Guys and Girls of RD..... If You Cheated.........

[Angel_Face_K]

On your other half would you tell them?
What if you cheated on your wife/husband?
Oh noes.

Anyone know people that have cheated on their wife/husband and told them? Did they stay togther? Also what would you do?
I'd walk straight up. But then again I say that but you never know na...

[yeahwhat]

I would tell them ... it's funny because the truth always has a way of coming out sooner or later so you might as well be honest and salvage the relationship as much as you can because if you cheat and lie about it there will be no chance

[pagal_guju]

On your other half would you tell them?
What if you cheated on your wife/husband?
Oh noes.

Anyone know people that have cheated on their wife/husband and told them? Did they stay togther? Also what would you do?
I'd walk straight up. But then again I say that but you never know na...
i could never cheat on my bf or husband. even if i did, i would probably tell them because i would feel guilty about it.

i don't know anybody that has cheated and told their significant other. lol

[xogirlie girlxo]

I don't cheat. I just don't.

[jay_uk_geezer]

I would have to tell my g/f or wife because a relationships built on trust and i wouldn't cheat anyway because i wouldn't want it done to me,

yeahwhat you got a great smile you could model for colgate!

[nmguy20]

Cheating is bad for ju. :hsnono: Personally I don't think I've done it. But I could be wrong.

[supremed]

this happened to me, I just walked away, I didnt need a person like that in my life

[xogirlie girlxo]

Goodjob @ supremed.

[yeahwhat]

LOL, the question isn't would you or wouldn't you cheat, of course everyone would say i wouldn't cheat on my sig. other but if you did how would you handle it/deal with it.

just speaking from the point of view if i got cheated on; if I found out from a 3rd person i would never forgive but if my bf told me the truth, there might be a chance for forgiveness.

[imdaman99]

first off, i dont think im capable of doing that
but if i did, id have to let her know. she would deserve to know. plus it would eat at my conscience :dunno:

[supremed]

Goodjob @ supremed.
thanks...but really whats the point with staying with someone who doesnt really want you...I know a couple of people who are still with their gfs/bfs after they were cheated on...I just think "You know it will happen again, why put yourself through that pain?"

[jay_uk_geezer]

LOL, the question isn't would you or wouldn't you cheat, of course everyone would say i wouldn't cheat on my sig. other but if you did how would you handle it/deal with it.

just speaking from the point of view if i got cheated on; if I found out from a 3rd person i would never forgive but if my bf told me the truth, there might be a chance for forgiveness.


So if you b/f is reading this he might cheat on you knowing you might be going to forgive him! does he use ratedesi? lol

I think people who cheat are lowlife

[Nilü]

:shhh:

[DasJa]

It's not called cheating, 'til you don't get caught :dunno:

[xogirlie girlxo]

thanks...but really whats the point with staying with someone who doesnt really want you...I know a couple of people who are still with their gfs/bfs after they were cheated on...I just think "You know it will happen again, why put yourself through that pain?"
Yeah. Even if the person acts like theyre sorry, its just unforgivable, its such a violation of trust.

[yeahwhat]

So if you b/f is reading this he might cheat on you knowing you might be going to forgive him! does he use ratedesi? lol

I think people who cheat are lowlife

lol, no he doesn't use ratedesi. I said there might be a chance (slim to none), meaning a bit better then me finding out that hes also lied about it too.

[jay_uk_geezer]

lol, no he doesn't use ratedesi. I said there might be a chance (slim to none), meaning a bit better then me finding out that hes also lied about it too.

I see where you coming from i hope he doesn't cheat on you ever but if he does i will be more than willing to give you a shoulder to cry on okay!! lol

[Angel_Face_K]

I see where you coming from i hope he doesn't cheat on you ever but if he does i will be more than willing to give you a shoulder to cry on okay!! lol
Oh my gosh you're and annoying fuck you that. Go make a thread asking for easy pussy. Jesus

[Riddemz]

i would not cheat on my wife, because i would have chosen that wife because she is above all others to me

a girlfriend?
it depends

if she was a nice person etc. i would not

however if for some reason i would still be with the female and she was a bitch...
then id cheat on her and make sure she'd get to know just to hurt her... as revenge
and then i would be happy to see her in pain (which i hope she would be)

but i doubt that im ever going to get the chance to do that seeing how i most likely will never be with a girl like that again

[lilbugger]

i would cheat on her till i get caught

On your other half would you tell them?
What if you cheated on your wife/husband?
Oh noes.

Anyone know people that have cheated on their wife/husband and told them? Did they stay togther? Also what would you do?
I'd walk straight up. But then again I say that but you never know na...

[DasJa]

i would cheat on her till i get caught
Vurd

Keepin it real

[Rogue]

wouldn't happen in the first place, and i'd definitely be honest about everything... and expect my partner to be honest as well.

[ewwwww]

lol...I know most of you will not tell your partner.

[sexy4u27]

just speaking from the point of view if i got cheated on; if I found out from a 3rd person i would never forgive but if my gf told me the truth, there might be a chance for forgivenes.. but she cheated.. its wrong.. and my last 2 ex gf cheated... women lie more then men

[di vinci]

is it consider cheating if u both were in differant countries????

[HeAvYmAcHiNeGuN]

i dont cheat...dats for sure
and if i do something wrong...i am not afraid to tell dat

[crayzee]

On your other half would you tell them?
What if you cheated on your wife/husband?
Oh noes.

Anyone know people that have cheated on their wife/husband and told them? Did they stay togther? Also what would you do?
I'd walk straight up. But then again I say that but you never know na...:werd:

although the truth may hurt at times, honesty is always the best policy.

[uglyDuckling]

On your other half would you tell them?
What if you cheated on your wife/husband?
Oh noes.

Anyone know people that have cheated on their wife/husband and told them? Did they stay togther? Also what would you do?
I'd walk straight up. But then again I say that but you never know na...

I told this to my SO aswell
If I feel the need to cheat that means that there is something missing in our relationship and he deserves to know that. Then, him and I would try our best to work on the situation but if the problem becomes sever or can not be compromised, we'd have to split and then maybe I can look for another (better suited) partner. But I would never cheat on him.

[foreverconfused]

I would never cheat. I never have and never will... but hypothetically if I was in this situation, I don't know what I would do.

I suppose I would break up with them (most likely), as it would be wrong to stay in a relationship when I couldn't stay committed to the person. In the rare chance I decided to stay with them, I would keep my mouth shut and hope they wouldn't find out.

[foreverconfused]

lol...I know most of you will not tell your partner.

:werd:

[PakPlaya69]

Looks like the relationship is on the rocks. ALASSSS

[planetana]

I would definitely feel guilty...*honest answer* =D
But I ll try not to hide the fact 'that I cheated' from my guy(toughest part).

[Amani786]

Hypothetically if i did - then i wouldnt tell him if i regretted my mistake and vowed never to do it again. If it had become a habit and not a mistake then i would just leave him - as he deserves better.

if i was on the receiving end then again i wouldnt want to know if it was a mistake and he regretted it - as long as he changed and became a better person towards me then me knowing would just make things worse.

i dont believe you can go back to what you had once something like infidelty has broken the trust between 2 people.

Men in general cheat - yeah they're everywhere around me so i personally know them- i'm quite disillusioned at the way they think

i do know of 1 couple (my cousin) who actually has a better relationship with her hubby since she caught him cheating- i dont knwo how she forgave him but saying that in Asian culture women either know of the husbands infidelity and quietly accept it or it comes out and she forgives him. i wonder whether if the tables were turned if the woman would be accepted and fargaved so easily...yeah right and theres a pig flying across my window!!

[planetana]

You wouldnt tell your mate that you cheated? Isnt that cheating all over again?
I mean consequences can be worse when your mate finds out that you never mentioned the fact that you cheated. :s Am I sounding too serious? Well this is a serious topic,don't blame me later if I am serious :|

[Amani786]

no i wouldnt - why? because i'm feeling guilty i feel that unburdening myself will make my partner feel better? because it wouldn't make them feel better.

the only person that would feel better would be me and after being so selfish already i dont think i should be more selfish.

Also if you know you made a mistake and you will never do it again how can you think that by telling them the relationship will survive? it wouldnt

so if you want to end the relationship - tell them
if not then change yourself to be a better person but dont tell them.

[planetana]

Doesnt honesty have any place in a relationship?
What if your mate did the same & never told you about it?
What if your mate keeps cheating on you again & again and you never come to know?
But maybe you're right. If hiding the truth can make things work out,then be it.
But just think how would it be if your mate did the same to you.

[planetana]

Btw you can never feel better by keeping it to yourself. If telling the truth is being selfish,then you're wrong.
A crime is a crime,be it a secret or even if it's out in the open.

[Amani786]

NEWSFLASH - all men are dogs!!!!

because they will cheat on you and the earlier women realise that then they can expect it when (and not IF) it happens and it wouldn't be a shock or a surprise.

ladies get real - if you look at half the threads by guys on here they would agree with me and the earlier women realise that this is the "new age fuck anything with a vayjay man" it will be easier to go with my theory of not wanting to know instead of the "pour our hearts forth" crap.

and the reason the probability of cheating whilst in a relationship is so high is because its easy to get some...from anywhere - and how many men do you know that will say no if it was offered on a plate!

[planetana]

Very few will,Don't completely erase out the number of *LOYAL* men.

[Amani786]

Very few will,Don't completely erase out the number of *LOYAL* men.

Puleease - you would like to think that they would turn it down - but i live in the REAL world where they wouldn't.

and probably you're right there are some exceptions to the rule - there are some "loyal" guys somewhere - maybe - if you look hard enough.

anyway this thread was about if you cheat would you tell them - i just gave my opinion that i wouldn't - doesnt mean you have to agree with me or try and persuade me to change my mind - i based it on my surroundings and your opinions are probably based on your surrounding and experiences.

i have a lot of guy friends and based on what they get up to I KNOW how they think - which is - what wifey doesnt know wont hurt her and when i argued this with them they basically said that they make sure she is happy, and by her finding out no one will stay happy. Yeah its a skewed logic but its the society that we live in. so if i know thats what guys are like, why would i expect any differece from the guy i get hitched to? - i dont

Anyway i've seen their other halves and spoken to them - they gush about their husbands all the time because reagrdless of everything they get treated good. so my friends are the ones that have to deal with their conscience and the ones that belive in a God, sin and punishment will have to face their maker - so theyre the only ones that are actually losing out.

[Durty_Waterz]

i did sorta...
one night i made out with a girl after a drunken party
the worst thing about the whole ordeal was that it was my GF's birthday...
but i had some balls and had to come clean
my gf cried and dint yell just cried and cried
oh lord i caused pain to the one person that actually care and loved me...
but shes like the best girl in thr whole wide world!
the incredibubbly girl forgave me!!!

[Angel_Face_K]

i did sorta...
one night i made out with a girl after a drunken party
the worst thing about the whole ordeal was that it was my GF's birthday...
but i had some balls and had to come clean
my gf cried and dint yell just cried and cried
oh lord i caused pain to the one person that actually care and loved me...
but shes like the best girl in thr whole wide world!
the incredibubbly girl forgave me!!!
Probably the sweetest post on this site

[nabeel_ak47]

hmm.. i think cheating is fun.. more drama and spice to ur life.. hahah.. im totally joking.. cheating should not be tolerated :P

[Durty_Waterz]

Probably the sweetest post on this site

lol thank yooo...
its something that seems alright or easy or fun or moody to do but good god you will not wanna deal with the consequences!
trust me

[jat_jatt_sardar]

what if they keep the secret with them until they die?

[Durty_Waterz]

i dont care how strong your will power is but your concience will eat your heart away trust me!!!

[XxReMaLiCiOuSxX]

On your other half would you tell them?
What if you cheated on your wife/husband?
Oh noes.

Anyone know people that have cheated on their wife/husband and told them? Did they stay togther? Also what would you do?
I'd walk straight up. But then again I say that but you never know na...


id tell them
but then why cheat if you are married/ dating if you didnt wana be with that person why marry/out go with dem ??????

[jat_jatt_sardar]

id tell them
but then why cheat if you are married/ dating if you didnt wana be with that person why marry/out go with dem ??????
some guys consider it pre-marital fun lol