sikh guy/muslim girl..someone HELP

[harpreetpannu89]

I know about the crazy sarcasm on this forum and im not sure how much this topic has been talked about but please i literally feel stressed like shit right now so please...give me some advice

so im 19 in uni and im dating this muslim girl for like 7 months now and my parents dont know..her parents dont know...thats not an issue tho our parents are pretty lenient about relationships...me and her have soo much in common and we get along really amazingly. The problem is that as pessimistic as it seems, theres like a 99% chance our relationship wont last..like its a doomed relationship because of the whole religion thing..and like lately whenever i see her i feel really sad becasue i cant stop thinkning about us breaking up over something as outdated (thats just my opinion) as religion. I like her wayy to much to break up with her right now.... Dont get me wrong, I am a Sikh, i make sure i go to gurdwara at twice a month and i respect sikh values...but as selfish as it seems i dont agree with the Muslim/sikh marriages are forbidden stuff...and like now we dont have the same relationship as we used to....we used to be a really happy couple like me always teasing her and her laughing and stuff and now its just turned into this weird relationship where we both find time to chill during our spares and end up sitting quiet and occasionally kissing and then going back to sitting quiet...we fixed it and everything went back to normal for like a week but now its the exact same as it used to be..I dont know waht to do... and please please please dont say "you shouldnt have gotten in the relationship in the first palce" because as logical as that may sound i cant change the past and who i want to be wiht.... im dont want to sound like a pussy asking about this...but i dont give a shit i feel like shit... :sarb:

[RacingSoul]

oye aa ki kita oyee?? :no:

sorry, i was talking to myself...i just pissed myself reading that.

[baliwala]

you've only been going out with her for 3 months....you need to chill out

[Punjabi_Link]

All I have to say to you is good luck!

[illin]

i was in the same situation as you except the other way around, a few years ago. all i can say is, the sooner you end it, the easier it'll be to get over it. The longer you keep it going, the more its gona hurt when you have to split up.

But if you guys decide you wana go for it, good luck to you man.

[PinkPowerRanger]

first, i have to commend ur badassnes for creating a username thats called harpreetpannu. like seriously.woah.

second, just let it run its course, homes. im too tired to say anything else.

[baliwala]

why did you change the length of your relationship from 3 months to 7?

[PRCIV]

leave her and get on with your life

[Monica152]

Your wasting your time,
I used to know a sikh guy dating a muslim girl, he ended up converting but in the end was happy.
Do what make you happy.

[T.Dimera]

you're 19 so i'm gonna peep you on the game from my perspective and i'm 27. No matter how you and your girl think about religion and relationships...her perspective will change as she gets older guarenteed.

There are so many guys out there that date muslim girls....for years...and then she hits her mid to late 20s...realizes she wants a muslim guy...and her boyfriend all of a sudden finds himself being dumped...and on the dating scene again with no clue. Most of these guys are not young any more either and are paying the price for being so naive thinking it could work.

learn from the misfortune of others....take it for what its worth

[j2k339050]

dude.. your thinking too fast.. too far ahead in the future.. relax. think about the moment your currently in and enjoy it while it lasts.. your both in love.. enough said.. so stop worrying about it. you both love each other dont let religion come between that.. sure you both can have respect for each others religion but hey if you both get along great as friends and as a couple and are in love what more can you ask for? Live for the moment your currently in now cause you never know when it will be gone. there said my peace.

[Dream_GirL]

I know about the crazy sarcasm on this forum and im not sure how much this topic has been talked about but please i literally feel stressed like shit right now so please...give me some advice

so im 19 in uni and im dating this muslim girl for like 7 months now and my parents dont know..her parents dont know...thats not an issue tho our parents are pretty lenient about relationships...me and her have soo much in common and we get along really amazingly. The problem is that as pessimistic as it seems, theres like a 99% chance our relationship wont last..like its a doomed relationship because of the whole religion thing..and like lately whenever i see her i feel really sad becasue i cant stop thinkning about us breaking up over something as outdated (thats just my opinion) as religion. I like her wayy to much to break up with her right now.... Dont get me wrong, I am a Sikh, i make sure i go to gurdwara at twice a month and i respect sikh values...but as selfish as it seems i dont agree with the Muslim/sikh marriages are forbidden stuff...and like now we dont have the same relationship as we used to....we used to be a really happy couple like me always teasing her and her laughing and stuff and now its just turned into this weird relationship where we both find time to chill during our spares and end up sitting quiet and occasionally kissing and then going back to sitting quiet...we fixed it and everything went back to normal for like a week but now its the exact same as it used to be..I dont know waht to do... and please please please dont say "you shouldnt have gotten in the relationship in the first palce" because as logical as that may sound i cant change the past and who i want to be wiht.... im dont want to sound like a pussy asking about this...but i dont give a shit i feel like shit... :sarb:
awww ur still a ..baby.. well firstly why are u talkin marriage at such an early age i mean are u sure ur goin to marry dis girl.. i know sometimes it feels like uve met de "one" but it doesnt necessarily mean you'll end up together.. however if u do... say in de next couple of years when u finsih watever ur doin.. im guessin ur studying.. finish dat FIRST.. get up on ur own feet n elope.. dats de only way ur gunna be wid her if u ever want to unless u want her parents to kill her? .. think smart not hard *wink wink*

[Dream_GirL]

why did you change the length of your relationship from 3 months to 7?
lol u noticed?? hmmm

[goose_bump]

I know 2 Sikh guys who married to Muslim girls and their marriage is a success and they are blessed with kids, The problem is only during the first few months thereafter everything is cool.
So just take it easy and be cool.

[vsaigal]

im not suprised this thread died out.

[phishuff]

troll

[payaldvd]

yeah my boyfriend is muslim we went to a similar thing but we are still together and its been three years now i know so many of my girlfriends that dated muslims guys did too but at the end some of them broke up and others didn't it a personal thing but by the way u are talking i think u might not really love her and maybe u need a break to think about it for awhile and if this is something u are strong enough to deal with or if u want it at all.

[jat_jatt_sardar]

Dont get me wrong, I am a Sikh, i make sure i go to gurdwara at twice a month and i respect sikh values...but as selfish as it seems i dont agree with the Muslim/sikh marriages are forbidden stuff...and like now we dont have the same relationship as we used to....we used to be a really happy couple like me always teasing her and her laughing and stuff and now its just turned into this weird relationship where we both find time to chill during our spares and end up sitting quiet and occasionally kissing and then going back to sitting quiet...we fixed it and everything went back to normal for like a week but now its the exact same as it used to be..I dont know waht to do... and please please please dont say "you shouldnt have gotten in the relationship in the first palce" because as logical as that may sound i cant change the past and who i want to be wiht.... :sarb:
oi mundeya, on one hand u say u go gurdwara and respect sikh values, on the other hand tu puthe firan waleh dating kum karda and kissing and other bakwass, maybe u should behave with more jatt di annakh and izzat mr pannu jatt be4 u try and do the ritualistic and religious stuff. Jatta da munda ah jai nehi, jatta di behzti na kar.

Stupid romance walhe kum, bloody stand up and be more modest, tu jatt ah jatt. I know aj kal "religious" people be "religious" then go snog and tur fir like lafungay. Seriously younger generation
:no:

ah man u really gave a negative view for younger generation, ah well. i'm glad the kuri not from a traditional jatt family, cos they would have done "break some legs" stuff by now if they heard what you were doing with their kurri.

i wouldn;t have said all that stuff if u didn;t play the being religious card, so don't try and blame me!!! :-P

*from a hardcore traditional jatt*
satsriakal

[idonknw]

I know about the crazy sarcasm on this forum and im not sure how much this topic has been talked about but please i literally feel stressed like shit right now so please...give me some advice

so im 19 in uni and im dating this muslim girl for like 7 months now and my parents dont know..her parents dont know...thats not an issue tho our parents are pretty lenient about relationships...me and her have soo much in common and we get along really amazingly. The problem is that as pessimistic as it seems, theres like a 99% chance our relationship wont last..like its a doomed relationship because of the whole religion thing..and like lately whenever i see her i feel really sad becasue i cant stop thinkning about us breaking up over something as outdated (thats just my opinion) as religion. I like her wayy to much to break up with her right now.... Dont get me wrong, I am a Sikh, i make sure i go to gurdwara at twice a month and i respect sikh values...but as selfish as it seems i dont agree with the Muslim/sikh marriages are forbidden stuff...and like now we dont have the same relationship as we used to....we used to be a really happy couple like me always teasing her and her laughing and stuff and now its just turned into this weird relationship where we both find time to chill during our spares and end up sitting quiet and occasionally kissing and then going back to sitting quiet...we fixed it and everything went back to normal for like a week but now its the exact same as it used to be..I dont know waht to do... and please please please dont say "you shouldnt have gotten in the relationship in the first palce" because as logical as that may sound i cant change the past and who i want to be wiht.... im dont want to sound like a pussy asking about this...but i dont give a shit i feel like shit... :sarb:

dude, im the same age as you..except im a girl lol. I've been through a similar problem and it really made me think all of the apects because i believe that religion shouldnt come in the way if you truly like someone, but then there are parents out there that do care. You mentioned that both of your parents dont care about you guys dating each other...which is a great thing! so now the only problems are problems between you and her? remember that your only 19, and there's no need to get so serious about this as of now...so juss date each other casually and go with the flow,and consider the areas where you guys are having problems, and try to make them better...if it works then great for you guys, and if it doesnt then it juss wont. Seems to me that you really like her, and you seem serious with this...so do what you think is right, and go ahead with her. :wavey:

[idonknw]

you've only been going out with her for 3 months....you need to chill out

the Artmalik quote that you have in your sig is frigin hilarious, each time i read it, it cracks me up big time! omg. :rofl:

[sonia999]

I read your post and first off, I agree with the responses on here, you've only been dating for a few months so, I wouldn't stress over it. Also, you're young...19. I think what might be stressing you out is the possibility of a long-term relationship. If you put aside all those feelings about muslim vs sikh and stay true to yourself in what you want in a person, it'll be ok. Religion divides people. If you look past it all, we're all the one and the same. Seriously, it may seem like a big thing right now, but as you mature and grow with age, you'll realize this. It may seem like you are under a microscope...but belive me there are far more important things in life. Just make sure you are happy. And when I say, ensure you are happy, really think deep inside what makes you whole excluding all the indirect negatives that are impacting your thoughts..... Live for the moment...and have fun. Just chill... I also was in the same boat. Things worked out well...and I had a lot of the same feelings you have. Sometimes it takes a bit of thinking and finding out what you really want in life....

Sonia
www.GoMilni.com

[desi_uk]

I know about the crazy sarcasm on this forum and im not sure how much this topic has been talked about but please i literally feel stressed like shit right now so please...give me some advice

so im 19 in uni and im dating this muslim girl for like 7 months now and my parents dont know..her parents dont know...thats not an issue tho our parents are pretty lenient about relationships...me and her have soo much in common and we get along really amazingly. The problem is that as pessimistic as it seems, theres like a 99% chance our relationship wont last..like its a doomed relationship because of the whole religion thing..and like lately whenever i see her i feel really sad becasue i cant stop thinkning about us breaking up over something as outdated (thats just my opinion) as religion. I like her wayy to much to break up with her right now.... Dont get me wrong, I am a Sikh, i make sure i go to gurdwara at twice a month and i respect sikh values...but as selfish as it seems i dont agree with the Muslim/sikh marriages are forbidden stuff...and like now we dont have the same relationship as we used to....we used to be a really happy couple like me always teasing her and her laughing and stuff and now its just turned into this weird relationship where we both find time to chill during our spares and end up sitting quiet and occasionally kissing and then going back to sitting quiet...we fixed it and everything went back to normal for like a week but now its the exact same as it used to be..I dont know waht to do... and please please please dont say "you shouldnt have gotten in the relationship in the first palce" because as logical as that may sound i cant change the past and who i want to be wiht.... im dont want to sound like a pussy asking about this...but i dont give a shit i feel like shit... :sarb:

flex out man just give it time if you two really love each other then you will work it out just stay in contact with her and if its just a fling then thats part of life coz you meet many people in your life until you find the right one.....i think

[jat_jatt_sardar]

harpeet dating walhe kum :no:
naa kar mundeya naa kar, ukal waleh kum kar lol

[¤ * HoneY * ¤]

how can someone love on conditions...i dont understand... im muslim but still cant understand why we cant marry non muslim guys... i mean nowadays muslim guys dont pray,have casual sex, etc... so whts the diference between them and a christian or a sikh or whateva? just thats he was born muslim.. its so double standard i dotn understand... wht if you fall in love with a sikh guy, wht if a sikh cares for you... shud you dump him to marry a muslim who probably wont love you like this sikh guy used to ... i dont know... i beleive in love .. and sometimes i think why we cant marry in other religions, cos isnt is said in islam that "jannat wahan hai jis dil me pyar hai, jahanum vahan hai jis dil me payr nahi" it means you can find heaven in a heart full ov love and hell in a heart who doent know how to love... so now that i know this, how can i believe that heaven is in the heart that loves but only on conditions... must love a muslim guy... im sooo confused...anyways i wuldnt leave my bf if i love him just cos he's not muslim
its true that i'll face many pbm but i shud have given this point a thaught before goin out wid him. shud have known its wont work ... i will neva hurt the one i love just cos i realize i want a muslim... everyone shud think about all these things before makin someone fall in love.. i mean its like desis in france realizin they cant marry desis girls here cos their parents want a girl frm pakistan... why the hell dont we think about all dis before? we're just soooooooooo double standards

[Shariq16]

how can someone love on conditions...i dont understand... im muslim but still cant understand why we cant marry non muslim guys... i mean nowadays muslim guys dont pray,have casual sex, etc... so whts the diference between them and a christian or a sikh or whateva? just thats he was born muslim.. its so double standard i dotn understand... wht if you fall in love with a sikh guy, wht if a sikh cares for you... shud you dump him to marry a muslim who probably wont love you like this sikh guy used to ... i dont know... i beleive in love .. and sometimes i think why we cant marry in other religions, cos isnt is said in islam that "jannat wahan hai jis dil me pyar hai, jahanum vahan hai jis dil me payr nahi" it means you can find heaven in a heart full ov love and hell in a heart who doent know how to love... so now that i know this, how can i believe that heaven is in the heart that loves but only on conditions... must love a muslim guy... im sooo confused...anyways i wuldnt leave my bf if i love him just cos he's not muslim
its true that i'll face many pbm but i shud have given this point a thaught before goin out wid him. shud have known its wont work ... i will neva hurt the one i love just cos i realize i want a muslim... everyone shud think about all these things before makin someone fall in love.. i mean its like desis in france realizin they cant marry desis girls here cos their parents want a girl frm pakistan... why the hell dont we think about all dis before? we're just soooooooooo double standards
okay first off, yer ridiculous.
secondly: the reason why u can't marry non-muslims is because think about what your children will be like w/out religion...muslim men can marry anyone throughout the people of the book, which is jews christians and muslims, but he is responsible for having his kids follow islam.
thirdly: u shouldn't judge all muslim men just because of the ones u've been with or seen..?
fourth: that quote u took, is taken out of context, it means, you should love things instead of hate things...love your family have love for the poor etc...btw? are you sure that quote is in the quran? or even a hadith?i mean i think its a pakistani quote rather than an Islamic quote
5th: how do u make someone fall in love..? in my definition: Love is your soul's recognition of its sole partner in life... u don't MAKE someone fall in love w/ u..it just happens.
6: do u even know the meaning of double standards?

[Shariq16]

oi mundeya, on one hand u say u go gurdwara and respect sikh values, on the other hand tu puthe firan waleh dating kum karda and kissing and other bakwass, maybe u should behave with more jatt di annakh and izzat mr pannu jatt be4 u try and do the ritualistic and religious stuff. Jatta da munda ah jai nehi, jatta di behzti na kar.

Stupid romance walhe kum, bloody stand up and be more modest, tu jatt ah jatt. I know aj kal "religious" people be "religious" then go snog and tur fir like lafungay. Seriously younger generation
:no:

ah man u really gave a negative view for younger generation, ah well. i'm glad the kuri not from a traditional jatt family, cos they would have done "break some legs" stuff by now if they heard what you were doing with their kurri.

i wouldn;t have said all that stuff if u didn;t play the being religious card, so don't try and blame me!!! :-P

*from a hardcore traditional jatt*
satsriakal
dude..yer a creep...

and are no dr. phil.

[-Ziad-]

okay first off, yer ridiculous.
secondly: the reason why u can't marry non-muslims is because think about what your children will be like w/out religion...muslim men can marry anyone throughout the people of the book, which is jews christians and muslims, but he is responsible for having his kids follow islam.
thirdly: u shouldn't judge all muslim men just because of the ones u've been with or seen..?
fourth: that quote u took, is taken out of context, it means, you should love things instead of hate things...love your family have love for the poor etc...btw? are you sure that quote is in the quran? or even a hadith?i mean i think its a pakistani quote rather than an Islamic quote
5th: how do u make someone fall in love..? in my definition: Love is your soul's recognition of its sole partner in life... u don't MAKE someone fall in love w/ u..it just happens.
6: do u even know the meaning of double standards?
haha ignore *honey*, she's usually a fucking moron and spewing muslim/paki hatred posts. some paki dumped her so she takes it out on rd :no:

[jat_jatt_sardar]

dude..yer a creep...

and are no dr. phil.

did i strike a nerve? me and mr pannu ar having a jatt on jatt talk so shush kid
:shhh:
jatts don't need dr phil. dr phil needs jatts ;)

[Shariq16]

haha ignore *honey*, she's usually a fucking moron and spewing muslim/paki hatred posts. some paki dumped her so she takes it out on rd :no:
i'd dump her too...
wait no, i wouldn't even date her.
:ugh:

[Shariq16]

did i strike a nerve? me and mr pannu ar having a jatt on jatt talk so shush kid
:shhh:
jatts don't need dr phil. dr phil needs jatts ;)
lol...last time i checked, it takes 2 to have a conversation...and seeing as his post count is at 1....
lol and u didn't strike a note...

[-Ziad-]

i'd dump her too...
wait no, i wouldn't even date her.
:ugh:
werd G.

and let jattsardar go, he's cool. just trying to put some sense into him, is correct in a way.

[Shariq16]

werd G.

and let jattsardar go, he's cool. just trying to put some sense into him, is correct in a way.
thanks for the advice..
na he seems funny...
i was just messin.

[bored_med_stu]

how can someone love on conditions...i dont understand... im muslim but still cant understand why we cant marry non muslim guys... i mean nowadays muslim guys dont pray,have casual sex, etc... so whts the diference between them and a christian or a sikh or whateva? just thats he was born muslim.. its so double standard i dotn understand... wht if you fall in love with a sikh guy, wht if a sikh cares for you... shud you dump him to marry a muslim who probably wont love you like this sikh guy used to ... i dont know... i beleive in love .. and sometimes i think why we cant marry in other religions, cos isnt is said in islam that "jannat wahan hai jis dil me pyar hai, jahanum vahan hai jis dil me payr nahi" it means you can find heaven in a heart full ov love and hell in a heart who doent know how to love... so now that i know this, how can i believe that heaven is in the heart that loves but only on conditions... must love a muslim guy... im sooo confused...anyways i wuldnt leave my bf if i love him just cos he's not muslim
its true that i'll face many pbm but i shud have given this point a thaught before goin out wid him. shud have known its wont work ... i will neva hurt the one i love just cos i realize i want a muslim... everyone shud think about all these things before makin someone fall in love.. i mean its like desis in france realizin they cant marry desis girls here cos their parents want a girl frm pakistan... why the hell dont we think about all dis before? we're just soooooooooo double standards


first of all u think lov is some amazing thing that gives life meaning. Don't be a wolly. All this love shit is made up so much. Everyone falling in love evry 5 minutes and people in love for 3-4 yrs get married and then get divorced after 3 months. Where's ur love now u idiots?

Otherwise i agree with what u are saying. I hate that people call themselves muslims and don't practice anything about it. More so Muslims out there don't know anything about Islam so how can they even say they've made a conscious choice?

If people don't practice islam thats their choice. Marrying a muslim guy should be about a way of life. You practice your religion and believe in it and u want someone to expand ur mind in terms of religion. If thats what u dont want then don't marry a muslim (and i refer to muslims as ones who practice FULLY)

[Shariq16]

first of all u think lov is some amazing thing that gives life meaning. Don't be a wolly. All this love shit is made up so much. Everyone falling in love evry 5 minutes and people in love for 3-4 yrs get married and then get divorced after 3 months. Where's ur love now u idiots?

Otherwise i agree with what u are saying. I'm a practicing muslims. Practicaing straight down the line. No BS and stuff and i hate that people call themselves muslims and don't practice anything about it. More so Muslims out there don't know anything about Islam so how can they even say they've made a conscious choice?

If people don't practice islam thats their choice. Marrying a muslim guy should be about a way of life. You practice your religion and believe in it and u want someone to expand ur mind in terms of religion. If thats what u dont want then don't marry a muslim (and i refer to muslims as ones who practice FULLY)
only ONE can judge..
and thats Allah..not u.

[bored_med_stu]

*EDIT* this threads not about Shariq16 and my love affair

[Shariq16]

where am i judging? i'm just stating fact.

muslims dont practice (of course a general statement) and muslims don't know about their religion (generalisation again).
yea u say it as in because u are more by the book then some muslims, yer a better person/muslim...but wait doesn't Islam stress the value of Unity?? so by disobeying this, you aren't as well practicing as you think you are...like i said, there are many things one can judge by, but in the end, the only judgement that matters is that of Allah's...so don't go and brag about how by the book or straight lined muslim you are, because thats something that Islam doesn't condone.
kthanksbye.

[bored_med_stu]

*EDIT* this threads not about Shariq16's and my love affair

[Shariq16]

i never said i was a better person/muslim. just ur presuming thinks and that doesnt mean u can call me judgemental.

also i didnt brag i said i was straight down the line. Maybe i had an easy life or good teachers. Maybe i've had everything anyone could want in life so 1000 times more is expected of me.

I think ur just showing how judgemental u are by presuming things which werent stated. I talk to people on here and show them the respect they deserve even though A) they aren't muslim B) they have a pretty unislamic lifestyle (drug addiction, sleeping with loads of guys, etc).

Treat them like any other person who i know and want to be in contact with, muslim or not

Maybe u need to talk to them before u continue showing ur judegemental side
really?? and thats done w/ all of your 8 posts?..
k newb..
allah-hafiz and shubakhair

[bored_med_stu]

really?? and thats done w/ all of your 8 posts?..
k newb..
allah-hafiz and shubakhair


umm and because i've only posted 8 times with this account i suppose thats why i've known people from here for up to 2 years?

k newb allah-hafiz and shubakhair.

[¤ * HoneY * ¤]

first of all u think lov is some amazing thing that gives life meaning. Don't be a wolly. All this love shit is made up so much. Everyone falling in love evry 5 minutes and people in love for 3-4 yrs get married and then get divorced after 3 months. Where's ur love now u idiots?

Otherwise i agree with what u are saying. I hate that people call themselves muslims and don't practice anything about it. More so Muslims out there don't know anything about Islam so how can they even say they've made a conscious choice?

If people don't practice islam thats their choice. Marrying a muslim guy should be about a way of life. You practice your religion and believe in it and u want someone to expand ur mind in terms of religion. If thats what u dont want then don't marry a muslim (and i refer to muslims as ones who practice FULLY)
if there wasnt anythin called love in dis world you think it wud be mentionned in Coran?....and ppl dont fall in love every 5 min its just infatuation.. ppl get divorced but dont they after an arranged marriage so wht will you say we shudnt getmarried...? im not an idiot... i know there is somethin called love in dis world...if you dont wanna beleive in it dont.. but pls dont judge ppl who beleive in it and respect it.
i practise, pray 5 times and if cant then cme back home and do my missed prayers but still im sayin, if you cant love wht god has made (human beings) you cant love god either....

[¤ * HoneY * ¤]

only ONE can judge..
and thats Allah..not u.
thanks lol i totally agree wid you!

[Shariq16]

umm and because i've only posted 8 times with this account i suppose thats why i've known people from here for up to 2 years?

k newb allah-hafiz and shubakhair.
me the newb?
even w/ 2 years..
i got u beat w/ 3..
newbie.

[-Ziad-]

if there wasnt anythin called love in dis world you think it wud be mentionned in Coran?....and ppl dont fall in love every 5 min its just infatuation.. ppl get divorced but dont they after an arranged marriage so wht will you say we shudnt getmarried...? im not an idiot... i know there is somethin called love in dis world...if you dont wanna beleive in it dont.. but pls dont judge ppl who beleive in it and respect it.
i practise, pray 5 times and if cant then cme back home and do my missed prayers but still im sayin, if you cant love wht god has made (human beings) you cant love god either....You can't even spell 'quran' straight.

lol. i smell a fake.

but if you do do all that, good on you.

[PakiBabyBoo]

You can't even spell 'quran' straight.

lol. i smell a fake.

but if you do do all that, good on you.

Exactly what I was thinking!

[bored_med_stu]

Exactly what I was thinking!

Ditto. the fact that she says she prays 5 times a day and then is getting pissed off that people want to marry from another religion, just doesnt make sense.

I mean who would pray 5 times a day, not drink not smoke and then happily have their hubby do all that with their kids.

Then again there are always exceptions to the rules

[bored_med_stu]

me the newb?
even w/ 2 years..
i got u beat w/ 3..
newbie.


awwww baby. i've know people for two years, didnt say i havent been on here longer.

btw anyone tell u u look a bit like that guy from 10 things i hate about u?

[¤ * HoneY * ¤]

i spell it coran cos in french we spell it Coran... nothin else... and i neva said im pissed off by ppl who wanna get married in their own religion, i said if you cant afford to marry in another religion you shuldnt even try to go out wid this person
like im muslim and i know i need a muslim husband and im sayin muslim... not a guy who was born muslim but has nothin to do with islam like guys sleepin around, drinkin etc... thats wht i said and as i know i cant marry a non muslim i wont even try to go out wid a guy who's not muslim then break his heart sayin sorry cant marry you... whts the point goin wid someone if you know you wont marry him thats wht i said... so if you cant read thats not my pbm...
and im sayin it again i hate muslim guys who dont know anythin about islam, point out small mistakes like spelling mistakes ov the word Coran or Quran...but do exactly like non muslim guys then say we're muslim we want a muslim girl... i said i hate muslim guys sleepin around then askin for a decent muslim girl, i hate muslim guys who can go out with a non muslim girl but wont marry her... and no matter wht you reply you make no sense... so wht is it that you cant understand, and that makes no sense?....
if i ever fall for a non muslim i'd tell right at the beginning that i want him to change his religion otherwise it wont be possible for us to stay together... if he doesnt to change at least i wudnt break his heart after 3 years ... its so disgusting to hurt someone why do we realize these things after soo long! shud think about it at the beginning .. is it fair to hurt someone just cos we forgot we're muslim and cant marry other religion?... breakin someones heart, hurtin someone or deceiving someone is as bad as gettin married in other religions! thats it! if you know you muslim you cant marry a girl frm other religion you shudnt go out wid her! her???... where 's your religion when yoiu go out wid her? when you spend time wid her etc... then all ov a sudden you realise "omg im muslim /sikh/hindu cant marry this person" i hate ppl like dat. double standards... who date but dont marry cos ov religion now think wht you want, i dont pray for you do i? so you really think i care if you think im fake?......

[PakiBabyBoo]

Ditto. the fact that she says she prays 5 times a day and then is getting pissed off that people want to marry from another religion, just doesnt make sense.

I mean who would pray 5 times a day, not drink not smoke and then happily have their hubby do all that with their kids.

Then again there are always exceptions to the rules

Thats not what I was agreeing with..
I was agreeing with her being a fake, or atleast looking like one

[PakiBabyBoo]

And to the thread maker:

If u can't deal with this urself, that just shows, that ur not mature/grown enough to get married anyway.. U knew what u got into, therefor - deal with it!

[gurveen89]

All I have to say to you is good luck!
ya i think thats the best one can say

[vsaigal]

its alive.

:no:

[Bincy]

its alive.

:no:
lol

[jat_jatt_sardar]

its alive.

:no:
what's alive?
:-s

[skyjuice]

who gives a fuck ..............fuck who you want when you want ...long time dead........

[Shariq16]

awwww baby. i've know people for two years, didnt say i havent been on here longer.

btw anyone tell u u look a bit like that guy from 10 things i hate about u?

lol yea i got that on another thread earlier..lol not sure how to take it?.. hey btw, i'm real sorry for bein an e-dick earlier..
i guess i was just in a mood bud.
i'm shariq btw, nice to meet u.
:wavey:

[jay_desi]

I know about the crazy sarcasm on this forum and im not sure how much this topic has been talked about but please i literally feel stressed like shit right now so please...give me some advice

so im 19 in uni and im dating this muslim girl for like 7 months now and my parents dont know..her parents dont know...thats not an issue tho our parents are pretty lenient about relationships...me and her have soo much in common and we get along really amazingly. The problem is that as pessimistic as it seems, theres like a 99% chance our relationship wont last..like its a doomed relationship because of the whole religion thing..and like lately whenever i see her i feel really sad becasue i cant stop thinkning about us breaking up over something as outdated (thats just my opinion) as religion. I like her wayy to much to break up with her right now.... Dont get me wrong, I am a Sikh, i make sure i go to gurdwara at twice a month and i respect sikh values...but as selfish as it seems i dont agree with the Muslim/sikh marriages are forbidden stuff...and like now we dont have the same relationship as we used to....we used to be a really happy couple like me always teasing her and her laughing and stuff and now its just turned into this weird relationship where we both find time to chill during our spares and end up sitting quiet and occasionally kissing and then going back to sitting quiet...we fixed it and everything went back to normal for like a week but now its the exact same as it used to be..I dont know waht to do... and please please please dont say "you shouldnt have gotten in the relationship in the first palce" because as logical as that may sound i cant change the past and who i want to be wiht.... im dont want to sound like a pussy asking about this...but i dont give a shit i feel like shit... :sarb:


who gives a shyt man?