Women, what quality attracts them the most in a guy?

[pachaas Paisa]

do vote 8) If u choose "other", do mention!

[dil luteya]

other-large penis

[pachaas Paisa]

other-large penis

:arrow:

[ana]

At first glance, ofcourse the face, but they've got to have a personality to match.
So, yes face.

[desi_balla63]

Sense of humor.

I think that makes up for so much ... girls like to smile, **** mean? :)

[pachaas Paisa]

Sense of humor.

I think that makes up for so much ... girls like to smile, **** mean? :)

he speaks the truth :mrhappy:

[SIXPAK GQ]

they have to be Tall first, thats important for a women to see attractiveness in a man...sense of humor is there also.

conversation skills.....and then if she wants to get to him a lot better....its about education, what does he do for a living and how much he makes..

[ORaNGe dAsY]

why isn't there an all of the above selection?? :?

[pachaas Paisa]

they have to be Tall first, thats important for a women to see attractiveness in a man...sense of humor is there also.

conversation skills.....and then if she wants to get to him a lot better....its about education, what does he do for a living and how much he makes..

wrong, there are exceptions, my girl is almost my height with heels on!

[pachaas Paisa]

why isn't there an all of the above selection?? :?

you cant just pick all of that, there has to be something really specific that attracts u the most

[desi_balla63]

I'm gonna use this thread to post my random shit I was thinking of earlier. :)


SO like, what makes things attractive. Why is it that to one person a thin tall girl is hot, to another it isn't. Why is obesity considered unnatractive. Like, what exactly is it about two lumps of fat on a chest that make your ding-a-ling boyyoyoing. **** mean? :?

[desi_balla63]

they have to be Tall first, thats important for a women to see attractiveness in a man...sense of humor is there also.

conversation skills.....and then if she wants to get to him a lot better....its about education, what does he do for a living and how much he makes..

wrong, there are exceptions, my girl is almost my height with heels on!

You're girl, is f'ing hot.


...and one of the cooler people I've "met". :yes:

[mehole86]

they have to be Tall first, thats important for a women to see attractiveness in a man...sense of humor is there also.

conversation skills.....and then if she wants to get to him a lot better....its about education, what does he do for a living and how much he makes..

wrong, there are exceptions, my girl is almost my height with heels on!

height isn't important at all... living proof right here... :)

[ORaNGe dAsY]

why isn't there an all of the above selection?? :?

you cant just pick all of that, there has to be something really specific that attracts u the most

ok well the sense of humor part would hafta come later on when you get to know the guy

so I would hafta say the style, I usually look at a guys appearance :?

[pachaas Paisa]

they have to be Tall first, thats important for a women to see attractiveness in a man...sense of humor is there also.

conversation skills.....and then if she wants to get to him a lot better....its about education, what does he do for a living and how much he makes..

wrong, there are exceptions, my girl is almost my height with heels on!

You're girl, is f'ing hot.


...and one of the cooler people I've "met". :yes:

what do u think of her boyfriend :love:

[SIXPAK GQ]

they have to be Tall first, thats important for a women to see attractiveness in a man...sense of humor is there also.

conversation skills.....and then if she wants to get to him a lot better....its about education, what does he do for a living and how much he makes..

wrong, there are exceptions, my girl is almost my height with heels on!

generally a woman wants a guy who is taller then them. you are well taller then ur girl, and even with heels, she does not match u.....

[mehole86]

I'm gonna use this thread to post my random shit I was thinking of earlier. :)


SO like, what makes things attractive. Why is it that to one person a thin tall girl is hot, to another it isn't. Why is obesity considered unnatractive. Like, what exactly is it about two lumps of fat on a chest that make your ding-a-ling boyyoyoing. **** mean? :?

:lollol:

n e wayz... back 2 ur question... if its not the media its just our natural instinct... i'll admit i would pick a decent lookin girl w/ a great sense of humor over a supermodel w/ a bitchy attitude any day...

[SIXPAK GQ]

sometimes its not always about the first impression. some tend to grow with each other.....

[bewakoof]

why isn't there an all of the above selection?? :?

Greed I tell u.. :lol:

[SIXPAK GQ]

i dont think a woman wants a guy shorter then them....

[desi_balla63]

they have to be Tall first, thats important for a women to see attractiveness in a man...sense of humor is there also.

conversation skills.....and then if she wants to get to him a lot better....its about education, what does he do for a living and how much he makes..

wrong, there are exceptions, my girl is almost my height with heels on!

You're girl, is f'ing hot.


...and one of the cooler people I've "met". :yes:

what do u think of her boyfriend :love:

He's aight. :)

[desi_balla63]

I'm gonna use this thread to post my random shit I was thinking of earlier. :)


SO like, what makes things attractive. Why is it that to one person a thin tall girl is hot, to another it isn't. Why is obesity considered unnatractive. Like, what exactly is it about two lumps of fat on a chest that make your ding-a-ling boyyoyoing. **** mean? :?

:lollol:

n e wayz... back 2 ur question... if its not the media its just our natural instinct... i'll admit i would pick a decent lookin girl w/ a great sense of humor over a supermodel w/ a bitchy attitude any day...

Definately. The whole desi stuck up bitch thing is getting old. I think they'll finally start to realize it when most desi guys date non-desi girls. :no:

[pachaas Paisa]

they have to be Tall first, thats important for a women to see attractiveness in a man...sense of humor is there also.

conversation skills.....and then if she wants to get to him a lot better....its about education, what does he do for a living and how much he makes..

wrong, there are exceptions, my girl is almost my height with heels on!

You're girl, is f'ing hot.


...and one of the cooler people I've "met". :yes:

what do u think of her boyfriend :love:

He's aight. :)

:pissed:

[thaiz]

Physically - hands, teeth and have to look clean
Personality- Gentle, kind, smart and patience.

[chunky]

a lot of girls like honesty as well. . . . feeling like they can trust you.

[m prince]

BAD SANTA THINKS A GRL IS MORE CONCERNED BOUT THA HEIGHT.... IGUESS THEY DUN LIKE FAT GUYZ!!!! NO MATTER HOW FAT THEY R THEMSELVES!!! OR THEY LIKE CALLIN THEMSELVES THICK!!!!

[Simplicity25]

the first thing I notice is the eyes...then the arms...but besides the physical attraction, sense of humor is very important. If I don't laugh...there is a problem because I laugh at pretty much anything :shock:

[IPunjabi.Blood]

All/some/none of the above. Different women like different things. I like lots of different things and have dated girls who have very different collections of attributes. The only constants are probably intelligence and good sense of humor.

[SexyTemptress]

i like men who approach me n make the first move to converse. i dont like guys who act desperate either. but if a guy approaches me, has a happy funloving attitude, asks me questions about me, keeps the conversation going without me having to do much, and FLIRTS with me a lot. thats what i like. as long as he isnt too ugly --he can be average or better looking i'll welcome this.

[dj XeNo]

if you treat a woman like shit, she will fall in love with you.

[ORaNGe dAsY]

if you treat a woman like shit, she will fall in love with you.

:no:










so tru tho, bastards :shakefis:

[dj XeNo]

So if you ever want a girl to leave you alone, just be nice and sweet to her and she'll forget that you ever existed.

:afro:

[ORaNGe dAsY]

So if you ever want a girl to leave you alone, just be nice and sweet to her and she'll forget that you ever existed.

:afro:

goodness, where were you when I needed that? :?

[dj XeNo]

So if you ever want a girl to leave you alone, just be nice and sweet to her and she'll forget that you ever existed.

:afro:

goodness, where were you when I needed that? :?

I don't know :(

[ORaNGe dAsY]

So if you ever want a girl to leave you alone, just be nice and sweet to her and she'll forget that you ever existed.

:afro:

goodness, where were you when I needed that? :?

I don't know :(

:no: :x
blimey

[cutegal286]

So if you ever want a girl to leave you alone, just be nice and sweet to her and she'll forget that you ever existed.

:afro:

hahah taht is sooo sadly true.. :no:

[ShivaChrist]

the first thing I notice is the eyes...then the arms...but besides the physical attraction, sense of humor is very important. If I don't laugh...there is a problem because I laugh at pretty much anything :shock:

Yeah, I know... first thing I notice in a guy is... er.... *cough* :oops:

[Amberosia]

um sense of humor, hands and yeah face...

[dj XeNo]

So if you ever want a girl to leave you alone, just be nice and sweet to her and she'll forget that you ever existed.

:afro:

hahah taht is sooo sadly true.. :no:

why though? is it because you guys are evil or stupid ?

[ORaNGe dAsY]

So if you ever want a girl to leave you alone, just be nice and sweet to her and she'll forget that you ever existed.

:afro:

hahah taht is sooo sadly true.. :no:

why though? is it because you guys are evil or stupid ?

uh no, it's because sometimes you gheys can be

[cutegal286]

So if you ever want a girl to leave you alone, just be nice and sweet to her and she'll forget that you ever existed.

:afro:

hahah taht is sooo sadly true.. :no:

why though? is it because you guys are evil or stupid ?

not sure, cuz i did this a month ago to dis guy, but then again he was a lil too stuck to me( constantly asking me to call him, the hang out to the annyance point) but my explainition i think sometimes guys taht are nice and sweeet seem to become the friend or brother firgure in our eyes rather then a bf

[dj XeNo]

So if you ever want a girl to leave you alone, just be nice and sweet to her and she'll forget that you ever existed.

:afro:

hahah taht is sooo sadly true.. :no:

why though? is it because you guys are evil or stupid ?

not sure, cuz i did this a month ago to dis guy, but then again he was a lil too stuck to me( constantly asking me to call him, the hang out to the annyance point) but my explainition i think sometimes guys taht are nice and sweeet seem to become the friend or brother firgure in our eyes rather then a bf

fascinating

[cutegal286]

So if you ever want a girl to leave you alone, just be nice and sweet to her and she'll forget that you ever existed.

:afro:

hahah taht is sooo sadly true.. :no:

why though? is it because you guys are evil or stupid ?

not sure, cuz i did this a month ago to dis guy, but then again he was a lil too stuck to me( constantly asking me to call him, the hang out to the annyance point) but my explainition i think sometimes guys taht are nice and sweeet seem to become the friend or brother firgure in our eyes rather then a bf

fascinating
lol is it?

[dj XeNo]

So if you ever want a girl to leave you alone, just be nice and sweet to her and she'll forget that you ever existed.

:afro:

hahah taht is sooo sadly true.. :no:

why though? is it because you guys are evil or stupid ?

uh no, it's because sometimes you gheys can be

be nice orange 8)

[dj XeNo]

So if you ever want a girl to leave you alone, just be nice and sweet to her and she'll forget that you ever existed.

:afro:

hahah taht is sooo sadly true.. :no:

why though? is it because you guys are evil or stupid ?

not sure, cuz i did this a month ago to dis guy, but then again he was a lil too stuck to me( constantly asking me to call him, the hang out to the annyance point) but my explainition i think sometimes guys taht are nice and sweeet seem to become the friend or brother firgure in our eyes rather then a bf

fascinating
lol is it?

yeah i never looked at it that way.

[ORaNGe dAsY]

So if you ever want a girl to leave you alone, just be nice and sweet to her and she'll forget that you ever existed.

:afro:

hahah taht is sooo sadly true.. :no:

why though? is it because you guys are evil or stupid ?

uh no, it's because sometimes you gheys can be

be nice orange 8)

i am nice xylophone, i asked where you were when i needed ya didn't I, :tongue:

[cutegal286]

[xeno so hows ur back now?

[dj XeNo]

So if you ever want a girl to leave you alone, just be nice and sweet to her and she'll forget that you ever existed.

:afro:

hahah taht is sooo sadly true.. :no:

why though? is it because you guys are evil or stupid ?

uh no, it's because sometimes you gheys can be

be nice orange 8)

i am nice xylophone, i asked where you were when i needed ya didn't I, :tongue:

if you're going to mock me call me a xenophobe :afro:

lol yeah i guess you did.

[dj XeNo]

[xeno so hows ur back now?

it's okay today, thanks for asking. i stretched it out big time last night and did some excercises.

and then when i woke up it wasn't stiff anymore, thank God.

[cutegal286]

So if you ever want a girl to leave you alone, just be nice and sweet to her and she'll forget that you ever existed.

:afro:

hahah taht is sooo sadly true.. :no:

why though? is it because you guys are evil or stupid ?

not sure, cuz i did this a month ago to dis guy, but then again he was a lil too stuck to me( constantly asking me to call him, the hang out to the annyance point) but my explainition i think sometimes guys taht are nice and sweeet seem to become the friend or brother firgure in our eyes rather then a bf

fascinating
lol is it?

yeah i never looked at it that way.

ya well u should now.. lol im just kidding and thats good ur baks feeling better

[ORaNGe dAsY]

arite xenomophobia, and pssshhtt, i'm like the nicest person alive, i mean i only threw one chappal at you in the other thread you made :roll:

[bewakoof]

So if you ever want a girl to leave you alone, just be nice and sweet to her and she'll forget that you ever existed.

:afro:

hahah taht is sooo sadly true.. :no:

TRUE!! this man has a point.. that every guy should fkin make a note of!!

[dj XeNo]

arite xenomophobia, and pssshhtt, i'm like the nicest person alive, i mean i only threw one chappal at you in the other thread you made :roll:

LOL that chappal almost gave me a black eye. 8)

(that's why I'm wearing sun glasses right now)

[ORaNGe dAsY]

arite xenomophobia, and pssshhtt, i'm like the nicest person alive, i mean i only threw one chappal at you in the other thread you made :roll:

LOL that chappal almost gave me a black eye. 8)

(that's why I'm wearing sun glasses right now)

haha, sunglasses won't help you!
sheesh, it's like 38740495 degrees in my office rite now, i need to wear some chappals :P

[cutegal286]

whats going on here.. u beating him up wit chappals now orange?

[Lawsonia]

a guys intelligence and wit is the main attraction for me

[ORaNGe dAsY]

whats going on here.. u beating him up wit chappals now orange?

tee hee hee, he asked for it in the other thread, i keed i keed

[WildWolfdog]

its says people can see wat u voted, how do we know who voted wat now? lol

[r-town_chickee]

I'm gonna use this thread to post my random shit I was thinking of earlier. :)


SO like, what makes things attractive. Why is it that to one person a thin tall girl is hot, to another it isn't. Why is obesity considered unnatractive. Like, what exactly is it about two lumps of fat on a chest that make your ding-a-ling boyyoyoing. **** mean? :?



its all biological, yo. men have always been attracted to breasts, women have always been attracted to money. even chaucer can tell you that. har har.

guys who are attractive are open minded. they don't automatically turn off when they see/hear/feel something wierd. guys who can manage to pull off a different way of thinking.. are hot.

[TheAbsolute]

I$n't it a coincidence that if you have money, you get the hottest chicks no matter how ugly and dull you are? Where as if you're broke, then you can be as goodlooking and witty, you still don't get any chicks...

I'm exaggerating, but you all know I have a point...

[r-town_chickee]

I$n't it a coincidence that if you have money, you get the hottest chicks no matter how ugly and dull you are? Where as if you're broke, then you can be as goodlooking and witty, you still don't get any chicks...

I'm exaggerating, but you all know I have a point...


yes.................

[dezi_divaa]

complete personality...way they carry them selves

[fobulas]

do vote 8) If u choose "other", do mention!they say they like my culo

[pachaas Paisa]

fobulas = gay

http://forumspam.articblue.nl/thread_related/thread_sucks/images/0479.jpg

[QueenzH0ttie]

Sense 0f hum0r

[SIXPAK GQ]

not sure, cuz i did this a month ago to dis guy, but then again he was a lil too stuck to me( constantly asking me to call him, the hang out to the annyance point) but my explainition i think sometimes guys taht are nice and sweeet seem to become the friend or brother firgure in our eyes rather then a bf

I doubt ud keep him just a friend if you found him "hot".

[IPunjabi.Blood]

fobulas = gay

http://forumspam.articblue.nl/thread_related/thread_sucks/images/0479.jpg

Some of the people posting in this thread are though. :D

[pachaas Paisa]

I doubt ud keep him just a friend if you found him "hot".

correction, i doubt youd treat him as a brother if you found him hot and physically attractive... friends? of course, more like friends with benefits or a friend that helps her get other female attention lol... sad but true :no:

[SIXPAK GQ]

correction, i doubt youd treat him as a brother if you found him hot and physically attractive... friends? of course, more like friends with benefits or a friend that helps her get other female attention lol... sad but true :no:

friends/brothers = same thing.....

but she never mentioned anything with friends with benefits did she?

would u make a girl whom you found hot consider as ur sister? and u just hang out with her to show off? u probably want to sleep with her atleast right?

[Ac89]

and "my boo" comes on just as i enter this thread...how fittingly appropriate

cutegal: u ever think that maybe the guy was just trying to get to know you better and wanted to be maybe a bit more than friends wiht you?? it's chicks that think they too good for anyone that are stupid enough not to think that far...but then again...not my life

Pratheesh, i dunno man...i know some pun chicks that see every guy as a brother...it's messed....i'm pretty sure it's cuz their family has like totally strict rules abotu who to date and who not to....
even though u know these chicks go home and wish they could have a guy...lol

it's fucked up to think shit like this happen...but w/e

[Ac89]

friends/brothers = same thing.....

but she never mentioned anything with friends with benefits did she?

would u make a girl whom you found hot consider as ur sister? and u just hang out with her to show off? u probably want to sleep with her atleast right?


thas the diff. between guys and girls yo...even if the parents of the guy and the girl are the same ....strict wise and whatnot.... the guy will always think like that...and the chick basically forgets it all....
it's 2004...almost 2005...thas so fucked

[SIXPAK GQ]

and "my boo" comes on just as i enter this thread...how fittingly appropriate

cutegal: u ever think that maybe the guy was just trying to get to know you better and wanted to be maybe a bit more than friends wiht you?? it's chicks that think they too good for anyone that are stupid enough not to think that far...but then again...not my life

Pratheesh, i dunno man...i know some pun chicks that see every guy as a brother...it's messed....i'm pretty sure it's cuz their family has like totally strict rules abotu who to date and who not to....
even though u know these chicks go home and wish they could have a guy...lol

it's fucked up to think shit like this happen...but w/e

there are girls who only care about messing around and not getting to know the guy.....and lot of the younger girls fall into that category. again money plays a role, no matter how unattractive a guy is, he is still going to win...

[SIXPAK GQ]

thas the diff. between guys and girls yo...even if the parents of the guy and the girl are the same ....strict wise and whatnot.... the guy will always think like that...and the chick basically forgets it all....
it's 2004...almost 2005...thas so fucked


what does parents have to do with this?

[Ac89]

there are girls who only care about messing around and not getting to know the guy.....and lot of the younger girls fall into that category. again money plays a role, no matter how unattractive a guy is, he is still going to win...

and thas fucked up...not only him but how much money his family has...how wealthy they are ...their status in the community

btw, most of the stuff you said about younger girls...you notice...it's only happened in the last 5-8 years...maybe not even that long ago

parents...i was talking about how chicks go about meeting guys...diff. story i guess

[SIXPAK GQ]

and thas fucked up...not only him but how much money his family has...how wealthy they are ...their status in the community

btw, most of the stuff you said about younger girls...you notice...it's only happened in the last 5-8 years...maybe not even that long ago

parents...i was talking about how chicks go about meeting guys...diff. story i guess

lot of things have changed in the last 5-8 years. It was different when I graduated from High School in 96.

[Ac89]

lot of things have changed in the last 5-8 years. It was different when I graduated from High School in 96.


what i meant was...this latest trend...that our society seems to be heading in....and furthermore, how desi chicks seem to be conforming more into westernized idiots...seems to have happened in the last 5-8 years

[SIXPAK GQ]

what i meant was...this latest trend...that our society seems to be heading in....and furthermore, how desi chicks seem to be conforming more into westernized idiots...seems to have happened in the last 5-8 years

well i beleive u and i live in america so we are westernized....so elaborate

[Ac89]

well i beleive u and i live in america so we are westernized....so elaborate


lol damn it

ok...here's what i think. About 5-8 years ago i dun think you saw the shit that you see today....such as drinking...clubbing...wearing clothes...i mean lack of clothes...
i think that indian girls that live in usa or canada have lost their culture and background....they don't know what their roots are anymore....*i'm not saying all..i'm saying most*

[SIXPAK GQ]

lol damn it

ok...here's what i think. About 5-8 years ago i dun think you saw the shit that you see today....such as drinking...clubbing...wearing clothes...i mean lack of clothes...
i think that indian girls that live in usa or canada have lost their culture and background....they don't know what their roots are anymore....*i'm not saying all..i'm saying most*

yea I've been interacting with the young audience as of lately, and i found out that they are a little different then me, they are much more liberal and are much more open to sex then ever before....back in early to mid ninties, the drinking, clubbing and lack of clothes wasn't as extreme as it is today....well the desis who were born and grew up here are just americans, so u can't blame them for losing their culture and background. I came here when I was 11 but I still have that touch and was raised strict in USA.....regardless of the desis losing their culture and roots, they are still f**ked up here b/c of drugs, STD's, alcohol, and other problems......

[Ac89]

yea I've been interacting with the young audience as of lately, and i found out that they are a little different then me, they are much more liberal and are much more open to sex then ever before....back in early to mid ninties, the drinking, clubbing and lack of clothes wasn't as extreme as it is today....well the desis who were born and grew up here are just americans, so u can't blame them for losing their culture and background. I came here when I was 11 but I still have that touch and was raised strict in USA.....regardless of the desis losing their culture and roots, they are still f**ked up here b/c of drugs, STD's, alcohol, and other problems......

u can't blame the country...it's the parents u got to put the blame on and the individual...i've been in canada since i was 6 ...and i haven't lost any of my culture..my hertiage..my family values....some of the girls that i've met and am freinds wiht are actually still cool ..and still have the whole package...and a couple of them were even born here...(BC)...
But if the parents don't set rules and regulations in the house...the child's not going to have anything to follow or abide by....thus the power and influence of friends becomes something too big for parents to compete against. So i think parents should be partly blamed for this. However, I'm a realist so I agree that most of the fault lies on the individual.

It's sad man...in about 10-15 years (if not less)...you won't be able to go into an Indian house and actually tell whether they hindu, sikh, muslim or anything else....These family trees will be lifted right out of the ground...values...traditions...all gone...It's pathetic

[SIXPAK GQ]

u can't blame the country...it's the parents u got to put the blame on and the individual...i've been in canada since i was 6 ...and i haven't lost any of my culture..my hertiage..my family values....some of the girls that i've met and am freinds wiht are actually still cool ..and still have the whole package...and a couple of them were even born here...(BC)...
But if the parents don't set rules and regulations in the house...the child's not going to have anything to follow or abide by....thus the power and influence of friends becomes something too big for parents to compete against. So i think parents should be partly blamed for this. However, I'm a realist so I agree that most of the fault lies on the individual.

It's sad man...in about 10-15 years (if not less)...you won't be able to go into an Indian house and actually tell whether they hindu, sikh, muslim or anything else....These family trees will be lifted right out of the ground...values...traditions...all gone...It's pathetic

don't blame the parents, they can only do so much for their children. lot of things are about common sense....it doesnt matter what religion they are...life in america is actually better then back home overall...thats why we are all here....have u seen Swades?

[Ac89]

don't blame the parents, they can only do so much for their children. lot of things are about common sense....it doesnt matter what religion they are...life in america is actually better then back home overall...thats why we are all here....have u seen Swades?


i'm not saying that parents are the total cause of this destruction...i'm saying they have a role in the part...I'm puttin most of the fault on the individuals themselves.

And, no, I haven't seen Swades...why you ask?

and i agree life in america is better than what it is back home....It would just be nice if we coudl have both

[SIXPAK GQ]

i'm not saying that parents are the total cause of this destruction...i'm saying they have a role in the part...I'm puttin most of the fault on the individuals themselves.

And, no, I haven't seen Swades...why you ask?

and i agree life in america is better than what it is back home....It would just be nice if we coudl have both

its a good movie, its about life in the villages of india....u can have both, infact we do already..........

[Ac89]

its a good movie, its about life in the villages of india....u can have both, infact we do already..........


"we do already" ...thas from the movie or u sayin that personally???

i have both too in my house and i luv it ...woulnd't change it

it be ncie to see more

what i hate most about all this is the fact that desi guys are now being labelled as stupid idiots who are good for nothing and go drinking and are after sex... the parents start assuming this...and more
so if u ever try and meet a chick's parents..this is what first enters their minds...why should that hurdle even exist??

[SIXPAK GQ]

"we do already" ...thas from the movie or u sayin that personally???

i have both too in my house and i luv it ...woulnd't change it

it be ncie to see more

what i hate most about all this is the fact that desi guys are now being labelled as stupid idiots who are good for nothing and go drinking and are after sex... the parents start assuming this...and more
so if u ever try and meet a chick's parents..this is what first enters their minds...why should that hurdle even exist??

about culture and roots that depends on how what kind of family you come from...and how long uve been here.....the guys and girls who are into drinking, smoking, drugs, sex, money, drive nice cars etc.....will learn the hard way when they grow up, and by that time it might be just too late, these are spoiled kids......

[Ac89]

about culture and roots that depends on how what kind of family you come from...and how long uve been here.....the guys and girls who are into drinking, smoking, drugs, sex, money, drive nice cars etc.....will learn the hard way when they grow up, and by that time it might be just too late, these are spoiled kids......

but when you think about it..don't you find that completely stupid?? like something doesn't make sense??
these kids you say are spoilt...so basically they have everything they could want in life.. probably wihtout ever having to worry about money or anything big like that...then why go down that path?? because this is the way they are meant to grow up...the hard way??? Hell, if i had that life..i woulda been a doc by now....*in med school*

[fattygirl]

sense of humor and style. and HONESTY

[iluvuqt]

I'd have to say the first thing i look at is his eyes hair n lips :)

[iluvuqt]

yea I've been interacting with the young audience as of lately, and i found out that they are a little different then me, they are much more liberal and are much more open to sex then ever before....back in early to mid ninties, the drinking, clubbing and lack of clothes wasn't as extreme as it is today....well the desis who were born and grew up here are just americans, so u can't blame them for losing their culture and background. I came here when I was 11 but I still have that touch and was raised strict in USA.....regardless of the desis losing their culture and roots, they are still f**ked up here b/c of drugs, STD's, alcohol, and other problems......

some people who come from india loose their roots and morals faster than ABCD"s or other indians that aren't born in India....b/c I know some people who were born in different countries and still follow the religion and culture more than people who come here from india...but everything is still f***ed up
Just saying it's not from one end but both

[SIXPAK GQ]

but when you think about it..don't you find that completely stupid?? like something doesn't make sense??
these kids you say are spoilt...so basically they have everything they could want in life.. probably wihtout ever having to worry about money or anything big like that...then why go down that path?? because this is the way they are meant to grow up...the hard way??? Hell, if i had that life..i woulda been a doc by now....*in med school*

one day they will have to grow up, how long will these parents keep them in their homes especially the new generation...there are kids who come from lower to middle class families which are actually doing better then the spoilt kids....they work hard for money and study.....i know some of my friends who are just f**ked up right now, they got nowhere to go...

[SIXPAK GQ]

some people who come from india loose their roots and morals faster than ABCD"s or other indians that aren't born in India....b/c I know some people who were born in different countries and still follow the religion and culture more than people who come here from india...but everything is still f***ed up
Just saying it's not from one end but both

I don't really care about religion and keeping the culture alive in america, thats just a choice. Education, health, secure living environment are more important to me....

[Ac89]

one day they will have to grow up, how long will these parents keep them in their homes especially the new generation...there are kids who come from lower to middle class families which are actually doing better then the spoilt kids....they work hard for money and study.....i know some of my friends who are just f**ked up right now, they got nowhere to go...


and i don't disagree wiht you on anything you said abotu that....THe more you know what it takes to succeed in life the better you're going to do...I think it's a lot better if u'r tested earlier in life than later....I, on one hand, was tested at a really early age..and i've learnt a lot...so all my firends think i'm too mature and shit...but i been thru hell that you can only write about or think about .... especially at an age where all you're supposed to be worried about is watching cartoons and having fun at school...
anyways...that's what's absolutely pathetic...No matter how good of a parent you think you are...you can't be strict cuz the kid is most likely going to rebel...and u can't be too easy...czu then the kid doens't learn anything...Like i said before...it all comes down to the individual to look wihtin oneself and realize what's more important...friends or family...But, wiht this "freedom of voice" bs...everyone wants to rebel....and what to these kids learn after...Mtv....bullshit like that....
i heard about the shit you been through...it's nice and it's better with ppl like you in this world

[SIXPAK GQ]

and i don't disagree wiht you on anything you said abotu that....THe more you know what it takes to succeed in life the better you're going to do...I think it's a lot better if u'r tested earlier in life than later....I, on one hand, was tested at a really early age..and i've learnt a lot...so all my firends think i'm too mature and shit...but i been thru hell that you can only write about or think about .... especially at an age where all you're supposed to be worried about is watching cartoons and having fun at school...
anyways...that's what's absolutely pathetic...No matter how good of a parent you think you are...you can't be strict cuz the kid is most likely going to rebel...and u can't be too easy...czu then the kid doens't learn anything...Like i said before...it all comes down to the individual to look wihtin oneself and realize what's more important...friends or family...But, wiht this "freedom of voice" bs...everyone wants to rebel....and what to these kids learn after...Mtv....bullshit like that....
i heard about the shit you been through...it's nice and it's better with ppl like you in this world

i've been on my own since age 18......so ive learned a lot about survival...especially when one's father passes away at such a young age....also you really have to be conservative when making friends, these days all i find is junk...they are just all the same,, nothing catches my attention as far as lifestyle and their future goes.........

[Ac89]

i've been on my own since age 18......so ive learned a lot about survival...especially when one's father passes away at such a young age....also you really have to be conservative when making friends, these days all i find is junk...they are just all the same,, nothing catches my attention as far as lifestyle and their future goes.........


it's weird but a lot of ppl today just use one another...like ladders...to see if they can get higher and higher....and when the ladder isn't of use anymore..it gets discarded and thrown in with the rest of the junk that gathers dust
i agree with the friends part too....it's stupid...really stupid....and that kinda growing up makes you more aware of the world...and makes you realize this kind of stuff...especialyl when it comes to ppl you associate yourself wiht...and the kind of people you can talk to....Finding a girl's even harder...
The way i think about all this...god chooses to test everyone at a certain time....some earlier...some mid way...some later.....But either way...you do see the sun rise at some point in your life:)

[SIXPAK GQ]

it's weird but a lot of ppl today just use one another...like ladders...to see if they can get higher and higher....and when the ladder isn't of use anymore..it gets discarded and thrown in with the rest of the junk that gathers dust
i agree with the friends part too....it's stupid...really stupid....and that kinda growing up makes you more aware of the world...and makes you realize this kind of stuff...especialyl when it comes to ppl you associate yourself wiht...and the kind of people you can talk to....Finding a girl's even harder...
The way i think about all this...god chooses to test everyone at a certain time....some earlier...some mid way...some later.....But either way...you do see the sun rise at some point in your life:)

i could care for finding girls. they will come and go. whats really important is ur education, career, health and secure environment and how u can help/contribute the environment....we all go through the life cycles, ups and downs.....

[Ac89]

i could care for finding girls. they will come and go. whats really important is ur education, career, health and secure environment and how u can help/contribute the environment....we all go through the life cycles, ups and downs.....

lol

so true mon ami...so true

no dispute on this half

[SIXPAK GQ]

correction: i could care less for finding girls. they will come and go. whats really important is ur education, career, health and secure environment and how u can help/contribute the environment....we all go through the life cycles, ups and downs.....

[Ac89]

correction: i could care less for finding girls. they will come and go. whats really important is ur education, career, health and secure environment and how u can help/contribute the environment....we all go through the life cycles, ups and downs.....


i figured that out :D

[MiSs.SuNsHiNe]

Hmm.. what attracts me most to a guy is INTELLIGENCE, and not necessarily just booksmarts, but general smarts. Intelligence usually comes hand in hand with several other attractive qualities such as ambition, manners, articulation and just helps in creating a generally well rounded person.

[SIXPAK GQ]

Hmm.. what attracts me most to a guy is INTELLIGENCE, and not necessarily just booksmarts, but general smarts. Intelligence usually comes hand in hand with several other attractive qualities such as ambition, manners, articulation and just helps in creating a generally well rounded person.

those are one of the choices listed, however, u can relate that to humor....

[MiSs.SuNsHiNe]

those are one of the choices listed, however, u can relate that to humor....

Nope its not, the choices are:
Sense of humor
nice physique
attractive face
style
other

Intelligence can't really be directly translated to a sense of humour. Some of the smartest people out there have no sense of humour.

[SIXPAK GQ]

Nope its not, the choices are:
Sense of humor
nice physique
attractive face
style
other

Intelligence can't really be directly translated to a sense of humour. Some of the smartest people out there have no sense of humour.

Correction: those are NOT one of the choices listed.

[SIXPAK GQ]

bump

[BDzFinEst]

hate to admit, but majority physical appearance because thats just how I would notice them, but in the long run intelligence and trust comes in

[SIXPAK GQ]

hate to admit, but majority physical appearance because thats just how I would notice them, but in the long run intelligence and trust comes in

thats human nature.....

[SIXPAK GQ]

hate to admit, but majority physical appearance because thats just how I would notice them, but in the long run intelligence and trust comes in

well is that physical apperance at first sight?

[plummet]

good question

[SIXPAK GQ]

plummet : do u want to answer for her?