Sex overrated?

[la_bele_dame]

Article I wrote few days back - thought I would share it would you guys.


Sex is simply not sexy anymore. Sex is no longer beautiful like it is supposed to be. It is no longer a gift and it is no longer sexy. Sex is simply a marketing tool used for pop stars to sell records. And it works. It used to be one of those things that pushed boundaries that was really sexual. You went out on stage and it was just sexy and sexual even fully clothed. I think the more these stars shake their ass and take off clothing the less sexy they are. Truly.
Kurt Cobain was sexy and he was clothed and wasn't like suck my dick baby. He got behind his guitar and screamed all of his emotions out and that was sexy. When Kate something from Almost Famous walked she was clothed and she didn't shake her ass or feel herself up but she had an attitude along with a sweetness and an inner beauty that screamed sexy. D'Angelo, Ok yes he was butt naked which wasn't the sexy part but when he sang with that sexy voice and his smile let me just say that was sexy.
But today we have Sticky Agularia who has nothing to her shaking her phantom ass and Britney Idressandactlikeaslutbuticlaimimstillavirgin who does her best to turn on the guys and its totally laughable. Mariah Carey is disgusting and maybe to guys today is sexy but let me tell you boys you are truly missing out on Girls that are truly sexy. You have been blinded by the pop production of sexiness and are totally missing the real stuff.
And what sucks for us girls today is that the guys expect sex because they are being offered it on a silver platter by these pop stars. If these boys would wait and if us girls would wait we could give them the best sex they could ever imagine but they need to hold on and wait till we are ready. They have to wait until we are comfortable with ourselves. Because if we are thinking the whole time does he like this do I look ok naked I mean come on that isn't cool.
Guys should accept the way we look and love it even if it isn't considered beautiful by culture today. I mean sure go on a diet and put on makeup and do your hair. Look nice. But who cares about culture today because it is being lead by Ms. Spears who sucks ass. And her being " sexy" isn't really her being sexy. It's the photographer or the director that is directing her to be sexy. She isn't like Courtney Love or Madonna who are just plain sexy themselves.
Sarah McGlaucalin , Sheryl Crow, Fiona Apple and even Jewel are sexy women. But you dont see them dressing like whores. Except when Fiona did that orgy video and that was sexy. But girls please dont think that Britney stuff is sexy.
And today it is all about sex. To get a guys attention you have to do something or say something that deals with sex. Its so sad. I mean it really sucks.
Our parents dont even want us hanging out with guys our age or older or staying out late or even going somewhere that might have guys. Maybe if you all controlled your horomones a little better we would have more advantages. Maybe co ed sleepovers. I know that seems weird but that is because you are thinking of it from the parents perspective of what will we do there make out? No maybe hang out like normal people. Kids cant just hang out anymore. And thats what we are. Kids. So go have fun. Blow something up. Torture the neighbors cat. Egg a house. Be a kid.

[Pardesi_bhai]

too long 8)

[la_bele_dame]

i know - dont worry its not mandatory for u guys to read it...... just skip it over

[Aurovon]

too short.

[BinDaaS_BaBe]

too long 8)

[tjnptel1]

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[la_bele_dame]

dont understand if u guys dont wanna read it dont whin atleast...........

[Pardesi_bhai]

dont understand if u guys dont wanna read it dont whin atleast........... :cry:

[tjnptel1]

dont understand if u guys dont wanna read it dont whin atleast...........http://www.stlhosting.com/upload/babel.gif

[Pardesi_bhai]

dont understand if u guys dont wanna read it dont whin atleast...........http://www.stlhosting.com/upload/babel.gifdamn tj, u got like the answer to any internet problem :?

[BinDaaS_BaBe]

i only posted to help me get to 10 000! :P

[Pardesi_bhai]

i only posted to help me get to 10 000! :Pdamn u forum addict

[tjnptel1]

i only posted to help me get to 10 000! :Pthat's called spamming, and that could get your banned.

[la_bele_dame]

seriously i think i was stupid to post there - did i really think i would get any smart responses no....................... :?

[Aurovon]

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Some older artist were "truly sexy" without showing off their body and the article keeps on bashing Britney Spears. It's asking for kids to wait to have sex, especially the girls til they are comfortable wit the way they look naked. Parents get paranoid about guy/girl hangin out cuz of sex. In the end, it says to be a kid and go egg houses instead of getting laid.

[Pardesi_bhai]

seriously i think i was stupid to post there - did i really think i would get any smart responses no....................... :?BINGOOOO

[tjnptel1]

seriously i think i was stupid to post there - did i really think i would get any smart responses no....................... :?SEEE.. Now you are learning, punctuation makes the post alot more readable. now i can reply back.

[tjnptel1]

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Some older artist were "truly sexy" without showing off their body and the article keeps on bashing Britney Spears. It's asking for kids to wait to have sex, especially the girls til they are comfortable wit the way they look naked. Parents get paranoid about guy/girl hangin out cuz of sex. In the end, it says to be a kid and go egg houses instead of getting laid. :lol: :lol: :o

[la_bele_dame]

TJ HERE HAVE RUM AND COKE - GO ENJOY URSELF....................

[BinDaaS_BaBe]

im not spamming!!!




okay im off.. i reallly feel sick.. im gonna go to sleep

[tjnptel1]

TJ HERE HAVE RUM AND COKE - GO ENJOY URSELF....................http://www.stlhosting.com/upload/this%20thread%20rocks.jpg

[Aurovon]

Article I wrote few days back - thought I would share it would you guys.

To get a guys attention you have to do something or say something that deals with sex. Its so sad. I mean it really sucks.


Sex is good n all but i don't give a shit about it, its overrated in my opinion too. if i dont have sex for the rest of my life, its not the end of the world. there are plenty of others things in life that are way better in my opinion. but most dont realize it cuz society tends to make a big deal out of sex, thats where the $ is. hell heroine is 1000 times better than sex, but dosent mean il do it...tempting tho.

[Pardesi_bhai]

TJ HERE HAVE RUM AND COKE - GO ENJOY URSELF....................sorry Isha, the behavior of some of our mods is just obnoxious, i apologize on his behalf :lol:

[~* PleAsUrEs *~]

Britney +Christina >>>> Kurt and D'Angelo

ur jealous :roll:

[tjnptel1]

ok ok sorry Isha, i was just joking around. :hug: http://www.stlhosting.com/upload/kiss.gif

[la_bele_dame]

Article I wrote few days back - thought I would share it would you guys.

To get a guys attention you have to do something or say something that deals with sex. Its so sad. I mean it really sucks.


Sex is good n all but i don't give a shit about it, its overrated in my opinion too. if i dont have sex for the rest of my life, its not the end of the world. there are plenty of others things in life that are way better in my opinion. but most dont realize it cuz society tends to make a big deal out of sex, thats where the $ is. hell heroine is 1000 times better than sex, but dosent mean il do it...tempting tho.


sex is like drugs - the only differences every fucking loser is making money out of it........

[tjnptel1]

sex sells, bottomline..

girls know this, they use it to their advantage.

[Aurovon]

ive had my share of both, im sure u have too. and it wont kill me if i never do those again.

[la_bele_dame]

ok ok sorry Isha, i was just joking around. :hug: http://www.stlhosting.com/upload/kiss.gif



neah dude seriously have arum and coke - enjoy :)

and pardesi_bhai - thanks but u dont have to apologize on anyones behalf.........:)

[tjnptel1]

Article I wrote few days back - thought I would share it would you guys.

To get a guys attention you have to do something or say something that deals with sex. Its so sad. I mean it really sucks.


Sex is good n all but i don't give a shit about it, its overrated in my opinion too. if i dont have sex for the rest of my life, its not the end of the world. there are plenty of others things in life that are way better in my opinion. but most dont realize it cuz society tends to make a big deal out of sex, thats where the $ is. hell heroine is 1000 times better than sex, but dosent mean il do it...tempting tho.


sex is like drugs - the only differences every fucking loser is making money out of it........drugs is more dangerous to health then sex is.

[Mandingo Warrior]

too short.

I don't get some of these people who say it is too long... damn illiterate ass people! I am sure you can tag up this post with a much longer essay, but i think you got your point across none the less.

The thing is when you are growing up (teenage years)... sex is a big issue/"the issue" with guys and girls. It is advertised everywhere and there is somewhat of a pressure to have sex or to try to have sex, and if you grow up in a somewhat conservative family (*cough Indian) it is really hard to get over this unspoken pressure. However as you grow older you don't let these trivial media figures pressure you to doing anything. Honestly, sex is great... but its not because Britney Spears or Mariah Carey are flaunting it. Sex is great cause it simply is... however young guys don't know half the shit they need to know about it so they usually just fail miserably when trying to hook up with a girl, frankly the majority of them lack the maturity the girls their same age are looking for (hence you see older guys dating younger girls). This miserable failure on the guy's part usually effects all guys cause now the girl that was somewhat open to sex is slightly turned off by it... that is until she meets someone who she can really connect with. It seems like you (author of this post) knows what she is looking for and all i have to say is... don't settle. Trust me you are def. more mature for your age than the guys you may have been dealing with. Also one of the most sexiest feature of a girl, is not her physical body parts (that plays a role initially) but rather what keeps a guy hooked is her intelligence and confidence.

[la_bele_dame]

sex sells, bottomline..

girls know this, they use it to their advantage.


and thats wats sad..... kids as old as 13 and 14 both gurls and boys are just into having bf/gfs - having sex

[tjnptel1]

sex sells, bottomline..

girls know this, they use it to their advantage.


and thats wats sad..... kids as old as 13 and 14 both gurls and boys are just into having bf/gfs - having sexit is sad.. girls as young as 12 / 13 are pregnant nowadays.. either from consentual sex or rape.

[Pardesi_bhai]

sex sells, bottomline..

girls know this, they use it to their advantage.


and thats wats sad..... kids as old as 13 and 14 both gurls and boys are just into having bf/gfs - having sexanother thing is the maturity level, i mean jailbaits sometime look like mature women!! :shock:

[Aurovon]

ya im sure all of this bullshit is sad. but there will be bigger things to worry about in the future. so save your sweat for the future, cuz ul need it.

[tjnptel1]

sex sells, bottomline..

girls know this, they use it to their advantage.


and thats wats sad..... kids as old as 13 and 14 both gurls and boys are just into having bf/gfs - having sexanother thing is the maturity level, i mean jailbaits sometime look like mature women!! :shock: well it is scientificly proven that younger girls nowaday, mature physically, faster then they did 5 years ago.. girls by the age of 13 - 14 have bigger tits then most mature women :shock:

[la_bele_dame]

too short.

I don't get some of these people who say it is too long... damn illiterate ass people! I am sure you can tag up this post with a much longer essay, but i think you got your point across none the less.

The thing is when you are growing up (teenage years)... sex is a big issue/"the issue" with guys and girls. It is advertised everywhere and there is somewhat of a pressure to have sex or to try to have sex, and if you grow up in a somewhat conservative family (*cough Indian) it is really hard to get over this unspoken pressure. However as you grow older you don't let these trivial media figures pressure you to doing anything. Honestly, sex is great... but its not because Britney Spears or Mariah Carey are flaunting it. Sex is great cause it simply is... however young guys don't know half the shit they need to know about it so they usually just fail miserably when trying to hook up with a girl, frankly the majority of them lack the maturity the girls their same age are looking for (hence you see older guys dating younger girls). This miserable failure on the guy's part usually effects all guys cause now the girl that was somewhat open to sex is slightly turned off by it... that is until she meets someone who she can really connect with. It seems like you (author of this post) knows what she is looking for and all i have to say is... don't settle. Trust me you are def. more mature for your age than the guys you may have been dealing with. Also one of the most sexiest feature of a girl, is not her physical body parts (that plays a role initially) but rather what keeps a guy hooked is her intelligence and confidence.


i agree with wat u saying but where are the parents? what are schools doing - sex education classes dont help a bit - i have taken them - u just ignored anything the teacher is teaching u - cux at that age u arent gonna learn by someone just reading out material u need more than that...... everyone knows that but nothing is being done about it.

i have had my share of being stupid and clumsy with sex and drugs not gonna ignore it- there was atime when i loved it but now its just really stupid i feel like how dumb could i be to be fallen into it ................

[la_bele_dame]

ya im sure all of this bullshit is sad. but there will be bigger things to worry about in the future. so save your sweat for the future, cuz ul need it.

like wat?

if this isnt something to be worried about like gurls having kids at a very young age - what happens to their future - no education - just some shitty job - what happens to the economy then?


i m worried about the future thats why i worry about this

[Aurovon]

ya im sure all of this bullshit is sad. but there will be bigger things to worry about in the future. so save your sweat for the future, cuz ul need it.

like wat?

if this isnt something to be worried about like gurls having kids at a very young age - what happens to their future - no education - just some shitty job - what happens to the economy then?


i m worried about the future thats why i worry about this

to start out with:

WWIII (its only the matter of time)
Overpopulation
over pollution


..the list continues.

[la_bele_dame]

ya im sure all of this bullshit is sad. but there will be bigger things to worry about in the future. so save your sweat for the future, cuz ul need it.

like wat?

if this isnt something to be worried about like gurls having kids at a very young age - what happens to their future - no education - just some shitty job - what happens to the economy then?


i m worried about the future thats why i worry about this

to start out with:

WWIII (its only the matter of time)
Overpopulation
over pollution


..the list continues.

ok WWIII - cux of stupid ppl taking over the damn government

Over population - again sex at young age - leads to no education - which leads to ppl having sex all the time without protection

over pollution - stupid undereducated ppl

[tjnptel1]

too short.

I don't get some of these people who say it is too long... damn illiterate ass people! I am sure you can tag up this post with a much longer essay, but i think you got your point across none the less.

The thing is when you are growing up (teenage years)... sex is a big issue/"the issue" with guys and girls. It is advertised everywhere and there is somewhat of a pressure to have sex or to try to have sex, and if you grow up in a somewhat conservative family (*cough Indian) it is really hard to get over this unspoken pressure. However as you grow older you don't let these trivial media figures pressure you to doing anything. Honestly, sex is great... but its not because Britney Spears or Mariah Carey are flaunting it. Sex is great cause it simply is... however young guys don't know half the shit they need to know about it so they usually just fail miserably when trying to hook up with a girl, frankly the majority of them lack the maturity the girls their same age are looking for (hence you see older guys dating younger girls). This miserable failure on the guy's part usually effects all guys cause now the girl that was somewhat open to sex is slightly turned off by it... that is until she meets someone who she can really connect with. It seems like you (author of this post) knows what she is looking for and all i have to say is... don't settle. Trust me you are def. more mature for your age than the guys you may have been dealing with. Also one of the most sexiest feature of a girl, is not her physical body parts (that plays a role initially) but rather what keeps a guy hooked is her intelligence and confidence.


i agree with wat u saying but where are the parents? what are schools doing - sex education classes dont help a bit - i have taken them - u just ignored anything the teacher is teaching u - cux at that age u arent gonna learn by someone just reading out material u need more than that...... everyone knows that but nothing is being done about it.

i have had my share of being stupid and clumsy with sex and drugs not gonna ignore it- there was atime when i loved it but now its just really stupid i feel like how dumb could i be to be fallen into it ................i have learned alot from my sex ed classes in high school. Agreed, it didn't stop me from having sex but it did make me more aware of the risks and i always remember to use a condom... so sex ed. classes do have an impact.. but at the end, it's the way your parents raised you that makes all the impact. some people do it just to rebel 'cause it's the forbidden thing to do.. if my parents actually sat down with me and talked to me about sex like mature adults instead of avoiding the topic.. i would have atleast understood to wait till marriage.. but desi parents infact avoid the topic and do the exact opposite.. they keep quiet and don't want to talk about it, so rebelious kids will go do exactly what they are not supposed to do. As the other poster mentioned, sex is not good 'cause it's flaunted by celebs.. but it is infact actually a really good feeling O:)

[tjnptel1]

Over population - again sex at young age - leads to no education - which leads to ppl having sex all the time without protectionyou just described india :o

[Pardesi_bhai]

MTV is doind a lot of sex and politics campaigning right now due to the elections

[la_bele_dame]

Over population - again sex at young age - leads to no education - which leads to ppl having sex all the time without protectionyou just described india :o


which is sad cux its the most over populated country or about to become one soon

[tjnptel1]

Over population - again sex at young age - leads to no education - which leads to ppl having sex all the time without protectionyou just described india :o


which is sad cux its the most over populated country or about to become one soonhence you described india. 2nd most populated country.

[Aurovon]

it will beat china soon enough tho

[la_bele_dame]

i have learned alot from my sex ed classes in high school. Agreed, it didn't stop me from having sex but it did make me more aware of the risks and i always remember to use a condom... so sex ed. classes do have an impact.. but at the end, it's the way your parents raised you that makes all the impact. some people do it just to rebel 'cause it's the forbidden thing to do.. if my parents actually sat down with me and talked to me about sex like mature adults instead of avoiding the topic.. i would have atleast understood to wait till marriage.. but desi parents infact avoid the topic and do the exact opposite.. they keep quiet and don't want to talk about it, so rebelious kids will go do exactly what they are not supposed to do. As the other poster mentioned, sex is not good 'cause it's flaunted by celebs.. but it is infact actually a really good feeling O:)

i m glad u did learn something in ur sex ed classes but not everyone does - i didnt which totally sucked.....
and ur rite about the damn parents - if only they can accept the fact that sex is gonna happen oneday and its better to accept it now then suffer later ..... but who is to explain to them......

[tjnptel1]

it will beat china soon enough thosadly, china is actually doing something about it, where as india isn't doing shit about it.

[la_bele_dame]

oh well...... doubt anything is gonna be done about it - neways m out - hope u guys keep discussing about it........ if not then its cool

have fun ppl

[Catalytic]

i have learned alot from my sex ed classes in high school. Agreed, it didn't stop me from having sex but it did make me more aware of the risks and i always remember to use a condom... so sex ed. classes do have an impact.. but at the end, it's the way your parents raised you that makes all the impact. some people do it just to rebel 'cause it's the forbidden thing to do.. if my parents actually sat down with me and talked to me about sex like mature adults instead of avoiding the topic.. i would have atleast understood to wait till marriage.. but desi parents infact avoid the topic and do the exact opposite.. they keep quiet and don't want to talk about it, so rebelious kids will go do exactly what they are not supposed to do. As the other poster mentioned, sex is not good 'cause it's flaunted by celebs.. but it is infact actually a really good feeling O:)

I was going to respond to this thread, but then I read your post. Exactly my sentiment. Especially regarding the "See No Evil, Hear No Evil" approach that desi parents have taken towards this sex issue.

[**bambina**]

media, sex education, etc makes you curious about sex... its like when you tell sumone not to do something and their curousity gets the best of them and they go ahead and do it coz they want to find out exactly how bad or good thing is it.

[tjnptel1]

agreed Bambina, so why forbid it, why not educate them to be safe about it.

[Catalytic]

media, sex education, etc makes you curious about sex... its like when you tell sumone not to do something and their curousity gets the best of them and they go ahead and do it coz they want to find out exactly how bad or good thing is it.
People have been experimenting with sex since the inception of Human race. Granted, the media does play a some what of a big role in shoving it everybody's mouth. But regardless, people will still be curious, it's human nature. Just make sure everybody is properly educated about it.

[**bambina**]

agreed Bambina, so why forbid it, why not educate them to be safe about it.

because sex before marriage is a taboo in alot of cultures. and u are educated to have safe sex. alot of ppl take the education, alot of ppl rebel against it.

another thing is, psycologicaly that a young girl who has a bad childhood, or hasnt had enough love will fall pregnant at a early stage because to them once the have the baby they will have that love. unfortunately they dont understand the other commitments that come along with it.

and its right that girls these days develope more then what girls did 10 years back. i mean 9 year old have boobs and look womenly! plus the latest fashion trends. and if young ppl are getting hormones running thru them like crazy, they are going to fall into a sexual relationship at a early age.

[aspaan]

I read the article and I found it pretty stupid. Yeah times have changed but how do you draw the comparison of what britney spears wears to the level of intimacy between a couple

Sex is overrated .............. bah this article was prolly written by a lesbian or somebody who had sex with a Japanes guy, or a virgin for that matter.

[itsallaboutme]

seriously i think i was stupid to post there - did i really think i would get any smart responses no....................... :?


i agree with you.. ill respond more in a bit.. :o

[itsallaboutme]

I read the article and I found it pretty stupid. Yeah times have changed but how do you draw the comparison of what britney spears wears to the level of intimacy between a couple

Sex is overrated .............. bah this article was prolly written by a lesbian or somebody who had sex with a Japanes guy, or a virgin for that matter.

:shock: im sure there is more clarification to this thought she put out there.. :?

[aspaan]

I bet you a girl who has had a strong orgasm ........... you know when you shiver for hours afterwards, when your feet tingle ................ will NEVER EVER write such an article.

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[Aurovon]

lol aspaan the girl who posted this was the person who wrote the article, i agree with u tho.

[BilalisPakistani]

wow thats way too long
but sure ill agree

[aspaan]

lol aspaan the girl who posted this was the person who wrote the article, i agree with u tho.

I know

I read the first line thats why I edited and added virgin part

[chunky]

I bet you a girl who has had a strong orgasm ........... you know when you shiver for hours afterwards, when your feet tingle ................ will NEVER EVER write such an article.

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haha. make her toes curl & eyes roll back.

BTW, Isha is not what you think aspaan. Look deeper into what's she writing to get her point - it's not really about sex itself - just some of the attitudes surrounding it.

the only people who really believe that sex is overrated are those who haven't had mind blowing sex.

Now saying that sex is over commercialized & it's value/meaning has become diluted as it finds it's way into every aspect of our society is valid. The sad thing is, the reason WHY it's so popular is b/c everyone is in love with the idea of great sex, but so few people are actually having it. There's nothing wrong with wanting sex; it's a natural instinct. But the way it's portrayed these days, it makes it difficult for young girls to get to a point where they're able to have that sort of sex. They far too often sell themselves short of the real experience by shacking up with the first availible boy b/c it's what happens in all the tv shows.

I think the article is more about how childhood is being polluted by an overpresence of sex in media/marketing that is directed at the adolescents. And I agree wholly with this. Rushing into adulthood is a common stigma among kids these days. Don't be afraid to linger in your childhood, enjoy it while it lasts.

[aspaan]

i agree with that

[itsallaboutme]

agreed chunky....

aspaan..hmm..I bet you a girl who has had a strong orgasm ........... you know when you shiver for hours afterwards, when your feet tingle ................ will NEVER EVER write such an article.

not neccesarily..considering the point she was trying to make...cuz prolly still write such an article..

[la_bele_dame]

I bet you a girl who has had a strong orgasm ........... you know when you shiver for hours afterwards, when your feet tingle ................ will NEVER EVER write such an article.

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haha. make her toes curl & eyes roll back.

BTW, Isha is not what you think aspaan. Look deeper into what's she writing to get her point - it's not really about sex itself - just some of the attitudes surrounding it.

the only people who really believe that sex is overrated are those who haven't had mind blowing sex.

Now saying that sex is over commercialized & it's value/meaning has become diluted as it finds it's way into every aspect of our society is valid. The sad thing is, the reason WHY it's so popular is b/c everyone is in love with the idea of great sex, but so few people are actually having it. There's nothing wrong with wanting sex; it's a natural instinct. But the way it's portrayed these days, it makes it difficult for young girls to get to a point where they're able to have that sort of sex. They far too often sell themselves short of the real experience by shacking up with the first availible boy b/c it's what happens in all the tv shows.

I think the article is more about how childhood is being polluted by an overpresence of sex in media/marketing that is directed at the adolescents. And I agree wholly with this. Rushing into adulthood is a common stigma among kids these days. Don't be afraid to linger in your childhood, enjoy it while it lasts.

hey babes thanks for making it clear - i think i just need to change the title to make it more clear

and aspaan - i can see wat u were syaing but if u made a bit more attention to the topic u would see wat i wanted to point out - its not about sex but more about the true meaning behind sex and its intimacy ..... the meaning no longer exist.

about the lesbian comment - well even lesbians have their fun w/o dick

[chunky]

hey babes thanks for making it clear - i think i just need to change the title to make it more clear

and aspaan - i can see wat u were syaing but if u made a bit more attention to the topic u would see wat i wanted to point out - its not about sex but more about the true meaning behind sex and its intimacy ..... the meaning no longer exist.

about the lesbian comment - well even lesbians have their fun w/o dick

glad to see you posting again. :) did you happen to catch my threads from yesterday? the might have gotten a rise out of you. :P

[shorty1234]

Article I wrote few days back - thought I would share it would you guys.


Sex is simply not sexy anymore. Sex is no longer beautiful like it is supposed to be. It is no longer a gift and it is no longer sexy. Sex is simply a marketing tool used for pop stars to sell records. And it works. It used to be one of those things that pushed boundaries that was really sexual. You went out on stage and it was just sexy and sexual even fully clothed. I think the more these stars shake their ass and take off clothing the less sexy they are. Truly.
Kurt Cobain was sexy and he was clothed and wasn't like suck my dick baby. He got behind his guitar and screamed all of his emotions out and that was sexy. When Kate something from Almost Famous walked she was clothed and she didn't shake her ass or feel herself up but she had an attitude along with a sweetness and an inner beauty that screamed sexy. D'Angelo, Ok yes he was butt naked which wasn't the sexy part but when he sang with that sexy voice and his smile let me just say that was sexy.
But today we have Sticky Agularia who has nothing to her shaking her phantom ass and Britney Idressandactlikeaslutbuticlaimimstillavirgin who does her best to turn on the guys and its totally laughable. Mariah Carey is disgusting and maybe to guys today is sexy but let me tell you boys you are truly missing out on Girls that are truly sexy. You have been blinded by the pop production of sexiness and are totally missing the real stuff.
And what sucks for us girls today is that the guys expect sex because they are being offered it on a silver platter by these pop stars. If these boys would wait and if us girls would wait we could give them the best sex they could ever imagine but they need to hold on and wait till we are ready. They have to wait until we are comfortable with ourselves. Because if we are thinking the whole time does he like this do I look ok naked I mean come on that isn't cool.
Guys should accept the way we look and love it even if it isn't considered beautiful by culture today. I mean sure go on a diet and put on makeup and do your hair. Look nice. But who cares about culture today because it is being lead by Ms. Spears who sucks ass. And her being " sexy" isn't really her being sexy. It's the photographer or the director that is directing her to be sexy. She isn't like Courtney Love or Madonna who are just plain sexy themselves.
Sarah McGlaucalin , Sheryl Crow, Fiona Apple and even Jewel are sexy women. But you dont see them dressing like whores. Except when Fiona did that orgy video and that was sexy. But girls please dont think that Britney stuff is sexy.
And today it is all about sex. To get a guys attention you have to do something or say something that deals with sex. Its so sad. I mean it really sucks.
Our parents dont even want us hanging out with guys our age or older or staying out late or even going somewhere that might have guys. Maybe if you all controlled your horomones a little better we would have more advantages. Maybe co ed sleepovers. I know that seems weird but that is because you are thinking of it from the parents perspective of what will we do there make out? No maybe hang out like normal people. Kids cant just hang out anymore. And thats what we are. Kids. So go have fun. Blow something up. Torture the neighbors cat. Egg a house. Be a kid.



HEYYY I LOV BRITNEY!! :firedevi:

[la_bele_dame]

hey babes thanks for making it clear - i think i just need to change the title to make it more clear

and aspaan - i can see wat u were syaing but if u made a bit more attention to the topic u would see wat i wanted to point out - its not about sex but more about the true meaning behind sex and its intimacy ..... the meaning no longer exist.

about the lesbian comment - well even lesbians have their fun w/o dick

glad to see you posting again. :) did you happen to catch my threads from yesterday? the might have gotten a rise out of you. :P


neah wat was the thread on? pass me the link would check it out

[aspaan]

hey babes thanks for making it clear - i think i just need to change the title to make it more clear

and aspaan - i can see wat u were syaing but if u made a bit more attention to the topic u would see wat i wanted to point out - its not about sex but more about the true meaning behind sex and its intimacy ..... the meaning no longer exist.

about the lesbian comment - well even lesbians have their fun w/o dick

I know i know

I stand corrected

I was on crack when I read the article

[chunky]

neah wat was the thread on? pass me the link would check it out

you have teh PM.

[mozt wanted]

i only posted to help me get to 10 000! :P

10000? holy shit someones got waaay too much free time

[Ohmygod]

Sex is better in small dosages because then it feels better, if you have sex all the time you dont get pleasure from it just becomes an addiction like ciggarettes, expensive, doesnt last long and smells pooo :D

[Ac89]

skimmed what u wrote....but u'r exactly rite!

[mr neo]

Depending on the context of 'sex', sex to me is overrated at least when it comes to defining a relationship concretely. I hear idiots complaining that 'sex' is the ultimate bliss or end to a relationship, because there is so much pressure to it. Sex is ultimately a mechanism for instant gratification, or biological procreation, nothing more, nothing less. 'Love making' is total garbage. Any woman who says that needs to be kicked in the face.

[sachin_patel]

too long 8)
mine is still longer ;)

[Chiller_97]

Too long, no paragraphs. But I read it, and yeah you're right, sex is supposed to be mysterious and magical, Britney Spears and Cristina Aguilera are just about sexy as a blow-up doll. We can so tell they are fake. Has anyone seen Britney's photo's without make-up?

These skanks just toss sex at us forcing us to like 'em and it's not cool. Some pop starts however are REALLY sexy, e.g.: Shakira.

The only part I disagree with is about the girls having to give sex to their man because they are being offered sex on a silver platter. Do we get to bang those stars? No. Guys want it from girls since before the pre-historics, never mind pop culture. And I don't think it should be reffered to as girls "giving" sex unless it's oral.

[Ac89]

Too long, no paragraphs. But I read it, and yeah you're right, sex is supposed to be mysterious and magical, Britney Spears and Cristina Aguilera are just about sexy as a blow-up doll. We can so tell they are fake. Has anyone seen Britney's photo's without make-up?

These skanks just toss sex at us forcing us to like 'em and it's not cool. Some pop starts however are REALLY sexy, e.g.: Shakira.

The only part I disagree with is about the girls having to give sex to their man because they are being offered sex on a silver platter. Do we get to bang those stars? No. Guys want it from girls since before the pre-historics, never mind pop culture. And I don't think it should be reffered to as girls "giving" sex unless it's oral.
luv the STanley cup and MTL Canadien's jersey in your sig...but as to what u said.. agree with everything but the last part. Pop culture has influenced how we see sex in a whole different light. Because of the sex that is now so clearly evident on tv, movies, music videos...basically everywhere you look...it has made signicant changes as to how relationships are handled in today's day and age. A lot of guys measure their masculinity with how many times they've gotten laid. YOu ever chilled wiht a bunch of buddies and not talked abotu who u want to tap...etc. Women are either seen as sexy or fugly. We've labelled girls as "easy" and wanting "one night stands" and "relationship with no strings attached". I've helped peopel through relationship problmes and there's a lot of the times where it's been the topic of sex that has been a stumbling block. THat's eitehr made one couple fight or disagree...etc. And with guy's it's almost the same thing. IF you don't knwo waht you're doing there...or if u ain't measuring up right....there's something wrong wtih you...or we label these people as "gay". Pop culture has made the word "gay" ...it's made the definition that we define it to be today.

[zimmy24]

:( :(

y is that article blaming everything on guys
girls infront of meatrow mall r soo eager to get inside anyguys car

oh and btw jewel is the same person in the intuition video?? rite
well that video was pretty "sexy"

[Khanverse]

nice, you got writing skills..

[la_bele_dame]

who the fuck bumped up this thread?

[Ac89]

who the fuck bumped up this thread?
sheesh! what's up your butt :giggle:

[Eaglexii]

not all guys think of only sex.....you forget cars and videogames....ppl think its funny...but in reality lot of guys would pass up sex for cars and videogames....and you cant actually come to any kind of conclution on sex...just personal opinion...cuz sex is different to different ppl....to some ppl its special...to sum its just fun...and others...they have nuttin better to do...and pop stars use sex...because it works...its worked for centuries...you think guys are more hornier now than they were 300 yrs ago...NO...we are still the same....and most of these guys you speak of have never had sex....once youve done it....your whole take on sex changes....whats special...is not sex...its what happens before and after sex....if all you care about is just the sex part....you would be well off just masterabating...cuz trust me...it feels the same...no need take all that effort finding someone to just have sex with...

[Resa]

hmm... i agree. sex seems like a passtime more often than something special, in HS at least.

tee hee. i like the end. "And thats what we are. Kids. So go have fun. Blow something up. Torture the neighbors cat. Egg a house. Be a kid." <- the story of my life. :wiggle:

[Eaglexii]

you torture cats.....thatz animal cruelty.....do you have a vision problem.....cant you see how cute they are....along with the eye exam...get your head examined too

[Eaglexii]

sex is only magical and special if your making babies...other than that...you just doing it for fun..because your horny...theres no magic in that

[TheOne9and6Only]

Your absolutely right

[*Alina*]

yep...totally right

[ShivaChrist]

Too long, no paragraphs. But I read it, and yeah you're right, sex is supposed to be mysterious and magical

I disagree... there is nothing mysterious nor magical about taking a penis and planting it in a vagina.

[yumna]

hey look Sex is still cool if you do it with the right person.
There are some guys who just look at you and the first thing that comes to there mind is like " I think she'd be a great phuc!

So I say avoid 'em. Just look for guys who wanna be with you for you and wait until you're ready. HS is tough. I'm glad I'm out now but there is a lot of pressure on girls. I mean just look at the media they put pics like this

http://www.101lifestyle.com/images/celebs/bridget_moynahan/Bridget_Moynahan-001.jpg

up all the time so what's a guy supposed to do ?