim" then any premarital relationship.. doesnt even have to be sex makes her a slut
if she is "spanish" i say it depends how easy she is..

it all depends...

to me all "chicks are sluts, until proven otherwise"

em... that explains why you've never had a gf... and never will.

[jat_jatt_sardar]

em... that explains why you've never had a gf... and never will.
I guess hes got self respect then, he doesn't need a gf cos he will probably have a wife
:D

[Sacha-Sauda]

I guess hes got self respect then, he doesn't need a gf cos he will probably have a wife
:D

then what r u doing here baba ji..on a rating site..wheres ur self respect ? :lol:

[Persiaisis]

I think all girls should be slut.. so u can get a new girl every day of the week… in USA there are more then 30 woman for every man, who wana get married

what part of the country do u live in?
:-|

[jat_jatt_sardar]

then what r u doing here baba ji..on a rating site..wheres ur self respect ? :lol:
its fun discussin with people on the forums
;)

[*waj*]

i say that by 22 if she sleeps with 4 guys or more she's pretty slutty. this is assuming that she starts when she's 17/18.

ofcourse this being said for desi chicks and not anyone else for whom four would be close to the virgin mary in chastity.

for me is as soon as they lost their virganity

[baberpervez]

Girls will go through one relationship to the next in the period of just over a few months. So, given that and the fact that girls start as early as the age of 15 for having sex, she'd be with around 9 guys by the time she hits 20. Most girls choose to take their time though, they'll keep one around for a year and/or not move on to the next for a while... But yah these days having sex for sport is normal.

It's okay to be a slut in this culture. As long as you don't get too attached to such a person, have fun.. cause chances are she's using you for the same purpose.

I've been with 9 girls and I'm 27.. I get labelled as a slut often too but it doesn't mean I am. People are still people, learn to put the past behind ya and look what you have for the future.

[Nilü]

So why do you think if a girl sleep with 4/5 boys she is a slut what about the guys then huh? You guys can sleep with many girls as you want but hey your are guys you can do that Pssshh thats Bullshit.

[da1nonliprincess]

then what r u doing here baba ji..on a rating site..wheres ur self respect ? :lol:
amen to that

[jat_jatt_sardar]

hmm a girl I know/knew said shes not a slut because she didn't lose her virginity before 16 :rofl:

[jat_jatt_sardar]

for me is as soon as they lost their virganity
hmm true
:D

[jat_jatt_sardar]

then what r u doing here baba ji..on a rating site..wheres ur self respect ? :lol:
also its funny seeing the stuff people do on here cos they thiunk their parents won't find out. you learn a lot about people on these kinda sites, some stuff you wouldn't find out in real life.
:D :D :D :D