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payaldvd
April 13th, 2008, 01:17 AM
Okay, so my friend boyfriend who is Pakistani and she is Bengali had a fight over the stupidest thing which was the history of the war between these two countries which led to a fight between her saying "this is why there going to be fights with your family and I" the guy started laughing but she is concerned with it apparently her dad hates Punjabi Pakistani, I just wanna why would Bengali’s and Pakistani’s getting married be a problem like there both Muslim, what the problem with it?
Hands
April 13th, 2008, 01:19 AM
errr shutup
sheena1623
April 13th, 2008, 01:31 AM
One of my good friends, who's paki, dates a bengali girl, but his parents want him marrying a paki & the chick to marry a bengali, I don't really get it either.
They've been going out for 3 years now so it's gonna be pretty hard on the both of them if things don't work out.
P*I*M*P
April 13th, 2008, 01:34 AM
Bengals r traitors.
:drama2:
SarcasmicBengali
April 13th, 2008, 01:54 AM
that's just retarded...
fucking ppl find the dumbest things to get mad about.
it was an issue regarding the national language.
Pakistan wanted to make it Urdu, while majority of East Pakistan was Bengali... so the Bengalies protested to keep it as Bangla.
shit happened, Bengalies fought for their right to speak Bangla... Indians helped 'em out and gained independance as Bangladesh at the end of it all.
if anything more blood was spilled during the India-Pakistan divide.
tell your friend to stfu and get over it... it was almost 40 years ago!
desi_uk
April 13th, 2008, 02:40 AM
Okay, so my friend boyfriend who is Pakistani and she is Bengali had a fight over the stupidest thing which was the history of the war between these two countries which led to a fight between her saying "this is why there going to be fights with your family and I" the guy started laughing but she is concerned with it apparently her dad hates Punjabi Pakistani, I just wanna why would Bengali’s and Pakistani’s getting married be a problem like there both Muslim, what the problem with it?
no problem unless you make it one
crzyabcd
April 13th, 2008, 03:06 AM
i dont get it they are all muslim in the end why cant they just co exist.
desi_uk
April 13th, 2008, 03:11 AM
i dont get it they are all muslim in the end why cant they just co exist.
they can no one said they cant unless people start making an issue about it (not you) i mean people that do
disyaboi II
April 13th, 2008, 03:55 AM
Bengals r traitors.
:drama2:
you mad there's no more east pakistan? get over your pathetic nation u fuckin queer
¤ * HoneY * ¤
April 13th, 2008, 04:43 AM
you mad there's no more east pakistan? get over your pathetic nation u fuckin queer
i completely agree wid you... boh have to be muslim dat's it... pakistani bengali indian all are human being rite... life's too short to give enough love, i cant understand how they find time to hate...
chowdury
April 13th, 2008, 01:28 PM
1st of all 5000+ civilains got carpet bombed in a mosque on eid day! not 1 person had a weapon on them! N the provincal mosque!
Oh yeah carpet bombs are of the most painful ways to get blown up!!!!
punjabis are the worst,, 1946.. they secretly started the genocides, by hiding weapons and blackmailing the hindus to kill the muslims and hindus that lived together peacefuly!!!
1954: Bengalis returned wit a kind grace of humanity during that they offered punjabs 50% Parity (human equlity) in the constitution!!!
20 years of political marginalision and economic discrimination!
East Bengal was the richest province of pakistan! They were very hard working but unfortunatly racist policies that were put through were very economicaly biased!
And in ten years time all the factories were sercrertly shut down and moved to pakistan!
Not only that but pakistan charged the East-Bengal province Higher rates then international norms for machinary and good and comdities....
Political dicriminated and cheated from the constition..........
For the 3 million people that were murderd in mordern histroy this is one of the worst genocides recorded in history!
If any Motha-fuking pakie says that it is impossible to kill that many people in 9 months guess again...
How comes in 1 month in this african country 1 million people vanished only a couple of bodies found!
secondly 10 million people vanished in Europe!!!
Pakistan has neva put the criminals on trial against these hideous crimes...............always heard pakies saying bad thing about Bengalis
Oh yeah this pakistan family visted my houshold.. She mumbo jumblimg.. i always heard pakies saying bad thing about Bengalis...
So i ****************************************!
Have to say pakis r still kuntish to bengalis!! they can come up wit some of the most fucked up things!!!
also pakis made thing really tough 4 bengalis to establish in uk!!!
Not only this but pakies tink that their country should not give out any compensation for it.. Not only that but they think it was the right thing to do and still.. they come up things like we r rebles
No national apology and most of the pakies in the UK have had a relative serve in the pakistani army how the fuck does that fell like!!!!
I can imagine me being the father and facing the pakie side 1st of all the pakis close relative served in the army.. their committed crimins lyke taking a alittle giirl or married woman which raped it and haked it to death in to pieces alive! pakie side coming wit shit like ur a traitor, e.t.c no culture.. loyalty.. and even having no human deceny that of a human apology!
I would dis own the cow in the blood shoot... Becasue i do not affliliate wit people that do not condem acts evil! oh yeah and they look down on us...
chowdury
April 13th, 2008, 01:45 PM
you mad there's no more east pakistan? get over your pathetic nation u fuckin queer
hey Bhia-Saab does the USA army still use carpet bombs?
desi_uk
April 13th, 2008, 01:47 PM
hey Bhia-Saab does the USA army still use carpet bombs?
why would you ask such a question?
chowdury
April 13th, 2008, 01:49 PM
second thing is that i h8 the fuck out of people saying that were muslims+muslims= peace and were brothers...
This muslim monds man ship is full of shit....
for ova something lyke 400-800 years muslims have been at war wit each other sunnis and shiats
and dumb sayin the whole wrold needs to be muslims 4 peace.. if that was so then sunnis and shiats would still be killing each other!!! or they still are!!!
phishuff
April 13th, 2008, 02:08 PM
bangladesh was part of pakistan.. fights can happen regardless country is not necessarily a good reason
di vinci
April 13th, 2008, 02:17 PM
:nuts:
disyaboi II
April 13th, 2008, 02:25 PM
hey Bhia-Saab does the USA army still use carpet bombs?
maybe, I wouldn't know. I'm in the Marines...
chowdury
April 13th, 2008, 02:27 PM
maybe, I wouldn't know. I'm in the Marines...
hey did u have any time to luk at that link that i sent u and have checked out the BOI????
phishuff
April 13th, 2008, 02:28 PM
:nuts:
was that for me or someone else?
disyaboi II
April 13th, 2008, 02:31 PM
hey did u have any time to luk at that link that i sent u and have checked out the BOI????
no actually I haven't...
chowdury
April 13th, 2008, 02:34 PM
no actually I haven't...
its a pretty good link... that bangla man is very influencial.. i tink he also live in texas.. red his biog... thers loads of tings he can help u in... his consultancy company is very good.......
di vinci
April 13th, 2008, 02:51 PM
was that for me or someone else?for the original poster thread
how stupid is her friend, blaming him for something he had no ciontrol over
chowdury
April 13th, 2008, 03:19 PM
1st of all 5000+ civilains got carpet bombed in a mosque on eid day! not 1 person had a weapon on them! N the provincal mosque!
Oh yeah carpet bombs are of the most painful ways to get blown up!!!!
punjabis are the worst,, 1946.. they secretly started the genocides, by hiding weapons and blackmailing the hindus to kill the muslims and hindus that lived together peacefuly!!!
1954: Bengalis returned wit a kind grace of humanity during that they offered punjabs 50% Parity (human equlity) in the constitution!!!
20 years of political marginalision and economic discrimination!
East Bengal was the richest province of pakistan! They were very hard working but unfortunatly racist policies that were put through were very economicaly biased!
And in ten years time all the factories were sercrertly shut down and moved to pakistan!
Not only that but pakistan charged the East-Bengal province Higher rates then international norms for machinary and good and comdities....
Political dicriminated and cheated from the constition..........
For the 3 million people that were murderd in mordern histroy this is one of the worst genocides recorded in history!
If any Motha-fuking pakie says that it is impossible to kill that many people in 9 months guess again...
How comes in 1 month in this african country 1 million people vanished only a couple of bodies found!
secondly 10 million people vanished in Europe!!!
Pakistan has neva put the criminals on trial against these hideous crimes...............always heard pakies saying bad thing about Bengalis
Oh yeah this pakistan family visted my houshold.. She mumbo jumblimg.. i always heard pakies saying bad thing about Bengalis...
So i ****************************************!
Have to say pakis r still kuntish to bengalis!! they can come up wit some of the most fucked up things!!!
also pakis made thing really tough 4 bengalis to establish in uk!!!
Not only this but pakies tink that their country should not give out any compensation for it.. Not only that but they think it was the right thing to do and still.. they come up things like we r rebles
No national apology and most of the pakies in the UK have had a relative serve in the pakistani army how the fuck does that fell like!!!!
I can imagine me being the father and facing the pakie side 1st of all the pakis close relative served in the army.. their committed crimins lyke taking a alittle giirl or married woman which raped it and haked it to death in to pieces alive! pakie side coming wit shit like ur a traitor, e.t.c no culture.. loyalty.. and even having no human deceny that of a human apology!
I would dis own the cow in the blood shoot... Becasue i do not affliliate wit people that do not condem acts evil! oh yeah and they look down on us...
Secondly Bengalis r the best....... Ghandis Mahrta wit his doctrine of majoritism of democarcy and benglais being the majourity we did not seek to surpress any creed of man oh yeah..
R!SK
April 13th, 2008, 03:31 PM
Okay, so my friend boyfriend who is Pakistani and she is Bengali had a fight over the stupidest thing which was the history of the war between these two countries which led to a fight between her saying "this is why there going to be fights with your family and I" the guy started laughing but she is concerned with it apparently her dad hates Punjabi Pakistani, I just wanna why would Bengali’s and Pakistani’s getting married be a problem like there both Muslim, what the problem with it?
it is stupid to fight over that but shes saying her dads gna hav a problem with it ryt? dats understandable coz her dads from that generation when the war happened......but if shes bothered by the war herself then yeh shes dumb.
doesnt same go for indians and pakis marrying to isnt there still some tension there?
R!SK
April 13th, 2008, 03:37 PM
at the end of the day religion shud come before culture but thats not how it works
BornToBreak_Rulz
April 13th, 2008, 03:43 PM
then both of them are stupid fobs who can't get over their history.If those kind of things r which leads them to fights then i suggest they break up and the guy needs to marry a nice paki kuri and girl to marry a nice bengali munda.I have dated two bengali girls myself and none of that shit came up.Wow some ppl r really fucked up
payaldvd
April 13th, 2008, 07:00 PM
1st of all 5000+ civilains got carpet bombed in a mosque on eid day! not 1 person had a weapon on them! N the provincal mosque!
Oh yeah carpet bombs are of the most painful ways to get blown up!!!!
punjabis are the worst,, 1946.. they secretly started the genocides, by hiding weapons and blackmailing the hindus to kill the muslims and hindus that lived together peacefuly!!!
1954: Bengalis returned wit a kind grace of humanity during that they offered punjabs 50% Parity (human equlity) in the constitution!!!
20 years of political marginalision and economic discrimination!
East Bengal was the richest province of pakistan! They were very hard working but unfortunatly racist policies that were put through were very economicaly biased!
And in ten years time all the factories were sercrertly shut down and moved to pakistan!
Not only that but pakistan charged the East-Bengal province Higher rates then international norms for machinary and good and comdities....
Political dicriminated and cheated from the constition..........
For the 3 million people that were murderd in mordern histroy this is one of the worst genocides recorded in history!
If any Motha-fuking pakie says that it is impossible to kill that many people in 9 months guess again...
How comes in 1 month in this african country 1 million people vanished only a couple of bodies found!
secondly 10 million people vanished in Europe!!!
Pakistan has neva put the criminals on trial against these hideous crimes...............always heard pakies saying bad thing about Bengalis
Oh yeah this pakistan family visted my houshold.. She mumbo jumblimg.. i always heard pakies saying bad thing about Bengalis...
So i ****************************************!
Have to say pakis r still kuntish to bengalis!! they can come up wit some of the most fucked up things!!!
also pakis made thing really tough 4 bengalis to establish in uk!!!
Not only this but pakies tink that their country should not give out any compensation for it.. Not only that but they think it was the right thing to do and still.. they come up things like we r rebles
No national apology and most of the pakies in the UK have had a relative serve in the pakistani army how the fuck does that fell like!!!!
I can imagine me being the father and facing the pakie side 1st of all the pakis close relative served in the army.. their committed crimins lyke taking a alittle giirl or married woman which raped it and haked it to death in to pieces alive! pakie side coming wit shit like ur a traitor, e.t.c no culture.. loyalty.. and even having no human deceny that of a human apology!
I would dis own the cow in the blood shoot... Becasue i do not affliliate wit people that do not condem acts evil! oh yeah and they look down on us...
dude even if that is true or not it has nothing to do with them and why should ppl have an issue with something that happened so long ago and Pakis and Bengalis have similar cultures so i don't see the big deal but maybe i am naive
SaMeeeeR
April 13th, 2008, 07:25 PM
Okay, so my friend boyfriend who is Pakistani and she is Bengali had a fight over the stupidest thing which was the history of the war between these two countries which led to a fight between her saying "this is why there going to be fights with your family and I" the guy started laughing but she is concerned with it apparently her dad hates Punjabi Pakistani, I just wanna why would Bengali’s and Pakistani’s getting married be a problem like there both Muslim, what the problem with it?
Indians ,,Bengalis and Pakistanis all r hott ...STFU who thinks dey r not :D
*innocent angel*
April 13th, 2008, 08:21 PM
i went out with 2 bengali guys! never had that prob
bengalis <3
chowdury
April 14th, 2008, 08:05 AM
dude even if that is true or not it has nothing to do with them and why should ppl have an issue with something that happened so long ago and Pakis and Bengalis have similar cultures so i don't see the big deal but maybe i am naive
STFU u ***** i would neva get wit a uk paki... their close relatives ran around commiting crimins against humans no justice... And the 1s in the uk made it very difficult 4 the bengalis in the fucking uk u *****!!
Do not debate or down scale the crimins commite. Neva deny that it happened..................
We do not have a similar culture we are very different in culture u *****!
you do not even know 1 thing about bengali culture and Bengali Histroy u demo that in ur 1st post! So stop chatting shit!!!!!!!!!!!
that we r similiar i neva speak to a paki beacuse wen it comes down to motherland issues... they always come up wit racist shit about bengalis
WTF....... U asked about the history so i gave the brief ovea view go and red a book u dumb cow! do not insult my benglai culture...........
Even if it is true= is very offensive to bengalis & racist!
Pakis av terrorised bengalis in the uk ova this u *****!!! can u imagine a single mother and her child being threatend!!!!!!! harrasement abd abuse all night punched and kicked by pakies........
If i was here father i would get all my relatives to beat the fuck out them scum beat that hoe!!!!!!!!!!
Secondly: Benglalis don't go running around terrorisng people that were victims of abuse
have i not given 1 extra social challenge.. in the uk most of pakis have served in the army commiting crimes against humanity!! they have also made thing difficlut in the uk for Bengalis..............
Y is the social challenge on the side of the victimsed person and all the power to the side making the abuse... I give u 1 exmaple there is a ***** in the first page that Bengalis ***** did 1 paki have the human decency to give him a warning.......
chowdury
April 14th, 2008, 08:35 AM
secondly for som reason i was restricted from posting on tis site!!!!!!!
intialy requesting me to speak to the web-master for to post on here!!!!!!!!!
but the ***** in the first page did not have any restrictions To call Bengalis ******* ********* ******** ********!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
Another example of supression!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
and Anti-Bengali on this web-site
Dream_GirL
April 14th, 2008, 09:29 AM
Okay, so my friend boyfriend who is Pakistani and she is Bengali had a fight over the stupidest thing which was the history of the war between these two countries which led to a fight between her saying "this is why there going to be fights with your family and I" the guy started laughing but she is concerned with it apparently her dad hates Punjabi Pakistani, I just wanna why would Bengali’s and Pakistani’s getting married be a problem like there both Muslim, what the problem with it?
i c no problem.. dey just gotto stop bein racist
chunky
April 14th, 2008, 10:30 AM
STFU u ***** i would neva get wit a uk paki... their close relatives ran around commiting crimins against humans no justice... And the 1s in the uk made it very difficult 4 the bengalis in the fucking uk u *****!!
Do not debate or down scale the crimins commite. Neva deny that it happened..................
We do not have a similar culture we are very different in culture u *****!
you do not even know 1 thing about bengali culture and Bengali Histroy u demo that in ur 1st post! So stop chatting shit!!!!!!!!!!!
that we r similiar i neva speak to a paki beacuse wen it comes down to motherland issues... they always come up wit racist shit about bengalis
WTF....... U asked about the history so i gave the brief ovea view go and red a book u dumb cow! do not insult my benglai culture...........
Even if it is true= is very offensive to bengalis & racist!
Pakis av terrorised bengalis in the uk ova this u *****!!! can u imagine a single mother and her child being threatend!!!!!!! harrasement abd abuse all night punched and kicked by pakies........
If i was here father i would get all my relatives to beat the fuck out them scum beat that hoe!!!!!!!!!!
Secondly: Benglalis don't go running around terrorisng people that were victims of abuse
have i not given 1 extra social challenge.. in the uk most of pakis have served in the army commiting crimes against humanity!! they have also made thing difficlut in the uk for Bengalis..............
Y is the social challenge on the side of the victimsed person and all the power to the side making the abuse... I give u 1 exmaple there is a ***** in the first page that Bengalis ***** did 1 paki have the human decency to give him a warning.......
Tone down the language.
and LMFAO @ the guy who said the war was over what language to keep as the official language of pakistan. It was MUCH deeper than that. Long story short, west pakistan (modern day pakistan) wanted to keep east pakistan (modern day bangladesh) as a national piggy bank of resources. West pakistan has mountains & rocks whereas bangladesh has rich farmland & rivers. All that aside, from what I have read and heard from my father, the war was extremely violent and brutal. It doesn't affect me that much, but it affected my father's generation deeply. Maybe in a few generations old wounds will heal, but scars will always remain.
chunky
April 14th, 2008, 10:36 AM
secondly for som reason i was restricted from posting on tis site!!!!!!!
intialy requesting me to speak to the web-master for to post on here!!!!!!!!!
but the ***** in the first page did not have any restrictions To call Bengalis ******* ********* ******** ********!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
Another example of supression!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
and Anti-Bengali on this web-site
I wouldn't say this site is anti-bengali at all. . . . do you know how many of the mods/admins are bengali?
Raaz28
April 14th, 2008, 10:51 AM
speak for yourself asshole. what i do know is atleast where not cold blooded killers killing innocent civilians - little children, pregnant women,women, pensioners, scholars and young men.
what did they do wrong in the war huh shut your mother fucking mouth. you lost a war to a bunch of farm croppers. and i always laugh over this fact. i have no problems with paki's but please keep politics out of this as it's not needed. why don't you go assasinate your president or something. retards.
pakistan loses all wars lol you lost to india. you lost to bangladesh. you even lost to them at cricket and bangladesh is shit at cricket. now stfu.
Bengals r traitors.
:drama2:
SarcasmicBengali
April 14th, 2008, 02:41 PM
Tone down the language.
and LMFAO @ the guy who said the war was over what language to keep as the official language of pakistan. It was MUCH deeper than that. Long story short, west pakistan (modern day pakistan) wanted to keep east pakistan (modern day bangladesh) as a national piggy bank of resources. West pakistan has mountains & rocks whereas bangladesh has rich farmland & rivers. All that aside, from what I have read and heard from my father, the war was extremely violent and brutal. It doesn't affect me that much, but it affected my father's generation deeply. Maybe in a few generations old wounds will heal, but scars will always remain.
i kinda gave the cliff notes version.
obviously there was a LOT of other issues at work, i meant about how the entire war became known at the "Bhasha Andolon" now...
skyjuice
April 14th, 2008, 06:06 PM
you mad there's no more east pakistan? get over your pathetic nation u fuckin queer
go suck your mudda you sellout knob........must make you proud to serve in a racist whiteman army :coconut mo'fo ....
fuk u mumma battyhole w/ ah bike rack, den run up in she batty w/ ah spike compass an try find sum betta disses.
fuk u granny battyhole u maggot eatin ******.
dayven
April 14th, 2008, 06:11 PM
Bengals r traitors.
:drama2:
you are a fuking dumb cunt................ :rolleyes:
skyjuice
April 14th, 2008, 06:11 PM
secondly for som reason i was restricted from posting on tis site!!!!!!!
intialy requesting me to speak to the web-master for to post on here!!!!!!!!!
but the ***** in the first page did not have any restrictions To call Bengalis ******* ********* ******** ********!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
Another example of supression!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
and Anti-Bengali on this web-site
i heard the N.F usedto kick tyhe fuck out of you little skinny youth's and the paki's and the sikh's were the only ones who fought back,so i think you should suck your momma with a straw next time....
p.s ive never seen a bengali over 5ft 9in .....motherfuckers make japanese people look like yanks
dayven
April 14th, 2008, 06:13 PM
speak for yourself asshole. what i do know is atleast where not cold blooded killers killing innocent civilians - little children, pregnant women,women, pensioners, scholars and young men.
what did they do wrong in the war huh shut your mother fucking mouth. you lost a war to a bunch of farm croppers. and i always laugh over this fact. i have no problems with paki's but please keep politics out of this as it's not needed. why don't you go assasinate your president or something. retards.
pakistan loses all wars lol you lost to india. you lost to bangladesh. you even lost to them at cricket and bangladesh is shit at cricket. now stfu.
:rofl: :rofl: ...well said.....and YES we do suck at cricket.....lol
skyjuice
April 14th, 2008, 06:15 PM
:rofl: :rofl: ...well said.....and YES we do suck at cricket.....lol
and paan
dayven
April 14th, 2008, 06:15 PM
and paan
STFU noob...... :rolleyes:
BornToBreak_Rulz
April 14th, 2008, 06:36 PM
STFU noob...... :rolleyes:
dude ignore him,not all pakis are like that and i know u r a cool guy who wouldn't take this stupid topic seriously
desi_uk
April 14th, 2008, 07:00 PM
....................
chowdury
April 15th, 2008, 04:25 PM
I wouldn't say this site is anti-bengali at all. . . . do you know how many of the mods/admins are bengali?
i've been posting for couple of week.....
then wats wit the um kind of blocking me to participate wit ton this thread was??????? at first couple of attempts?
chowdury
April 15th, 2008, 04:43 PM
Tone down the language.
and LMFAO @ the guy who said the war was over what language to keep as the official language of pakistan. It was MUCH deeper than that. Long story short, west pakistan (modern day pakistan) wanted to keep east pakistan (modern day bangladesh) as a national piggy bank of resources. West pakistan has mountains & rocks whereas bangladesh has rich farmland & rivers. All that aside, from what I have read and heard from my father, the war was extremely violent and brutal. It doesn't affect me that much, but it affected my father's generation deeply. Maybe in a few generations old wounds will heal, but scars will always remain.
Can u explain to me the hypocrisy then y was i intailly blocked... to post on this thread wen Pakis were allowed to call Bengalis *********.... don't u understand that this is a sensitive issue? i neva used any offensive language to start off wit! but wen read other peoples (pakis) and giving one worded abuse to my blood (Bengalis) and the fact that i was blocked to start off wit posting in tis thread! Seen that i have been posting for couple of weeks even b4 this thread made.....
No real reason ov me being blocked! other then then my blood!
Do have any unbiased morals in ur **** brain?
Yeah u expect relations to improve when u tollerate out of the blue for pakis to call benglalis **********... and turning it into an cussing match...
So i decided to stick 4 my side *****!
By the pakis bengalis have hand more renouned intellects then u can ever dream of in a life time!
and the fact that ur fing language is the most undeveloped language in the whole of south asia! Secondly there is this professor in the 1950 based at New Dheli.. developed ur language to a minium vocab level... orginally it was just cave men language just grunting at each other!
And the sad thing is that it is true....
SarcasmicBengali
April 15th, 2008, 05:20 PM
wow... just... wow... :shock:
HeAvYmAcHiNeGuN
April 15th, 2008, 05:22 PM
the most funniest Breakup ever :p
chowdury
April 18th, 2008, 06:17 PM
at the end of the day religion shud come before culture but thats not how it works
ur being a tad bit...
To start off this ****. people sayin the whole world needs to b muslim for peace. get real. there is no muslim bond-manship!
Muslims have been killing each other and at war for a good 400-800 years!
its full of crap.
ajcrunk
June 2nd, 2008, 03:59 PM
Wow, Bengalis and Pakis arguing, and I can tell our fellow Indians are laughing at us. First of all I'm Bengali and most of my freinds are Paki so I'll speak on a neutral stand.
This is how I see it with a girl guy relationships and it's true. One of my frinds has three bhabis all are Pakistanis and their husbands (my freind's cousins) are Bangladeshis, and things are great in their relationships.
Relationships in which there is a Bengali guy and a Paki girl works out fine, because the Bengali guy doesn't care about history and doesn't bring it up with his Paki girl he just loves her. On the other hand when we have a Paki guy and a Bengali girl things don't work out too well because the Paki guy brings out the lies from what he was taught (it's not his fault) about the past and, obviously Bengalis being proud people, she will stand up and argue and defend her blood.
My family were killed both by Paki soldiers and AL Bengalis so we're on a neutral stand here we got hit on both sides in East Pakistan.
The reason old generation don't like Pakis because most Pakis are Punjabis; however they have no problem with other Pakis. All of my close freinds are Kashmiri, Bengali (not Bangladeshi), Mohajirs, Gujurati, all from Pakistan, but none of them are Punjabis. I think Punjabi guys are too proud to admit to any faults that's why Bengalis can't get along with them.
However, as a Bengali, the war is over and I think we should not bring it up.
bonita_larki
June 2nd, 2008, 08:30 PM
My freind is a paki girl and she her boyfriend is bengali. They get along real well. but its going to be hard when they have to meet each other parents.
ajcrunk
June 2nd, 2008, 09:45 PM
My freind is a paki girl and she her boyfriend is bengali. They get along real well. but its going to be hard when they have to meet each other parents.
yeah a Paki girl and Bengali guy would get along fine, im sure it'll work out with the parents since the guy is Bengali
lil_gangsta_
October 24th, 2008, 09:50 PM
i got the same prob here :(
the love doc
October 24th, 2008, 09:54 PM
Okay, so my friend boyfriend who is Pakistani and she is Bengali had a fight over the stupidest thing which was the history of the war between these two countries which led to a fight between her saying "this is why there going to be fights with your family and I" the guy started laughing but she is concerned with it apparently her dad hates Punjabi Pakistani, I just wanna why would Bengali’s and Pakistani’s getting married be a problem like there both Muslim, what the problem with it?
just cuz there from 2 differnt counties.........................
ZaneSpeed
November 9th, 2008, 09:07 PM
The Pakistani army committed mass genocide and mass rape in the 1971 war. The scale of death, destruction and raping was huge and disgusting. How would you feel if members of your family were murdered or raped? That's the reason for the animosity.
Ozzy-
November 9th, 2008, 09:20 PM
The Pakistani army committed mass genocide and mass rape in the 1971 war. The scale of death, destruction and raping was huge and disgusting. How would you feel if members of your family were murdered or raped? That's the reason for the animosity.
Oh you were alive in 1971? Interesting.
HeAvYmAcHiNeGuN
November 10th, 2008, 09:39 AM
Stop bumping Old threads :mad:
zarahomme
November 10th, 2008, 09:50 AM
interesting topic....but...both are arabic blood...why fight no :sarb:
hazardus
December 19th, 2008, 04:20 AM
From experience, bengali + pakistani.
Wont work. No matter how hard you try, the family and or the extended family dont want it to work.
I am bengali - i sadly have finally had my eyes 'fOrCeD' open.
Would never wish on my worst enemy, what i seen and witnessed, heard and went through :-(
Goodluck
P.S. If i was a man of hatred and revenge, rather than eternal forgiveness and 'mercy' ..... .... ... .. .
People forget i could be a twisted, sick, nasty and canniving mofo as well.
BigPimpN
December 19th, 2008, 07:05 AM
im bengali & dating a paki chick.
and guess what else? her dad is ex-pk army.
perhaps i should just shoot myself before he does.
but seriously, the war wasnt that long ago. alot of younger pakistanis know almost nothing of it. some will testify that they won the war (wtf?). but whatever, its our grandparents beef and we should not be fighting over it in relationships. theres a strong distinction between the bengali and paki culture, i think issues would lie there moreso than over who won the war.
xreaafawerdes
December 30th, 2008, 03:04 PM
Okay, so my friend boyfriend who is Pakistani and she is Bengali had a fight over the stupidest thing which was the history of the war between these two countries which led to a fight between her saying "this is why there going to be fights with your family and I" the guy started laughing but she is concerned with it apparently her dad hates Punjabi Pakistani, I just wanna why would Bengali’s and Pakistani’s getting married be a problem like there both Muslim, what the problem with it?
I dont care for either
miss b
December 31st, 2008, 06:24 PM
all parents usually want the girl / guy to marry someone who they know or in the same culture...so bengali to marry bengali and pakistani to marry pakistani.
i mean all in all same if your all Muslim - but nowadays aint really about religion - its culture. Islamically a female can marry anyone who is a Muslim really, with willing parents, but the thing is it is more often than ever that parents want to be parents and knwo the family who you are marrying into - i think it is a security thing, they try to give you all the ingredients for a potentially successful marriage!??!
HU55AIN
December 31st, 2008, 06:31 PM
Secondly Bengalis r the best....... Ghandis Mahrta wit his doctrine of majoritism of democarcy and benglais being the majourity we did not seek to surpress any creed of man oh yeah..
LOL. OK.
Oh and Pakistan > Bangladesh..:lol:
jumpn jza
December 31st, 2008, 07:11 PM
Okay, so my friend boyfriend who is Pakistani and she is Bengali had a fight over the stupidest thing which was the history of the war between these two countries which led to a fight between her saying "this is why there going to be fights with your family and I" the guy started laughing but she is concerned with it apparently her dad hates Punjabi Pakistani, I just wanna why would Bengali’s and Pakistani’s getting married be a problem like there both Muslim, what the problem with it?
'WONDER' DOES NOT EQUAL 'WANNA'
HU55AIN
December 31st, 2008, 07:15 PM
'WONDER' DOES NOT EQUAL 'WANNA'
Hes British Bengali, duh/:no:
JayJai
January 1st, 2009, 11:48 AM
The Pakistani army committed mass genocide and mass rape in the 1971 war. The scale of death, destruction and raping was huge and disgusting. How would you feel if members of your family were murdered or raped? That's the reason for the animosity.
so are you saying that in theory the friends in this case could be brother and sister?
naz4
January 1st, 2009, 06:31 PM
Okay, so my friend boyfriend who is Pakistani and she is Bengali had a fight over the stupidest thing which was the history of the war between these two countries which led to a fight between her saying "this is why there going to be fights with your family and I" the guy started laughing but she is concerned with it apparently her dad hates Punjabi Pakistani, I just wanna why would Bengali’s and Pakistani’s getting married be a problem like there both Muslim, what the problem with it?
both bengali and pakistani people think that they are superior over one another, sure they both are muslims however competition between them is fierece
Onyx
January 3rd, 2009, 02:15 AM
errr shutup
2nd.
banshod
January 3rd, 2009, 02:47 AM
I never even knew bengali's existed before i came to rate desi.
shadman,t
January 3rd, 2009, 03:51 AM
I never even knew bengali's existed before i came to rate desi.
thats perfect just keep ignoring us . that way no one will insult each other .
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