are all men like this

[SexyTemptress]

I was wondering if my current bf is normal. Are most guys like this? None of my gfs have these problems with their men, so im wondering....

If I dont pick up the phone when my bf calls he freaks out. We had a fight about this. I told him to call me but I got busy b/c I was at a friends BBQ so i didnt pick up the phone. He called me 4 times, and was upset, disappointed etc b/c i didnt pick up. I called him after 9 that day when my minutes are free and he had a huge problem with this.

Another time, I went to a bar with a gf of mine. she brought her bf along but i didnt bring John along b/c I wanted time to myself and I dont want John w/ me all the time. he called me up and asked me who i was with. i accidently forgot and said i was with my gf and her bf. he flipped out saying he thought it was girls nite out and if she brought her man along i should have brought mine along and that basically he felt left out.

he comes off as too needy. if this is how men are, maybe i should go gay

[baby khan]

i wouldnt say all of them are like this but some yes...i know 1 (not my bf) :no:

[punjabi*princess]

not all of them like that.. my bf isnt like that.. yeah he calls me over and over but he doesnt get mad.. he just leaves me a voicemail because he knows i am busy most of the day.. so he just waits when i call him .. and if he doesnt pick up i just leave a voicemail ..

[punjabi*princess]

i think u and him should sit and talk it through tell him u need ur space and etc etc.. talk to him dont say it in the face that might just hurt him .. just say it in a way that he doesnt get mad about it

[Ugly_thang]

my fiance is like that, but i dont mind.. at least i know someone care/think about me all the time =)

[Rogue]

I was wondering if my current bf is normal. Are most guys like this? None of my gfs have these problems with their men, so im wondering....

If I dont pick up the phone when my bf calls he freaks out. We had a fight about this. I told him to call me but I got busy b/c I was at a friends BBQ so i didnt pick up the phone. He called me 4 times, and was upset, disappointed etc b/c i didnt pick up. I called him after 9 that day when my minutes are free and he had a huge problem with this.

Another time, I went to a bar with a gf of mine. she brought her bf along but i didnt bring John along b/c I wanted time to myself and I dont want John w/ me all the time. he called me up and asked me who i was with. i accidently forgot and said i was with my gf and her bf. he flipped out saying he thought it was girls nite out and if she brought her man along i should have brought mine along and that basically he felt left out.

he comes off as too needy. if this is how men are, maybe i should go gayhe sounds a bit insecure, immature, controlling, and yes...needy. he apparently doesn't realize that you could really love/care someone but not have to always be around them 24/7. he should respect the fact that you need your time/space, too, and not to just suffocate you like that.

[One-N-Only]

he sounds a bit insecure, immature, controlling, and yes...needy. he apparently doesn't realize that you could really love/care someone but not have to always be around them 24/7. he should respect the fact that you need your time/space, too, and not to just suffocate you like that.


totally agree!

[HeAvYmAcHiNeGuN]

I was wondering if my current bf is normal. Are most guys like this? None of my gfs have these problems with their men, so im wondering....

If I dont pick up the phone when my bf calls he freaks out. We had a fight about this. I told him to call me but I got busy b/c I was at a friends BBQ so i didnt pick up the phone. He called me 4 times, and was upset, disappointed etc b/c i didnt pick up. I called him after 9 that day when my minutes are free and he had a huge problem with this.

Another time, I went to a bar with a gf of mine. she brought her bf along but i didnt bring John along b/c I wanted time to myself and I dont want John w/ me all the time. he called me up and asked me who i was with. i accidently forgot and said i was with my gf and her bf. he flipped out saying he thought it was girls nite out and if she brought her man along i should have brought mine along and that basically he felt left out.

he comes off as too needy. if this is how men are, maybe i should go gay


he really cares for u BABE....u should b proud of him
and heres an advice....dont eva ignore him....i mean if hes calling u answer da phone....atleast say hi how u doin....tell him dat ur wid a friend or ur family....so we'll talk later.....and i think everything will b fine
best of luck

[zai_alam]

he really cares for u BABE....u should b proud of him
and heres an advice....dont eva ignore him....i mean if hes calling u answer da phone....atleast say hi how u doin....tell him dat ur wid a friend or ur family....so we'll talk later.....and i think everything will b fine
best of luck

:lol:

[HeAvYmAcHiNeGuN]

:lol:

seriously some men are like dat

[BilalisPakistani]

Probably thinks youre cheating on him.

Doesnt answer 5 phone calls, returns the calls like 5 hours later.. Going out at night saying youre with "so and so" and turns out youre with other people..

[ancient_warrior]

Maybe U should stop decieving, lying, or screening his calls.

If U are busy U pick up and say U will call him back later. If U don't pick up phone and hangout with Ur girlfriends and their boyfriends.

Ofcourse, He is gonna be pissed. He is prolly thinking U are hangin out wit other guys at club and that's why U didn't invite him.

Happened to my best friend, kinda of tha same scenario expect his girl was lying and cheating.

Honesty is best policy.

[zai_alam]

seriously some men are like dat

i think that he thinks that she's fucking someone else behind his back :)

FlaWS8pmcmY


I bet her boyfriend feels like the gentleman in my sig :kekeke:

[ewwwww]

I was wondering if my current bf is normal. Are most guys like this? None of my gfs have these problems with their men, so im wondering....

If I dont pick up the phone when my bf calls he freaks out. We had a fight about this. I told him to call me but I got busy b/c I was at a friends BBQ so i didnt pick up the phone. He called me 4 times, and was upset, disappointed etc b/c i didnt pick up. I called him after 9 that day when my minutes are free and he had a huge problem with this.

Another time, I went to a bar with a gf of mine. she brought her bf along but i didnt bring John along b/c I wanted time to myself and I dont want John w/ me all the time. he called me up and asked me who i was with. i accidently forgot and said i was with my gf and her bf. he flipped out saying he thought it was girls nite out and if she brought her man along i should have brought mine along and that basically he felt left out.

he comes off as too needy. if this is how men are, maybe i should go gay
I can't belive that people are saying things like he cares for you.

He is an immature, over poccessive, controlling piss off. My ex was exactly like this and later on he even resorted to physical abuse. My advice is leave him asap!

[HeAvYmAcHiNeGuN]

Maybe U should stop decieving, lying, or screening his calls.

If U are busy U pick up and say U will call him back later. If U don't pick up phone and hangout with Ur girlfriends and their boyfriends.

Ofcourse, He is gonna be pissed. He is prolly thinking U are hangin out wit other guys at club and that's why U didn't invite him.

Happened to my best friend, kinda of tha same scenario expect his girl was lying and cheating.

Honesty is best policy.

exactlyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyy
so stop ignoring

[_A-s-H-i_]

i am a lesbo i cnt help
:yum:

[HeAvYmAcHiNeGuN]

i think that he thinks that she's fucking someone else behind his back :)

FlaWS8pmcmY


I bet her boyfriend feels like the gentleman in my sig :kekeke:

ahhhhh dat is when she doesnt answer his phone calls

[HeAvYmAcHiNeGuN]

Probably thinks youre cheating on him.

Doesnt answer 5 phone calls, returns the calls like 5 hours later.. Going out at night saying youre with "so and so" and turns out youre with other people..

mannnnn u rock!!!!!!!!!
dats exactly what happened to me
my gal used to do da same....she used to tell me dat she is goin out wid her FEMALE friends.....but actually her Friend's BF's were also there wid her
now dats really bad.

[zai_alam]

I can't belive that people are saying things like he cares for you.

He is an immature, over poccessive, controlling piss off. My ex was exactly like this and later on he even resorted to physical abuse. My advice is leave him asap!

My advise is to chop his balls off and flush them down the toilet :werd:

BTW, did you get a rodgering from anyone else behind his back?

[ancient_warrior]

I can't belive that people are saying things like he cares for you.

He is an immature, over poccessive, controlling piss off. My ex was exactly like this and later on he even resorted to physical abuse. My advice is leave him asap!

Sucks to have baggage, ha. Atleast U are getting it off Ur chest, I guess :p

[HeAvYmAcHiNeGuN]

i am a lesbo i cnt help
:yum:

now dat is GREATTTTTTTTTTTTTT

[zaph69]

Your bf has issues.

[SexyTemptress]

when i'm in the company of other ppl,i ignore his calls b/c its rude to answer your cell phone when your around others. he always asks me "why do you have a cell phone if you never bother to use it?" i dont understand why he would think i'm cheating on him. i tried explaining to him its b/c i'm around others and i dont want to be rude. as busy as i am in this relationship, i dont think i even have the time or energy to cheat.

[zai_alam]

when i'm in the company of other ppl,i ignore his calls b/c its rude to answer your cell phone when your around others. he always asks me "why do you have a cell phone if you never bother to use it?" i dont understand why he would think i'm cheating on him. i tried explaining to him its b/c i'm around others and i dont want to be rude. as busy as i am in this relationship, i dont think i even have the time or energy to cheat.

Is it actually because you 'cant get no satisfactionnn........' from him?

Be honest now.

[ancient_warrior]

when i'm in the company of other ppl,i ignore his calls b/c its rude to answer your cell phone when your around others. he always asks me "why do you have a cell phone if you never bother to use it?" i dont understand why he would think i'm cheating on him. i tried explaining to him its b/c i'm around others and i dont want to be rude. as busy as i am in this relationship, i dont think i even have the time or energy to cheat.

Well somthing is missing here. It's not rude to pick up cell in company of others especially friends unless U are at work, meeting, or somthing professional or important.

If U talk on cell phone for a long time then I see how it can be rude. rare cases such as these happen wit phone freaks who talk too long on phone and killing hangout time wit their friends. I have a friend like that who does it once in a while but mostly brief or moderate calls on cell phone.

Why don't U return Ur cell phone and just use home phone since U don't wanna use it around others anyway or maybe go to a isolated forest where U can talk on cell phone all day when others are not around?

Lame excuses, I am not surprised Ur boyfriend suspects U. No reasonable or solid excuses.

Same exact happened to my friend his girl was cheating on him. She would be like cmon I was wit friends it will be rude or cell phone battery was down or forgoet cell phone at home, car, etc. Popular but lame excuses.

I told him she was cheating and he got pissed at me coz I had no proof but I was right as he found out later on. My New York instinct never cheats me.

[Arshy]

I think you're spending way too much time with your friend.

Are you sure you're not a lesbian?

[HeAvYmAcHiNeGuN]

when i'm in the company of other ppl,i ignore his calls b/c its rude to answer your cell phone when your around others. he always asks me "why do you have a cell phone if you never bother to use it?" i dont understand why he would think i'm cheating on him. i tried explaining to him its b/c i'm around others and i dont want to be rude. as busy as i am in this relationship, i dont think i even have the time or energy to cheat.

then its like who do u prefer
ur bf or others

[HeAvYmAcHiNeGuN]

I think you're spending way too much time with your friend.

Are you sure you're not a lesbian?

hahahahaha
i guess she is
and ignoring someone who really cares and loves her

[BilalisPakistani]

when i'm in the company of other ppl,i ignore his calls b/c its rude to answer your cell phone when your around others. he always asks me "why do you have a cell phone if you never bother to use it?" i dont understand why he would think i'm cheating on him. i tried explaining to him its b/c i'm around others and i dont want to be rude. as busy as i am in this relationship, i dont think i even have the time or energy to cheat.
Lol is it rude to answer your phone when your with your friends?

I think its rude to look at the phone and decide not to pick it up.

The least you could do is send a text message or something.

If my girl treated me like that, id have to kick her to the curb. :dunno:

[nabx]

I was wondering if my current bf is normal. Are most guys like this? None of my gfs have these problems with their men, so im wondering....

If I dont pick up the phone when my bf calls he freaks out. We had a fight about this. I told him to call me but I got busy b/c I was at a friends BBQ so i didnt pick up the phone. He called me 4 times, and was upset, disappointed etc b/c i didnt pick up. I called him after 9 that day when my minutes are free and he had a huge problem with this.

Another time, I went to a bar with a gf of mine. she brought her bf along but i didnt bring John along b/c I wanted time to myself and I dont want John w/ me all the time. he called me up and asked me who i was with. i accidently forgot and said i was with my gf and her bf. he flipped out saying he thought it was girls nite out and if she brought her man along i should have brought mine along and that basically he felt left out.

he comes off as too needy. if this is how men are, maybe i should go gay

he is more serious in you then you are with him, he needs to find a better lover...

[SexyTemptress]

i'd text message him if i could...however he does not have a cell phone. he wont get one either.

also, i was told by some of my friends that he has a history of being stalkerish. one girl even has a restraining order against him.

[boysfromthesouth]

well if she takes her bf and you don't wtf kinda impression is he gonna get -
imagine if his mate was with his gf and he went as a single with them.
you'd keep that shit inside and throw it back at him when he's down.

no one likes overly possessive - but if you don't pick up the phone your just being a dick. why - u embarrased of him?

a dude spends his money on your bitch ass and you complain. next thing he'll call you after 9 and you'll tell him he's cheap. drama queen.

you with him or not. don't like it. get a bad boy. cos we can treat u like u aint shit and play you if u want. it's easier.

[HeAvYmAcHiNeGuN]

i'd text message him if i could...however he does not have a cell phone. he wont get one either.

also, i was told by some of my friends that he has a history of being stalkerish. one girl even has a restraining order against him.

what if he does da same wid u????

[BilalisPakistani]

i'd text message him if i could...however he does not have a cell phone. he wont get one either.

also, i was told by some of my friends that he has a history of being stalkerish. one girl even has a restraining order against him.
Rofl now there's something you couldve mentioned in the first post.

Yeah a restraining order against him changes the picture a little bit.

[Pandora]

Some are, he needs reassurance then when he's used to you, he'll become an ass on his own which you'll love.

[kaisar2]

i thought you were gay already

[Dat boi]

quite honestly.... i really dont think she loves the guy... he's jus someone she interacts with when shes board outta her fuckin mind. eg. when she aint at bar, or at bbq, or chilling with her "female" friends....
be straight up with him if u dont want him calling jus fuckin tell him and find yourself a boy who wont give 2flying fucks about u, and will only call you u wen wants a piece of yer ass....

[zai_alam]

quite honestly.... i really dont think she loves the guy... he's jus someone she interacts with when shes board outta her fuckin mind. eg. when she aint at bar, or at bbq, or chilling with her "female" friends....
be straight up with him if u dont want him calling jus fuckin tell him and find yourself a boy who wont give 2flying fucks about u, and will only call you u wen wants a piece of yer ass....

:rofl:

:werd:

[lil_gangsta_]

over protected and insecure, get another 1,

[-SyLpH-]

i am a lesbo i cnt help
:yum:
reallly ??? :|