Interaccial relationships.

[Tha Alchemist]

I'm sure this topic has been done once or twice, or multiple times.

Yet, I'm going to do it anyways.


So what is your view on marrying someone of a different race or religion? Have you? What was your experience like?

If you were to marry someone from a different race or religion, how would it be viewed by your parents and family? Would they accept it or repudiate you?

How about the kids? How would they be raised?

[_Lux_]

youve gone thread crazy
anyway
yeh i know my age but im pretty set on marrying a certain person lol.
hes iraqi, i is indian
mom says FUCK NO
dad says Does he drink? yes? ok good
more complications but i get bored talking about myself...
in other words

yeh interracial relationships shouldnt be ruled out. like who's ignorant enough to care

[Hands]

i would only date a black guy if his dick was thicker than a snicker

[HU55AIN]

I have strict instructions i cannot marry outside Islam....other then that i think i can marry race....but i prefer desi...

[xTUSHx]

i'm mixed and i'm fine.. so.. i'm thinking you/your kids will be fine. people are people, who cares

[TYPE_R_GINO]

i'm mixed and i'm fine.. so.. i'm thinking you/your kids will be fine. people are people, who cares

:werd:

[alex00]

People make too much of a big deal about it. I'm totally against marriage, so I wouldn't marry anybody, but I've already fucked girls outside my race, and sure, I'd have a relationship with one.

[gooberloo]

it does not matter who you're with as long as there is real/mature i.e. (NO TEENY BOPPER INFATUATIONS) love present and a sense of practicality/trust as the foundation of your relationship

if you guys got that, its a done deal.

[dutsqg]

Ain't nothing wrong with tasting the rainbow.

But this threads still been done over and over again.

[gooberloo]

Ain't nothing wrong with tasting the rainbow.

But this threads still been done over and over again.

:gol:

[Tha Alchemist]

Ain't nothing wrong with tasting the rainbow.

But this threads still been done over and over again.


I know... I knew while making it i'm sure it's been done to death. Still a great topic none the less.

[bonita_larki]

Im more set out on marrying outside my race. But for some its not big deal for others you're just gonna end up divorced. i looked in the divorce records archive and alot of white women with desi men are divorced. like omg is so surprising tho, there is a higher rate of divorce than being with a desi spouse.

[hannukaka420]

I agree with bonita larki ... here's the deal every individual has there own preferences ... Race is not suppose to be that big of a deal because we are all humans at the end of the day... Religion is the only major concern (in my opinion) and that is because of the different ideals and norms and that is why most interracial marriages don't work out because of the core beliefs and priorities. Honestly if i can find a proper practicing hispanic muslim i would choose her over a desi chick but i know it wont work out in the long run cuz the the rest of my family will be unhappy ....
But yea if you can work it out man there is nothing like it ... They say you have to work at the marriage and its all compromises upon compromises so the interracial marriage the only thing would be you would have to work at it 100 times harder
Good Luck man

[Siesta]

I dont like threads like this....they are so contradicting and it makes me mad

[jassika]

mm craving chocolate

[Presence]

I dont like threads like this....they are so contradicting and it makes me mad

Don't you like hanging around black people?

[Siesta]

Don't you like hanging around black people?
I have all kinds of friends, its not a black thing for me

[_Lux_]

I have strict instructions i cannot marry outside Islam....other then that i think i can marry race....but i prefer desi...

strict instructions...thats sad...

[Gypsy King]

I think interracial relationships are ok and accept them. Why not? We are all humans, i like all kind of girls. Im not very much into black girls but some can be beautiful.

[lil_gangsta_]

go plenty of experience here, ma x was hindu n m muslim , tings went pretty well and we both were on same level , v adjustd fo each otha a lot, lik i quit eatin beef, she quit eatin pork / bacon n made ourself more comfy wiv lil tings, jus a lil disagreement btween political history abt indo-pak seperation, but we decidd not to talk abt ben paki or indi anymore , wen v got lil serious thn the most difficult part is religion. she wanted to stick to her religion and i cant force her to change, as no point changin her religion if shes not willing to, but in the end wen it got to mumdad all they worry about their relatives bkhome and friends and their reputation,

i think there is always some kind of conflict at some point abt the culture/race/religion difference but there is always a room for adjustment too.

[_Lux_]

go plenty of experience here, ma x was hindu n m muslim , tings went pretty well and we both were on same level , v adjustd fo each otha a lot, lik i quit eatin beef, she quit eatin pork / bacon n made ourself more comfy wiv lil tings, jus a lil disagreement btween political history abt indo-pak seperation, but we decidd not to talk abt ben paki or indi anymore , wen v got lil serious thn the most difficult part is religion. she wanted to stick to her religion and i cant force her to change, as no point changin her religion if shes not willing to, but in the end wen it got to mumdad all they worry about their relatives bkhome and friends and their reputation,

i think there is always some kind of conflict at some point abt the culture/race/religion difference but there is always a room for adjustment too.

:S
you shouldnt have to change a single thing about your habits...thats what acceptance is

[HU55AIN]

strict instructions...thats sad...

Well, I should have used better choice of vocab

But I dont want to marry outside Islam, I cant be asked with complications and shiit. AND to be honest..the mother brings up the children, and has more input and if she aint muslim, then I dont think my kids would be able to appreciate Islam properly.

But, I understand where my parents are coming from...
.......Islam before the girl..:salut:

[Ozzy-]

:S
you shouldnt have to change a single thing about your habits...thats what acceptance is

You shouldn't have to change a single thing? A relationship like that is doomed to fail. It's about being able to tolerate some things and change some. Relationships aren't stolid, they grow and evolve over time. Sometimes you have to compromise =).

[kshatriyaa]

Can't marry outside of vedic religion parents won't allow it. had to break up with my previous g/f she was afghani muslim and im indian hindu :neutral:. told my parents about her and they went balistic.

I guess parents can be a bit f***** up sumtimes.

[HinduMan21]

Can't marry outside of vedic religion parents won't allow it. had to break up with my previous g/f she was afghani muslim and im indian hindu :neutral:. told my parents about her and they went balistic.

I guess parents can be a bit f***** up sumtimes.

yeah, i know couples who broke up because there families were not cool with hindu-muslim relationships. :neutral:

[Siesta]

:S
you shouldnt have to change a single thing about your habits...thats what acceptance is
thats not a good statement...change is necessary even if his ex was muslim too

[Siesta]

Can't marry outside of vedic religion parents won't allow it. had to break up with my previous g/f she was afghani muslim and im indian hindu :neutral:. told my parents about her and they went balistic.

I guess parents can be a bit f***** up sumtimes.

Yeah I have seen that it is easier to make your parents happen then to make yourself happy

[banshod]

this topic is ridiculous most of my friends date people who speak different languages for fuck's sake.

[zarahomme]

interracial = big black dick + blonde chick :idea:

[ditwa]

freak

[_Lux_]

You shouldn't have to change a single thing? A relationship like that is doomed to fail. It's about being able to tolerate some things and change some. Relationships aren't stolid, they grow and evolve over time. Sometimes you have to compromise =).

the only way i agree with that is say like, oh hes allergic to cheese or something, ok i shant make you food with cheese lol. i dont see anything about a person that is necessary to actually change, what COULD you change? i really dont understand that. me n my bf never changed a thing. we live with each other so well, even tho his beliefs are different, his habits are different. everythings allowed, bcuz theres nothing deemed as "bad" that he or i do that needs changing.

[selekio]

What advice can I give? Well just make sure from the start you know it can go far (if you want it to), but I can't see why it wouldn't work if both people want it to.

[.BestKeptSecret.]

mixed peeps ftw.

[Mr_Mention]

Yeah I have seen that it is easier to make your parents happen then to make yourself happy


u must be joking ..STFU...
some times some one tries so hard to make dat fuckin change happen dat no one gets it .....

[Siesta]

u must be joking ..STFU...
some times some one tries so hard to make dat fuckin change happen dat no one gets it .....
I was being sarcastic in that comment, you of all people should have picked up on that :no:

[dutsqg]

I'm sure this topic has been done once or twice, or multiple times.

Yet, I'm going to do it anyways.


So what is your view on marrying someone of a different race or religion? Have you? What was your experience like?

If you were to marry someone from a different race or religion, how would it be viewed by your parents and family? Would they accept it or repudiate you?

How about the kids? How would they be raised?

If you love someone than it really should not matter. If any one has some serious cultural baggage it can become problematic, but nothing impossible to deal with.

[sucysweety]

I dont like threads like this....they are so contradicting and it makes me mad

I agree!! however, personally I have no objections to interracial anything...I say do u and screw the haters!

[iLLy]

mixed peeps ftw.

:werd:

[xreaafawerdes]

I have strict instructions i cannot marry outside Islam....other then that i think i can marry race....but i prefer desi...

You should marry black muslim

[Siesta]

mixed peeps ftw.
werd. hollar!
I agree!! however, personally I have no objections to interracial anything...I say do u and screw the haters!
ha...yeah everyone has an opinion and they all want to give it to you

[xreaafawerdes]

Nothing wrong with marrying outside your race so long as they're not Muslim

[watchyaself!]

only race i would date outside of indian/ paki would be asian which i already had!!! well more like a fuck buddy :) damn i miss her :(

[CaramelSundae]

personally, i dont see anything wrong with interracial relationships! :cool:





[mixed babies are v cute :) ]

[xblink182.girlx]

still in an interracial relationship


and i love seeing other mixed couples

[T.Dimera]

still in an interracial relationship


and i love seeing other mixed couples

does said boyfriend know that guys are trying to flirt with you on RD?

my g/f's friend is hindu and 26 and has been dating a black guy for 4 years. Obviously her parents are against it, yet shes getting older, so it looks like she'll end up with him. It takes a strong women to endure the pressures shes gone through