Playing hard to get?

[WildWolfdog]

Can it happen that you tell someone you like them and you can tell they're teasing and u play along with it .. but then they play gard to get for way too long and way too much until you could care less? Or vice versa? Discuss.

[the gothman]

you didnt reply to my pm dude :(

[the_dark_drag0n]

Haha definitely. Well that's their loss. :P

[miss_qupid]

Can it happen that you tell someone you like them and you can tell they're teasing and u play along with it .. but then they play gard to get for way too long and way too much until you could care less? Or vice versa? Discuss.
hmmmmm oye where'd u suddenly go? u avoiding ,me?

[WildWolfdog]

you didnt reply to my pm dude :(

o shoot, lol k i'll reply soon haha i totally forgot

[WildWolfdog]

TDD: lol really? when'd that happen with u?

Qupid: Lol im not avoiding u, u wish i'd do that :)

[desisk83r]

Can it happen that you tell someone you like them and you can tell they're teasing and u play along with it .. but then they play gard to get for way too long and way too much until you could care less? Or vice versa? Discuss.
dude simplify :oops: lol

[plummet]

mind games= NO/bad thing/something people should never do

[the_dark_drag0n]

TDD: lol really? when'd that happen with u?

Qupid: Lol im not avoiding u, u wish i'd do that :)

lol I didn't say that happened to me :P

[WildWolfdog]

Desisk8er: i'm just sayin, do u sometimes reach a limit with the hard to playingness u get from a girl u mite like, even though she knows u like her?

Plummet: it makes for some fun though .. unless its only one person having fun

TDD: lol then how do u know if it's their loss or urs?

[Arjuna]

:arrow:

[WildWolfdog]

:arrow:

:pissed:

[P_Rizzle99]

it gets annoying sometimes :x

[pnp366]

playing hard to get is fun. esp when its teasing btwn the two

but too much and both parties can loose interest


so play carefully basil,



(that was lesson #2)

[the_dark_drag0n]

playing hard to get is fun. esp when its teasing btwn the two

but too much and both parties can loose interest


so play carefully basil,



(that was lesson #2)

LOL!!! Thanks Aunty pnp. She's right though, it can be fun but like at some point you'll lose the other person and regret it for a LONG ASS TIME. Cause c'mon, not many people find someone that loves em back, and when you lose em for something so stupid you feel like smackingyourself. Not that I would know.... :shock:

[Arjuna]

:arrow:

:pissed:

not today :x

[pnp366]

Ya, and after you lose them, you ruin the next few relationships b/c you over play and theyre like 'wow this person comes on strong'



so play right




(lesson #3)

[ilikecheese]

Can it happen that you tell someone you like them and you can tell they're teasing and u play along with it .. but then they play gard to get for way too long and way too much until you could care less? Or vice versa? Discuss.meh a lot of times playing hard to get gets so hard its just gay, and i go fuk it.. if i wanted to play a hard game, id go play tetris -_-

[the_dark_drag0n]

Ya, and after you lose them, you ruin the next few relationships b/c you over play and theyre like 'wow this person comes on strong'



so play right




(lesson #3)

Please explain Auntyji...I mean Aapa!

Edit: LMAO Tetris is NOT hard.

[Mr_Maz]

playing hard to get is wrong

I wish people were just honest about their feelings


there would be alot less broken hearts in the world

[Arjuna]

playing hard to get is wrong

I wish people were just honest about their feelings


there would be alot less broken hearts in the world


r u 30?

[pnp366]

you show affection too much, cause you didnt show it enough before. so this time you show too much and scare off the person :D


got it bachi?

[urbanmix786]

I didnt get what u were saying anyway my views on playing a person along are:
If they have been playing hard to get for a long period of time knowing u like them is best to just forget...as it is cruel leading someone on and chances are they will keep playing mind games etc.
Or if you really really like them as in marriage material liking lols then it's cool just play along.

[Mr_Maz]

playing hard to get is wrong

I wish people were just honest about their feelings


there would be alot less broken hearts in the world


r u 30?

no are you 15

[the_dark_drag0n]

Yes ma'am! :hug:

[Arjuna]

playing hard to get is wrong

I wish people were just honest about their feelings


there would be alot less broken hearts in the world


r u 30?

no are you 15

ur so sensitive.. :no:

[MolviCorleone]

the ones who play hard to get are the Typical manghether girls...

[Mr_Maz]

playing hard to get is wrong

I wish people were just honest about their feelings


there would be alot less broken hearts in the world


r u 30?

no are you 15

ur so sensitive.. :no:


no I was just providing a sarcastic retort to a strange question

[Arjuna]

playing hard to get is wrong

I wish people were just honest about their feelings


there would be alot less broken hearts in the world


r u 30?

no are you 15

ur so sensitive.. :no:


no I was just providing a sarcastic retort to a strange question

omg ur are soo funny! :D

[WildWolfdog]

Sarah - i rarely ever get to play, it's always the other people wantin to play (for lesson #2) and how and when can one party know that they're playing a lil too much and are crossing lines

and i don't understand lesson 3

TDD - i don't mean bout love, i'm just sayin in a crush or even like situation

Ilikecheese - i don't really like playin hard to get, i'm just trynna find out more bout wat goes inside the heads of people who do like it

Mrmaz - i whole heartedly agree :(

Urban - how can u not get wat i was sayin .. i was so simple .. but yeah sometimes i think the people trynna play hard dont realize that the other person might have feelings too, and maybe just not for them ... by playin hard to get their messing up their chances

[angel_sonia]

get fuck or lost. life dont need loosers like u I would say. Plus punch her or him. :P

Mr. wolfy, what up man? where is farhan?

[WildWolfdog]

get fuck or lost. life dont need loosers like u I would say. Plus punch her or him. :P

Mr. wolfy, what up man? where is farhan?

lol haha i dunno where he is .. i thought u talked wit him way more

[ProxDJ]

Can it happen that you tell someone you like them and you can tell they're teasing and u play along with it .. but then they play gard to get for way too long and way too much until you could care less? Or vice versa? Discuss.
hmmmmm oye where'd u suddenly go? u avoiding ,me?

basil... give miss qupid undivided attention, will ya :P

[WildWolfdog]

Can it happen that you tell someone you like them and you can tell they're teasing and u play along with it .. but then they play gard to get for way too long and way too much until you could care less? Or vice versa? Discuss.
hmmmmm oye where'd u suddenly go? u avoiding ,me?

basil... give miss qupid undivided attention, will ya :P

'twas 3 days ago :P

[WildWolfdog]

back to topic, any more opinions?

[WonkaBear]

Hart to get is a fun game... :lol:

[Quattrocento]

Can it happen that you tell someone you like them and you can tell they're teasing and u play along with it .. but then they play gard to get for way too long and way too much until you could care less? Or vice versa? Discuss.



I'll need a large box of toffee popcorn...names, dates, times and a good bit of trifle at the end of it....

U may proceed....*places tv remote next to the sofa for an emergency*

[WildWolfdog]

Can it happen that you tell someone you like them and you can tell they're teasing and u play along with it .. but then they play gard to get for way too long and way too much until you could care less? Or vice versa? Discuss.



I'll need a large box of toffee popcorn...names, dates, times and a good bit of trifle at the end of it....

U may proceed....*places tv remote next to the sofa for an emergency*

lol but there's no drama to watch though :P

Wonka: just cuz ur lucky in this game, dont rub it in :P

[Quattrocento]

Can it happen that you tell someone you like them and you can tell they're teasing and u play along with it .. but then they play gard to get for way too long and way too much until you could care less? Or vice versa? Discuss.



I'll need a large box of toffee popcorn...names, dates, times and a good bit of trifle at the end of it....

U may proceed....*places tv remote next to the sofa for an emergency*

lol but there's no drama to watch though :P

Wonka: just cuz ur lucky in this game, dont rub it in :P

:shock:
Errrrrrrr...so George Clooney wont be making a guest appearance??

[WildWolfdog]

:shock:
Errrrrrrr...so George Clooney wont be making a guest appearance??

LOL brad pitt mite though .. but if he does i'll surely be stalkin him at the time .. damn he's hot :caffine:

[WildWolfdog]

Can it happen that you tell someone you like them and you can tell they're teasing and u play along with it .. but then they play gard to get for way too long and way too much until you could care less? Or vice versa? Discuss.

but seriously, let's discuss this .. how do u get over it?

[samosa321]

I abhor mind games. If a person decides to flirt with multiple people, then he or she should be aware that a party may take the playful interaction too seriously and end up getting hurt. Also, it is nice to be aware of the other person’s true intentions. I would be really cautious in getting close with anyone whose intentions seem unclear even after a prolonged period of time.

[WildWolfdog]

I abhor mind games. If a person decides to flirt with multiple people, then he or she should be aware that a party may take the playful interaction too seriously and end up getting hurt. Also, it is nice to be aware of the other person’s true intentions. I would be really cautious in getting close with anyone whose intentions seem unclear even after a prolonged period of time.

Hmm thats a pretty good reply .. but it does happen though sometimes they like the person and flirt with them but then flirt everywhere else a lot too and confuse the initial person ... and ur rite one party does end up gettin hurt and i hate mind games too, they're pretty gay.

Do u think the person who is playin hard to get might not be sure themselves on whether the initial person likes them or not and that's why they could be "teasing" or whatever not?

Btw can u post here lol ur post will be all cool, and nice sounding, and i know no because u are too respectful for that (i've never been on an "actual date" either so it's all cool) but yes, do reply http://forums.ratedesi.com/showthread.php?t=42507

[SIXPAK GQ]

you don't want to come off easy. play hard to get to a certain extent.

[WildWolfdog]

you don't want to come off easy. play hard to get to a certain extent.

but sometimes u don't want to play hard to get because it will ruin ur chances, tarnish ur image and make it look like ur not serious

[SIXPAK GQ]

but sometimes u don't want to play hard to get because it will ruin ur chances, tarnish ur image and make it look like ur not serious

not true. women who got game know exactly it is. you want to make her think that u r nothing to her. also flirt with other ladies to make her jeolous and she will run after you, then u stop playing hard to get. and don't confuse flirting with other ladies with the player image either....

[samosa321]

Hmm thats a pretty good reply .. but it does happen though sometimes they like the person and flirt with them but then flirt everywhere else a lot too and confuse the initial person ... and ur rite one party does end up gettin hurt and i hate mind games too, they're pretty gay.

Do u think the person who is playin hard to get might not be sure themselves on whether the initial person likes them or not and that's why they could be "teasing" or whatever not?

Btw can u post here lol ur post will be all cool, and nice sounding, and i know no because u are too respectful for that (i've never been on an "actual date" either so it's all cool) but yes, do reply http://forums.ratedesi.com/showthread.php?t=42507

This is precisely why both parties should be straightforward with each other about their feelings. The confused party should gently mention his or her thoughts regarding the situation.

And I answered in your thread. :eek:

[skaz]

Oh yeah ive been through that before... and then later on they come back and try talking again and all.

But its toooooooooooooooooo late!

[WildWolfdog]

Sixpaq - why do i want to make her think she means nothing to me when obviously she does .. lol i don' think i can lie that well when it comes to showing someone i dont like em when its pretty obvious by everythin i say and do that i do like em .. i can lie bout a lot of things pretty easily though lol .. And if i am playin the hard to get game, wat's the difference between me and the girl who is playin hard to get

Samosa - lol i answered to ur answer, haha thnx :hug: lol ... but sometimes one of the party is not sure whether the other party likes em or not .. and don't wanna end up lookin foolish in the other party's eyes and in the process lose anythin else they "did" have ..

Skaz - when they come back later, how exactly do you respond? What if you still like the person a little bit?

[-TITAN-]

mind games= NO/bad thing/something people should never do

:thumbleft

[WildWolfdog]

:thumbleft

lol dude, quoting someone with a smiley is very uncool

[SIXPAK GQ]

Sixpaq - why do i want to make her think she means nothing to me when obviously she does .. lol i don' think i can lie that well when it comes to showing someone i dont like em when its pretty obvious by everythin i say and do that i do like em .. i can lie bout a lot of things pretty easily though lol .. And if i am playin the hard to get game, wat's the difference between me and the girl who is playin hard to get

Samosa - lol i answered to ur answer, haha thnx :hug: lol ... but sometimes one of the party is not sure whether the other party likes em or not .. and don't wanna end up lookin foolish in the other party's eyes and in the process lose anythin else they "did" have ..

Skaz - when they come back later, how exactly do you respond? What if you still like the person a little bit?

unfortuntely girls are attracted to guys who don't give a daym about them. this goes for most girls but not all. you might wanna back off. i'd say flirt 4 days and ignore 3 days kinda like the song "jeene ke hain chaar din, baki hain bekaar din" from Mujhse Shaadi Karogi.