Whats easier?

[Siesta]

Is it easier to get someone to fall in love with who you are? Or what you look like?

discuss

[HARD 2 THE KAUR]

Looks! lol

[. :: a L i ::.]

its proly the second one! sad but true. Although somewhere in between is the ideal:cool:

[Iron_Lungs]

it's always a physical that will get you to someone

you never hear

"______ is so amazing, they're so nice, and caring. but fucking ugly"

[destined_urs]

what u look like is always gna be easy because if ur hideous looking chances are no one will take a chance on getting to know u in the first place which is sad but its how the world works!

[di vinci]

im good looking so i dont have that problem *goes to the mirror to admire himself*

[destined_urs]

im good looking so i dont have that problem *goes to the mirror to admire himself*

:rolleyes: lol :P

[Dream_GirL]

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[di vinci]

u cant get someone to fall in love wid u.. it just happens.. :idea:

u watch too many bollywood flicks:cool:

[di vinci]

:rolleyes: lol :P


dont hate appreciate:cool:

[Dream_GirL]

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[Siesta]

u cant get someone to fall in love wid u.. it just happens.. :idea:
Werd I agree

[. :: a L i ::.]

im good looking so i dont have that problem *goes to the mirror to admire himself*

HAHAHAHA good one!:-|

[vgirl]

no, people don't fall in love with your looks. they probably want to get to know you because of your looks, and lust for you because of your looks, but if they actually love you, its for who you are.
love is not achievable simply through your looks. that's not love.

[Ozzy-]

Actually for me its been far easier for personality =/. I don't know particularly why. Though en masse it's a lot easier looks wise. Then again, I avoid talking to people who are excessively superficial.

[Siesta]

no, people don't fall in love with your looks. they probably want to get to know you because of your looks, and lust for you because of your looks, but if they actually love you, its for who you are.
love is not achievable simply through your looks. that's not love.
Good point there, its going to take more than your looks to keep the person around

[Siesta]

Actually for me its been far easier for personality =/. I don't know particularly why. Though en masse it's a lot easier looks wise. Then again, I avoid talking to people who are excessively superficial.
From what you have posted you have an awesome personality. I have to agree with you there. Now its to seal the deal and send me pics :D. kidding..haha

[Ozzy-]

From what you have posted you have an awesome personality. I have to agree with you there. Now its to seal the deal and send me pics :D. kidding..haha

Lol thats sweet of you =). Sooner or later I'll have to post pics I guess... =/. I don't think I'm photogenic and I avoid the camera for some reason.

[Gypsy King]

I dont know whats easier for me but in general i would say looks. People pay too much attention to the looks.

[Siesta]

Lol thats sweet of you =). Sooner or later I'll have to post pics I guess... =/. I don't think I'm photogenic and I avoid the camera for some reason.
Well alot of times what we think is what we get :idea:

[Bincy]

Looks is what attract them and personality is what keeps them there ..!!

[Siesta]

Yankelicious would agree with you

[HU55AIN]

Love is overated...

[idonknw]

Is it easier to get someone to fall in love with who you are? Or what you look like?

discuss

I think that it is 'easier' for someone to fall in 'love' with how a person looks like. Most times, this is what attracts the person, and then they wanna get to know the person more. It's sad, but true. Of course there are instances when someone becomes really attracted to someone's personality, and maybe not so much with their looks. But, in most cases it's the 'look' that captures someone's attention.
But, personality is more important no matter what! looks are not ever lasting...personality is there to stay!

[iLLy]

looks =/

[*BROWN3Y3Z*]

for me i think the second option

[pretty_preeti]

I think that it is 'easier' for someone to fall in 'love' with how a person looks like. Most times, this is what attracts the person, and then they wanna get to know the person more. It's sad, but true. Of course there are instances when someone becomes really attracted to someone's personality, and maybe not so much with their looks. But, in most cases it's the 'look' that captures someone's attention.
But, personality is more important no matter what! looks are not ever lasting...personality is there to stay!

I agree.. its the looks of the person that you notice 1st.. no ones personality is plastered on their forehead! You tend to mke the effort to "get to know" someone more IF u r attracted to them initially..

BUT.. having said that.. it is also possible to fall for someone. if u see a different side to them.. u didnt notice b4... n begin to see them in a new light.. :-|