when you like someone....

[sheisagoodgirl]

why can't you just tell the person??

fear of rejection? awkwardness? or plain shyness??

tell the person about it before it's too late :no:


I speak from experience :lol:

[zarahomme]

ok..thank you....true..wats the worst that can happen...u get rejected..then at least the anxiety is gone...and u can say fuck that hoe(coz she didnt go out with me) and move on

[dayven]

ok..thank you....true..wats the worst that can happen...u get rejected..then at least the anxiety is gone...and u can say fuck that hoe(coz she didnt go out with me) and move on

:rofl:


:werd:

[Dream_GirL]

....

[desi_uk]

tell de person :cheers:

makes life so much easier

not the case

[goose_bump]

Show me your pic and I'll explain everything to ya

[Mecer]

for guys its because it'll drive the girl away, you need to treat girls like shit for them to appreciate you.

[goose_bump]

tell de person :cheers:

makes life so much easier

Damnn baby you be my wet-dream girl for tonight

[sheisagoodgirl]

ok..thank you....true..wats the worst that can happen...u get rejected..then at least the anxiety is gone...and u can say fuck that hoe(coz she didnt go out with me) and move on

:no:

moving on is good... but with such bitter attitude/feelings?

[goose_bump]

for guys its because it'll drive the girl away, you need to treat girls like shit for them to appreciate you.

Exactly thats wat I m talkin about

[zarahomme]

:no:

moving on is good... but with such bitter attitude/feelings?

(

dont take me literally....but u hav to hav some attitude..otherwise u might as well not be alive.....aand its true..if u give ppl too much of ur time they treat u like shit...if u give them just a whiff here and there they learn to value u more

[Siddy3242]

:-|

[XxXanamikaXxX]

for guys its because it'll drive the girl away, you need to treat girls like shit for them to appreciate you.

douchebag.

[sheisagoodgirl]

dont take me literally....but u hav to hav some attitude..otherwise u might as well not be alive.....aand its true..if u give ppl too much of ur time they treat u like shit...if u give them just a whiff here and there they learn to value u more

oh, we all have attitude.... that's how we survive... but we got to make sure out attitude is a positive contribution to our development

and I was specifically talking about "bitter" attitude here...

and I think there's a difference between having a bitter attitude and not allowing someone to walk all over you...

but yeah maybe I am being too literal

[/essay]

edit: temporary bitter attitude may lead to instant success for some people, but the feeling of bitterness shouldnt be too strong that you feel ashamed of yourself later on

[creatinekid]

The fling is the best part of the relationship

[HeAvYmAcHiNeGuN]

i got an attitude problem :no:

[sheisagoodgirl]

Show me your pic and I'll explain everything to ya

:shame:

[jigga man23]

I tell em straight u...

[zarahomme]

oh, we all have attitude.... that's how we survive... but we got to make sure out attitude is a positive contribution to our development

and I was specifically talking about "bitter" attitude here...

and I think there's a difference between having a bitter attitude and not allowing someone to walk all over you...

but yeah maybe I am being too literal

[/essay]

edit: temporary bitter attitude may lead to instant success for some people, but the feeling of bitterness shouldnt be too strong that you feel ashamed of yourself later on

r u trynna figure me out or something

[sheisagoodgirl]

tell de person :cheers:

makes life so much easier

I love you and your replies :lol:

anyway, yes I logically agree with you... but I know it can be veryyyy hard in some cases...do you know what I mean? =/

[sheisagoodgirl]

r u trynna figure me out or something

:roflbow: no dude....

sorry about the essay :-|

[sheisagoodgirl]

I tell em straight u...

good.... maybe this world needs more people like you around...

but I am afraid... are you one of those people who don't hesitate a bit to say negative things to people too? no no, just checking :lol:

[zarahomme]

:roflbow: no dude....

sorry about the essay :-|

ok...anyway.....i dont know how u sensed a tone of bitterness..it was actually more like...this is a waste of time and im an idiot if i hang around

[pakilicious911]

lol that was me back in the beginning of high school. Now I don't care too much about my fears, rather how much time I spend wondering what the other person thinks of me.

Might as well tell them and get it over with. You might wait forever just to find out that person liked you back.

[sheisagoodgirl]

i got an attitude problem :no:

most of us do... or at least most of us have phases with attitude problem....

but yes, with extreme effort, you can change your attitude... and it can be really worth it....

[sheisagoodgirl]

not the case

what happened in your case? :tears:

[sheisagoodgirl]

ok...anyway.....i dont know how u sensed a tone of bitterness..it was actually more like...this is a waste of time and im an idiot if i hang around

the whole "f u b****"

how can you use such derogatory words for someone if you really liked that person at one point? unless you develop some really strong bitter feelings for that person...

but then they also say it's a thin line between love and hate :think:

[Siddy3242]

somehow y do i sense this thread is in some way connected to me:rofl:

[sheisagoodgirl]

lol that was me back in the beginning of high school. Now I don't care too much about my fears, rather how much time I spend wondering what the other person thinks of me.

Might as well tell them and get it over with. You might wait forever just to find out that person liked you back.

yeah, cool...

btw how do you approach a stranger? when none of you have common buddies... and well, you both do end up catching each other staring... just a question....

[sheisagoodgirl]

somehow y do i sense this thread is in some way connected to me:rofl:

you give yourself too much importance :no:

:-|

[sheisagoodgirl]

for guys its because it'll drive the girl away, you need to treat girls like shit for them to appreciate you.

you had bad experiences with girl earlier in your life?

[zarahomme]

the whole "f u b****"

how can you use such derogatory words for someone if you really liked that person at one point? unless you develop some really strong bitter feelings for that person...

but then they also say it's a thin line between love and hate :think:

okay let me clarify....love has to be two sided......its not like an infatuation.....in this case i was referring to the general 'liking' scenario.....and the fuck that hoe bit.....just look at it as a figure of speech......

[HeAvYmAcHiNeGuN]

most of us do... or at least most of us have phases with attitude problem....

but yes, with extreme effort, you can change your attitude... and it can be really worth it....

guys like me shouldnt be involved in this relationship thingy ;)

[Riddemz]

the whole "f u b****"

how can you use such derogatory words for someone if you really liked that person at one point? unless you develop some really strong bitter feelings for that person...

but then they also say it's a thin line between love and hate :think:

he is saying that he would have that mentality in order to shield him from feeling that his honour was destroyed by being rejected

[sheisagoodgirl]

okay let me clarify....love has to be two sided......its not like an infatuation.....in this case i was referring to the general 'liking' scenario.....and the fuck that hoe bit.....just look at it as a figure of speech......

no, i disagree... love doesnt have to be two-sided... I think none of us got right to judge someone else's feelings... if a person says he loves someone and he does everythting it takes to see her happy which may include helping her in getting married to the guy of her choice, then none of us got a right to tell that guy "oh it's not love" maybe we should let him decide that...

but what you are saying may be true if it's always the case that maybe one of the them just doesnt even realize that s/he loves the other person... but love is there ... from both sides... I just think love is just love... you can't define it in any way... you feel it or you dont. period

anyway, figure of speech? well, i am not a big fan of cussing and all, but yes I can see how one would use such words for someone they admired at one point.... because they are just too used to cussing and all :dunno:

[Siddy3242]

you give yourself too much importance :no:

:-|

aye, i thought what we discussed earlier somehow inspired this thread

you know im not like that:-|

[creatinekid]

The laws of attraction state that humans want what they can't have...play hard to get and he will come running.

[sheisagoodgirl]

he is saying that he would have that mentality in order to shield him from feeling that his honour was destroyed by being rejected

lol but what I was saying was maybe the rejected guy should grow up and face the truth that just because she rejected him, it doesnt have that much to do with his honor.... (unless you were being sarcastic... :think: )

[Riddemz]

lol but what I was saying was maybe the rejected guy should grow up and face the truth that just because she rejected him, it doesnt have that much to do with his honor.... (unless you were being sarcastic... :think: )

of course it does

being rejected means the person wasnt good enough to be accepted by the person, thus being inferior to them

[sheisagoodgirl]

aye, i thought what we discussed earlier somehow inspired this thread

you know im not like that:-|

silly boy.. :no:

[Siddy3242]

silly boy.. :no:

whats so silly abt it?

[zarahomme]

:rofl: ...i have been taken so out of context here..and the over-analysis baffles me.....

[Mecer]

you had bad experiences with girl earlier in your life?

lol no its just funny

[zarahomme]

some key point go missing in a non-fafe to face convo

[sheisagoodgirl]

of course it does

being rejected means the person wasnt good enough to be accepted by the person, thus being inferior to them

no, there can be so many reasons of rejection... she might be dating someone else, she might not be into dating....

and well, even if the person was the only reason for his/her rejection... even then, why let someone else decide who you're inferior to and who you're superior to...? what's the criteria that was being used? looks? smartness? money? there are many ways to judge looks and smartness... you didnt fit her criteria... big deal! money? well that can be changed... work hard! :D

[sheisagoodgirl]

:rofl: ...i have been taken so out of context here..and the over-analysis baffles me.....

:rofl: I tend to do that sometimes.

but then I have my zombie phases to compensate :lol:

[sheisagoodgirl]

some key point go missing in a non-fafe to face convo

lol yes I agree... but if you are thinking, your replies have made me so sad that I have turned over-analytical, then no, I am having fun :rofl:

[zarahomme]

nice to know

[southystyle]

why can't you just tell the person??

fear of rejection? awkwardness? or plain shyness??

tell the person about it before it's too late :no:


I speak from experience :lol:

because they are a cartoon.

[sheisagoodgirl]

lol no its just funny

:lol:


(thanks for reminding me that it was funny)

[Riddemz]

no, there can be so many reasons of rejection... she might be dating someone else, she might not be into dating....

and well, even if the person was the only reason for his/her rejection... even then, why let someone else decide who you're inferior to and who you're superior to...? what's the criteria that was being used? looks? smartness? money? there are many ways to judge looks and smartness... you didnt fit her criteria... big deal! money? well that can be changed... work hard! :D

lol

[sheisagoodgirl]

guys like me shouldnt be involved in this relationship thingy ;)

why??? you tend to beat up girls??? :no:

[sheisagoodgirl]

lol

lol yeah I don't why I am writing essays today :no:

[sheisagoodgirl]

nice to know

:salut:

[sheisagoodgirl]

The laws of attraction state that humans want what they can't have...play hard to get and he will come running.

some people overdo it...

man just be genuine... seriously...

but I do agree playing games can be fun :D

[Samad]

why can't you just tell the person??

fear of rejection? awkwardness? or plain shyness??

tell the person about it before it's too late :no:


I speak from experience :lol:

Only if things were always that easy :D

[sheisagoodgirl]

whats so silly abt it?

lol.... okay the world revolves around you...happy?

[zarahomme]

lol

i just saw ur from montreal....wat do u think of dom rebel

[Siddy3242]

some people overdo it...

man just be genuine... seriously...

but I do agree playing games can be fun :D

not for the guy

lol.... okay the world revolves around you...happy?

rofl, u make me sound like a douche

[sheisagoodgirl]

because they are a cartoon.

:rofl: nice...

you have never hesitated about confessing your feelings though? just curious

[sheisagoodgirl]

not for the guy



rofl, u make me sound like a douche

oh guys play mind games too... except with this one game, it's possible for both of them to win and very likely for both of them to lose... I hope I got my point across :-|

you told me you are a nice guy... and I don't have any reason to think otherwise.... YET!

[Siddy3242]

oh guys play mind games too... except with this one game, it's possible for both of them to win and very likely for both of them to lose... I hope I got my point across :-|

you told me you are a nice guy... and I don't have any reason to think otherwise.... YET!

rofl, so you tellin me the chances for this guy just went up from 20-80 to 50-50.......


ja, i m generally nice on here, a bit e-gay, but nice, u kno me frm the time i joined here aye

[sheisagoodgirl]

rofl, so you tellin me the chances for this guy just went up from 20-80 to 50-50.......


ja, i m generally nice on here, a bit e-gay, but nice, u kno me frm the time i joined here aye

all I am saying is... in this game, you want the other person to win too... lol... just play carefully :D

yes I know you since you were born on RD... that's why I am your favorite auntyji on here :hug:

[pakilicious911]

yeah, cool...

btw how do you approach a stranger? when none of you have common buddies... and well, you both do end up catching each other staring... just a question....

well thats just physical attraction, not necessarily liking someone. Depends on to what extent that person is a stranger. Like if the guy was in the same class as me and I saw him walking around school, I'd ask him stuff about the class (how stupid the class is, how boring it is, if we need the book, if he studied) to create small talk and take it from there. Same goes if I would work with the guy.

Otherwise, I don't know it'd be kind of hard. I have done that but it took A LOT of guts.

[sheisagoodgirl]

Only if things were always that easy :D

yes yes... tell us what's so hard about it...

let's offer counseling services to each other :rofl:

but no seriously... what issues do you face?

[Siddy3242]

all I am saying is... in this game, you want the other person to win too... lol... just play carefully :D

yes I know you since you were born on RD... that's why I am your favorite auntyji on here :hug:

its been nothing but carefulness so far......
infact its been so careful, that its not moved 4ward @ all
:rofl:


yes u are :hug:

[sheisagoodgirl]

well thats just physical attraction, not necessarily liking someone. Depends on to what extent that person is a stranger. Like if the guy was in the same class as me and I saw him walking around school, I'd ask him stuff about the class (how stupid the class is, how boring it is, if we need the book, if he studied) to create small talk and take it from there. Same goes if I would work with the guy.

Otherwise, I don't know it'd be kind of hard. I have done that but it took A LOT of guts.

yes it can be really hard when you dont have any classes together or even same major!!! so yeah such situation do require a lot of guts, and it's rather easy to come across as silly too.... :no:

[sheisagoodgirl]

its been nothing but carefulness so far......
infact its been so careful, that its not moved 4ward @ all
:rofl:


yes u are :hug:

I told you not to be so careful that you go nuts thinking about your next step... and to be nice, you are pretty much on the border line :rofl:

[Siddy3242]

I told you not to be so careful that you go nuts thinking about your next step... and to be nice, you are pretty much on the border line :rofl:

borderline nice??
:rofl:

[sheisagoodgirl]

borderline nice??
:rofl:

no, borderline nuts :rofl:

and I am being nice here :lol:

[Siddy3242]

no, borderline nuts :rofl:

and I am being nice here :lol:

oh yeah, i m completely nuts:rofl:
but kya kare, :-|

[candle23]

i don't even need to tell, my feelings are usually written all over my face :neutral:

[sheisagoodgirl]

oh yeah, i m completely nuts:rofl:
but kya kare, :-|

aaye haaye... sing the song "yeh dil kya kare"

it might just work!!!!


wait no, you probably will forget the lyrics :no:

[Samad]

yes yes... tell us what's so hard about it...

let's offer counseling services to each other :rofl:

but no seriously... what issues do you face?

None anymore...though I did shy away from expressing my true feelings to someone when I was in college...even though I did regret it afterwards...its been a long time now

[sheisagoodgirl]

i don't even need to tell, my feelings are usually written all over my face :neutral:

:rofl: yeah i know, kinda same here...

but then frown at the guy to compensate for it... :no:

[Siddy3242]

aaye haaye... sing the song "yeh dil kya kare"

it might just work!!!!


wait no, you probably will forget the lyrics :no:

:rofl:

u just want her to kill me aye? :rofl:

[zarahomme]

:rofl: yeah i know, kinda same here...

but then frown at the guy to compensate for it... :no:
i know this girl that does this to me all the time

[sheisagoodgirl]

None anymore...though I did shy away from expressing my true feelings to someone when I was in college...even though I did regret it afterwards...its been a long time now

I know EXACTLY what you mean

main aur meri tanhaayi aksar yeh baatein karte hain... main uske saath hoti to kaisa hota etc :rofl:

[sheisagoodgirl]

:rofl:

u just want her to kill me aye? :rofl:

she already has! think about it!

[sheisagoodgirl]

i know this girl that does this to me all the time

if you got feelings for her, try talking to her...

if you dont... forget about it :dunno:

[Samad]

I know EXACTLY what you mean

main aur meri tanhaayi aksar yeh baatein karte hain... main uske saath hoti to kaisa hota etc :rofl:

:rofl: hindi movie ke dialogues..but you know what let the past be...maybe it wasn't meant to be...you'll be meet someone better :)

[Siddy3242]

she already has! think about it!

:ashamed:
mentally
emotionally

now all i need is physically:-|

[pakilicious911]

yes it can be really hard when you dont have any classes together or even same major!!! so yeah such situation do require a lot of guts, and it's rather easy to come across as silly too.... :no:
well honestly, out of my observations and personal experience, it is a lot easier for a girl to talk to a guy than a guy to talk to a girl.

If a guy were to randomly go upto a girl and talk to her, she would automatically assume the wrong things even if that wasn't his intention. But if a girl goes up to a guy to talk to him, it isnt so bad because most of the time girls dont do it anyway which is why I have gathered the guts to do that. lol it is really awkward but hey if the guy doesnt walk away from you as soon as he sees you walking towards him, you're good. :D

[zarahomme]

if you got feelings for her, try talking to her...

if you dont... forget about it :dunno:

i knew exactly how she felt...but shes a friend and i didnt want to hurt her...so i just brushed off the signals in a discrete manner..as if i didnt notice......it has worked....she no longer has a crush on me......

[Samad]

i don't even need to tell, my feelings are usually written all over my face :neutral:

lol ...and how do the guys react?

[sheisagoodgirl]

:rofl: hindi movie ke dialogues..but you know what let the past be...maybe it wasn't meant to be...you'll be meet someone better :)

I said "main aur meri tanhaayee" lol...

I have never dated... so I can only hope that once I start dating or something, I will move on... the only thing I fear though is whenever I am tanha again, I would think about him again.... :dunno:

[sheisagoodgirl]

:ashamed:
mentally
emotionally

now all i need is physically:-|

:slap: you deserved it for saying it

[sheisagoodgirl]

i knew exactly how she felt...but shes a friend and i didnt want to hurt her...so i just brushed off the signals in a discrete manner..as if i didnt notice......it has worked....she no longer has a crush on me......

you didnt like her?

and yes, that was a nice thing you did :) I am glad she got over you

[Siddy3242]

:slap: you deserved it for saying it

:ashamed:
i just feel so emo abt it
i think i need sleep

[zarahomme]

you didnt like her?

and yes, that was a nice thing you did :) I am glad she got over you

no i didnt....just not in a girlfriend sorta way..shes very attractive and cud do much better.....

[sheisagoodgirl]

well honestly, out of my observations and personal experience, it is a lot easier for a girl to talk to a guy than a guy to talk to a girl.

If a guy were to randomly go upto a girl and talk to her, she would automatically assume the wrong things even if that wasn't his intention. But if a girl goes up to a guy to talk to him, it isnt so bad because most of the time girls dont do it anyway which is why I have gathered the guts to do that. lol it is really awkward but hey if the guy doesnt walk away from you as soon as he sees you walking towards him, you're good. :D

oh I do realize that... but I can be reallyyyyyyyyyyyyy shy at times... plus I did not have anything to talk about...

and I was feeling very vulnerable at that point... :no:

see it was a lil harder for me, because we had already started staring at each other and flirtatiously smiling at each other... so it would have been hard for me to start a casual conversation with him... lol

[sheisagoodgirl]

:ashamed:
i just feel so emo abt it
i think i need sleep

TAKE A BREAK!!!

[sheisagoodgirl]

no i didnt....just not in a girlfriend sorta way..shes very attractive and cud do much better.....

lol awwww...

btw that wasn't the only reason you werent attracted to her, right??

btw I could never understand "s/he could so much better" part... how do you compare two people... such discussions really freak me out sometimes lol ... but only sometimes :D

[HeAvYmAcHiNeGuN]

why??? you tend to beat up girls??? :no:

i have never beaten a girl :no:

and i would never do such a stupid thing

have other reasons

[Samad]

I said "main aur meri tanhaayee" lol...

I have never dated... so I can only hope that once I start dating or something, I will move on... the only thing I fear though is whenever I am tanha again, I would think about him again.... :dunno:

well, you're a good girl as your sn suggests :)...but hey time heals everything...I hardly recall my past :D

[sheisagoodgirl]

i have never beaten a girl :no:

and i would never do such a stupid thing

have other reasons

lol yes, I was joking around :)

sorry... what are your other reasons?

[zarahomme]

lol awwww...

btw that wasn't the only reason you werent attracted to her, right??

btw I could never understand "s/he could so much better" part... how do you compare two people... such discussions really freak me out sometimes lol ... but only sometimes :D

no..i simply was not attracted to her....not my type.....she does have a few flaws..but i overlook them ..just like in any friendship......bottomline is..one man's trash...another man's treasure

[sheisagoodgirl]

well, you're a good girl as your sn suggests :)...but hey time heals everything...I hardly recall my past :D

yes I do believe time heals everything....

good thing I believe in reincarnation... :rofl:

(okay let's not get into debate on reincarnation now :lol: )

[Samad]

i have never beaten a girl :no:

and i would never do such a stupid thing

have other reasons

Shabash bilal! :D

[HeAvYmAcHiNeGuN]

lol yes, I was joking around :)

sorry... what are your other reasons?

before getting into a relationship or even when before fallin in love

u should have alot of Money and a good Car

as u said before....Telling u from my experience

[sheisagoodgirl]

no..i simply was not attracted to her....not my type.....she does have a few flaws..but i overlook them ..just like in any friendship......bottomline is..one man's trash...another man's treasure

ahhh nobody is trash...

and yes, i can understand you were genuinely not attracted to her....

I used to be kind of mean about it actually... when I would notice a friend of mine is sort of falling for me, I would enjoy the attention and not do anything about it...

now this one guy has really done so much for me, so when I noticed he was sort of getting attached to me, I took proper measures... so I guess I am improving with time :)

[blindfury86]

girls are scary.

[HeAvYmAcHiNeGuN]

and please dont tell me i am wrong

[sheisagoodgirl]

before getting into a relationship or even when before fallin in love

u should have alot of Money and a good Car

as u said before....Telling u from my experience

awwww that's too much generalization.


the girl should just be truly convinced that you will have such things in future...

[HeAvYmAcHiNeGuN]

girls are scary.

Ramadan mein jhoot nahin boltay :no:

[Samad]

yes I do believe time heals everything....

good thing I believe in reincarnation... :rofl:

(okay let's not get into debate on reincarnation now :lol: )

haha you're funny...this reminded me of "down to earth"...was a great movie

[HeAvYmAcHiNeGuN]

awwww that's too much generalization.


the girl should just be truly convinced that you will have such things in future...

thats how gals are nowadays :no:

what if i dont have these things in future....comeon thats not Love

thats Pure Business ;)

[Samad]

girls are scary.

sorry, no offense but right now the only scary thing is your aviator :wavey:

[sheisagoodgirl]

and please dont tell me i am wrong

you're right ... but the way you put it is wrong....

any girl would like to make sure the guy is dependable financially and otherwise... if she's planning to marry him, otherwise, money shouldnt matter...

because even if she could have the best career in the world...she's not going to be selfish, and she would like to see her guy succeed as well...

[/essay]

[candle23]

lol ...and how do the guys react?

i'm not sure what they think of me, probably that i'm a shy psycho. :dunno:

i start emitting red hot radiation and the guy is usually like aww you're red. i'm pathetic :no:

[HeAvYmAcHiNeGuN]

you're right ... but the way you put it is wrong....

any girl would like to make sure the guy is dependable financially and otherwise... if she's planning to marry him, otherwise, money shouldnt matter...

because even if she could have the best career in the world...she's not going to be selfish, and she would like to see her guy succeed as well...

[/essay]

in short a gal would never fall in love or marry a guy who is financially not secure

:cheers:

[sheisagoodgirl]

thats how gals are nowadays :no:

what if i dont have these things in future....comeon thats not Love

thats Pure Business ;)

if you two don't plan to have kids and she can financially look after herself.. like if she's a career woman and all, then yes you not having a car shouldnt matter to her...

but if you two plan to have kids in the future, then she needs to see you are sincere about her and the kids in every way possible... :)

[blindfury86]

Ramadan mein jhoot nahin boltay :no:

im not. its tru!

[sheisagoodgirl]

in short a gal would never fall in love or marry a guy who is financially not secure

:cheers:

I wouldnt mind marrying a financially insecure guy, but what I have noticed is they tend to suffer from a lot of disorders and tend to abuse their wives... out of frustration or whatever... I have seen it happen very closely... so I know how it feels :) ...

[blindfury86]

sorry, no offense but right now the only scary thing is your aviator :wavey:

its ramadan. im going for the pashtoon stare of death look. is it working?

[sheisagoodgirl]

girls are scary.

kya huya?

[sheisagoodgirl]

i'm not sure what they think of me, probably that i'm a shy psycho. :dunno:

i start emitting red hot radiation and the guy is usually like aww you're red. i'm pathetic :no:

oh??? dude you need to look into yoga, like really :)

[*BROWN3Y3Z*]

:-|

:-|

[Samad]

i'm not sure what they think of me, probably that i'm a shy psycho. :dunno:

i start emitting red hot radiation and the guy is usually like aww you're red. i'm pathetic :no:

Wow, I didn't think you were that shy...how old are you candle..23? You know its really hard to talk to someone or tell them how you feel about them...its just human nature. So don't worry...you're not pathetic. :D

[blindfury86]

I wouldnt mind marrying a financially insecure guy, but what I have noticed is they tend to suffer from a lot of disorders and tend to abuse their wives... out of frustration or whatever... I have seen it happen very closely... so I know how it feels :) ...

would u marry a guy who made less money than you, but wasnt that insecure financially?

[HeAvYmAcHiNeGuN]

if you two don't plan to have kids and she can financially look after herself.. like if she's a career woman and all, then yes you not having a car shouldnt matter to her...

but if you two plan to have kids in the future, then she needs to see you are sincere about her and the kids in every way possible... :)

listen sorry for saying this but even the poorest guy who gets married knows what a condom is

but anyways we were not talkin about having kids...but it was something about gals would never marry a guy who is financially not strong

well i change my previous statement here : they may date him for a while but would never get married

[sheisagoodgirl]

haha you're funny...this reminded me of "down to earth"...was a great movie

I watch bollywood movies only :D

[blindfury86]

Wow, I didn't think you were that shy...how old are you candle..23? You know its really hard to talk to someone or tell them how you feel about them...its just human nature. So don't worry...you're not pathetic. :D

she isnt. she's made cute. makes me blush. all the time.

[HeAvYmAcHiNeGuN]

would u marry a guy who made less money than you, but wasnt that insecure financially?

hes indirectly askin u out :p

[sheisagoodgirl]

would u marry a guy who made less money than you, but wasnt that insecure financially?

I would LOVE to!! as long as he is happy about it...

[Samad]

its ramadan. im going for the pashtoon stare of death look. is it working?

Yes it sure is...I could make a FBIs most wanted poster with your picture on it and scare my coworkers :rofl:

[blindfury86]

kya huya?

ie. u have a nice achi bachi good girl.

u tell her u like her. rejection.
u give her attitude. she thinks ur an ass.
u tell her you wanna marry her. lame excuse...wait till im done with school.
u go back to her 2 years later. she's married with 2 kids and 3rd coming on the way.
u go home depressed.

[Samad]

I watch bollywood movies only :D

Any suggestions?

[blindfury86]

Yes it sure is...I could make a FBIs most wanted poster with your picture on it and scare my coworkers :rofl:

dude. that would be sweet. if u have nothing else to do, go ahead and do it.

[sheisagoodgirl]

listen sorry for saying this but even the poorest guy who gets married knows what a condom is

but anyways we were not talkin about having kids...but it was something about gals would never marry a guy who is financially not strong

well i change my previous statement here : they may date him for a while but would never get married

well, as I said...I would LOVE to marry a guy who makes less than me (considering I don't go unemployed for a long time!! lol)

as long as he doesnt go through depression and the whole wife-abusing phase and all, I would love to marry such a guy...

but yes if we have kids... I would like to make sure two of us can support the kids together... and he is genuine about the kids' future... it doesnt matter how much he makes... what matters is how genuine he is :)

[sheisagoodgirl]

ie. u have a nice achi bachi good girl.

u tell her u like her. rejection.
u give her attitude. she thinks ur an ass.
u tell her you wanna marry her. lame excuse...wait till im done with school.
u go back to her 2 years later. she's married with 2 kids and 3rd coming on the way.
u go home depressed.

that's deep stuff right there, man

you look young... dont tell me it happened to you?!

[blindfury86]

hes indirectly askin u out :p

dude. im poor. i qualify for zakat right now. no joke. and im living in pakistan. the beggars come to me for money...and i'm like yoooo, you have more money in ur hands right now than i got in my bank account.

[HeAvYmAcHiNeGuN]

I wouldnt mind marrying a financially insecure guy, but what I have noticed is they tend to suffer from a lot of disorders and tend to abuse their wives... out of frustration or whatever... I have seen it happen very closely... so I know how it feels :) ...

thats what every gal says but u know the reality and the ratio of gals getting married to a financially secure guy :p

well that is actually true....those gals get everything in life...money cars a big house....but they wont get Love from their husband...other cases the husband would never give them the due respect.

gals who get everything which includes love and respect are really LUCKY

once a friend of mine told me :

All Good gals in this world are used abused taken or heart broken

[HeAvYmAcHiNeGuN]

dude. im poor. i qualify for zakat right now. no joke. and im living in pakistan. the beggars come to me for money...and i'm like yoooo, you have more money in ur hands right now than i got in my bank account.

are u joking or what

cause if u are then u really need to shutup

[sheisagoodgirl]

thats what every gal says but u know the reality and the ratio of gals getting married to a financially secure guy :p

well that is actually true....those gals get everything in life...money cars a big house....but they wont get Love from their husband...other cases the husband would never give them the due respect.

gals who get everything which includes love and respect are really LUCKY

once a friend of mine told me :

All Good gals in this world are used abused taken or heart broken

respect comes first... if my future-husband and I can not respect each other, we should not be married!

I don't know about other girls, and I do not want to comment on how they feel... but, I would have no issues marrying a guy who makes less money than me... some guys are cool about it... they dont make a big fuss about it... so I don't see why I should... :)

[lil_sexy]

because she's a good girl.

[blindfury86]

that's deep stuff right there, man

you look young... dont tell me it happened to you?!

too hard to talk abt. i'll cry.
im 21. oooooooo how the heart cries out with tears of blood! the agony!

here is the tru story:
i told a girl "i like u"
she was like "hehe, me too"
we were acha bachas and kept it saaf sutra.
she got mad cuz she thought i told her friends that she liked me.
i worked my magic and we were cool again.
i went to pakistan.
she was sad. gave me a gift.
then one day she looked in the mirror and was like "yo, i'm wait outta his league"
she stopped talking to me.
i was sad.
i should have given her the gift.

[sheisagoodgirl]

Any suggestions?

I heard Rock On! is really good!!!! and it's offbeat too, or so I heard! watch it some time! :)

[blindfury86]

are u joking or what

cause if u are then u really need to shutup

my friend. i live off very little money. u would never believe me if i told u.

[sheisagoodgirl]

too hard to talk abt. i'll cry.
im 21. oooooooo how the heart cries out with tears of blood! the agony!

here is the tru story:
i told a girl "i like u"
she was like "hehe, me too"
we were acha bachas and kept it saaf sutra.
she got mad cuz she thought i told her friends that she liked me.
i worked my magic and we were cool again.
i went to pakistan.
she was sad. gave me a gift.
then one day she looked in the mirror and was like "yo, i'm wait outta his league"
she stopped talking to me.
i was sad.
i should have given her the gift.

hmmmm you serious? where's she from?

people go through "i'm too good" phases... I can only hope she is being childish and it's temporary... but how do you know that's the reason for breakup?

[sheisagoodgirl]

because she's a good girl.

awww lol...

[Samad]

she isnt. she's made cute. makes me blush. all the time.

I agree...she isn't shy online, but she is offline though...and you're absolutely correct...she is one of the few people on RD with really nice online personality.

[Samad]

I heard Rock On! is really good!!!! and it's offbeat too, or so I heard! watch it some time! :)

Alright I'll check it out! :D

[sheisagoodgirl]

I agree...she isn't shy online, but she is offline though...and you're absolutely correct...she is one of the few people on RD with really nice online personality.

yeah she does amaze me with her child-like innocent personality... she's totally adorable :)

[blindfury86]

hmmmm you serious? where's she from?

people go through "i'm too good" phases... I can only hope she is being childish and it's temporary... but how do you know that's the reason for breakup?

lol honestly i was def way outta her league :rofl:
she was childish before. grew up now :(

[HeAvYmAcHiNeGuN]

respect comes first... if my future-husband and I can not respect each other, we should not be married!

I don't know about other girls, and I do not want to comment on how they feel... but, I would have no issues marrying a guy who makes less money than me... some guys are cool about it... they dont make a big fuss about it... so I don't see why I should... :)

well different people have a different way of thinking

for me its important to earn alot of money before i get married

a couple of days ago....my parents called and said we are looking for a gal for u...and i was like please...i have just started earning and i wanna earn more and more money before i get married.

i dont want my wife to suffer and think that she got married to someone who cant even take care of her and fulfill her demands

[HeAvYmAcHiNeGuN]

my friend. i live off very little money. u would never believe me if i told u.

are u in lahore

cause if u are...then i can call up my parents and they would help u out

[candle23]

Wow, I didn't think you were that shy...how old are you candle..23? You know its really hard to talk to someone or tell them how you feel about them...its just human nature. So don't worry...you're not pathetic. :D

this was a while ago when i was too young, i've been out of the dating field for too long now

letting the guy know is not problem. they're the ones who do the approaching work anyway..

lol my age is pretty obvious with my sn

[blindfury86]

are u in lahore

cause if u are...then i can call up my parents and they would help u out
lol in multan...but its ok. im gettin saved soon. only a week or so more :)

[Samad]

this was a while ago when i was too young, i've been out of the dating field for too long now

letting the guy know is not problem. they're the ones who do the approaching work anyway..

lol my age is pretty obvious with my sn

Well, in that case you shouldn't have any problem :D and your sn is over a year old...so I'm guessing 24 :D but anyhow dating has its advantages and disadvantages as well...I shouldn't even be talking about this lol...I've been out of the game for good

[HeAvYmAcHiNeGuN]

lol in multan...but its ok. im gettin saved soon. only a week or so more :)

listen if u really need some money...i can help u out

so without any hesitation u can ask me....i have a good job and Mashallah i am earning a good amount of money

[khoobsurat1]

why can't you just tell the person??

fear of rejection? awkwardness? or plain shyness??

tell the person about it before it's too late :no:


I speak from experience :lol:


hmmm true...

say it while its still possible...

[khoobsurat1]

listen if u really need some money...i can help u out

so without any hesitation u can ask me....i have a good job and Mashallah i am earning a good amount of money

what's the money for Bilal?
does someone need some help? :)

[HeAvYmAcHiNeGuN]

what's the money for Bilal?
does someone need some help? :)

yeah this guy for the 1st time told me about his financial problems

and i was askin him if hes from Lahore i can call up my parents and they would definately help him out

even if hes not in lahore....i can send him the money anywhere in Pakistan

[khoobsurat1]

yeah this guy for the 1st time told me about his financial problems

and i was askin him if hes from Lahore i can call up my parents and they would definately help him out

even if hes not in lahore....i can send him the money anywhere in Pakistan

I can help too...let me know k? :)

[HeAvYmAcHiNeGuN]

I can help too...let me know k? :)

yeah if he pms me or something

i'll tell u

[Siddy3242]

:-|

:-|:neutral::rofl:

[aznpdaddy]

its a way of you having the upper hand.. feel good factor for some... but can lead to over exhausted big headedness!

just tell the person and save them the favour, and then get rejected and face the facts..your not as wanted as you think (not you by the way, talkin in general)

[*BROWN3Y3Z*]

:-|:neutral::rofl:

:lol:

[~*pwincess*~]

The fling is the best part of the relationship

exctly!!!! lol hate wen guys tells u straigt they like u...its nice wen they hint n all

[Siddy3242]

:lol:

:-|:(:grouphug::wavey::Pelvic2::cool:

[sheisagoodgirl]

lol honestly i was def way outta her league :rofl:
she was childish before. grew up now :(

nah I dont know what this whole "out of league" thing is about....

anyway, you still miss her, buddy?

[sheisagoodgirl]

well different people have a different way of thinking

for me its important to earn alot of money before i get married

a couple of days ago....my parents called and said we are looking for a gal for u...and i was like please...i have just started earning and i wanna earn more and more money before i get married.

i dont want my wife to suffer and think that she got married to someone who cant even take care of her and fulfill her demands

no, I don't think two of us that much differently except you are a guy and I am a girl.... we both agree the guy should come across as a genuine caring husband... :)

and sometimes money is part of the care... because if she's not earning well due to whatever reasons, who can she look at to support herself?

[sheisagoodgirl]

its a way of you having the upper hand.. feel good factor for some... but can lead to over exhausted big headedness!

just tell the person and save them the favour, and then get rejected and face the facts..your not as wanted as you think (not you by the way, talkin in general)

lol, bollywood movies do spoil us though... because someone in the movie usually wants some other person in the movie realllll bad, and we like to think someone would want us that bad too .... and maybe we do have someone like that... but we want the person we have a crush on to want us that bad... and that just doesn't always work lol

[sheisagoodgirl]

exctly!!!! lol hate wen guys tells u straigt they like u...its nice wen they hint n all

no guy has ever told me he likes me (like that) to my face.... and I have got soooo many hints from so many guys :no:

hints drive me crazy now...

so I would rather want the guy to tell me straight up if he likes me lol

[Siddy3242]

wow way 2 many opinions in here ehhh

[sheisagoodgirl]

wow way 2 many opinions in here ehhh

but yours doesnt count :-|

[Sameera.]

rejection :hs: And that you have to see that person every single fucking day.






Lol!

[Siddy3242]

but yours doesnt count :-|

i m all better now
thank u very much :hug:

[sheisagoodgirl]

rejection :hs: And that you have to see that person every single fucking day.






Lol!

lol agree! and when you are really into someone, you tend to do even sillier things :lol:

[sheisagoodgirl]

i m all better now
thank u very much :hug:

sachchi? pm me your lalalala story dude

[Siddy3242]

sachchi? pm me your lalalala story dude

nothing happened,
I just blocked her
and now I feel much better

[Sameera.]

lol agree! and when you are really into someone, you tend to do even sillier things :lol:

Lol werd!!

[sheisagoodgirl]

nothing happened,
I just blocked her
and now I feel much better

:-| ...... :no:....

[Siddy3242]

:-| ...... :no:....

It was doomed from the start
and i m not gonn risk losing another year just by thinking abt all this
surely u must approve of that nahh i mean

[sheisagoodgirl]

It was doomed from the start
and i m not gonn risk losing another year just by thinking abt all this
surely u must approve of that nahh i mean

yeah that's exactly why i asked you to log off...

we can waste so much time on these things

so if you saw yourself wasting too much time on it, then I do approve of your decision :)

[Siddy3242]

yeah that's exactly why i asked you to log off...

we can waste so much time on these things

so if you saw yourself wasting too much time on it, then I do approve of your decision :)

ja
:hug:

now i gotta figure out how to catch up with the rest of the class :|

[Hands]

i just tell them straight up. Sometimes even when im not sure but i like to know where i stand lawl

[sheisagoodgirl]

ja
:hug:

now i gotta figure out how to catch up with the rest of the class :|

borrow notes? and then try to understand some of it while you are copying it.... and once you are done copying... try to understand it in detail :)

[Siddy3242]

borrow notes? and then try to understand some of it while you are copying it.... and once you are done copying... try to understand it in detail :)

nahh
its a programming class,
no notes
:no:

[sheisagoodgirl]

nahh
its a programming class,
no notes
:no:

notes can come handy for a programming class :)

is it an introduction to programming kind of class...

or is it more like database structures or threading and all?

[Siddy3242]

notes can come handy for a programming class :)

is it an introduction to programming kind of class...

or is it more like database structures or threading and all?

I m alright with programming
I mean, I have done VB,HTML,C++,C, and Matlab
but this is something new , its called R......how freakin original

[sheisagoodgirl]

I m alright with programming
I mean, I have done VB,HTML,C++,C, and Matlab
but this is something new , its called R......how freakin original

:rofl:

so i'm assuming you're using R only for projects while the course covers something totally unrelated? :-|

[Siddy3242]

:rofl:

so i'm assuming you're using R only for projects while the course covers something totally unrelated? :-|

R is for my assignments
and yea the course is statistics, totally unrelated

[sheisagoodgirl]

R is for my assignments
and yea the course is statistics, totally unrelated

lol thought so