What Would You Do If You Saw Your Friend's Bf or Gf...

[FlyDesiGrl]

out with another man/woman...would you let your friend know? Or would you just not interfer and keep it to yourself?

What if you were friends with the couple before they hooked up...would it be any different?

Ever been in a situation like that?!

[sheisagoodgirl]

I think I would casually mention it...

but it depends on the specific situation...

[aww_skeet_skeet]

nope

[cococrisp]

:wiggle:....

[schaxeb]

hahaha... i got a story like that...

[FlyDesiGrl]

hahaha... i got a story like that...

Share the story...

[Hands]

just talk shit behind their backs cos this is some good gossip y0 <3

[Deception 004]

keep ur mouth shut, and let faith play its part.

[yeahwhat]

Well if it looked like something was going on yes i would tell my friend. What kind of friend would i be if i didn't.

If i was better friends with the one who was out with another person i would confront them and be like what the fuck are you doing and let them deal with it.

If i was equal friends with both i would confront the potential cheater and make them tell the partner otherwise i would.

[addiction01]

Nikki inna soochaya na kar, teray baal chitay hogay.

[roy_desi]

Well if it looked like something was going on yes i would tell my friend. What kind of friend would i be if i didn't.

If i was better friends with the one who was out with another person i would confront them and be like what the fuck are you doing and let them deal with it.

If i was equal friends with both i would confront the potential cheater and make them tell the partner otherwise i would.
oh you meddler you!

[Hands]

Well if it looked like something was going on yes i would tell my friend. What kind of friend would i be if i didn't.

If i was better friends with the one who was out with another person i would confront them and be like what the fuck are you doing and let them deal with it.

If i was equal friends with both i would confront the potential cheater and make them tell the partner otherwise i would.
woah. Ur a fountain of wisdom :Oops:

[FlyDesiGrl]

just talk shit behind their backs cos this is some good gossip y0 <3

Wouldn't you feel bad?

[roy_desi]

Nikki inna soochaya na kar, teray baal chitay hogay.
cute.

[FlyDesiGrl]

Nikki inna soochaya na kar, teray baal chitay hogay.

lmao khothi!!!!!

[FlyDesiGrl]

Well if it looked like something was going on yes i would tell my friend. What kind of friend would i be if i didn't.

If i was better friends with the one who was out with another person i would confront them and be like what the fuck are you doing and let them deal with it.

If i was equal friends with both i would confront the potential cheater and make them tell the partner otherwise i would.

The messenger always gets shot first...!

[schaxeb]

summary:

i got the email address of this girl i was chatting with on a public forum... didnt know each other... she gives me her email id, and turns out to be one of my acquaintance's wife. i made up an email id to see what shes upto, and she wants to meet up... ask her what her relationship status is, and she says shes single. didnt know how to confront her, so i didnt. couldnt bring myself to tell her husband either...

[Siddy3242]

just talk shit behind their backs cos this is some good gossip y0 <3

:werd:

[FlyDesiGrl]

summary:

i got the email address of this girl i was chatting with on a public forum... didnt know each other... she gives me her email id, and turns out to be one of my acquaintance's wife. i made up an email id to see what shes upto, and she wants to meet up... ask her what her relationship status is, and she says shes single. didnt know how to confront her, so i didnt. couldnt bring myself to tell her husband either...

Oh shiet....:shock: That's messed up lol. Flippin' a lol...

[Hands]

Wouldn't you feel bad?
no. Would you? :ugh: thats how it works tho dont it. And then when he/she catches him/her then you can all be like yeah i told yu that would happen :chick:

[Siddy3242]

nope

i want the gun in ur sig, .....oh yeah, the girl too....:D

[yeahwhat]

The messenger always gets shot first...!

It all depends on the delivery.

I wouldn't say so and so is cheating on your ass. I would have to think long and hard about how I'm going to tell the person. Anyways, if it was just seeing the person out with another for lets say dinner i don't know if i would say anything. If i saw them out holding hands swapping spit something should be said. Also depends if they are a good friend or someone i just see here and there in passing

I just put myself in that position if my friend saw my bf cheating on me i would expect them to tell me.

[sheisagoodgirl]

summary:

i got the email address of this girl i was chatting with on a public forum... didnt know each other... she gives me her email id, and turns out to be one of my acquaintance's wife. i made up an email id to see what shes upto, and she wants to meet up... ask her what her relationship status is, and she says shes single. didnt know how to confront her, so i didnt. couldnt bring myself to tell her husband either...

:shock:are you serious? ... :no:

[pakilicious911]

it really depends.

[schaxeb]

Oh shiet....:shock: That's messed up lol. Flippin' a lol...
messed up for sure.

[FlyDesiGrl]

no. Would you? :ugh: thats how it works tho dont it. And then when he/she catches him/her then you can all be like yeah i told yu that would happen :chick:

lol Where's your heart, aye?!

[schaxeb]

:shock:are you serious? ... :no:
yup.

[Hands]

lol Where's your heart, aye?!
:shock: what did i say wrong? :|

[FlyDesiGrl]

It all depends on the delivery.

I wouldn't say so and so is cheating on your ass. I would have to think long and hard about how I'm going to tell the person. Anyways, if it was just seeing the person out with another for lets say dinner i don't know if i would say anything. If i saw them out holding hands swapping spit something should be said. Also depends if they are a good friend or someone i just see here and there in passing

I just put myself in that position if my friend saw my bf cheating on me i would expect them to tell me.

True say. I guess it does depend on the situation. But imo if i saw my friend's bf/gf out with another for dinner or drinks or something..i think i'd still feel a little weirded out about it.

I guess some could say it depends on the time of day too. If it's during the day, maybe you'd let it slide...but if it was at night, out of business hours...it's a little odd? No?

[FlyDesiGrl]

:shock: what did i say wrong? :|

Devil's advocate lol...

[cutedesi4eva]

out with another man/woman...would you let your friend know? Or would you just not interfer and keep it to yourself?

What if you were friends with the couple before they hooked up...would it be any different?

Ever been in a situation like that?!

funny u bring this up. I have a these 2 friends who've been going out for about 8 yrs now. I guess you could say since they were about 13. The boyfriend wont give up drinking for his girl at all. But one night he took it too far, and her friends were at the party. Saw him hook up with another girl, went back home and told her and she was devestated. She broke up with him and right now it's all just a bad dream. Because she thought that he'd be one she'd marry. Shit happens i guess i feel really bad.

[yeahwhat]

True say. I guess it does depend on the situation. But imo if i saw my friend's bf/gf out with another for dinner or drinks or something..i think i'd still feel a little weirded out about it.

I guess some could say it depends on the time of day too. If it's during the day, maybe you'd let it slide...but if it was at night, out of business hours...it's a little odd? No?

Hmm, I don't know. I have gone to dinner with my male friends at like 8pm :dunno: I mean i hung out with them a lot more before i met my bf so i don't see why i should have to cut them off. Why is it ok to have dinner with someone of the same sex and not of the opposite if both are strictly just friends?

So no i don't think it's odd. One can make assumptions for all they know it could just be a sibling or a cousin, a childhood friend, who knows.

[Hands]

Devil's advocate lol...
:|.

[nautika]

i would tell my friend, no doubt
they appreciate it later

never been in that situation tho

[yeahwhat]

funny u bring this up. I have a these 2 friends who've been going out for about 8 yrs now. I guess you could say since they were about 13. The boyfriend wont give up drinking for his girl at all. But one night he took it too far, and her friends were at the party. Saw him hook up with another girl, went back home and told her and she was devestated. She broke up with him and right now it's all just a bad dream. Because she thought that he'd be one she'd marry. Shit happens i guess i feel really bad.

what the heck. can you blame the guy hes what about 21 and has been with the same girl for 8 years. (but he should have just broke up with her and done what he needed to do). Both need to experience more meet new people, i think it was for the best.

[cutedesi4eva]

what the heck. can you blame the guy hes what about 21 and has been with the same girl for 8 years. (but he should have just broke up with her and done what he needed to do). Both need to experience more meet new people, i think it was for the best.

he's 22 and she's 21...and they've had breaks in btwn. Everyone around here knows about them, and they're always asking when they're about to get married and ish. i dun know not my relationship he went off and screwed things up.

[FlyDesiGrl]

funny u bring this up. I have a these 2 friends who've been going out for about 8 yrs now. I guess you could say since they were about 13. The boyfriend wont give up drinking for his girl at all. But one night he took it too far, and her friends were at the party. Saw him hook up with another girl, went back home and told her and she was devestated. She broke up with him and right now it's all just a bad dream. Because she thought that he'd be one she'd marry. Shit happens i guess i feel really bad.

That's too bad. You saw him hook up with another girl? Or he just went back and told her? Was he an alchy?

[cutedesi4eva]

That's too bad. You saw him hook up with another girl? Or he just went back and told her? Was he an alchy?

It wasnt personally me. It was a couple of her roomates that saw. I dont think he'd go back and tell her since he was pretty much drunk off his ass. It's funny cuz her own friends saw with their eyes, yet his sister is claiming something else when she wasnt even there.

[FlyDesiGrl]

Hmm, I don't know. I have gone to dinner with my male friends at like 8pm :dunno: I mean i hung out with them a lot more before i met my bf so i don't see why i should have to cut them off. Why is it ok to have dinner with someone of the same sex and not of the opposite if both are strictly just friends?

So no i don't think it's odd. One can make assumptions for all they know it could just be a sibling or a cousin, a childhood friend, who knows.

That's kinda why i said the messenger always gets shot. A couple can be comfortable with their own boundries, but that doesn't mean they have to inform their friends of their boundries. So if the messenger sees something, and reports back...they almost always end up getting shot...lol..

[FlyDesiGrl]

i would tell my friend, no doubt
they appreciate it later

never been in that situation tho

What if you were friends with both of them before they hooked up..would you still tell, even if it meant losing one of the friendships?

[FlyDesiGrl]

It wasnt personally me. It was a couple of her roomates that saw. I dont think he'd go back and tell her since he was pretty much drunk off his ass. It's funny cuz her own friends saw with their eyes, yet his sister is claiming something else when she wasnt even there.

Maybe he got with her sister too? You never know! Did she confront him and he admitted it?

[cutedesi4eva]

Maybe he got with her sister too? You never know! Did she confront him and he admitted it?

nah he couldnt have gotten with his sister they dont party together lol. and yeah she did confront him the nxt day and he admitted to it. i think the friends even took pics so she could show him and have proof in case he was gonna try and lie himself out of it.

[yeahwhat]

That's kinda why i said the messenger always gets shot. A couple can be comfortable with their own boundries, but that doesn't mean they have to inform their friends of their boundries. So if the messenger sees something, and reports back...they almost always end up getting shot...lol..

yeah i see your point. That's why i said i probably wouldn't say anything unless i saw something physical going on. Maybe in passing I would bring it up. For example saying "hey so i was out for dinner the other night and saw your bf there." Hopefully she would ask further questions like oh yeah when, where with who.. and i would say I dunno some girl. If she seemed upset i would just say it just seemed like a friendly dinner and the rest she could take up with him

[dutsqg]

out with another man/woman...would you let your friend know? Or would you just not interfer and keep it to yourself?

What if you were friends with the couple before they hooked up...would it be any different?

Ever been in a situation like that?!


id mention it if it was my best friend

[Hands]

would you take pics as proof just incase the aggrieved party becomes estranged and goes into denial. Just a thought. I would. And then show them to my friends when im asking them what kinda approach i should take.

[Z4K5T4R]

One thing i've learnt about girls in general is never say anything against her precious boyfriend, he can easily twist her mind to believe him. Truth is truth but people only listen to what they like to hear.

[Hands]

One thing i've learnt about girls in general is never say anything against her precious boyfriend, he can easily twist her mind to believe him. Truth is truth but people only listen to what they like to hear.
:werd: wimminz are evil

[Rogue]

out with another man/woman...would you let your friend know? Or would you just not interfer and keep it to yourself?

What if you were friends with the couple before they hooked up...would it be any different?

Ever been in a situation like that?!
well, i wouldn't wanna jump to conclusions either. i'd probably acknowledge the couple but if i got that "more than friends" vibe then i would definitely bring it up with my friend - just as i would of my friends should i find myself to be in such an unfortunate situation. infact, i've done it in the past.

[lovelineonly]

out with another man/woman...would you let your friend know? Or would you just not interfer and keep it to yourself?

What if you were friends with the couple before they hooked up...would it be any different?

Ever been in a situation like that?!

i would find new gf

[Rogue]

i would find new gf
i think you gotta reread the scenario.

[sarkar_jot]

out with another man/woman...would you let your friend know? Or would you just not interfer and keep it to yourself?

What if you were friends with the couple before they hooked up...would it be any different?

Ever been in a situation like that?!

First off I would make sure it was blatantly clear that cheating was going on.
Second, it depends on the friend. If she is someone who trusts me and knows I am only doing what is best then I would tell her. I would never tell the type of person who might go loco on me and accuse me of stirring shit or being jealous.
In fact I actually tattled on my own cousin who claimed to be at the temple when he wasn't - his GF is my best friend (we met through him) and I knew she wouldn't get pissed about it.
The way I see it, if you are gonna lie and cheat you're bound to get caught but for someone being a witness you just have to know WHO you are dealing with.

[SpicyBrownRapper]

Dexter is a fan-fucking-tastic show.

[sarkar_jot]

What if you were friends with both of them before they hooked up..would you still tell, even if it meant losing one of the friendships?

I would confront the person I saw with another man/woman first. Chances are I would stay out of it but then imagine the look on his/her face when they find out what has been on AND I knew all along... it's a tough call...

[sarkar_jot]

Dexter is a fan-fucking-tastic show.



YES IT IS :D

The writing blows me away
and Michael C Hall plays him brilliantly.

I am obsessed with it and have watched both seasons twice :/

[advocatish]

You got this from Oprah didnt you

[Lie Detector]

It's a double-standard, but it goes like this: if my boy was being cheated on, I'd let him know immediately. But if my boy was out with another person's girlfriend, I'd cheer him on. That's life, get used to it.

[SpicyBrownRapper]

YES IT IS :D

The writing blows me away
and Michael C Hall plays him brilliantly.

I am obsessed with it and have watched both seasons twice :/

Yeah, Season 1 was awesome.

I bought the first book and read through it after I finished watching Season 1. The series plays out almost identical to what happens in the end, sans a few things in the end.

Writing is top notch, one of the best on TV right now. And yea Hall does an amazing job. Great show.

[sarkar_jot]

It's a double-standard, but it goes like this: if my boy was being cheated on, I'd let him know immediately. But if my boy was out with another person's girlfriend, I'd chear him on. That's life, get used to it.

That's life ??? :rofl: :rofl: :rofl:

[PRCIV]

I would have him/her drawn and then while the crowd cheered me on, I would quarter and disembowel them and hold the body parts for the crowd to see

[SarcasmicBengali]

i'd mess with em... both.

[sarkar_jot]

Yeah, Season 1 was awesome.

I bought the first book and read through it after I finished watching Season 1. The series plays out almost identical to what happens in the end, sans a few things in the end.

Writing is top notch, one of the best on TV right now. And yea Hall does an amazing job. Great show.

Yeh I know. I was surprised at who gets killed from the precinct in book one.
Read all the books.

The second book is amazing! And they have not followed that storyline at all on the tv show so it's a good filler while being in withdrawal till September (season 3) :p .

The third one is disapointing to say the least. Jeff Lindsay took a different turn and well ... there is some supernatural and bizarre shit that happens and not surprisingly it got horrid reviews.
Still not sure what to think about the kids 'following' in Dexter's footsteps(book only).

[indesicive]

If you had good reason to suspect ie were kissing or groping each other then hell yeah. Ive got a moral duty to all my friends!

But i wouldnt speculate on something if i wasnt sure, they could be friends / colleagues. wouldnt want to be a shit-stirrer :hand:

[Lie Detector]

That's life ??? :rofl: :rofl: :rofl:

Haha, I don't know why I put that in there. It just seemed like a nice conclusion lol.

[thebrownreason]

I think I would casually mention it...

but it depends on the specific situation...

fuckin snitch

[desi_chickan]

not tell them... hate interference of any kind :rofl:

[thebrownreason]

If you had good reason to suspect ie were kissing or groping each other then hell yeah. Ive got a moral duty to all my friends!


fuckin snitch

[Dream_GirL]

yeah if she/he is a good friend of mine id definitely tell.. wot kinda a friend would i be if i knew sumthing n kept it from em.. id put myself in der shoes

[Lie Detector]

yeah if she/he is a good friend of mine id definitely tell.. wot kinda a friend would i be if i knew sumthing n kept it from em.. id put myself in der shoes

Are you REALLY a Dream Girl?!!?!

[(sic)]

i'd ask if i could hit it too

[sarkar_jot]

Are you REALLY a Dream Girl?!!?!



you have got to be kidding me

[s-k khan]

out with another man/woman...would you let your friend know? Or would you just not interfer and keep it to yourself?

What if you were friends with the couple before they hooked up...would it be any different?

Ever been in a situation like that?!

well i aint sure about mates Gf but my own ex, things werent going very well between us but i still loved her alot, we didnt speak for a bit and then i waited n waited trying to sort things out while she was bz seeing other guys, i found out later.:roflwtf:

[gorjuzkuri]

got the idea from oprahs show?

[SarcasmicBengali]

i'd ask if i could hit it too

:rofl:

"can i have a turn...? "

[SexiiAmna]

i would probably blackmail them. and then tell anyway.

[Romana]

I've been in that situation several times.. I can't help it.. It's not my fault.. my friend's bfs never leave me alone :cool:

[RYUK]

i rather let them find out for themselves

[LAKERFAN8]

out with another man/woman...would you let your friend know? Or would you just not interfer and keep it to yourself?

What if you were friends with the couple before they hooked up...would it be any different?

Ever been in a situation like that?!
i would definatley tell them that their partner is a whore. i dont want my friends to have STDs.

:ugh:

[KurtaPyjama]

i love manipulating people, so i'd prolly play a little bit of the ol' blackmail game. :danceem:

[BadFingerBoogie]

out with another man/woman...would you let your friend know? Or would you just not interfer and keep it to yourself?

What if you were friends with the couple before they hooked up...would it be any different?

Ever been in a situation like that?!

if it was my boy and i saw her with someone else, i'm telling him no matter what.

[Guddia]

I wouldn't say anything

[cococrisp]

no i havent, but i would let my friend know, other wise its jus stabbing them in the back, sorta....


:drama:....

[Guddia]

i love manipulating people, so i'd prolly play a little bit of the ol' blackmail game. :danceem:

:rofl:

[Dream_GirL]

Are you REALLY a Dream Girl?!!?!
u shud noe.. ur de lie detector :p

[sarkar_jot]

i love manipulating people, so i'd prolly play a little bit of the ol' blackmail game. :danceem:

lmaooo