What conclusions......

[Clueless_uk]

can you draw about a guy....that tries to kiss you on your first meet/date?

Desparate?

Finds you irrasistable?

Impatient?

Or could you say that the girl was giving out the wrong signals? Or she was making him feel too comfortable?

Discuss.

[desi_uk]

can you draw about a guy....that tries to kiss you on your first meet/date?

Desparate?

Finds you irrasistable?

Impatient?

Or could you say that the girl was giving out the wrong signals? Or she was making him feel too comfortable?

Discuss.
depends on the individual hard to comment unless you know the person

[s11nyk]

if it was a mutual feelilng then nothing wrong with it....

[Geezer]

I wouldn't say desperate unless you can really tell from his body language that he wants to leap himself onto your lips :lol: kissing on the first date is like a big no no. You don't wanna lay all your cards on the table so early on. 3rd date is probably the right time...if you haven't by then, you'll are very likely to enter a permanent residence in the friends zone.

[(sic)]

i really really need a shit

[Space-Cowboy]

Maybe he was just trying to get you to shut up? :dunno:














:lulz::lulz:

[ilyas@!!oops!!]

i really really need a shit
:rofl:

[Z4K5T4R]

Wouldn't treat you well, and just thinks of you as just ''another girl''.

[justkillingtime]

i really really need a shit


:rofl:

[desi_uk]

argggggggggggggghhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhh who edited my comment























































oh it was me

[Space-Cowboy]

:rofla: Desi grills

[desi_uk]

i really really need a shit
nothing like a good dump in the morning

[house-fly]

desperate :neutral:

[desi_uk]

desperate :neutral:
buzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzz zzzzzzz

[house-fly]

buzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzz zzzzzzz

smack! :rofl:

[desi_uk]

smack! :rofl:
splatter :ugh:

[house-fly]

splatter :ugh:
*dies* :(

[desi_uk]

*dies* :(
nooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooo

gives kiss of life

[house-fly]

nooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooo

gives kiss of life

ahhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhh :ugh: still dead..lol
now back to the topic =S

[desi_uk]

ahhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhh :ugh: still dead..lol
now back to the topic =S
whats the topic i forgot?

[house-fly]

can you draw about a guy....that tries to kiss you on your first meet/date?

Desparate?

Finds you irrasistable?

Impatient?

Or could you say that the girl was giving out the wrong signals? Or she was making him feel too comfortable?

Discuss.
this is the topic :rofl: lets discuss.brainstorm,draw mindmap and come up with the best answer

[desi_uk]

this is the topic :rofl: lets discuss.brainstorm,draw mindmap and come up with the best answer
such a hard question ok lemme get my finkin topee on


ermmmmmm what do you fink whats your input on this topic?

[house-fly]

such a hard question ok lemme get my finkin topee on


ermmmmmm what do you fink whats your input on this topic?

i think the guy is desperate if he tries to kill the girl on the first date..how could u possibly kiss someone on the first date :ugh: ..u hardly knw that person

[desi_uk]

i think the guy is desperate if he tries to kill the girl on the first date..how could u possibly kiss someone on the first date :ugh: ..u hardly knw that person
..................

[desi_uk]

..................

[house-fly]

:rofl:

[desi_uk]

:shock:
.....................

[house-fly]

i know it was a long time ago lol
oklol :rofl:

[desi_uk]

oklol :rofl:
are you female?

[house-fly]

are you female?
:D ya

[desi_uk]

:D ya
nice how you doin

lol only jokin

[house-fly]

nice how you doin

lol only jokin

i m doin good how abt u>
???

[SarcasmicBengali]

maybe he's just got different standards of what goes on in the first date.
might have nothing to do with all these negative connotations you're putting on it...

[house-fly]

maybe he's just got different standards of what goes on in the first date.
might have nothing to do with all these negative connotations you're putting on it...
hmm yea maybe

[imsocrazii]

can you draw about a guy....that tries to kiss you on your first meet/date?

Desparate?

Finds you irrasistable?

Impatient?

Or could you say that the girl was giving out the wrong signals? Or she was making him feel too comfortable?

Discuss.
kissing is innocent. if theres chemistry, then i wouldnt have a problem with that i guess. butt then again, i dont date much :p

[Dream_GirL]

can you draw about a guy....that tries to kiss you on your first meet/date?

Desparate?

Finds you irrasistable?

Impatient?

Or could you say that the girl was giving out the wrong signals? Or she was making him feel too comfortable?

Discuss.
cud be all 4.. i think it wud be sweet since its a date..n we both like eachother

[desi_uk]

i m doin good how abt u>
???
im good

[desi_uk]

:rofl:
lol :rofl:

[Lie Detector]

A lot of my friends that are girls have told me that while they don't like kissing on the first date, if the guy doesn't try on the second date, they'll think the guy is a pansy.

[mp3]

can you draw about a guy....that tries to kiss you on your first meet/date?

Desparate?

Finds you irrasistable?

Impatient?

Or could you say that the girl was giving out the wrong signals? Or she was making him feel too comfortable?

Discuss.


So the desi family came round and the guy tried to kiss you.

[Clueless_uk]

maybe he's just got different standards of what goes on in the first date.
might have nothing to do with all these negative connotations you're putting on it...

But that probability for that to be true for a guy is pretty low...no?

[Hands]

can you draw about a guy....that tries to kiss you on your first meet/date?

Desparate?

Finds you irrasistable?

Impatient?

Or could you say that the girl was giving out the wrong signals? Or she was making him feel too comfortable?

Discuss.
yesthisbit

[Clueless_uk]

cud be all 4.. i think it wud be sweet since its a date..n we both like eachother

I suppose it would be ok....if you have known each other for a while and the guy knows for sure the girl likes him...

but random kissing....are only for movies in my books.

[Clueless_uk]

So the desi family came round and the guy tried to kiss you.

lol

nope....just an old experience that popped to mind.

[Clueless_uk]

yesthisbit

Explain.

Because I don't think I did anything to encourage such a move.

[Hands]

Explain.

Because I don't think I did anything to encourage such a move.
well-sometimes-we-get-mixed-signals
sometimes-we-mistake-friendliness-asflirting-anditallgoes-pearshaped

or-he-could-justbe-laying-downthe-territory-nahsayin'

[SpicyBrownRapper]

can you draw about a guy....that tries to kiss you on your first meet/date?

Desparate?

Finds you irrasistable?

Impatient?

Or could you say that the girl was giving out the wrong signals? Or she was making him feel too comfortable?

Discuss.

First meet? First time you ever hung out with him? Had you previously known him, on the net perhaps? Does he like you? I know you girls like to act naive in the regard, but think of it for a while.

Either way, I think you've sort of answered your own question. It could be a number of things:

1. Duke really likes you, and thinks you like him back just as much so he thought you'd be okay with him trying to kiss you

2. He just wanted a lil' summin' summin' for the night, and thought you were up for it

3. The guy has genuine social problems, and doesn't know what is proper for what occasions

4. He tripped, fell and his face landed on yours

I personally like #4 best.

[Clueless_uk]

First meet? First time you ever hung out with him? Had you previously known him, on the net perhaps? Does he like you? I know you girls like to act naive in the regard, but think of it for a while.

Either way, I think you've sort of answered your own question. It could be a number of things:

1. Duke really likes you, and thinks you like him back just as much so he thought you'd be okay with him trying to kiss you

2. He just wanted a lil' summin' summin' for the night, and thought you were up for it

3. The guy has genuine social problems, and doesn't know what is proper for what occasions

4. He tripped, fell and his face landed on yours

I personally like #4 best.

I like 4 too :lulz: (but that I can say for sure did not happen)

I met him through a friend...chatted on the phone for maybe 2 weeks...and then decided to meet up.

And the reason why I was initially attracted to him was the fact that he never flirted directly, or said anything dirty or offensive in my books...so I thought he'd be a safe charector to get to know.

Anyhow...I know now he was desparate, hence the "pretence" of being a decent guy.

But this was a general question.....as to why most guys would do it....but dammit....there are too many ifs and buts....I mean...are you guys really that complicated?

[Clueless_uk]

well-sometimes-we-get-mixed-signals
sometimes-we-mistake-friendliness-asflirting-anditallgoes-pearshaped

or-he-could-justbe-laying-downthe-territory-nahsayin'

Can you just not kiss at all on the first "meet"? Make it a rule!

[BigCrazyIndian]

I like 4 too :lulz: (but that I can say for sure did not happen)

I met him through a friend...chatted on the phone for maybe 2 weeks...and then decided to meet up.

And the reason why I was initially attracted to him was the fact that he never flirted directly, or said anything dirty or offensive in my books...so I thought he'd be a safe charector to get to know.

Anyhow...I know now he was desparate, hence the "pretence" of being a decent guy.

But this was a general question.....as to why most guys would do it....but dammit....there are too many ifs and buts....I mean...are you guys really that complicated?

yes, we're paradoxes wrapped in enigmas, circumscribed by sexiness.

:squint:

[PRCIV]

depends on what the mood is like...kiss by the 2nd date is a must or else you're not going to get any pussy anytime soon

[Hands]

Can you just not kiss at all on the first "meet"? Make it a rule!
sometimes-its-difficult-to-do-that
sometimes-you-just-wanna-seal-the-deal-and-make-iot-offical.
it-kinda-makes-the-next-meetup-more-solid-like-its-defo-happening-now:|

[Clueless_uk]

yes, we're paradoxes wrapped in enigmas, circumscribed by sexiness.

:squint:

apart from you?

[Clueless_uk]

depends on what the mood is like...kiss by the 2nd date is a must or else you're not going to get any pussy anytime soon

Oh you will be jumping with joy when she refuses to kiss you...as that must mean she is likely to be a virgin! And then you can marry her and live happily ever after.

Like whatever.

[Clueless_uk]

sometimes-its-difficult-to-do-that
sometimes-you-just-wanna-seal-the-deal-and-make-iot-offical.
it-kinda-makes-the-next-meetup-more-solid-like-its-defo-happening-now:|

Man...stick to picking clots.

[BigCrazyIndian]

apart from you?

yes, I'm different :lulz:

you should come on msn sometime, so you can tell me your perverted jokes, as you promised.

[Clueless_uk]

yes, I'm different :lulz:

you should come on msn sometime, so you can tell me your perverted jokes, as you promised.

I'm on later dude...like 8ish in the evening..uk time!

[SpicyBrownRapper]

I like 4 too :lulz: (but that I can say for sure did not happen)

I met him through a friend...chatted on the phone for maybe 2 weeks...and then decided to meet up.

And the reason why I was initially attracted to him was the fact that he never flirted directly, or said anything dirty or offensive in my books...so I thought he'd be a safe charector to get to know.

Anyhow...I know now he was desparate, hence the "pretence" of being a decent guy.

But this was a general question.....as to why most guys would do it....but dammit....there are too many ifs and buts....I mean...are you guys really that complicated?

No dude, guys are not complicated. Its exactly the opposite. Guys, as I say so often, do what is best for them - in their mind. If putting up a show, becoming someone a guy is not gets him some action, then thats what SOME guys will do.

I suppose this can be problematic for some girls in figuring out who the guy genuinely is, but that is why you take time getting to know someone. I mean, this can sort of hold true for both sexes but girls generally don't put up a front (girls in real life, at least).

You never know how a person is until you meet him. Knowing someone over the phone and internet never really gives you a good idea about who that person really is. People are very fake until you meet 'em face to face. Look at RD, majority of these fuckers are fake. Fake, fake, fake. No Brown Daddy though, Brown Daddy'll punch you in your vagina in real life AND online. Fa shooooooo.

[Hands]

Man...stick to picking clots.
:|
its-not-my-fault-im-whoreish

[BigCrazyIndian]

I'm on later dude...like 8ish in the evening..uk time!

crap, that's like 3 over here. God damn time zones, wtf?

[sunny333333]

can you draw about a guy....that tries to kiss you on your first meet/date?

Desparate?

Finds you irrasistable?

Impatient?

Or could you say that the girl was giving out the wrong signals? Or she was making him feel too comfortable?

Discuss.
a real man :gay:

[SarcasmicBengali]

But that probability for that to be true for a guy is pretty low...no?

so you assume.

edit: it's less likely for a guy to have more reservations about kissing, or putting out on the first date as a girl.
that doesn't necessarily mean he thinks the girl is a slut/whore if she does.

[Clueless_uk]

so you assume.

edit: it's less likely for a guy to have more reservations about kissing, or putting out on the first date as a girl.
that doesn't necessarily mean he thinks the girl is a slut/whore if she does.

.
I don't know about that - I think a lot of desi men think along that lines of the girl being the slut if she is too accepting - even educated ones...I can't fathom how they can think like that....now I am not saying all...but that likes of that PRCIV guy is a prime example.

[WonkaBear]

what conclusions do u draw about a girl that kisses u and has sex with u on the 2nd date?

what if its a re-occuring pattern?

... especially if u dont make the first move?

:gol:

[Clueless_uk]

No dude, guys are not complicated. Its exactly the opposite. Guys, as I say so often, do what is best for them - in their mind. If putting up a show, becoming someone a guy is not gets him some action, then thats what SOME guys will do.

I suppose this can be problematic for some girls in figuring out who the guy genuinely is, but that is why you take time getting to know someone. I mean, this can sort of hold true for both sexes but girls generally don't put up a front (girls in real life, at least).

You never know how a person is until you meet him. Knowing someone over the phone and internet never really gives you a good idea about who that person really is. People are very fake until you meet 'em face to face. Look at RD, majority of these fuckers are fake. Fake, fake, fake. No Brown Daddy though, Brown Daddy'll punch you in your vagina in real life AND online. Fa shooooooo.


Problematic? , it used to be, now I can smell one from miles away.

I agree....you need to know them for a good period of time....to ensure their stories are true.You

You keep doing what you are good at Yo....but using your fist ain't any fun dude - use something more practical, like a dildo for foooks sakes.

[Clueless_uk]

what conclusions do u draw about a girl that kisses u and has sex with u on the 2nd date?

what if its a re-occuring pattern?

... especially if u dont make the first move?

:gol:

A really kind and altruistic girl that wants to give you ultimate pleasure with no regard for herself.


:gol:

[Clueless_uk]

crap, that's like 3 over here. God damn time zones, wtf?


Time zone is a bitch

[WonkaBear]

A really kind and altruistic girl that wants to give you ultimate pleasure with no regard for herself.


:gol:

there are so many of those girls. they just wanna rip u to pieces in the long run. Succubis my friend. Succubis!

[cococrisp]

how about intimate,:lulz:....

[roy_desi]

how long have you known him? if not for very long, he obviously wants in that pussy asap.

[WonkaBear]

depends on what the mood is like...kiss by the 2nd date is a must or else you're not going to get any pussy anytime soon

i usually wait till the 2nd date for the kiss. but everything else seems to happen right after the kiss.

:yum:

[LAKERFAN8]

horny

[SarcasmicBengali]

.
I don't know about that - I think a lot of desi men think along that lines of the girl being the slut if she is too accepting - even educated ones...I can't fathom how they can think like that....now I am not saying all...but that likes of that PRCIV guy is a prime example.

well at the end of the day, regardless of who says what... it's all based on personal experience.

for everyone that has experienced sluts there's others that have experienced the opposite.
so no one here can really determine what kinda guy the one is in the original post... it really depends on the girl and the impression she gets from him at the time.

everything else is conjecture and generalizations...

[Ketamine-Abuse]

The girl's fault for dressing like a slut.

[Dream_GirL]

I suppose it would be ok....if you have known each other for a while and the guy knows for sure the girl likes him...

but random kissing....are only for movies in my books.
well i think if u don't want to randomly kiss de guy ur on a date on den dont date him in de first place.. it depends wat kind of a date tho.. if uve known de guy for a while.. n u like eachother its k.. but if uve never met him b4 .. or dont know him well y wud u date him? n if u do date him..its likely ur thinkin bout kissing him anyway

[nyc_guy_sx]

may b he got used to dating or he can be pro-player :wavey: