IF the wifey got fat....

[SexyTemptress]

Is it okay for a man to cheat on her. I was talking about this with lots of my friends. If a woman was real into her looks when she was young and picking up guys, but then once she gets married she lets herself get fat as a house, does the guy have a right to cheat? My friends and I know ppl like this. It just is kinda insulting to the guy for his wife to maintain herself for other men when she was young and picking up men, but all of a sudden to just get fat once she lands a man.

Is it okay for the guy to cheat? She obviously doesnt give a fuck about him, otherwise she'd take care of herself better. Is it okay if he strays?

I have a guy friend who does this b/c his gf has totally let herself go. She's also lazy. I used to think he was in the wrong but now I can see his pt of view.

[LAKERFAN8]

Yes, definitely.

[Siesta]

no :neutral:

[TheBallinMartian]

Yes, definitely.

[narcissus.echo]

Yes, definitely.
Yep, there's a reason why it's called survival of the fittest.

[x baby bably x]

Noway.

[mp3]

Cheat no. If there are problems and he doesnt want to be with her anymore, has the right to end it. But just because she put on some pounds, thats not a reason. If her attitude to everything has changed and things are getting bad then a divorce can be on the cards. Cheating isn't allowed by either partner under any circumstances.

[ishq.on.da.beach]

if the hubby stopped giving good sex.......

is it okay to cheat on em :sarb:

[x baby bably x]

Saying that I chose to lose weight for my then boyfriend. So he could be proud to have me on his arm kinda thing.

:lulz:

I reckon I`d do the same for my husband.

[rhy+hm]

lol @ the opposite responses by men and women in this thread..

[Monica152]

You can't justify cheating. I mean if the guy is with her just because of her looks then what's the point?
nd put the pics back up i didnt get see em....:shakefis:

[SSSash]

I'd never let her get fat in the first place. Tell her what's what, if she lets that ass go, I go. Plus among all the other things, physical attraction is important in a relationship. Going from fitty to fatty is like someone with a great personality turning into a total arsehole.

[Geezer]

Is it okay for a man to cheat on her. I was talking about this with lots of my friends. If a woman was real into her looks when she was young and picking up guys, but then once she gets married she lets herself get fat as a house, does the guy have a right to cheat? My friends and I know ppl like this. It just is kinda insulting to the guy for his wife to maintain herself for other men when she was young and picking up men, but all of a sudden to just get fat once she lands a man.

Is it okay for the guy to cheat? She obviously doesnt give a fuck about him, otherwise she'd take care of herself better. Is it okay if he strays?

I have a guy friend who does this b/c his gf has totally let herself go. She's also lazy. I used to think he was in the wrong but now I can see his pt of view.

lol absolutely not. If my wife doesn't make an effort for me and lets her laziness get in the way of our relationship then we'd probably have to have a serious talk. If things are beyond reconciliation then perhaps a divorce is in order. And once that's done I'll be hitting on them young chicks :rofl:

[mp3]

lol absolutely not. If my wife doesn't make an effort for me and let's her laziness get in the way of our relationship then we'd probably have to have a serious talk. If things are beyond reconciliation then perhaps a divorce is in order. And once that's done I'll be hitting on them young chicks :rofl:

Nicely put.

[Lie Detector]

Two-part answer:

1. It's not okay for the wife to let herself go. In that case, I would kindly ask her to lose her flab.

2. It's never okay to cheat, regardless of the situation. Swinging does not count as cheating.

[x baby bably x]

I'd never let her get fat in the first place. Tell her what's what, if she lets that ass go, I go. Plus among all the other things, physical attraction is important in a relationship. Going from fitty to fatty is like someone with a great personality turning into a total arsehole.Curves are good, y0!

[Rcade]

no. Try motivating her to exercise

[SSSash]

Curves are good, y0!

Curves - yes :thumleft:

Tyres and bingowings - no !!!

[x baby bably x]

Curves - yes :thumleft:

Tyres and bingowings - no !!!Sorry for earlier. I was asleep.

:Oops:

[PRCIV]

I think it's ok to cheat regardless of her weight.

[SSSash]

Sorry for earlier. I was asleep.

:Oops:

Thats ok .. u have a hot 'just woke up' voice ;)

[Dream_GirL]

Is it okay for a man to cheat on her. I was talking about this with lots of my friends. If a woman was real into her looks when she was young and picking up guys, but then once she gets married she lets herself get fat as a house, does the guy have a right to cheat? My friends and I know ppl like this. It just is kinda insulting to the guy for his wife to maintain herself for other men when she was young and picking up men, but all of a sudden to just get fat once she lands a man.

Is it okay for the guy to cheat? She obviously doesnt give a fuck about him, otherwise she'd take care of herself better. Is it okay if he strays?

I have a guy friend who does this b/c his gf has totally let herself go. She's also lazy. I used to think he was in the wrong but now I can see his pt of view.
well has he asked her to lose weight n stop bein lazy in a nice way? i guess she should have continued to maintain herself after marriage.. do they have kids?.. i don think its ryt for him to cheat on her tho.. no matter wat shape, form or size she's in.. i mean wat if sumthing happned to him.. e.g. he had an accident.. cudn walk anymore.. n became fat..as well? wud he be okay wid her cheatin on him? i gues wat im tryna say is it all comes down to how much dey love eachother.. if they can think bout cheatin on eachother den dey shudnt be in a marriage to begin wid..

[Exotic_Princess]

I don't agree with cheating in any way or form. If the gf or wifey let herself get really out of shape and becomes slothful then the bf or hubby should sit her down and let her know how he feels about it and suggest what she should do to improve things. If she doesn't take his advice or care about how he feels then its time to break up/get a divorce.

[jumpn jza]

Depends how fat. Men should be faithful...but theres a limit. I'd personally tell her "sweety, you're too fat please lose the weight"...my parents have a pretty good system. They pretty much control what the other eats. Like my mum will tell my dad off for eating too much and vice versa.

[Exotic_Princess]

Depends how fat. Men should be faithful...but theres a limit. I'd personally tell her "sweety, your too fat please lose the weight"...

lmfao!!!!!!!!!!!!!! :rofl:
You said it in a kind of nice way.

[jumpn jza]

lmfao!!!!!!!!!!!!!! :rofl:
You said it in a kind of nice way.

yeh of course...you gotta be nice about that shit. Adding to my previous post.....my parents have a pretty good system. They pretty much control what the other eats. Like my mum will tell my dad off for eating too much and vice versa.

[Exotic_Princess]

yeh of course...you gotta be nice about that shit. Adding to my previous post.....my parents have a pretty good system. They pretty much control what the other eats. Like my mum will tell my dad off for eating too much and vice versa.

Aww thats cute-ish :D
Though I have to admit...I wouldn't want when I get married my hubby telling me what and what not to eat.

[jumpn jza]

Aww thats cute-ish :D
Though I have to admit...I wouldn't want when I get married my hubby telling me what and what not to eat.

Yeh, but it happens both ways. And they do it to me too. I can't eat junk food in front of my mum without her telling me that i should go and exercise unless i wanna get fat...and it works.

[Exotic_Princess]

Yeh, but it happens both ways. And they do it to me too. I can't eat junk food in front of my mum without her telling me that i should go and exercise unless i wanna get fat...and it works.

Aww hehez...my mom yells at me when I shove cheetos cheese puffs in my mouth, I grab like a few and eat like 4 or five at once. lolz. I do eat a lot of junk food...but I will try to prevent myself from getting too out of shape though.

[jumpn jza]

Aww hehez...my mom yells at me when I shove cheetos cheese puffs in my mouth, I grab like a few and eat like 4 or five at once. lolz. I do eat a lot of junk food...but I will try to prevent myself from getting too out of shape though.

atta girl.

[LifesLikeThis_]

Of course not.


Once you're married, it's not a joke.

If you think your wife is letting herself go, then TALK to her about it. Suggest going to the gym together, and make healthy meals together.

Cheating? WHY???

That just means that the GUY was with her, only for superficial reasons.

[cant.rate.me]

Of course not.


Once you're married, it's not a joke.

If you think your wife is letting herself go, then TALK to her about it. Suggest going to the gym together, and make healthy meals together.

Cheating? WHY???

That just means that the GUY was with her, only for superficial reasons.

Dammmnn Right!!.. plus if u LOVE some1.. then u would love them no matter how they look

[aznpdaddy]

Is it okay for a man to cheat on her. I was talking about this with lots of my friends. If a woman was real into her looks when she was young and picking up guys, but then once she gets married she lets herself get fat as a house, does the guy have a right to cheat? My friends and I know ppl like this. It just is kinda insulting to the guy for his wife to maintain herself for other men when she was young and picking up men, but all of a sudden to just get fat once she lands a man.

Is it okay for the guy to cheat? She obviously doesnt give a fuck about him, otherwise she'd take care of herself better. Is it okay if he strays?

I have a guy friend who does this b/c his gf has totally let herself go. She's also lazy. I used to think he was in the wrong but now I can see his pt of view.
NOT if she tries hard to loose it, for example if she chases him around the sofa like 100 times than thats ok..

its not always fat that makes people cheat, and sometimes i hate when gurls think they are fat, and try TOooo much OTT and think that loosing it will make them have a better chance...

i cant remember but iv read some where fat people are more jokier than skinny people.

oh and cheating full stop is wrong no matter how lonely the guy is... theres a thing called divorce! why would you knowingly allow your other half to cheat no matter how fat you are... i think they need to do a fat vs cheating film... theyve done baby vs cheating!

[desi_uk]

Is it okay for a man to cheat on her. I was talking about this with lots of my friends. If a woman was real into her looks when she was young and picking up guys, but then once she gets married she lets herself get fat as a house, does the guy have a right to cheat? My friends and I know ppl like this. It just is kinda insulting to the guy for his wife to maintain herself for other men when she was young and picking up men, but all of a sudden to just get fat once she lands a man.

Is it okay for the guy to cheat? She obviously doesnt give a fuck about him, otherwise she'd take care of herself better. Is it okay if he strays?

I have a guy friend who does this b/c his gf has totally let herself go. She's also lazy. I used to think he was in the wrong but now I can see his pt of view.
No its not wtf

make her join the gym and go on a diet, if you can leave her just like that then that means you dont love her so whats the point of being married, its fake as David dickinsons orange tan

[SunshineGT]

Cheat no. If there are problems and he doesnt want to be with her anymore, has the right to end it. But just because she put on some pounds, thats not a reason. If her attitude to everything has changed and things are getting bad then a divorce can be on the cards. Cheating isn't allowed by either partner under any circumstances.

I agree with this dude!