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nsr2006
May 4th, 2008, 06:01 PM
personality or looks...a serious question.
what do males and females really look for (no pun intended =P)
keyzersoze
May 4th, 2008, 06:12 PM
Many girls will say personality first, looks are a plus. But at the end of the day, all a girl wants is a project.
Hands
May 4th, 2008, 06:14 PM
girls want what they can have but cant keep. FACT
I go for lucks
*desi_girl*
May 4th, 2008, 06:15 PM
personality 1st then looks.
Fallen-Angel
May 4th, 2008, 06:21 PM
well initially im like hmmmm he's nice and then i'll get to know the guy, then if hes got a decent personality i'll be more interested, if he turns out to be a prat then i'll go off him completely
similarly if i know a guy and hes got a great personality and hes okish looking, he becomes more n more appealing cos of his personality
*desi_girl*
May 4th, 2008, 06:23 PM
well initially im like hmmmm he's nice and then i'll get to know the guy, then if hes got a decent personality i'll be more interested, if he turns out to be a prat then i'll go off him completely
similarly if i know a guy and hes got a great personality and hes okish looking, he becomes more n more appealing cos of his personality
werd.
Punjabi_Link
May 4th, 2008, 06:23 PM
both.
cutedesi4eva
May 4th, 2008, 06:43 PM
"It's the looks that attract you to someone, but it's their personality that keeps you there" ---fact!
(sic)
May 4th, 2008, 08:10 PM
what a cliche
ghettosuppastar
May 4th, 2008, 08:17 PM
"It's the looks that attract you to someone, but it's their personality that keeps you there" ---fact!
The Truth indeed. :gol:
jigga man23
May 4th, 2008, 08:18 PM
Many girls will say personality first, looks are a plus. But at the end of the day, all a girl wants is a project.
Quoted
Siesta
May 4th, 2008, 09:05 PM
personality 100% of the time
bingley13
May 4th, 2008, 09:06 PM
desi girls go for the wallet. duh.
Dream_GirL
May 4th, 2008, 10:04 PM
personality or looks...a serious question.
what do males and females really look for (no pun intended =P)
depends.. id say both but some good lookin guys can be dicks.. id say personailty 1st cos i wud hav 2 get along wid em... den looks.. dats a bonus
Geezer
May 4th, 2008, 10:18 PM
cooking skills
SaMeeeeR
May 4th, 2008, 10:33 PM
personality or looks...a serious question.
what do males and females really look for (no pun intended =P)
None lol Jus a Tight ass Will do lol :D
ii_khushi86_ii
May 4th, 2008, 10:41 PM
His college education. *nodnod*
¤ * HoneY * ¤
May 5th, 2008, 04:03 AM
he has to attract me ... i dont really care if he's or not sxc lol i defintely go for the personality:
London_Man
May 5th, 2008, 04:05 AM
looks is what attracts me to a girl... the personality keeps me with her. :rofl:
¤ * HoneY * ¤
May 5th, 2008, 04:10 AM
looks is what attracts me to a girl... the personality keeps me with her. :rofl:
dats soooooooooooooooooooooo true and soooooo sincere lol i cant stand ppl sayin they dont give a damn to looks... they always do! dont they?
London_Man
May 5th, 2008, 04:16 AM
dats soooooooooooooooooooooo true and soooooo sincere lol i cant stand ppl sayin they dont give a damn to looks... they always do! dont they?
yeah.... of course looks are important... well for the majority anyway. how u going to stay in a long term relationship if u are not attracted to your gf/bf? someone is bound to stray to get what they need. if get u what i am sayin!:rofl:
¤ * HoneY * ¤
May 5th, 2008, 05:15 AM
yeah.... of course looks are important... well for the majority anyway. how u going to stay in a long term relationship if u are not attracted to your gf/bf? someone is bound to stray to get what they need. if get u what i am sayin!:rofl:
ahhhhhhhhhhhhhhh na! lol actually if i love someone i wont look at anyone else!.... but true dat i need to be attratced by my bf... but accidents happen na? wht if in an accident he becomes ugly... lol i wont go anywhere!
¤ * HoneY * ¤
May 5th, 2008, 05:16 AM
None lol Jus a Tight ass Will do lol :D
you're so disgusting lol...
ghettosuppastar
May 5th, 2008, 05:18 AM
ahhhhhhhhhhhhhhh na! lol actually if i love someone i wont look at anyone else!.... but true dat i need to be attratced by my bf... but accidents happen na? wht if in an accident he becomes ugly... lol i wont go anywhere!
oyeee how u been girll..
doaly69
May 5th, 2008, 05:23 AM
i like girls from aus
did i say girls i ment girl from aus
¤ * HoneY * ¤
May 5th, 2008, 05:24 AM
oyeee how u been girll..
im fine!!!! go to sleep now lol vits 5 there!!!
London_Man
May 5th, 2008, 05:29 AM
ahhhhhhhhhhhhhhh na! lol actually if i love someone i wont look at anyone else!.... but true dat i need to be attratced by my bf... but accidents happen na? wht if in an accident he becomes ugly... lol i wont go anywhere!
WELL I suppose this is where the love gets tested. is it true love after all?!?!?! LOL
¤ * HoneY * ¤
May 5th, 2008, 01:20 PM
WELL I suppose this is where the love gets tested. is it true love after all?!?!?! LOL
i've loved twice and when i love i do at 1000000000000% lol anyways
Siesta
May 5th, 2008, 02:58 PM
i like girls from aus
did i say girls i ment girl from aus
nice cover there doaly
Desi_Lush
May 5th, 2008, 03:31 PM
brains
ghettosuppastar
May 5th, 2008, 03:33 PM
I like brains tooo.. if you know wht i mean :gol:
ilyas@!!oops!!
May 5th, 2008, 06:43 PM
both, but most go for looks
girls don't like good looking men really :no:
¤ * HoneY * ¤
May 6th, 2008, 04:05 AM
i do... lol if they're gud lookin like ghettosupastar lol but wht the point being wid a guy who got the looks but no brains?.... you can enjoy wid a cute guy but cant be happy if both ov you dont have things to share...
ilyas@!!oops!!
May 6th, 2008, 09:51 AM
i do... lol if they're gud lookin like ghettosupastar lol but wht the point being wid a guy who got the looks but no brains?.... you can enjoy wid a cute guy but cant be happy if both ov you dont have things to share...
but they're always a threat :neutral:
aznpdaddy
May 6th, 2008, 09:58 AM
alot of gurls or guys that cant think beyond the cover go for looks, however the smart people do go for personality..at its best!
some people look good, but their personality sucks
ilyas@!!oops!!
May 6th, 2008, 10:03 AM
alot of gurls or guys that cant think beyond the cover go for looks, however the smart people do go for personality..at its best!
some people look good, but their personality sucks
true
¤ * HoneY * ¤
May 6th, 2008, 10:14 AM
alot of gurls or guys that cant think beyond the cover go for looks, however the smart people do go for personality..at its best!
some people look good, but their personality sucks
very true lol
ilyas@!!oops!!
May 6th, 2008, 10:20 AM
they're ain't many stunning looking girls with a great personality or a sense of humour quite rare these days
:(
XxReMaLiCiOuSxX
May 6th, 2008, 10:38 AM
i defo go for personality.....
in 30 years time that drop dead gorjus shagable guy (or girls for u guys) wont be exactly the same now would they, looks can be deceiving, read my profile description it says what my mind reali says about looks, but that dont mean there is no good looking people out there who arnt nice, there are the few who got the looks, brains and personality.
ilyas@!!oops!!
May 6th, 2008, 10:40 AM
i defo go for personality.....
in 30 years time that drop dead gorjus shagable guy (or girls for u guys) wont be exactly the same now would they, looks can be deceiving, read my profile description it says what my mind reali says about looks, but that dont mean there is no good looking people out there who arnt nice, there are the few who got the looks, brains and personality.
:rofl:
kameeni
May 6th, 2008, 11:37 AM
"It's the looks that attract you to someone, but it's their personality that keeps you there" ---fact!
zing
XxReMaLiCiOuSxX
May 6th, 2008, 11:44 AM
:rofl:
wahs so funny about that???
its true... i thnk
kisha
May 6th, 2008, 11:58 AM
both ! 50/50
cant.rate.me
May 6th, 2008, 12:02 PM
i cant base on just looks or personality.. thers others on the list..my approach is ..
1.if hes cute..
2.then check his previous history, get some background info.. if that checks out ..then
2.find out if hes smart, what hes studying/working as .. n if thats a pass
3.see if u get along (his personality),and if thats all good..
4.go for it! ..
5.a plus point is if he does sports 2 lol...
ilyas@!!oops!!
May 6th, 2008, 12:24 PM
i cant base on just looks or personality.. thers others on the list..my approach is ..
1.if hes cute..
2.then check his previous history, get some background info.. if that checks out ..then
2.find out if hes smart, what hes studying/working as .. n if thats a pass
3.see if u get along (his personality),and if thats all good..
4.go for it! ..
5.a plus point is if he does sports 2 lol...
:lol:@ cv
ilyas@!!oops!!
May 6th, 2008, 12:24 PM
wahs so funny about that???
its true... i thnk
this isn't a dating site :lol:
¤ * HoneY * ¤
May 6th, 2008, 04:20 PM
this isn't a dating site :lol:
are you sure lol
XxReMaLiCiOuSxX
May 6th, 2008, 05:58 PM
this isn't a dating site :lol:
i dint say this was lol u joker
Love_Baby
May 7th, 2008, 04:21 AM
personality or looks...a serious question.
what do males and females really look for (no pun intended =P)
LOOKS...end of story
ilyas@!!oops!!
May 7th, 2008, 08:15 AM
i dint say this was lol u joker
:hand:
desichick_usa
May 7th, 2008, 09:45 AM
mhmhmh
I like both looks and personality...but i dont know which would come first for me.
I guess it would be looks first since i would have to be physically attracted to the person before talking to him.
XxReMaLiCiOuSxX
May 9th, 2008, 09:06 AM
:hand:
okay.....
:shrug_no:
SaMeeeeR
May 9th, 2008, 01:30 PM
you're so disgusting lol...
lol m i ..hey an ass can get me to talk to her ...but personality is wat wud make me stick wid her fo long :D
SaMeeeeR
May 9th, 2008, 01:31 PM
okay.....
:shrug_no:
lol Amr desh bangladesh :D
hvarma
May 20th, 2008, 02:26 AM
well if you physically see her first and continue to look its probably her looks that attracted you, but if her personality clashes with your mentality then its not worth it, unless you're willing to change. If you hear about a girl with a wonderful nature and physically see her later, her looks should be somewhat important too as human attraction is important too, to some extent
HardBoiler
May 20th, 2008, 04:12 AM
there are many girls out there, so why not find someone with both personality AND looks :sarb:
thisisnotanexit
May 20th, 2008, 04:32 AM
"It's the looks that attract you to someone, but it's their personality that keeps you there" ---fact!
agreed.:)
ghettosuppastar
May 20th, 2008, 04:36 AM
Wow, Bump Bump Bump "Old thread"
AX Model
May 20th, 2008, 12:34 PM
when u see someone their looks is what stands out, when u engage into a conversation their personality stands out, its all conditional, u just gotta flaunt the right one at the right time ;D
anishaaa_
May 26th, 2008, 02:23 AM
I need to be physically attracted to the person first. I'll then be more inclined to go and get to know them. And then if they turn out to be a jerk, I lose interest. but if not, great. ;)
So looks first, but persona is the real deciding factor.
0pwincess0
May 26th, 2008, 02:51 AM
So basically it's both looks & personality. :cool:
ghettosuppastar
May 26th, 2008, 02:53 AM
So basically it's both looks & personality. :cool:
Indeed. :)
LostinHollywood
May 26th, 2008, 02:58 AM
both..
AX Model
May 26th, 2008, 12:44 PM
both..
you have both...:Pelvic2:
destined_urs
May 26th, 2008, 01:06 PM
both..
i agree both are needed because if u dont like someones looks its possible u wont even talk to them to get to know there personality... but sometimes... if u dont like someone for there looks to start off with but u get to really like there personality... u start to like there looks aswell! :D
*indian angel*
May 27th, 2008, 10:34 PM
I like both!! obviously..initial attraction is looks but what really hooks me is an awesome personality =)
brownieman
May 27th, 2008, 10:37 PM
ima say personality, but if their looks can crack mirrors, im out
ajcrunk
June 2nd, 2008, 09:53 PM
"It's the looks that attract you to someone, but it's their personality that keeps you there" ---fact!
thats really the case
MissAdore
June 2nd, 2008, 09:55 PM
looks first, personality later :Pelvic2:
memories_fade
June 6th, 2008, 05:54 PM
its gotta be personality, i cnt be around girls that piss me off , no matter how nice they look
Gypsy King
June 16th, 2008, 03:26 AM
personality or looks...a serious question.
what do males and females really look for (no pun intended =P)
frankly, i look both but personality is more important.
G-STARR
June 16th, 2008, 03:38 AM
Its Gotta Be The Full Package!looks 1st & Personality To Match,thats Jus The Way It Is.u Feel Me.
Kissit
June 16th, 2008, 06:56 AM
Looks definately set an initial impression. Followed by personality. So both are equally important.
Kissit
June 16th, 2008, 06:58 AM
its gotta be personality, i cnt be around girls that piss me off , no matter how nice they look
So u would date an average or under average lookin girl if she had a personality which compensates for her appearance?
doaly69
June 16th, 2008, 07:01 AM
So u would date an average or under average lookin girl if she had a personality which compensates for her appearance?
well id say for the longevity of a relationship personality counts for alot more then looks as look can dwndle with age but personaly can grow
so always a happy mix of both i have sed no to girls who look great but dnt have 2 braincells
Kissit
June 16th, 2008, 07:07 AM
well id say for the longevity of a relationship personality counts for alot more then looks as look can dwndle with age but personaly can grow
so always a happy mix of both i have sed no to girls who look great but dnt have 2 braincells
But what if u get bored of that persons personality?
doaly69
June 16th, 2008, 07:09 AM
But what if u get bored of that persons personality?
ur more likey to get bored of looks then u are personality id say
sure it can happen but the odds of getting bored of looks are higher id say
dnt 4get people evolve over time hence so will personality trates
i just think yes at 1st glance u look at a hot girl and say wow but u need to back up those looks with personality and inteligence
Kissit
June 16th, 2008, 07:17 AM
I'm the sort of person who will stick with someone who is atleast average lookin, has a GREAT personality to compliment their appearance and is very spontaneous like me. If they have the complete package i will KEEP them. If they have a personality more tedious than a damp sponge then its not going anywhere. I will most likely get bored of them and move on.
doaly69
June 16th, 2008, 07:19 AM
I'm the sort of person who will stick with someone who is atleast average lookin, has a GREAT personality to compliment their appearance and is very spontaneous like me. If they have the complete package i will KEEP them. If they have a personality more tedious than a damp sponge then its not going anywhere. I will most likely get bored of them and move on.
very tru
i have the gift and curse of having both
problem being im a picky devil and get boreed very easily with women
Kissit
June 16th, 2008, 07:26 AM
I'm not so picky. Sometimes i'll get more attracted to personality and looks may just be a plus point, a bonus. But i've never dated anyone who is JUST good lookin and has no substance to their personality. I like to get along with my other half more as a friend than anything else. The problem i have is that i get bored of people too quick. Sometimes its not even about them, its just me. I dont understand myself. Y does that happen? Y do u get bored?
doaly69
June 16th, 2008, 07:30 AM
I'm not so picky. Sometimes i'll get more attracted to personality and looks may just be a plus point, a bonus. But i've never dated anyone who is JUST good lookin and has no substance to their personality. I like to get along with my other half more as a friend than anything else. The problem i have is that i get bored of people too quick. Sometimes its not even about them, its just me. I dont understand myself. Y does that happen? Y do u get bored?
for a lot of people its wen u knw u have some1 there spark is over with as they become furnitur to u
u always yearn for the beginging moments wen everything is new and a mystery
no ones likes eating the same crackers for the rest of ther life
Kissit
June 16th, 2008, 07:38 AM
But wouldn't u wanna settle down at some point with just that ONE person.
doaly69
June 16th, 2008, 07:49 AM
But wouldn't u wanna settle down at some point with just that ONE person.
course that is the aim
just need to be the rite frame of mind to commit i guess
no point promising some1 the world and then backing out and giving them b'ham lol
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