lovelineonly
August 26th, 2008, 05:16 AM
i saw 1 thread where ppl think masturbation is not natural
To begin with I would like to narrate a story (dunno whether true or not but it serves my purpose)
Once there was this saadhu, a Bal-brahmachari (practitioner of abstinence since childhood) who once had a Nocturnal Emission (night fall-as commonly said). when he discovered this early morning, he broke into tears due to guilt and frustration that his Saadhna of years has been breached. he went to his Master and asked for forgiveness.
His master smiled and explained, “Vats! Look at that lady pouring water into the earthen pot. What if she doesn’t remove the pot when it is full?...it’s going to spill over, isn’t it? Similarly, the semen production in a male body is a continuous process. If the semen is not utilized (as during normal ejaculation) it is bound to spill out (as nocturnal emission). Since you are a Saadhu and you can’t indulge yourself in earthly pleasures, you should not worry about night fall because you can’t stop the semen production which is a natural process of human body”
How true the Master was, who explained his disciple the very basic biological fact about human body which most of the youth these days are worried about.
What is masturbation?
Masturbation is the physical stimulation of the sexual organs to produce feelings of pleasure. If you're a male and your body has matured to a certain point, masturbating will eventually result in semen (fluid containing sperm cells, among other things) being expelled from the *****, usually accompanied by a very good whole-body feeling known as orgasm.
How do people masturbate?
Most guys masturbate by rubbing their ***** with their hand or hands, or by rubbing the ***** against something, such as a pillow. Girls masturbate by rubbing the outside of their ******, or by inserting something (such as a vibrator) into the ******. However, there are a lot of variations on these methods.
Why masturbate?
First and foremost, because it feels good, and second, because ejaculating semen reduces the sexual tension that builds up in adult men and especially teenagers. However, recent studies suggest that ejaculating regularly isn't just fun, it can actually help prevent a certain kind of cancer later in life.
Is masturbation healthy?
Masturbation is a healthy and normal practice, like daydreaming or napping. Even masturbating several times each day is completely harmless. You may encounter people, books, or websites that say masturbation is bad or harmful; this is just plain incorrect. As any reputable medical doctor will tell you, old myths about masturbation affecting the eyesight, causing permanent fatigue or insanity, etc., have long been disproved. In fact, recent studies suggest that ejaculating regularly isn't just fun, it can actually help prevent a certain kind of cancer later in life.
Can I masturbate too much?
Unless you're rubbing yourself raw (try lubrication) or you're doing it so much that it's interfering with other aspects of your life, no, it is not possible to masturbate too much. Some Web sites claim that there is such a thing as "overmasturbation," but they're only doing this to scare people into buying phony pills that do nothing. Masturbation does not cause hair loss, chronic fatigue, etc. Don't let one bad Web site ruin your enjoyment of this healthy activity.
Is my ***** normal?
If you're asking this question, there's probably about a 98% chance that your ***** is normal. Perfectly good *****es come in a wide variety of shapes and sizes, and teenagers' *****es grow at very different rates. They are often curved somewhat, and the skin often has bumps and various colorations (which have nothing to do with STDs). Try not to obsess so much about your *****, and stop looking for things that might be wrong. It's there to create pleasure, not trouble and worry.
Can I make my ***** bigger?
If you pay a plastic surgeon several thousand dollars, your ***** can become fatter, but not really longer. And you know what? That's really the only method of ***** enlargement that works. Everything else — particularly pills sold through magazines and the Internet — is a scam, aimed at malekind's #1 biggest insecurity. Some devices involving suction or vacuum can actually injure your *****. Instead of trying to change it, learn to accept your ***** exactly the way it is. It's amazing how much incredible pleasure it can provide.
How can I "shoot" more?
Here's something you actually can change. If you masturbate a couple of times a day, chances are you aren't going to ejaculate very much semen, or ejaculate very forcefully. But if you want a more impressive ejaculation, hold back and save it up for a few days or a week. Drink a lot of water during the 6-hour period before you masturbate, and then draw out your masturbation session for as long as possible, spending a lot of time being very aroused. When you do finally ejaculate, it will probably come out with a lot more force, and there will be much more of it than usual. Plus, it'll feel way better than the average orgasm. Try it!
Am I gay?
This is one of the most common questions young guys ask themselves. The truth is, very few of us are 100% straight (or 100% gay). Lots of heterosexual men have fantasies about other guys, sometimes at the peak of orgasm, and this leaves them feeling very insecure. It's one of the most carefully kept secrets in male society. You're really only gay when you've concluded, without a doubt, that you enjoy males sexually more than females. Random fantasies and even sexual encounters don't make you gay.
What is a nocturnal emission?
It's an ejaculation that happens when you're asleep, and it's usually accompanied by an erotic (sexy) dream. They are entirely normal, a way for your body to keep the "plumbing" working if you aren't having regular ejaculations when you're awake.
I've never had a nocturnal emission — is that normal?
It is, especially if you masturbate with any regularity. Many men who masturbate daily or every other day have never had a nocturnal emission in their entire lives. This is completely normal.
Is there any way I can make myself have a nocturnal emission?
The only way we know — and it can be a lot of effort! — is to not masturbate for a while. If you don't masturbate for 10 days or 2 weeks, your body may react with a nocturnal emission. However, we've heard from people who have gone close to a month without masturbating, hoping to experience a nocturnal emission but without luck. This varies from person to person.
Is my ***** abnormally small or large?
There is no real border between what's considered "normal" and what's "abnormal." Unless your ***** is really small (like shorter than 3 inches for an adult, or longer than 10 inches), consider it normal. If you're worried about being able to please women sexually, you should know that a small ***** in no way prevents a man from pleasing a woman. As the old saying goes, "It's not the size of the wand, but the magic in it."
Will my ***** grow any more?
If you've reached the age of 18, it's unlikely to grow any more. If you're younger than that, it very well may continue to grow, depending on where in the puberty process you are. If you're younger than 15 or so, it very well may have quite a bit of growing to do. Relax, and be patient! Puberty takes a long time!
How normal is a curved *****, and will it affect my sex life?
No ***** is perfectly straight. That's because when it's growing, it's near impossible for both sides (or the top and bottom) to grow at exactly the same rate. As a result, it ends up having a curve when it's *****. Of course, some or more curved than others — but then again, some people are short while others are tall. This variation is what makes human beings interesting, and it's nothing to stress over. When you have sex you'll find that a woman's ****** is very flexible and will conform to the shape of your *****. the only exception might be if it's really curved — say, it makes an angle of greater than 45 degrees when *****. In this case you should probably consult a doctor about possible things that could be done to fix it.
To begin with I would like to narrate a story (dunno whether true or not but it serves my purpose)
Once there was this saadhu, a Bal-brahmachari (practitioner of abstinence since childhood) who once had a Nocturnal Emission (night fall-as commonly said). when he discovered this early morning, he broke into tears due to guilt and frustration that his Saadhna of years has been breached. he went to his Master and asked for forgiveness.
His master smiled and explained, “Vats! Look at that lady pouring water into the earthen pot. What if she doesn’t remove the pot when it is full?...it’s going to spill over, isn’t it? Similarly, the semen production in a male body is a continuous process. If the semen is not utilized (as during normal ejaculation) it is bound to spill out (as nocturnal emission). Since you are a Saadhu and you can’t indulge yourself in earthly pleasures, you should not worry about night fall because you can’t stop the semen production which is a natural process of human body”
How true the Master was, who explained his disciple the very basic biological fact about human body which most of the youth these days are worried about.
What is masturbation?
Masturbation is the physical stimulation of the sexual organs to produce feelings of pleasure. If you're a male and your body has matured to a certain point, masturbating will eventually result in semen (fluid containing sperm cells, among other things) being expelled from the *****, usually accompanied by a very good whole-body feeling known as orgasm.
How do people masturbate?
Most guys masturbate by rubbing their ***** with their hand or hands, or by rubbing the ***** against something, such as a pillow. Girls masturbate by rubbing the outside of their ******, or by inserting something (such as a vibrator) into the ******. However, there are a lot of variations on these methods.
Why masturbate?
First and foremost, because it feels good, and second, because ejaculating semen reduces the sexual tension that builds up in adult men and especially teenagers. However, recent studies suggest that ejaculating regularly isn't just fun, it can actually help prevent a certain kind of cancer later in life.
Is masturbation healthy?
Masturbation is a healthy and normal practice, like daydreaming or napping. Even masturbating several times each day is completely harmless. You may encounter people, books, or websites that say masturbation is bad or harmful; this is just plain incorrect. As any reputable medical doctor will tell you, old myths about masturbation affecting the eyesight, causing permanent fatigue or insanity, etc., have long been disproved. In fact, recent studies suggest that ejaculating regularly isn't just fun, it can actually help prevent a certain kind of cancer later in life.
Can I masturbate too much?
Unless you're rubbing yourself raw (try lubrication) or you're doing it so much that it's interfering with other aspects of your life, no, it is not possible to masturbate too much. Some Web sites claim that there is such a thing as "overmasturbation," but they're only doing this to scare people into buying phony pills that do nothing. Masturbation does not cause hair loss, chronic fatigue, etc. Don't let one bad Web site ruin your enjoyment of this healthy activity.
Is my ***** normal?
If you're asking this question, there's probably about a 98% chance that your ***** is normal. Perfectly good *****es come in a wide variety of shapes and sizes, and teenagers' *****es grow at very different rates. They are often curved somewhat, and the skin often has bumps and various colorations (which have nothing to do with STDs). Try not to obsess so much about your *****, and stop looking for things that might be wrong. It's there to create pleasure, not trouble and worry.
Can I make my ***** bigger?
If you pay a plastic surgeon several thousand dollars, your ***** can become fatter, but not really longer. And you know what? That's really the only method of ***** enlargement that works. Everything else — particularly pills sold through magazines and the Internet — is a scam, aimed at malekind's #1 biggest insecurity. Some devices involving suction or vacuum can actually injure your *****. Instead of trying to change it, learn to accept your ***** exactly the way it is. It's amazing how much incredible pleasure it can provide.
How can I "shoot" more?
Here's something you actually can change. If you masturbate a couple of times a day, chances are you aren't going to ejaculate very much semen, or ejaculate very forcefully. But if you want a more impressive ejaculation, hold back and save it up for a few days or a week. Drink a lot of water during the 6-hour period before you masturbate, and then draw out your masturbation session for as long as possible, spending a lot of time being very aroused. When you do finally ejaculate, it will probably come out with a lot more force, and there will be much more of it than usual. Plus, it'll feel way better than the average orgasm. Try it!
Am I gay?
This is one of the most common questions young guys ask themselves. The truth is, very few of us are 100% straight (or 100% gay). Lots of heterosexual men have fantasies about other guys, sometimes at the peak of orgasm, and this leaves them feeling very insecure. It's one of the most carefully kept secrets in male society. You're really only gay when you've concluded, without a doubt, that you enjoy males sexually more than females. Random fantasies and even sexual encounters don't make you gay.
What is a nocturnal emission?
It's an ejaculation that happens when you're asleep, and it's usually accompanied by an erotic (sexy) dream. They are entirely normal, a way for your body to keep the "plumbing" working if you aren't having regular ejaculations when you're awake.
I've never had a nocturnal emission — is that normal?
It is, especially if you masturbate with any regularity. Many men who masturbate daily or every other day have never had a nocturnal emission in their entire lives. This is completely normal.
Is there any way I can make myself have a nocturnal emission?
The only way we know — and it can be a lot of effort! — is to not masturbate for a while. If you don't masturbate for 10 days or 2 weeks, your body may react with a nocturnal emission. However, we've heard from people who have gone close to a month without masturbating, hoping to experience a nocturnal emission but without luck. This varies from person to person.
Is my ***** abnormally small or large?
There is no real border between what's considered "normal" and what's "abnormal." Unless your ***** is really small (like shorter than 3 inches for an adult, or longer than 10 inches), consider it normal. If you're worried about being able to please women sexually, you should know that a small ***** in no way prevents a man from pleasing a woman. As the old saying goes, "It's not the size of the wand, but the magic in it."
Will my ***** grow any more?
If you've reached the age of 18, it's unlikely to grow any more. If you're younger than that, it very well may continue to grow, depending on where in the puberty process you are. If you're younger than 15 or so, it very well may have quite a bit of growing to do. Relax, and be patient! Puberty takes a long time!
How normal is a curved *****, and will it affect my sex life?
No ***** is perfectly straight. That's because when it's growing, it's near impossible for both sides (or the top and bottom) to grow at exactly the same rate. As a result, it ends up having a curve when it's *****. Of course, some or more curved than others — but then again, some people are short while others are tall. This variation is what makes human beings interesting, and it's nothing to stress over. When you have sex you'll find that a woman's ****** is very flexible and will conform to the shape of your *****. the only exception might be if it's really curved — say, it makes an angle of greater than 45 degrees when *****. In this case you should probably consult a doctor about possible things that could be done to fix it.