View Full Version : someone is trying to ruin my life and i denno who
k i s s e s
September 10th, 2007, 08:40 PM
this is ridiculous :mad:
:wiggle:
BadFingerBoogie
September 10th, 2007, 08:41 PM
omgogmmogmg your life!!??!
Squishdwg
September 10th, 2007, 08:42 PM
those bastards!!
k i s s e s
September 10th, 2007, 08:42 PM
omgogmmogmg your life!!??!
likeomgyes!
BadFingerBoogie
September 10th, 2007, 08:42 PM
likeomgyes!
just shoot everyone you know.
k i s s e s
September 10th, 2007, 08:43 PM
just shoot everyone you know.
okay. :rambo:
BadFingerBoogie
September 10th, 2007, 08:44 PM
okay. :rambo:
i'll help you if you pay me.
k i s s e s
September 10th, 2007, 08:44 PM
those bastards!!
forreals.
k i s s e s
September 10th, 2007, 08:44 PM
i'll help you if you pay me.
i spent all my money on college sorry
BadFingerBoogie
September 10th, 2007, 08:45 PM
sorry i can't help you out then.
nygirl
September 10th, 2007, 08:47 PM
lmfao to start off stop posting your life on RD that shit should help stalkers... and don't post your pics everywhere wow ur retarded
yeahwhat
September 10th, 2007, 08:47 PM
maybe it's the ex? :neutral: who else would have access to the stuff
PuNjabi_RaNi*
September 10th, 2007, 08:48 PM
koi admee teri zindagi ko barbaad karna chaata hai.
ja beti - usko maardaalo! :squint:
http://www.floridagunworks.com/Merchant2/graphics/00000001/451.jpg
harvey_mayway
September 10th, 2007, 08:51 PM
this is ridiculous :mad:
lol... your american; sue someone. What about seemer for creating this site full of stalkers.
k i s s e s
September 10th, 2007, 08:52 PM
lmfao to start off stop posting your life on RD that shit should help stalkers... and don't post your pics everywhere wow ur retarded
i havent posted any of the little details about my life anywhere that this person somehow knew about & i used to have pictures on myspace but i don't even do that anymore & everything else is completely private. like i said, the pictures were really old, this person must have had them saved. & the prom pictures weren't taken from my camera & i wasn't the one who uploaded them anywhere either. do you really think i would be that stupid if shit like this has been a recurring issue? :rolleyes:
harvey_mayway
September 10th, 2007, 08:52 PM
lmfao to start off stop posting your life on RD that shit should help stalkers... and don't post your pics everywhere wow ur retarded
lol.. I was waiting for someone to say it..
k i s s e s
September 10th, 2007, 08:53 PM
maybe it's the ex? :neutral: who else would have access to the stuff
no we're like best friends now, i completely trust him & he has no motive anyway. =/
cross73
September 10th, 2007, 08:53 PM
111111110
nygirl
September 10th, 2007, 08:53 PM
i havent posted any of the little details about my life anywhere that this person somehow knew about & i used to have pictures on myspace but i don't even do that anymore & everything else is completely private. like i said, the pictures were really old, this person must have had them saved. & the prom pictures weren't taken from my camera & i wasn't the one who uploaded them anywhere either. do you really think i would be that stupid if shit like this has been a recurring issue? :rolleyes:
wow if u had a brain u would take ur shit down asap plus not have posted this retarded thread
harvey_mayway
September 10th, 2007, 08:53 PM
maybe it's the ex? :neutral: who else would have access to the stuff
anyone with a camera, spare time, and your ip address, ??????
PuNjabi_RaNi*
September 10th, 2007, 08:53 PM
lmfao to start off stop posting your life on RD that shit should help stalkers... and don't post your pics everywhere wow ur retarded
:kekeke:
k i s s e s
September 10th, 2007, 08:54 PM
koi admee teri zindagi ko barbaad karna chaata hai.
ja beti - usko maardaalo! :squint:
http://www.floridagunworks.com/Merchant2/graphics/00000001/451.jpg
heh :lol:
k i s s e s
September 10th, 2007, 08:55 PM
wow if u had a brain u would take ur shit down asap plus not have posted this retarded thread
what shit?? i did that a long time ago.
harvey_mayway
September 10th, 2007, 08:57 PM
have you got any suspects?
Always blame the parents... Look at madeline madeline case
PuNjabi_RaNi*
September 10th, 2007, 08:57 PM
what shit?? i did that a long time ago.
what about your profile pic?
people could be printing copies of that right now.
desi_playa
September 10th, 2007, 08:59 PM
it has to be sameer. he has the easiest access to all your info.
k i s s e s
September 10th, 2007, 08:59 PM
what about your profile pic?
people could be printing copies of that right now.
lol and what?? it's just a picture of me. i'm not dressed slutty or kissing a guy or anything.
harvey_mayway
September 10th, 2007, 08:59 PM
what about your profile pic?
people could be printing copies of that right now.
yea,,, i dont think soo.
k i s s e s
September 10th, 2007, 09:00 PM
it has to be sameer. he has the easiest access to all your info.
nope because i believe sameer has a pic that's even worse & if he were to do something like this i denno why he wouldn't include it lol
mad_paki
September 10th, 2007, 09:00 PM
It was me. I did it
desi_playa
September 10th, 2007, 09:01 PM
nope because i believe sameer has a pic that's even worse & if he were to do something like this i denno why he wouldn't include it lol
WOOOHH WOOHHH, hold up there.
trying to move up in the RD ranks by doing some favors, are we??
mrs_crosby
September 10th, 2007, 09:01 PM
may be its ur ex... :sarb:
One of my friend's ex did something very similar, he'd call her home from pay phones and BS about her
Aurovon
September 10th, 2007, 09:01 PM
:GTBDL:
Glad To Be Desi Ladka
mrs_crosby
September 10th, 2007, 09:02 PM
lol and what?? it's just a picture of me. i'm not dressed slutty or kissing a guy or anything.
Photoshop does wonders :p
k i s s e s
September 10th, 2007, 09:03 PM
WOOOHH WOOHHH, hold up there.
trying to move up in the RD ranks by doing some favors, are we??
no it's not that type of "worse" haha.
k i s s e s
September 10th, 2007, 09:04 PM
may be its ur ex... :sarb:
One of my friend's ex did something very similar, he'd call her home from pay phones and BS about her
it's not. if i wasn't 100% sure of that then i would think to accuse him but i trust him & he's as clueless as i am. & besides, he doesn't even know about a few of the things that were in the letter.
bigkid
September 10th, 2007, 09:05 PM
since your single can we go out sometime now? ive just been waiting forever it seems like lol, no seriously u dont have a bf now?
harvey_mayway
September 10th, 2007, 09:06 PM
may be its ur ex... :sarb:
One of my friend's ex did something very similar, he'd call her home from pay phones and BS about her
i knew this girl, that was getting married, So shw drumped her bf.
He managed to cancel her hall for the wedding, and double book the church,
k i s s e s
September 10th, 2007, 09:07 PM
since your single can we go out sometime now? ive just been waiting forever it seems like lol, no seriously u dont have a bf now?
no i dont think so because in case you haven't noticed i'm in the middle of a crisis here. :)
mrs_crosby
September 10th, 2007, 09:08 PM
i knew this girl, that was getting married, So shw drumped her bf.
He managed to cancel her hall for the wedding, and double book the church,
voooha :shock:
dats insane :nuts:
roy_desi
September 10th, 2007, 09:09 PM
look, i'm really only doing what's good for you.
harvey_mayway
September 10th, 2007, 09:09 PM
it's not. if i wasn't 100% sure of that then i would think to accuse him but i trust him & he's as clueless as i am. & besides, he doesn't even know about a few of the things that were in the letter.
wouldnt you be worried about your own personal safety. With all jokin aside.
Some nutter went to the trouble of stalking you. Next time that box could contant body parts. Shouldnt you get yourself a gun or something.
k i s s e s
September 10th, 2007, 09:11 PM
wouldnt you be worried about your own personal safety. With all jokin aside.
Some nutter went to the trouble of stalking you. Next time that box could contant body parts. Shouldnt you get yourself a gun or something.
i don't think the person wants to physically hurt me because if they did then they already would have. but yeah i am pretty freaked out about how someone went through all this trouble & knows all this stuff about me. it's pretty sick.
bigkid
September 10th, 2007, 09:12 PM
no i dont think so because in case you haven't noticed i'm in the middle of a crisis here. :):p i noticed i just have no useful input, sounds like a girl from your highschool an EMO one with major problems. hope that helps sabaaah :kiss:
soladylike
September 10th, 2007, 09:13 PM
It could be some psycho chic who hates you. She could have reasons like she liked your ex but he went out with you instead or that you're better than her at everything and no one notices her when you're around or she's just psycho so she needs no reason to hate you.
w1ld
September 10th, 2007, 09:13 PM
it must be someone from rd, go to police and sue that person for harassment and blackmailing...they must have fingerprints on the package and if that person is a FOB, they should already have fingerprint information in the system. Go, fucking screw this cock muncher!
k i s s e s
September 10th, 2007, 09:14 PM
:p i noticed i just have no useful input, sounds like a girl from your highschool an EMO one with major problems. hope that helps sabaaah :kiss:
thanks. &thanks for telling the world my name & almost spelling it right. haha :hug:
Drumline
September 10th, 2007, 09:15 PM
god officially hates you :arrow:
k i s s e s
September 10th, 2007, 09:16 PM
It could be some psycho chic who hates you. She could have reasons like she liked your ex but he went out with you instead or that you're better than her at everything and no one notices her when you're around or she's just psycho so she needs no reason to hate you.
that's what i was thinking. i actually know someone who that almost sort of applies to but some of the things in the letter...i just can't see anyyy way that she would know all that. & i don't know if she'd go that far..
k i s s e s
September 10th, 2007, 09:16 PM
it must be someone from rd, go to police and sue that person for harassment and blackmailing...they must have fingerprints on the package and if that person is a FOB, they should already have fingerprint information in the system. Go, fucking screw this cock muncher!
kay.
k i s s e s
September 10th, 2007, 09:17 PM
god officially hates you :arrow:
:yes: :(
sweet_like_choc
September 10th, 2007, 09:17 PM
wouldnt you be worried about your own personal safety. With all jokin aside.
Some nutter went to the trouble of stalking you. Next time that box could contant body parts. Shouldnt you get yourself a gun or something.
Yeah. Did you see eastenders today (crime fighting programme). This father of two called Ian Beale was delivered a pigs heart in a box, and a bunch of flowers which stated 'RIP', and a funeral ring. It was so fucking creepy.
Kisses i think you should be more careful, and even watch the show sometime. It's a bad world out there.
random guy
September 10th, 2007, 09:19 PM
it must be some smart nerd who fancies u
k i s s e s
September 10th, 2007, 09:20 PM
Yeah. Did you see eastenders today (crime fighting programme). This father of two called Ian Beale was delivered a pigs heart in a box, and a bunch of flowers which stated 'RIP', and a funeral ring. It was so fucking creepy.
Kisses i think you should be more careful, and even watch the show sometime. It's a bad world out there.
wow that's creepy
it must be some smart nerd who fancies u
yes i had a feeling it was you.
but really though i don't think so. i've been quite repulsive lately.
soladylike
September 10th, 2007, 09:21 PM
that's what i was thinking. i actually know someone who that almost sort of applies to but some of the things in the letter...i just can't see anyyy way that she would know all that. & i don't know if she'd go that far..
Regardless of who it is, you're being stalked. And you and your family should be worried about that. If you have a lawyer in the family, talk to them about this (no need to disclose the full details) or talk to someone in law enforcement.
Don't take stalking lightly. It has the potential to escalate to something more hazardous.
bigkid
September 10th, 2007, 09:22 PM
thanks. &thanks for telling the world my name & almost spelling it right. haha :hug: okay my names AJ now the world ( :kekeke: ) knows my name too lol :bhapi:
harvey_mayway
September 10th, 2007, 09:22 PM
It could be some psycho chic who hates you. She could have reasons like she liked your ex but he went out with you instead or that you're better than her at everything and no one notices her when you're around or she's just psycho so she needs no reason to hate you.
i doubt anyone is stalking her. Shes prob made this thread for the attention.
Cause people are too lazy to stalk other people. And its too much efort.
And if it was my parents, then the interent and the computer would of become a thing of the past. Like they would let their daugher go near to net after something like this... Humm.
So its all abit BS.
but entertaining, in a highschool kinda way... (or RD kindaway
random guy
September 10th, 2007, 09:27 PM
Yeah. Did you see eastenders today (crime fighting programme). This father of two called Ian Beale was delivered a pigs heart in a box, and a bunch of flowers which stated 'RIP', and a funeral ring. It was so fucking creepy.
Kisses i think you should be more careful, and even watch the show sometime. It's a bad world out there.
lol wtf!
random guy
September 10th, 2007, 09:28 PM
wow that's creepy
yes i had a feeling it was you.
but really though i don't think so. i've been quite repulsive lately.
u said they stole old pics so they must have known u for a long time!
its a nerd who fancies u but is shy to tell u
k i s s e s
September 10th, 2007, 09:31 PM
Regardless of who it is, you're being stalked. And you and your family should be worried about that. If you have a lawyer in the family, talk to them about this (no need to disclose the full details) or talk to someone in law enforcement.
Don't take stalking lightly. It has the potential to escalate to something more hazardous.
yeah i'm trying to figure out what to do. my mom was pretty freaked out too. i dont wanna take any legal action just yet because it could just be someone messing with me but i guess if it goes any further i will.
i doubt anyone is stalking her. Shes prob made this thread for the attention.
Cause people are too lazy to stalk other people. And its too much efort.
And if it was my parents, then the interent and the computer would of become a thing of the past. Like they would let their daugher go near to net after something like this... Humm.
So its all abit BS.
but entertaining, in a highschool kinda way... (or RD kindaway
i'm surprised this thread made it this far without anyone saying that.
simply put this person is a prick; but also that God has a mysterious way of making your choices come back to haunt you when you don't act right.
yep, you're right. & as far as the pictures & the stuff that is true, i really can't blame anyone for exposing that. it's just the lies that piss me off. &the fact that someone has all this information in the first place.
sweet_like_choc
September 10th, 2007, 09:32 PM
lol wtf!
Yeah man. Remember who killed Phil Mitchell? That was dangerous and upsetting for the nation - i'm glad the investigation was thoroughly conducted by the best police available. It's crime fighting shows like Eastenders which really do bring a tear to my eye.
k i s s e s
September 10th, 2007, 09:32 PM
u said they stole old pics so they must have known u for a long time!
its a nerd who fancies u but is shy to tell u
yep it was the same person who sent those emails over a year ago
poetichustla
September 10th, 2007, 09:32 PM
your life keeps getting :Owned:
k i s s e s
September 10th, 2007, 09:34 PM
your life keeps getting :Owned:
:werd:
okay so here's a question, when you order prints of digital pictures what do those little numbers/letters on the back of them mean? are they the file name or the person's id or what? anyone know??
soladylike
September 10th, 2007, 09:35 PM
i doubt anyone is stalking her. Shes prob made this thread for the attention.
Cause people are too lazy to stalk other people. And its too much efort.
And if it was my parents, then the interent and the computer would of become a thing of the past. Like they would let their daugher go near to net after something like this... Humm.
So its all abit BS.
but entertaining, in a highschool kinda way... (or RD kindaway
I don't know about her but I do know a few people who have been stalked this way and their parents were more worried for their kid's safety. Her parents could be liberal ones who don't find having a boyfriend or going to dances shameful.
ewwwww
September 10th, 2007, 09:50 PM
1) Its a desi. Who elso would know that your parents wil go beserk over your dating?
2) Stalker alert! You can go to the cops about this and they can find out who this is.
Guddia
September 10th, 2007, 09:56 PM
It must be your little brother
bigkid
September 10th, 2007, 09:59 PM
It must be your little brother ding ding ding ding ding i think your correct!
khanvict
September 10th, 2007, 10:01 PM
angry or jealous relative? has to be someone you're related to if they know your mom's e-mail. what did you do to them?
k i s s e s
September 10th, 2007, 10:05 PM
1) Its a desi. Who elso would know that your parents wil go beserk over your dating?
2) Stalker alert! You can go to the cops about this and they can find out who this is.
yep definitely desi. & um i denno about going to the cops =/
It must be your little brother
you mean the 9-year-old whose life consists of nothing but cartoon network & yu-gi-oh? yeah i think so too.
angry or jealous relative? has to be someone you're related to if they know your mom's e-mail. what did you do to them?
my relatives are more the type to make a hugeee scene about it & tell the world, not send private packages & personal emails. plus the letter was written in proper english. too proper. :sarb:
Burdah
September 10th, 2007, 10:22 PM
Ask the person you suspect of doing it? Ask your ex if he shared the pictures with someone else...that might have something against you?
sWeEtnDsOuR
September 10th, 2007, 10:23 PM
koi admee teri zindagi ko barbaad karna chaata hai.
ja beti - usko maardaalo! :squint:
http://www.floridagunworks.com/Merchant2/graphics/00000001/451.jpg
:roflbow: :roflbow:
Rcade
September 10th, 2007, 10:25 PM
this is ridiculous :mad:
you must have some clue or list of suspects
bengoli_meg
September 10th, 2007, 10:27 PM
i havent posted any of the little details about my life anywhere that this person somehow knew about & i used to have pictures on myspace but i don't even do that anymore & everything else is completely private. like i said, the pictures were really old, this person must have had them saved. & the prom pictures weren't taken from my camera & i wasn't the one who uploaded them anywhere either. do you really think i would be that stupid if shit like this has been a recurring issue? :rolleyes:
don't let people take pictures of you like that. anyways that should narrow it down shouldn't it. you should know which ppl had possession of those prom pictures.
BilalisPakistani
September 10th, 2007, 10:30 PM
Jilted ex lover.
sWeEtnDsOuR
September 10th, 2007, 10:32 PM
seriously thats weird..nd i would be soooo mad...u need 2 go 2 the cops asap...u said u would wait and see if it goes further...dont wait!!! this person could really hate u...do something!!!!
khanvict
September 10th, 2007, 10:49 PM
my relatives are more the type to make a hugeee scene about it & tell the world, not send private packages & personal emails. plus the letter was written in proper english. too proper. :sarb:
maybe it's not an aunt/uncle but what about like a cousin your age or older?
k i s s e s
September 10th, 2007, 10:51 PM
Ask the person you suspect of doing it? Ask your ex if he shared the pictures with someone else...that might have something against you?
yeah i should do that..my ex did put a few of the pix up on myspace & whatnot way back when, but that was a long time ago. now he's deleted his.
you must have some clue or list of suspects
i don't know..i've thought of some really random people but everything is such a long shot & nothing fits. i can't make any sense of it.
don't let people take pictures of you like that. anyways that should narrow it down shouldn't it. you should know which ppl had possession of those prom pictures.
you're right i shouldn't. my mom was like never take a picture of just you & a guy, no matter who he is. only group shots. anything else can be used against you. =/
& the prom pictures, i know a few of them were on my date's facebook. but his profile & everything is private. which means it's one of his friends. i've been through his friends list though & the one that did seem suspicious to me is this girl who's tried to add me a few times (i don't add people unless i know them so i kept rejecting her) & i know she tried to add my ex as well. & apparently she's friends with a few of my friends who have accepted her despite not knowing who she is. she has no network, just 2 pictures up, & from the posts on her wall it seems that everyone she adds is random. but that doesn't help me much because even if it is her i have no proof & the pictures/profile are probably all fake. but so far that's all i have.
seriously thats weird..nd i would be soooo mad...u need 2 go 2 the cops asap...u said u would wait and see if it goes further...dont wait!!! this person could really hate u...do something!!
i ammm mad. but should i really go to the cops? will they even take something like this seriously??
k i s s e s
September 10th, 2007, 10:54 PM
maybe it's not an aunt/uncle but what about like a cousin your age or older?
i denno i really doubt it...it's just unlike them. & some of my cousin's have had messy situations themselves involving guys/parents & whatnot so it just doesn't fit.
bengoli_meg
September 10th, 2007, 11:01 PM
you're right i shouldn't. my mom was like never take a picture of just you & a guy, no matter who he is. only group shots. anything else can be used against you. =/
& the prom pictures, i know a few of them were on my date's facebook. but his profile & everything is private. which means it's one of his friends. i've been through his friends list though & the one that did seem suspicious to me is this girl who's tried to add me a few times (i don't add people unless i know them so i kept rejecting her) & i know she tried to add my ex as well. & apparently she's friends with a few of my friends who have accepted her despite not knowing who she is. she has no network, just 2 pictures up, & from the posts on her wall it seems that everyone she adds is random. but that doesn't help me much because even if it is her i have no proof & the pictures/profile are probably all fake. but so far that's all i have.
that's a start. is there any way this random girl could find your adress and get your very old pictures? do your friends who are friends with this girl still have your old pictures. ask them if they've ever shared your old pics with anyone. tell them you're not mad, you just need to know so you can get to the bottom of it. look over his friend list again carefully and see if there's a desi (girl most likely) that might also have a connection to someone who might provide her with old pics. sometimes girls can hate you and you wont even be aware of it...believe me, i know.
bottom line is if the only place the prom pics were available was on his facebook, it's someone on his friends list. unless one of his friends saved them and shared. or if he also shared. ask him if he did. once people start saving and sharing, tracking it down becomes almost hopeless.
k i s s e s
September 10th, 2007, 11:09 PM
that's a start. is there any way this random girl could find your adress and get your very old pictures? do your friends who are friends with this girl still have your old pictures. ask them if they've ever shared your old pics with anyone. tell them you're not mad, you just need to know so you can get to the bottom of it. look over his friend list again carefully and see if there's a desi (girl most likely) that might also have a connection to someone who might provide her with old pics. sometimes girls can hate you and you wont even be aware of it...believe me, i know.
bottom line is if the only place the prom pics were available was on his facebook, it's someone on his friends list. unless one of his friends saved them and shared. or if he also shared. ask him if he did. once people start saving and sharing, tracking it down becomes almost hopeless.
well as far as the old pics go all of them were up on myspace or something at some point or another, even if it was a long time ago. so i'm thinking whoever this is has just had them saved since then. i'll ask my date if he's shared the pics with anyone but i don't think there's anyone he would share them with who isn't on his friendslist. i don't know how she could have gotten my address or any other information about me for that matter. i don't write in xanga anymore & i have another blog but it's private so idk. i guess i'll just go through her friendslist again...
Lady Pimp
September 10th, 2007, 11:11 PM
do as I do and make up som fancy lie aout how somone is just out to get you, shead a few tears and tell your parents that they can trust you cuz you're a good girl
but if that doesn't work then I guess you are just shit out of luck
k i s s e s
September 10th, 2007, 11:15 PM
do as I do and make up som fancy lie aout how somone is just out to get you, shead a few tears and tell your parents that they can trust you cuz you're a good girl
but if that doesn't work then I guess you are just shit out of luck
it's not even about my parents finding out all this stuff anymore. it's about finding out from some anonymous stalker person who we don't even know.
longjohnsilver
September 10th, 2007, 11:18 PM
Give us a kiss lav...
adya
September 10th, 2007, 11:18 PM
wouldnt it be a good idea, to stop posting and take down all your info and just lay low for awhile?
~JATT DE PASAND~
September 10th, 2007, 11:20 PM
well if they know soo much about you it must be someone you're close with.
k i s s e s
September 10th, 2007, 11:22 PM
That's fucking awesome. Dude. I'll narc for you. And yeah, you might want to take your pics off this site.
lol awesome? i don't believe i have anything objectionable on this site :sarb:
wouldnt it be a good idea, to stop posting and take down all your info and just lay low for awhile?
i don't think i have any personal info on here that i wouldn't want this person getting his/her hands on. dude definitely doesn't know i use the forums, & after it happened initially i did lay low for quite some time.
k i s s e s
September 10th, 2007, 11:25 PM
well if they know soo much about you it must be someone you're close with.
it doesn't make sense. see, in the letter it says "what were you thinking when you let your daughter go on an overnight cruise?" i told my parents we were going on a cruise after prom but then we decided not to & ended up just going to the city & i didn't bother to tell them that we actually didn't go on the cruise. & anyway, it wasn't supposed to be an overnight cruise. so i don't know who would think that we went on a cruise...
adya
September 10th, 2007, 11:26 PM
lol awesome? i don't believe i have anything objectionable on this site :sarb:
i don't think i have any personal info on here that i wouldn't want this person getting his/her hands on. dude definitely doesn't know i use the forums, & after it happened initially i did lay low for quite some time.
for someone who is being apparently "stalked" you seem to be taking things a little bit to lightly. but hey you wanted advice, people tried to give it to you, but you have already made up your mind, and just want people to feel sorry for you,... but sorry sympthy is in high demand these days and i dont have any spare for you.
~JATT DE PASAND~
September 10th, 2007, 11:30 PM
it doesn't make sense. see, in the letter it says "what were you thinking when you let your daughter go on an overnight cruise?" i told my parents we were going on a cruise after prom but then we decided not to & ended up just going to the city & i didn't bother to tell them that we actually didn't go on the cruise. & anyway, it wasn't supposed to be an overnight cruise. so i don't know who would think that we went on a cruise...
still might be though, i mean if they know all that.
k i s s e s
September 10th, 2007, 11:32 PM
for someone who is being apparently "stalked" you seem to be taking things a little bit to lightly. but hey you wanted advice, people tried to give it to you, but you have already made up your mind, and just want people to feel sorry for you,... but sorry sympthy is in high demand these days and i dont have any spare for you.
i don't think this is the type of thing that asks for pity, so it's alright. it's not like i'm hurt, i'm just pissed. thanks though.
No. But someone might take pics and say you're on a rating site with raging pedos and 30 yr old men. Enough to piss any parent off.
yeah this "someone" has already done that & emailed the link to my mom lol. i took my others pics off but i guess you're right though, maybe the default needs to go as well.
k i s s e s
September 10th, 2007, 11:41 PM
I agree. I hope everything get's better and you find out who this person is. Contact authorities.
thankss. it's gone.
khanvict
September 10th, 2007, 11:51 PM
i denno i really doubt it...it's just unlike them. & some of my cousin's have had messy situations themselves involving guys/parents & whatnot so it just doesn't fit.
well, i don't know how close your ex's would be to know your mom's e-mail address or that you would've ever mentioned her e-mail to them at any point in time but if all your stalker's ever done is pulled down pictures from the internet and mailed them to you then they're not like a random, hardcore, following your every move kind of person 'cause anybody can do that and it would take effort to actually find out more personal information so it would seem more convenient for someone related to do it if i'm making any sense - 'tis all i'm sayin'.
I agree. I hope everything get's better and you find out who this person is. Contact authorities.
you got you one of your b*tches turnin' tricks to get you that paid subscription? nice work, pimp. play on, playa.
khanvict
September 10th, 2007, 11:54 PM
lmfao. lmfao. lmfao.
Hi.
wassup whodi? :wavey:
Echelon
September 10th, 2007, 11:57 PM
Firstly, nygirl, shut the fuck up.
Secondly, I'd take it directly to the police. I'm pretty sure your criminal code has offences under stalking, and from what I understand relative to jurisdiction, this definitely accounts for stalking. If someone is sending your anonymous mail with your pictures in it, they have something seriously wrong with them.
Echelon
September 11th, 2007, 12:00 AM
Kisses, if this person emailed something to you, I'm pretty sure the server who holds the email account she is sending from will be willing to give authorities access to all the IP Logs, so they can figure out which internet connection he/she is posting from.
k i s s e s
September 11th, 2007, 12:01 AM
Firstly, nygirl, shut the fuck up.
Secondly, I'd take it directly to the police. I'm pretty sure your criminal code has offences under stalking, and from what I understand relative to jurisdiction, this definitely accounts for stalking. If someone is sending your anonymous mail with your pictures in it, they have something seriously wrong with them.
not anonymous mail, it wasn't postmarked or anything. someone actually came to my doorstep & left this package there while i was away at school. i guess because they couldn't get a hold of my dad's email address. sigh. maybe i need to talk to my mom again.
khanvict
September 11th, 2007, 12:01 AM
I be's good, yaar. You?
i'm like tony the tiger...before he died that is.
k i s s e s
September 11th, 2007, 12:02 AM
Kisses, if this person emailed something to you, I'm pretty sure the server who holds the email account she is sending from will be willing to give authorities access to all the IP Logs, so they can figure out which internet connection he/she is posting from.
this is true. i'll ask my mom if she still has the email.
Echelon
September 11th, 2007, 12:07 AM
I like how Punjabi_Rani is offering advice on removing her profile pic.
Angel Frm Heaven
September 11th, 2007, 12:54 AM
Hahah...and you post a thread about it on RD?
nayeemx33
September 11th, 2007, 12:56 AM
He's watching you now :Ohno:
BaByBLuEMiRcHy2
September 11th, 2007, 01:01 AM
not anonymous mail, it wasn't postmarked or anything. someone actually came to my doorstep & left this package there while i was away at school. i guess because they couldn't get a hold of my dad's email address. sigh. maybe i need to talk to my mom again.
I've had something similar happened to me 2.
Rogue
September 11th, 2007, 01:24 AM
hahaha, this kinda reminds me of this psycho super-distant relative that felt rejected (because i didn't reciprocate romantic interest in him) and i totally cut him out of my life (my parents and dad's side of the family were aware of his psychotic stalkerish tendencies and pretty much supported me cutting him out)...
so he ended up running across and stalking my profile on orkut, and right clicked/saved my pictures, some of which included my then-boyfriend (whom my own parents were aware about as I'm not someone who really enjoys living a double life). again, nothing explicit, just pecking on the cheek and such.
basically, this psycho distant relative (who was my dad's brother's sister's cousin brother) went to visit my uncle (dad's brother) and aunt (because he was her cousin brother), and showed off these pictures to them all hoping to create drama and make me look all scandalous. he even went as far as to lie and say i "emailed them to him".....which my relatives became a bit worked up about because to their understanding i had cut off communication (and in reality, i totally had)....anyway.... my dad's side of the family whom i'm not exactly very close with and never would be close to...just thrives on drama. so they picked up right away, im sure they had a wonderful little gossip fest. that summer, my drama-loving paternal grandma (another relative i can never respect) came to spend a few months in the states with my family...tried to create juicey gossippy drama with my parents regarding these pictures and the fact that i had a boyfriend. :lol: my parents retorted back and said "we're aware of him, she didn't keep him from us" and went on to add "we know she can take care of herself...she didn't even bother to take advantage of her freedom at college to drink/party/go clubbing even once...." and it was really nice to see my parents standing up like that and controlling the situation that way.. my grandma and relatives shut up right away and attempted to agree with them as if they had never implied anything else. :no: morons.
oh, i forgot to add. my paternal grandma tried to sit me down and "talk" about my boyfriend and these pictures. and i smiled and said "...oh these pictures, these are nothing. wait till i show you the others"...
anyway. i guess what i'm trying to say is, perhaps it's some jealous chick or really twisted relative :dunno: it's a possibility.
vgirl
September 11th, 2007, 02:55 AM
it is a concern, and importantly you should try and find out who is behind it all. in the meantime, until you can find out, be careful and don't post pictures up on public sites. i'm sure you've learned this already. be careful even with facebook.
k i s s e s
September 11th, 2007, 09:32 AM
I've had something similar happened to me 2.
feel free to elaborate
hahaha, this kinda reminds me of this psycho super-distant relative that felt rejected (because i didn't reciprocate romantic interest in him) and i totally cut him out of my life (my parents and dad's side of the family were aware of his psychotic stalkerish tendencies and pretty much supported me cutting him out)...
so he ended up running across and stalking my profile on orkut, and right clicked/saved my pictures, some of which included my then-boyfriend (whom my own parents were aware about as I'm not someone who really enjoys living a double life). again, nothing explicit, just pecking on the cheek and such.
basically, this psycho distant relative (who was my dad's brother's sister's cousin brother) went to visit my uncle (dad's brother) and aunt (because he was her cousin brother), and showed off these pictures to them all hoping to create drama and make me look all scandalous. he even went as far as to lie and say i "emailed them to him".....which my relatives became a bit worked up about because to their understanding i had cut off communication (and in reality, i totally had)....anyway.... my dad's side of the family whom i'm not exactly very close with and never would be close to...just thrives on drama. so they picked up right away, im sure they had a wonderful little gossip fest. that summer, my drama-loving paternal grandma (another relative i can never respect) came to spend a few months in the states with my family...tried to create juicey gossippy drama with my parents regarding these pictures and the fact that i had a boyfriend. :lol: my parents retorted back and said "we're aware of him, she didn't keep him from us" and went on to add "we know she can take care of herself...she didn't even bother to take advantage of her freedom at college to drink/party/go clubbing even once...." and it was really nice to see my parents standing up like that and controlling the situation that way.. my grandma and relatives shut up right away and attempted to agree with them as if they had never implied anything else. :no: morons.
oh, i forgot to add. my paternal grandma tried to sit me down and "talk" about my boyfriend and these pictures. and i smiled and said "...oh these pictures, these are nothing. wait till i show you the others"...
anyway. i guess what i'm trying to say is, perhaps it's some jealous chick or really twisted relative :dunno: it's a possibility.
wow..well it's awesome that your parents defended you. see something like that i could picture my relatives doing but only if they came across such pictures by chance, i doubt they'd go looking for them. it's this whole writing a letter nonsense that throws me off.
it is a concern, and importantly you should try and find out who is behind it all. in the meantime, until you can find out, be careful and don't post pictures up on public sites. i'm sure you've learned this already. be careful even with facebook.
i've been pretty careful about it, now i just need to make sure my friends are as well when they have pictures of me.
lovindia
September 11th, 2007, 09:33 AM
just find out from UPS where the package came from
k i s s e s
September 11th, 2007, 09:34 AM
just find out from UPS where the package came from
it wasn't mailed to us. someone came to my house & left it on the doorstep.
Bengal!z
September 11th, 2007, 09:36 AM
Sounds like sumthen a spiteful ex would do. Sick bastards.
I suggest you do nothing and be prepared for anything.
Any idea who it is?
lovindia
September 11th, 2007, 09:37 AM
it wasn't mailed to us. someone came to my house & left it on the doorstep.
the email you got, did it show a ip address
k i s s e s
September 11th, 2007, 09:38 AM
Sounds like sumthen a spiteful ex would do. Sick bastards.
I suggest you do nothing and be prepared for anything.
Any idea who it is?
i'm beginning to really think it's that facebook chic (post#79) but i still have no idea who's behind the account. i don't have a spiteful ex or anything.. =/
Bengal!z
September 11th, 2007, 09:38 AM
God , the amount of shit desi girls have to put up with is unbelievable. evry second desi girl i know/meet has had experiences like this - stalkers, weirdos etc.
k i s s e s
September 11th, 2007, 09:41 AM
the email you got, did it show a ip address
i don't think so. the email address was something like "yahoohelper." also, because on myspace you needed to have an account to view a person's pictures & obviously my mom didnt have one, the email included a separate email/password for her to use to log in & see my pictures. =/
lovindia
September 11th, 2007, 09:43 AM
i don't think so. the email address was something like "yahoohelper." also, because on myspace you needed to have an account to view a person's pictures & obviously my mom didnt have one, the email included a separate email/password for her to use to log in & see my pictures. =/
I bet its one of your friends, reason jealousy
Bengal!z
September 11th, 2007, 09:44 AM
I bet its one of your friends, reason jealousy
most probably.
lovindia
September 11th, 2007, 09:46 AM
most probably.
knows her parents, where lives, mom email address. who else can it be
punjabi*princess
September 11th, 2007, 09:56 AM
awww well i think u should go to the cops.. u know there are ways of getting a person address on line .. or whatever but i think u should go to the cops asap .. thats ur only option or u know that someone can do something more horrible and u dont want more bs in ur life
lovindia
September 11th, 2007, 09:59 AM
awww well i think u should go to the cops.. u know there are ways of getting a person address on line .. or whatever but i think u should go to the cops asap .. thats ur only option or u know that someone can do something more horrible and u dont want more bs in ur life
true
King Ghidra
September 11th, 2007, 10:03 AM
this is ridiculous :mad:
This is sparta?
punjabi*princess
September 11th, 2007, 10:05 AM
true
yup .. some asshole been texting me and leaving me stupid voicemails of sad punjabi songs.. and NOW SOMEONE HACKED INTO MY EMAIll.. its pissing me off
lovindia
September 11th, 2007, 10:11 AM
yup .. some asshole been texting me and leaving me stupid voicemails of sad punjabi songs.. and NOW SOMEONE HACKED INTO MY EMAIll.. its pissing me off
oh crap, thier should be block option on your cell
punjabi*princess
September 11th, 2007, 10:12 AM
oh crap, thier should be block option on your cell
i called the company to block text messages she goes there is no way i was like wtf.. and my email had my bf and my pics :mad:
lovindia
September 11th, 2007, 10:13 AM
i called the company to block text messages she goes there is no way i was like wtf.. and my email had my bf and my pics :mad:
that crazy, what do you have verizon,tmobil,att ect
punjabi*princess
September 11th, 2007, 10:15 AM
that crazy, what do you have verizon,tmobil,att ect
tmobile..but i told my mom that my email got hacked she flipped out on me ... but my parents dont know about my bf :neutral:
lovindia
September 11th, 2007, 10:16 AM
tmobile..but i told my mom that my email got hacked she flipped out on me ... but my parents dont know about my bf :neutral:
http://www.privacyrights.org/fs/fs2a-cellcalls.htm
punjabi*princess
September 11th, 2007, 10:18 AM
http://www.privacyrights.org/fs/fs2a-cellcalls.htm
thanks now i am getting texts that the person lives in africa lol i was like wtf.. saying he needs money etc etc
lovindia
September 11th, 2007, 10:19 AM
thanks now i am getting texts that the person lives in africa lol i was like wtf.. saying he needs money etc etc
:no:
punjabi*princess
September 11th, 2007, 10:20 AM
i think the person who hacked into my email .. he even sent a email to my bf from my email address saying i need money.. and my bf goes u need money for what lol and i go what u talkin about.. and my firend who actually believed in him she was talking to him and one day she calls me .. she goes why are u in africa and why u need money and i go what are u talking about
punjabi*princess
September 11th, 2007, 10:21 AM
my bf told me to ingore the sad punjabi songs voicemails.. and ingore all the private calls.. cauz this dude was calling me on private soo thats what i have been doing.. but this "africa dude" is pissing me off
lovindia
September 11th, 2007, 10:27 AM
try changing you number
punjabi*princess
September 11th, 2007, 10:37 AM
try changing you number
i just got this new phone about two months ago
lovindia
September 11th, 2007, 10:39 AM
so :neutral:
punjabi*princess
September 11th, 2007, 10:51 AM
so :neutral:
what u mean so ... i only told my parents that my email got hacked .. i havent told them about the texts and the voicemail
lovindia
September 11th, 2007, 10:52 AM
I would just get a new number, Tmoble sucks
*PrOjeCT KaL
September 11th, 2007, 06:21 PM
this is ridiculous :mad:
thats nuthing to be worried about, in eastenders the beales got a parcel left in front of there doorstep with a pig's heart and a flower. (apprently it was cindy beale)
if it was something like that then id be worried :D
icekreamgirl12
September 11th, 2007, 06:25 PM
my bf told me to ingore the sad punjabi songs voicemails.. and ingore all the private calls.. cauz this dude was calling me on private soo thats what i have been doing.. but this "africa dude" is pissing me off
omg i used to get private call as well....................they come and go.....but recently they have stop....thank god.....i think it was my ex.............:rolleyes:
sameer
September 11th, 2007, 11:03 PM
i havent posted any of the little details about my life anywhere that this person somehow knew about & i used to have pictures on myspace but i don't even do that anymore & everything else is completely private. like i said, the pictures were really old, this person must have had them saved. & the prom pictures weren't taken from my camera & i wasn't the one who uploaded them anywhere either. do you really think i would be that stupid if shit like this has been a recurring issue? :rolleyes:
lol dont bother responding to nygirl. its not worth it.
sameer
September 11th, 2007, 11:05 PM
nope because i believe sameer has a pic that's even worse & if he were to do something like this i denno why he wouldn't include it lol
lol please dont talk about that night. you were still underage back then. i could get in trouble.
haha jk
sameer
September 11th, 2007, 11:12 PM
Firstly, nygirl, shut the fuck up.
:werd:
k i s s e s
September 12th, 2007, 12:16 AM
lol please dont talk about that night. you were still underage back then. i could get in trouble.
haha jk
lol do you know what i'm talking about?
PreciousPari
September 12th, 2007, 12:33 AM
i havent posted any of the little details about my life anywhere that this person somehow knew about & i used to have pictures on myspace but i don't even do that anymore & everything else is completely private. like i said, the pictures were really old, this person must have had them saved. & the prom pictures weren't taken from my camera & i wasn't the one who uploaded them anywhere either. do you really think i would be that stupid if shit like this has been a recurring issue? :rolleyes:
lol Don't even bother explaining the obvious to Miss Dumbass as many people already have stated. She rants and bickers in every thread w/o even reading it. :lol:
Anyway, any luck so far? What tips you off that its the myspace chic? Girl, trust no one. But do keep your enemies close. I hope you find the culprit and destroy him/her to its death.
chunky
September 12th, 2007, 01:09 AM
lol. so say you figure out who this person is, what are you going to do to them?
Echelon
September 12th, 2007, 01:15 AM
lol. so say you figure out who this person is, what are you going to do to them?Up here we have laws specifically for internet stalkers.
If anyone went beyond the net medium and affected me personally, I wouldn't hesitate to use it.
sameer
September 12th, 2007, 02:45 AM
lol do you know what i'm talking about?
hmm no :( i was drunk.
did u take advantage of me?
k i s s e s
September 12th, 2007, 10:00 AM
lol Don't even bother explaining the obvious to Miss Dumbass as many people already have stated. She rants and bickers in every thread w/o even reading it. :lol:
Anyway, any luck so far? What tips you off that its the myspace chic? Girl, trust no one. But do keep your enemies close. I hope you find the culprit and destroy him/her to its death.
facebook* & umm just that she's the only person on my prom date's friendslist who seems shady, and we know that it has to have been someone on there because that's the only way they could have gotten the prom pics. plus she has no network, all her friends are randomly added, & she's tried to add me & my ex multiple times. it just seems sketchy & it's the only thing i can think of..
lol. so say you figure out who this person is, what are you going to do to them?
i don't know i guess it really depends who it is...
hmm no i was drunk.
did u take advantage of me?
haha no
punjabi*princess
September 12th, 2007, 10:40 AM
omg i used to get private call as well....................they come and go.....but recently they have stop....thank god.....i think it was my ex.............:rolleyes:
but its cauzing problems in my life.. my bf is getting pissed at it.. my ex doesnt know this number i changed this number he doesnt know where i live i moved.. my phone numbers are changed everyhting ..
BMW-racer
September 12th, 2007, 10:40 AM
you're so hot.
damn.
sax2k6
September 12th, 2007, 10:44 AM
this is ridiculous :mad:
u got a stalker....maybe u shud contact the police!!!
lovindia
September 12th, 2007, 10:46 AM
but its cauzing problems in my life.. my bf is getting pissed at it.. my ex doesnt know this number i changed this number he doesnt know where i live i moved.. my phone numbers are changed everyhting ..
try the police
punjabi*princess
September 12th, 2007, 10:52 AM
try the police
im going to take ur advice and change my number
lovindia
September 12th, 2007, 11:03 AM
im going to take ur advice and change my number
:cheers:
supremed
September 12th, 2007, 11:03 AM
sucks to be you
Nilü
September 12th, 2007, 11:10 AM
I had that too i had a profile and im here and someone get aware about it and that person called my phupho i guess and told her things what wasn't true, i was really pissed. It's look like you can't have any freaking privacy
ayyaz253
September 12th, 2007, 11:23 AM
ur-ex
djscandalouz
September 12th, 2007, 03:28 PM
it has to be sameer. he has the easiest access to all your info.
Ban
lil_gangsta_
September 12th, 2007, 06:09 PM
damn , seems lik sum1 whoz realli close to u pretendin to b ur friend but not realli a friend. look around ,
k i s s e s
September 12th, 2007, 06:31 PM
ou're so hot.
damn.
:chick:
off topiccc
sucks to be you
i knowzz
I had that too i had a profile and im here and someone get aware about it and that person called my phupho i guess and told her things what wasn't true, i was really pissed. It's look like you can't have any freaking privacy
yeah especially when you're desi. & if you're muslim :no: people are always watching you & judging you
damn , seems lik sum1 whoz realli close to u pretendin to b ur friend but not realli a friend. look around ,
yeah i think i trust people too much
KurtaPyjama
September 12th, 2007, 08:11 PM
this is ridiculous :mad:
LMAO.
k i s s e s
September 12th, 2007, 08:39 PM
LMAO.
don't laugh at my misery :rolleyes:
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