Determin the virginty of a female (Illustrated guide)

[Street_Scholar]

Firstly I want to clear somethings up - this is not completely conclusive although there is a high degree of accuracy in determining the virginity of a female using this guide as opposed to the old primitive thoery of virginal bleeding with penetration.

What is the hymen?

The hymen (also called maidenhead) is a fold of mucous membrane which surrounds or partially covers the external vaginal opening. - wiki

It looks like this:
(Warning its a vagina)
http://www.visualstatistics.net/East-West/Intermarriage/Hymen.jpg

Apart from sexual intercourse the following also can cause rupture to the hymen:
1. An accident or injury, such as falling astride on a projecting substance, trying to climb over a fence and tripping
2. Sports activities like horse riding, bicycling, playing seesaw, high jump, and hurdles and activities like dancing
3. Masturbation, especially when indulged with a large foreign body like candlestick or vibrator
4. Introduction of instruments by doctors during examination or surgical operation
5. Faulty technique while douching (cleaning) the vagina. The rubber or plastic tube introduced into the vagina to let in the douching solution can lead to hymen rupture.

Different types of hymen:
http://pics1.frozenbear.com/i/picfu1/2008/09/21/10/c/0/4/c04c4f8431796eba32d41d9792b55a200_main.jpg

The shape of the hymen changes if a woman has had penetration. Some women despite being virgin could still have a damaged hymen. However, the damage by penetration of a penis is excessive. Moreover, if the female is sexually promiscuous her hymen would be damaged alot more in fact you can tell from the edges and also the vagina becomes looser. So, it would not be a far stretch of the imagination to base a conclusion of a females sexual activities by examining her hymen. Depends, how much damage has already been done to the hymen, if its damaged, and the penetration of the penis does not expand it any more to a point of ripping you will not see any bleeding. If you have a large penis and the women is a virgin she is most likely to bleed.

In other words, if she has a non-existent hymen, then its likely she has been penetrated by something. If you penis is pretty large I mean something like 3 - 4 inches in width and she does not bleed, then its likely she has been penetrated before by something larger.

Moreover, majority of women whom do not masturbate will actually bleed when a penis goes into the vagina. Some women namely desi women prior to marriage masturbate from via clitoral stimulation. It would be extremely unlikely for an unmarried desi girl to insert anything in there. It all comes down to examination of the hymen, I used to have a really interesting book which showed damage to the hymen by penetration. It clearly illustrated the edges of the hymen, which showed damage. If you can't make her bleed on her wedding night then maybe your penis is to small, try putting some fingers in there.

Please don't start examining her virginal area on the wedding night. If she does not bleed and you trust her then its safe to assume, your penis is small and you might want to try inserting your fingers in there. If its really loose or slightly loose, when maybe she been inserting things in there. At that point it would just be a good idea not to have sex with her and just get her checked out, she could have been having sex.

I might update this later, as at the moment I need a drink.

[Saraah]

hahaha omg can you imagine after your first meeting with a girl, you ask her to lay down and open her legs so you can take a look! :-|

[xSeri]

You learn something new everyday :no:

[Street_Scholar]

hahaha omg can you imagine after your first meeting with a girl, you ask her to lay down and open her legs so you can take a look! :-|

Well... its easy, just go down on here with the lights on of course!

[ArTmALik]

Interesting insight. Thanks for the info.

[Saraah]

Well... its easy, just go down on here with the lights on of course!

Why don't you just ask her to get it certified from a doc's? :no:

[ArTmALik]

Why don't you just ask her to get it certified from a doc's? :no:

That should be a LADY DOCTOR. No damn male Doctor for these things.

[Saraah]

That should be a LADY DOCTOR. No damn male Doctor for these things.

hah! well i didn't specify the sex of the doctor so chill out :p

[MissAdore]

If its really loose or slightly loose, when maybe she been inserting things in there. At that point it would just be a good idea not to have sex with her and just get her checked out, she could have been having sex.
The next morning: hey wifey, let's go to the doc & get that hymen of yours checked out.

Awkward.

[Street_Scholar]

Why don't you just ask her to get it certified from a doc's? :no:

In Pakistan? Sometimes those options are not there.

[Street_Scholar]

The next morning: hey wifey, let's go to the doc & get that hymen of yours checked out.

Awkward.

I'll rather feel awkward for a few days then then be infected with HIV.

[ArTmALik]

In Pakistan? Sometimes those options are not there.

WEll I don't think you can ask ur wife to lets goto the lady doc and have ur check up if u are a virgin or not.. She will not trust u anymore if shes a virgin and she may cheat you just for the sake of revenge.
And secondly ,if u do this act,..its like shes ur slave..i mean doc option is not a good idea.

[Saraah]

In Pakistan? Sometimes those options are not there.

They should do, i know they do that in other countries.

[bingley13]

Why don't you just ask her to get it certified from a doc's? :no:
hahah. sounds like buying a collector's doll from the store.

does it come with a certificate of authenticity?

[cookie_queen]

what i wanna know is how to tell if a man not a virgin lol

[Saraah]

WEll I don't think you can ask ur wife to lets goto the lady doc and have ur check up if u are a virgin or not.. She will not trust u anymore if shes a virgin and she may cheat you just for the sake of revenge.
And secondly ,if u do this act,..its like shes ur slave..i mean doc option is not a good idea.


Well usually you know how good a girl is by her family and her upbringing and heresay.

[Street_Scholar]

They should do, i know they do that in other countries.

In Pakistan, you can bribe anyone. I know doctors who give death certificates out to living folks! :rofl: That is how one of my relatives did a life insurance scam!

[MissAdore]

I'll rather feel awkward for a few days then then be infected with HIV.
I'm getting the guy checked before marriage. Doesn't matter who he is. No shaadi without those tests :hsnono:

[Saraah]

hahah. sounds like buying a collector's doll from the store.

does it come with a certificate of authenticity?

You can actually get a certificate :-|

what i wanna know is how to tell if a man not a virgin lol

me too...inexperienced guys are the best.

[Unglorified]

In Pakistan, you can bribe anyone. I know doctors who give death certificates out to living folks! :rofl: That is how one of my relatives did a life insurance scam!

:rofl: true true

[Street_Scholar]

I'm getting the guy checked before marriage. Doesn't matter who he is. No shaadi without those tests :hsnono:

Yep!

[ArTmALik]

I'm getting the guy checked before marriage. Doesn't matter who he is. No shaadi without those tests :hsnono:

:rofl: Very interesting.Do you want to stay un-married for all of your life?

[MissAdore]

Well usually you know how good a girl is by her family and her upbringing and heresay.
You know a lot of people think that way, but I just don't see the pattern. I know kids from extremely religious families, who break all the rules on the dl, or kids from good families, who don't exactly follow the teachings of their parents when they're with their friends.

[ArTmALik]

I am wondering, now the marriage is gona be like a suspense. Like win or lose thing..LOL

[Street_Scholar]

You can actually get a certificate :-|



me too...inexperienced guys are the best.

I hate women who are submissive in bed and act like men outside the bed... Its cheating! I like my women to be dominant in bed, and just take control.

[cookie_queen]

i dont know why your obsessed about determining if a woman is a virgin or not. First you want her to be a virgin, but then you say you like women that arent virgins. make up ur friggen minds.

[MissAdore]

:rofl: Very interesting.Do you want to stay un-married for all of your life?
lol, no. I don't care if he's not a virgin. I just don't want him to be diseased :-|

[Hands]

lol thats the first time ive seen a hymen :p

I didnt know the piss comes out of there, why cant i see the eurethra? :|

[Exotic_Princess]

:rofl::rofl:

are you serious, thanks for the info, never knew that stuff :-|



lawlz

[T.Dimera]

girls have been known to have their hymen broken but still they can't let a penis fully penetrate them....until their other parts inside them get opened up?

[Unglorified]

I hate women who are submissive in bed and act like men outside the bed... Its cheating! I like my women to be dominant in bed, and just take control.

Are you satisfied with your wife?

[ArTmALik]

lol, no. I don't care if he's not a virgin. I just don't want him to be diseased :-|

:-|

[ArTmALik]

i dont know why your obsessed about determining if a woman is a virgin or not. First you want her to be a virgin, but then you say you like women that arent virgins. make up ur friggen minds.

Dear Queen, Did you have a cookie today ?If not then i would suggest you to have one today cause your mind dont seem to working properly today.

[Street_Scholar]

i dont know why your obsessed about determining if a woman is a virgin or not. First you want her to be a virgin, but then you say you like women that arent virgins. make up ur friggen minds.

I would not have really cared if my wife was a virgin or not... I actually told her that. The only problem is STDs.

[Street_Scholar]

Are you satisfied with your wife?

Yes. We can always role-play.

[Unglorified]

Dear Queen, Did you have a cookie today ?If not then i would suggest you to have one today cause your mind dont seem to working properly today.

leave her alone
shes right

[Unglorified]

Yes. We can always role-play.

good

[Street_Scholar]

I like sexy older aunties.

[MissAdore]

:-|
I'm not planning on being single for the rest of my life :-|
Only 3 guys outta all my guys friends are virgins. True story.

[ArTmALik]

leave her alone
shes right

ok.No tests :D sorry.lol

[Samad]

hahaha omg can you imagine after your first meeting with a girl, you ask her to lay down and open her legs so you can take a look! :-|

Huh...that would be awkward!

[Saraah]

You know a lot of people think that way, but I just don't see the pattern. I know kids from extremely religious families, who break all the rules on the dl, or kids from good families, who don't exactly follow the teachings of their parents when they're with their friends.

Thats true, i just meant that show they think back home and it usually works over there.

I hate women who are submissive in bed and act like men outside the bed... Its cheating! I like my women to be dominant in bed, and just take control.


Thanks for that piece of info :-|

[PuNjabi_RaNi*]

did you show your wife this?

[ArTmALik]

I'm not planning on being single for the rest of my life :-|
Only 3 guys outta all my guys friends are virgins. True story.

WOW..Find a guy from Back home:p Or i can help u get get one virgin guy.:p

[meethi_lassi]

Firstly I want to clear somethings up - this is not completely conclusive although there is a high degree of accuracy in determining the virginity of a female using this guide as opposed to the old primitive thoery of virginal bleeding with penetration.

What is the hymen?

- wiki

It looks like this:
(Warning its a vagina)
http://www.visualstatistics.net/East-West/Intermarriage/Hymen.jpg

Apart from sexual intercourse the following also can cause rupture to the hymen:
1. An accident or injury, such as falling astride on a projecting substance, trying to climb over a fence and tripping
2. Sports activities like horse riding, bicycling, playing seesaw, high jump, and hurdles and activities like dancing
3. Masturbation, especially when indulged with a large foreign body like candlestick or vibrator
4. Introduction of instruments by doctors during examination or surgical operation
5. Faulty technique while douching (cleaning) the vagina. The rubber or plastic tube introduced into the vagina to let in the douching solution can lead to hymen rupture.

Different types of hymen:
http://pics1.frozenbear.com/i/picfu1/2008/09/21/10/c/0/4/c04c4f8431796eba32d41d9792b55a200_main.jpg

The shape of the hymen changes if a woman has had penetration. Some women despite being virgin could still have a damaged hymen. However, the damage by penetration of a penis is excessive. Moreover, if the female is sexually promiscuous her hymen would be damaged alot more in fact you can tell from the edges and also the vagina becomes looser. So, it would not be a far stretch of the imagination to base a conclusion of a females sexual activities by examining her hymen. Depends, how much damage has already been done to the hymen, if its damaged, and the penetration of the penis does not expand it any more to a point of ripping you will not see any bleeding. If you have a large penis and the women is a virgin she is most likely to bleed.

In other words, if she has a non-existent hymen, then its likely she has been penetrated by something. If you penis is pretty large I mean something like 3 - 4 inches in width and she does not bleed, then its likely she has been penetrated before by something larger.

Moreover, majority of women whom do not masturbate will actually bleed when a penis goes into the vagina. Some women namely desi women prior to marriage masturbate from via clitoral stimulation. It would be extremely unlikely for an unmarried desi girl to insert anything in there. It all comes down to examination of the hymen, I used to have a really interesting book which showed damage to the hymen by penetration. It clearly illustrated the edges of the hymen, which showed damage. If you can't make her bleed on her wedding night then maybe your penis is to small, try putting some fingers in there.

Please don't start examining her virginal area on the wedding night. If she does not bleed and you trust her then its safe to assume, your penis is small and you might want to try inserting your fingers in there. If its really loose or slightly loose, when maybe she been inserting things in there. At that point it would just be a good idea not to have sex with her and just get her checked out, she could have been having sex.

I might update this later, as at the moment I need a drink.

Or you could just ask her before the wedding if she was a virgin, and not marry some stranger that mummy picked out for you but someone that you actually love and respect and have trust for. Fool :no:

[Street_Scholar]

I was a virgin until 22 I think it was. Until one-day I just thought fuck it! I got up in the morning and that was the most fun-day of my life in all honesty.

[T.Dimera]

Or you could just ask her before the wedding if she was a virgin, and not marry some stranger that mummy picked out for you but someone that you actually love and respect and have trust for. Fool :no:

let's get real...people lie :-|

[Hands]

who was your first fuck mr scholar?

[Saraah]

I was a virgin until 22 I think it was. Until one-day I just thought fuck it! I got up in the morning and that was the most fun-day of my life in all honesty.

Literally.

[T.Dimera]

I was a virgin until 22 I think it was. Until one-day I just thought fuck it! I got up in the morning and that was the most fun-day of my life in all honesty.

we're you in a relationship already? how did you lose it the same day you decided to lose it? unless your girl, then it would be easier :-|

[ArTmALik]

who was your first fuck mr scholar?

LOL handy..u always finding subjects to improve ur knowledge.

[Street_Scholar]

did you show your wife this?

She's not here at the moment she is cooking. Its Iftari time. She might check it out later, although I doubt it, she manly just posts on here blog.

[ArTmALik]

we're you in a relationship already? how did you lose it the same day you decided to lose it? unless your girl, then it would be easier :-|

Aristotle's words.

[cyber_satan]

Firstly I want to clear somethings up - this is not completely conclusive although there is a high degree of accuracy in determining the virginity of a female using this guide as opposed to the old primitive thoery of virginal bleeding with penetration.

What is the hymen?

- wiki

It looks like this:
(Warning its a vagina)
http://www.visualstatistics.net/East-West/Intermarriage/Hymen.jpg

Apart from sexual intercourse the following also can cause rupture to the hymen:
1. An accident or injury, such as falling astride on a projecting substance, trying to climb over a fence and tripping
2. Sports activities like horse riding, bicycling, playing seesaw, high jump, and hurdles and activities like dancing
3. Masturbation, especially when indulged with a large foreign body like candlestick or vibrator
4. Introduction of instruments by doctors during examination or surgical operation
5. Faulty technique while douching (cleaning) the vagina. The rubber or plastic tube introduced into the vagina to let in the douching solution can lead to hymen rupture.

Different types of hymen:
http://pics1.frozenbear.com/i/picfu1/2008/09/21/10/c/0/4/c04c4f8431796eba32d41d9792b55a200_main.jpg

The shape of the hymen changes if a woman has had penetration. Some women despite being virgin could still have a damaged hymen. However, the damage by penetration of a penis is excessive. Moreover, if the female is sexually promiscuous her hymen would be damaged alot more in fact you can tell from the edges and also the vagina becomes looser. So, it would not be a far stretch of the imagination to base a conclusion of a females sexual activities by examining her hymen. Depends, how much damage has already been done to the hymen, if its damaged, and the penetration of the penis does not expand it any more to a point of ripping you will not see any bleeding. If you have a large penis and the women is a virgin she is most likely to bleed.

In other words, if she has a non-existent hymen, then its likely she has been penetrated by something. If you penis is pretty large I mean something like 3 - 4 inches in width and she does not bleed, then its likely she has been penetrated before by something larger.

Moreover, majority of women whom do not masturbate will actually bleed when a penis goes into the vagina. Some women namely desi women prior to marriage masturbate from via clitoral stimulation. It would be extremely unlikely for an unmarried desi girl to insert anything in there. It all comes down to examination of the hymen, I used to have a really interesting book which showed damage to the hymen by penetration. It clearly illustrated the edges of the hymen, which showed damage. If you can't make her bleed on her wedding night then maybe your penis is to small, try putting some fingers in there.

Please don't start examining her virginal area on the wedding night. If she does not bleed and you trust her then its safe to assume, your penis is small and you might want to try inserting your fingers in there. If its really loose or slightly loose, when maybe she been inserting things in there. At that point it would just be a good idea not to have sex with her and just get her checked out, she could have been having sex.

I might update this later, as at the moment I need a drink.


:roflbow:

thank you ..

[Hands]

lol im just curious arty. Lawlz. But im just curious. My first time was shit. I didnt know what to do properly. Luckily she helped me out bless her

[Hands]

woah ur wifey blogs? Link me in pm please

[MissAdore]

Thats true, i just meant that show they think back home and it usually works over there.
I don't know where back home for you is, but back home for me, it's usually worse :-|

WOW..Find a guy from Back home:p Or i can help u get get one virgin guy.:p
I'm not getting married for another 7 or 8 years, so I'm fine for now. Thanks for the offer though :p

[hakuna-matata]

I don't know where back home for you is, but back home for me, it's usually worse :-|


I'm not getting married for another 7 or 8 years, so I'm fine for now. Thanks for the offer though :p

Are you a virgin?

[meethi_lassi]

let's get real...people lie :-|

I suppose, but I think mostly they lie in arranged marriage situations, where the relationship is pretty superficial. In a serious romantic relationship, theres an element of trust, and the chance the girl is going to lie about something like her virginity is very slim.

[ArTmALik]

I don't know where back home for you is, but back home for me, it's usually worse :-|


I'm not getting married for another 7 or 8 years, so I'm fine for now. Thanks for the offer though :p

What are you going to do in these 7-8 years ?:rolleyes:

[Street_Scholar]

who was your first fuck mr scholar?

This girl called ruby. She was a British Pakistani in Pakistan at the same time I was there, we had spoken before (she was married) and I just ended up getting my dads car driving to a city she was at and just had sex. The funny thing was we both were on time constraints, she had to get back to her village before he husband had come back from going to the embassy in Islamabad. I just had to be home as I was staying at my uncles house and I had sneaked my dads car out, no one had a clue. I had a huge smile on my face when I came home. It was the best day ever!

[ArTmALik]

lol im just curious arty. Lawlz. But im just curious. My first time was shit. I didnt know what to do properly. Luckily she helped me out bless her

LOL so you are not virgin???????? :arrow:

[Unglorified]

This girl called ruby. She was a British Pakistani in Pakistan at the same time I was there, we had spoken before (she was married) and I just ended up getting my dads car driving to a city she was at and just had sex. The funny thing was we both were on time constraints, she had to get back to her village before he husband had come back from going to the embassy in Islamabad. I just had to be home as I was staying at my uncles house and I had sneaked my dads car out, no one had a clue. I had a huge smile on my face when I came home. It was the best day ever!

:rofl:

[ArTmALik]

This girl called ruby. She was a British Pakistani in Pakistan at the same time I was there, we had spoken before (she was married) and I just ended up getting my dads car driving to a city she was at and just had sex. The funny thing was we both were on time constraints, she had to get back to her village before he husband had come back from going to the embassy in Islamabad. I just had to be home as I was staying at my uncles house and I had sneaked my dads car out, no one had a clue. I had a huge smile on my face when I came home. It was the best day ever!

:ugh: You fucked a Slut aunty my dear.

[Saraah]

I don't know where back home for you is, but back home for me, it's usually worse :-|


I'm not getting married for another 7 or 8 years, so I'm fine for now. Thanks for the offer though :p

Back home is Iraq for me, and they've all turned to religion in recent times plus from what i know of all my family that live there, you can tell who the good girls are.

[Street_Scholar]

woah ur wifey blogs? Link me in pm please

Yes she blogs. Sorry I can't give you the link.

[Street_Scholar]

:ugh: You fucked a Slut aunty my dear.

Shit happens.

[MissAdore]

Are you a virgin?
Such personal things should not be discussed on RD or with anyone that you do not know :ugh:

What are you going to do in these 7-8 years ?:rolleyes:
undergrad & law school :cheers:

[meethi_lassi]

This girl called ruby. She was a British Pakistani in Pakistan at the same time I was there, we had spoken before (she was married) and I just ended up getting my dads car driving to a city she was at and just had sex. The funny thing was we both were on time constraints, she had to get back to her village before he husband had come back from going to the embassy in Islamabad. I just had to be home as I was staying at my uncles house and I had sneaked my dads car out, no one had a clue. I had a huge smile on my face when I came home. It was the best day ever!

Ew, that's like the worst losing-virginity-story I've ever heard.

[ArTmALik]

Shit happens.

REALLY THE GIRLS WHO ARE MARRIED AND THEY HAVE SEX WITH OTHER MEN ARE THE WORST CREATURES ON THIS EARTH YOU WILL EVER FIND.
TALK TO THEM, SALUTE THEIR HUSBANDS AND SHOOT THEM.

[Street_Scholar]

You know the really funny thing was, he had sex in a hotel, and the hotel had windows, the windows were covered with some shitty curtains, and while having sex I knocked it an the curtain fell off, and you could see in the hallway... We were lucky no one was outside we got the curtain back up though. I was a virgin and I knew the problem is getting hard when you are nervous so I had taken half a pill of Viagra before we had sex. She asked me if I was a virgin and I just told her the truth that I was. But it was good sex I must admit!

[ArTmALik]

undergrad & law school :cheers:

Wow.don't forget to watch devil's advocate.

[Samad]

lol im just curious arty. Lawlz. But im just curious. My first time was shit. I didnt know what to do properly. Luckily she helped me out bless her

:razz: lol hamza...how could you screw that up

[ArTmALik]

You know the really funny thing was, he had sex in a hotel, and the hotel had windows, the windows were covered with some shitty curtains, and while having sex I knocked it an the curtain fell off, and you could see in the hallway... We were lucky no one was outside we got the curtain back up though. I was a virgin and I knew the problem is getting hard when you are nervous so I had taken half a pill of Viagra before we had sex. She asked me if I was a virgin and I just told her the truth that I was. But it was good sex I must admit!

What does viagra do ?

[meethi_lassi]

REALLY THE GIRLS WHO ARE MARRIED AND THEY HAVE SEX WITH OTHER MEN ARE THE WORST CREATURES ON THIS EARTH YOU WILL EVER FIND.
TALK TO THEM, SALUTE THEIR HUSBANDS AND SHOOT THEM.

Accha, and what about the guys that sleep with married women? Woh toh doodh se dhule huwe hai na? Aur koi bhi larki jo apne miya se khush hai, kisi aur ki taraf nazar uthaa ke bhi nahin dekhegi. Kahin na kahin shohar ki bhi ghalti shaamil hoti hai.

[hakuna-matata]

Such personal things should not be discussed on RD or with anyone that you do not know :ugh:

No need to get defensive. It was just a question. If you never wanted to answer it, all you just to do was say so.

[Street_Scholar]

Ew, that's like the worst losing-virginity-story I've ever heard.

I had fun though. Not every guy broken his virginity can be in the cultrual idealized form. All in all I had fun it was very enjoyable. In all honesty I did not want to have sex with attachment I preferred the one night stand. No strings attached.

[Street_Scholar]

What does viagra do ?

Makes your dick go hard, by increasing the blood flow to your penis. You just have a hard-on which does not go down for about 2 hours.

[MissAdore]

No need to get defensive. It was just a question. If you never wanted to answer it, all you just to do was say so.
Twas a joke :-| I don't take RD or its comments seriously.

[ArTmALik]

Accha, and what about the guys that sleep with married women? Woh toh doodh se dhule huwe hai na? Aur koi bhi larki jo apne miya se khush hai, kisi aur ki taraf nazar uthaa ke bhi nahin dekhegi. Kahin na kahin shohar ki bhi ghalti shaamil hoti hai.

Well when these sort of guys marry, their wives do the same.Tit for Tat.

If husband is not good then it does not mean she starts having sex with other guys.. she better get divorce if shes not happy..Gosh what a cheap woman that would be who does such act.. Disgusting, filthy, pathetic . Just feel how she would have behaved wid her husband once she got free from having sex from another guy..,,Bitches.

[Hands]

where can i get viagra? :Paper:

[hakuna-matata]

Twas a joke :-| I don't take RD or its comments seriously.

Lol. So are you or aren't you? ;)

[Street_Scholar]

Accha, and what about the guys that sleep with married women? Woh toh doodh se dhule huwe hai na? Aur koi bhi larki jo apne miya se khush hai, kisi aur ki taraf nazar uthaa ke bhi nahin dekhegi. Kahin na kahin shohar ki bhi ghalti shaamil hoti hai.

I was not married, in fact I would never cheat on my wife. Since I was committed to getting married to my wife I never even looked at a women that way. However a women who has sex behind the husbands back is just fucked up.

[ArTmALik]

Makes your dick go hard, by increasing the blood flow to your penis. You just have a hard-on which does not go down for about 2 hours.

Every medicine has side affects .So Natural is what really counts.

[Unglorified]

I was not married, in fact I would never cheat on my wife. Since I was committed to getting married to my wife I never even looked at a women that way. However a women who has sex behind the husbands back is just fucked up.


descent man

[MissAdore]

Lol. So are you or aren't you? ;)
That's a secret that shall never be leaked on RD. muahaha.

[meethi_lassi]

I had fun though. Not every guy broken his virginity can be in the cultrual idealized form. All in all I had fun it was very enjoyable. In all honesty I did not want to have sex with attachment I preferred the one night stand. No strings attached.

To each their own. But I think your first time should be really special and with someone who means a lot to you, or at least exciting.

[hakuna-matata]

That's a secret that shall never be leaked on RD. muahaha.

OK. Post pics.

[ArTmALik]

Lol. So are you or aren't you? ;)

:rofl:

[hakuna-matata]

And unglorified, have you uploaded those pics then?

[Unglorified]

To each their own. But I think your first time should be really special and with someone who means a lot to you, or at least exciting.

when it pops
you'll say wtf is this? I waited for "this"

[meethi_lassi]

I was not married, in fact I would never cheat on my wife. Since I was committed to getting married to my wife I never even looked at a women that way. However a women who has sex behind the husbands back is just fucked up.

That's good. Stay that way ;).

[Unglorified]

And unglorified, have you uploaded those pics then?

lol, I left my camera at my new home

[meethi_lassi]

when it pops
you'll say wtf is this? I waited for "this"

Noooo. I don't think it'll be like that.



I hope not, that would suck lol

[hakuna-matata]

lol, I left my camera at my new home

okay, but don't forget me yeah

[Hands]

lol @ pops

[MissAdore]

OK. Post pics.
okay
gone baby, gone.

[meethi_lassi]

Well when these sort of guys marry, their wives do the same.Tit for Tat.

If husband is not good then it does not mean she starts having sex with other guys.. she better get divorce if shes not happy..Gosh what a cheap woman that would be who does such act.. Disgusting, filthy, pathetic . Just feel how she would have behaved wid her husband once she got free from having sex from another guy..,,Bitches.

I would completely agree in any other case scenario except he said she was married to a villager and lived in a rural setup. In that case a lot of women have no way out, even if they were to get a divorce, they'd have nowhere to go. So they just look for happiness in affairs. Sad, and wrong, but not entirely their own fault given their circumstances. A lot of times they're at the recieving end of mental and physical abuse and cheating themselves, and its their own passive way of revenge against the situation.

[T.Dimera]

I suppose, but I think mostly they lie in arranged marriage situations, where the relationship is pretty superficial. In a serious romantic relationship, theres an element of trust, and the chance the girl is going to lie about something like her virginity is very slim.

you seem like a truthful person and i commend you on your willingnous to be honest with your partner. I have seen several times where one partner will lie to the other about their past, because they don't want to lose their partner. Its alot easier to tell someone 'you don't have what im looking for with your past i dont want to date you' in the beginning, then to dump someone once you have invested so much time with them. Its this reason, why many people hide their past, especially its likely to cause problems in their current relationship

[hakuna-matata]

okay

Woah. Where is that?

[MissAdore]

Woah. Where is that?
www.photofunia.com :kekeke:

[hakuna-matata]

www.photofunia.com :kekeke:

lol.

anyways, what state are you in? perhaps i can come and find out for myself using the techniques mentioned in this thread :grouphug:

[pnp366]

the hymen can be broken by going to the gyno, it doesnt mean the girls not a virgin.

[MissAdore]

lol.

anyways, what state are you in? perhaps i can come and find out for myself using the techniques mentioned in this thread :grouphug:
:hsnono: you will never find out, my dear.

[hakuna-matata]

:hsnono: you will never find out, my dear.

how do you know that? maybe my parents are the parents your parents are talking to :eyebrow:

[sax2k6]

what i wanna know is how to tell if a man not a virgin lol

if he is very good in bed - not a virgin
if he acts shy and a bit clueless- virgin......
:rofl::rofl:

[meethi_lassi]

you seem like a truthful person and i commend you on your willingnous to be honest with your partner. I have seen several times where one partner will lie to the other about their past, because they don't want to lose their partner. Its alot easier to tell someone 'you don't have what im looking for with your past i dont want to date you' in the beginning, then to dump someone once you have invested so much time with them. Its this reason, why many people hide their past, especially its likely to cause problems in their current relationship

Aww, thanks :). I know what you mean and I agree, and when I was talking about arranged marriages that's in essence what I was talking about, that because the relationship doesn't really get a chance to develop the other person (namely the guy) tends to be very judgmental. I've heard of arranged marriages being broken off simply because the girl decided to be honest and come clean about a past boyfriend, only to have her fiance throw it in her face again and again. But I think in a romantic relationship that develops naturally, you start off as friends, then you like each other, and then you fall in love...so there's a lot of time that's invested before you get to the point of having sex, and by then, you usually know the person really well, and there's more honesty in the relationship. That's why I wouldn't ever want to have an arranged marriage. You don't know what you're getting into.

[ArTmALik]

I would completely agree in any other case scenario except he said she was married to a villager and lived in a rural setup. In that case a lot of women have no way out, even if they were to get a divorce, they'd have nowhere to go. So they just look for happiness in affairs. Sad, and wrong, but not entirely their own fault given their circumstances. A lot of times they're at the recieving end of mental and physical abuse and cheating themselves, and its their own passive way of revenge against the situation.

A woman is the name of dignity and self-respect .If a woman does not care about those things and start eating grass outside(which always looks greener )Then Grass is grass=).Even if her husband was a villager ,She should not at least loser her-self.

[MissAdore]

how do you know that? maybe my parents are the parents your parents are talking to :eyebrow:
My mum told me I cant get married before I'm done law school. Caught your bluff :p

[hakuna-matata]

My mum told me I cant get married before I'm done law school. Caught your bluff :p

Oh I wasn't told you're becoming a lawyer. Because then it's certainly a big no from me! :razz:

[MissAdore]

Oh I wasn't told you're becoming a lawyer. Because then it's certainly a big no from me! :razz:
you just want a house wife! :tears:

[ArTmALik]

Oh I wasn't told you're becoming a lawyer. Because then it's certainly a big no from me! :razz:

LOL WHY?explain your statement kindly.

[hakuna-matata]

you just want a house wife! :tears:

You know me so well. :D

I want to save you from the burden of working hard. All you have to do is cook, clean and be a loving wife. I wouldn't mind some spice in the bedroom either :p

[hakuna-matata]

LOL WHY?explain your statement kindly.

Because then she'd always be lying :angel:

[ArTmALik]

Because then she'd always be lying :angel:

:rofl::rofl::rofl::rofl::rofl::rofl::rofl::rofl::r ofl: GOD why ddint i think about it before?lol

[hakuna-matata]

:rofl::rofl::rofl::rofl::rofl::rofl::rofl::rofl::r ofl: GOD why ddint i think about it before?lol

lol. i know that because my sister is becoming a lawyer too and she has ALWAYS lied to get me in trouble lol.

[ArTmALik]

lol. i know that because my sister is becoming a lawyer too and she has ALWAYS lied to get me in trouble lol.

lol thanks for the info.lol actually lot of thanks.lol

[hakuna-matata]

lol thanks for the info.lol actually lot of thanks.lol

lol. hey when will it begin to snow in russia?

[sarblohsinghz]

i feel sorry of the girls that have broken the hymen by playing with them selves , im sure there are a few on RD lol

[ArTmALik]

lol. hey when will it begin to snow in russia?

in end of oct..but i have left russia for good.

[Hands]

artmalik, was this the first time you saw a vagina today? Im just curious :cool:

[KashytheCableMan]

2 points of contention:

A penis 3-4 inches in width? You realize this means fatness not length... even the great Kashy has heard of no such thing.

A girl doesn't have to be sexually promiscuous to have a loose vagina. 1 guy with a big dick and an active imagination can cause a lot of damage. I've also been with girls who have been in 2-3 serious relationships before me (probably 200-300 cases of penetration per boyfriend) and they are as tight as girls who haven't been in serious relationships. I don't know how that works but instead of worrying about the science of an untouched hymen, I suggest you explore techniques on positions to maximize stimulation of the clitoris along with foreplay.

Doggy style into the vagina and missionary with your elbows at her shoulders and her legs elevated are two surefire ways to make a girl orgasm, virgin or not. These are the real questions that need to be discussed.

[KashytheCableMan]

i feel sorry of the girls that have broken the hymen by playing with them selves , im sure there are a few on RD lol
Some girls who have sex in college have masturbated or had their boyfriends finger/eat them out profusely in high school without sex. It's kind of a desensitization process for girls comfortable with themselves.

[Siesta]

the hymen can be broken by going to the gyno, it doesnt mean the girls not a virgin.
these guys arent even paying attention to that

[Empire]

My Friend said she didn' bleed the first time even though it hurt but she bled the 2nd, 3rd, 4th, and 5th time.

[Ozzy-]

Accha, and what about the guys that sleep with married women? Woh toh doodh se dhule huwe hai na? Aur koi bhi larki jo apne miya se khush hai, kisi aur ki taraf nazar uthaa ke bhi nahin dekhegi. Kahin na kahin shohar ki bhi ghalti shaamil hoti hai.

Sorry, you typed in urdu/hindi and I could not resist replying. Pheli baat, agar larka apne aap ko control nahin karsakta aur dusri aurat ke saat sota hai, tu phir woh asay koi larki agar kaam kare usse koi kam nahin. Husband ho ya wife, jo bhi kare they don't deserve marriage jitna bhi problems ho shaadi main. Especially agar bachay hon. Biologically speaking larke ziada jaldi stimulate ho jate hain, magar larkion ko jo pleae nahin karsakta woh acha husband nahin hai.

Aur ye baat sahi nahin hai ke agar koi aak kare to dusre ki ghalti bhi hai. I know couples that have been married and it was purely the fault of the one who cheated. Ase cases hote hain.

But essentially you are right, double standard nahin hona chahiyeh.

Well when these sort of guys marry, their wives do the same.Tit for Tat.

If husband is not good then it does not mean she starts having sex with other guys.. she better get divorce if shes not happy..Gosh what a cheap woman that would be who does such act.. Disgusting, filthy, pathetic . Just feel how she would have behaved wid her husband once she got free from having sex from another guy..,,Bitches.

Quite a lot of anger you're venting eh.

I was not married, in fact I would never cheat on my wife. Since I was committed to getting married to my wife I never even looked at a women that way. However a women who has sex behind the husbands back is just fucked up.

I agree. If you are entering a marriage then you shouldn't cheat regardless of how it turns out. You made the decision to marry. If it was completely forced on you thats different. But aside from that, if you have picked a person to marry you should never cheat. If the person ended up being the wrong person for you, then too bad live with your choice. 90% of the time, if a marriage goes wrong its because the couple just aren't willing to work it out anymore.

Aww, thanks :). I know what you mean and I agree, and when I was talking about arranged marriages that's in essence what I was talking about, that because the relationship doesn't really get a chance to develop the other person (namely the guy) tends to be very judgmental. I've heard of arranged marriages being broken off simply because the girl decided to be honest and come clean about a past boyfriend, only to have her fiance throw it in her face again and again. But I think in a romantic relationship that develops naturally, you start off as friends, then you like each other, and then you fall in love...so there's a lot of time that's invested before you get to the point of having sex, and by then, you usually know the person really well, and there's more honesty in the relationship. That's why I wouldn't ever want to have an arranged marriage. You don't know what you're getting into.

I have personally been against dating for marriage for a very long time. The longer you date, and the more people you date with, the less likely it is you'll be able to have a successful marriage. Just like drugs, our bodies develop tolerance to chemicals over time. The feeling of amour we get during those first few months in a relationship, or the first few years in a marriage are from that chemical. If a person has dated a person 2 years before marrying them, they essentially ate up 2 years of the marriage. Some people have said "so what, they were still together." But when you are marriage you are far more motivated to change and try to make it work then before you are married. If you start off fresh right when you get married you have about a good 5 years to make it work. By the time your body develops the tolerance, you are already used to living with the person and don't want to throw away 5 years of work etc. This is one of the reasons why often times more traditional arranged marriages work for longer. Not the only reason obviously, but one of them.

Some people on RD won't agree with me because... well its RD. What do you expect =)

these guys arent even paying attention to that

Hey I paid attention to that! Give me more credit then that Siesta =(.

[lil_gangsta_]

Knowledge Is Power:p

[Canadian_jatti]

this is not entirely accurate some girls never have one and arent born with it so its not fair to assume they arent virgins cuz they can be virgins they jus neva had a hymen to begin with

[jumpn jza]

:rofl::rofl:

are you serious, thanks for the info, never knew that stuff :-|



lawlz

Don't you have a mirror?

[jumpn jza]

2 points of contention:

A penis 3-4 inches in width? You realize this means fatness not length... even the great Kashy has heard of no such thing.

A girl doesn't have to be sexually promiscuous to have a loose vagina. 1 guy with a big dick and an active imagination can cause a lot of damage. I've also been with girls who have been in 2-3 serious relationships before me (probably 200-300 cases of penetration per boyfriend) and they are as tight as girls who haven't been in serious relationships. I don't know how that works but instead of worrying about the science of an untouched hymen, I suggest you explore techniques on positions to maximize stimulation of the clitoris along with foreplay.

Doggy style into the vagina and missionary with your elbows at her shoulders and her legs elevated are two surefire ways to make a girl orgasm, virgin or not. These are the real questions that need to be discussed.

He must mean cirumference, and if that's the case, then 3-4 inches would be low average I suppose. :dunno:

Some girls have stronger pc muscles which keeps their vagina firm. Just because they get around doesn't make them loose.

[shaan7]

My Friend said she didn' bleed the first time even though it hurt but she bled the 2nd, 3rd, 4th, and 5th time.

yeah, because penis didnt hit the hymen in the first time, in other times the girl was more confrtable during sex and a good choke broke her hymen seal.

Its also not necessary that complete hymen is broken once, it may take a dozen times to get hymen gate completely open.