need serious help

[bongo_bondhu]

hi my fellow mates. im having girl problem n i need help coz i really f*ckd up with my gf. so this is how it starts.

she didnt txt me in 4 days so i was mad at her. on the 5th day i get a msg from her asking if i was still alive. so then ive decided 2 get back at her so i txt her back from my bros phone n said that i got shot dead 2 days ago. n she believed it n was crying 4 a few hours. when i went 2 surprise her at her place i found out that she was really upset n was crying coz she thought i was dead. n now she really hates me n broke up with me. i want 2 get back with her coz i really like her n i care abt her n i know i did something very stupid. so tell me how can i get her back n wat can i do. everytime i try 2 reach her she tells me 2 fuck off n leave her alone. im confused n i donno wat 2 do . can u guys please help me. i really like this girl. n i hate myself 4 playing with her feelings n her emotions. how can she 4give me? wat can i do 2 make it better? any suggestions?? please help me out. thanks

[pakilicious911]

do you live in pakistan by any chance?

[madam_jade]

LOL, wtf. That's your final result? Post-edit and all?

[uglyDuckling]

Heyy don't let her tears go to waste.

Why don't you really shoot yourself? :rolleyes:







k k that was mean but really that was mighty stupid of you. And I think it would be mighty stupid of her to forgive you for that!

Ouch .. I'm mean today .. sorry.

[PinkPowerRanger]

Why dont you ask someone to bussa cap in yo ass and then be like see i got shot fer real!, so now she feels like she had a good reason to cry and your still alive as well. ( you might just limp around a bit for the rest of your life btw)

[candle23]

she got over you while she was mourning over your death. forget this girl and don't joke about your death with your next gf. :rolleyes:

[piñacolada<3]

a) you are an idiot for saying that
b) shes a bigger idiot bc she actually believed it

[London_Man]

bongo? are u from tanzania my friend?

[idonknw]

hi my fellow mates. im having girl problem n i need help coz i really f*ckd up with my gf. so this is how it starts.

she didnt txt me in 4 days so i was mad at her. on the 5th day i get a msg from her asking if i was still alive. so then ive decided 2 get back at her so i txt her back from my bros phone n said that i got shot dead 2 days ago. n she believed it n was crying 4 a few hours. when i went 2 surprise her at her place i found out that she was really upset n was crying coz she thought i was dead. n now she really hates me n broke up with me. i want 2 get back with her coz i really like her n i care abt her n i know i did something very stupid. so tell me how can i get her back n wat can i do. everytime i try 2 reach her she tells me 2 fuck off n leave her alone. im confused n i donno wat 2 do . can u guys please help me. i really like this girl. n i hate myself 4 playing with her feelings n her emotions. how can she 4give me? wat can i do 2 make it better? any suggestions?? please help me out. thanks

:no: what have you done....
hun, if you were mad at her..if you wanted to go the 'smart' way then you should have talked to her, and told her str8 up that you were upset with her. Telling her that you were 'dead' was completely idiotic, lol. Hmm...if you REALLY do like her, then why would you say that to her in the first place...wouldnt you juss talk to her instead. But, i guess your admiting to the fact that you were stupid...so now...all you could do is basically phone her up, or go to her place...or even send her a short txt or somethin and apologize and be str8 up with her. She's prolly hurt and upset with you...thats why she's telling you to leave her alone. She aint comin back most likely until you apologize...and tell her how you feel. If she realllyyy likes you too...and you have a right way/honest way of apologizing to her, she may juss forgive you...but not sure. In this case, all you can do is talk to her, i dunno :neutral:

[bongo_bondhu]

ok its been exactly a freaking month taht im saying sorry 2 her n she still gives me the cold shoulder. i tried doing EVERYTHING but she's still mad and upset abt taht joke. i've been sending her flowers, got her a kitten, got her a gym membership which she was asking me since xmas time, i've even went back 2 school n took same class as her n sat beside her, and i've also talked 2 her mom n her frineds and they all say that i really broke her heart n that shes still upset abt it. i donno wat else 2 do. i really really like tihs girl n everything was perfect but i fucked up badly. any helps???? pleaseeeeee

[PRCIV]

u sound like a pussy ass mo-fo

[supremed]

you need to shoot yourself

[Pompeii]

You decided to get back at her by faking your own death? I don't know who's the guility party in this one, you for doing it or for her being gullible and believing you.

Just give it a few days, I'm sure she'll come around to her senses.

[itismyusername]

as soon as you mentioned "GF didn't text message me for 4 days"...i was pretty sure that you are from UK..and to confirm my belief, i checked your RD profile..it said CANADA..which disappointed me.

[bongo_bondhu]

so anybody has any serious advice 4 me??? waht would u guys do??? i dont wanna play mind games with her no more coz tahts how i got in this shit in the 1st place. so wat can i do 2 prove her that im really sorry taht i broke her heart n hurt her feelings n played with her emotions. i know i fucked up badly n now i really miss her. :(

[baliwala]

oh ok

[icekreamgirl12]

i'm tired of ppl making threads on love... enff already...

[vgirl]

aye, why would you do that? seems like a very not funny joke to play. realise the consequences.
hopefully she will forgive you with time.

[paki_guy786]

hi my fellow mates. im having girl problem n i need help coz i really f*ckd up with my gf. so this is how it starts.

she didnt txt me in 4 days so i was mad at her. on the 5th day i get a msg from her asking if i was still alive. so then ive decided 2 get back at her so i txt her back from my bros phone n said that i got shot dead 2 days ago. n she believed it n was crying 4 a few hours. when i went 2 surprise her at her place i found out that she was really upset n was crying coz she thought i was dead. n now she really hates me n broke up with me. i want 2 get back with her coz i really like her n i care abt her n i know i did something very stupid. so tell me how can i get her back n wat can i do. everytime i try 2 reach her she tells me 2 fuck off n leave her alone. im confused n i donno wat 2 do . can u guys please help me. i really like this girl. n i hate myself 4 playing with her feelings n her emotions. how can she 4give me? wat can i do 2 make it better? any suggestions?? please help me out. thanks


well bro your just dumb by sending text message about faking your death and no hard feelings, you should have called her up or went to her place and talk to her about it, but you sended her a text message by faking your death in order her to start talking to you again.

[_true_definition]

hi my fellow mates. im having girl problem n i need help coz i really f*ckd up with my gf. so this is how it starts.

she didnt txt me in 4 days so i was mad at her. on the 5th day i get a msg from her asking if i was still alive. so then ive decided 2 get back at her so i txt her back from my bros phone n said that i got shot dead 2 days ago. n she believed it n was crying 4 a few hours. when i went 2 surprise her at her place i found out that she was really upset n was crying coz she thought i was dead. n now she really hates me n broke up with me. i want 2 get back with her coz i really like her n i care abt her n i know i did something very stupid. so tell me how can i get her back n wat can i do. everytime i try 2 reach her she tells me 2 fuck off n leave her alone. im confused n i donno wat 2 do . can u guys please help me. i really like this girl. n i hate myself 4 playing with her feelings n her emotions. how can she 4give me? wat can i do 2 make it better? any suggestions?? please help me out. thanks


give her some time...it'll blow over. 99 problems but a bitch aint one of em :cool:

[itismyusername]

or maybe you can just text message her saying.."i am alive again, God sent me back on earth just for you":-o:wiggle:
if she still doesn't talk, then find another one..:cool:..this girl aint for you.

[gurveen89]

hi my fellow mates. im having girl problem n i need help coz i really f*ckd up with my gf. so this is how it starts.

she didnt txt me in 4 days so i was mad at her. on the 5th day i get a msg from her asking if i was still alive. so then ive decided 2 get back at her so i txt her back from my bros phone n said that i got shot dead 2 days ago. n she believed it n was crying 4 a few hours. when i went 2 surprise her at her place i found out that she was really upset n was crying coz she thought i was dead. n now she really hates me n broke up with me. i want 2 get back with her coz i really like her n i care abt her n i know i did something very stupid. so tell me how can i get her back n wat can i do. everytime i try 2 reach her she tells me 2 fuck off n leave her alone. im confused n i donno wat 2 do . can u guys please help me. i really like this girl. n i hate myself 4 playing with her feelings n her emotions. how can she 4give me? wat can i do 2 make it better? any suggestions?? please help me out. thanks

u must have seen sholay isnt it??.............so just get follow the footsteps of dharmendra paaji.............get on top of a water tank with a bottle of 'desi katta'............then not only basanti but mosiji will also agree.......

[Magpie2121]

i'm tired of ppl making threads on love... enff already...

Well this is the relationship and dating forum, what else are people gonna chat about?? Kabadi??

[k i s s e s]

just buy her some expensive things.

life is really not that hard.

[bongo_bondhu]

thanks 4 helping guys but she's still not talking n now she told me that she'll call cops on my ass coz she found out i was stalking her.lol fuuuudddgeeeeee im soooo desperateeee. i misss her soooo much. i donno wat 2 do. saying sorry donest matter no more. i relly blew up and the thing thats KILLING me is that i KNEW 4 a fact that this sick joke would bite me back in the ass and that she would get mad at me. but i had no idea that it would hurt her so much that she'll stop seeing me n break up with me. i really fucked up. wat woud u guys do 2 win back ur love ones???

[Ketamine-Abuse]

On the 5th day god created birds

[HU55AIN]

Have sum balls and tell the girl straight up u cant apologize all ur life.
tell her ' listen bitch, i been telling u all month im sorry, clearly u dnt give a shit, so now accept my fuckn aplology or pisss offf' that shud do it.

[killingeye]

hi my fellow mates. im having girl problem n i need help coz i really f*ckd up with my gf. so this is how it starts.

she didnt txt me in 4 days so i was mad at her. on the 5th day i get a msg from her asking if i was still alive. so then ive decided 2 get back at her so i txt her back from my bros phone n said that i got shot dead 2 days ago. n she believed it n was crying 4 a few hours. when i went 2 surprise her at her place i found out that she was really upset n was crying coz she thought i was dead. n now she really hates me n broke up with me. i want 2 get back with her coz i really like her n i care abt her n i know i did something very stupid. so tell me how can i get her back n wat can i do. everytime i try 2 reach her she tells me 2 fuck off n leave her alone. im confused n i donno wat 2 do . can u guys please help me. i really like this girl. n i hate myself 4 playing with her feelings n her emotions. how can she 4give me? wat can i do 2 make it better? any suggestions?? please help me out. thanks


fuck you and your Gf

*peaceout*

[idonknw]

thanks 4 helping guys but she's still not talking n now she told me that she'll call cops on my ass coz she found out i was stalking her.lol fuuuudddgeeeeee im soooo desperateeee. i misss her soooo much. i donno wat 2 do. saying sorry donest matter no more. i relly blew up and the thing thats KILLING me is that i KNEW 4 a fact that this sick joke would bite me back in the ass and that she would get mad at me. but i had no idea that it would hurt her so much that she'll stop seeing me n break up with me. i really fucked up. wat woud u guys do 2 win back ur love ones???

maybe she just doesnt want anything to do with you anymore? it seems to me that she is very hurt, maybe thas the reason she wont even accept apologies from you anymore. I dont understand that if you really like her and you knew that the joke would bite you back, then why did you even do that??
If its been a month and she still wont respond to you, to me that seems like she doesnt want anything to do with you no more....if you really like her then stop tryin to show her all the ways in which you are apologizing to her but face the problem and talk to her about it str8 up...otherwise in my opinion i see no other solution in order to win her back. If that doesnt work, then leave her alone and move on.

[cococrisp]

she's just using it as an excuse to get rid of ur ass....
she didnt text or contact u for 4 motherfuckin days, if u dont get the hint from that, then i guess a few fake tears and saying u played an insensitive joke with her was necessary....

move on son, its over....

[ELOQUENT_HEAT]

lmaoooooo
shit man u fucked up

[bongo_bondhu]

ok she called me last night n we were taking n shit but at the end she said taht donest mean we gonna talk everyday. like wtf???? she still playing mind games. now taht i know she 4gave me should i stop txt her or should i wait 4 her 2 call me again???

[idonknw]

ok she called me last night n we were taking n shit but at the end she said taht donest mean we gonna talk everyday. like wtf???? she still playing mind games. now taht i know she 4gave me should i stop txt her or should i wait 4 her 2 call me again???

lol wtf. Hey maybe she doesn't want to be mean to you and thought that she should talk to you, but also keep the distance between you two...if you know what i mean. Otherwise, if two people really wanted to be together desperately then they sure wouldn't play mind games all the time...one of you does not want to be together, but of course i could be wrong but thats what i think. Is she still single since you two have broken up? cuz who knows maybe she likes someone or is with someone...and that's why she wants to keep the distance...but I'm juss giving you my opinions...but just to let you know, people don't play these stupid mind games if they really wanna be with each other...they just want to be together and not waste time, so yeah there ya go...:wavey:

[idonknw]

i think you should let go, and move on....forgot to say this lol. I know this may seem hard, but there are plenty of girls out there...who will eventually be the one for you...so just let go if nothin's working.

[SS424]

thanks 4 helping guys but she's still not talking n now she told me that she'll call cops on my ass coz she found out i was stalking her.lol fuuuudddgeeeeee im soooo desperateeee. i misss her soooo much. i donno wat 2 do. saying sorry donest matter no more. i relly blew up and the thing thats KILLING me is that i KNEW 4 a fact that this sick joke would bite me back in the ass and that she would get mad at me. but i had no idea that it would hurt her so much that she'll stop seeing me n break up with me. i really fucked up. wat woud u guys do 2 win back ur love ones???


wtf. dude... give her some space... after some time goes by, if she wants to be with you, she'll forgive you. just let a little time go by without you talking to her..

[SS424]

she's just using it as an excuse to get rid of ur ass....
she didnt text or contact u for 4 motherfuckin days, if u dont get the hint from that, then i guess a few fake tears and saying u played an insensitive joke with her was necessary....

move on son, its over....

i actually agree with him for the first time..........ever

[bongo_bondhu]

ok so its been a while i didnt update u guys. so we are talking again n everything is back 2 normal but its not 100% better. she still cut me off so i guess i have 2 be nice n caring untill i get 2 hit the pumpum again. untill then im still trying coz shes still "mad" n not giving me any. well its wayyyy better than her ignoring me n giving me cod shoulder. so everyting will be back 2 normal after i hit it n have great make up sex so we can both move on with our life and put this whole fight behind us. 4 all the bros n sister who was with me during the bad times n kept giving me hope thanks 2 all of u from the bottom of my heart. and 4 the haters u cant go fuck urself. u know who u r. thanks. ill keep updating .

[bongo_bondhu]

hit the pum pum. end of thread. thanks 4 the support.

[$carface]

hi my fellow mates. im having girl problem n i need help coz i really f*ckd up with my gf. so this is how it starts.

she didnt txt me in 4 days so i was mad at her. on the 5th day i get a msg from her asking if i was still alive. so then ive decided 2 get back at her so i txt her back from my bros phone n said that i got shot dead 2 days ago. n she believed it n was crying 4 a few hours. when i went 2 surprise her at her place i found out that she was really upset n was crying coz she thought i was dead. n now she really hates me n broke up with me. i want 2 get back with her coz i really like her n i care abt her n i know i did something very stupid. so tell me how can i get her back n wat can i do. everytime i try 2 reach her she tells me 2 fuck off n leave her alone. im confused n i donno wat 2 do . can u guys please help me. i really like this girl. n i hate myself 4 playing with her feelings n her emotions. how can she 4give me? wat can i do 2 make it better? any suggestions?? please help me out. thanks
fuck you ******. i read teh same thing on crsx. either you copy like a bitch, but if you are the real person, please just have sex with your brother and give each other AIDS. motherfucker

[idonknw]

hit the pum pum. end of thread. thanks 4 the support.

are you 'indirectly' saying that your going to rape her? from what you have said in your past posts, she has been ignoring you...so obviously she's not wanting to sleep with you...and you mentioned that you have to be 'nice & caring' until she lets you 'hit it' so are you saying that you actually don't really like her, but rather your putting on a act so you can get her into bed...if so, please end your game here & leave her alone.

If you really loved someone, is this what you would do to them?? :no:

[bongo_bondhu]

no i care abt her thats y i did everything 2 get her back. n she 4gave me n everything was back 2 normal but she cut me off coz she knows how much i LOVE 2 do with with her. so thats y she was playing with me n turn me on n when we started going at it she would stop just annoy me. but last week we did have mad sex n now we r both happy coz u know. hehehe so ya i do like her 4 real n io dont think abt sex all the times. lol

[Kissit]

thanks 4 helping guys but she's still not talking n now she told me that she'll call cops on my ass coz she found out i was stalking her.lol fuuuudddgeeeeee im soooo desperateeee. i misss her soooo much. i donno wat 2 do. saying sorry donest matter no more. i relly blew up and the thing thats KILLING me is that i KNEW 4 a fact that this sick joke would bite me back in the ass and that she would get mad at me. but i had no idea that it would hurt her so much that she'll stop seeing me n break up with me. i really fucked up. wat woud u guys do 2 win back ur love ones???

She's given u an ultimatum. I think u should step back n let it go now because it seems like ur just chasing someone who aint gonna stop running away from u. U made a silly mistake, so as long as u realised just dont make that one again. Plus u never know if u give her some space n time she might just get back at u. But its been over a month u say, so i highly doubt it.

[Kissit]

ok she called me last night n we were taking n shit but at the end she said taht donest mean we gonna talk everyday. like wtf???? she still playing mind games. now taht i know she 4gave me should i stop txt her or should i wait 4 her 2 call me again???

Lol. She probably rings u or wants to chat to u when she needs some comfort. Thats what i do.

[Kissit]

no i care abt her thats y i did everything 2 get her back. n she 4gave me n everything was back 2 normal but she cut me off coz she knows how much i LOVE 2 do with with her. so thats y she was playing with me n turn me on n when we started going at it she would stop just annoy me. but last week we did have mad sex n now we r both happy coz u know. hehehe so ya i do like her 4 real n io dont think abt sex all the times. lol

ROFL. Wtf.

[_Menace_]

no i care abt her thats y i did everything 2 get her back. n she 4gave me n everything was back 2 normal but she cut me off coz she knows how much i LOVE 2 do with with her. so thats y she was playing with me n turn me on n when we started going at it she would stop just annoy me. but last week we did have mad sex n now we r both happy coz u know. hehehe so ya i do like her 4 real n io dont think abt sex all the times. lol


You haven't ever been laid in your life...quit lying to yourself and shove your sob story up your scrawny lil ass :arrow:

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[khilari]

what a terrible thread.

bongo - don't ever have children. your genes being passed on to another is a scary thought. keep the swimmers to yourself, as well as your stories please.

[bongo_bondhu]

i already said we r back 2gether n livinh happily so fuck off all u haters. n 4 my bros n sis who was with me during those bad times i appreciate it n i thank all of u from the bottom of my heart. END OF THREAD

[_Menace_]

i already said we r back 2gether n livinh happily so fuck off all u haters. n 4 my bros n sis who was with me during those bad times i appreciate it n i thank all of u from the bottom of my heart. END OF THREAD

Damn she knows how to toy with you

[icekreamgirl12]

fuck you ******. i read teh same thing on crsx. either you copy like a bitch, but if you are the real person, please just have sex with your brother and give each other AIDS. motherfucker
:rofl:

[ancient_warrior]

hi my fellow mates. im having girl problem n i need help coz i really f*ckd up with my gf. so this is how it starts.

she didnt txt me in 4 days so i was mad at her. on the 5th day i get a msg from her asking if i was still alive. so then ive decided 2 get back at her so i txt her back from my bros phone n said that i got shot dead 2 days ago. n she believed it n was crying 4 a few hours. when i went 2 surprise her at her place i found out that she was really upset n was crying coz she thought i was dead. n now she really hates me n broke up with me. i want 2 get back with her coz i really like her n i care abt her n i know i did something very stupid. so tell me how can i get her back n wat can i do. everytime i try 2 reach her she tells me 2 fuck off n leave her alone. im confused n i donno wat 2 do . can u guys please help me. i really like this girl. n i hate myself 4 playing with her feelings n her emotions. how can she 4give me? wat can i do 2 make it better? any suggestions?? please help me out. thanks

:shock::rofl: haha

[male_18]

yeah man if u rly want her back ...shoot ur self make it real , so then shell be bak

trust me on word
and do it practically

[ezbreezyfresh]

no i care abt her thats y i did everything 2 get her back. n she 4gave me n everything was back 2 normal but she cut me off coz she knows how much i LOVE 2 do with with her. so thats y she was playing with me n turn me on n when we started going at it she would stop just annoy me. but last week we did have mad sex n now we r both happy coz u know. hehehe so ya i do like her 4 real n io dont think abt sex all the times. lol


:rofl:

i hope she reads all this!

[idonknw]

no i care abt her thats y i did everything 2 get her back. n she 4gave me n everything was back 2 normal but she cut me off coz she knows how much i LOVE 2 do with with her. so thats y she was playing with me n turn me on n when we started going at it she would stop just annoy me. but last week we did have mad sex n now we r both happy coz u know. hehehe so ya i do like her 4 real n io dont think abt sex all the times. lol

Lol, aw well after reading & asking you all these questions & giving you responses in this thread it seems to me like that you really do LOVE this girl, you just dont LIKE her...but you LOVE her. I can give you one advice, after analyzing all your respones & feelins...don't play with her anymore or with her feelings, im sure you have figured that out by now, instead if you are SURE that you really do love her, then establish a worthwhile relationship with her..you seem to really care about her & I'm sure she cares about you too, otherwise she wouldn't be so emotional about you...so I see this as being a great relationship for you two, but its now up to you both to be straight up with each other and make this relationship stronger. I can tell you one thing, if you really love her, you don't wanna loose her either cuz these sort of feelings don't go for everyone out there....she may just be the special one in your life...;) so yeah just think about it, and do what you think is right. I'm done, lol & good luck dude!

[bongo_bondhu]

well thanks 4 being supportive but the thing is i dont love her. i do like her a loootttt n im cray 4 her but i do not love her. neither does she. we talked abt taht b4 dating each other n we promised thatwe wouldnt fall in love with each other. UNLESS we both know 4 a fact that the love is gonna be mutual. its complicated. coz she's a white canadian girl with 2 kids n im a brown dude who's afraid of commitment. but we like each other n her family likes me n all her frineds like me 2. but i hope not 2 fall 4 her unless i know its gonna last n neither 1 of us will get hurt. anyway tahnks again idonknw.