Men: what age would be mature/ready enough to be serious with a gf?

[jassika]

and ready to discuss marriage, future, family (talk to each side)?

[sheisagoodgirl]

:blahblah:

[Siddy3242]

:dunnouh:............the settling down thingy is the farthest thing frm my mind rite now..............

[Geezer]

and ready to discuss marriage, future, family (talk to each side)?

Me personally, anytime after 28.

[ssjasper2003]

Early-mid 20s.

Why the question?

[sheisagoodgirl]

:dunnouh:............the settling down thingy is the farthest thing frm my mind rite now..............

dont worry beta, i am here for you....

i have started looking for your potential brides already

[Siddy3242]

dont worry beta, i am here for you....

i have started looking for your potential brides already

lol,thanks auntyji I already have my eye on someone else

[jassika]

:dunnouh:............the settling down thingy is the farthest thing frm my mind rite now..............

then it would be quite foolish to have a gf. agree?

[BigCrazyIndian]

30'ish +/- 2 years....most likely +2 years.

[Siddy3242]

then it would be quite foolish to have a gf. agree?

no its one thing to have a girl, its another completely different thing to think about settling down prematurely, you have to be financially stable, be emotionally able to make a commitment to this person, blah blah, personally, I m not gonna be ready for the next 15 years (if I'm lucky)

[sheisagoodgirl]

lol,thanks auntyji I already have my eye on someone else

okay but she's from the same caste, right?

okay okay... same religion at least?

when should I send the rishta to her house?

[JOHNNY K-BAR]

Depends on the person and where they are in life. Any age really... if the girl is worth settling down for, and you are tracking on your goals, along with financial outlook.

[Siddy3242]

okay but she's from the same caste, right?

okay okay... same religion at least?

when should I send the rishta to her house?

lol, who cares about caste or religion.......

[sheisagoodgirl]

lol, who cares about caste or religion.......

aunties do :rant:

so what religion is she? :think:

[jassika]

no its one thing to have a girl, its another completely different thing to think about settling down prematurely, you have to be financially stable, be emotionally able to make a commitment to this person, blah blah, personally, I m not gonna be ready for the next 15 years (if I'm lucky)

what u mean its one thing to have a girl? how is it acceptable for u to call someone gf when ur not ready to start planning. yea obviously theres a lot of things that gotta be worked out that dont mean u should be unable to START PLANNIN NOW (as soon as u become interested in a girl) :rolleyes:
i say u have no right to call someone gf till ur ready to be serious. it doesnt make sense that ud need time AFTER callin her gf cause u should know enough about her BEFORE askin her out in the first place. (if u want somethin else from her jus clearly ask her to be a BUDDY.)

[Siddy3242]

what u mean its one thing to have a girl? how is it acceptable for u to call someone gf when ur not ready to start planning. yea obviously theres a lot of things that gotta be worked out that dont mean u should be unable to START PLANNIN NOW (as soon as u become interested in a girl) :rolleyes:
i say u have no right to call someone gf till ur ready to be serious. it doesnt make sense that ud need time AFTER callin her gf cause u should know enough about her BEFORE askin her out in the first place. (if u want somethin else from her jus clearly ask her to be a BUDDY.)

that's a part of life, you date different people, until you come to the person who you know is the one, you want to spend the rest of your life with......and yeah I am still 2 young to think about settling down.....
I'm sorry if it appears cheesy......

[Siddy3242]

aunties do :rant:

so what religion is she? :think:

:rofl::rofl::rofl::rofl::rofl::rofl::rofl:

[sheisagoodgirl]

:rofl::rofl::rofl::rofl::rofl::rofl::rofl:

boys these days :no:

[Siddy3242]

boys these days :no:

:hug:

:rofl:

[paki_guy786]

Me personally, anytime after 28.

i agree with him and some people mature at the age of 27 or beyond.

[jassika]

that's a part of life, you date different people, until you come to the person who you know is the one, you want to spend the rest of your life with......and yeah I am still 2 young to think about settling down.....
I'm sorry if it appears cheesy......

whoever designed that "part of life" is idiotic so i never included that concept as part of my life

[sheisagoodgirl]

:hug:

:rofl:

:-|

[Siddy3242]

whoever designed that "part of life" is idiotic so i never included that concept as part of my life

we're all different sister, some ppl strike it lucky @ their first shot(lucky lucky)
some of us keep looking and waiting till they get the one.......while some think they have found the one but realize later they are not(ughhhhhh)
so yeah the basic point i was trying to get across....you never know when ur ready till it hits you........

[Siddy3242]

:-|

:sarb:
you dont like me laughin?

[sheisagoodgirl]

:sarb:
you dont like me laughin?

i dont like you laughing at me :-|

[desi_uk]

and ready to discuss marriage, future, family (talk to each side)?

id say about 25

[Hands]

15ish

[desi_uk]

15ish

lol you crack me up 15

[PRCIV]

Never ! I ain't the marrying kind

[Hands]

lol you crack me up 15
serious man, people mature at different ages :D

[hakuna-matata]

There's no fixed age for me. When the right girl comes around, I'll be ready. Everything is in God's hands.

[Siddy3242]

There's no fixed age for me. When the right girl comes around, I'll be ready. Everything is in God's hands.

:werd:

[Hands]

There's no fixed age for me. When the right girl comes around, I'll be ready. Everything is in God's hands.
hes got the whole world in his hands

[hakuna-matata]

hes got the whole world in his hands

But he presents us with choice

[Hands]

But he presents us with choice
but he still has it in his hands

[hakuna-matata]

but he still has it in his hands

True. And he doesn't play dice

[Echelon]

25+, ideally 28.

[Hands]

True. And he doesn't play dice
he plays poker :yes:

[Hands]

25+, ideally 28.
why so precise :|

[hakuna-matata]

he plays poker :yes:

Hahahahaha. Well then hang on mate, you'll soon be dealt your royal flush

[Hands]

Hahahahaha. Well then hang on mate, you'll soon be dealt your royal flush
i told you already he loves me :love:

[hakuna-matata]

i told you already he loves me :love:

lol. how old are you?

[Hands]

lol. how old are you?
13 :angel:

[schaxeb]

late 20's... unless u knock someone up before that.

[hakuna-matata]

13 :angel:

I'm looking at my screen through a mirror

[Hands]

late 20's... unless u knock someone up before that.
whats knock up?

[Hands]

I'm looking at my screen through a mirror
are yyou 13 too :hug: zomg twins :love:

[schaxeb]

whats knock up?
its kinda like knock-out... but its a lot more fun.

[goose_bump]

and ready to discuss marriage, future, family (talk to each side)?

That age when the willy starts waiving whenever it sees a hot chick.

[Hands]

its kinda like knock-out... but its a lot more fun.
u mean beating people UP, like literally?

[keyzersoze]

25+, ideally 28.

For men, yes. Women of the desi variety tend to get married younger. A 1-3 year deviation between ages is the norm nowadays.

[Hands]

For men, yes. Women of the desi variety tend to get married younger. A 1-3 year deviation between ages is the norm nowadays.
ISNT THAT AYOUNG AGE TO GET MARIIED, I MEAN YOUR BARELY EVEN OUT OF NAPPIES, IS IT FAIR ON THE HUSBAND, IS IT EVEN RIGHT?

[Pandora]

I think their answer would be never.

[maximumsportZ]

30 dude.

[phishuff]

i dunno, some get old but don't mature.. after 25 or 30 something

[vgirl]

interesting. i'd always said around 26 would be ideal for a guy to start thinking about settling down, but i notice a lot of guys on here are saying 28+.

[Punjabi_Link]

late 20's.

[jassika]

i guess ideally the guy should be like 2-3 years older than the girl then.

[IChuu]

i am muture u talk bisnuess now :D hehehehehe,,, we no i think the best age iz 23 or 22, that iz where all the fun iz. ;)

[IChuu]

bye lads. GL HF.. no marrige. just chill and let others chill ,, paki zindabad

[Siddy3242]

i am muture u talk bisnuess now :D hehehehehe,,, we no i think the best age iz 23 or 22, that iz where all the fun iz. ;)

:scratch:

[creatinekid]

30+

[¤ * HoneY * ¤]

i think when you feel you have the right girl wid you , you shud be serious. even if you dont talk about marriage and kids etc, at least be faithfull... and there's no age to be sincere wid a girl.. shudnt play at any age...

[jat_jatt_sardar]

dump the time-pass and go india :rofl:

[desi_playa]

for me 22 plus.

[Siddy3242]

for me 22 plus.

kinda young man..............

[Hands]

13ish

[Siddy3242]

13ish

parrrrfect

[jat_jatt_sardar]

5 and a half

[annika05]

and ready to discuss marriage, future, family (talk to each side)?

wen they have wrinkled weiners n not even prostitutes will take their money..thats wen they become faithful n settle down w one woman

[Siddy3242]

wen they have wrinkled weiners n not even prostitutes will take their money..thats wen they become faithful n settle down w one woman

:rofl::blahblah:

[jat_jatt_sardar]

wen they have wrinkled weiners n not even prostitutes will take their money..thats wen they become faithful n settle down w one woman
:rolleyes::ughwerd:

[Echelon]

Owned.

[jat_jatt_sardar]

hmm I don't really take these dating-waliya kuriya seriously, I'd stay the heck away if it came to marriage.

[T.Dimera]

and ready to discuss marriage, future, family (talk to each side)?

i was ready to get serious by 23/24....but that didnt result in anything because i had no girl then.

[Hands]

12ish :dunno:

[DasJa]

You can't really categorize men into the same bracket. Some men will be ready to settle down at age 21, some men will still be playing the field till age 40. It's not like women, who feel the time has come, and automatically begin thinking "family, kids, home, etc" after a certain age...for guys, "beer, games, and good times" take priority until they meet the right woman.

[desi_uk]

and ready to discuss marriage, future, family (talk to each side)?

its different for everyone some people mature younger and some mature later it depends on the person how committed they want to be