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bliss2xo
September 10th, 2008, 10:20 PM
do you? i do. its been 9 months. and i still think about him. but then i think of how much of an asshole he was and i start to feel vindicated.... until i think about him. and the sex. oh god the sex. :(

i cant even go out on a date w/o talking bout my ex. its like i look at my date & think "who the eff are u? why arent u my ex? why dont u look like him?"

i think about my ex a lot & the worse part is he texts me on weekends. wtf? i thought he already had a girl? why's he callin me?

but i refuse to take his calls, reply thru text, or messengers. i feel like burning an effigy of him just to get closure but then the fire alarm would go off & that would piss my roommate off.

the only sure thing in my life is my work & health. id die if i didnt have that. work & gym are such good distractions for a broken heart.

so my question is: do you miss your ex? why'd y'all break up? and most importantly, how do feel about yourself now?

discuss.

mizz jassi
September 10th, 2008, 10:22 PM
how long did you guys go out for?

RacingSoul
September 10th, 2008, 10:22 PM
I dont miss that retarded bitch at all :ugh:

evolution clearly missed her.

lil_sexy
September 10th, 2008, 10:23 PM
no, get over him!!

Import
September 10th, 2008, 10:23 PM
Never had one... =)

SpicyBrownRapper
September 10th, 2008, 10:23 PM
Haha, good story. I'd come back and read it again.

bliss2xo
September 10th, 2008, 10:24 PM
I dont miss that retarded bitch at all :ugh:

evolution clearly missed her.
resentment is a sign of longing. dont bs me coz ive been there. im angry too so i know the feeling. just keep it real, dude... u miss her. maybe not her bullshit but u miss being w/ her.

RacingSoul
September 10th, 2008, 10:25 PM
resentment is a sign of longing. dont bs me coz ive been there. im angry too so i know the feeling. just keep it real, dude... u miss her. maybe not her bullshit but u miss being w/ her.

fuck no :ugh:

i'm glad she's gone back to Egypt...only retarded arabs can stand her.

lil_sexy
September 10th, 2008, 10:25 PM
Never had one... =)
bahaha werd.

Import
September 10th, 2008, 10:25 PM
you use msn? i will get on webcam for u

bliss2xo
September 10th, 2008, 10:26 PM
how long did you guys go out for?
7 years. i feel like ive been through a freakin divorce 'cept for ive never been married.

Import
September 10th, 2008, 10:28 PM
let me get a titjob

RacingSoul
September 10th, 2008, 10:28 PM
i think you should just picwhore to get over your sorrow.

Siddy3242
September 10th, 2008, 10:28 PM
its been almost 6 months
yeah, i pretty much got dumped......:Owned:

Import
September 10th, 2008, 10:28 PM
i will make it quick i promise. you can schedule me between ur work and gym.

*~MuFFiN~*
September 10th, 2008, 10:29 PM
do i miss him: nope
why'd we break up: his stupidy for rushing that marriage ish on me and immaturity
how do i feel about myself now? fuckin kick ass heheh my bf is amazing, life's good =)



hope u pull thru this tho suga

Import
September 10th, 2008, 10:31 PM
please, okay just one tit will do.

Siesta
September 10th, 2008, 10:31 PM
nope..I dont miss him at all

lil_sexy
September 10th, 2008, 10:31 PM
you use msn? i will get on webcam for u
he's a liar.

desi_playa
September 10th, 2008, 10:34 PM
you said something about sex and there was an ex involved which made me think of X, so it reminded me of this line.


Some say the x, make the sex Spec-tacular.

bliss2xo
September 10th, 2008, 10:34 PM
do i miss him: nope
why'd we break up: his stupidy for rushing that marriage ish on me and immaturity
how do i feel about myself now? fuckin kick ass heheh my bf is amazing, life's good =)



hope u pull thru this tho suga
:grouphug: thanks, muffin.

wow. u got blessed fast. congratz on ur new bf.
about ur ex... if he rushed u for marriage & u said no... does that mean u werent that in love with him?

coz he's realy into u if he asked u to marry him.

illin
September 10th, 2008, 10:35 PM
I used to miss her but i got over it. Took a while though. I dont really think about her at all anymore, she calls once in a while and we make small talk/one worded answers, etc. It was for the best though, i realized that i was better off.

badfish
September 10th, 2008, 10:37 PM
I don't think i've ever loved any of my girlfriends. le sigh

Princess_Ligi
September 10th, 2008, 10:38 PM
Thought you were dating someone now? Its quite normal to compare guys you're dating to your ex. Through the ex, you got accustomed to certain things, the things he'd say , the way he looked and became comfortable. You will just keep searching for that same comfort and you'll forget that he was a total ass.

ChaalBaaz
September 10th, 2008, 10:40 PM
i dont know about ex'es but im sure someone is burning my effigy somewhere.

bliss2xo
September 10th, 2008, 10:41 PM
Thought you were dating someone now? Its quite normal to compare guys you're dating to your ex. Through the ex, you got accustomed to certain things, the things he'd say , the way he looked and became comfortable. You will just keep searching for that same comfort and you'll forget that he was a total ass.

yeah. im sorta dating this guy but tbh... im not into it. he's nothing like my ex. and i know i shouldnt compare but its difficult.

atm, id rather be alone to sort out my thoughts. because i really hate rebound relationships and thats where im headed if i take this new guy seriously.

and we're not even a match. he's a gemini.

KOKooner
September 10th, 2008, 10:42 PM
do you? i do. its been 9 months. and i still think about him. but then i think of how much of an asshole he was and i start to feel vindicated.... until i think about him. and the sex. oh god the sex. :(

i cant even go out on a date w/o talking bout my ex. its like i look at my date & think "who the eff are u? why arent u my ex? why dont u look like him?"

i think about my ex a lot & the worse part is he texts me on weekends. wtf? i thought he already had a girl? why's he callin me?

but i refuse to take his calls, reply thru text, or messengers. i feel like burning an effigy of him just to get closure but then the fire alarm would go off & that would piss my roommate off.

the only sure thing in my life is my work & health. id die if i didnt have that. work & gym are such good distractions for a broken heart.

so my question is: do you miss your ex? why'd y'all break up? and most importantly, how do feel about yourself now?

discuss.

Forgetting Sarah Marshal.. go watch it if you have not

KOKooner
September 10th, 2008, 10:44 PM
I miss a lot of them

bliss2xo
September 10th, 2008, 10:45 PM
i think im more emo now coz i ran out of weed.

dick & weed, thats all i need in life. *sigh*

desi_playa
September 10th, 2008, 10:46 PM
i think im more emo now coz i ran out of weed.

dick & weed, thats all i need in life. *sigh*

LOL, you would be fun to hang out with.

HeAvYmAcHiNeGuN
September 10th, 2008, 10:48 PM
so my question is: do you miss your ex? why'd y'all break up? and most importantly, how do feel about yourself now?

discuss.

do you miss your ex? Sometimes
why'd y'all break up? She was cheating on me
how do feel about yourself now? Single life is Great :wiggle:

KOKooner
September 10th, 2008, 10:48 PM
i think im more emo now coz i ran out of weed.

dick & weed, thats all i need in life. *sigh*

been there done that, its the shit. weed and pussy and both smoking up and bangin for hours was the best. people just dont fuckin understand it.

badfish
September 10th, 2008, 10:51 PM
i think im more emo now coz i ran out of weed.

dick & weed, thats all i need in life. *sigh*
lol...

wouldn't have put you as someone who chills with mary.

RacingSoul
September 10th, 2008, 10:52 PM
i think im more emo now coz i ran out of weed.

dick & weed, thats all i need in life. *sigh*

i'll give you weed on my dick...you can smoke it all you want.

thebrownreason
September 10th, 2008, 10:53 PM
the sex was good, but i have booty calls to make up for that. nah mean?

on a serious note, it was 2 years. best 2 years of my life. i stayed out of trouble too.

desi_playa
September 10th, 2008, 10:53 PM
been there done that, its the shit. weed and pussy and both smoking up and bangin for hours was the best. people just dont fuckin understand it.

banging while being high? i always figured banging while you were tweaking or on some sort of speed is a lot better and weed is sucky?

KOKooner
September 10th, 2008, 10:57 PM
banging while being high? i always figured banging while you were tweaking or on some sort of speed is a lot better and weed is sucky?

works differently for different people.i saw this thread about women not being able to cum today and thought i used to make her cum 10 times a night and it was awesome.

SS424
September 10th, 2008, 10:57 PM
whyd yall break up

desi_playa
September 10th, 2008, 10:59 PM
works differently for different people.i saw this thread about women not being able to cum today and thought i used to make her cum 10 times a night and it was awesome.

ok buddy lets not go a little overboard about how much of a man u are... we all know u are a good boxer.

bliss2xo
September 10th, 2008, 11:01 PM
whyd yall break up
he cheated on me. twice. and stupid me took him back... twice. but then i realized the more i forgave him & took him back, the more i felt like he thought it was ok to fuck up again. like i was "allowing" him to be a jerk.

and i couldnt ever forgive him for what he did. so everytime we argued...BAM... i bring up his cheating. i guess i really shoulda stayed broken up with him when he cheated the first time.

but i was d-whopped 24/7. totally in love. :(

KOKooner
September 10th, 2008, 11:02 PM
ok buddy lets not go a little overboard about how much of a man u are... we all know u are a good boxer.

buddy its not being bout a boxer, its human body. just like all girls dont get wet and dont squirt either. you just haven't see that shit.or have u?

KOKooner
September 10th, 2008, 11:02 PM
he cheated on me. twice. and stupid me took him back... twice. but then i realized the more i forgave him & took him back, the more i felt like he thought it was ok to fuck up again. like i was "allowing" him to be a jerk.

and i couldnt ever forgive him for what he did. so everytime we argued...BAM... i bring up his cheating. i guess i really shoulda stayed broken up with him when he cheated the first time.

but i was d-whopped 24/7. totally in love. :(

was he chinese?

mizz jassi
September 10th, 2008, 11:03 PM
7 years. i feel like ive been through a freakin divorce 'cept for ive never been married.
damn, 7 years! no wonder you're not over him, it took me like 3/4 months to get over my ex i dated for 2 months :ashamed:

KOKooner
September 10th, 2008, 11:03 PM
ok buddy lets not go a little overboard about how much of a man u are... we all know u are a good boxer.

fuck the boxing dude. i am a human being first true?

KOKooner
September 10th, 2008, 11:04 PM
damn, 7 years! no wonder you're not over him, it took me like 3/4 months to get over my ex i dated for 2 months :ashamed:

jassi u r khassi

bliss2xo
September 10th, 2008, 11:05 PM
was he chinese?
he was pakistani.

mizz jassi
September 10th, 2008, 11:06 PM
jassi u r khassi
bohot :p

HeAvYmAcHiNeGuN
September 10th, 2008, 11:12 PM
jassi u r khassi

:rofl:

goose_bump
September 10th, 2008, 11:22 PM
i think im more emo now coz i ran out of weed.

dick & weed, thats all i need in life. *sigh*

yeh baby I can totally understand that you r missing sex.

why dont you start boys try out just like Basketball try outs, whoever bangs you the best will keep his place in your team.

Holla @ ur boy, lemme beat that meat

goose_bump
September 10th, 2008, 11:24 PM
jassi u r khassi

:rofl:

Qoute of the day so far.

desichick_usa
September 10th, 2008, 11:28 PM
you're making me cry :tears:

mizz jassi
September 10th, 2008, 11:41 PM
:rofl:

Qoute of the day so far.

its cute when he says it....

KOKooner
September 10th, 2008, 11:44 PM
its cute when he says it....

bas kar.. how u been?

mizz jassi
September 10th, 2008, 11:48 PM
bas kar.. how u been?
i been horrible man! i got a fever :(

tu kidda?

KOKooner
September 10th, 2008, 11:50 PM
i been horrible man! i got a fever :(

tu kidda?

jus chillin, preparin for the fight, fuckin everyone is sick these days.

As I Lay Dying
September 10th, 2008, 11:50 PM
:(
samee..

KOKooner
September 10th, 2008, 11:52 PM
:(
samee..

take some metamucil mate.

As I Lay Dying
September 10th, 2008, 11:54 PM
take some metamucil mate.


o no haha i meant bout missing ex :-p

KOKooner
September 10th, 2008, 11:58 PM
o no haha i meant bout missing ex :-p

then take some sleeping pills.

As I Lay Dying
September 11th, 2008, 12:03 AM
sleeping pills kinda helped the process of me getting dumped lmao

yo is that u knocking out that white dude? haha thats sick

mizz jassi
September 11th, 2008, 12:11 AM
jus chillin, preparin for the fight, fuckin everyone is sick these days.
yeh well i was attacked by rain :ashamed:

KOKooner
September 11th, 2008, 12:18 AM
sleeping pills kinda helped the process of me getting dumped lmao

yo is that u knocking out that white dude? haha thats sick

yeah poor guy aint desi

k i s s e s
September 11th, 2008, 12:26 AM
SEVEN YEARS?!

omg. i recently broke up with my bf of 3 years & i feel like it's going to take me another 3 to get over it. i can't imagine 7. :shock: :hug:

bliss2xo
September 11th, 2008, 12:33 AM
SEVEN YEARS?!

omg. i recently broke up with my bf of 3 years & i feel like it's going to take me another 3 to get over it. i can't imagine 7. :shock: :hug:
see. THAT is what i mean. i dunno but ive been told that for every year you are together you add 2 years to that to get over someone.

damn. im afraid my ovaries would be dried up by then.

k i s s e s
September 11th, 2008, 12:36 AM
see. THAT is what i mean. i dunno but ive been told that for every year you are together you add 2 years to that to get over someone.

damn. im afraid my ovaries would be dried up by then.
how old are you?

bliss2xo
September 11th, 2008, 12:38 AM
how old are you?
25.

fesssi
September 11th, 2008, 02:39 AM
i was with ma ex for about a month.. found it hard to get over her :ugh:..... rebounded on 2 this girl i recently broke up with... was with her for 2years!!!!! :sarb:

reason for breaking up: they both killed it off! with no real reason.. how nice!!

mizz jassi
September 11th, 2008, 02:50 AM
i was with ma ex for about a month.. found it hard to get over her :ugh:..... rebounded on 2 this girl i recently broke up with... was with her for 2years!!!!! :sarb:

reason for breaking up: they both killed it off! with no real reason.. how nice!!

:rofl: awwwwww

punjabified
September 11th, 2008, 02:53 AM
I wish i had an ex :cry:

punjabified
September 11th, 2008, 02:53 AM
bas kar.. how u been?

Oh now that's a hot sig :love:

Rogue
September 11th, 2008, 02:55 AM
i was with ma ex for about a month.. found it hard to get over her :ugh:..... rebounded on 2 this girl i recently broke up with... was with her for 2years!!!!! :sarb:

reason for breaking up: they both killed it off! with no real reason.. how nice!!

:think: that's a long rebound. are you contemplating a rebound to your rebound?

vedicom
September 11th, 2008, 02:56 AM
too lazy to get involved in a relationship
just date casually, avoiding any attachment means an easier life

pyari_tj
September 11th, 2008, 03:00 AM
i miss my ex we were going out for 1.5 years tho we saw eachother every day he went to university 20 mins away from where i lived so everyday plus weekends it was like we were together forever....things got kinda weird after he gave me the promise ring...he was more controlling he would never let me shop for anything i wanted he would never want me to wear nice clothes i guesss so other guys wouldnt you know...we argued about the stupidest shit and it wasnt worth it and it ended but its been almost 4 years and i styl miss him to this day....it was his birthday a couple of days ago....

fesssi
September 11th, 2008, 03:13 AM
that's a long rebound. are you contemplating a rebound to your rebound?

yep pretty much!! :D

fesssi
September 11th, 2008, 03:16 AM
its been almost 4 years and i styl miss him to this day....it was his birthday a couple of days ago....

get over him!! 4 years is a lonnnnng time

pyari_tj
September 11th, 2008, 03:21 AM
get over him!! 4 years is a lonnnnng time

i am over him its jus on those days like first date birthday.....our favorite places etc....although those days come once a year and dont normally go to those places its just sentimental when you do remember

bliss2xo
September 11th, 2008, 03:24 AM
i was with ma ex for about a month.. found it hard to get over her :ugh:..... rebounded on 2 this girl i recently broke up with... was with her for 2years!!!!! :sarb:

reason for breaking up: they both killed it off! with no real reason.. how nice!!
wow. and i thought we women were bad. your life is like a revolving door of bad rebound relationships. but in slow motion.

i use to be like that. it was like i couldnt stand to be alone. thank god for friends & relatives.

fesssi
September 11th, 2008, 03:38 AM
wow. and i thought we women were bad. your life is like a revolving door of bad rebound relationships. but in slow motion.

i use to be like that. it was like i couldnt stand to be alone. thank god for friends & relatives.

ummm yeah true.. i wouldn't neccesserly say bad realtionships.. i dont regret anything if you get me

fesssi
September 11th, 2008, 03:39 AM
i am over him its jus on those days like first date birthday.....our favorite places etc....although those days come once a year and dont normally go to those places its just sentimental when you do remember

yep totally understandable.. seeing someone else might help.....

bliss2xo
September 11th, 2008, 03:41 AM
ummm yeah true.. i wouldn't neccesserly say bad realtionships.. i dont regret anything if you get me
i feel you. but if you keep getting into a relationship as fast as u can, then that doesnt give u much time to recover & figure out what the right kind of girl for you should be.

i mean, theres a reason why ppl should lay low after a break up. its coz u dont wanna make the same mistake twice.

pyari_tj
September 11th, 2008, 03:43 AM
yep totally understandable.. seeing someone else might help.....

lol to this generation of people i might jus be the boringest gurl ....i dont smoke i dont drink i dont go to clubs i havent gone once this year...and most of all i dont fuck before marriage..so if you think its easy to find someone you are HELLA WRONG

fesssi
September 11th, 2008, 03:44 AM
i mean, theres a reason why ppl should lay low after a break up. its coz u dont wanna make the same mistake twice.

thats exactly what happened.. but 'laying low' for too long isnt a good idea either

fesssi
September 11th, 2008, 03:47 AM
lol to this generation of people i might jus be the boringest gurl ....i dont smoke i dont drink i dont go to clubs i havent gone once this year...and most of all i dont fuck before marriage..so if you think its easy to find someone you are HELLA WRONG

LOL.. finding someone with the same 'thinking' as you is damn hard!! gud luk anyhow :D

bliss2xo
September 11th, 2008, 03:49 AM
i miss my ex we were going out for 1.5 years tho we saw eachother every day he went to university 20 mins away from where i lived so everyday plus weekends it was like we were together forever....things got kinda weird after he gave me the promise ring...he was more controlling he would never let me shop for anything i wanted he would never want me to wear nice clothes i guesss so other guys wouldnt you know...we argued about the stupidest shit and it wasnt worth it and it ended but its been almost 4 years and i styl miss him to this day....it was his birthday a couple of days ago....
wow. :shock:

i had a controlling bf once. but never like that. do u two still keep in touch?

pyari_tj
September 11th, 2008, 03:51 AM
wow. :shock:

i had a controlling bf once. but never like that. do u two still keep in touch?

are you crazy lol

pyari_tj
September 11th, 2008, 03:51 AM
LOL.. finding someone with the same 'thinking' as you is damn hard!! gud luk anyhow :D

thanks for the luk but oh well i am in no rush to get hicked anyway

pyari_tj
September 11th, 2008, 03:53 AM
aight i am out its 4am PEACE gotta catch me some ZZZZs

fesssi
September 11th, 2008, 03:54 AM
aight i am out its 4am PEACE gotta catch me some ZZZZs

:wavey:

XxReMaLiCiOuSxX
September 11th, 2008, 04:05 AM
do you? i do. its been 9 months. and i still think about him. but then i think of how much of an asshole he was and i start to feel vindicated.... until i think about him. and the sex. oh god the sex. :(

i cant even go out on a date w/o talking bout my ex. its like i look at my date & think "who the eff are u? why arent u my ex? why dont u look like him?"

i think about my ex a lot & the worse part is he texts me on weekends. wtf? i thought he already had a girl? why's he callin me?

but i refuse to take his calls, reply thru text, or messengers. i feel like burning an effigy of him just to get closure but then the fire alarm would go off & that would piss my roommate off.

the only sure thing in my life is my work & health. id die if i didnt have that. work & gym are such good distractions for a broken heart.

so my question is: do you miss your ex? why'd y'all break up? and most importantly, how do feel about yourself now?

discuss.



my ex does that, he calls me 2 in the morning every so oftern to ask "how i am" i changed my num but now his got hold of it again, im going to kill the person who gave it to him, but he called me saying " its been a year aint chat to u, how are u!!" pssshhhhtt talking to me like am a long lost friend!!

i know he only does that so i dont forget him! i know thats the reason!

and when he talks about his "bird" its only to make me jelous.. but to be honest there isno way i would be jelous of some1 who went out with a cheating ex!

so the reason we broke up is because he found himself a school girl, i was obviously too old for his liking, and he wernt man enough to tell me that instead the lyed and cheated and then after 2 weeks of no contact a text from him saying "Fuk out ma life"

XxReMaLiCiOuSxX
September 11th, 2008, 04:10 AM
lol to this generation of people i might jus be the boringest gurl ....i dont smoke i dont drink i dont go to clubs i havent gone once this year...and most of all i dont fuck before marriage..so if you think its easy to find someone you are HELLA WRONG

finally someone understands me, why is it so wrong and "boring" if a girl dont do all the things u mentioned???? u can have fun without beenin drunk, make a club at home with your grls. and no manz good enough to get me into bed before bed, think thats what drove my ex away... O well!

.BestKeptSecret.
September 11th, 2008, 08:43 AM
i missed him, but eventually, you get over it. being cold and heartless helps. ;)

zarahomme
September 11th, 2008, 08:44 AM
do you? i do. its been 9 months. and i still think about him. but then i think of how much of an asshole he was and i start to feel vindicated.... until i think about him. and the sex. oh god the sex. :(

i cant even go out on a date w/o talking bout my ex. its like i look at my date & think "who the eff are u? why arent u my ex? why dont u look like him?"

i think about my ex a lot & the worse part is he texts me on weekends. wtf? i thought he already had a girl? why's he callin me?

but i refuse to take his calls, reply thru text, or messengers. i feel like burning an effigy of him just to get closure but then the fire alarm would go off & that would piss my roommate off.

the only sure thing in my life is my work & health. id die if i didnt have that. work & gym are such good distractions for a broken heart.

so my question is: do you miss your ex? why'd y'all break up? and most importantly, how do feel about yourself now?

discuss.

cant really tell in ur avi

saintz
September 11th, 2008, 08:47 AM
i miss one of my ex's but only cos we still talk and i still got feelings for her, but the ones ive decided not to talk to ever again have become distant figmants of memories. i think i broke myself though, wouldnt know how to get into a real relationship these days. any tips?

.BestKeptSecret.
September 11th, 2008, 08:59 AM
lol @ feelings.

saintz
September 11th, 2008, 09:00 AM
lol @ feelings.
guys can have feelings?

ok ok maybe i should rephrase that, i wanna fuck her?

.BestKeptSecret.
September 11th, 2008, 09:01 AM
guys can have feelings?

ok ok maybe i should rephrase that, i wanna fuck her?

i was laughing at emotions in general :slap:

if you wanna fuck her, go for it buddy :dunno:

saintz
September 11th, 2008, 09:24 AM
i was laughing at emotions in general :slap:

if you wanna fuck her, go for it buddy :dunno:
i was joking :S

.BestKeptSecret.
September 11th, 2008, 09:37 AM
i was joking :S

i know. and i replied with sarcasm.

saintz
September 11th, 2008, 09:47 AM
i know. and i replied with sarcasm.
sarcasms supposed to be in italics duh

.BestKeptSecret.
September 11th, 2008, 10:01 AM
sarcasms supposed to be in italics duh

thanks fo' the advice. i shall take it up.

saintz
September 11th, 2008, 10:01 AM
thanks fo' the advice. i shall take it up.
:sarb: ok

.BestKeptSecret.
September 11th, 2008, 10:02 AM
:lol:


you didn't make me a sig :Paper:

Siesta
September 11th, 2008, 11:24 AM
I don't think i've ever loved any of my girlfriends. le sigh
that is sigh:-|

Desi MC
September 11th, 2008, 11:27 AM
I don't miss my ex, but we started talking again from the last month.

And we broke up, cause i lost interest in her.

Fresh-Connection
September 11th, 2008, 11:34 AM
I dont miss the ex that often, but when i do i just go into the garden and dance on the patio where i buried her fatass.

KOKooner
September 11th, 2008, 02:18 PM
Oh now that's a hot sig :love:

yeah i made one since u never made me one.. u suck

KOKooner
September 11th, 2008, 02:18 PM
I dont miss the ex that often, but when i do i just go into the garden and dance on the patio where i buried her fatass.

rofl

xSeri
September 11th, 2008, 03:02 PM
Fuck the ex's.

If I ever try to compare one of mine to anyone I am going to date, I rather shoot myself.

*~MuFFiN~*
September 11th, 2008, 08:03 PM
:grouphug: thanks, muffin.

wow. u got blessed fast. congratz on ur new bf.
about ur ex... if he rushed u for marriage & u said no... does that mean u werent that in love with him?

coz he's realy into u if he asked u to marry him.

hehe.. .i dont kno WHAT was goin on in his head but ...he got me a diamond ring 2 months into the whole thang... n then got a tattoo of my name 3 months after that (on his arm) and then sprung the marriage ish on me... my reaction: :shock:

5 months or so and being with the guy, its safe to say i wasnt IN LOVE with him... i was just feelin the relationship out still...

me and my bf (current) have been together over 3 years thankfully tho :love:

are u feeling any better?

Fresh-Connection
September 11th, 2008, 08:06 PM
rofl

Please could you edit my post for legal reasons which at the moment can't be discussed.

PeachesAndCream*
September 12th, 2008, 10:27 AM
Aw, I feel bad now :-|
The only time I start to miss ANY of my ex's (mind you I only had one that I had considered to be close to lol) is when I feel vulnerable, lost and alone - which makes me even more depressed than I am already (makes sense?) I honestly doubt that I could have a stable relationship (well not now anyways) coz of my paranoia and my insecurities it'll drive US apart. I'd literally go crazy lol. But keeping away from him always helps, but in the back of your mind you can't help but to think 'What if?' ... and it comes back all over again (hopes, feelings, emotions etc),the hardest thing for me, is knowing how to let go - knowing that you've been so obsessively in love with your ex for 2 and a half years and him not reacting the same way as you'd want him too, is also one of the hardest things to accept.

It's actually quite needy, sad and pathetic the way I feel/felt - blah whatever, but still... Sometimes you just can't help it. But I'm going to Uni soon so I think I should be ok, god knows who I'd meet, but I'd like to think that I'll meet my soulmate when I'm at university? ...

God knows what he's got planned for me :-| ... But more than anything, I just want to be happy, even if it's without a man. lol.

zarahomme
September 12th, 2008, 10:28 AM
will talk to u wen u r online.....

PeachesAndCream*
September 12th, 2008, 10:43 AM
will talk to u wen u r online.....

zsrfsdfgnxdfgb

PERFECTIONZ
September 12th, 2008, 10:45 AM
do you? i do. its been 9 months. and i still think about him. but then i think of how much of an asshole he was and i start to feel vindicated.... until i think about him. and the sex. oh god the sex. :(

i cant even go out on a date w/o talking bout my ex. its like i look at my date & think "who the eff are u? why arent u my ex? why dont u look like him?"

i think about my ex a lot & the worse part is he texts me on weekends. wtf? i thought he already had a girl? why's he callin me?

but i refuse to take his calls, reply thru text, or messengers. i feel like burning an effigy of him just to get closure but then the fire alarm would go off & that would piss my roommate off.

the only sure thing in my life is my work & health. id die if i didnt have that. work & gym are such good distractions for a broken heart.

so my question is: do you miss your ex? why'd y'all break up? and most importantly, how do feel about yourself now?

discuss.


She was never mine.... So i cant call her My ex nevertheless i love her even now, four years on more than anything....

Thats life

Hands
September 12th, 2008, 10:47 AM
no, i never liked her much anyway, i was just there for the gifts and the sex :Pelvic2:

PeachesAndCream*
September 12th, 2008, 10:48 AM
She was never mine.... So i cant call her My ex nevertheless i love her even now, four years on more than anything....

Thats life

Woah that's deep. God, I hope that never happens with me. :-|
Sorry.

PeachesAndCream*
September 12th, 2008, 10:49 AM
no, i never liked her much anyway, i was just there for the gifts and the sex :Pelvic2:

You make me sick ... :ugh:
love you really boo lol x

PERFECTIONZ
September 12th, 2008, 10:55 AM
no, i never liked her much anyway, i was just there for the gifts and the sex :Pelvic2:


lol where do u come up with that stuff

Hands
September 12th, 2008, 10:56 AM
You make me sick ... :ugh:
love you really boo lol x
but i did appreciate the gifts cookie :love: they werent a waste honest, and the sex was great baby :love: ooh and your n00dz :yum:

Hands
September 12th, 2008, 10:57 AM
lol where do u come up with that stuff
im just really really honest :yes:

PeachesAndCream*
September 12th, 2008, 11:02 AM
but i did appreciate the gifts cookie :love: they werent a waste honest, and the sex was great baby :love: ooh and your n00dz :yum:

Did my noods help you? Shame you never c**e on my ***** lol

PERFECTIONZ
September 12th, 2008, 11:02 AM
Woah that's deep. God, I hope that never happens with me. :-|
Sorry.


I seriously wish sometimes, if she would have just taken a chance. I dono about people but i can say prodly that i have truly loved someone, the fact is she didnt feel the same. I walked out and from that day i am waiting...


I wonder if i get a share of her thoughts...

Hands
September 12th, 2008, 11:03 AM
Did my noods help you? Shame you never c**e on my ***** lol
lol i know, i did promise to pull out didnt i, sorry about that, next time il do it on and not in :p

yeah i love your nips man :yum:

p.s. you owe me more :squint:

PERFECTIONZ
September 12th, 2008, 11:03 AM
im just really really honest :yes:


Yeah when i get honest people neg me...

I just noticed a trend...Ever since i posted up my pics every guy on here has negged me.... or is that just a coincidence

Hands
September 12th, 2008, 11:06 AM
Yeah when i get honest people neg me...

I just noticed a trend...Ever since i posted up my pics every guy on here has negged me.... or is that just a coincidence
hmm well when i get honest i get a mixture of reps, most of them good, some of them bad :| i guess it has to do with the number of post counts, shit uddy i post more than your total in a week :|

shall i neg you now or later on?

im sure its not cos of your pic, i doubt anybody actually hate on you, well maybe the ppose a little, i am inclined to neg you when i see it, ive been fighting the urge all day :|

PeachesAndCream*
September 12th, 2008, 11:11 AM
I seriously wish sometimes, if she would have just taken a chance. I dono about people but i can say prodly that i have truly loved someone, the fact is she didnt feel the same. I walked out and from that day i am waiting...


I wonder if i get a share of her thoughts...

Dude, I think like that all the time.

"Oh I wonder if he's thinking about me



I doubt it :neutral: " ... and start sobbing for like 5 mins and watch t.v lol.
I'm not the type to look at other men, but when I've got mine - that's it. I'd want want nothing more as I'd be blind to the world as my eyes would only be for him. I could honestly say that he (ex) could possible complete my life, even by being the only person in it.

But it's sad when it's not the happy ending that you want it to turn out to. Is there such thing as a 'happy ending' lol?

PeachesAndCream*
September 12th, 2008, 11:12 AM
lol i know, i did promise to pull out didnt i, sorry about that, next time il do it on and not in :p

yeah i love your nips man :yum:

p.s. you owe me more :squint:


My nipple belongs to me lol.
I owe you more? that's unfair... why should I send you any when you haven't returned the favour ;)

PERFECTIONZ
September 12th, 2008, 11:13 AM
hmm well when i get honest i get a mixture of reps, most of them good, some of them bad :| i guess it has to do with the number of post counts, shit uddy i post more than your total in a week :|

shall i neg you now or later on?

im sure its not cos of your pic, i doubt anybody actually hate on you, well maybe the ppose a little, i am inclined to neg you when i see it, ive been fighting the urge all day :|


lol thats what everybody keeps sying about their addiction to neg me

Not that i am negged for my posts but coz of my sign name Perfectionz

PERFECTIONZ
September 12th, 2008, 11:17 AM
Dude, I think like that all the time.

"Oh I wonder if he's thinking about me



I doubt it :neutral: " ... and start sobbing for like 5 mins and watch t.v lol.
I'm not the type to look at other men, but when I've got mine - that's it. I'd want want nothing more as I'd be blind to the world as my eyes would only be for him. I could honestly say that he (ex) could possible complete my life, even by being the only person in it.

But it's sad when it's not the happy ending that you want it to turn out to. Is there such thing as a 'happy ending' lol?


Ur rite....

U know something, this was suposed to bite me in the ass one time. Simply coz i have broken the hearts of countless girls since High school who were way into me. I used to be a simple guy with no interest in dating and what not, i was a book worm. I deserved this too. Its only that destiny filled it all in one barrel and handed it over to me and this experience shook me. There is a balance somewhere out there looking for the bad things we do to come back to us

Hands
September 12th, 2008, 11:21 AM
My nipple belongs to me lol.
I owe you more? that's unfair... why should I send you any when you haven't returned the favour ;)
sharing is caring :yes:

cos im not so much of an exhibitionist, are you going to force me to show you my titties, theyre not even that great :|

what can i expect in return eh :naughty:

Hands
September 12th, 2008, 11:22 AM
lol thats what everybody keeps sying about their addiction to neg me

Not that i am negged for my posts but coz of my sign name Perfectionz
yeah the sn makes you seem pompous and uptight, i dunno its just the vibe the sn gives off, as more people get to klnow you then youll be just fine, tbh id swap reps with you if i could, i dont even like ebing green :( i wanna be red, i wanna be in the minority

zarahomme
September 12th, 2008, 11:26 AM
zsrfsdfgnxdfgb

:kekeke: ...not u silly :gay: ...the sexy sexy booby lady who made the thread

PERFECTIONZ
September 12th, 2008, 11:27 AM
yeah the sn makes you seem pompous and uptight, i dunno its just the vibe the sn gives off, as more people get to klnow you then youll be just fine, tbh id swap reps with you if i could, i dont even like ebing green :( i wanna be red, i wanna be in the minority


lol ur rite... I should enjoy the redders....

fireangel2007
October 6th, 2008, 10:12 PM
i miss one of my ex's but only cos we still talk and i still got feelings for her, but the ones ive decided not to talk to ever again have become distant figmants of memories. i think i broke myself though, wouldnt know how to get into a real relationship these days. any tips?

I'm on the opposite end of that kinda thing except we haven't talked in 2 and half months and technically we weren't going out...things were just going fast...doesn't make sense all we did was talk and ocassionally see each other but in public...anyways...he recently told my sister that he still has feelings for me...we haven't even talked in 2 n a half months...i miss him so much...you know how you just know that this is the person that you wanna spend your life w/....i think we both feel that way except i don't know why but im scared to talk to him but we'll see what happens....

fireangel2007
October 6th, 2008, 10:14 PM
and oh yea food can be your best friend and so can tv..but it catches up...bad idea...keep busy

*BROWN3Y3Z*
October 6th, 2008, 11:33 PM
I guess he misses me

cuz he keeps calling me but i dont answer

and no i dont miss him

lil_gangsta_
October 17th, 2008, 08:51 PM
no point missin , they aint cumin bk , it happens to me aswell but wht to do apart fm movin on ,

Canadian_jatti
November 4th, 2008, 01:09 AM
I dont miss that retarded bitch at all :ugh:

evolution clearly missed her.
haha ur hilarious anyways to answer the question i broke up wit my bf a month ago and i miss him sometimes but i get over that feeling pretty fast i jus wanna move on but he doesnt understand that

selekio
November 4th, 2008, 02:53 AM
I miss my ex, because we only broke up recently and it was mutually something that had to be done. So I ain't got a problem with her, I'll always miss her. But she's still in my life as a friend so it's all good.